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Ok, let me rephrase- red pill men don't necessarily hate women (although many of them do), but they certainly don't respect women as equals. Women are treated as second-class human beings with a secondary role (basically orifice provider, homemaker, and youthful-body-haver). The red pill completely rejects feminism and openly ridicules it. Women are considered essentially worthless once they have reached the age of 30 (hit the wall), and their needs and desires are only seen in terms of what can…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 02:58 PM
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Because this is stomping grounds for a lot of red pill men who basically hate women. So of course they’re going to accuse them of being boring. They don’t even believe that women should have the same rights that men have. Spend some time with men who aren’t grinding the red pill axe and you’ll find guys with much more open minds about the female sex and gender. Women aren’t any more boring than men are, by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:23 PM
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I have quite a few friends in my age range (40s) who exclusively date women in their 20s. I don’t see the appeal beyond the fact that younger women have had less exposure to the physical ravages of time. In my experience, women in their thirties and forties are much sexier, better conversationalists, and more interesting. In addition, they tend to care less about bullshit social crap with their frenemy circle and have more of a substantial personality. Of course there are bitter people in all ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:49 PM
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Chads don’t go online to bitch about women. Chads go online to meet women or talk about sports with other Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:29 PM
3

It’s a stretch to assume that a lot of women who travel a fair amount or enjoy traveling are escorts. Traveling to Europe, South America or Asia or whatever isn’t really that expensive. I assume that most single, childless people with middle class or upward income level can and do travel. Lower incomes less so, parents less so. The amount of women who are escorting for money is pretty small compared to the amount of women who have enough disposable income and vacation time to take the occasional…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:23 PM
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It probably means they enjoy traveling and are looking for dating partners who also enjoy traveling. Because that’s what the words “I enjoy lots of travel” typically mean arranged in a sentence like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:03 PM
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You said that if a girl is ugly, all of her relationships with men are strictly platonic. Which is decidedly not true. Lots of ugly people out there are getting laid regularly. Have you never been to a bar? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:48 PM
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There really aren’t that many women (or men) who are too ugly to get laid. Usually it comes down to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:17 PM
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I have several close female friends that are strictly and mutually platonic. In my experience it’s quite common.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:08 PM
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I haven’t found that women are any more boring than men. Certainly they can be very different, but no less worthy of friendship. And some women are a lot more bro-like and act like “one of the guys.” But they don’t have to be in order for me to be able to relate to them. But I tend to be open-minded and I enjoy spending time with lots of different people rather than just the same type. I also find that some dudes cannot easily relate to people from other cultures or upbringings but I find it eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:33 AM
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"I can’t see myself doing any of the things you describe with a woman if I wasn’t trying to fuck her." Well, no disrespect meant, but I think that's a failure of imagination on your part, then, rather than a failure of the female gender. I have met some REALLY interesting, smart, funny, and entertaining women in my life. And many of those friendships were 100% platonic. Chalk it up to cultural differences, I guess. You must come from a more traditional, meat and potatoes community. The attitudes…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:00 AM
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Oh I know. Everyone thinks that about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:30 AM
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Maybe central Texas is different than the Midwest, where I live. It sounds like your community is much more traditional with its gender roles and gender expectations. The arrangement you are describing sounds a lot closer to what I see with my parents’ generation. Aka boomer stuff. My generation is Gen X, and at least where I am located there is much more mixing between men and women. Being friends with ex GFs isn’t uncommon. Platonic friendships between men and women are very common. Maybe less…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:00 AM
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There’s more to life than sports and the casual verbal abuse that passes for “giving and taking shit” among men. And if you think women aren’t wonderful storytellers or excellent humorists.... have you read many books? Agatha Christie? Mary Shelley? Holy crap, dude. You’re missing a huge chunk of the collective wit and wisdom of the species. It honestly sounds like you cannot relate to a women other than as a potential sexual partner or possessor of genitals you’d like to fondle. Yes- flirting i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:22 PM
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If you know enough to call out ad hominem and shaming tactics in others you should be able to avoid using derogatory language like “sweetie” or haranguing people who disagree with you as “radfems” or the like. Insulting those who participate in your debate simply because you don’t like their viewpoint is not the most persuasive strategy. It’s more akin to trolling than honestly seeking truth through argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:09 PM
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Years of resentment and indoctrination, presumably.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:01 PM
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I’ve got nearly ten years on you and your experience is hardly universal. I have quite a few lifelong female friends. Some purely platonic, some more complicated. And many of my male and female fiends have cross-gender friendships. It’s really not that unusual. Some of these woman are great friends and confidants. Some are exes. Some have been FWB. Some are more like sisters where the idea of sexual tension doesn’t make any sense at all. I’m wondering why you have not chosen to sustain these con…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:59 PM
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Women want to be friends with me for the same reason men do. I’m a good friend and people value companionship. Yes- some of my female friendships are not entirely platonic but a large number of them are. You act as if there is obviously no benefit to a man and a woman being friends, as if they literally have nothing in common and cannot understand each other. I find this strange. I can relate to men and women alike. Sometimes I actually enjoy talking to women more about some subjects because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:48 PM
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I don’t think this is true. Im a very hetero male and I enjoy friendships with women, many of them completely platonic. I see no reason why these friendships wouldn’t be equally valuable to me in a world without male heterosexual impulse. Girls are rad and worth knowing and spending time with, even when sex isn’t part of the landscape. Some of my best friends are women. Why would that change? Also- the world as a giant boys club sounds fucking awful, and a bit like some kind of repressed homosex…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:57 PM
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Mate guarding. Her going to a protest doesn’t take shit away from you or your importance in her life. If you’re concerned about Rona ask her to wear a mask or quarantine after the march. All your bitterness about how silly the protests are or how hypocritical it is because of the stay at home orders is just your sensitive little feefees getting hurt. If she’s faithful and you have a satisfying relationship, who cares if she goes to a protest? You seem very threatened by a woman having different …
/r/askTRP05/06/20 12:27 AM
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Politics is one of the biggest ways that the individual influences the larger group that he inhabits, and vice-versa. Not caring about this means you don’t care about one of the most fundamental structures of human relation that influence your life. That seems illogical. Not making politics your religion or your identify or your obsession, sure. Keeping to a life of as much self-reliance as you can, sure. But ignoring politics seems like a bad idea.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:55 PM
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Take her out twice a month for awhile and see if she’s happier. Live a little.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:24 PM
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I hear you, man. Maybe OP can talk to a lawyer and see what his options are. It’s insane that someone can mess up a person’s life so badly with a false accusation. I would definitely want to consult with a really good lawyer though before I took any action.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:42 PM
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You suggest that OP should lie in court or use the emergency services to harass a woman in the UK? Either of those could land him in desperate legal straights. OP straight-up dodged a bullet here with a psychotic lying chick who could have ruined his life. I know it sucks that she can get away with making this kind of allegation but the actions you’re suggesting could completely tank his future and land him in prison. For what? So he can say nobody can fuck with him? Here’s some advice to anyone…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:01 PM
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“Ruin this bitch’s life.” This is a highly risky idea. If she lied once about rape she will lie again. It sounds like the only reason OP isn’t dealing with an actual court case is because the girl decided not to press charges. Tangle with her now, or try to get retribution, and OP will be in court. Then the girl can make up any series of lies that she wants to in order to get him in trouble. And in this kind of case, it’s one party’s statements against the other. Imagine all of the crying and “w…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:15 AM
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She was drunk and she regrets it. Probably has another guy lined up. Best case. Worst case- she regrets it and thinks you date raped her. I’d stay out of contact.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:08 PM
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If she’s 20 then your risk of her trying to get knocked up seems pretty low unless you have money. Or she’s in love with you. In which case Happy Father’s Day! Much more likely is that she’s not trying to get pregnant. Which means you better hope that she’s fucking responsible about using her birth control since you absolutely are not experienced or capable enough to do it reliably. Nor are you evidently a good enough judge of character to trust that your sex partners are even really on the pill…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:51 AM
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Lol. Nope! Good catch though.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:31 PM
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Comparing oneself to others makes sense but only if we truly desire the things they have achieved. Some soul-searching on behalf of OP might also help. If I compared myself to a stock broker I’d always fall short because I don’t give a shit about that lifestyle. If I compared myself to a skilled musician or athlete, then I could use their example to motivate me toward something I’d actually value achieving. OP’s mileage may vary.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:34 PM
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What does “underachiever” mean to you? Maybe you’re just not motivated by the traditional goals society defines as “success.” There are many ways you can live an excellent, satisfying life. There are people who forego material success and wealth to study martial arts, or to travel, or to have free time to have a rich and satisfying set of hobbies. Some people focus their energy on music or art or photography and don’t give two shits about having a six-figure job or being an entrepreneur. What do…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:30 PM
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She’s obviously caught feels and has a history of bad decision making about pregnancy and is also not on the pill. Pretty risky situation for you, unless your condom game is all star level. I’d back out of that arrangement to be honest. She’s going to want more or make a mistake and then it will be hella awkward or even dangerous for you.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:54 PM
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“ What should I do to get out of this loop?” Stop fucking worrying about it. If you are so insecure as to make masturbation some kind of dirty addiction in your mind like it’s heroin or something, then you have an unhealthy relationship to your own body and your own sexuality. Work on that. Unless your masturbation is preventing you from going out and living your life or if you’re some kind of porn addict who can’t stop looking at it for hours every day, then you’re just a normal guy who has a w…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:03 PM
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Bro
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:54 PM
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I love the quiet downtime. Just focusing on my kids, my finances, and lifting three times a week (lucky to have a weight set and bench in the basement). The social life has taken a hit but my friends and I are working on music projects together, playing online games and keeping in contact. When this all started I was in the middle of a breakup, and I’m not about banging chicks right now during lockdown, but that’s really the only other thing lacking. It’s been a time of self-reflection and prepa…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:32 PM
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Don’t stick your dick in crazy. Get a lawyer consultation and figure out which lawyer you’d go to in a pinch if you had to defend yourself. Stop talking about this, with ANYONE, for any reason, aside from lawyer. Block her and anyone associated with her on all platforms. Then move on. Every time you talk to anyone about this you give it life. Anything that gets back to her gives it life. You need to have a protection plan ready in case she files, and you need her to find another target to lock o…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:42 PM
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I’m working from home and I have my kids half of time. We’ve been doing a lot of hiking. I’m teaching my daughter how to roller skate and longboard and I’m teaching my son about car and motorcycle engines. I have a weight set downstairs so I’ve actually been lifting more. Now that the weather is improving I will be doing more two-wheeled excursions on bikes and motorbikes. Also working on some new music projects and keeping in contact with friends and family. I miss the gym, I miss Friday night …
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:33 PM
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Lol. You had a good comeback. I’ll give you that.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:21 PM
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I have a lot of problems, bud, but dick size and being able to find smart chicks who get freaky in the sack and don’t call me faggot aren’t among those problems. Maybe you’re just not in their league? It’s spelled *breathe, by the way.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:11 PM
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I’m only speaking from my own experience here, but if you had any idea how freaky educated women are you’d lose your mind. I’m talking psychologists, scientists, philosophers, artists, musicians and even the occasional business chick. Banging some girl who calls you a faggot is a simp tactic. Getting your dick sucked by a girl who can quote Camus and Feynman is one of the finer pleasures in life.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:50 PM
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No. We see the woman being overtly “masculine” because she’s abandoned feminine behavior in favor of trashy, aggressive, bratty posturing as a defense mechanism. It’s all show no go. These kinds of people are all edge, no center. Once you get past the bullshit they’re clueless and emotionally weak. If you wanna play around with trash go right ahead but some of us don’t want our lives to be reality television.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:47 PM
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Cut all the people out from your life who are toxic. That includes exes, friends who disrespected you, acquaintances who mistreated you. EVERYONE. Block them all on social media. Lose their numbers. Literally erase the traces of their existence on your life. Out of sight, out of mind. Keep working on yourself. Get some new friends. Meet new girls and date or bang some of them. You’re recreating your life here. The old life is gone. Use the momentum you are building to fuel you. At some point you…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:28 PM
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Fuck running. FLY away from that bitch at WARP FUCKING TEN.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:32 PM
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It’s not. I wouldn’t fuck her either. Girls that come at you with that level of trash are typically not clean, not discrete, and not worth your time. Find a girl who knows how to flirt.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:50 PM
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Lol. You see everything in terms of passing her tests. If I’m the prize I can choose to punt girls who use language I find unsexy. Her calling me a faggot is gutter behavior and I don’t reward that with further attention. Just like I next girls who smell like shit or read Cosmo. Have some standards bro.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:46 PM
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No- the motive is to find girls that provide enjoyable company and have sex with them. I don’t enjoy the kind of trashy bitches that have gutter mouths and throw the word “faggot” around. It’s just not my steez. There are plenty of girls out there who will suck dick and are able to carry on an intelligent conversation. Nothing wrong with passing on a chick who exhibits behavior you don’t enjoy. Nothing wrong with being clear with someone that you don’t like what they said. In fact- this is the u…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:26 PM
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Hitting every pathetic lob a pair of tits throws at you doesn’t make you a player. Choosing the pitches you wanna swing at does.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:41 AM
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Dude. Your reaction was calm and to the point. “Easy. Leave the Faggot thing for your friends.” That’s calm mastery. You could have responded in a way that led toward smashing her puss, but I see nothing wrong with calmly telling a chick what’s up. You didn’t get all bent out of shape, you just told her what’s up. And if you lost the opportunity to bang her, that’s mostly her loss. She can go find the next guy who likes testy bitches.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:39 AM
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Personally I would have ghosted her too. Girls that come with that kind of energy are mostly hyper annoying and not worth the trouble. You don’t need to get your dick sucked by her so badly that you should let yourself get annoyed in the process.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:29 AM
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How’s your libido in general? Do you jerk off or look at porn? It’s one thing to de-prioritize sex or not be bothered with chasing pussy for a spell but that’s a different thing than having low libido in general. Would be important to know which one of those two is going on. Low libido could be stress, health or psychological issue. Not being bothered to chase women right now could just be that your attention is elsewhere and that isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 03:47 AM
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“She's sweet, not jaded. She believes the world is a beautiful place and she believes in the idea of love.“ It’s easy to be this way when you’re in your mid twenties. See how she reacts when life throws some real challenges at her. And it will.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:42 PM
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It’s good that you have started developing good mental discipline and good habits. You need to develop some outside interests that give you a sense of purpose or connection to life. Music, business, coding, learning a skill or joining an activity group might be a good start. What interests do you have? These are the kinds of things that you can apply yourself to once you have the foundation of good discipline. When you have that stuff going on, attracting women and friends will be easy.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 10:12 AM
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You’d be surprised. Many therapists do their work because they enjoy helping people. I’m not saying that you need therapy, but I wouldn’t immediately discount it either. I get the fear, too. We all have a high road and a low road that we can walk. And it’s not easy to trust ourselves that we will stick to the high road, especially during stress. But it’s always a choice, man. And if you want to choose the best for yourself, you will be able to do that in time.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:10 PM
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Dude you’re in mourning. Your old self will come back, but it’s going to take some time. You lost someone that you cared about and you need time to process the shock and the grief. Be gentle with yourself during this time and you will heal. Seek therapy if you feel that it’s becoming too much to handle. But you have to give yourself time to grieve. It’s part of the process of loss. Your old self will come back, but right now the self you have is the one who needs some time to feel the pain and t…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:35 PM
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Yep- quite old. My dad’s generation used it to refer to anyone who was idiotic or “simple” meaning simple-minded or obtuse.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:29 AM
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Keep doing what you’re doing. Feels are for the bedroom, not text messages. If she gets too weird about stuff cut her loose. Much better that she’s thinking about you this way than if you were thinking about her this way.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:54 PM
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You found a girl who stood by you through crippling depression? She sounds like a good person. Why would you dump her? Girls who help you when you need it and don’t create a ton of drama are hard to find. You need to work on yourself. Take the victory over your anxiety as a starting point and make sure your physical, mental and lifestyle health are a priority. No need to get rid of the girl. In fact, having regular access to sex and companionship should be something that adds to your well-being.…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 09:19 AM
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You’ve been single for a year after a bad breakup, and you’re in shape and feeling great. So what’s the problem? If you don’t feel like pursuing partners, then don’t. I don’t see what a partner is going to give you right now that you need. You sound like you’re happy and working on yourself. Maybe in the future you’ll feel inclined to go after girls again. Don’t do it just because you feel like you should. You’re in a fantastic place right now where you don’t need that kind of validation. Build …
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:48 AM
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Yeah, I would advise against getting married to someone if you already have secrets you need kept. Secrets make you vulnerable. Vulnerability when you have entered into a legal contract with someone who can take half your shit = bad news.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:01 PM
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Here’s some words of encouragement: take no further steps to burden yourself with ANY additional responsibilities until you can support yourself and your daughter on your own. Do not marry this woman if the relationship isn’t feeling right. Do not marry this woman out of a sense of obligation or desperation. Get your feet under you. Your daughter needs you to be able to support your lives on your own right now. Do you have family or friends you can lean on at this time? There is no shame in gett…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 01:35 PM
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That was a bullshit comment by a director and it says a hell of a lot more about them than it does about you. But without the context of how the politics in your department work, it’s tough to judge what the proper response should have been. Some companies are full of shit-talkers and it’s a locker room environment. Everyone gets a turn to dish it out and take it, even the “dominant” alpha rock stars. Best thing to do is laugh it off.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:47 PM
0

I’ve hung out with my friends’ girlfriends occasionally one on one and my girlfriends and partners have done the same. Occasionally that should be no big deal, as long as it’s strictly friend-level. We’re not living in the fucking Handmaid’s Tale. If they’re real friends they won’t fuck with you like that. If you don’t trust them then get some real pals, dude.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:39 PM
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No. You can’t get big enough to attract women without using steroids. No man at 6’1” has ever been able to acquire enough muscle mass to not be a “skinny fag.” It’s just not biologically possible.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:25 PM
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Amen. I have an acquaintance like this. 95% of his free time is spent chasing pussy. When he gets laid he acts like the gods have blessed him. If he didn’t get laid for a month he’d probably implode. His ego is closely coupled to how much dick sucky he is getting and it makes him look weak, rather than masculine and virile.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 12:09 PM
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“I feel so powerful when I have all these women chasing after me.” How do you feel when they aren’t chasing? Powerless? If so, you have no abundance and you are relying on pussy to validate you. If you carry that mentality into a relationship you’re gonna get steamrolled and eaten alive by some chick. Work on self-validation by setting goals, determining your life’s purpose, and being the best version of yourself. Pussy is not the main course of an abundant life. It’s merely a condiment.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 12:05 PM
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There is 0%, and I mean ZERO percent, chance of polygamy ever being a solution that ever, EVER, ever gets adopted again by modern society in large numbers. It's a dream and a fantasy of theocratic religious fundamentalists. Accept reality. The current sexual marketplace uses an app model, with plates and multiple partners being the norm until exclusivity is established. Branch swinging and soft infidelity is the norm for both men and women. Happy monogamy is about the best you'll come to the "go…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:52 PM
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Why disgusting? We're animals. Happy monogamy is a relative rarity. People want to fuck. The ideal of traditional conservative LTRs and marriage is complete bullshit and mostly always has been. Feminism already happened. You can't put the genie back in the bottle. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:50 PM
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The important thing to remember here is that it is your life, your decision to make, and nobody has to be involved in it other than you. If you are a man of faith, it can be between you and God also. And I’m sure you’re not the only Christian, born-again or otherwise, who has struggled with these questions. If you do choose an escort, make sure it is someone clean and safe. The world will continue to turn regardless of which choice you make.
/r/MGTOW228/10/19 12:35 PM
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I dunno man. Everyone is spinning plates now. It’s assumed that you are banging multiple people now whether you are a man or a woman until exclusivity is declared. If OP expected/wanted this girl to be exclusive he would have made it clear. If he was high value enough she would have asked for it awhile back. He didn’t or wasn’t, so she kept spinning until she found someone she liked better and then locked him down. This seems to be how dating works in 2019, based purely on observation.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:29 PM
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She’s just doing the exact same thing he’s doing. Spinning plates.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 11:42 AM
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It sounds to me like your issues have less to do with getting respect and more about respecting and liking yourself, and connecting with other people. I think you should continue to pursue interests and hobbies. Try some classes, maybe take a martial arts or bodybuilding class, or attend reading groups or maybe even join a sports league or learn a musical instrument. People find each other when they are put in proximity with other people doing the same things or having the same interests. Work o…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:14 PM
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Yeah I hear you. There’s strong female heroes and there’s mindless social cause pandering.
/r/MGTOW223/10/19 12:45 PM
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How about the classics? The Terminator? Aliens? Oh shit, wait....
/r/MGTOW223/10/19 10:26 AM
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“Insisting on your own reality, especially when it clashes with other realities, is holding frame.” It’s also the very hallmark of many mental disorders, including narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder and psychotic delusional disorder.
/r/MGTOW213/10/19 11:45 AM
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You lost attraction for her so she sensed it and bailed. She went and fucked multiple other dudes and you regained your attraction for her. She basically redpilled you.
/r/MGTOW213/10/19 11:17 AM
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The concept of God is fascinating and has been something I have thought about and grappled with for my entire life. I guess I’m a bit of an agnostic. I’ve encountered several world religions and read countless arguments for and against god’s existence. In the end, I don’t know enough to say whether I think god exists or not. In a way it’s a fascinating question. Perhaps one of the ultimate questions. Or perhaps an absurd question. But certainly a fascinating one. Being human means having to know…
/r/MGTOW213/10/19 11:00 AM
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"Women as a group (not talking individuals here) are not productive members of society." This isn't entirely clear. What do you mean? The average woman isn't a productive member of society? Or the cohort of females in the United States are net consumers, and not producers, of societal value? Before you throw out a statement like that, you need to clarify it and then provide facts in support of the statement.
/r/MGTOW209/10/19 02:40 PM
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"I want to leave him alone now. I want to focus on what I have ahead. I want to leave behind everything that can't help me progress. I want you to help me in everything that can make me better in the future. You are my present and my future right now." So she wants you and doesn't want him. The more you let her conditional statement of desire mess with your head, the less she will desire you. If you were confident and complete in yourself and happy, you wouldn't be tripping on this. What do you …
/r/askTRP04/05/19 06:50 PM
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Why would it be true? Friendships don't usually have a winner and a loser, so why would romantic relationships have to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 10:45 PM
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So you're saying all relationships are equally bad, the only hope is to make your partner unhappy enough for you to be really happy. Sounds like a wonderfully terrible worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 06:45 PM
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Anything other than Leave It To Beaver plus unlimited blowjobs is seen as a bad situation, and it's all because women are defective, hypergamous sloots and feminism is a cancer. This is the manosphere in a nutshell. ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:33 PM
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Lots of people are lonely in this society, because we are so dependent on electronic social media and fake corporate politics, and our family and social structures have disintegrated. You are not alone, my dude. But love and companionship are out there, maybe not in the same places you could find them 30 years ago, but as long as humans remain social creatures, we will have need of and seek out companionship with other people.
/r/MGTOW211/02/19 10:24 PM
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Nontoxic masculinity isn’t about being weak, overly sensitive or unprepared. Nontoxic masculinity means not having to prey on others to prove your strength. Nontoxic masculinity means accepting other people who are different from you and going about your business. Being curious. Seeking to understand. Being nonjudgmental. Toxic masculinity is the guy in the locker room beating up the kid who doesn’t look the same. Toxic masculinity is the asshole cop who intimidates you with his badge. Toxic mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 12:52 PM
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Someone has to give a shit!
/r/MGTOW214/01/19 04:44 PM
3

Improve, not replace.
/r/MGTOW211/01/19 05:49 PM
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Really? This is the argument? If American working conditions are bad, AT LEAST they're not as bad as North Korea? When did our generation become so fucking lazy? Our grandparents fought and clawed to make life BETTER for the American worker. Not just the CEO. If capitalism isn't serving us, as a holistic nation of citizens, then fuck capitalism. We should find something better.
/r/MGTOW210/01/19 04:13 PM
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"men are thirsty enough that he'll sleep with a woman no matter what issues she has going on." Uhhh, speak for yourself. Some of us men have standards for that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:54 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:52 PM
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There's a magic middle, I think, between idealizing your female partner and treating them badly. My approach now is to be honest with my feelings- tell her that I think she's special and I'm crazy about her, but there are boundaries and I don't put her ABOVE my own needs and worth. I am a whole person with or without her. The important thing in my opinion is to not let someone become your be-all end-all source of satisfaction and validation, but to keep the connection alive and not neglect them,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:01 PM
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I guess you can maximize your chances by choosing a female partner who doesn't have a history of cheating or abusive behavior, treat her well and treat yourself well. Don't allow yourself to be mistreated, disrespected, or fucked over. At the end of the day, you attracted her for a reason... don't let yourself fall apart or become a worse version of the person she fell in love with. And make sure you do things to keep the relationship fresh. And never lose your self-respect. At the end of the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:34 PM
1

Thanks! It's been six years so far and we're still in love with each other. Having been married before, I know that relationships aren't always easy. But I think we have what it takes. We let each other be ourselves, if that makes sense. In my previous marriage I lost myself. Never going to let that happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:20 PM
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She’s working on her issues and so am I. Marriage is awhile off still. We both have houses and children from previous marriages. We’re extremely independent and that’s one of the reasons we like each other so much. We respect each others’ need for autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:42 PM
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Despite these flaws, she’s a great partner. The part about self-care is mostly what resonates with me about my fiancée. She tends to get weighed down by her responsibilities and she neglects to recharge her batteries. She’s in therapy working on that. In lots of other ways, she’s the best partner I’ve ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:40 PM
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Man, you've just described my fiancee to a tee. Except for the sex part, the self-care part however is spot on. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 05:42 PM
3

Holy shit, this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 03:48 PM
1

I remember when my son was born I had the same paranoia. Really, it was for no reason. Little dude looks 95% like me and 5% like her. There's no mistaking he's my kid. She's my ex now but it wasn't because of cheating.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 07:09 PM
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A woman who wants to sit down and talk about the relationship sees you as high-value. It's when she doesn't want to talk that you have problems. What happens during those talks should be based on amused mastery and benevolence. Don't argue with her. If she wants more attention, do 40/60 or whatever the ratio should be. Don't be the emotionless silent type who is no fun. Reward her with attention but hold your frame. A woman seeking you out means she's chasing. If she's just gonna bitch at you, t…
/r/askMRP11/09/18 06:31 PM
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How to handle split custody? Be an awesome dad when you have your daughter with you. Make her the priority. Don't bring another woman into your home until you have established a good basis of trust and lifestyle with your daughter. Don't fucking ever get married again, that's for sure. When your daughter is with her mom? Life your life, man. Focus on yourself, make good choices, enjoy your relative freedom.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 06:27 PM
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"I cleaned my act up, went to AA, and quit drinking all together for about 6 months. Then drank in moderation with good behavior. This past Thursday went out for happy hour with the fellas and did shots of whiskey." You left your fiance when you said yes to those shots.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 06:21 PM
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Stop trying to interpret what your wife is saying. Focus on actions. When you are having sex with her, have great sex. Afterward reward her with positive attention and affection. During the week, focus on getting back in shape and handling your life with some calm and proficiency. Stop giving your wife the silent treatment. That's not dread game when you're gross and fat, it's just being kind of a dick. Your problem is your attitude, not your wife. You should consider yourself fortunate that she…
/r/askMRP11/09/18 05:46 PM
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You are putting yourself into a vulnerable position. You will be tied to these children for decades. And, their mother will have the right to legally ask things of you and of them. The courts will have the right to get involved if your marriage goes south. So, by definition you will be vulnerable to the actions of people who are not yourself in many ways. Examine your relationship and your wife very thoroughly, here. I went through a divorce and came away with no child support or alimony and sha…
/r/askMRP10/09/18 06:34 PM
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"However those who project the values of cultural Marxism onto the masses are outwardly working to prevent this. They hate and fear large families because they hijack their centralist big government goals." It's got as much to do with cultural corporatism as it does cultural Marxism. Who wants dual-working families with fewer kids, lesser amounts of free time, and smaller focus on family versus career? CEOs and bosses. They don't want a breadwinner with a stay-at-home wife, five kids, a large am…
/r/MGTOW15/08/18 06:39 PM
1

Exactly that. Men shouldn't have to do man shit outside of the main areas of the home. When my marriage was on the rocks, I worked, made music, played video games, ate and slept in one room of the house. ONE ROOM. It was like my studio apartment. The rest of the house was hostile territory. Never again. My shit comes with me, it's part of my life. And if I'm in the kind of relationship where I can't play records in the living room or watch 1980s movies on the main couch from time to time, I will…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 07:23 PM
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Sounds like you have done some remarkable self-improvement and overcome a lot of trauma built up during your youth. You already have a career you are passionate about, which is great! What do you like about it? What makes you enjoy it? Basically, what makes you enjoy your time and not think about the time, but rather get absorbed in the activity? Even if it's your work, that tells you something. "The only time that I am truly at peace is when I am at my job / studying or doing the basic requirem…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:39 PM
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She had a perfectly fine automobile and the new car feeling will dissipate over time. And then he’ll just be a sexually frustrated dude missing his old motorcycle.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 12:13 PM
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Don’t collapse your life into the man room either.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 12:09 PM
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Because “good men” provide for their families, and having a reasonably attractive wife means something or other about your worth, even if she’d rather have a tooth extraction than touch your penis.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 12:08 PM
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He already is paralyzed for life. Especially his dick.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 12:07 PM
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He’s working two jobs to support her doing nothing. The courts may insist that that continue so that she can “maintain her standard of living.” Don’t EVER get married and let your wife stay at home. EVER.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 12:04 PM
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The problem with this guy is that even if he tries to unplug, his opportunistic wife is likely to turn on him and fuck up his life through custody, child support and alimony. However- sexless marriage and selling his toys in your early 30s? Imagine how bad it will be if he stays. If I were him I’d try to turn it around and if it doesn’t work, get the best divorce lawyer in the state.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 12:01 PM
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My dad always had his classic cars and boats and snowmobiles and toys. He enjoyed them and so did the rest of the family. I don’t know how other dudes’ families were like growing up, but the men in mine always had a balance between their hobbies and their family lives. Maybe that’s why I only saw healthy marriages in my family. It’s the dudes similar to my age who seem to have gotten cuckolded somehow.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 11:54 AM
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Well, facts are facts. Females in many parts of the animal kingdom do more than just reproduce. You'd be amazed at how species vary with regard to sex roles. Also, I'm a dude. I'm just explaining, I'm not "femalesplaining."
/r/MGTOW26/07/18 08:34 PM
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If you think all females in the animal kingdom are useless, you should probably read a biology textbook.
/r/MGTOW26/07/18 02:58 PM
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Literally your own sentence that you quote above seems to equate relationship with a woman with LTR. People don't usually use parentheses in that particular way unless they are providing an alternate definition of a word. And if your alternate definition of relationship is LTR, then you have the answer to your question.
/r/MGTOW20/07/18 06:30 PM
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Online dating is much cheaper than escorts. I’m hardly in the top 1% of men and I was meeting all sorts of girls online and had a lot of fun. Just don’t make anyone pregnant and you should be fine. Wrap it up. I consider it lower risk than fucking escorts who ride the cock carousel as a literal profession.
/r/MGTOW20/07/18 12:43 PM
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Maybe you have a limited sense of "relationships." Not all of them are committed, long-term, or woman-driven. A man going his own way could even have a girlfriend. That person is not going to change the larger goals he has for his life, and he may essentially take or leave her. But there is no reason a MGTOW cannot have intimate relationships with women.
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 06:09 PM
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Not sure why you would choose seven words to disagree with when you could agree with the entire comment that I posted. "He may travel for awhile with a female companion, but he's never very dependent on her nor does he envision his life with her at the center." As in, yes, he does not get married. Does not stay on the plantation. Does not do traditional monogamy. Does not do lifetime commitment to a spouse or partner. Never puts anyone else at the center. I don't think we disagree, honestly.
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 05:55 PM
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Don't ever, EVER, act needy with a chick. Just fucking don't. If you feel that way inside, don't ever let her see it. Get into therapy, go on a long solo trip, do WHATEVER you need to do to fix your head. Just don't go there. I learned that from experience.
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 04:05 PM
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In my opinion? This is spot on. Never give her more than she wants. Always give a little less commitment than she'd be ideally happy with. NEVER express significant needs. Women may SAY that they like the vulnerability, but they really want you to remain a little aloof.
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 04:03 PM
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MGTOW is someone who goes his own way, and does what he wants to do. He is the pilot. He doesn't need a copilot. He may travel for awhile with a female companion, but he's never very dependent on her nor does he envision his life with her at the center. He may do this because he is red pilled, or even just because he recognizes that relationships are a lot of work that consumes effort that could be expended toward other objectives.
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 04:01 PM
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I work in IT and my experience is different. Of course, I am in the supply chain, eComm and logistics area of retail, but I don't see much of a bias toward women. We do have a TON of onshore consultants, however. Most of our development is done by Indian H1B visa holders.
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 03:37 PM
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"But you apparently DO need such a person to inform you that you're thinking processes and predictive skills when it comes to females... are woefully inadequate and inaccurate." Nope. Again, I have simply stated that a man can be the authority in his life and also raise a daughter. Many men have done this, are doing this, and will continue to do this in the future. The burden is on YOU to provide counter-evidence to the statement. Which you have entirely failed to do. If you continue to evade th…
/r/MGTOW26/06/18 07:26 PM
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I don't need an internet stranger to tell me that marrying my ex wife was a mistake. Jesus. Talk about taking the easiest possible shot in the world! Is your argument really that a man cannot be the boss of his life and raise a daughter? Because, if you strip away your snarky comments, that seems to be what you are saying. Being a parent, by definition, means that you are the boss and in a position of authority over your child until they become an adult. Or at least that you should be. It would …
/r/MGTOW26/06/18 05:57 PM
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There's a huge difference between living in a household with a wife or female partner who co-opts your decision making and identity and living in a household with your own female children. I can tell you that I have lived in both, and my household with a daughter is peaceful, orderly, and satisfying to me as a person. I make my own choices regarding what I spend my money on, what things I keep in the house, what hobbies I do, and who I see. My kids eat well, get their homework done, and have goo…
/r/MGTOW26/06/18 02:42 PM
1

I'd be willing to bet that, after being married and raising a house filled with daughters, he'd probably not want to marry a woman. That's enough females for one life.
/r/MGTOW25/06/18 09:19 PM
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You can be honest with him and still attend the cultural tradition. He's going to be married and you are his friend. You say your peace and let him make his choices. Otherwise you may lose the friendship. Is that worth it to make a point?
/r/MGTOW04/06/18 08:26 PM
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Fair point. And my lawyer would certainly agree with you.
/r/MGTOW01/06/18 04:44 PM
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I don't know too many people in my circle that could without a doubt kick my ass. Maybe one or two. But, if a friend or confidant fucked my girl? Yeah, I might swing on them. I'd be pretty fucking pissed.
/r/MGTOW01/06/18 03:09 PM
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It depends. If the guy was someone who broke my trust by fucking my girl, there would be consequences.
/r/MGTOW01/06/18 02:49 PM
1

McDoland's
/r/MGTOW01/06/18 02:45 PM
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Lift. Ride motorcycles. Associate with people who actually feel adrenaline rushes doing things other than getting girls' approval.
/r/MGTOW31/05/18 05:09 PM
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You went back to a girl who cheated on you once before and she cheated on you again. What's next, water being wet?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:35 PM
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"Aaaah the life of a software engineer, how I adore thee. Wouldn't give up my freedom for any hoe." Hopefully you can ride that train long enough to retire before they replace you with a global contractor from Hyderabad!
/r/MGTOW30/05/18 02:11 PM
1

What do you want? One unicorn or to fuck loads of chicks?
/r/askMRP25/05/18 05:26 PM
1

So you have oneitis. How is the relationship itself? Are you getting what you need? How does she treat you?
/r/askMRP25/05/18 04:13 PM
1

I can't imagine why anyone who takes Red Pill seriously and isn't married yet would WANT to get married in the first place. But. Dude, a groom speech is supposed to make your bride feel like the fucking queen and princess of the planet. It's one of those occasions (like sex) where you SHOW her the feels. It's not beta to gush about your wife-to-be during your own wedding. That's just expected. And she won't remember what you say, just how the night felt to her. Best way to get crazy laid on your…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 06:43 PM
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Fair point. But neither is every MGTOW a manchild. Nor is every woman by definition a responsible spender of money. In my experience, most married men that I know compromise and give up their dreams in order to achieve the "perfect" modern family look. Where before marriage they were interesting people with interesting hobbies and the freedom to do creative things, after marriage they lose that edge and become schlubs with honey-do lists and dead bedrooms. Truly fantastic, dynamic marriages are …
/r/MGTOW23/05/18 02:31 AM
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Oh boy. If only that were true. In my experience, I've gotten MUCH more control over my finances, savings and cash flow as a divorced man than I ever did married. After all the necessities are taken care of and enough money is put into savings, I alone make the call on where my disposable income goes. And it goes into fun stuff, fun experiences and creative hobbies for me and my kids. Man child? Sure. You believe that if it makes you feel better. But my life is much more satisfying now than it e…
/r/MGTOW23/05/18 02:11 AM
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Being married: Had to argue with wife to spend $60 on a new brake lever when someone knocked over my very used motorbike in a parking lot. Being single: Four motorcycles in the garage, vintage car, and nobody bitching at me to spend the weekend at in-laws rather than doing what I want to.
/r/MGTOW23/05/18 01:53 AM
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This is what going my own way means, exactly as OP stated it. I don't hate women, but I don't trust embroiled monogamy. A man is wise to keep his financial affairs, social life, domestic and career pretty separate from a woman. Go ahead and have a girlfriend or a companion or "life partner" or whatever, but never let anyone get their hooks in so deep that you couldn't go it alone with a couple conversations and a "see you around." Men become weak when we are dependent on women. That's just a fac…
/r/MGTOW23/05/18 12:50 AM
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Dude. You're living the fucking high life. Enjoy those blow jobs! I find myself going down the rabbit hole of "is it enough for her just to please me? shouldn't she want to get PIV every time?" ...and I remind myself that I should shut up and enjoy the blow job. I mean what the fock. We're fortunate.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 12:36 AM
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I enjoyed reading it. But tastes vary. Some people enjoy long-winded metaphors. <shrug>
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 12:08 AM
1

If you freak out and push the throttles to their stops, the propwash will rock the life raft, and the first mate will wake up, get up and grab the keys away.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 11:16 PM
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I decided to be MGTOW because I lived through a really difficult marriage, even though I lucked out with a balanced and fair divorce agreement. I have a woman in my life but we don't live together and aren't planning to for a long, long time. I see countless examples of men losing their nuts in committed marriages. They lose their hobbies, their freedom, and their zest for life. From the financial, domestic, legal and career standpoints, I am truly going my own way. I call my shots, spend my tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 07:12 PM
1

It's not just the actual time spent having sex, which should almost always be pleasurable. It's all of the stuff around it. The risks, the fact that you have another person that you are now interacting with, who has needs and expectations and may have baggage. MGTOW simply says that it may not be worth it, mostly, to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 06:31 PM
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Hmmm. I understand what you are saying and I think you are right in how Red Pill can lead to MGTOW. But I think one can end up as a MGTOW without taking the red pill. Maybe someone doesn't have an issue with women per se, nor agree with the red pill theories about them, but they decide that marriage and kids and long-term monogamy just aren't good situations. So they decide to live their life independently, call their own shots, maybe date women but never settle down. Never get into a stuck situ…
/r/MGTOW16/05/18 08:04 PM
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Why is MGTOW necessarily Red Pill? Red Pill, it seems, is mostly a theory about "how women are" and what that means for men who want to deal accordingly with women to achieve certain ends. Seems to me that you could still be a Man Going Your Own Way and not necessarily be Red Pill. I don't think I need to agree that AWALT and Women = Hypergamous and all of that to choose to go my own way, avoid commitment and marriage and keep control of my own finances and logistics. Maybe I've been married bef…
/r/MGTOW16/05/18 07:23 PM
1

Buy a heated motorcycle jacket. Gerbing is the brand, I believe.
/r/MGTOW13/05/18 11:34 PM
5

Getting pushy with people and NOT getting laid are extremely beta behaviors. Keeping your cool and going home with the girl = winner.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:53 PM
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I don't think I'd be too into seeing a plate's XL condom bowl and used cum towels, either. But not because I was insecure over my own equipment. It would be because that's just some nasty shit I don't wanna see or hear much about. Don't let it emasculate you. Sounds like she's pretty slutty. If this other dude's dick size is in your head then you either need to fix your head or drop the chick. Either way, so what? She's just a plate.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:40 PM
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Is this enough reason to drop a plate or am I being a bitch?" You don't need any other reason to drop a plate other than you're tired of plating her or it's becoming too much of a hassle. The size of some other bro's dick ain't a valid reason unless she's shit testing you over it. And even then, if you still like fucking her, do what you wanna do.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:27 PM
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Give yourself a time limit to wallow in your shock and sadness. I suggest no longer than a week or ten days. After that, get your ass back into the gym, hang out with bros, play video games, buy a motorcycle, start working on finding your way forward again. It's gonna feel weird and lots of things will remind your of her but you have to keep going. Eventually that will fade. It sucks. You got hurt. That's gonna sting, especially when the relationship made you happy. Sounds like you did all of th…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:11 PM
1

This is exactly why college campuses have become totally bonkers. They are ground zero in the culture wars. All this guy did was make a dad joke. He should have said "housewares or sporting goods" but Jesus Christ, people in the academic world need to lighten up and mature a little.
/r/MGTOW08/05/18 08:39 PM
1

What he said was true. Women can support themselves and have as much sex as they want. That's the reality. Polygamy is a quaint anachronism.
/r/MGTOW207/05/18 08:17 PM
1

"Rather, a marriage should be polygynous, with the man as manager of his wives..." Why on earth would you want that kind of responsibility? You want to be responsible for the well-being and happiness of more than one woman? God no. That sounds worse than the current ball of pain that marriage is in 2018.
/r/MGTOW207/05/18 08:13 PM
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You’re way too much in your own head. All of this strategy stuff. Go out, lift, fap if you feel like it, get laid or don’t. Enjoy your day and stop analyzing everything to death. I think that’s where your neediness is coming from. Seriously. Just focus on one day at a time. Do what you feel like doing. Work on your mission. But try to enjoy your time and stop obsessing.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 02:36 PM
2

She's not to blame for what he does with his life. That part is true. That's on him. However, she is to blame for her bad decisions and the destruction of their relationship. She made the choices. You can argue all day that he should have known better for X, Y and Z but in the end, she was a human being with free will who made the choice to do bad. And she deserves the blame for it. If OP blames himself he actually sets up a scenario where her bad actions are his responsibility and they aren't. …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:57 PM
1

No point. Satisfaction and hunger have to work together or life is misery. It's an integrated process.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:57 PM
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I think he should definitely learn from this to find out if there were warning signs. Or that he gave his trust too easily. Totally agree with you there. However, this is such an extreme case of dishonesty on her part that I really think he should not accept responsibility for what she did. He should, however, take responsibility for how he recovers and how he learns from this experience.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:45 PM
2

It is never okay to be satisfied with your life. Man, that sounds like the recipe for eternal unhappiness. You have to find a way to ENJOY the present moment. To allow yourself to enjoy the fruits of your life, every once in awhile, and to also hunger for more. But, ultimately it has to be a balance. Too much dissatisfaction and you will burn out. Too much complacency and you will stagnate. You can enjoy your meals but also get hungry. In the space between those is the way to a good life. A life…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:43 PM
1

"People always talk about the same goals...being ripped. Being rich. Banging hot girls. These are always the pinnacle of what we all aim for. But what if we just don't FEEL that desire? Am I lying to myself? Have I accepted my fate and am I just self-rationalizing?" Not every man has to have the same set of goals in order to be happy or have a prosperous life. Some men don't give a shit about being ripped, don't care to work hard for money, or don't really care that much about courting women. So…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:35 PM
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"I'm pathetic, I agree." Dude. You aren't pathetic. She's a fucking monster and she lied to you. You're not the CIA. Anyone can be lied to. And anyone can be hurt. What you need to do now is get your shit in order, get stronger, and get past this human black hole. And, count yourself EXTREMELY lucky that you don't have any ties to her. Block her everywhere. This is HER FAULT. She is a bad person. You were a good guy and she fucked you over because she is a terrible human being. This ain't on you…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:23 PM
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Don't put the blame on her , she does what she wants with her life she manipulates you only because you allowed it . The blame is squarely on her. OP didn't do anything to cause her to cheat and escort behind his back. Sounds like OP acted in a reasonable manner and didn't ignore any huge red flags. Just because she asked for some space shouldn't automatically indicate that she's a fucking escort on the side. This is HER fault. OP found the worst of the worst. And he needs to lift, go fuck ten o…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:16 PM
1

"I am worried I might kill myself. I need support and man to man advice." It's natural to be dismayed and hurt when betrayed this significantly. But this was not your fault. This is on her. You were being a good person. Don't let depression take you over because of the actions of a bad person.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:09 PM
1

Forget she said it and continue with your day. Who cares? You're young and this is all just experience. Have fun with it.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:10 PM
2

2 out of 3 times sounds like a healthy sexual relationship to me. Why are you obsessed about the 33% of the time she'd rather not bang? Is it so boring spending time with her that you can't find anything else to do?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:35 PM
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Why would you be depressed by finding out about MGTOW? How does that prevent you from casually dating girls (and using protection, obviously), joining clubs, making friends, or doing projects? Do you have a fantasy about meeting "the right girl?" Lots of people have that fantasy. You may even luck out and find a girl that makes you happy. Maybe she'll make you happy for a long time. Probably not. That's just human nature. There's so much to do out in the world. Why be depressed?
/r/MGTOW25/03/18 08:17 PM
1

Could have been my words exactly.
/r/MGTOW14/03/18 03:07 PM
1

Why can't they be both true to themselves and kind to the people in their lives? Would it be better to model a war between mom and dad, winner-take-all? Lots of divorced couples fucking hate each other and fight nonstop. That's not a good model for kids. This is.
/r/MGTOW14/03/18 02:58 PM
1

People aren't able to read the future. You don't know why they divorced. If the children have stable home situations with mom and dad, separately, who gives a shit? This guy is respecting the mother of his children even though they aren't together anymore. I think that's laudable.
/r/MGTOW14/03/18 02:57 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with respecting the mother of your children. This doesn't mean he has to answer to her or do everything she wants him to do. Being generous to people in your life doesn't subtract from what you have. If he's letting her call the shots for him or change the way he lives, then he's a cuck. If he's holding on to hope that she'll jump back on his dick, then he's a cuck. If he's simply being nice because this woman is a part of his kids' lives, then he's just being a good guy. F…
/r/MGTOW14/03/18 02:55 PM
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Like everything else, go with what works for you.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 02:38 PM
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They fuck a lot better than women under 30, though.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 10:17 PM
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If someone is single at age 50 (and it happens all the time), staying fit and riding a motorcycle probably guarantees that you are meeting more attractive women of your age range as well.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:48 PM
3

Autism is a neurodevelopmental condition, not a blanket term for behavior or action that you think is strange.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 02:57 PM
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This made me smile. So true! And such a good base to operate from. Being with someone because you WANT to, and because the relationship SERVES you, rather than because you think you NEED to.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:28 AM
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Or at least several layers of skin, a broken thumb, miscellaneous expensive bike parts, and several thousand dollars of hospital bills.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:20 AM
3

I have a good friend who was an EMT. He does not ride for the exact same reason.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:15 AM
2

I could see if she chatted with him a bit and then increased her contact with you- that would be a really good ego boost to you and a very good move on her part. What she did was the opposite!
/r/askTRP12/07/17 11:15 PM
3

Nah dude, she blew it. Her body language cut you off and she clearly let this dude alpha up on you. It's on her, not you. You wouldn't do that to a date, would you? Very tacky.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:18 PM
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"I come to you from the end game, you idiots." You're 35 and making early middle-class money. That isn't the end game. That might be the start to a nice life, but it isn't the end game by far. The end game is retiring young and healthy with enough money to travel three times a year, a nice home or two, some toys, a wife or girlfriend who still sucks your dick on the reg and does butt stuff when you want it, the respect of your peers, a creative and satisfying hobby and a couple of kids in Ivy Le…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 06:14 PM
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Oneitis is a temporary condition and it usually involves putting a woman on a pedestal and artificially inflating her worth over your own in your mind. That isn't healthy. And yet, my father has been with my mother for 48 years and I'm sure he couldn't imagine being with anyone else, nor she imagine anyone else. And they have a great relationship. Sometimes you can find one person and decide that you want them and nobody else, and you can make it work. It ain't easy but it is possible. They are …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 04:32 PM
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Video games are fine in moderation. Same with porn, although both can be dangerous and can easily become substitutes for actually living and experiencing what the world has to offer.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 04:28 PM
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There's nothing Bloopy about teaching your daughter to know herself, to direct herself, and to know right from wrong. At least, that is the way that I see it. If you disagree, that's fine. This is a public forum and agreement is not required. If you think I'm wrong, then go ahead and tell me which of my doctrines is not compatible with raising a daughter correctly under TRP. Your perspective would be interesting to me.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 05:08 PM
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There is nothing specifically "feminist" or "anti-red-pill" about anything that I said. I am teaching self-respect, self-direction and self-knowledge. Right from wrong. Curiosity. Courage. Morality. These apply to anyone, male or female. I don't know why you were triggered over supposed "Feminism." I didn't say anything about rape culture, patriarchy, "intersectionality" or political correctness. The values I instill in my children are traditional and universal. They shouldn't be threatening to …
/r/askTRP07/07/17 05:06 PM
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If you can't make an argument against any of my original statements directly, then perhaps you are not qualified to assess my intelligence.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 05:01 PM
3

I don't know which is worse: The fact that you think I care or the fact that you do. And again- which statement was wrong? Which statement would you not use to guide a daughter?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:51 PM
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I'm not sure that it is. Which part of my advice doesn't sound right?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 11:10 AM
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Teach her to love and respect herself, and to demand that others treat her with the same respect. Tell her that you love her and that she's wonderful. Teach her to be kind but not be a pushover. Teach her that she can be anything she wants to be. Encourage her to explore the world and learn new things. Show her how to be strong and self-directed. Show her what matters in life and what doesn't. Make sure she knows that you will always be there for her. Show her right from wrong. Don't let any fuc…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:06 AM
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"She just wants you to please yourself with her. If your think she wants you to please her, your doing it wrong." Nah. Look, women aren't complete idiots. They might enjoy being with a dude who just takes them and doesn't give a fuck, and they might even get off on it. But they aren't going to stay around unless you can deliver the fucking shiver, and do it well. If you mix up some tender, attentive focusing on her pleasure with occasional straight-up just alpha fucking without a care, she's lik…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 03:14 AM
2

"Divorce is supposed to be a royal pain in the ass for whoever caused the marriage to fall apart. You cheat on your spouse? Lose your house." That wasn't my experience. Does that still happen? Aren't many states "no fault" divorce states? Maybe my experience was different because my ex and I both worked full time and had similar income levels. We share the kids basically 50/50 and I pay her small increments to cover things that she arranges like camp tuition, etc... it's entirely equitable. We b…
/r/MGTOW21/06/17 04:45 PM
5

When she said "If you want sex, go find someone else. I just don't want to know about it. And stop calling me 'babe.'"
/r/MGTOW21/06/17 03:07 PM
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