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Good. Keep knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:35 PM
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I never said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:34 PM
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Of course not. I was answering unsolicitedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:33 PM
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what they think about women's N counts As long as it's Chads, it's fine. how many times they jerk off each week Once a day, at least. their own N count. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:21 PM
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Internet is my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:20 PM
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Sorry for your poor mental state. I recommend therapy and some self-reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:17 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:12 PM
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Same but not because I'm a beta like you are. All proponents of egalitarianism are betas, my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:12 PM
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No, it makes her desperate with low-standards and self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:12 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:31 PM
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No, I already have daddy issues, I don't need a chick with those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:30 PM
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I am going to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:27 PM
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Ngl, if I ever met a woman who wanted to enthusiastically fuck me, I'd turn the other way and go. Why do you want to fuck a deluded beta man, you dumb broad? What is wrong with you? No Chad in the sight?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:24 PM
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It's not equivalent. Guys who do warm approach have something that gives them a massive advantage over the guys who just cold approach; social preselection. Having someone who can vouch for you and create good imagine of you before you even appear is something that gives you a huge boost in your chances. Plus, there's the fact that if you hang around cool people who share your interests, then you are extremely likely to be introduced to a cool woman who shares your interests and with whom you vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:22 PM
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No prob, just don't lament the high failure rate, or wonder why finding compatibility in such way is tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:11 PM
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I never really understood cold approaching in the first place. Why approach a complete stranger when you can be introduced by a common friend/acquaintance and then organically develop the relationship, instead of hinging everything on a single random approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:03 PM
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That's something my uncle pointed out a few days ago. "I ain't never seen a thin swimmer; all of them look like mountains."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:47 PM
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By putting your cock inside of their cunt? How else would you fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:38 PM
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Just think this way: if there's something you would say in front of a man, say it too in front of a woman. If you'd cuss out a man for saying something in front of you, cuss out a woman too. That's the essence of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:27 PM
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Yes, and? Medicine, economics and pretty much every other science suffer from the replication crisis too. Also, had you been bothered to read your own link, you'd see lots of problems with replication are external to the science, rather than internal, but whatever, keep believing your little conspiracy theory about STEM being the only legitimate sciences and everything else a superfluous garbage. Not gonna fight with dude who actually needs a shrink.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:29 PM
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There is no such a thing as "hard" and "soft" sciences, that's bullshit. Social sciences have ironhard methodology and validity checks and have produced very reliable results whose use is widespread in multiple fields, such as marketing, which became extremely effective with the advancement of psychology. Andrew Tate used pure psychology to form and market his business. The thing that separates "hard" and "soft" sciences is their subject matter, namely, the subject matter of the "hard" sciences …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:09 PM
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Lol, you are absolutely deluded if you think that. You must be one of those people who think everything outside STEM and few natural sciences is a complete useless bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:52 PM
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Hell yeah!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:19 PM
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To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:18 PM
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It does, but I am not of the PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:04 PM
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The greatest pleasure in life is busting a nut inside of a hot single mother after tucking her kid in an hour ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:54 PM
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Most people in the West grew up in time of abject plenty where meritocratic democracy is a social ideal, so they will never know the need to take some sacrifices for the greater good in one's life. I have always perceived love as a luxury that is very good, but not necessary, like going to Caribbeans for a holiday. Marriage is ultimately a socioeconomic arrangement and if I see that marrying someone I don't really love could result in a very good arrangement for me, I think I would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:43 PM
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I genuinely wonder how could somebody have these weird suspicion that all women are secretly lesbian/bisexual like the people here have. Because women are a lot more vocal about their like and enjoyment of other women than of men. You don't really see many posts about a woman melting over a man's very existence and perceiving literally everything on him and what he does as divine, but you get lot of posts about women melting over other women, while dismissing men as boring, soulless, shallow, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:35 PM
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I deny its validity as a scientific discipline. Evopsych is mostly just pure guesswork and conjecture used to justify and ground "in nature" whatever position the person making the claim has and due to its flimsiness, it can be used to justify pretty much everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:30 PM
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Pre-civilisation humans were more egalitarian because there was no private property they could accumulate and pass on to their children, thus giving rise to a socioeconomically stratified society. People could gain prestige during their lifetimes, but they couldn't pass it on to their children, who had to prove themselves in order to gain some status. In a tribe, everyone knows everyone, they all cooperate and that's basically their "wolrd", maybe they know of some other neighbouring tribes. Mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:19 PM
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This is going to be a really unpopular opinion, but the overwhelming majority of ways "responsive desire" has been described to me sounds like barely any desire at all. It's definitely not lust, and it's not sexual attraction either. If anything, "responsive desire" as it's usually explained, is someone who needs to be convinced of the existence of their own libido. Good heavens above, this is it! I feared I was the only one, since every time I would bring this up, women would dive in on me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:06 PM
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Idk man I just said my friends romantic life got better as a man. Ok. And? This proves absolutely nothing. ….through that anecdotal experience it just makes me personally not really interested in the “easy mode” arguments dudes try to make here. Alright then, don't listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:15 PM
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You used your friend as an example to disprove a common experience, which is what I said you were trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:10 PM
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See my other comment in the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:09 PM
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Ok? So? How does this single individual example disprove anything? Are you going to say that most trans people have it easy now because of your friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:08 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:07 PM
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Just saying…it kind of makes a bunch of arguments here look like shit In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:59 PM
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Liberals are stain upon this Earth. Like, I personally think anarchists live in a Lalaland, yet I still respect their fighting spirit more than moral sanctimoniousness and hypocrisy of liberals. I'd rather butt heads with an anarchist than have a polite conversation with a liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:58 PM
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It means to be the active partner during sex, hence "on top".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:10 PM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:03 PM
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I may have been overdoing it, but they just have to keep up already. Neighbor, you're not supposed to completely destroy yourself in the gymnasion. Quality rest is as important to muscle growth as quality workout. Also, always make 2 min pauses between the sets. Eh physicians mostly suck, they've given me Mg supplements, which are contraindicated for me. Damn, in that case, I have no idea. You will simply have to wait until the cramps are gone and then workout with a greater degree of measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:56 PM
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For weeks? If that's the case, then likely the best option would be to visit a physician at the shortest notice possible. What did you do to become so cramped?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:48 PM
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Stretching? Dunno, I have always just waited it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:42 PM
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I wouldn't mind topping, as long as she agrees to top sometimes too. I'm a natural switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:21 PM
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I completely support the destruction of the Western states by the Mohammedan hordes. They will reap what they sowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:18 PM
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Men who make fun of fit and muscular women have always come off as megainsecure to me. A strong woman is always a plus. The only bad thing is that most muscle mommies are lesbians or prefer even more jacked men, so my chances with them are nil.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:17 PM
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That's self-evident. Lol, why don't you take a look over the comments under this one. Weren't doctors also tried for illegal human experimentation for the first time in history then as well? Kinda-sorta. Both Josef Mengele and Shiro Ishii both got away and died in their 60s. The rest, I think, were indeed penalised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:15 PM
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In which case, there can be no restitution for any state action as long as it’s done “legally”, per your logic. True. If it bothers you, protest for the change of the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:12 PM
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Could be. "Bisexual, but heteroromantic" means they have no problem with homosex, but would never have a homosexual LTR. Like, if a same-sex person offered them sex, they'd be fine with it, but if that person then offered a romantic relationship, they wouldn't accept it. I have noticed the prevalence of "BIBUTHTRR" among bisexual men online and I do believe there is at least some homophobia at play, though not of the "gay relationships are disgusting" but more of "a gay relationship could result…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:07 PM
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Perfectly fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:55 PM
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Not fine, just not illegal. The conquest of Americas was absolutely atrocious, but calling it an act of illegal theft is simply not correct. We can oppose them on moral basis, but not on legal one. By the laws of the time, it was completely legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:55 PM
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Didn't know you were supported by the UN to make such laws. Also, your attempts are sarcasm are pathetic. Just admit you have no logical counterargument and base your retorts on feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:49 PM
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So you had no reason to even ask that question because it makes no sense. All I'm trying to say is that there was no illegal theft involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:48 PM
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I didn't know theft was legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:45 PM
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My guy, this argument is so nonsensical, I don't know where to even begin. When theft happens, it happens in a jurisdiction of a political entity, which made it illegal and is within its rights to allot punishments and restitutions as is the law. European conquest of Americas didn't happen under a jurisdiction of a higher law and thus wasn't illegal, even without mentioning that both international communities held the concept of the right of conquest. What, are Natives supposed to call police of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:42 PM
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It is/was legal based on a social contract those people had zero say in. You mean to say that Native Americans didn't have war and conquest before the advent of the Europeans? I agree it cannot be prosecuted in a court, but those courts and the whole legal system was set up by the conquerors/Western countries… so of course it’s ‘legal’. No, it was legal because conquest wasn't a crime until 1945. Also, do you mean to say Natives had no courts and legal systems?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:30 PM
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American land wasn't stolen from the Natives, it was rightfully conquered. The right of conquest was a legal right throughout whole history up to 1945 with the introduction of the Nürnberg Principles that, among other things, forbade wars of aggression. Take note that I'm talking about legality, not morality; the claim is that American land was illegally taken from their rightful owners and I am merely explaining that the Europeans fought the Natives for the land and the Natives lost, so Europea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:16 PM
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You're 19? My guy, I thought you were in your late 20s/early 30s. Flair definitely checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:13 PM
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He wasn't fat, he was easily two metres tall and strong as an ox. The man was lifting 80+ kg for his bicipites.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:09 PM
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It's ironic how so many people bemoan their wives not having sex with them and then there's this man purposely refusing sex from his horny wife to practice his masculine virtue, LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:54 PM
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Today in the gym, I have managed to beat my embarrassment and do my first session of hip thrust. I noticed some big guy looking disapprovingly at me and shaking his head. While it felt suddenly embarrassed, I pressed on and did a set. During my rest, he approached me and I asked him what's up. He just told me I had a bad form and could hurt myself that way and told me what to fix. He then left to do his own thing and later told me never to hesitate to ask when doing something for the first time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:52 PM
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"Holding frame" simply means "not folding easily". Like, when faced with a trouble, problem or aggression, you don't simply back up, but face it and deal with it. This shows confidence, competence and inner power, the triad of masculinity, and women find that very attractive in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:47 PM
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Lol, where have you seen it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:44 PM
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We'll see, but I definitely know I won't be spending money on no damn wedding dress, it's so ugly and cliché.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:11 PM
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Meanwhile, in Yugoslavia:
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:07 PM
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If I ever get married, I will dress as a Byzantine Emperor, my bride as whatever-highest title her state possessed at one point in history and our wedding will be very thematic and ceremonial. I chafe at the thought of white dress, tuxedo and boring modern fiestas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:57 PM
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My guy, men like you can want stonecold male friendships as much as you want, but men like me would then ask you to cut the crap with the "male loneliness epidemic". If you consciously refuse possible solutions to your predicament because you feel it's too mushy, your loneliness is completely voluntary and you have no right to bitch and moan about it on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:31 PM
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We just hang out to have fun and get away from our problems. It's the time where we can forget everything else, be unserious and enjoy the moment. I don't think that's shallow, those are the most genuine interactions. You just described hanging out with pals. That ain't friendship. There is no need to share every single information about each other. We know each other from the time we spend together and we like each other because we enjoy our time together. Yup, don't see any friendship here. Fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:59 PM
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Why don’t men value friendships with each other? Because true friendships require intimacy and intimacy is seen as effeminate, i.e. something only women do. Thus, male "friendships" tend to be very shallow and focused on the joint activity, rather than the character of the person, which is why you see so many men surprised their best buddy is actually a horrible person when he commits a crime; they don't hang out with him because of his character, but because he is good in whatever activity they…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:12 AM
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Tbf, mainstream feminism has long since been promoting itself as just gender equality and "for everybody" in order to appeal to men, plus, there is a lot of talk from feminists that men's issues should be taken into consideration. I disagree with everything here, but this is really something mainstream feminists have brought upon themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:00 PM
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I would try to playfully imply that she should help me out, but if she won't, then, depending on whether this was just casual sex or sex in LTR, I would stop having sex with her and sit down and have a serious talk, respectively. If my LTR partner refuses to be considerate towards my sexual pleasure, then I would likely end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:17 PM
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In this scenario, being too spent to continue fucking doesn't mean too spent to at least give a handjob, so the responsibility is on her for being a bad sexual partner. If I happen to cum before her, that doesn't mean I can't lick or finger. If she comes before me, that doesn't mean she can't suck or rub. I consider it common decency to make care of the other person's pleasure during the intercourse and not be a selfish jackass. However, people in LTRs don't orgasm for a variety of reasons, so p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:42 PM
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I think he meant that dating lacked intentionality back then. Nowadays, people meet other people for the explicit goal of acquiring an LTR, which, OP says, wasn't all that prevalent back in the day, when you would just go out, meet a lot of people and organically get closer and closer to those you like until you found yourself in an LTR. There wasn't intentional "I'm going out to meet possible lifepartners".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:01 PM
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This age of nihilistic materialism is exhausting. When are we going to invent new common values to base our lives on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:16 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:44 PM
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I give up. If fate brings me a woman, so be it. If it doesn't, so be it. Grinding to get women is just so exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:41 PM
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That standpoint has been abandoned for a long time now. It was something second-wave feminists proposed, but I don't think anyone actually believes it anymore with the advancement of sciences, aside from some fringe radfems. There has never been any true matriarchy in the history of mankind. Human societies come in two flavors; egalitarian or androcratic. Either people are relatively equal, or men rule. There has never been the case of women holding exclusive political power. Hunter-gatherer soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:37 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:15 PM
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Mater semper certa est, pater semper incertus est Pater est, quem nuptiae demonstrant As far I am concerned, the husband of the children's mother is the father, regardless of the biology. Marriage is the fundamental means of paternal legitimacy, so divorced and unmarried men shouldn't count as fathers of a woman's children, regardless of biology. The only way a man could be considered a father outside the marriage would be if he adopted children orphaned or abandoned by their mothers. That's how…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:01 PM
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The secret is to be “suave” with everyone, once it becomes a habit it’s much easier to be calm around someone you’re actually interested in. I know this, but I don't feel that I'm willing to put it in the effort until it becomes so. It’s actually fucked me over a few times when someone was flirting and I just wasn’t really in the game. This happened to me a few times. It used to bother me, but now, I just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:46 PM
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No, because I understand why that is so and have decided to take his mentorship so my situation may improve. I will likely never be like him, because he is an absolute plate-spinning manwhore, but so far, I think he has helped me very much get out of my shell and realise what women want. He is as Redpilled as they come.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:33 PM
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They weren't wrong, unfortunately. Most men lack the necessary looks and masculinity in order for HVW to be earnestly sexually attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:31 PM
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Not really, you need to put some effort into flirting and not just talk like you would to your buddies, which is the whole point. I talk to women exactly as I have told you and so far, none has thought I was flirting with them, because I talk as if they were my buddies. There absolutely needs to be a special and sexual intent, or else you are just a friend, which is actually fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:27 PM
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It has yet to happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:24 PM
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I don't know where I'm losing you. Talking, joking and playfully teasing are a part of flirting, yes, but by themselves aren't flirting. I repeat, I do the same things with my buddies all the time and I promise you, we aren't flirting. It just a playful banter to liven up the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:21 PM
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I know this all. All I'm saying is that it has become very bothersome to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:19 PM
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I dunno. So far, I messed up several times because I didn't read the signs. Not particularly sorry, just saying that I have long since stopped bothering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:18 PM
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This is my situation too. I used to be average SJW spouting standard liberal values without any understanding, but as I grew older, experienced suffering and a bit of the real world outside the safety of my mother's embrace, I have steadily moved further and further right. I wouldn't say I am a right-winger, and even less a conservative, but I do believe in the inevitability and naturalness of hierarchy and some benefits of collectivistic social order over the mainstream hyperindividualistic lib…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:16 PM
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Not really, because it lacks sexual intent. I do the same thing with my male friends and I don't want to have sexual/romantic relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:05 PM
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I have given up with regards to flirting, projecting sexy persona and correctly interpreting female hints. I simply don't have enough energy to stress myself over it anymore. I will still talk, joke and playfully tease women, but I won't expend any effort to appear suave or focus on intepreting their every single word and nerve-twitch. If that means I will stay forever alone, so be it. I'm too tired and disinterested to care if some random woman thinks I'm a boring niceguy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:57 PM
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Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:48 PM
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Nah, I actually get them. Many, if not most, men here really are bottomless pits of insecurity, who only want a beautiful virginal sex-slave to serve their every whim out of their own adoration for them. Not saying women here are right, but men here really don't help their own case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:01 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:35 PM
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But the reality is every man deep down feels like a loser if is not getting women or has no ability to get women. It's an innate biological reason. How do you know this? Have you interviewed the statistically significant sample of men of Earth? Which biology textbook claims every human male feels like a loser for not getting women? Knowing that women don't want your semen, don't want to be impregnated by you, gives men a subconscious and or conscious feeling that they are not good enough in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:05 PM
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Yes. If it isn't destined to happen, it won't happen. Why waste your time on it? Go sacrifice yourself for greater good or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:58 PM
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No relationship with her father (+1) + Girlboss (+4) +5 = 10 pts 10 - Pretty face (-2) - Healthy BMI (-3) - Sexually adventurous (-3) - Easy to get along with (-2) = 0 This is actually pretty accurate as to what I would consider my dream date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:52 PM
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I have already said my opinion a bit lower in the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:45 PM
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If the mother relinquishes the custody, the men may divorce and keep the kids. Otherwise, tough shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:29 AM
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Father of the children is the man married to their mother, regardless of the biology. If he divorces the mother, he will stop being considered the father and lose all parental rights and obligations. On the other hand, if a man marries a single mother, he should automatically be granted full parental rights over the children as their only legitimate father. Pater est, quem nuptiae demonstrant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:40 AM
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Female sexual repression runs deep. She let loose when she thought you just wanted to have fun without any higher expectations, but pushed it all down once you entered LTR, likely because she doesn't want to come of as slutty, or because she fears you would only be with her for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:34 PM
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None, they all suck. I need me a tall dominant muscle mommy with whom I can discuss philosophy and politics after mindblowning sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:51 PM
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Also, sounds like there is some interesting stories there. No, just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:55 AM
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Neighbour, what 👀 Got you on that one, didn't I 😜. Still don't believe that's how children should talk to their parents. The relationship should be respectful, but not that formal. As if an ordinary citizen can forbid something to someone when they are not present; the sheer reasonableness of you. Believe me, that sentence shouldn't be ironic at all, considering all the requirements for proper behavior outside the house I have both seen and experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:37 AM
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Religious people believe we were each specifically made Not the ones where I live. which is why i had an entire second paragraph that was directed to non-religious people. Your paragraph directed to the irreligious was just repeating your paragraph for the religious in secular terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:25 AM
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Will they also need to use the formal You? Probably no. I always disliked speaking in plural to a single person. As the future crazy aunt, I'll teach them to most respectfully call you ćaća. I won't forbid them to do so when I'm not present, but when I am, they will have to be respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:22 AM
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It means interact with women with the same ease you interact with men, I think. While I get the sentiment, this isn't really conductive to forming romantic relationship. Men and women have rather different styles of interpersonal communication and not taking that into the account is bound to lead to bafflement and miscommunication. If I were to interact with a woman the same way I interact with my male friends, she would very likely be repulsed and think me too offensive and disgusting. Similarl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:19 AM
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Well, if you're religious, then every single mainstream deity has said it Pretty sure that both Yeshua the Nazarene and Muhammad ibn Abdullah preached extensively about what happens to those who defy their teachings. Also, none of them ever said that everyone deserves to be loved by others, merely that everyone has a shot at paradise, regardless of their socioeconomic status. and the fact that each of us were specifically and deliberately created gives us inherent value as individuals and human …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:08 AM
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None can accuse of being unselfaware.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:02 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:02 AM
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Everybody deserves to experience love and to be valued by another person. What authority said this? People deserve only what they get. The ugly and weak don't deserve what comes to the beautiful and strong. We have pandemic of lonely men, and the liberal solution is "get over it". Bad solution, I agree, but many of those lonely men can absolutely improve. Maybe not to the levels they want, but certainly to some level. They would need to undertake therapy for their anxiety disorder and then go ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:51 AM
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Don't recognise the reference. Never watched this show.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:17 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:02 AM
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I won't demand it when they are still an infant, but once they grow up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:00 AM
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When/If I have children, they will have to refer to me as "father". Respect before love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:52 AM
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In a Canadian study, 89% of heterosexual and bisexual men had practiced cunnilingus. 94% of them enjoyed it. Of the latter, 76% practiced it often or very often. Reasons for not practicing cunnilingus included lack of opportunity (73%) and disgust (13%). This suggests that much more than 89% of men would practice cunnilingus if they had a chance. David Hattie, Kari A. Walton, Cydney Cocking, Devinder Khera, Cory L. Pedersen (2023). "Men's engagement in and enjoyment of cunnilingus: The role of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:10 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:39 PM
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LOL, how am I making the Manosphere stronger? By calling them out as pathetic whiners and maidenless bitchboys they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:26 PM
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Believe me, whatever Nietzsche was, he was a god compared to the Manospheric scum I encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:22 PM
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You're sleeping on the couch tonight, neighbor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:01 PM
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Die in fire, both of you 😤.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:00 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:38 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:35 AM
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Unfathomably based.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:31 AM
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Help me comprehend the based level of the Duke Vlad III Draculea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:29 AM
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Funny, coming from the guy not being able to take the L from a romeaboo absolutely destroying his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:16 AM
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I guess women are just superior at anything and everything and we should embrace the matriarchy then 🤷🏼.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:58 AM
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I don't think so, no. He was always a scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:55 AM
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People often make fun of how Reddit attract a certain type of men, but they conveniently leave out how the same goes for women. Most women don't have Reddit and most women don't think the way Redditrices think, yet the latter feel themselves unbelievably entitled to speak for the former. Redditores are a bunch of pathetic nerdy incels, while Redditrices are a bunch of pathetic radfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:26 AM
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Murder is bad. Yes, which is why we won't murder them, only kill them. There would just be new "chads" to replace them. The most attractive guys of whoever is left will become the new "chads". True, but once the unreachable modern standards have been removed, the sexless underclass will be massively reduced and even homely incels will be a lot more capable of ascending.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:19 AM
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I can't really blame women for wanting this contradiction, because I noticed most people want something similar, where people expect a single omnibenevolent individual to take absolute totalitarian control over their lives, do away with obstructive bureaucracy and human corruption and inefficiency and tirelessly work for the self-interests of those they rule over. In politics, it is called enlightened despotism, and in religion, it is called messianism. It's a fantasy that ignores the fact that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:15 AM
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Women very much like masculinity, but only on their terms. They want men to be masculine, competent, dominant leaders, but also egalitarian, kind, caring and treats them like a princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:51 AM
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I'm going to become popular and likeable rizzler just so I can brag and clown people online, primarily women and men who clown unsuccessful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:48 AM
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I absolutely loathe it when they are attracted to qualities on me I perceive as superficial, like humor and confidence. Shows me they only care about how I make them feel and not who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:32 AM
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Women are the biggest eugenists, worse than even the Bene Gesserit. The latter at least pursue humans, not animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:27 AM
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As a third party lurker, he crushed your balls, bro. Take the L and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:18 AM
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Epictetus was a slave and one of the founding fathers of Stoicism, but do go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:12 AM
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Don't ever desecrate on Mad Fritz's name like that. He would be utterly disgusted by the orgy of Ressentiment that is the Manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:07 AM
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You said Chads rule the world. I said that was false. You confirmed it. What is your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:04 AM
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And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell. Yeshua the Nazarene, Gospel of Matthew, Chapter 5, Verse 29
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:40 AM
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No, they don't, capitalists rule the world. Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg and the like all used to be (and some still are) wimpy nerds who got megarich. The richest man in the world, Bernard Arnault, is one foot in grave and most are to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:37 AM
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It’s such a dumb fucking question. Yes, because it's easy to answer and most people can't. A woman is a collection of expectations from and experiences of an adult huma female. It’s like asking what is a castle. A fortified mediaeval noble residence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:34 AM
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<image> Instead of whining about Stacies chasing Chads, how about we simply exterminate the Chads? That would definitely lower the standards of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:22 AM
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This was something I have been asking myself, as a man; What do women get from being feminine? Femininity sounds like a moral system meant to create the best slave, someone who is infinitely supporting of another despite the dehumanisation, disrespect and abuse, someone who completely supresses themselves in favor of another, someone who always puts their body at the service of another, someone who gleefully accepts their place as a subhuman servant. I completely understand why being compared to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:30 AM
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But I thought women don't get aroused when they see muscles /s 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:45 AM
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The guy on the right looks like he could break the President in two, with his bare hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:44 AM
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No. Women aren't worth the eternity in Hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:42 AM
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Lol, wtf. Women are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:30 PM
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Lol, ain't nobody saying that here. Keep your Westernisms to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:24 PM
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One thing I'd like to try is to put 100% of my energy into sexually pleasuring a woman I am close to, to completely and utterly blow her mind and leave her soul separated from her body, only to completely cool the next day and treat her coldly. I am curious to see what her reaction would be. Would she girlboss me ("ok, bitchboy, if you're gunna be like that, bye!") like female Redditors say they would, or would she be upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:12 PM
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Believe what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:56 PM
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Literally no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:45 PM
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And it is, or have you never seen the bedazzling diversity of men women lust over? There really isn't any pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:40 PM
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Not necessarily. Absolute bums land women ten leagues above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:39 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:38 PM
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Pete Davidson looks like he has some neurodevelopmental disease and yet he bagged Ariana Grande and Kate Beckinsale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:26 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:24 PM
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I feel like I'm leaning towards the Black Pill, but not really towards lookism. I believe that female attraction is determined solely by fate, meaning that there is absolutely nothing men can do to either improve or worsen their chances, if fate wills it, they will be dating HVW regardless of how they are. You could be an absolute hobo and date hot high-powered lawyers from whom you could leech off as much as you want and who will be heads over heels for you, or you could be an absolute Gigachad…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:12 PM
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It's not really sympathy when their plight is my own 😭.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:43 PM
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I mean, it's a bitter pill to swallow that, no matter what you do, you will always remain at the bottom of the hierarchy. Well, what can one say? Every system needs an underclass, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:18 PM
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Is this sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:16 PM
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The only cuckporn that I watch is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:08 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:59 PM
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Being a beta man is hard, ngl. The entire world is just one huge NTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:53 PM
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The hardest part about going to the gym has 100% gotta be the dieting. I have big trouble with adding musclemass and I'm definitely going to have to start planning and preparing my meals and counting macros, which is a lot harder than just lifting weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:08 PM
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Ok? Is this supposed to be some slamdunk? People care about what other people think, stop saying it's something dumb men do more, while enlightened women do less, because that isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:32 PM
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Like non existent, you can‘t compare it to belgrad for example. You're goddamn right 🇷🇸🦅🇷🇸🦅🇷🇸. People underestimate how much a hot Girl improves your status. You simply get seen as more high value, and other Men respect you more. Yeah, because getting one is hard unless you are a HVM, superlikable, or just rich. Most men don't have hot women as their partners, which is why men who acquire one are held in high esteem. Also, LMAO to all salty ladies in the comments, calling men fags and pathetic f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:25 PM
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You try to portray women as somehow more enlightened than dumb men, but I promise you, it isn't so. As many woman as men absolutely care about what their friends think about their dating partners. Pretending it is otherwise is just plain wrong, if not misandric.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:00 PM
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It is almost always from straight women because straight women only care about the thoughts of someone they like. Lol, what a load of shit. Sure, honey, that's why straight women are too busy destroying their bodies to fit the latest beauty trends, because they only care about the thoughts of someone they like. Kindly leave your radfem circles and touch grass in the real world, echo chambers aren't good for one's mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:22 PM
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Yes, but those genetically doomed constitute only a small percentage on the normal distribution of looks. The vast majority of men absolutely can advance and ascend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:36 PM
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How could have they done that to the team Balkan 😭 At least you got blown apart some time after the start, I was stabbed in the back the very first thing. Also, set your expectations higher, don't go embarrasing us like that, neighbour As always, I strive to maintain pragmatism. I will accept what I realistically know I can reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:25 PM
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Looks have little to do with it, unless they are Quasimodos. Going outside, practicing their social skills, forming meaningful connections with the people, becoming competent in life, gaining physical fitness, becoming confident as the result of the former two and knowing what virtues to select for and what vices to avoid in women will fix pretty much all the most common dating problems in men. Women don't value male beauty as much as men value female beauty, so even if the man looks plain and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:21 PM
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It's bad for the health of the object of her affections.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:16 PM
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I'd definitely want a gf/wife who would unhesitantly kill people for me. Not sure about being an obsessive yandere though. I could do without that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:04 PM
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Politics (read: demagogy) is about persuasion, not rational discourse. Whatever brings more people to your side is considered a "good argument".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:01 PM
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I am of the belief that at least 95% of men's dating problems can be solved by them becoming more social, masculine and vetting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:52 PM
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No. Why would I ever allow it? I am entitled to a privacy inaccessible to anyone but myself. I would never ask her to give me her phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:17 PM
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Removed due to phimosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:27 PM
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As long as I don't die as pitiably as I did in the first season. Like, I don't have to win, but at least make me go in a blaze o' glory, not the Bulgar way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:26 PM
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My guy, do you even read your own comments? Previously, you said I claimed Eastern European superiority and now you say I trashed Eastern European countries. Which is it? FYI, I am a Southeastern European, not an Eastern European. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:28 PM
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When did I ever claim this? I only ever exalted Serbia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:10 PM
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Why would I? Romani are our friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:45 PM
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At the very beginning, though likely not on the very first date. Perhaps around second-third? Dealbreakers I would say upfront, no niceties or beating around the bush, because I'm wholly unwilling to waste my time with someone I am fundamentally incompatible, but the more the preferences shift from "nonnegotiable dealbreakers" to "desirable, but unnecessary", the more I'd postpone telling it, since I don't want to overwhelm and scare of a good prospect for some weird small thing I can so without…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:03 PM
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Everyone should absolutely lay out their expectations for the potential relationship. It saves everyone so much time. The last thing I want to do is my partner omitting a crucial detail about her or an expectation she has only to reveal it deep into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:40 PM
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Besides, it sounds like you want two partners instead of a throuple;
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:56 PM
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That's not polygamy. You would have to be loyal to your spouses, just as they would have to be loyal towards you and each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:56 PM
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And here I thought about gifting you several finest men of your choice as a sign of diplomatic goodwill between our two states 😔.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:45 PM
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I don't think I really want all states becoming Southern Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:40 PM
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What exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:39 PM
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I don't think that needs to necessarily be the case, but I agree that polygamy won't work for the majority of people, who have massive problems having a functional relationship with just one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:36 PM
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Why did you stop appreciating my philosophical musing, neighbor 😭?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:35 PM
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Yes, it's the same for me. At most, I would include only one another person and only if all three of us have impeccable chemistry and compatibility, which means I will most likely remain simply monogamous. I can't fathom how some people can be in functional relationships with several people, some of whom have nothing to do with each other. My two partners would already consume 100% of my energy, since I want things to be completely equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:34 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:31 PM
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Q4A: what do you think about polygamy? I don't mean unrestrained free-for-all polyamory, but like, if you had excellent chemistry and compatibility with at least two people and they were fine with it, would you be fine with marrying them both if it wasn't illegal? Do you think a household with a healthy polygamy would be stronger and more prosperous than a household with healthy monogamy due to multiple people contributing? Do you think jealosy is possible to avoid, or are you far too possessive…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:26 PM
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That's what r/NotHowGirlsWork is for me. It's kinda relaxing here once you stop taking it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:13 PM
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Sorry to hear that man. It's just... damn. Everyone here seems to idolise the adolescence, while I thank God and all the saints it's finally over. It was a horrible period for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:04 PM
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Thank you, bro. Fight the good fight in the name of all of us fallen in the line of duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:02 PM
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The most tragic thing is that she was the one who invited me after days of dishing out complements. Holy shit, what an autist I was...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:01 PM
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HVW always get their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:59 PM
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The problem is that generations need to pass before the change takes place. By the time the better world arrives, I will be old and infirm, or long rotten in the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:52 PM
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What is the worst date you've ever been on? I told the girl about being circumcised completely unprompted. My adolescence was a decade of stumbling from one embarrassment to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:50 PM
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I will commit sudoku.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:49 PM
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My mother made me with love, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:45 PM
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You have pretty big faith in me, O beautiful Lilith, but alas, I fear that I would require some aid on my path to Godhood. Perhaps I can consult with Vivek, if I can find where he's been hiding these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:43 PM
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Unfortunately, nobody here can teach me Die Ewigkeit 😔.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:34 PM
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I just want to sit on the Throne of the Creation as its absolute God. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:24 PM
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I like him so much I memorised his entire Emanation chant. Day of wrath and doom impending David's words with Sybil's blending Heaven and Earth in ashes ending O, what fear man's bosom rendeth When from Heaven the Judge descendeth On whose sentence all dependeth Wondrous sounds the trumpet flingeth Through earth's sepulchres it ringeth All before the Throne it bringeth From the dust of earth returning: man for judgement must prepare him Spare O God, in mercy spare him. Lord all-pitying, Jesus bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:21 PM
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<image> My biggest power fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:08 PM
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Female superstition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:06 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:16 AM
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I don't think I care what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:30 AM
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Which doesn't mean anything. Anyone with enough marketing and media hype can become a top-tier celeber. ScarJo and MargRob are beautiful, but in my opinion, little else and I wouldn't consider them for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:46 AM
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Wanting me to treat her like I'm her daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:35 AM
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Hit the nerve, didn't I 😂?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:28 AM
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Accountability and responsibility for what exactly? For not fucking genetic and social rejects? I'm sorry, my guy, but women's entire evolutionary job is not to do that, meaning they are doing exactly what they should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:10 AM
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Yes, you are playboy, but A) that doesn't mean every single attractive man is and B) you still want Stacies for LTRs, not Beckies or Ugly Janes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:53 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:28 PM
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No, just as they don't know all the women personally, yet make generalised claims under the excuse it's just what they have observed most women are like. I am doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:22 PM
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Me too, but strangely, most men in the Manosphere seem to be content with living terminally online lives where they slam hot women for fucking hot men they meet on the beach, instead of finding them in their dingy mancave and giving them a blowjob just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:15 PM
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Which is why I never proposed it. The point is to stop whining that women aren't treating you like a king if you are a lowly peasant. Step up and become a king if you want a royal treatment from women. If you can't become a king, then lower your standards and marry another peasant woman, like most peasant men do. It's completely moronic to demand women to lower their standards and then spend time fantasising how they are going to suffer later in life because they didn't settle for a pathetic bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:10 PM
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Chad putting incels in their place in the hierarchy is always a nice thing to fall asleep too 😘.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:44 PM
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Heh You're just like me. Not even a little bit, because I'm not a whiny entitled bitchboy who hates women because they prefer masculine men and not betacucks like him. You just tell yourself you're better so you can deal with life. Nah man, I am better. Don't for a single second presume that I'm a neckbeard incel like you. Uncomfortable truths son. They are, which is why you avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:42 PM
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i'm convinced you're a femcel larping as a dude, which is expected, plenty of dishonest degenerates here Nah, 100% man here, I just have no pity for delusional men who want women like Kate Beckinsale as mommy bangmaid while being complete losers and waste of space. Someone on your level would be a landwhale femcel, but you are too proud to accept that. 'men getting outright furious' lmao most men get zero attention and would appreciate even a scrap of it from any woman Bollocks. Most men date an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:36 PM
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Where is the evidence men demand harems of stacies? The entire point of TRP and former pick-up community was to maximise one's bodycount with top-tier women. Most Redpillers completely support pumping and dumping as long as possible, even deep into your middle-age. If anything men are just complaining b/c they are struggling to get women on their level bc of hypergamy or female entitlement and so many options Which is an absolute bullshit. Chads don't bother fucking Beckies, they only have eyes …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:22 PM
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HIGH ON AMERICAN SPIRIT
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:24 AM
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Slavics and Asian ethnicities living in Russia do have different cultures. I know this, I was referring to the Slavic Russians. But even among Slavics families ruled by women aren’t that uncommon. I kinda doubt that, unless those mothers are the only parent, or the men have suddenly wussified in a single generation. Russian men are quite nasty, and I say that as someone who lives in a conservative nation with its own share of nasty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:20 AM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:17 AM
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Which city do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:09 AM
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LOL, Russians being matriarchal is a nice joke. Their men are hypermasculine dickbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:07 AM
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Manospherian men cannot really be helped because they have very unrealistic expectations. If you are an average man, i.e. Billy Beta, you can't expect to have a harem of Stacies or a Stacy wife who will drop an ocean in her panties for your nerdy self. Unless you become a Chad, it simply isn't realistic. You can't blame women for treating Chads like Chads and treating Billies Betas like Billies Betas. Most Billy Betas get with mediocre Beckies and are satisfied with it. If you don't want a Becky…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:01 AM
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Is it true that your only friends are the Black Sea and Serbia?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:55 AM
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My natural scent? I only use antiperspirant for my pits, so that I won't stink up to high heavens, but I don't otherwise use anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:07 AM
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I hate when women get mad that men ‘sexualize’ everything. We are literally wired that way This is a pisspoor excuse for immorality. Read some books about ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:16 AM
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Betabux refers to beta men being suckered into a committed relationship with women who don't really find the attractive and sexually desirable, but are in relationship with them because they provide stability and financial security. You example is just a consequence of aging and men valuing beauty over anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:14 AM
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Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened. You got to experience her existence when many other never had. All things end, but we do not judge them by their duration, but by the joy they bring to us while they are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:11 AM
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Fellow Nietzsche-enjoyer, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:49 PM
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Ah, komšija iz zapadne Srbije.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:49 PM
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Ima nas, ima. Jedan Srbin (ja), jedan Hrvat (OP) i tri Hrvatice. Ne znam odakle si ti.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:32 AM
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First off all, ubij Hrvata da Šiptar nema brata! СРБИЈА, СРБИЈА, СРБИЈА 🇷🇸🦅🇷🇸🦅🇷🇸!!! Second of all, yeah, you're right. I talked to so many women who want an egalitarian relationship, but for the man to be manly, take care of everything and treat her like a princess, or men who want egalitarian relationship, but want a supermodel bangmaid wife who will give them blowjobs while they play videogames. People in general are horrible hypocrites and know how someone should treat them, but don't know ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:14 AM
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Unfortunately, most men are simps and have no problem making a fool of themselves just to get some pussy. Men who are actually MGTOW are extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:08 AM
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If you had a choice between watching Two Towers or Return of the King in theaters which one would you pick? There is no choice here. You watch them both in one sitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:23 PM
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The reason why men do not have a strong sense of collective male identity is because, unlike what feminists would say, they do not actually suffer from the patriarchy, they suffer from the hierarchy. Most men's problems stem from being in the lower half of the male hierarchy and those problems can be amended if men preform the necessary demands and rise in the hierarchy. The entire damn Manosphere is a collection of betas whining and complaining how hard it is to live as a beta man in this world…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:24 AM
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But serious question, would you describe yourself as yugonostalgic? I was born in 2002, I can't really be Yugonostalgic because I have never experienced SFRY. I don't think I'd like it all that much, tbh. Do you prefer all of the republics as sovreign states or would you prefer that we had stayed together? The reason Yugoslavia fell apart was because we couldn't stand being together. I fail to see how forcing unity would result in anything good (and it didn't). Ideally, Slovenia and Northern Cro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:03 PM
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God bless you, tsar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:40 PM
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In that case, go for it. Some might even take you for a ride because you'd be exotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:32 PM
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Truth, my friend, one which baneful Croats and Bosniaks vehemently deny, but it is still there. The truth is that God is a Serb and Serbs are a heavenly nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:31 PM
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Size does matter, but nowhere near as men believe it does. Having a nicely sized cock is definitely a bonus, but only that; a bonus. It's not going to magically be making women have mindblowing orgasms by itself, because that's not how female anatomy and arousal work. You need to do lots of other things unrelated to penetration to get a woman to cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:30 PM
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You still kinda have to be attractive. Native women can smell sex tourists by miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:27 PM
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Virgin Anglosphere: "What's up, king?" Chad Balkan: "What's up, tsar?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:24 PM
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From the conversations with expats there. You can get laid easily at parties, but you really can't expect anything deeper in regards to both friendship and romance. Most expats complain about loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:21 PM
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Only if you consider truth to be provocative, neighbor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:11 PM
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I specialise in those.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:05 PM
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I know, that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:02 PM
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Have fun with the immigrants. Can't wait to visit you once you become Mustafa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:01 PM
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Still, down with Islam!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:58 PM
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Scandinavian women are also extremely promiscuous and only emotionally open up when drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:56 PM
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Nah, I hate Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:53 PM
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Dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:46 PM
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What is this image of Muslim Stitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:46 PM
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To women complaining about men: why not just date other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:42 PM
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Agreed. Most men aren't sexually attractive to women, so they invent various excuses not to hurt their feelings and alien them. One look at women thirsting over celebres like Henry Cavill told me everything I need to know about women "not being visual" and "needing to know a man to be attracted to him".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:34 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:52 AM
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But I've also seen a lot more cases where the "strong arguments" that men start are often just emotionally charged rants. I never said this wasn't the case, but honestly, it's to be expected once you understand the demographic here. However, women here are the ones who like to claim empathy, understanding, equality, etc., which the gets quite jarring when they start the condescension and meangirl insults. Thus, the mud slinging that follows can't be counted against women's ability to have ration…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:52 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:38 AM
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it's pretty vile tbh It very much is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:33 AM
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I really don't think we can have a goodfaith discussion with your obvious gender-bias. According to you, women here are all mostly right about everything, while men are just spiteful dumbasses who won't listen to the enlightened words of wisdom women so graciously offer them. Am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:33 AM
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Its been very obvious for a long time this is just a place for bored housewives to get free entertainment trashing men, full stop Not just housewives, but any woman bored with constantly fucking Chad(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:31 AM
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That could be it too, but I wonder why would they come to PPD to LARP being Stacies with an army of Chads, instead of somewhere else?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:29 AM
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There are several women here who are vocal about their issues with dating, They have issues because their Prince Charming hasn't yet arrived, not because they are ugly, asocial, autistic incels. Big difference. some female virgins etc. All of them volcels, who, again, are so because they wait for the Prince Charming. conversely there are men here who are attractive, have girlfriends/wives, have had good sex lives etc. Yes, but they are on the same side as PPD women. They aren't debating against …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:27 AM
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I haven't seen women mock the men here. Although i see the men mocking the women. Then you are selectively blind. Sure, women don't cuss men out here, but they do engage in subtle humiliation and verbal judo that makes men here look like absolute idiots. The power is in the argument. The stronger your argument, the more power it has. Women here don't have any strong arguments that doesn't boil down to "you are useless scum. Look how better me and everyone around me is than you."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:24 AM
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Most women here are attractive, social and very successful in matters sexual and romantic. They have/had colorful sexlives and some are in highly successful longterm relationships with men they love and desire, while others are completely comfortable remaining alone. Plus, they are very much aware of their privileged standing in dating market and unapologetically use their power as the desired gender to mock and humiliate men here. They can make whatever demands they want and confidently reject …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:05 AM
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I'm thinking about making a post about the massive power inequality between PPD men and PPD women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:48 AM
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Or someone who says that men are more visual than women. They aren't and celebres like Henry Cavill are excellent examples of women liking what they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:15 AM
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LOL, I already know all of this. Most women experience responsive desire which has very little to do with visual cues. You don't understand what responsive desire is if you believe this, or are asexual/demisexual/low-libido woman who thinks she has responsive desire. Women having responsive desire means they don't get horny out of nowhere, but do get horny when presented with proper stimuli, which includes visual cues too. Most women get horny when exposed to sexually-attractive men, but they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:58 PM
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What is there to understand? Be attractive and don't be unattractive. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:38 PM
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Yes, because my car getting damaged inconveniences me and will be a blow to my finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:07 PM
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The apolitical ones, sure. But it's becoming less common among the voters I personally know at least. Are you saying apoliticals and moderates are in minority? Because I feel it is opposite. I'd say it's more often that they either don't have major complaints or are complacent. Isn't this most people? I have only ever met a single person who was very serious about political issues (the alt-right conspiracy kind), while everyone else was kinda tolerating everything with only occasional complaint.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:04 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:56 PM
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Betas are only nice because they can't get away with being mean like Chads can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:55 PM
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I never claimed to be nice. I can actually be pretty heartless on occasions, as people around me have told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:53 PM
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Because the question was "which would you rather run over, if you had to" and I just answered what it asked of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:35 PM
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Maybe before, but I'd say being moderate is a relatively controversial position currently because everyone is pushing to pick exclusively one side. Maybe online, but most people would identify as moderate IRL. Most people are also cowards, so draw your conclusion. It's not that I disagree, but I know how you'd raze everything to the ground. The process of restructuring so massively is very hard to oversee, and you'd basically need at least a temporary benevolent dictatorship to pull that off. Ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:34 PM
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I prefer dogs over cats, but in situations like these, one has to be pragmatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:28 PM
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Dog, especially if it is a large one. Running over a small cat has a danger of it getting stuck in your wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:14 PM
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Victim complex vs superiority complex clash. Not really, both groups have both of the complexes. Is being moderate a unique position? No, being moderate means being a wuss who doesn't have any guts to stand by a controversial belief. I am very radical in my thinking, not moderate at all. Or what position are you talking about, I am not talking about any position, merely that both sides of the political discourse suck balls and we need something new that isn't a complete destruction of social bon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:09 PM
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You could say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:01 PM
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Liberals and conservatives has always been two sides of the same coin to me; endlessly pathetic, whiny, entitled, narrow-minded and with undue self-righteousness. The only difference seems to be that liberals perceive themselves at the bottom of the hierarchy and want that changed, while conservatives perceive themselves as the top of the hierarchy and want it preserved, but overall, both groups are highly repulsive to me and I refuse to identify with either. I'd rather stand aside at my lonesom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:56 PM
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Your flair says "ugly". If you are "ugly", you are sub5. Unless you get a cosmetic surgery, you can't be an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:42 PM
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Sorry, one's gotta be born as one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:40 PM
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Unless one looks like Henry Cavill, not at all. Sure, if you are butt-ugly, your chances are greatly diminished, but if you are around average, game plays exponentially greater role. Only men 8 and above can pull with looks only, everyone else has to have a good game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:35 PM
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It dilutes the spirit, yes. It only kills them if they include addictive psychoactive drugs into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:33 PM
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Either do it better, accept the fact you are ugly and have a limited potential for advancement, or get a cosmetic surgery. Those are your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:28 PM
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Men who have excellent charm, social skills and masculine frame, in short.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:25 PM
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She just sent me the picture of her clothes. I don't know what looks more beautfiul, her or the outfit. Post the pic, so we can decide that together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:23 PM
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As someone who knows a manwhore, women don't find those attractive just because they fuck a lot. Whom they fuck plays an important role in determining attraction. If the manwhore dumpster-dives, fucks sluts and other disreputable women, women won't find him attractive and will likely even find him very repulsive. He becomes high-value only when the women he sleeps with are mostly high-value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:21 PM
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While I 100% believe that promiscuous women shouldn't be shamed for their sexuality, I also believe that promiscuous men who manage to score HVW without dishonesty deserve being lauded and praised. Being a stud is far more difficult than being a slut and neither should be shamed, but only the former deserves to be praised. Most women can be sluts, but only certain men can be studs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:14 PM
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Game's on! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:50 PM
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I'm gonna cum on each and every one of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:56 PM
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Values are what is important, not genes. If I raise a child and inoculate it with my values and it belongs to my family and social group, then it is my child, even if it doesn't share my genetic makeup. I never understood the visceral hatred of single mothers and obsession men here have with the genetic legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:20 AM
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"Christ is King and Mohammed is the Messenger of Allah" according to your ole boy Tate. Damn, wut? And his Muslim fans don't call him out or anything? It sounds like Tate is going to create his own version of the Bahai religion but with trafficked hookers and blackjacks. Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:01 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:46 PM
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Women are the sovereigns of dating. They have nobody above to hold them accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:00 AM
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Yes, but many men do not understand this. They even consider you arrogant and stupid if you don't brag about only thinking about sex and chasing every single chance to get laid like a dog in heat. Those men take perverse pride in their uncontrollable libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:58 AM
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Women are too damn special.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:53 AM
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Because people treat therapy the same way they treat fitness and going to a gym, instead of treating it like medicine and going to a physician.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:48 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:42 PM
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Sex is. Mindless selfish search for the next high in the greatest amount possible without the regard for the other isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:55 PM
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Hook-ups are inherently dehumanising and there is no going around that. You want to fuck another person because you are sexually attracted to them with explicit understanding you will never see them again. I fail to see how appreciation of one's humanity can fit into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:57 PM
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Being fucked is indeed degrading and shameful, because it implies dominant and submissive power dynamics. Unless you are a BDSM freak, most people don't really want to be fucked, rather fuck with. Important distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:48 PM
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I don't see how this is necessarily status. In order for all this to matter, it needs to be acknowledged and held in high esteem by the members of his community. Plus, this man might be higher in economic status, but that doesn't necessarily correlate to having high social status. Most people do not see Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg as of any higher value than anyone else and in fact, many hate them and find them weird. The only reason there are people who love Elon Musk is because he created a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:12 AM
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I do, I just don't think it's the best (maybe, dunno. I'm a virgin).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:13 PM
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Pathos is 1 of the 3 parts of a good argument Not a good argument, but good persuasion. Making people agreeable to your point of view is different than presenting a logically coherent and valid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:01 PM
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It is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:56 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:55 PM
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I wouldn't mind being a stepfather. Maybe I'd like it even more than being an actual father.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:52 PM
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I mean, yeah, but I was talking about overall sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:28 PM
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Yeah, people vastly overestimate the wildness of average hook-ups. Being promiscuous doesn't suddenly equate to participating in wild orgies, trains, gangbangs or whathaveyou. Most hook-up are sad affairs of two drunk people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:25 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong, but doesn't sleeping with multiple people expose you to a wider range of preferences, kinks and behaviors during the intercourse, which adds a lot more to one's sexual experience than just having sex with a single person? Sure, the latter has more sex numerically, but they are then an expert only for that person. Would they be able to correctly adapt to the sexuality of another person if they left their previous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:14 PM
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As others have stated, it's just envy and FOMO. Most men need to put effort into getting sex and it still isn't a guarantee, plus, all the patriarchal conditioning that a real man is sexually experienced and competent to be masculine and sexually attractive to women. Once men falling short of the ideal encounter an uninhibited woman, they start experiencing a crisis of masculinity and a deep sense of insecurity, envy and FOMO, as to an experienced woman, an inexperienced man is most detestable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:07 PM
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Научио ћирилицу да може нас псује на нашем властитом писму 🤔?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:23 AM
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Од када Усташе знају ћирилицу 🤔?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:08 AM
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Checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:26 PM
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Wasn’t sex also an incentive for women to get married? Most women back then were massively repressed and hated sex because the purity culture was extremely strong and the vast majority of men either didn't care or didn't know how to pleasure them. Oral sex was a sin for a longer time than it wasn't. Most premodern societies had laws that stipulated that husbands were required to sexually satisfy their wives I believe this was more in the lines of "let nobody say we weren't thinking of the women"…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:23 PM
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Science has its own views: https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/science-behind-hard-sleep-person-forever/950751 Which just happen to coincide with my own: Sex researcher Sarah Murray continued to say, “When an individual has had sex with their partner over the course of many, many years, it takes creativity and openness to keep things fresh and exciting.” This is why, women especially, might feel as though they’re “bored” of sleeping with the same person. A lot of times, relationships encourage tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:02 PM
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Almost everyone, both male and female, both high-value and low-value (whatever those mean), becomes sexually unattractive (or considerably less attractive) to their partner with the sufficient passage of time. In redpill parlance, Chad gets tired of sexing up Stacy and vice versa... eventually. Exactly like the "lesser" mortals. People in relationships, regardless of initial attraction and status, get tired of having sex with each other... eventually. This is an excuse and it needn't necessarily…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:45 PM
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she was with an unattractive beta bux who wouldn't commit to her What kind of a woman is she that she couldn't make an ugly betabux commit, that's the better question. Is there something wrong with her that even an ugly betabux didn't want to simp for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:41 PM
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Would women really prefer to settle for the beta bux over the orgasmic high of a sexually attractive partner? Yes, if the latter is a horrible romantic prospect. Most women very much do want an intimate LTR, even if it is with a betabux. Of course, that doesn't mean their eyes won't wander, or that they will resist the temptation to have an affair when their hubby isn't looking. Do you feel IF women do this, they will never be sexually satisfied and will yearn for the attractive partner while se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:33 PM
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Second, she always has options no matter how loyal she is. And she knows it. And she WILL exercise those options when she feels she needs a pick me up as the relationship falters. This is something men need to realise. A woman prepares long before she officially ends the relationship, firmly taking hold of one branch before letting go of the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:21 PM
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The reason Blue Pill exists is because most men cannot face the truth that most men aren't really sexually attractive to women. Excellent relationship prospects? Certainly. But viscerally attractive in the way dominant, masculine Chad is? Not really. Sex can be very good and women may try as hard as they can to find them sexually attractive, but ultimately, most settle for stability and emotional intimacy of a betabux over the orgasmic high of a sexually attractive partner. This is known as Alph…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:09 PM
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This is true. One thing men here don't understand is that most women are sexually attracted to masculinity in a man first and foremost. Things like kindness, conscientiousness and consideration make him a good longterm prospect, but it is masculinity that gets female engine going, not kindness. Ideally speaking, the most attractive man is dominant and masculine, but also kind, caring and devoted. Since this combination is hard to achieve, women may decide to go after the former over the latter, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:53 AM
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Would you prefer a society governed by Islamic law and norms over the status quo? Why would anyone who isn't a bitter and resentful incel want that? What good do we get from becoming slaves of God?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:32 AM
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Dunno the context and I don't speak Italian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:33 PM
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Funny how the definition of Chad changed from a "dominant, sexually desirable masculine man" to "literally any socially functional man who can talk to women".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:20 PM
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Men who whine about women/feminists not including male issues into their activism is beyond pathetic to me. Let's put aside the fact that women cannot successfully campaign for men because they do not fully understand male issues, whining that someone else won't take care of your problems for you is peak entitled manchild behavior. If men suffer under the current social system, they should join forces and put effort into change by themselves, not complain that women don't add male problems on to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:59 PM
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Women's power is so insane that most people don't even comprehend it. All women are the Bene Gesserit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:10 PM
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I mean, yes? Slaves were essential parts of Roman economy, but that doesn't mean people either wanted to be slaves or didn't find them pathetic and pitiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:00 PM
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Dude, thank you for making me extremely paranoid about female intentions now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:39 AM
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As they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:29 PM
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never married philosopher who spent time in a mental asylum and wrote a book about his incestuous affair with her? Tell me you know nothing of Nietzsche without telling me you know nothing of Nietzsche.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:28 PM
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I mean, yeah. Once I gain some experience, it'll likely be fine. But until then...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:52 AM
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And your awkwardness is just you scoring too high in neuroticism; not all of us are afflicted similarly Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:26 AM
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Looks like you have a solid grasp on the difference between feminine (positive when applied to women) and effeminate (negative when applied to men. Uh, yes? This is exactly what I have been saying. You said that feminine and effeminate have completely different definitions, whereas I said they have the same definion [in the likeness of women], but one has negative meaning and the other neutral/positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:22 AM
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What exactly in my post history?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:17 AM
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You wanna explain why calling women “masculine” is insulting? Because they are perceived to be stepping outside their allotted place. Or whine that men who use the word masculine in that context are claiming that there is something wrong with masculinity? Which context? It is insulting for men to be called "effeminate" because it is perceived as a degradation in status to a level of a lowly, soft, fragile woman (not agreeing, just saying), but calling a woman "masculine" is meant to put her back…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:15 AM
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I just understand how awkward and inexperienced I am and don't want someone like that. Hypocritical, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:12 AM
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Which are? The only difference is that effeminate is used exclusively for men in derogatory misogynic meaning, while feminine is used for both women and men and is of neutral meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:44 AM
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You are a highly attractive, confident and successful woman in a loving relationship with a highly attractive, confident and successful man. Meanwhile, most of us here are lonely, bitter and insecure losers gathering together to drown in resentment and self-pity because we aren't you and your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:10 AM
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As a virgin man, no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:01 AM
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Brutal, but true. Tradmasc is the be-all end-all of male sex appeal for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:01 AM
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Every single one I have seen turned out to either be an enthusiastic cuckold or participate in gay orgies. Not judging (maybe a bit for the cuckoldry), but why are they being hypocritical about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:58 AM
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Yes, but they are alt-men. Vanilla dudes are either one or the other, with some small exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:52 AM
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You are right on the money. Average liberal American man is a betacuck who believes being a niceguy will somehow make women hot and bothered for him and is confused why they aren't sucking his dick when he gives them a glass of water when they require it. On the other hand, traditionally masculine men tend to lean conservative, which means they are religious, antiabortion and believers in the traditional gender roles of women submitting to their husbands and being housewives, which of course, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:06 AM
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Are you, by any chance, a Female Dating Strategist? Because this sounds like something a Female Dating Strategist would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:34 AM
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The men who hurt women are effeminate. Didn't know that femininity was about hurting women. The men who require subjugation: mad effeminate. Didn't know that femininity was about requiring subjugation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:24 AM
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SMV: 6 I am above-average in looks (though no head-turning beauty by any metric) and currently undergoing gym to improve my skinny-fat physique. I have read sex manuals like She Comes First and cross-examined the reported experiences and preferences of many women to understand what they find attractive and sexually enticing. I like slowburn, creating a charged atmosphere and making the other person writhe in pleasure. My greatest disabilities are that I am an anxious virgin without any actual ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:38 PM
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This is the apex fallacy and it disproves nothing. You cannot generalise the experiences of the uppermost crust of men to the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:55 PM
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And I am actively involved in my community in getting youngsters out of the house. And how? However, I'm also not American so I won't sugar coat the issue to cater to the sensibilities of PC Americans. Good, neither am I.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:34 PM
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Good heavens, why are you so gleeful about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:22 PM
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Men having sex with a HVW is an achievement, because most men can't do it. Thus, the man who does it is viewed with admiration by other man and is assigned greater honor. I don't see any problem with this. Regardless of what people say, sex isn't an equal act, because men need to put effort to get the woman to agree to have sex with them, while women just need to select the man they are willing to let have sex with them among many of her suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:12 PM
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Around my height (183 cm) Physically attractive to me Masculine personality characteristics Reasonable and open-minded Aligning values and at least some interests Willing to compromise without escalating into fights Takes my desires, opinions, reputation and well-being into consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:10 PM
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So... you agree with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:31 PM
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You are a horrible girlfriend. I feel sorry for your guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:05 AM
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I've never gotten a girl to orgasm as much as when I adopted my Lesbian friend sex move What move?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:25 AM
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It’s common knowledge that some of the most financially and professionally successful men are into being dominated by women sexually. How does that translate to their lives outside the bedroom? Source? Always an interesting conversation. I'm focusing more on the kink aspect of dominance, although you meant it more broadly. My experience, being connected to the femdom community for many many years, is that whether a man is successful or not is NOT a predictor of whether he's more or less likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:25 PM
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A man can embody healthy masculinity by being physically and mentally strong, courageous, goal oriented, etc., All this falls under the umbrella of power, because it achieves prosperity. You also seem to be confusing the concept of "patriarchy," which is a social system, with what women are sexually or romantically attracted to in their personal lives. These are linked. What I like in bed has no bearing on how I want to be treated out in the world. This is such a libfem doublethink that I keep w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:43 PM
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Masculinity is not the same thing as the patriarchy. It kinda is. For the most part, masculinity = power and power = patriarchy. How can you have a construct which embodies physical strength, high social status, high competence, fortitude, risk taking, dominance and aggression and not have it evolve into a social system with it on top? Women can be attracted to and value positive aspects of masculinity and still want to work towards a system where men and women share more equal social, economic,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:19 PM
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Et tu, Brute *Tu Quoque, Brute It's not baked beans, it in fact is baked rice Wut? Ain't no damn way that's true. I see beans with meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:24 PM
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(Reposted from feminism thread for greater visibility) After years of trying to fit many contradictory info I was getting from feminists and other women, like how can they simultaneously like being dominated in bed, but are outspokenly against male dominance otherwise, or how they want a masculine partner while ranting against the toxicity of masculinity, I have recently come upon a realisation that shook me to my core and finally put all the pieces into the place: unlike what a minority of very…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:11 PM
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Wait, lets define pasulj first? Baked beans. I always thought that's more like varivo Not even close. Varivo is a stew made out of mixed vegetables, pasulj only has beans, zaprška and maybe some meat for flavor. pašta fažol I have never actually had this. as this is definitely rižot No, risotto is baked rice. That in the image are definitely baked beans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:11 PM
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Risotto? That looks like pasulj to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:18 PM
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After years of trying to fit many contradictory info I was getting from feminists and other women, like how can they simultaneously like being dominated in bed, but are outspokenly against male dominance otherwise, or how they want a masculine partner while ranting against the toxicity of masculinity, I have recently come upon a realisation that shook me to my core and finally put all the pieces into the place: unlike what a minority of very loud radfems would let you believe, most women don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:17 PM
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So, the conclusion of your research is that relieving women of the household chores makes them horny, AKA choreplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:54 PM
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Why did you suddenly shift the conversation towards domestic work when the topic was responsive sexual desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:47 PM
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lol No we don’t. Yes, you do. I've lost the count of this responsive desire spiel being used to justify women not getting off their esteemed bottoms and putting in the effort, but waiting for their men to do fucking everything always. Yes it’s environmental factors but also internal stimuli. I know this. I agree with this. Good, you should spread it on to other women, since they clearly don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:31 PM
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This. Female Redditors want you to think that responsive desire means that man is supposed to do all the work while they just sit on their asses and contribute nothing. Responsive desire means that a woman won't suddenly get horny out of nowhere, but that she will get horny when presented with an arousing scene or scenario. Also, responsive desire doesn't mean a woman can't physically initiate, that's pure excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:34 AM
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Do you find any notable difference between a friend with benefits and a romantic partner in a relationship? To me, it's the difference of a degree, not of category. Romantic partner is the FWB you have decided to build your life with. Do you believe that in the absence of sex, romantic love and friendship are one and the same? Again, it's the difference of a degree to me. Romantic love is the highest degree of friendship. I'd never marry a woman that wasn't my best friend. If so, assuming you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:48 AM
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Is it always the man's job to "generate" the desire? As you have said, it is a man's job to create a mental space in which a woman can be turned on. Most women have a responsive sexual desire in LTR, meaning they need external stimuli to get things going, like seeing a hot guy doing hot things, which is where you come in. Of course, this doesn't mean the man should always be the one initiating, merely the one who creates the spark. If your wife has never seen you being hot and doing hot stuff an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:38 AM
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I still believe that during most of the relationship the couple just has to be content with the comfort and peace without the excitement. Why? There is no reason this needs to be the inevitable fate. Sure, you will likely never have the excitement of the NRE, but that doesn't mean excitement must necessarily be extinguished. Just like a flame, it will keep on going as long as you supply it with fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:22 PM
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True, which is exactly what the book Mating in Captivity talks about. Stable, secure and intimate relationship is often at the odds with sexual desire because it removes the veil of mystique and fantasy that arises when we don't know much about the other person. Once you marry that seductive, drop-dead gorgeous woman you have been dreaming about, you will become privy to her everyday life and all its mundane moodkillers, like the fact that she likely doesn't look as good with greasy hair tied in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:38 PM
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True. Most of us guys here are late bloomers, so sex becomes this ultimate rite of passage that is supposed to transform us into a higher state of being. I'm sure people who have sex on the regular don't view it as anything particularly special.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:42 PM
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When women say they want a man to show her his emotions, what they have in mind is a hardass who is cold and stern towards everyone else except her, towards whom he is very kind and soft because he loves her. That makes them feel special. Even when he cries, he should cry only about things that don't cost him masculinity points, like death of a loved one, hard past, etc. And he isn't supposed to devolve into a pathetic sobbing wreck, but still maintain dignity and self-control, even when crying.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:20 PM
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I don't think such men are emotionally unavailable, they just aren't simps. Most women have men begging them for a crumb of pussy, so when a man comes who is uninterested in licking her toilet seat just to taste a bit of her, he becomes inexplicably attractive. Plus, most people rationalise things they have to put effort in as inherently more desirable than things that require little or no effort, so when a man she is interested in comes by who won't be immediately seduced just by her showing hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:29 PM
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Identify all your issues, or at least those most major, and then arrange them in those that are immediate and those that are longterm. Before you can marry your Prince Charming, you have to make some friends first. Before you can make some friends, you have to go outside. Before you can go outside, you have to clean up. Remember, you likely won't succeed on your first try and that's fine. You won't immediately find your group of besties on your first outing, but the important thing is that you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:01 PM
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You are welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:32 AM
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Thanks for the psychoanalysis session, Herr Freud. Nice to see you up and running again 🙄 Sure, dude. A woman that fucked Chads is suddenly going to find you a Gigachad worthy to settle down. C0p3 of some people really needs to be studied in a lab.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:31 AM
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Thank you. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:02 AM
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Does your mom know you like it up the ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:00 AM
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This ain't about me, chief. You are absolutely deluded to think that a woman who savored dozens of dicks somehow thinks yours is the best when she wants to settle down. It's likely just good enough relative to other things she finds necessary for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:53 AM
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Their own. Men own the monopoly on agency, remember? Is that the same reasoning you use as to why women have internalised misogyny? Because of their own agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:51 AM
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Women settle. The Blue Pill idea that she's in the relationship with you after a promiscuous past because you are her best is pure unadulterated c0pium.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:47 AM
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Inhibited men. That's what I'm asking. Whose fault is it that they are inhibited in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:43 AM
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Maybe she chose the one in the relationship because the sex was better. Ahahahahahahahah!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:42 AM
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Don't blame yourself for that. Women have been hammering that in our heads for a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:37 AM
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Certain men seem to lack any sexual identity or sexual confidence. Their behavior reads as “brother”. They might be uptight, they might suffer cultural or religious inhibitions, they might have othered women so badly they assume that women are disgusted by sex. they have an internal narrative which ascribes “bad” to any and all sexual behavior, up to and including simple flirting. And whose fault is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:35 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:07 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:27 PM
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Yeah, to you. Many of us have been taught otherwise, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:24 PM
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Yeah, it seems so, because I need to be a fucking mindreader in order to understand when woman want in what way men to behave. INB4 "it ain't difficult, just read the room/pay attention to cues/don't be socially retarded"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:06 PM
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It's your own interpretation it's false info, I'd say it's much more often incomplete info. Yeah, this is actually correct. Women do like niceguys, but in most previous conversations I had with them, they left out that niceguys also need to be masculine to be sexually attractive to them. It wasn't really lie as much as it was omission. It'll be less frustrating if you take it as such and then try to find other ways to complete the picture yourself. I think I have 90% of the complete picture, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:03 PM
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Yes. Women hate it when men are sexually forward and then they mock men who struggle with being sexually forward. The math ain't mathing, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:00 PM
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I do not recall mentioning anything you say in my comment above. Can you read English?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:51 PM
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So you're saying it's the dichotomy? Absolutely. There is an entire book, Mating in Captivity, that explains why LTRs experience sexual droughts and makes the point that emotional intimacy and sexual excitement are two different dimensions that may run in parallel, but are very much distinct and both need to be nourished separately. Raw physicality is all stuff of the present, much like pain it loses its potency when it's only a far off memory You mean to say that women can't accurately describe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:34 PM
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By constantly slamming them for "toxic masculinity", "sexual harassment", etc. whenever they are sexually forward and overemphasising the importance of niceness while avoiding the mentioning of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:27 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:26 PM
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OP is reinforcing this rhetoric that women like “bad boys” when women just like masculine men who escalate. So, bad boys? Bad boy doesn't mean one is a criminal, but that he is "bad", i.e. masculine and sexually bold, which is exactly what you have said. When we say bad girl, we don't mean girls who are criminal psychos. Op just lacks masculinity & socially awareness but now he decided to finally find the little bit of masculinity inside him and escalate with a woman he was already making out wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:04 PM
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Those are 2 different things, there is raw attraction and there is good mate selection. You have to clear the first bar to get to the second. I agree. I don't understand why it's such an epiphany Because most women online conveniently leave out the part about masculinity and raw attraction and focus only on the niceness, which presents a false image of attraction. Women on Reddit constantly speak how repulsed they are with men who are forward and require verbal consent for every single thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:01 PM
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Strange. Women on Reddit claim the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:54 PM
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Can a man not be dominant, confident, stoic, good looking, ambitious, courageous, charming, masculine men as well as kind, generous, and considerate? He can. I said so in my comment below. Or is nice guy shorthand for beta pushover? Yes. And yes, kindness is an important trait for long term compatibility. But without traits that spark attraction, kindness in and of itself ain't dropping panties. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:53 PM
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I have no idea what you tried to say with this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:29 PM
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No, women have made sure of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:26 PM
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Yes, we can finally put an end to female rhetoric of niceguys being attractive in any way, shape, or form. Frankly, I was getting exhausted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:21 PM
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Apparently, in cases like this, they are 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:13 PM
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It proves that your extreme generalizations are not universal. I never claimed they were, only that they were most statistically prevalent. Again, exceptions exist. And I'm sorry but imagining this world you described is literally apocalyptic. Which world? Maybe one day in the wasteland dangerous men who will protect me from cannibals will be the most practical choice, but for now I have the luxury of sharing interests and taking care of one another Good for you. Live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:13 PM
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I literally do not understand why you women are all mocking this guy. We had decades of feminism telling us that expressing our sexual desire in this way is "toxic masculinity", "sexual harassment" and the like. That men should seek verbal consent before every damn thing and how that's "extremely sexy". Now you're slamming this innocent guy for having a mental breakdown because he committed what he was taught to be a bad act. So much for the superior female empathy 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:10 PM
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I'm attracted to goofballs with hearts of gold that care deeply about my comfort and happiness. Is this anecdote supposed to prove anything? You sound like a nature documentary about chimps Like it or not, human behavior appears in explainable patterns. Exceptions happen, but that's what they are; exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:03 PM
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Most women are attracted to masculinity, which is another word for power. Power here doesn't exclusively mean "dominance over others", but more generally means strong sense of self, competence in various fields, popularity and admiration of others, assertiveness, fortitude, etc. Things that exalt a man, both externally and internally, are power and thus masculinity. A masculine man is relaxingly confident, doesn't lose his cool easily, can handle many/most situations, is beloved by the people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:00 PM
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The focus of this sub is not people who are virgins. Could have fooled me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:39 PM
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I'd very much like an experienced woman, but I fear those either won't be interested in an inexperienced man, or will have too high expectations from me and be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:15 PM
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Once I have read his philosophy, it's like everything clicked into place. He really had a transformative character on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:15 PM
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It introduced me to the philosophy of Friedrich Nietzsche, which fundamentally shaped my worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:47 PM
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Uhhh, you are always welcome to leave the sub focused on permavirgins, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:17 PM
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Overall, men having higher standards would drastically improve dating and relationships in several ways. What ways? You didn't name any examples. You just said men have abysmal standards, that it's bad, but you understand why. How would average men, who have very little options in the first and have to put in effort even for those few they have, benefit from raising their standards to women's? Do you think women would care in the slightest?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:57 AM
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As a man who is a late bloomer, this is very disheartening, but also true. If you are a woman with dating experience, late bloomers aren't really an attractive option. Why would a woman bother teaching a man what most normal people already know at his age?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:18 AM
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It's been my understanding and experience that the majority of women see sex as a chore, or that they can easily go without it for long periods of time without many issues, if any. Which is not how I experience my libido, which is "on" 24/7 whether I'm with someone or single. Well, yes? That's exactly what I meant by my comment. You are very unique and rare with regards to the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:02 AM
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No, I just think they are a lot rarer than social media would like you to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:54 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:50 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:25 AM
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Ngl, most people seem to think exactly that and not just in romantic contexts and it's not necessarily unjustified. Most people after college will end up in a shitty 9-5, fall in a boring routine in which they will remain till they're retired and completely lose any drive to better themselves. To most people, high school and college represent the fondest memories, because after that, most become wageslaves. Just look at the Japanese obsession with high school life. I personally don't see it that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:13 AM
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And why is it your problem what they choose to do with their lives? If they want to live the 4B, let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:47 AM
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Only online.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:50 AM
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Well, yeah? I was always wondering how deformed lumps and lanky dorks would have beauties for girlfriends, but then I thought that it's likely because they went out and socialised with them while I was too busy studying the sociopolitical make-up of Ancient Greek poleis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:02 PM
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I'm starting to think I'd have a lot better luck with women if I actually went out and socialised.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:43 AM
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Why would they do it for a man they aren't viscerally sexually attracted to? Chad is what gets them going, not their betabux hubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:33 AM
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So with the context of how you understand the opposite sex, and how you understand yourself, how conditional has your love been in practice and in theory? My lifepartner needs to be someone I admire and brings a net-benefit to my life. If these two criteria stop being met, I will end the relationship. It doesn't mean I will start treating her like lesser being, but it does mean the love I used to feel will have gone away. What conditions are required for you to enthusiastically give your undying…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:24 AM
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The hypermasculine lumberjack is an American masculinity ideal; strong, independent, capable, rugged working class man who lifts himself by his bootstraps. As Americans are the dominant presence on the Anglonet, this ideal gets promoted as be-all end-all of masculinity and many non-Americans adopt it. Also the excuses and mental gymnatistics they play to try and explain how more feminine looking men are successful and often desired by women (especially in non-anglo cultures) is a peak cringe. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:50 PM
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Considering there are paedophilia defenders here, that is a legitimate question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:06 PM
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B. I need a woman who can be my equal, challenge me to be the better version of myself and be reliable and effective lifepartner. I want a make, not a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:04 PM
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Nah, nobody said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:04 PM
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The average western person living paycheck-to-paycheck is poor with money, not lacking money. They are lacking money for the Western living standards. Sure, everyone can save money and be debtless if they moved to a small town and lived semi-Luddite lives of the mid-20th century, but that's far cry from "living in abject plenty and luxury" the OP claimed Westerners lived in. We can argue whether Western standards are unrealistic or not, but the truth is that wast majority of people cannot afford…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:02 PM
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Nah, Jiājíng Emperor also consumed mercury (and died because of it), he just thought virgin menstrual blood would enhance its effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:34 AM
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Nah, that's pretty cool. Almost to the level of Jiājíng Emperor using menstrual blood of virgins to achieve immortality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:38 AM
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I do notice the periodical inactivity. Is it because most people are from America and currently sleeping?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:29 AM
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"I want to be a malewife to a girlboss." - You Not judging, I'd like that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:05 AM
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Yes, very much so. Getting murdered is an instant death, getting gangraped and possibly carried away into slavery and birthing children of your captors is infinitely worse fate. Women who get murdered in the sieges alongside the men are lucky ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:01 AM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:50 AM
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This pic proves that bonobos were right and all conflicts can be solved with fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:48 AM
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I really dislike the term "vanilla sex", because it both sounds condescending and like a BDSM version of the Blue Pill. Vanilla sex is everything that isn't BDSM, which means there is a lot variety in it and it doesn't have to be boring and mundane at all. he thinks most couples have vanilla sex and i think most couples have kinky sex. He is right, if we consider "vanilla" to mean "not-BDSM". Yes, most couples have traditional sex in missionary, doggy and cowgirl without any great modifications.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:46 AM
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I caught myself thinking about the mass rapes happening in the aftermaths of sieges and now I feel very disturbed. Curse my ADHD brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:39 AM
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a) The 3rd world is going through an obesity crisis, not a starvation crisis. b) Preventable illnesses ceased to be a problem for the 3rd world like a couple of decades ago. I admit, I didn't know this. Where are you from? Most westerners live in absolute and pure material luxury, with an abundance of good and shitty food alike. They have options, they have money, they have everything. Absolute fucking bullshit. Most Westerners are living paycheck-to-paycheck with only one bad month away from ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:14 AM
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Not starving to death or dying from a preventable disease doesn't equal living a good life. Most Westerners live their lives like pigs, with an abundance of shitty food to eat and mud to wallow in. Not a life I would like to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:40 PM
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Do people really think fuckboys always bag 7+?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:34 AM
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They are both "strategies" for achieving the desired results. TRP is a male "guide" towards achieving lots of sexual prospects with attractive women, while FDS is a female "guide" towards achieving a longterm relationship with a High-Value Man. Both focus on self-improvement and both have lots of vitriol towards the other side, for whom they have absolutely no empathy and are fully willing to just use them without any regard to their humanity. I do have slightly more respect towards FDS, since T…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:30 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:16 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:00 AM
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Not sure I'd compare whores to goddesses. Sound a bit disrespectful to the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:39 AM
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Who says that a man's manhood is determined by his skills on bed ? Society? I have never tought " he is not manly because he dont make me cum " and i have never heard female friends says that too. Ok? Good for you? You know, when you have an healthy relationship you communicate about things like sex. Don't most women expect men to "just know"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:38 AM
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What does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:37 AM
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I mean, me? That's a whole bundle of issues just waiting to be unravelled, from her mental state to the public stigma you'd bring upon yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:11 PM
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Nah, I am just highly repulsed by wussy women and want the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:56 PM
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This guy be like: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:51 PM
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Didn't know women are food to be eaten, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:36 PM
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No, Serbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:32 PM
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My dreamwife is a 6'3 Amazon strong enough to swing a sledgehammer with one hand whom I could bake cookies and cuddle with when she's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:31 PM
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It's been several years since I've been in England, and I gotta say it's as lovely a country as I remember. They're a dignified and polite people. Mashallah, they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:26 PM
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No, I just find it tasteless that people call women with bodyhair "unkempt she-beasts". After all, it's just a preference, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:25 PM
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No, the username is a joke. Ass-eating though...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:23 PM
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Meh, I prefer bodyhair. Smooth body is too statuesque and uncanny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:20 PM
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Was she interested in you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:09 PM
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You would date a pornstar?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:09 PM
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Brutal, but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:04 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:11 PM
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American women are getting banged left and right from the convenience of their phone. Women this promiscuous are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:04 PM
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I don't think rape itself is what women fantasise about, but the symbolism behind it. Most women are very sexually repressed and simply have too many brakes to expressing their need and desire for sexual satisfaction. So what's the solution? Shift the responsibility for the sex happening on the uncontrollable male libido which you simply could not resist. If a man ravishes you, there was nothing you could have done, no? Thus women achieve both plausible deniability and the satisfaction of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:19 AM
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That's kinda pathetic, dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:39 AM
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Whose fellow national 😉 My deep-seated instincts demand of me to retort violently at the audacious suggestion, but I shall remain civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:26 PM
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You'd be surprised what I heard people saying about my fellow national.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:03 PM
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Man, I could have written all this. Got nothing to add, I agree with everything. Women are prone to whining about men being bad in bed while either not giving them any guidance (because he's supposed to just know/she doesn't want to teach anyone/it kills the mood), have no actual idea about what they want, but expect men to know anyway, or just outright lie about their sexuality to save face. A woman can tell her man he's doing everything well and then go cheat on him with an alpha who "actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:17 PM
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Neither. If these are my only two options, I'd rather stay celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:12 PM
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Ok, παιδοφιλης.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:10 PM
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Ok, paedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:27 PM
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Being attracted to 18-19 year old adults is not immoral at all and legally okay Legality doesn't mean shit. Those are teenagers, thus adolescents, thus minors and wanting to fuck minors makes you a paedophile. At that point you are the problem for being a kink shamer and the one who is immoral. I'm completely fine with shaming paedophilia. You are the evil one for treating consenting adults as infants just because of your personal bias. I'm completely fine with being evil to paedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:21 PM
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Being attracted to minors (<20) is paedophilic and thus immoral. I will definitely blame everyone who shamelessly does it. Minors aren't "the most fertile or display the signs of fertility", this is a paedotalk. We, as sapient human beings, have the moral obligations to abstain from such immorality. Blaming "evolution and reality" is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:03 PM
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the general consensus being that many women will spend the majority of their 20s and possibly early 30s having random, unrestrained sexual fun with noncommittal alpha bros. I have come to understand that men whining about this are the men those women don't want to sleep with. I'm a kissless virgin and can virtue-signal until I am blue in face, but I would definitely dip my toes in the hook-up culture if I wasn't completely inexperienced when it comes to seducing women. But then when they decide …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:45 PM
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Literally every article says that men engaged in bodyhair removal too, not just women, yet in modern society, only women are shamed for not grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:43 PM
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Then why don't most men shave their bodyhair, but only women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:41 PM
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Why is it so hard for social constructivists like you to understand that we don't have to appeal to your made up truth. Don't talk about a thing until you learn what that is. In this case, every major society on earth has historically found female body hair to be disgusting, regardless if it's natural or not. You do realise that men also removed their bodyhair, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:41 PM
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“Beginning in the early twentieth century, manufacturers of safety razors, seeking to expand their market, promoted the idea that body hair on women is inherently masculine and indelicate, as well as unhygienic. Gillette introduced the first razor marketed specifically to women, called the Milady Decollette, in 1915. In the 1920s, the new fashion for sleeveless tops and short dresses meant that the legs and armpits of American women were now visible in social situations, and advertisers seized t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:39 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:33 PM
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My guy, I have no idea why is it so hard for men like you to accept one simple truth: female bodyhair is natural and it doesn't make a woman disgusting. That's it, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:33 PM
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I have a Reddit app on my phone and its pretty fucky when it comes to flairs. I don't see "man" in my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:30 PM
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the general consensus being that many women will spend the majority of their 20s and possibly early 30s having random, unrestrained sexual fun with noncommittal alpha bros. I have come to understand that men whining about this are the men those women don't want to sleep with. I'm a kissless virgin and can virtue-signal until I am blue in face, but I would definitely dip my toes in the hook-up culture if I wasn't completely inexperienced when it comes to seducing women. But then when they decide …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:25 PM
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My brother in Christ, body hair on women has been considered a sight of disgust since the dawn of the Ancient Egyptians, it is a practice that's universally common across continents with varying cultures throughout almost all of written human history. Source? Women and men have been recommended to remove their bodyhair by a variety of cultures, sure, but no evidence that the practice was ever widespread, or that bodyhair on women specifically was seen as disgusting. Stop blaming everything on so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:06 PM
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Sure, and the point is that men's desire for female hairlessness is just a current trend, nothing more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:15 AM
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Dude humans also didn’t grow up and use soap until recently, that doesn’t mean I prefer a woman who smells like shit over a woman whose used Dove Soap This is a bullshit equivalence. People bathed for as long as they were human. Romans had an entire culture about baths over two thousand years ago and we don't have any record they thought female bodyhair was disgusting and women should shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:14 AM
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Again, why would we believe that men back then didn't care about body hair just because women didn't shave? Because it is completely illogical and only serves as a backformation for what is objectively a recent change in preferences. Why would we believe that women don't care about the bodyhair just because most men don't shave their bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:12 AM
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Most people don’t want to see a forest down there. Goes for men and women You have never seen pre-2000s pornography? Having a bush was all the rage back then, for both men and women. Hairlessness is a modern preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:10 AM
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A response that clarifies the logic of men disliking female body hair because they want to run their hands down their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:09 AM
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At least I have a valid argument. You are literally just making a statement and thinking that it proves anything at all (it doesn't).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:50 AM
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You literally have no proof and are just presenting modern preferences as some objective panhistorical evopsych.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:37 AM
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Not sure about the Greece, but both genders did so in Egypt, not just women, and even those that did it were likely in a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:20 AM
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It feels nicer to caress a woman's bare leg than a hairy one. And why do men want to caress woman's legs in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:02 AM
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Not sure whether they "preferred" it, or have been conditioned to expect it as an inherent part of femininity due to advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:11 AM
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I didn't know men throughout history actually preferred completely shaven women. Strange how that is being externalised only in the last 60-something years 🤔.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:08 AM
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And men's internal desire is a hairless woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:03 AM
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I wish the men ITT would stop blaming their preferences on corporations. If there wasn’t a desire for shaven legs, vaginas and armpits then the demand wouldn’t exist and there would be no profit selling these products. Women are motivated to care about shaving because of how not doing so would impact our options. There was no demand before 1960s and no man complained about female bodyhair back then because it was expected. The demand and expectations came to be because of the corporate advertisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:49 AM
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Why is it so hard to believe that many guys simply prefer both the aesthetic and the feeling of smooth skin? Because they started "preferring" it only after safety razors became popular and commercial in 1960s and companies started advertising it to women. Before that, no woman shaved and all had hairy legs, nethers and armpits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:18 AM
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As a man, I honestly don't know. I think there has been a campaign of classical conditioning to convince people that bodyhair on a woman is somehow disgusting by corpos selling razors like Gillette, but that's my personal opinion. Shamefully, I fell under the propaganda when I was younger and also thought that female bodyhair is disgusting. Only few years ago did I seriously sit down and thought about why I think so and is that really the case. Right now, I don't care and even find it sexy, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:39 AM
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Not denying your experiences, just saying that a majority tend to be, or at least prefer to be, passive in bed, which is a damn shame if you ask me. I would much prefer if I had a partner with whom I could both take charge and let them take charge without settling into a single dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:33 PM
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Sure, but for the majority of women, he absolutely does have to be dominant to achieve the maximal effect. Not dominant as in oppressive, controlling or degrading, but as someone passionate who actively takes the lead during the sexual intercourse, assertively sets the pace. Most women love it when a man is all over them during sex and manhandles them a bit, because this shows them he deeply desires them, which turns them on. Sure, you can have good sex if you are a shyer and more reserved man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:22 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:32 PM
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This. End the thread immediately. Women absolutely love sex, but only with a dominant man, for whom they will openly lust and flaunt their own rules. "Women aren't really sexual" is what they tell to their betabuxx partners whom they don't physically desire, but who make for stable and secure lifepartners. Ultimately, a woman's visceral sexual desire is a privilege only few will experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:32 PM
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the majority of women would choose to live without men. This is a huge cap. 4B Movement and the decentering of men ia only popular among a minority of radical feminists and online spaces. Most women would definitely want men to live with, like they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:45 AM
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Way to blame and hate men, dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:55 AM
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Like? Yes. Love? No. I could never love someone I didn't admire, which by definition makes them above average. There is nothing admirable in being a featureless NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:07 PM
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Men want to be desired for themselves. The only thing women desire in Betabux is their money and stability, which is demeaning for the Betabux when they see women making absolute fools of themselves and ruining their lives for the men they truly viscerally desire. Nobody wants to be settled for, a "good enough" pragmatic option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:02 PM
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Yes? Why would we ever marry women that act against our self-interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:57 PM
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In other words, feminine. No society defines femininity as something positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:10 AM
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Highest correlation is the appearance of strength. Source? Status does not illicit “genuine desire”. Status isn't being rich. Forearms and abs illicit genuine desire. Many women don't care for abs and forearms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:48 AM
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Also isn’t dating a normie good if you are a normie? It is, but men here feel PPD women make themselves to be goddesses who have entire pantheons clambering for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:23 PM
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Unfortunately. Powerful and capable woman want even more powerful and capable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:16 PM
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Word of advice: women online LARP heavily when it comes to their personal lives, so don't take any of them at their face value. Every woman here is a confident hyperattractive girlboss that has her pick of Chads, while in the reality being semifunctional nervous wreck you'd miss in a crowd and who's dated three normies and married a slightly better normie. They come on PPD to shit on desperate and resentful men as a way to feel more powerful than they IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:14 PM
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Because, according to research, the highest correlation to a man's sexual success is his status. Women are most attracted to a man who occupies high status in an area deemed relevant by the social group the women belong too. You can be ugly as hell, but if you are a celebrity, you will get beautiful women throwing themselves at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:40 PM
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You don't have to reveal anything, but at least don't lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:12 PM
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How is it misandry to state basic biological facts? Because sex isn't a biological need for men, while a mere want for women. That claim dehumanises men as mindless beasts while raising women as enlightened sages. Wanting more sex doesn't mean it's bad or anything. You are right, it doesn't, but wanting more sex doesn't mean needing it, nor does it mean women don't have sexual urges that bother them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:57 PM
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I understand perfectly why women don't talk about sex, but I'd appreciate if they didn't casually spread misinformation about it and then bully men when they get confounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:51 PM
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Your misandry is palpable. Men don't need sex either, but the idea that women live completely asexually and only engage in sex as a fun past time is a bullshit of epic proportions. Women aren't as sexually driven as men, but that doesn't mean they aren't sexually driven and sexually driven hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:49 PM
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Oh yeah, sorry. I read that you wrote "OP doesn't seem to be asking in good faith".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:46 PM
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Women lie out of social pressure and necessity. It’s not like women can bring up their masturbation habits in front of men without opening up a can of worms. Boohoo. I’m not talking about sex with any man except my closest and most trustworthy friends beyond answering their questions about how to have better sex with their partner. Good. Say nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:45 PM
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No, I'm not. I'm saying that women absolutely love and need sex and greatly value sex appeal in men, but they tend to lie and obscure that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:45 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:24 PM
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In what way, though? It's true that women are a lot subtler about their sexualities and a lot likelier to lie about it to make themselves seem chaster and not as desperate as men, which can all easily be interpreted as women being basically asexual. OP is asking an honest question, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:18 PM
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Just had a conversation with a PPD woman in the exact same way that PPD women accuse men of: hella strawmanning, restating of the already stated standpoints and not actually addressing any of my points. Let no one tell you PPD women are in any way, shape, or form different shitstains than you yourselves, my guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:16 PM
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While I sympathise with you, be prepared for an absolute onslaught of insults. People online are always brutal to men who ask these questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:00 PM
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Men care more about sex than women. They have higher libido. There are plenty of guys here saying that they'd literally die if they don't have sex. They talk about testosterone and primal urges, validation, etc. So obviously a woman's response is "sex is not that important, you are not going to die from lack of sex" Yeah, because Manospherians are a bunch of aged virgins who are consumed with FOMO and bad self-esteem, so they wax philosophical about the necessity of sex for men and how they'd di…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:47 PM
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that doesn't mean sex is the most important thing in the world like men say And again you insult men as a mindless sexdriven beasts. Fine, it's a good thing that women are so transcendent and enlightened in turn 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:27 PM
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What are you talking about? I never said any of that. You are being willfully oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:16 PM
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I don't know what made you think women don't enjoy sex and don't consider good sex as an important part of the relationship Women themselves. They like to dunk on men who talk about their sexual urges while pretending to be some profound above-it-all creatures who only care about the soul of a person and lead enlightened lives unbothered by the base urges of those disgusting shallow men. Apparently, it's all about stability, security and emotional connection to them. Now you are going to the ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:48 PM
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Basically, it was asking women whether they would give up their libidos for some other benefit, don't really remember which one, but it was large, and pretty much all women in the comments said they would never do that and how much they like and want sex, which goes in the face of all their virtue-signalling about the importance of emotional connection and stability over sex and how men are mindless sexdriven beasts while women are intensely spiritual and focused only on the innermost aspects of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:40 AM
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I think it got deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:29 AM
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Following the "interesting thought experiment" thread, I have decided never in my life to trust women when they say sex doesn't play an exceedingly important part of their lives whenever they want to shame men for their sexual desires. Guys, if a woman doesn't experience existential crises because you don't want to fuck her twice a day, leave her. You deserve so much better than a hypocrite who doesn't find you sexually attractive. Don't let women shame you for wanting what they themselves want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:15 AM
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Believe, it sucks a lot and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone. My father absolutely hates when we have free will and own own opinions that can contradict, so he takes steps to eliminate it. There are times I really feel just like a human-shaped tool which he uses as he pleases and has absolutely no respect for. It is dehumanising, to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:34 AM
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My mother was constantly sidelined by her parents in favor of her brother (because misogyny) and once fell seriously ill. She was hospitalised and her parents didn't visit her. My father, whom she knew for a while, would make an effort to visit her. Being emotionally vulnerable, she latched onto him and started dating him, which is why she is currently married over 20 years to an abusive narcissist who annihilated my self-esteem, made me suicidally depressed during my teens, would constantly tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:23 AM
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It never began.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:36 AM
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Having game > everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:33 AM
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Finally see the truth of how much they desire sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:33 AM
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Brutal, but true. There is nothing more sexually unattractive to women than a niceguy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:59 AM
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My marriage isn't perfect and the enthusiasm is definitely starting to fade, but the idea of being with anyone else is completely unappealing. I value the stability, the teamwork, the mutual understanding, etc., much more than I would ever value that abstract "spark of passion" that you get when you first start dating someone. Check out Mating in Captivity by Esthel Perel. You don't have to sacrifice passion for stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:51 PM
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Yes, because more often than not, they are just hypocrites who regurgitate buzzwords and bite-sized phrases they saw online which they themselves don't know what they actually mean just to feel and appear virtuous. Very rarely do such individuals have deeper knowledge and understanding of the leftist stances and arguments and even more rarely the willpower to actually stick up to their proclaimed beliefs and live that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:03 PM
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Don't let women on Reddit hear you, my guy. They'll start shouting about needing some slowburn and how men are shallow pigs who only want quickies without regards to female pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:36 AM
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Really bad breath that's not fixed with brushing his teeth. If he brushes his teeth regularly, then bad breath comes from the glossal bacteria and dry tonsils, not teeth. He should scrape his tongue every morning and evening and regularly gargle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:34 AM
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Oh, it is a very conservative place. People here are very into chauvinism, anti-West, pro-Russia, pro-China and anti-LGBT, it's just that cops have always been hounds (which is another word for them here) that our kleptocratic oligarchy sends to molest and bully ordinary people. People here may not like you for one reason or the other, but when it comes to screwing over cops, everyone will have your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:27 AM
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Why though?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:22 AM
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Serbia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:13 AM
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Better a whore daughter than a cop son goes the saying where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:05 PM
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A (translated) saying: you eat a sack of salt with someone before you get to know them. Hello, fellow Balkaner, how are you today?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:21 PM
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First there obviously need to be love and sexual chemistry, then understanding, respect, dedication, patience, tolerance. Having someone who just gets you, who listens and remembers the little things, who asks deeper questions about you, who'd never reject your bids for connection, who you share a sense of humor and preferred life activities with. Someone you don't have to make yourself less for or more for, but they inspire you to give them the best version of yourself anyway. All of this deman…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:16 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:39 PM
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Go for it, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:11 PM
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If you’re just looking for casual I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:11 PM
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I think true love doesn't exist for most people anymore, if it ever did. Define "true love". Even the bonds of familial love are becoming less true, so what chance does romance have... Yeah, social atomisation due to capitalism is a bitch. I've just been feeling melancholy about it all lately. How do you guys cope? Friedrich Nietzsche, mostly. He's my go-to whenever I have nihilistic crises.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:08 PM
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Don't wait until 30s. It will be too late by then and everyone will think you are pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:03 PM
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As a man, I'd actually be extremely offended if my lovers talked about our shared experience to everyone, even if it is very positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:03 PM
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Once you understand how this stuff works... it begins to feel very trivial. How does this stuff work?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:11 PM
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What about sexual stuff other than PIV? Nope, never. Kissless virgin here. why just assume a woman will never be enthusiastic about getting with you? Why would she be? At least at my age there is no epidemic of women having duty sex with their boyfriend or just laying there and tolerating the proceedings while he does whatever. And that's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:17 PM
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Nope. Still a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:49 PM
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I am being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:40 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what I'm thinking, good madam.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:26 PM
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Yeah, makes me feel quite depressed at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:13 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:55 PM
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Sometimes, I wonder if I should just make peace with the fact that I'm never going to feel that visceral female desire only the few have been blessed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:53 PM
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LOL, maybe the one in your demented head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:51 PM
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Men in a state of nature are violent, illiterate, antisocial rapers and pillagers. LOL, this isn't true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:48 PM
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Women on PPD are weirdos, just like the men, they just have better PR.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:30 PM
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In all the stuff I read there’s always clit stimulation. It seems I have been reading flawed stories. Then again, what to expect from AO3 and Fanfiction.net?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:53 PM
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Never was into Twilight even when it was popular, but I have indeed always liked werewolves more than vampires.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:52 PM
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But they want Chad and are willing to stay single for an indefinite period of time if they don’t get it. Maybe women in places like Miami, or somewhere similar. I live in Southeastern Europe, where nobody has any concept of Chad. Women here lust after criminals, who can be quite ugly. If we believe women and their libido is more reactive, they can just go awhile without sex and then when they feel the need to have a relationship they compromise and date the average joe that she rejected a few ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:48 PM
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And even during those nights, most don't hook up or look to hook up, but just go and have fun with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:46 PM
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I meant to say "during the phrase of my teenage period where I read werewolf erotica and similar content", but that was a bit too wordy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:45 PM
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Absolutely. The women I find sexiest are tall, dark and handsome. Orange-tanned, blonde shortstacks are just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:44 PM
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I mean, yes, but why the bestiality and strictly ordered caste system based on whether one inseminates or gets inseminated?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:38 PM
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It’s primal. Everything is wild and untamed. Seeing people sexually reduced to their baser instincts is hot. I've actually heard this quite often from women. Aren't you afraid of being hurt when men go all "werewolf" on you, though? Also, in all sex scenes I have read during my werewolf phase, I can't remember any male stimulating the clit. How the hell do those women cum? Plus there are mates. The idea of being tied/bonded to someone for life is just romantic. I mean, this is just marriage 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:37 PM
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Yeah, I got that when I took my regular walk throughout my hometown. Most women are average and unnotable, no way they are getting Chads even on their (Chads') worst days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:35 PM
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Women who are short and/or blonde don't appeal to me in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:33 PM
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I never really understood female obsession with werewolf erotica and Omegaverse. What exactly is so mesmerising about it all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:31 PM
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Far too many men live in a cuckworld where all women are confident and outgoing hotties who gleefully fuck Chad while they (those men) are sociogenetic deadends who sit in the cuckchair and watch while dying inside. I promise you, my guys, neither are they all Chadfucking girlbosses, nor are you a deadend without the ability to ascend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:26 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:17 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:11 PM
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But is he wrong, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:08 PM
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Maybe celibacy isn't all that bad, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:40 PM
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What about men? Do they have to work and consume their whole life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:26 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:20 PM
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I never said that virgins and people who had never been in a LTR are complete social autists, merely that there are some things you pick up when sharing your living space with a person whom you want to consider a vital part of your life and happiness. Not every first time in sex and love has to be disastrous and it can even be nice, but without any prior experience, it can only get so far. I don't think there is any person that would say their first time having sex was better than their tenth ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:42 PM
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Some of them, yes. Once you are in a romantic relationship, that person will have to be skillfully integrated into your life and maintained there as a net positive. You need to know how to properly communicate as for your partner to know what they should do for you and what you should do for them, which is actually a lot harder than many people think due to a variety of factors, plus, you need to be willing to actually try and change and compromise, instead of simply running away. Nobody is a mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:52 PM
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May I ask what brought this suddenly cruel comment about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:15 AM
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It's not necessarily a death-sentence, as you say, but just like being broke, it is certainly a massive disadvantage. Sexual and relationship skills are learned through experience and as the time goes on, people simply don't have either time or desire to teach something one should already know. When you are an adolescent/young adult, it isn't as egregious, because all of you are still developing and coming into your own, but as a mature adult, you are expected to already have a certain experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:01 AM
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No, they wouldn't. Most women are only left-wing about issues that don't affect them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:43 AM
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the greatest concern men have about dating is that they don't trust women's love. they have insecurities and fear greatly the women are in any way just accepting and loving them regardless, rather than impressed with their every typical characteristic that is commonly used to rank men into a competitive intra-male dominance hierarchy. This is spot on. I have always considered women who say a man's sense of humor is most attractive to them very shallow. I am a lot more than my ability to tell fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:23 AM
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Correct, which is why they tend to be dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:15 PM
2

Ok? And?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:51 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:42 AM
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My guy, unless you hit a jackpot, you are never getting sex on demand without resorting to prostitutes. That's all I'm trying to say. Nothing to do with intimacy or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:39 AM
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I agree. Some men really think that because their cock gets hard, a woman should be on it and the refusal to do so is an unjust oppression. Sexually frustrated men should just visit prostitutes instead of raging at women for perceived injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:28 AM
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I disagree with this. I mostly don't see women as equals because I'm physically stronger than them and can push them around with little consequence and I can't respect anyone I can push around with little consequence. I don't really care about them not being Usain Bolt, or being "emotional".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:22 AM
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Sure, if you simply redefine bad things as not bad, then they aren't bad. I don't think I have any retort towards that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:35 PM
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By definition, if it is only being done to someone based on their consent, then it can't be dehumanization. And which definition are you referring to that says dehumanisation can only be nonconsensual. Dehumanisation is dehumanisation, whether the objects of it want or not, and dehumanisation is bad. Even if the objects of dehumanisation like it, what about those who dehumanise? What do we think of people who want and like to dehumanise other people? Certainly nothing good. People get hurt in sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:14 PM
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Liking to do a play version of a bad thing implies that thing isn't bad in and of itself, but that it is nonconsensual is what makes it bad, which is something I heavily disagree. Hurting others for pleasure is bad regardless whether those being hurt want it or not and people enjoying it can only ever be bad. Women who enjoy being dehumanised and dominated in the bedroom imply there are contexts in which dehumanisation and domination can be good, which isn't true. Killing a suicidal person doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:55 PM
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None of these examples are even close to comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:23 PM
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Muscles aren't overrated, it's the fat percentage that is underrated. Most women love physically powerful men, but not the bodybuilder physiques that look like a thin sheet of skin straining on muscles who looked like they have been carved out of stone, because they look both unnatural and uncomfortable to the physical touch. What women do find beautiful and attractive, the so-called "dadbod", is a "swole" physique, the physically strong body with enough fat to make it look soft. Basically, in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:12 AM
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its to pluck our unibrow Really? I just trim it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:59 AM
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I’m a feminist who likes to be dominated in the bedroom. You aren't. Feminism has nothing to do with sexual preferences. BDSM isn't a sexual preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:39 PM
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Big truth. Guys who never had any will be absolutely annihilated with FOMO once they eventually get it and realise what they have been missing all this time, while Chads already had their fill in their youth and don't place nowhere near as great value on sex later in life than late bloomers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:07 PM
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You can believe women should have the right to be equal without wanting to be dominant yourself 100% of the time. There is difference in being dominant 100% of time and outright enjoying making yourself dehumanised. A man being submissive in bed doesn't mean they want to be an actual slave in a women run society, the same applies to women. No, it just means he is a slave in the spirit and the outward dominance is just a false front he puts. Do people who don't drink all want alcohol banned? This…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:14 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:09 PM
1

Yeah, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:08 PM
3

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:08 PM
1

Yes, hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:13 PM
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Creation of good and easily affordable AI and robogirlfriends wouldn't suddenly make women obsolete, but in fact increase their value due to scarcity and effort one needs to expend in order to attract one in comparison to the ease of acquiring a robogirlfriend by anyone with enough money. Having a desirable women be attracted to you would become an exponentially greater symbol of masculine status after the creation and commercialisation of viable robogirlfriends than it is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:57 PM
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Because they are polar opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:52 PM
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As a man, I believe it is. Not only is pornography mentally and socially harmful, why the hell would I watch and jerk off to other women having sex when I am in a committed monogamous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:49 PM
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Women who want to be abused, degrated and dominated in the bedroom can in no way, shape, or form, be feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:46 PM
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Why didn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:27 PM
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Only gender and racial equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:45 PM
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No, but Roman State existed for a thousand years before it collapsed. Something not being around forever doesn't mean it won't be around for centuries. I honestly don't see any end to capitalism through any grassroots movement, but only if either so many people become poor that corporations simply cannot sell anything anymore and capitalism as an economic model gets transformed into something else, or the Third World War completely destroys the civilisation as we know it. "It's easier to imagine…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:04 PM
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Everyone is more attracted to the top 40% rather than the bottom 60%, but most people settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:05 AM
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It's not that most men died sexless, but that we have twice as many female forbears than male, meaning only half as many men managed to reproduce in comparison to women. Many men are simply going to die without leaving any genetic heritage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:10 AM
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Obviously the bare minimum is being confident, having good social skills, being interesting/ fun to be around, being well groomed and well dressed and having good posture / carrying yourself well and making eye contact when you talk to others. If this is bare minimum, what is considered excellent, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:13 AM
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Masculinity to women generally means three things; power, status and competence. Power is the man's ability to remain brave in the face of uncertainty, to have control over his passions for a higher purpose, to repel enemies trying to impose themselves upon him and his loved ones and find balance and meaning within himself. It is inherently intrinsic, meaning that it cannot be bestowed by external factors. This is usually what people call "frame". Mind you, a powerful man doesn't at all have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:08 PM
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why assume people want a high value woman? No mentally healthy person wants to spend energy on something that doesn't bring them any value. I'm a mediocre man, so a mediocre woman should be good enough for me Sure. yet mediocre men don't seem to be good enough for mediocre women nearly as often. Not true. Mediocre men and women form the supermajority of all couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:56 PM
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If this subset is undesirable men, you're still undesirable. Literally how? You'd be above them in value, which means you are more desirable than them. Sure, you won't be as desirable as Brad Pitt in his youth, but you still won't be as undesirable as them, which is progress. Surveys are unreliable, social status has a direct correlation with looks. LOL, says who? This is such an unfounded delusion. Last time I checked, Donald Trump and Xi Jinping neither look like your stereotypical Chads, yet …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:50 PM
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Increasing your own value don't make you a desirable man. You're not competing with another version of you, you're competin with other man. Yes and increasing your value puts you above at least a certain subset of men of lesser value than you, which then increases your chances at least for a certain percentage. Ok the 5'3 balding Indian janitor is now a powerful, high-status and competent man. Is stacies attracted to him? Absolutely. Surveys have been done and the single greatest correlation wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:31 AM
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just world fallacy This phrase's gotta be the biggest excuse of all you Manospherians. My guy, you ain't never getting a desirable woman if you aren't a desirable man. You ever heard of a 5'3 balding Indian janitor slaying celebrity pussy? No, of course not, because that doesn't happen. You gotta be powerful, high-status and competent man if you want to bang and be in a relationship with Stacies. This isn't any Just-World Fallacy, it's simple logic. People from high class don't intermingle with …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:11 AM
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You aren't guaranteed you are going to attract the right partner, but your chances of attracting a high-value partner does indeed increase when you increase your own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:09 AM
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The majority of men get into relationships without having to resort to self-help bullshit Sure, but how many of those relationships are with HVW? You can lower your standards and take a low-functioning gonk who will absolutely adore you, or raise your standards high and date a desirable and attractive women. The latter only comes through effort, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:08 AM
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What happened to the eligible womenfolk of those towns?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:58 AM
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I mean, sure? Putting on additional musclemass when you already have a fit physique won't produce any greater increase in confidence and attractiveness, but when we talk about gymnasion and exercises, we usually talk about people who are out of shape. Certainly, a Greek god going to a gym and becoming Schwarzenegger won't experience any greater advantages and will very likely even experience diminishing returns, but we are talking about these bodytypes, not Greek gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:24 AM
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Life isn't fair, but bitching about it won't change anything, and I'm telling you this as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:04 AM
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Absolutely true, but it's never going to happen. Far too many men run on scarcity-mentality instead of abundance-mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:51 AM
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True, I'd rather just mime
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:34 PM
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Yay, a fellow colleague 😃.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:30 PM
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Considering I study psychology, it'd be pretty bad if I didn't know the difference between asociality and Antisocial Personality Disorder 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:28 PM
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It's over for the asocialcels 😭.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:27 PM
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I don’t swing that way I mean, I look like a bishōnen without beard, so I'm some 60% there. What methods are you using to get laid might I ask? Staying in my room like an asocial weirdo and getting mad women don't break in to have sex with me. Didn't work so far, but I'm certain something is going to change in a year or twenty!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:24 PM
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Sorry, dear neighbor, but us Serbs display our inherent superiority even in this particular domain. So sorry XD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:20 PM
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Question for women: Why do you fuck everybody else except me 😐?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:16 PM
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Uh, no? Only men 60 and up could become Senatores, which doesn't really make sense if only few people lived that long. Keep in mind that most of the premodern mortality was weighted down by childhood mortality, meaning that most people died in their childhood. If you survived to grow up, you had pretty decent chances, barring war and disease, to live to 60+.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:19 PM
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Never understood that either. Thirty is the exact middle of your youth and likely where you're most well rounded in terms of youthful beauty and vigor and socioeconomic status. In Ancient Rome, people would be referred to as youths until they hit fourty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:35 PM
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Ah, alright then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:12 PM
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Ok, and what exactly constitutes a masculine man to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:33 AM
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And then never having sex with her because you prefer your zealous Bedouin waifu who lives on a diet of LSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:37 AM
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Be her ideal fatherly figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:35 AM
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Stop me from eating ass? Unlikely, good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:28 AM
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Doesn't really matter, but my ass-fetish is nonnegotiable. I need to eat ass to feel sexually fulfilled. We don't need to have anal sex, but there won't be a relationship without ass-eating for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:11 AM
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Women love dominant men because they themselves are huge wusses who are too fearful to take control over their own lives and face the issues head-on, thus needing a father-figure onto whom they can outsource the mental labor. This also applies to outwardly-dominant inward-submissive women; you claim you like men dominant in bedroom because that helps you unload and relax when someone else calls the shots, but who helps dominant men unload and relax then? No one does. I swear, you could find a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:10 AM
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LOL, what? So every single man, from Eukleidos to Einstein to Dostoevsky, who has ever read or written a book, is unmanly to you? May I ask what constitutes a manly man for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:25 AM
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Masculinity and feminity are innate aspects of nature. LOL, no. There are indeed certain traits that are more often exhibited by males and certain traits more often exhibited by females, but only as probabilities, never constants. They are immutable LOL, no. What exactly is masculine and what exactly is feminine varies from culture to culture and time from time. Desirable man in Eastern Asia is a sensitive androgynous scholar. Desirable woman in Viking Scandinavia could hack you to pieces with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:59 AM
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She has to let me eat her ass. I won't commit without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:23 AM
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