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5

Speak for yourself.
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:45 AM
1

Speak for yourself, white knight. I've casually said hi to people and had some great conversations. Some people are friendly and approachable and others aren't.
/r/seduction02/06/18 09:54 AM
2

Sorry, you're a pretty young girl. You should be having much greater success than this. Why is that? The guys that she approaches could be in a monogamous relationship or they don't find her attractive. I've been approached by a few cute girls before and I wasn't into any of them for various reasons. And I'm nowhere near Hollywood levels of attractiveness.
/r/seduction18/04/18 06:00 PM
12

If bar, try to get drunk quickly because I'm nervous. That's a huge issue. If you're on a date with someone at a bar, then it's not a good idea to try to get drunk as quickly as possible. The goal is to enjoy a drink with your date and get comfortable as well as enjoy conversation. Do you know why you're nervous? It's a good start to acknowledge why before looking at ways to overcome it or deal with it. Try to brag. Tell cool stories. I strongly recommend that you stop doing that. A cool story h…
/r/seduction01/03/18 04:30 PM
0

All you've done so far is project your insecurities. I almost feel bad for you but then again, you're a random internet stranger. Keep it up with the tough guy attitude. Maybe it'll help you cope with your crippling realization that identity hinges on being a Real Man™.
/r/seduction24/01/18 01:25 AM
2

Enough with the "real men" bullshit. It's obvious that various other factors contributed to his moment of weakness. It's absolutely okay for men to cry. What's seemingly little to one person can be a huge deal to another. Try to have some empathy before you start spouting gate-keeping nonsense.
/r/seduction23/01/18 04:57 AM
2

Did you mean to say the enlightened level of being able to not give a fuck on demand?
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:54 AM
1

But this is common sense. It seems like you went for the "Getting rejected is okay." angle which is fine. Some people need to read that because rejection can hurt a lot. The part about women having the right to reject you is totally unnecessary.
/r/seduction30/12/17 02:40 AM
11

Do you watch a lot of porn? It's good to rule out porn-induced ED. If you do, then that's the reason you're having trouble getting it up. And that can be fixed more easily than performance anxiety. But the latter isn't very difficult to fix either.
/r/seduction18/11/17 10:42 PM
1

I find that the topic of conversation is far less important than the non-verbal signals you give off (and read from her). I like to smile and I want my date to know that I'm interested in her. Whenever I talk, I tend to stare into her eyes and only break eye contact infrequently. I've noticed that when I'm calm and smiling, my date is also calm and smiling. If I appear nervous and fidget a lot, then my date does the same thing. With that said, I can't actually recall what I talk about. It's diff…
/r/seduction10/11/17 07:22 PM
1

The first few times are the hardest because you're not used to it. After that, it won't seem so nerve-wracking. What helped me was trying not to think about what to say. Going in with rehearsed lines will make you come off as not-so-genuine. And if you mess up, you make yourself even more nervous because you relied on what you rehearsed. It's best to put yourself out there otherwise you'll be stuck. Think about the sheer number of people that meet for first dates. So many people do it every day.…
/r/seduction10/11/17 04:45 PM
1

I've gone on many Tinder/Bumble dates and I never found it awkward. I found it enjoyable to have to think on my feet so often times, I went in without rehearsing anything. All I needed to remember was her name and a few important details if we had an interesting phone or text conversation. My biggest worry was having them call me and ask for parking directions. I hated that so much and it definitely made me nervous. You're definitely right though. The few times that things became awkward, I was …
/r/seduction10/11/17 04:42 PM
3

Well said. I don't care about someone any more or any less based on their biological sex or gender. The fact that most wars have been started by men doesn't mean other men deserve it. It also doesn't mean that women should ignore the issue. It's sad that it usually boils down to an "us vs. them" mentality. People need to stop taking sides and just try to help one another on an individual basis.
/r/MensRights14/09/17 07:56 PM
1

So, if something important came up.. she's suddenly not worth your time anymore? Explain that one to me.
/r/seduction20/05/17 07:25 PM
2

Don't respond. She can enjoy it while not being into you as more than a friend. Move on.
/r/seduction21/04/17 03:34 PM
2

It's creepy as fuck but it doesn't make him a pedo. They're adults in the eyes of the law. Hell, they can act in porn and get paid. Is a 20-year-old a pedo for having sex with an 18-year-old?
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:08 PM
1

It could just be low sensitivity to T. If you watch a lot of porn and masturbate frequently, then your body won't respond as strongly to T. Quitting helps.
/r/seduction21/02/17 08:01 AM
7

How long though? Drastically lowered dopamine sensitivity takes time to be undone. And it varies from person to person.
/r/seduction21/02/17 08:00 AM
2

Move on. Your window of opportunity closed the moment your wants didn't align with hers. She doesn't want a relationship. She's young and she wants to have fun. The initial attraction may have been there but it's likely all gone now. Take this as a real loss and forget about her. You shouldn't be so fixated on a girl that gives you attention.
/r/seduction13/01/17 09:18 AM
1

Pillow talk. Cuddling and talking after sex.
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:25 AM
5

Perhaps you came on too strongly. Maybe the sex wasn't good. It's possible that you didn't do any or enough post-sex talk.
/r/seduction10/01/17 10:43 AM
2

Geez. My man. That was inspiring. 10/10, wish I was there to witness it and learn.
/r/seduction07/01/17 02:47 PM
4

Lots of single moms out there that need some tender loving and care. They're usually quite mature and not into playing games unlike half of the late-teen/early 20s girls.
/r/seduction11/10/16 10:29 PM
4

I can't shave my facial hair without risking someone thinking I'm 19. I'm a couple of years shy of 30.
/r/seduction11/10/16 10:28 PM
2

I find it amusing that you dug your hole deeper and deeper with unnecessary sarcasm. I'm sure you'll respond with even more sarcasm.
/r/seduction11/08/16 01:15 PM
2

Over the years, I've learned that it's more effective for me to be concise. Anytime I get a girl's number in person, I send her my full name. She can find me on Facebook with it and she knows my last name which is a little more personal. The only time I send "Hey, it's so and so." is if I got the number through an online dating app. I don't agree with everything he said in the video. I'm more of a text only to make plans kind of guy. I prefer talking on the phone and eventually meeting in person…
/r/seduction23/07/16 01:16 PM
2

In my experience, I get way more invites to parties than my male friends. Being welcomed with a nice hug makes a huge difference. And it beats walking in awkwardly with your bros.
/r/seduction09/07/16 09:55 AM
4

It's really fucking creepy. The only people that think this is okay are weird guys with little to no sex lives. They project themselves onto the boy "getting it" from an older woman. Fucking gross.
/r/seduction14/04/16 12:11 AM
1

This part bothered me: "to see if they actually have a meaningful adding to our conversations" No wonder he doesn't enjoy going out at night. An attitude like that makes people want to avoid you, especially women. So much of the game is based on non-verbal communication. If you're not smiling and at the very least looking like you're having a good time, then it'll be harder to attract someone. When I go out at night, I don't go out for the sole purpose of getting laid. I go out to have a good ti…
/r/seduction15/03/16 11:01 AM
2

The issue isn't necessarily with getting the number. It's the mindset change after you get the number. It's seen as a victory and you scale back. I've had nights where I've gotten a number and I felt happy about it. Then I send a text the next day and get a weird reply or no reply at all. I could get the number and continue the interaction but I scale back a lot and end the night on a low note. Nowadays I just wait until she offers her number and suggests we should keep in touch. That way, I'll …
/r/seduction10/03/16 05:01 AM
1

Where?
/r/seduction10/03/16 04:58 AM
1

Don't even waste your time with option 2. It's potentially worse because there's a chance the flaker isn't aware of their flakery. Doing it on purpose is childish.
/r/seduction09/03/16 05:08 AM
1

Yeah eh. It's unfortunate that she has issues socializing. But that's not someone I'd want to spend time with.
/r/seduction03/03/16 11:33 PM
3

It's like removing a bandaid really quickly. Most girls aren't used to it so the shock factor would likely be there. I've done it myself and I've also done the slow fadeaway which can easily turn into a Q&A session as to why the date wasn't good. "Was it something I said?" "Is it my looks?" "You just wanna get laid, don't you?"
/r/seduction02/03/16 02:09 PM
6

Shit went down in the DM. Bravo, dude. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction18/02/16 02:51 AM
1

I think it's about avoiding negative emotional responses. If you attack someone and make them feel bad, they'll get defensive. And if you approach them with tact and positiveness, then they'll accept your help with open arms.
/r/seduction16/02/16 10:28 PM
2

A gay guy hitting on a straight guy isn't the same as a straight guy hitting on a straight woman. There's potential for reciprocal attraction with the latter. That can't happen between a gay man and a straight man. A woman, for example, can say no to a guy despite finding him sexually attractive. Some women actively avoid men they're strongly attracted to because they feel their judgment is clouded around them. Also, some guys experience creepy girls trying to hit on them. And it sucks. I've had…
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:50 AM
2

It's good to be direct but that's too direct. I find it helps to build comfort with a short conversation first before taking things off Tinder. In my experience, it's better to plan things after getting her number.
/r/seduction25/01/16 02:56 PM
1

From what little you've told us, I'd say you have low self esteem that stems from a fear of rejection. You may be afraid of opening up and showing real interest because you don't want to get hurt in the end. You need to spend a lot of time thinking about why you feel this way. It'll help you realize your flaw and maybe one day you'll work on eliminating it.
/r/seduction22/01/16 05:01 PM
2

It should be taught to people, not just men. I've seen a guy get touched inappropriately by a group of girls at a party and he was unconscious. It's fucking disgusting because the girls thought they weren't doing anything wrong. As if they were incapable of sexually assaulting a guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/16 03:45 PM
2

Hahahaha! Oh man, you gave me a good laugh. Thanks. White knights can be amusing but this is even funnier. Loved the usage of "thy".
/r/PussyPassDenied23/11/15 11:21 PM
3

Why would you side with her? What she said about all men sexually harassing women is false. I wouldn't side with any of them but I have greater disdain for the men in that video.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/11/15 11:14 PM
0

For the most part, that's really good advice. But one thing you missed is physical attraction. If you lack it, then no amount of confidence will help you unless you go for girls that are also unattractive (e.g. overweight). I know it's a harsh thing to say and I know that beauty is subjective but sometimes, it's objective. With that said, I'll assume that OP isn't an ugly duckling so acting confident would help him a lot. For his sake though, he either needs to step up his game or end the friend…
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:55 PM
3

More accurately, culture-specific.
/r/seduction28/10/15 03:32 AM
1

Well, it depends on the kind of party. It's a great way to meet someone through a friend. Simply meeting them at a party doesn't mean you won't have a successful relationship with someone.
/r/seduction25/10/15 06:25 PM
1

You're right. Day game is a lot better for setting up future dates. People are more likely to be drunk at parties. And they're also more likely to have sex. If that's not what you want, then you're better off meeting people during the day.
/r/seduction25/10/15 06:24 PM
2

Well said. There's nothing wrong with sleeping around.
/r/seduction25/10/15 06:23 PM
1

We? Speak for yourself. Not all of us are into slut-shaming.
/r/seduction25/10/15 03:23 PM
1

That isn't the ultimate goal of seddit but I was responding to OP. He said that he wants a girlfriend and there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction25/10/15 03:20 PM
0

No, I don't.
/r/seduction25/10/15 03:19 PM
-2

You flirt with and kiss multiple girls at a party too?
/r/seduction24/10/15 11:37 AM
6

Oh, by flirting and kissing with 8 or 9 girls and then wondering why he doesn't like them? That's the best way to find a girlfriend. Lead by example, right?
/r/seduction24/10/15 11:36 AM
189

So you flirted and kissed 8 or 9 girls and you're wondering if there's something wrong with you because you don't find that attractive. How would you feel about a girl that saw you do that and want nothing to do with you? I dunno, is there something wrong with her? If you're looking for a girlfriend, then act like it.
/r/seduction24/10/15 11:34 AM
1

This is the only way you can overcome approach anxiety. I used to have it pretty bad years ago. I still get it every now and then today but it doesn't hold me back.
/r/seduction15/10/15 09:24 AM
9

It's better not to text if you have no intention of meeting up with her. Good on you for deciding against his advice.
/r/seduction15/10/15 09:23 AM
4

In case you don't know what you just did, you asked a loaded question. It's a logical fallacy. It happens to the best of us.
/r/MensRights12/10/15 09:42 AM
2

This is really good advice. I could see myself falling victim to "changing". It's so easy to think you're being better for a girlfriend if you cater to her needs all the time. Now I see why that would be boring and how it could kill a relationship.
/r/seduction11/10/15 06:46 PM
2

She's not interested in you anymore so you should move on. Try to ease back the next time a girl says you're too forward. If that's not your thing, then date another girl.
/r/seduction16/09/15 11:24 AM
1

I once realized that I was more successful when I didn't care about hitting on a girl and cared about enjoying myself. When people see you having a good time and smiling, they perceive you in a positive light and that helps with seduction. Also, girls won't put their guard up because they know you're not trying to hit on them. Well played, OP. Well played.
/r/seduction16/09/15 11:02 AM
3

It's not even that. You got the number too quickly and didn't develop any rapport. Most girls won't reply after that unless you're celebrity-level hot. Don't worry, it happens. This is why I prefer meeting girls at house parties. I can talk with them and get to know them before getting their number.
/r/seduction16/09/15 10:54 AM
8

She's a 9 to him and that's all that matters.
/r/seduction31/07/15 07:49 AM
0

That's a pretty messed up thing to say.
/r/seduction09/07/15 06:50 PM
1

Once you realize the important of eye contact, it's easy to notice who's looking at you. If someone looks at you more than once, chances are they're at least interested in you.. or there's something on your face. Seriously, look back and hold eye contact if you catch a girl staring. And if it happens more than once, consider approaching her. Every girl that has ever found me attractive has done the same thing. They stared at me when they thought I wasn't looking. I've glanced back at most of the…
/r/seduction03/07/15 05:36 PM
5

Be like, "Hey, what's up? Hello."
/r/seduction03/07/15 05:33 PM
3

That's quite a leap of logic. It's one thing to reward hard work but it's another to base everything on success. Hard work is more important because the ones that do poorly will still have motivation to keep trying.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 08:41 AM
5

Why is it silly? They're obviously happy with the arrangement.
/r/seduction16/04/15 01:58 PM
4

Out of sight, out of mind. Human beings like to categorize everything. OP showed her that he didn't fit into her preconceived category of "guys at clubs". He didn't have to show her that her way of thinking is incorrect, but he did it anyway because he wanted to. And it paid off.
/r/seduction15/03/15 04:20 PM
1

Damn.
/r/seduction10/03/15 01:45 AM
3

I like to believe that approach anxiety has a scientific explanation that ties back to our ancestors. As for guys that have girlfriends, even they get approach anxiety.
/r/seduction08/02/15 06:06 PM
39

Exactly. The nonsense about a generation being raised by women doesn't explain why heterosexual and bisexual males have approach anxiety with women.
/r/seduction08/02/15 12:56 PM
1

You're right. It makes you stand out.
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:56 PM
4

That's a poor way of justifying it. Whether or not she'd do it with someone else is irrelevant. What matters is the action taken by OP. He decided not to have sex with her because she has a boyfriend. That's the right thing to do, even if she called a guy to fuck 15 minutes after OP left her apartment.
/r/seduction28/12/14 02:43 AM
1

You might be right. Most girls I've asked said they wouldn't date bisexual men.
/r/seduction27/12/14 05:34 AM
0

"I'm gay but I want to be straight. Help me out." I wouldn't do it but I'd like to see the results of an experiment like that.
/r/seduction24/12/14 05:39 AM
3

Hahaha! I'm saving that picture.
/r/seduction17/12/14 03:38 PM
1

I'm sure you've noticed how multicultural Canada is. Being white here isn't a requirement for getting a lot of matches. Even going to areas that are predominately white works in the favour of non-whites. My buddies and I went to Port Hope (small town in Ontario) and hit up some bars there. All eyes on us when we walked in just about describes it. We were exotic specimens in unfamiliar territory. And we weren't ready. I guess you're right about California. Even as a Torontonian, I've heard of sto…
/r/seduction08/12/14 03:06 PM
4

You've obviously never been to Canada (specifically, Toronto).
/r/seduction08/12/14 02:51 PM
-4

It's 2014. Step 1 is irrelevant.
/r/seduction08/12/14 02:39 PM
43

Talk about inspiration. Nice one, man. It's the nights where you have no expectations that end up being the best. I've had similar ones where I simply didn't care about whether or not I'd pick up a girl. The last time I did it, I had a cute redhead asking for my name. It made me appear nonthreatening and therefore approachable. I had a great chat with her, got her number and I even made out with her. As you said, the moral of the story is to put yourself out there and expose yourself to women. N…
/r/seduction07/12/14 09:21 AM
-1

I'm not your citizen, denizen!
/r/seduction20/11/14 12:48 AM
2

How the fuck is 5'8" considered very short? Also, the fact that you're a girl doesn't make you an expert on male height. What I said about male height preference is something that applies to most girls. You're obviously an exception to this.
/r/seduction09/11/14 07:44 PM
10

I agree. It's a stupid double standard that needs to go away. As you said, height can't be changed. Someone's weight can be changed but so many women are sensitive about it. And when feelings get hurt, guys get the blame. They're expected to "man up" when it comes to getting their feelings hurt. I'm 6'1" myself so I'm fortunate enough to not be rejected because of my height. With that said, I really feel for short guys that get ignored by women. It sucks that in today's society, there's a lot of…
/r/seduction08/11/14 11:36 PM
6

In my experience, height adds a lot to male attractiveness from a female's perspective. That and being lean. Of course, that's assuming you have an okay and reasonably symmetrical face. It sucks but being short is seen as unattractive, regardless of your "facial aesthetics". It's something primal.
/r/seduction08/11/14 11:15 PM
1

That's why it's a good idea to get someone's opinion, preferably from the opposite sex.
/r/seduction04/11/14 04:11 PM
3

I can confirm. Dark-skinned with reddish undertone. And it's noticeable (in a good way). People have told me I'm glowing and that my skin looks great.
/r/seduction04/11/14 04:06 PM
1

I'd hardly call that a joke or a reminder. She knew what she said earlier, otherwise she wouldn't have asked OP if he was still interested. It's a bad idea to do something out of spite. And it's also a bad idea to do anything against your wishes. If OP wasn't interested at the time, then he made the right decision. Let's leave it at that.
/r/seduction31/10/14 04:35 AM
1

It happened to me once when I was 17. There was a girl that I really liked and we hung out and dated. After awhile, I asked her "Where are we going with this?" She replied that she didn't want a boyfriend, just a friend. I was said but I didn't say anything and then she started dating another guy. By the way, this guy was an asshole. It didn't work out and her excuse was that she said no to him because she realized she wanted me instead. I said "I'm sorry for you, but you lost your chance." I do…
/r/seduction31/10/14 04:31 AM
2

If I were you, I would've sent a text after 10 minutes asking her how long it would take her to get here. It's easy to assume that the person flaked but sometimes, shit happens. A friend of mine made plans to meet with a girl and she didn't show up. It turns out that she was arrested by the cops for smoking weed in public and had her phone taken away.
/r/seduction13/10/14 02:26 PM
7

The difference is guys tend to be larger, heavier and stronger than girls. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand why girls give fake numbers.
/r/seduction13/10/14 01:48 PM
1

😜
/r/seduction13/10/14 09:00 AM
4

Just smile and look like you enjoy being where you are. If you feel bored or miserable, then it'll show in your body language.
/r/seduction07/09/14 08:59 AM
2

Surely you meant "might as well".
/r/seduction23/08/14 08:43 AM
2

That's really good advice. The urge to call someone out is strong but I've learned to acknowledge a lie and move on.
/r/seduction23/08/14 08:42 AM
3

I feel your pain.
/r/seduction10/08/14 03:57 AM
47

I learned this the hard way. I still cringe a little when I think back to the times I used to follow girls around like a duckling.
/r/seduction09/08/14 09:58 PM
2

Nice.
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:16 AM
1

Fuckin' eh. That's expensive. I want it though.
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:14 AM
1

Good catch.
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:12 AM
3

This is an advertising campaign for Scent Truck. A story to reel in people and a couple of name-drops for 'this cool website'. Another employee chimes in and says something like "Wow. I just tried it and it's so easy." You should have been honest from the start.
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:11 AM
25

Hahahahahaha! Thanks for making my day. Gotta love how Dota leaks into other subreddits.
/r/seduction01/07/14 09:16 PM
9

He realized it by experiencing something similar from the girl's perspective. When guys make an approach in an not-so-confident manner, it turns girls off.
/r/seduction12/06/14 07:55 AM
1

Nice.
/r/seduction12/06/14 07:53 AM
1

I was raised in Toronto and lived here for 21 years and honestly it's a shithole and to compare it as superior to Hamilton's bars is a testament to your inability to know where to hit. See? I can do that too.
/r/seduction07/06/14 11:49 AM
1

I went to some bars in Port Hope and I've had more success and fun there than I ever did in Toronto. Heck, even Hess village in Hamilton was a blast. Some of the best memories I have were made there. And cover was only $5 when I went in 2009-2012. The atmosphere is very different too. Toronto clubs and bars feel too crowded and "big city"-ish. In my limited experience, places outside of Toronto are much better.
/r/seduction07/06/14 06:52 AM
1

That's what this subreddit is for. :)
/r/seduction05/06/14 06:52 AM
2

Ignore the haters, OP. Anyone that says "HURR DURR IT'S ONLY $20 YOU CHEAP FAGGOT!" has self esteem issues to deal with. If it's only $20, why don't they flush a $20 bill down the toilet? I would have done the same thing. When it comes to my shit and feeling robbed, cheated, or used.. I have no shame in asking for what's mine. Don't feel bad about what you did. She thought she could get a free movie by meeting up with you and she was wrong.
/r/seduction05/06/14 06:09 AM
2

Think about it. You're not supposed to talk while watching a movie in a theatre. And because you can't talk, you can't develop rapport or seduce a woman. It's just the two of you sitting still with your eyes glued to a giant screen.
/r/seduction05/06/14 06:05 AM
9

I'm interested. Link it here.
/r/seduction27/05/14 09:58 PM
2

Interesting.
/r/seduction05/05/14 03:05 PM
5

Part of seduction is getting out of your comfort zone and meeting new people. It's hard to do that when everyone is using their smartphones and appearing unapproachable.
/r/seduction04/05/14 04:55 AM
1

That's a pretty nasty thing to say about the girls that use Tinder. Not all of them are using it for an ego boost or sex. Some of them are really busy and don't have the time to go to bars or clubs to meet a guy. And most of them want something that's long-term. Also, a match doesn't mean you're going to meet up with a girl and have sex. I've matched with a lot of girls but half of them don't reply. I simply move on now. I used to feel bitter about it and block them after a couple of days but I …
/r/seduction01/05/14 05:13 PM
6

I was waiting for this video. Nice. I like how you handled the girl that wanted you to say "please". I don't think anyone should beg for a number and if someone asks me to say please, I feel like they're asking me to beg. We're not children and unless I want you to do me a favour, I won't say please.
/r/seduction01/05/14 05:09 PM
1

Do you honestly believe that being white makes you more attractive? I know plenty of white guys that have very little success with women. Maybe it's because I live in Canada where multiculturalism is promoted. I'm Somali and I haven't had problems with getting matches on Tinder. It's mainly about your physical appearance but that alone wont' get you matches. Your pictures need to be decent. Not amazing, but good enough. If you're not ugly, then chances are the women in your area have different p…
/r/seduction01/05/14 05:07 PM
2

You can't help someone if they're not willing to help themselves. Excuses and denial, that's all you get from people like him. Anyway, a minor thing but it's "Somali". Somalian refers to people living in Somalia, regardless of ethnicity.
/r/seduction01/05/14 05:02 PM
0

Lol what. I'm Somali and I've had success with Tinder.
/r/seduction01/05/14 04:59 PM
3

Nice.
/r/seduction16/04/14 12:31 AM
1

I'm sorry, did you want some tissue paper? Gotta wipe off those tears and snot from your face.
/r/seduction14/04/14 10:36 PM
2

No problem. I wouldn't want my girlfriend to cheat on me just like any other guy but I hate it when people blame everyone but their girlfriend when it's her fault. It's become a cliché in media and every time I see a guy charge into a room to try to kick the other guy's ass, I ask myself "Why the hell isn't he confronting the girl? She slept with the guy and it takes two to tango."
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:28 PM
1

You're an insecure little boy that's blaming his problems on strangers. Stop crying.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:25 PM
1

No thanks. How did it feel when your girlfriends liked other guys more than you? Must have stung.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:02 PM
4

Nice job at projecting your insecurities onto someone other than the person at fault. She initiated everything. He never made any moves to "steal" anyone. If I had a girlfriend that did something like that, I'd ask her why she was doing it. I wouldn't blame the guy she was flirting with unless he made a move.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:40 PM
1

Interesting.
/r/seduction12/04/14 06:05 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/seduction12/04/14 06:04 AM
0

What is it that I'm not seeing objectively?
/r/seduction09/04/14 09:03 AM
0

What about confirmation bias? I try my best to avoid it.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:57 AM
1

Damn dude. Instead of crossing the finish line, you took your shorts off and mooned the crowd. I never joke about age with females.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:57 AM
2

Move on. Why waste your time on her if she's always "busy"?
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:50 AM
1

I would have called her out and went home. You shouldn't have to tolerate rudeness for sex. It kinda makes you seem desperate.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:48 AM
1

A disk image? There was more than one: .iso and .dmg (used in Mac OS).
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:47 AM
2

No problem. And yes, reciprocation is a good way to deal with guys like that (as long as it's something positive). Don't ever get into a fight for a girl you barely know.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:19 AM
4

Humor by itself doesn't make you more attractive. Humor coupled with confidence and good looks makes you attractive. More attractive than good looks and confidence.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:16 AM
3

I disagree. It should be taken seriously but it's very general. It's more of a confirmation of what most of us would say is "common sense".
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:14 AM
1

It's social contrast. You're being cool and social around people so you've got the spotlight. If it's reciprocated, then you're sharing the spotlight.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:12 AM
1

go meet some dumb broad at the bar What the fuck?
/r/seduction08/04/14 05:19 AM
3

If a woman doesn't want to have sex with you, let it be. All this friend zone nonsense needs to end. It's sad that some guys are so desperate to fuck anything with two legs that they'd be frustrated if a female friend doesn't want to have sex.
/r/seduction08/04/14 05:17 AM
0

No. That video was awful.
/r/seduction08/04/14 05:14 AM
25

What it all boils down to is inner game and being in the moment. Carpe diem that shit. My best game has come from being in the moment and feeling very confident. Just smiling and looking like I'm enjoying myself. I've had girls tell me that they like being around me because I give off a very positive and "feel good" vibe. Nobody likes to be around a Debbie downer. That's why complaining about something, as a guy, is very unattractive. Great post brother.
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:58 AM
1

Modesty is a good attribute. Feel good about yourself, not about how many girls you've had sex with. PS: Can you PM me too? Pretty please. I must learn. I need examples.
/r/seduction21/03/14 08:50 PM
3

That's the best thing you can do in your situation. You only find her physically attractive so why should you tolerate her rudeness? It's not like she can't see your texts or missed calls. She's purposely ignoring you because she knows you like her and she's rude.
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:20 PM
1

Great report. Seems like you have a good chance with her. I'd avoid going out with her and the friend a lot. It might get to a point where things get awkward when the friend isn't there. And even when the friend is there. Most people don't enjoy being a third wheel and witnessing it. I'd feel uncomfortable dancing with a girl I like while her friend danced alone beside us.
/r/seduction16/03/14 06:53 AM
1

Same here. My brain put an imaginary quotation mark at the end just to make sense of things. I didn't notice the missing quotation mark after "plans".
/r/seduction16/03/14 06:43 AM
4

What you mentioned about the highpoints gave me a sense of clarity. I've been doing it without even realizing it for awhile now. I just haven't been doing it enough. I convinced myself long ago that my highpoints are what accelerated the seduction process. I was way too focused on myself and how I affected her that I ignored the reality of it all. Her responses matter and people love it when they're complimented or kino-escalated right after doing something like cracking a funny joke. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/03/14 06:37 AM
1

How do you pronounce your username?
/r/seduction16/03/14 06:33 AM
1

Although there's a lot of variation from individual to individual, it has a lot to do with sexual orientation. Homosexual men and heterosexual women are more alike in personality and brain makeup than heterosexual men and women. The same goes for heterosexual men and homosexual women. Those are extremely simple comparisons though. In the real world, everyone lies on a sexual orientation spectrum. I imagine most people aren't 100% heterosexual or homosexual.
/r/seduction15/03/14 06:01 PM
1

I was just about to say this. And I partly agree with the OP. It's a mix of psychological characteristics that are unique to heterosexual females and social conditioning. There's also a biological basis for it too. The emotional centre in the female brain is larger. That's why women have a more obvious flight response. The distinction shouldn't be made with sex. It should be made with sexual orientation.
/r/seduction15/03/14 05:54 PM
4

I think the latter is highly unlikely. Why would she invest so much effort into rejecting you like that? It's more likely that she was telling the truth. It's not like she took her time to respond.
/r/seduction15/03/14 05:51 PM
2

It's a Star Trek reference. There's an alien race called the Borg. Essentially, they're a collective of members from many alien species that have been assimilated by them through nanotechnology. They inject nanites into their bloodstream and turn them into cyborgs. All of their minds are connected to create "the collective". I was reminded of them when you said, "I will adapt it to my personality". This is what the Borg say to an alien right before they assimilate them: "We are the Borg. Lower y…
/r/seduction14/03/14 11:54 PM
3

That was a very interesting read. I really enjoy grinding with girls and nowadays, it's widely accepted as a normal way of dancing. A lot of the girls I've grinded with at parties and in clubs were okay with it. The key is to not touch a girl between her legs. I've seen guys do that and get slapped. It's kinda stupid too, to do it in public.
/r/seduction14/03/14 10:48 PM
1

Resistance is futile.
/r/seduction14/03/14 10:10 PM
0

Trust me, it's not a good idea to use smiley faces as a guy. Girls take you less seriously when you use them. And it makes you seem overly excited which is something you don't want to convey over a text. The more serious you are, the more manly you seem. And the more attractive you appear.
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:23 AM
2

This.
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:23 AM
2

That's actually really good advice. Using smiley faces is something girls do. You want to stand apart from her female friends. Women find it attractive when a guy acts like his world doesn't revolve around sending messages like "Happy birthday! :)" or "How was your day? :D"
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:23 AM
1

Amazing. I want to do something like this in the summer. Thanks for inspiring me, dude.
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:13 AM
6

It's for guys that masturbate a lot to porn. You eventually become desensitized to it and need even greater stimuli to be aroused. After years of masturbating, it results in decreased sensitivity to sexual stimuli. There are guys out there that can't get it up without watching a hardcore pornographic video. By not masturbating for an extended period of time, you slowly increase your sensitivity to sexual stimuli. I don't know how long it takes to repair all the damage but it seems to work for mo…
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:03 AM
3

Nice one for responding to most of the comments in your thread.
/r/seduction14/03/14 04:16 AM
1

We're talking about text-based communication here. Anything like that is rude because it's hard to interpret emotion or tone from text. If you add something extra to it, then I guess it would work. Granted, not all girls respond the same way to something rude. Some might enjoy it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:34 PM
2

Something like "Suck my dick." or "Wanna fuck?" Mostly things you wouldn't feel comfortable saying to a stranger in public.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:40 PM
2

You don't have to put that in your bio. A lot of girls are down to have sex. It's simply a matter of not appearing rude. If you're rude, then you have an extremely low chance of having sex. If you're a gentleman but also escalate things, then you have a good chance at fucking her.
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:52 PM
2

Not necessarily. A girl may be attractive but that doesn't mean she'll be good in bed. I've had sex with girls that almost broke my penis when they tried to ride me. Inexperience and high expectations results in bad sex for both sexes. Also, are you willing to put in as much effort as the guy? Your expectations are high and I hope you aren't surprised by a guy if his expectations are high as well.
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:49 PM
3

That's the truth. A lot of the guys here are too scared to approach girls right in front of them.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:06 AM
3

I cringed a little at what the OP wrote. Your breakdown made it even worse. #getwrekt
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:05 AM
22

An opener is the least important part of an interaction. I'd be more interested in the OP's body language.
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:30 PM
1

I know. The majority of /r/seduction visitors are guys though and they need the most improvement.
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:19 PM
1

Thanks for making me smile. :) I wish more guys were as enlightened as me when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex.
/r/seduction11/03/14 05:25 AM
1

No problem. I've been in your shoes once before. It's something that you move on from.
/r/seduction11/03/14 05:23 AM
2

It is. Would a gentleman say that to a girl in public? Hell no. Sex needs to be framed as something both people enjoy. Not something the man gets and enjoys for himself. Also, sex is just as important as post-sex. Girls are, in general, more emotional than guys and a guy with good social skills would know that. You don't just fuck a girl and leave her. It just makes her feel like a slut and that isn't fair. And then there's guys that barely make any sounds during sex. Come on. You're a human bei…
/r/seduction11/03/14 05:06 AM
1

No, but don't overuse it. The more subtle it is, the better. That way people will only notice the smell when they're really close to you as opposed to smelling it after you've walked by. Personally, I think it's a waste to use it at work. Deodorant works fine for me.
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:57 AM
1

You spelled it the way it's pronounced. It's Gucci, not Guchi. The double C in Italian makes a "ch" sound.
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:56 AM
2

To some girls it is, to others it isn't. Personally, I think it's rude. Girls want to have sex just as much as guys but there's so much pressure on them to have as little sex as possible. Society places a girl's worth on how many times she spreads her legs. The more she fucks, the sluttier she is. It's sad. A lot of the girls I've been with would say things like "EWWW I would never suck dick." and would perform really good oral sex on me behind closed doors.
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:54 AM
2

Oh boy, where do I start... Stop texting her. The more you text her, the less meaningful your texts are to her. Things like "How was your day?" and "What are you doing now?" is the equivalent of email spam. It's boring and it makes you look needy. Take a break from her. You're becoming obsessed with this girl and it isn't healthy, both socially and physically. You don't want your entire world revolving around this girl. Sure, you may like her... but don't kiss the ground that she walks on. Give …
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:46 AM
2

Very nice. She laughed a lot which is obviously a good sign.
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:32 AM
1

Wow. It really shows how awesome it is when people aren't afraid of opening up. Their body language went from reserved and distant to exuberant and intimate. One of the women even mirrors the guy. You'll notice it when you watch the video. Thanks for posting it, OP.
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:21 AM
14

Whoa. Hold on. I get a decent amount of matches. Not a lot but it's not as bad as you make it seem. One of my African friends gets an insane number of matches. He has so many that he's considering uninstalling the app because he keeps getting notifications for new matches and messages.
/r/seduction09/03/14 08:45 PM
1

Hey now, I'm Somali and it's working fine for me. Strangely, all of my matches have been with white girls and half-black/half-white girls. No Asians or Africans.
/r/seduction09/03/14 08:43 PM
4

You silver-tongued devil, you... Good job man.
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:31 AM
1

The first step is to try to not feel bad about it. It's definitely not a pleasant feeling but it shouldn't get under your skin. There are so many reasons as to why people don't return calls or reply to text messages. They could be busy, taking a break from their everyday life, or they simply don't want to communicate with you. There's no need to feel sad about the latter. If that person doesn't want to keep in touch like that, then stop contacting them. It's as easy as that. If they contact you …
/r/seduction17/02/14 04:21 AM
2

This is really great advice. Thanks for sharing this.
/r/seduction29/01/14 07:30 PM
93

You know what else works? Quickly checking your watch. I've caught girls staring at me and checking watches they didn't have after me. That's when I knew for sure that a girl was checking me out. I don't do it often though. I have this weird ability to easily tell who's looking at me. Dat gaze perception.
/r/seduction23/01/14 09:28 PM
6

You sound emotionally compromised. And I'm not trying g to sound like an asshole. If someone ignores you, then move on with your life. There's no need to be spiteful about it. That's what children and unstable teenagers do. Just go on with your life and if an opportunity to hang out comes up, then take it. If someone disrespects you, then cut them out of your life. Also, women can be friends too.
/r/seduction23/01/14 09:25 PM
2

Another thing is people's refusal to use periods when it comes to text messaging. They see it as "instant" messaging when it really isn't. It's delayed messaging. It's annoying when I get three or four text messages at once when all of them could have been sent in one text message with periods.
/r/seduction13/01/14 10:54 PM
3

It's easy to get caught up in the thrill of texting. The key is to realize the pointlessness of it when it comes to building attraction when distance is an issue. Use it to keep in touch, not to flirt. Save that for a girl you see regularly.
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:48 AM
2

Why not keep in touch on Facebook or catch up on Skype? It's better than long distance texting.
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:47 AM
1

I've been using proper spelling, grammar and punctuation ever since I was in middle school (back when MSN Messenger started to get popular). I find that people pay more attention to grammar and punctuation as they get older. It's kinda silly for a 17- to 28-year-old to text like a 13-year-old girl. Little things like "u" don't bother me as much as "lol wut da hell".
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:46 AM
3

You shouldn't respond to unimportant texts unless you're extremely bored. And I stress the word extremely.
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:43 AM
2

Use periods if you aren't already doing so. I find that most guys send rapid fire texts because they don't use periods. In order to separate sentences, they simply hit the send button. Send one well-written text and put your phone down until you get a response. I find it very annoying when I get multiple text messages at once.
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:42 AM
1

Neither am I, friend. Neither am I. We're all here to learn a little thing or to about picking up women.
/r/seduction25/12/13 09:16 PM
1

Agreed. There's no need to make it seem like an excuse to talk to her. A simple transition will do and she'll forget you even asked her for directions in the first place.
/r/seduction25/12/13 12:24 PM
1

That just makes you seem less masculine. Men are known to know their way around. And keep you safe from what? Other women? I'm not trying to be mean or anything but that isn't good advice. What /u/VMikeL said here is the best advice.
/r/seduction25/12/13 12:24 PM
1

That's a pretty selfish thing to do and although I disagree with it, you're free to do anything that doesn't break the law. I'd never have sex with a girl that has a boyfriend because I wouldn't want something like that to happen to me.
/r/seduction20/10/13 09:58 AM
2

This is the kind of experience that will rid you of the oneitis curse. You quickly realize that there are other beautiful women out there that will potentially get intimate with you. Congrats man. I bet you feel revitalized.
/r/seduction20/10/13 09:48 AM
2

If you don't like it, then don't go clubbing. I prefer house parties to clubbing but I don't demonize people that enjoy the night life.
/r/seduction20/10/13 09:43 AM
4

There's nothing wrong with grinding as long as it's done in moderation. Spending the majority of your night grinding on a girl is both tiring and boring. I sometimes grind on girls and turn them around after the song is done to flirt. The benefit of grinding is breaking that touch barrier. As for not buying a girl a drink, that's good advice. She may be a girl but she's also a stranger.
/r/seduction20/10/13 09:40 AM
1

How would one help someone who is delusional not be if no one helps them. My goodness, please read what you type. You're throwing around words like "delusional" and "psycho" for no reason other than to make the OP, as well as the rest of us, look bad. You're under the false belief that the purpose of this subreddit is to get men laid. There's more to the social dynamics between males and females than sex. You speak about /r/seduction as some sort of "philosophy" (please look up the definition of…
/r/seduction18/10/13 12:26 AM
1

No, she's a graceful bald eagle. Of course she's a human. Why did you feel the need to mention something so obvious? Also, what makes us delusional psychos? There's nothing contradictory about what he said, so no delusion there. And there's nothing to indicate that he's suffering from a mental disorder (so no psychopathy there). PS: It's "you're", not "your".
/r/seduction18/10/13 12:21 AM
2

"You miss one hundred percent of the shots you don't take." -Wayne Gretzky I always tell myself that and it gives me a huge confidence boost.
/r/seduction18/10/13 12:15 AM
2

There comes a point where it becomes weird. I rarely call my close friends more than once. I know they're going to get a missed call and I usually follow it with a text asking them to call me back when they get the chance. Anyway, I don't mind talking on the phone but I wouldn't call a girl many times. I assume she's busy or simply doesn't want to talk to me.
/r/seduction15/10/13 05:42 AM
1

Yep. It's a harsh truth.
/r/seduction14/10/13 06:50 PM
1

Interesting. What I suggested can be done regardless of the orbiter's intentions. The whole point is to be seen as a friend, not a foe. Personally, I'd rather be courteous to someone's friends than rude. It's great that you try to get out of the way. I hope your friend would do the same for you.
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:59 PM
1

Sometimes, they may not be doing it on purpose or they may not even realize they're doing it at all. Regardless of their intentions, it's simply a variable to consider when dealing with other people for the purpose of relationships or sex. I never think about it as "Oh, he had his chance so it's my turn now." I think of it as "This is her friend. And I'd like to introduce myself. I want to be seen as a friend, not a foe." Blowing somebody off because they're an "orbiter" seems aggressive to me. …
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:57 PM
2

That's precisely the point. Being negative and trying to blow off someone can lead to a violent altercation. That's something you want to avoid like the plague. It can ruin a night and it'd definitely ruin your chances with the girl.
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:54 PM
1

Even better. What I suggested is something I learned from experience. I think it's pointless to speculate on the theory of something that can easily be determined by going out to a bar or club.
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:52 PM
1

I've made some friends that way who'd happily have me as a guest anytime I visited their town to party. Simply being friendly and inviting will give people a very good first impression. No macho bullshit or alpha male nonsense, just people enjoying themselves in a positive way.
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:51 PM
1

Forget what he said. You did good, OP.
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:31 AM
77

Don't you think that's a bit aggressive? In my experience, I befriend the "orbiters" while making a move on my target. After the first hug/dance/hip-bump, there's not much they can do. Eventually your target will be comfortable with chatting or dancing intimately or whatever and the "orbiter" will break off. OP, I suggest you come in as a friend. By blowing off the "orbiters", you risk giving them a reason to do things out of spite. There's no rush to get your target alone. If her male friends a…
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:16 AM
1

I think you're ignoring the "position of trust or authority" part. Whether or not the feelings involved are genuine is irrelevant. If someone like a religious leader or doctor asked a younger person to come into a room with them, chances are they'll do what they're told. If that same adult asked the younger person to take their clothes off and touched them in a sexual way, then chances are they'll arouse them. And once the younger person is aroused, they're not really thinking about the conseque…
/r/MensRights30/08/13 01:18 PM
1

I don't disagree with you. Up until 2008, the age of consent used to be 14 in Canada. What I don't like is someone using their position to influence a younger person into having sex. That seems manipulative to me and exploitative.
/r/MensRights30/08/13 01:07 PM
1

Yes. Even if the teenager was 16, the teacher was in a position of authority and trust. She sexually exploited him regardless of his consent.
/r/MensRights30/08/13 12:59 PM
1

Countries like Canada and the US have laws that protect young individuals even if they're old enough to consent to sex. Just because you're 16 doesn't mean you can have sex with a teacher, a coach, or any other person in a position of trust or authority. So no, it's not about retroactively revoking consent. It's about sexual exploitation from someone that has a great deal of influence on you. Imagine how you'd feel if a doctor molested your son/daughter or brother/sister even though they were 16…
/r/MensRights30/08/13 12:58 PM
1

True. In my experience, the common thing was staring. Every girl that I've caught staring was attracted to me. And each one acted a little differently about it. One approached me as I was leaving a party and asked me where I was going. Another one kinda followed me around. One from a couple of years ago asked me about my name. Fortunately, I haven't come across a girl that purposely ignored while she liked me. As for the friend zone thing, I can usually tell when a girl is interested in me as mo…
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:26 AM
11

You need desensitization therapy.
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:17 AM
1

And if you absolutely need to check your phone (to reply to a text or answer an important call), step outside. It's silly to try to talk to someone with music playing loudly in the background. Also, it kinda makes guys look weird. I know it sounds like a sexist thing to say but I always notice girls on their phones at parties. Guys rarely whip out their phones unless they're looking something up or saving someone's number.
/r/seduction17/07/13 06:57 AM
2

I rarely forget a girl's name but whenever it happens, I tell them to add me on Facebook.
/r/seduction13/05/13 12:23 PM
1

That can backfire if her name is easily spelled (e.g. Jane, Jessica, Natasha).
/r/seduction13/05/13 12:23 PM
3

Pay attention to who's looking at you again and again and again. A girl that likes you won't stare at you because that would make her seem creepy. She may do it if she knows you're not looking (e.g. your back is facing her) but the main thing she'll do is glance. A quick look here and there can easily be spotted when you know what to look for.
/r/seduction23/03/13 07:36 AM
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