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SEX STRATEGYAnastasiaRomani/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:35 PM
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Hahahaha at that point I usually hiss at them and they go away 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:57 AM
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"OH, Sinti! That's like Gypsy, right?" (Sort of. We are a diaspora of Romani and Gypsy is an English language word that people call us but it is not our name.) "Oh, okay. So you ARE a Gypsy?" (Sure. In the same way that your name is Joe, but I'm going to call you Dick until everyone forgets your name and they all call you Dick.) "That's okay. I'm a little bit Gypsy, too." (That's interesting. Where did your People come from?) "Oh, you know. I'm sorta an old skool stoner hippie. I got that Gypsy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:28 AM
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Hahaha He tried to get me to "confess" in my sleep if I had been cheating, and then repeated a bunch of stuff, all sloooow and dipshitty about how I loved him and wanted to get pregnant by him. That was the end of our short relationship. Years later, I found out he'd gone to prison for SA of a child, so I definitely dodged a bullet in a mullet 😵‍💫😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:36 PM
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He finally, "GAVE IN" and took her to the HOSPITAL. For APPENDICITIS. As a person for whom English is not her first language. 😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 09:25 AM
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That was a lot of words to say, "My financial loss is more valuable than my NOT-wife's in having a child."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:17 AM
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Oh, PLEASE. Tell him you'll do it if your third is another MAN ❤️🙏😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:03 AM
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Bwahahahaha! Reminds me of that bf who I caught trying to whisper "subliminal messages" in my ear while I was sleeping! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:57 AM
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It sounds like he's playing in your blindspots... Pursuing you in such a way that he can pretend the interest is mutual and not being so direct that you can make things clear. This is basic objectification; creating a situation where he puts you on a pedestal based on his fantasy version of you... because how could he possibly know the real you? You are nothing more than casual acquaintances and now he's showing up at your work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 12:08 AM
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I'm so sorry I scared you! I really only wanted to prepare you so that you could keep yourself safe. Have you done a web search to learn about stalkers? They are very predictable, enough that if you know what to expect, you can stay a step ahead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 11:19 PM
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In relationship abuse, any time that the abused person tries to pull away will cause the abuser to increase their behavior to keep them from leaving. In your case and in the case of stalkers where there is no relationship, this is still true. Exiting abusive situations (stalking is abuse) is statistically the time most likely that a woman be killed by an abuser. Some abusers count on ingrained "niceness" from the women they stalk, knowing that they would put themselves at risk before appearing r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 11:03 PM
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Be direct and tell him you flat out do not like him and do not want him contacting you. Set that boundary. You might block him on your social media accounts and tell him you're blocking his number, just to make the point clear, but I suggest not blocking him, but putting him on "ignore" so that you can compile documentation without having to be bothered by him. Understand that for abusers, this type of boundary setting can cause unsettling behaviors to escalate, just as for women exiting abusive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:36 PM
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I think that going slow with sexual intimacy is the foremost thing; it gives him a chance to put his best foot forward and after being more comfortable, put down his guard. I ask about past relationships a lot, but they can see that one coming, a mile away lol One strategy that I've been successful in is searching his comments (not posts) on social media; it's a way of seeing him, uninhibited. If you are able to search groups, pages, and likes on social media, that can help you figure out what g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 09:20 PM
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YOU have been sick for a week and you're worried about HIM experiencing a slight discomfort? No. You are not the a$$h0le, but you probably are codependent. It's just not healthy to prioritize your spouse in every situation... that's just not a mutually balanced relationship. But you know what, Sis? I don't think you need to be worrying about that right now, while you're trying to recover. It's COVID-Y out there, and it's really important that you heal and rebuild your immune system. How about gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:13 AM
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Men's preference of "needing to feel needed" is really only their insistence on imbalance of power in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:34 PM
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Now everyone thinks they are compliment means they are interested in sex and won't take no for an answer. Good luck with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:37 PM
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Pornography is to rape culture as first person shooter games are to decreased sensitivity to violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:35 AM
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LITERALLY just looking for any virtues to speak for him as a HVM with character qualities and the ability to be a productive partner within the relationship dynamic Redeeming qualities only equal excuses to carry his dead weight on our own backs in addition to our own load. This is NOT a partnership but usery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:18 AM
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Most certainly this was "hot" in the sense that he enjoyed the flattery to his ego in being approached and asked out by an attractive woman, but that is only flattery. The "hot" part in this context would be in the the power structure of turning her down, publicly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:24 PM
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Constantly changing finishing lines. I'm over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:07 PM
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Oh, we're supposed to boo? I usually just burst out, LAUGHING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:53 PM
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Oh, my STARS and DIAMONDS!!! 🌠🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:42 PM
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That has been my hold-up! Crinkly sheets= NOT erotic. Reminds me of my first vibrator that shook so loudly that the batteries inside made a RATTLE RATTLE RATTLE like an old car that was about to backfire. Not erotic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:53 PM
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I found a wool blanket at a second-hand store that I washed and dried on the hottest setting over and over to shrink it, like wool felting. It's not enough, but it's okay. I need what you have 🤫🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:49 PM
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Squirting. I orgasm so heavily and so many times in satisfying love making, that they roll like waves in the ocean. I remember once when I was particularly orgasm drunk, I announced, "I AM the Sea." I find my own squirting an inconvenience because of how copious my flow of orgasm waters can be. I've become less apt to take a lover because of the fetishisation around it; I don't enjoy having my orgasms mechanically yanked out of me with a curved finger and some clever clitty action; it is both ob…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:43 PM
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This is so confusing. I don't even use this kind of language. I say "pass gass," but I go upstairs to the privacy of my loo and close the door to say it. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:34 AM
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"I think I'll f*** my grampa" said no girl, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:22 AM
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About the same time they need Viagra 🤣🤫😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:19 AM
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Media grooming :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:18 AM
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The writing is atrocious. I can see why they would have to identify themselves as a journalist. Unless they identify as a journalist? IDK. It's pretty sh**y writing and clearly content bias is intended by the demographic interviewed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:01 AM
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Agreed! I'm of the opinion that they have no business going anywhere near my children, because dating me is a privilege and does not make them part of my family or an authority figure to my children to have a say in life decisions or how I raise them. I know that many women worry that having children may be a barrier to romantic relationships... and it is ... but I sort of love it. Having kids acts as an "early detection system" for red flags. It's amazing how fast men put down their guard and s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:48 AM
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"That's okay! I don't mind if you just want to give me ORAL PLEASURES." <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:37 AM
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Painfully BORING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:33 AM
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There is no such thing as "sexual attraction to children," just like there is no such thing as being sexually attracted to having sex with a woman against her will." It's ALL RAPE and an ACT OF SEXUAL VIOLENCE, having more to do with DOMINANCE and POWER than INTIMACY. Morally NEUTRAL. FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:02 AM
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I remember walking out of class and directly to the principal's office when the creepy sex Ed teacher said it was the woman's fault when she got raped. The principal didn't believe me, not did he bother investigating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:46 AM
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Men who try to win points with me by shmooze-ing my children. My kids are all grown, but one, and I'll be damned if I'm going to let some Yahoo I'm just getting to know anywhere near my kids, but they always try, as if I'm looking for some father figure to "fix" us. NO. We don't need you to get my kids out from behind the computer and get them doing some yard work. They're zooming, fool. This is COVID. And one is a college student studying computer programming so he can become a HVM. F*** off wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:20 AM
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The number one reason men do not believe they are rapists is that they KEEP the DEFINITION Of RAPE a CONSTANTLY CHANGING MEANING and ALWAYS OUT of REACH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:20 AM
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I'm confused. Did scrote just tell Jesus to STFU?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:42 PM
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I understand from a meme that's going around, if you would have bit off his nose, you would not have had this problem. Lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:40 PM
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This is so upsetting I cannot even comment beyond emoting and I have to walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:10 AM
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When your cock turns to gold and when I rub it, a genie pops out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:11 AM
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Stones all have varying degrees of porousness, but Lingham Shivas are relatively smooth. They are definitely washable, even dishwasher safe. I feel more comfortable with my ability to clean it than I do a soft flesh-tone vibrator. I always worried about those carrying bacteria.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:45 AM
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You darling Sweet Potato. I love that you said that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:20 AM
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Thank you for sharing your experience; it feels different with our adult sons, yes? I suspect my son may have something like Oppositional Defiance Disorder... How easy it is to slap a diagnosis on unwillingness to wash my good China after he's used it, rather than stacking it to collect mold. I call it an adult son who needs to learn some valuable life lessons that I can't give him if I continue to feed him from my own flesh. Still. Our children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:15 AM
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Thank you very kindly for the advice. This is an older account that I set up over a year ago, but I am just now using it. I am not Reddit-savvy :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:04 PM
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I think this is a throwaway account? I can't figure out how to change my name here, but this is not my legal name. I am Romani Gypsy, so that is the surname I use on my account, as many of us do so we can find one another
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:45 PM
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I love the idea of erotica, but have never been able to find any that is not a written version of porn, subjegating women to men's depravity. Do you have any suggestions? I admit, I haven't spent much time outside what I've seen on Amazon, and that all seems to be pretty sad, BDSM focused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:44 PM
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Now I wish we could have a "special friend" show n tell lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:56 PM
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I just sent my 20 year old son packing for this. I didn't so much put him out onto the streets as I let him know his time was up and it was past time for him to get off the tit. Yes, I said it ugly like that. There comes a time when we realize that as women, the set of manners that are assigned to us is a weapon that keeps us speaking from a passive state from which we will never be heard or taken seriously. I'm all for training children, but one woman against a cultural system of beliefs was mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:53 PM
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I love that idea! When my daughter came of age, I gave her and her best friends "The Talk." She literally would invite friends over to hear it, or they would overhear snippets of conversations and ask to be invited. Looking back, I think the most popular subjects were: 1) how to get FREE condoms. This was a big one, because it put the girls in control. Planned Parenthood was the obvious, but less obvious places were low income health clinics and family services (food stamp/welfare offices.) 2) a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:31 PM
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Ooh! Did you go for the Lelo? You know what I really like that's not so much a toy, but a perfect pleasure item? A Shiva Lingham. Shiva Linghams are elongated oval stones with mottled, bluish grey markings that are only found in one place in the world; (TWO, if you count my vagina! 😉😜🤫) They are found in the Narmada River in India, one of India's Seven Sacred Holy Sites. They are becoming somewhat rare to aquire, as diving for the stones is a skilled, family occupation and both divers and stones…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:37 PM
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You know what's awesome? Being an older woman, dating older men with sons in their early thirties. I'm an empowered woman, and a catch. I've raised my family alone, and have nurtured myself and my children, rather than an immature spouse. In dating men my age or slightly older, invariably, they are impressed with the fact that I'm not used dry/ worn to the bone by a previous marriage. I'm sensual in the way of a girl who has grown into a woman, wild, in the woods, because I have. I haven't been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:27 PM
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I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:10 PM
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What a wonderful compliment! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:43 PM
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I'm not familiar with that particular product, but I'm definitely familiar with the product line! I'm so excited for you to have a Lelo! There's something so empowering about having a graceful, non vein-y/phallic pleasure device <3 Thank you for the wonderful compliment on my post. This account was set up years ago, but I've never really used Reddit until recently when I left FB and this is my first share. I'm still not really sure how to navigate, but I think I've found what I'm looking for in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:39 PM
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Thank you! I just hoped it would be useful to someone, and not redundant...you know: preaching to the choir ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:44 PM
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That sounds just awful. I want to hug the child you were and protect her. I hope you've found healing from both your depression and that experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:02 PM
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"Men use porn to condition women to be their perfect sex object." I absolutely LOVE that statement! Congratulations on writing what can only be described as a perfect post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:59 PM
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Thank you. My hair is long again, down to my fanny, but streaked with silver. I'm ALMOST a crone and I belong to myself <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:26 PM
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Good morning, Queen! Just checking in to remind you NOT to go thru his texts or contact him in any way; breakups are rough, but if you feel as if you're going thru withdrawals like you would from drugs or alcohol, that is NOT you missing him, but a symptom of codependence. Maybe that's not you... I hope not! ...but one thing I've noticed is that many of us can't tell the difference between what it feels like to be sad from a break up and codependence. In a HEALTHY relationship that has been allo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:23 PM
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Do whatever it takes to BURN THAT BRIDGE! Acting like a lady is just a trap of the patriarchy. Even a Queen has to behead a fool, sometimes ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:40 AM
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I (31m) went on a first date with a woman (26DD) who I picked up online, following a very strict set of criteria. I don't know what went wrong. She had her own income, which was good, because then I wouldn't have to pay for her. She's ambitious, so I know as a girlfriend, she won't mind doing my laundry or helping out around the house. She seems really open to performing free emotional labor on my behalf, and she doesn't interrupt me when I'm talking about myself, so I know she's intelligent. Al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:35 AM
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One more complaint about Viagra. I've only been with a couple men who have used it, and both times, it felt gross, as if I were contracting with the person to have sex and wasn't allowed to back out once they'd taken it. C'mon...PLEASE. SO many variables can occur between dude popping the little blue pill and penetration... For instance, if dude needs a little blue pill and thirty minutes to "up," by all that's holy, I'm not about to stroke a dead fish for a half hour of it's floppin' because it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:28 AM
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Yup. Whenever I've tried to have casual relationships with men... letting life unfold at a natural pace... they always try to skip past the actual dating part and force me into a commitment within DAYS. I have to admit, I'm a sucker for a good orgasm, but then they always assume that because I enjoy delicious delicious sex, that I MUST be cheating on them. They go nuts with jealousy, all the yummy sex goes away as they attempt to soothe themselves by dominating me, and they just stop taking care…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:14 AM
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Last time I was raped, I freaked out and cut my hair off with a knife. Psychology says that men are attracted to thick, long hair, because it is a sign of youth and fertility and males of the species have a biological need to reproduce. I think we're past that. It's all about a woman's "fuckability" and I want no part of that. Im only intimate with women, now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:58 AM
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I love how you worded that, about having sex with men being negative in value. I'm going to chew on that for a while <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:05 AM
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You ABSOLUTELY deserve respect based on your job title! You worked hard for it; OWN IT! The very fact that you are both doctors illustrates the professional environment that is not only rightfully assumed, but expected to be maintained in a medical setting. For goodness' sake. HE HAD NO RIGHT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:12 PM
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A) teenage guys are hornet fs and they're going to jerk. Seriously. There's nothing wrong or abnormal about his meeting his physical needs. Teenage guys who don't jerk it are ds, bombs waiting to go off. B) porn is evil, and a totally separate issue. The porn industry is based on trafficking and the women who participate in filming, even consentually, are constantly pressured or even forced to do things outside their comfort zone. Nearly all pornography is created from the aspect that men overpo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:56 AM
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As a bisexual woman, I really notice the contrast between sex with men and sex with women... What I notice most is that in m/f sex, the focus is on orgasm; the sex act is considered complete when the male reaches climax. WOMEN, on the other hand, can orgasm many, many times, so the pacing is more focused on pleasure than completion. I refuse to be used as a tool for masturbation, period. I set the pace, and if I'm not enjoying myself, the party's OVER. There just comes a point when we, as women,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:49 AM
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...or replying in a tone that mirrors HIS, and now all of a sudden you're a BITCH. Pot/kettle
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