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Stop thinking about what you could have done. That’s unproductive. Think about what you’re going to do next. Sometimes there is no answer for why people don’t respond. Other times there are reasons, but they aren’t communicated. Either way, your time is worth more than ruminating on the past that will just leave you feeling unfulfilled. So focus on disengaging from them and work on meeting someone new.
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:48 AM
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How would showing her she has no place in your life anymore show anything other than strength? I’m actually really confused as to how this could be interpreted as weak?
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:07 PM
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she’s saying she’s loud
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:55 PM
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sure can ask them what they like to eat though
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:58 AM
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I mean i don’t shy away from confrontation so it makes sense why this is an aspect we agree on. but i was also raised that i had to validate pretty much anything i believed and got used to confrontation bc of that. but it’s not always the norm and a lot of women were not always given the opportunity, whether it was from their parents or their past partners, to confront something they don’t like without a lot of backlash or belittling. personally i’ll listen to suggestions bc i’m always looking t…
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:49 AM
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ya a non sexual display of physical intimacy is weird for people that are emotionally closed off and only care about getting their dick wet. or they’re trolling bc holding hands is very tame
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:29 AM
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maybe what i wrote seemed generous to them but i really don’t think i was being soft by saying babying. i genuinely would not be friends with someone if they made me feel like they were infantilizing me. it is one of my number one deal breakers in any of my relationships, but i get that you don’t know me personally to know that. also i’m pretty sure he said most of them were in relationships so idk how jealous they are unless they’re not really involved in their own relationships anymore. but i …
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:06 AM
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i mean i never said that they weren’t overstepping. and the whole “warning” thing is likely them babying her and questioning her decision making. i was just giving points as to how they could have said this and not have it be a reflection of his character. bc at the time i posted it, a lot of the comments were mostly saying “OP must have done something he’s not telling us or else they wouldn’t have had to warn her about him” which isn’t always true.
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:28 AM
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tbf we have no idea what she was warned about. she could have just been warned to not catch feelings or her friends could be overprotective and don’t want her to sleep around. girls can slut shame each other too. it doesn’t necessarily equate to him being unsafe
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:36 PM
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Do you know specifically what she was warned about? Because it could have also been harmless. From the point of view of your friends. They could have checked up on her because they though she might have drank too much and was just going along because of that, or it was irregular for her to have random hookups and wanted to make sure she wasn’t doing anything impulsive, or maybe she recently broke up and they thought she was being self destructive. It could have been a number of things they were …
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:20 PM
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i guess it’s more so a me thing and maybe not what works for everyone. but i just like making people nervous and teasing i guess, so that one in particular just hit. maybe it was a particularly low self esteem day, maybe bc i’m 5 foot nothing and literally the least intimidating person and more used to being intimidated by other people so it was just kind of funny to be perceived in that way. who knows… but it worked…
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:13 PM
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a guy once told me i was intimidatingly pretty on tinder but then immediately unmatched me and i still think about it sometimes. that was pure self sabotage. i can’t say it’ll work on everyone but if was about to work on me if he had waited another 3 seconds for me to respond. but also avoid ones that are about their names like if she shares the same name as a movie actress or a Disney/cartoon character chances are shes already heard it and if she is over 20 it has gotten soo old.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:48 AM
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nah i wouldn’t say a lot of women want to wait and want to wait a long time. waiting tends to depend more on age/experience, comfortability (in themselves and with their partner, past bad experiences (like they feel they were being taken advantage of too early), and then also their own personal drive. waiting too long can also be a turn off if they care about sexual compatibility. everyone’s different, it’s best to just learn to read body language or better yet, talk to them about their expectat…
/r/seduction02/02/22 09:06 PM
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Conversations great and all but if you want to have an intimate relationship with someone you’re gonna have start initiating. Set up dates that are more relaxed and you’re able to lessen the physical distance, like watching a movie together. Sit close, put your arm around her, maybe cuddle. After a bit just look at her, when she looks at you, kiss her or if it’s more of your vibe tell her she’s pretty and ask if you can kiss her (you don’t have to ask every single time, but the first few times i…
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:46 PM
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definitely doesn’t work for everyone. but also as a woman who tends to put a lot of people in a “hmm maybe” category of if i find them attractive, whenever they smell really good it’s like the scent makes the decision for me and turns anyone i’ve put in that category into a “hell yes” (unless they’re not a good person or something). maybe that’s just me, and my attraction is more scent focused but it definitely boosts your chances. also the things she listed are just general ways that people tak…
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:03 PM
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please, i need all the tech help i can get
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:07 AM
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my last sentence was that since hominids evolved into homo sapiens they have since had a sub species evolve out of this species, being homo sapien sapiens, which is the modern human. who comparatively speaking have more developed prefrontal lobes than homo sapiens which increases their ability of having consciousness thought and being less controlled by impulsivity. but ya kind of sidetracked from earlier, i also don’t think that average is based off purely from a personal selection factor eithe…
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:18 AM
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i mean if you really want to go back that far. it’s fairly safe to assume our physiology and possible incentives towards procreation was different back then too. our brains didn’t have as developed prefrontal lobes, which meant we had less consciousness over what we did or didn’t want and were more controlled by bodily needs. which means we didn’t have the consciousness to give or take away consent. we just did it. but then again you could go back to early early life forms and i don’t think cell…
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:46 AM
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You may want to ask yourself why you only find women attractive when there’s a chase? How will you ever be satisfied with your “dream girl” if you have to constantly chase her in order to find her attractive? You can’t just make people attracted to you. They either are or they aren’t. They may not be honest about their attraction which is why people use seduction, to bring out that honesty. But it’s not something you can just pull out of nowhere.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:18 AM
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mate i really hope you reread what you just said because that kind of thinking leads to charges if you act that out.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:03 AM
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the computer beat me this time. but next time…next time i’ll probably do the same thing…. lmaooo 😂😂
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:59 PM
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maybe i skimmed. but also maybe you just have completely different personal experiences regarding this. doesn’t really do any good to personally insult someone for having a different experience than you does it? i’ve personally never found that to be a way of creating mutual understanding. also he said you were selfish because of a comment you made, to me, about period sex being unhygienic. that doesn’t suggest you would be willing to engage in it if your partner was okay with it. that kind of c…
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:55 PM
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there are some cases where this could also be a medical thing. irregular hymens (where the external hole is too small) may need a small procedure to change this.
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:19 PM
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you may think my response was reasonable. but i don’t think that he was asking for a rape accusation, given that the reason he shared his experience was because you said that period sex was unhygienic and gross. which tends to make a lot of women feel like their periods are gross and then by extension their bodies, while they are menstruating, are gross. which by the way, is a big reason why a lot of women are hesitant to engage in having sex on their periods. he was just defending women. he res…
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:11 PM
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considering the lack or research towards female pleasure, on hand, i do not have a resource that answers this question of preferences specifically. as well as the only way to determine this would be by self reported surveys, which are an intrinsically bad method of data collection. my argument is based off of my own experience (biased, i know), research on female anatomy and the bundles nerves that are located lower in the vagina (meaning that they do not need a large/long object to be stimulate…
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:53 PM
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aaaaah FUCK YOU AUTOCORRECT
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:40 PM
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i mean ya, usually women don’t like being told by someone else what’s best for them just because that’s the preference of other women. they don’t like being treated as a monolith.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:38 PM
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ever considered it’s her inability to control her horniness? plenty of women get horny on their periods. if neither party are against it, what’s the issue? also in the age of cervical disks created entirely FOR period sex, why is this even an issue anymore? Edit: also maybe don’t insinuate someone has to rape their partner in order to engage in a sexual act that you, personally, wouldn’t want to engage in.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:28 PM
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i think there are outliers for both sides of the spectrum but most preferences fall within the average. there may even be a higher percentage of outliers that prefer bigger dicks than the percentage of outliers that prefer smaller ones but also considering that most women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation, you might also be focusing on the wrong method of making a woman cum. from personal experience, the women that fall into the category of preferring big dicks also tends to overlap wit…
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:05 PM
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oh even better, i don’t have a dick at all! 😂😂
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:56 PM
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i’m not unaware of that fact. but i also don’t think it’s realistic to assume that every human alive is the product of rape.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:55 PM
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i’m curious to know, in what ways is it unhygienic? also maybe consider that some people don’t have the same reservations as you in regards to period sex or blood in general.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:50 PM
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didn’t realize i’d have to explain sex-ed today and i’m hoping i’m misunderstanding and this isn’t new information. but that’s because the blood isn’t just blood once it enters the vagina. the blood (endometrial lining) that comes out of the uterus is able to immediately mix with her discharge (cervical mucous) to become the texture it needs to be to prevent friction. blood on its own is a similar texture to water which is also not a good lubricant. whereas if you’re stretching her, you’re causi…
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:47 PM
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the average changes geographically so i can’t say for each country but i believe 5.5 is the worldwide average. Edit: my bad looked it up it’s 5.1 - 5.5
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:45 PM
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i’m not gonna say that plays no part in it. but i can’t help but feel this argument is largely backed by the whole “female orgasms play no role in procreation” argument. bad sexual experiences (pain) decrease libido. a women who actually enjoys having sex and has a higher libido is more likely to produce offspring as she is more likely to have frequent sex, increasing the likelihood of engaging in sex while she is fertile. having sex with a partner she actually enjoys increases the likelihood of…
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:42 PM
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lmaoo!! but for real you also don’t want it to be. blood is not a good lubricant. 😬😬
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:34 PM
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i’m not sure it’s a nowadays thing. superficial people have always existed.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:15 PM
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genuinely, “average” is whats best size for most women. there is an evolutionary reason why the average size has become that average. most people don’t like sex that hurts and i feel like it’s not much of a stretch to conclude that average dick size is evidence for that.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:12 PM
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i think it depends less on your size and more on if it’s something you’re insecure about. angles can make you look bigger, but if you think that she’s asking as a vetting process based on dick size, is that really someone you wanna fuck?
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:05 PM
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aww i’m sorry to hear that. idk what your dog is going through but sometimes having other animals or an animal around can help boost their moods as long as they’re not too chaotic and become a danger. it might also make dealing with the grief a little easier for you.
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:22 AM
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Do you like animals? If you feel like you can take care of a dog, get one. They’re great company and taking them on walks will get you outside where you can actually socialize. Go to dog parks. Talk with other owners. Most women loove cute dogs and (this is kind of depending on how populated your area is) will make it easier for them to approach you. Even if they’re not approaching you and just approaching your dog, it’s a pretty easy way of striking up a conversation bc you’d know at least one …
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:08 AM
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i know you weren’t asking me but cbt and dbt can be really helpful for challenging the way you think and behave. finding a therapist that practices these methods could help.
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:41 AM
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yeah as much as i want to take peoples words as truth. and do believe most of the time that is their truth. actions are just so telling. words and actions have to coincide for me to really believe them. really sorry you’re going through this man. try to focus on yourself and doing things within your control that will make yourself feel better.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:43 AM
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you’re not a fool. she’s just emotionally unavailable. and honestly that’s not gonna change with the other guys she’s flirting with either. she likely misses the attention a relationship would give her but her past has messed her up so much that she distrusts that attention when it’s from one person. so she plays with multiple peoples emotions to fill that need for attention she’s missing but would have gotten from a relationship. it sucks but it doesn’t really matter how great a guy you are whe…
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:23 AM
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You’re both probably going to be nervous. That’s fine. Just go with it and try to have a sense of humour and openness. Don’t have too many expectations. There’s probably going to be a lot that goes wrong before it goes right so don’t put too much pressure on yourself when the unexpected things happen. Foreplay is hugely important. Especially for women as we tend to take more time to feel aroused. Make out, touch each other, kiss each others bodies, whatever you feel like. Just don’t go straight …
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:15 PM
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4: There is no deep connection for a female, her "love" its just an emotion in the moment lmfao, damn man! who hurt you?
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:55 PM
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OP has said the girl has shown she was attracted to him. My point about std’s and fears of pregnancy was that personal cautiousness can override how attractive someone is to you. Also, hormonal birth control genuinely sucks and can be an option but the reality is that it has negative symptoms for most women and it makes sense why someone would want to avoid that. There simply is not enough research on hormonal therapy to conclude it’s safety. I don’t know what utopia you live in, but the society…
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:34 PM
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Another good point actually. Maybe not even an std, as a fellow vagina owner there is a very fine balance to keep in regards to pH and vaginal health. If the reason is medical it could also be something like a yeast infection or BV (although if you’re close enough to make out you’d probably know if it was BV). Or she could be having issues with birth control and told by a doctor to abstain for the time being.
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:20 PM
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As to the risk involved in sex. If Ryan Gosling or Brad Pitt had chlamydia, it doesn’t matter how bad i wanna fuck them. I’m not fucking them until i know they’re clean. Also I don’t think it’s unfair to say there is a bigger risk for women than men, because of the risk of pregnancy. Especially if your values don’t line up with being able to get an abortion. And that is outside any social expectations or personal vulnerabilities that they may be dealing with. Whether you like it or not. It is a …
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:03 PM
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This is less so from the seduction lense and more so from my own insight as a woman. Truth is some of us have really messed up views surrounding sex (so do some men to be fair). But no one wants to admit that. She could have been raised to view sex as transactional or she could have been burned in the past after getting feelings for someone, having sex with them, and then they immediately ghost her. Which could have lead her to believe that you shouldn’t have sex with a guy right away if you rea…
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:52 PM
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Ok, i’m really not trying to gang up, but this is actually the monolithic stance that OP was talking about though. It’s not that women would put up with it if you were a chad or famous. Women with abandonment issues, attachment issues, or other insecurities will put up with a lot of abuse that they shouldn’t accept. But women that are looking for healthy fulfilling relationships aren’t going to accept abusive behaviours, even if their partners are famous or a chad. The women that accept that, ha…
/r/seduction15/12/21 01:25 AM
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I know all of you hate getting opinions from women, but from personal experience, girls are used to guys drunkenly showing affection or saying they like you and then when they’re sober, pretending they never said that, which might by why she said “you’re drunk” bc she also probably doesn’t like feeling rejected. But if you don’t want to outright ask her out, just ask if she feels like she wants to get in a relationship anytime soon or if she just wants to mess around right now. You’re not saying…
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:37 AM
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i think it’s hard to identify what features are attractive to a large group of people,like women, other than what’s considered healthy. most people’s preferences form from their environment and features like eye colour, hair colour, or even skin colour are more likely to be a result of what is most common in their geographic location. north america is a little bit of an outsider on this though because especially in cities there are large diversities of cultures. making it even harder to identify…
/r/seduction05/12/21 10:32 PM
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true, still was kind of an unintentional slight tho so i still felt kinda bad.
/r/seduction05/12/21 10:11 PM
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ya sorry man… i was arguing for ppl w hair… sorry
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:11 PM
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oh i won’t deny its few and far between i’m just saying that there are people that are attracted to that and making them change into someone they’re not reduces their chances of finding this person and likely to land them in situations where they feel like they can’t be authentic. dunno about the last part though, i feel like you’re trying to make me prove i’m hot… lmaaooo
/r/seduction05/12/21 08:52 PM
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completely understand that cheating is a huge insecurity in any relationship, however, statistics back up that more men cheat than women in monogamous relationships. that doesn’t discount the fact that many women do cheat and i would be interested to see if there was any correlation with the population of women in the study having “beta partners” but a lot of us genuinely just want a loyal partner that we know is going to love us back and not cheat
/r/seduction05/12/21 07:04 PM
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man, you’re saying women find dark hair a universal attractive trait??? let’s start with a full head of hair first off and even then some bald guys could get it. i’m not gonna argue everything bc some are a majority but HAIR COLOUR?!?! c’mon man…
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:52 PM
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perhaps bc the advice you got from women conflicted with advice you got from other women bc we aren’t a hivemind and have separate ideas, likes, dislikes, values and belief systems?
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:43 PM
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nope not looking to control, though i’m not gonna lie and say that there aren’t women that look for that type because they want to control a relationship, i’ve just personally found that i like spending time with them more bc they tend to be more compassionate and actually care about others instead of trying to fuel an ego by achieving status symbols.
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:41 PM
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i am saying this as a woman, who also has woman friends. who talk about their types. some types fit what you described but some don’t. not everyone wants the same thing.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:40 PM
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These are the posts that make following this thread worth it. God they are so funny. Everyone has a type, some women’s types ARE BETA MEN. the fact that you’re trying to convince people to become something else when who they are could be exactly what someone else is looking for is just uuughhhhh.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:05 PM
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As a woman, we see it. Maybe not at first, but we can tell pretty quick and it’s such a turn off when we realize it, and you realize you were disillusioned. Don’t do this. This is also how you get a bad rep with all her friends too.
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:31 PM
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yeah, sorry man that’s it’s affected you like this but from my perspective the public places thing is mostly a safety thing for a lot of women. it sucks that it turns out this way, but most women over 18 either have experiences or know someone close who had a bad interaction and we just learn to put up more barriers over time. it really has nothing to do with you, just that we don’t know you and don’t know if you’re one of the ones that’s gonna stalk, harass us, etc… whereas the friends/colleagu…
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:59 PM
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i would genuinely forget who they were after 3 days if i had just met them and they asked for my number. you could text a few hours after or a day later and that’s not pushy. pushy is texting her right away while you’re still in person.
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:40 PM
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ya that’s a good way of getting charged for sexual harassment. “sorry officer, i know she told me no and to leave her alone but her body language told me to try my luck” you provide no context and are giving bad advice to people that may not read body language well. people also react with trauma responses when they feel intimidated and could freeze or fawn so body proximity doesn’t mean she’s saying she’s interested.
/r/seduction29/11/21 05:49 PM
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ya sure but i can’t speak for all women and also i’m fairly new to reddit so i have no idea if my chat option is open but you can try
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:06 AM
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ya i mean in your case that’s just textbook love bombing. relationships that start like that never end well.
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:15 AM
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coming from another woman, if she left you on read 2 months ago, don’t text her. she’s not interested. if she was she would have responded or she would have messaged you on her own accord. sometimes we just like to flirt and then get bored (sorry that’s harsh, i know). it’s really nothing about you and more about us and what’s going on in our lives. but if she’s already putting this amount of low energy into getting to know you, nothing much is going to happen mutually and you’re going to find y…
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:13 PM
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Probably because she’s not as crazy as the public has painted her to be. She struggled with mental health and instead of getting healing through treatment, her life became controlled by other people far beyond any timeline it may have been necessary for. Ya looks and money can help sometimes but they also could be in a healthy relationship. If you look at her and not what the media or her conservators have said about her she actually seems like a pretty kind person. Also it could be similar with…
/r/seduction28/11/21 06:29 AM
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Ya i guess that’s understandable. First loves tend to have a really big effect on people. But I mean dating is kind of just a risk of getting hurt until eventually you don’t and your feelings are reciprocated. But i guess it can be hard to aim for that goal when you haven’t experienced the benefits.
/r/seduction27/11/21 09:28 PM
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well shit idk then man.
/r/seduction25/11/21 05:01 PM
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Is he the same person he was when he was 16? probably not. people change. people grow up and realize they were shitty and immature. and some people never did things like that in the first place. terrible as it was, just because that’s how he was rejected in high school doesn’t mean that that’s the only way women will ever interact with him. also he’s treating women as a monolith based off of (i’m presuming) one bad experience. all women are different just like men. low a bar as it is, but dating…
/r/seduction25/11/21 04:50 PM
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I would probably want you to be honest about it but it doesn’t have to be immediately. Very much a preference that it’s before actually having sex though. I don’t think it’s deception just that you’re communicating it once you become comfortable with a person. Some women do take this as deception though, just a forewarning. But you can fuck hundreds of women and still suck at sex if you don’t care enough to communicate with your partner. So i think it’s more important for a lot of women that the…
/r/seduction25/11/21 10:01 AM
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or he could be genuinely interested in her as a casual partner?
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:41 PM
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