Ancquar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	Are young women not attracted to men anymore? A big part of the problem is identity politics where people prefer to think of themselves as a member of a group first (one of the "cool" ones, with the air of being oppressed) and also view other people as a member of a group first (like "man") and an individual second. Which is the opposite of individualism	/r/seduction	28/04/26 05:35 AM
7	Are young women not attracted to men anymore? It's not "women" in general, though a higher percentage of women in a few countries (mainly US) are. One option for dealing with it is just trying one of the normal countries.	/r/seduction	28/04/26 05:14 AM
3	Is reading women written fanfics a good way to learn seduction? 365 days actually can be useful, so long as you understand that it's not supposed to be copied directly, but rather "translated" to real conditions. Same goes for at least some fics	/r/seduction	05/04/26 08:20 AM
29	How to screen women before I let them in my hotel room on vacation? Letting a drink you intend to consume within reach of a woman you never saw before today and out of your line of sight is already a massive breach of safety principles, that can potentially get you in trouble even in the most expensive and secure hotels.	/r/seduction	17/12/24 10:30 PM
7	How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent? Which country was that in? In most places if she was able to formulate her wish to cuddle with you while not being with you (and thus not being currently manipulated) and put into text that can be saved as evidence, you are safe. On the other hand in a few countries with messed up laws, US being most prominent example, I'd pass to be safe.	/r/seduction	18/06/22 01:08 PM
1	is it attractive when a girl holds eye contact for guy? Real eye contact (not just looking to where the other person's eyes are) acts as a kind of emotion exchange, you both get a feeling of how the other person is feeling and its not possible to fake (altbough to some extent possible to use acting). A person who is unsure about their emotions, or has worries (even ones they are trying to suppress) will tend to struggle establishing eye contact.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 05:10 PM
5	Feminism taught me that women like men more than men like women (in general) and that women are more attracted to men in a more well rounded way, across the world and throughout history. The problem is that the desire to seek company of the other gender is a very basic thing that far predates human sentience. Do if a person on a conscious level does not like the other gender, but seeks their company anyway, it does not necessarily speak anything about their character, as the reason for this is ultimately not something related to their character. Obviously in individual people the desire for company can be overridden on a conscious level, but when talking about people in general …	/r/seduction	19/05/22 04:59 PM
5	Do you find high-pitch or deep husky voice sexier in women? Could you quote the part of rules that says it's about specifically game? What I see is: "The primary focus of Seddit (r/seduction) is the study of human seduction. Mainly, how to integrate specific seduction and self-improvement techniques into our long-term personalities and how to succeed at one's dating goals, whether that's casual sex or a relationship." Note that the rules also say that questions have to be about general situations, and questions about specific cases are for a different r/	/r/seduction	30/04/22 01:28 PM
9	Do you find high-pitch or deep husky voice sexier in women? The name of this reddit is "seduction", not "game". If significant amout of men found a particular voice pitch more attractive, (I'm not sure if they do, but it makes sense for OP to ask), than working on the pitch isn't much different from guys going to a gym to be more attractive to women, which is a perfectly ok subject for this r/	/r/seduction	30/04/22 01:03 PM
8	Do you find high-pitch or deep husky voice sexier in women? I've worked in voiceover recording. Some women definitely can.	/r/seduction	30/04/22 12:58 PM
5	does strong silent type + masculine body language works? It can work for a first impression. However in scenarios beyond 1-night stand a girl will quickly start looking for signs that there is in fact substance there. If she finds it, many girls will be fine with a person who lets other people talk all the time. On the other hand if you never actually back that image with some depth, after a few days most will just assume that you are a kind of person who stays silent hoping it will help them to pass for someone smart. Also: make a good impression - y…	/r/seduction	15/04/22 12:14 PM
2	[deleted by user] There has been a spike in basic questions lately. Not that people shouldn't be able to ask them somewhere, but too many basic questions and the people who can contribute the most to complex subject become disinterested and start leaving.	/r/seduction	01/03/22 04:06 AM
0	Need help understanding eye contact If you do eye contact right, there is a kind of two way emotion exchange, that people describe as "sinking in their eyes" etc. You need to either be relaxed (or confident without pumping yourself up) or experience very strong emotions for it to happen though. I wouldn't bother too much with the tricks related to just looking at the place where partner's eyes are, without actual contact - it doesn't have anywhere near the effect of the real thing, and worse, a person that actually understands eye…	/r/seduction	24/02/22 06:12 AM
4	Weeding out Entitled women... And the equivalent of that is e.g. a woman looking for a man that earns millions, has his own business and will dedicate a lot of time to his family and children. The OP however is not about this. If you want a male equivalent of OP, just replace "entitled women" with "entitled men", his example is not really gender-specific.	/r/seduction	11/02/22 01:47 AM
1	Can’t get hard (28M> Being nervous affects your performance. Being nervous about the situation has this effect, but if you had previous verticality issues, it can add a large chunk of nervousness on top of that, which may not necessarily go away when you get more used to scenario. So you can view the pills as a temporarily measure, to break the self-reinforcing loop of performance worries.	/r/seduction	02/01/22 07:29 PM
-3	Worth moving to Asia for more success? This makes about as much sense as calling people who move countries to improve their career "desperate". It's true that if you work on yourself enough, you can get good results in your own country. It's also quite possible that moving countries can either put you in a better position in general, or another country can be a better fit for your profile than your own.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 09:01 PM
1	Worth moving to Asia for more success? It can work if you get a job with an international organization in that country or you're planning to reture there. If you want to just have some fun and/or see if it's for you, might as well just go there as a tourist for a couple months. Also keep in mind that not all places in south eastern countries are as easy mode as Manila is. Thai for example are often sick of tourists (though that may have changed with lockdowns) On the other hand many places in Africa are this, and quite a few countrie…	/r/seduction	27/12/21 02:14 PM
10	What’s your biggest piece of sex advice? Truer words have never been spoken.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 06:21 AM
3	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Are you talking about different environments perhaps? IMO back massage can be a perfectly appropriate thing once the woman is in your apartment (so long as you start light and watch for her signs of discomfort). It is probably not the case though in countries with recently messed up gender situation, i.e. US and a couple more English-spreaking countries.	/r/seduction	22/08/21 08:59 PM
1	TIL everyone hates this sub That was in many ways the case with pickup schools of 90s and most of 00s - e.g. "The Game" recognizes this as an issue. There is more nuance nowadays and more schools focus on improving yourself rather than on finding the I-win combo to women, but it doesn't necessarily mean that the wider public is aware of the nuances. Also the whole public gender discussion of last few years is not exactly nuanced - it's mostly those who support the Dogma vs those who reject it outright and throw dung at it.…	/r/seduction	05/03/19 09:35 PM
34	You must know how you want the girl to view you in order to get consistent results in game I would say that you may get better results by framing it as "who you are" rather than "how you want the girl to view you". The latter means that your goal is a certain attitude from a girl, which can lead to confidence issues when girls don't actually treat you with that attitude. Also "how you want the girl to view you" is more about the ideal situation, and this mindset can disconnect you from your real self and make you put a mask instead (which may still work, but is generally a more fragil…	/r/seduction	04/08/18 01:41 PM
3	How to dominate your hot Supervisor/Boss? (question) Keep in mind that a wish to dominate itself can often be viewed as lack of confidence (basically a person is afraid to deal with the opposite gender unless they feel that they are in superior position where they will not be threatened, and/or thinks that achieving "dominant" status with someone will dispel the doubts they feel. On the other hand with legitimate confidence and a partner who would not mind submitting to that things tend to happen without you having to wonder how to prove your domi…	/r/seduction	28/07/18 01:24 PM
2	I always lose the ‘mystery’ when dating, how do I keep her intrigued? The problem with playing anything is that it only works for a limited time in a relationship. Playing mysterious will work for a time but eventually you'll start running out of energy needed to maintain the façade and/or the girl will see through it. It works if you care about girls-per-week, but doesn't work well if you want something longer-term. Also it sounds like you have some degree of neediness problem if you keep getting too involved. These two can easily be related since avoiding needin…	/r/seduction	04/06/18 01:46 PM
1	The Best Five Nonverbal Signs Of Attraction (and supposed signs of attraction that are NOT linked to attraction) I find that this kind of research is rather useless for people who have at least some experience with subject matter. Their indicators had to be general so they could have criteria of them for research, but in any real situation each of them is not necessarily IOI in itself, more reliable ones tend to be more specific ones and particularly combinations.	/r/seduction	14/05/18 05:38 AM
-1	PSA: THIS SUB CAN'T HELP YOU WITH "THIS ONE GIRL" Not really. That would be like calling board of directors "a bunch of grad students" provided they have asked questions that point to the board being just that. "Virgin" can mean many things from insult to positive moral judgment in some cultures to neutral estimate of one's experience. Given that this sub is not intended for all experience levels, the last meaning is the most relevant, there's no need to dig for more.	/r/seduction	28/03/18 01:06 PM
14	Seduce her with your eyes! This is true in general (not just only a seduction), however you have to keep in mind that eye contact relies heavily on your actual emotional state. If you're really naturally confident and interested in the woman (or any person in any context), it's an extremely powerful tool. However if you have any insecurities and are not fully convinced that you should be doing this but just pump yourself up with positive words, it will not translate into confidence in eye contact - in fact it's a prime wa…	/r/seduction	25/02/18 08:35 PM
1	my Thai girlfriend is probably cheating on me but i cannot prove it. i am in love with her. Well, feeling good, and telling yourself that you should be feeling good are two different things. I know some people who have feelings (justified or not) that don't deserve some of the things they have, like job, and some others who just take it for granted but care about stuff they don't have. And for that matter even "successful" people with money and power can remain very insecure about themselves in relations, - if they never develop the real skills and understanding and try to let money ca…	/r/seduction	24/12/17 05:23 PM
2	my Thai girlfriend is probably cheating on me but i cannot prove it. i am in love with her. For starters, remember that the bulk of your problems are not really with her, but with your own emotions, it sounds like problems like that were likely to happen with most other girls with their own mind. Second, it was your first relationship, and it sounds like there was a greater than usual dose of insecurity there - kind of "I've met this girl, I finally feel great when I'm with her, but if I lose her, does it mean I'm back to square one and no sex life?". If you lack confidence stemming fr…	/r/seduction	24/12/17 11:37 AM