Andar1st Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I'm a man now. Thank you TRP	Meta	Andar1st	/r/TheRedPill	01/07/18 11:35 AM

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6	PSA Don’t be tempted to start treating people like shit, even if it “works” You are going to keep attracting women what reinforce your beliefs or you are going to make it happen yourself, if they don't. You are going to stay in this misery, (which is totally unfair - I'm not denying it) until you work on those beliefs. This is unavoidable, this is how traumatic experiences make us lean away from straight roads towards what we truly want and need, towards what we simply recognize. Decoupling from old patterns takes time and effort, and the choice is always between stayin…	/r/seduction	06/09/21 01:37 PM
2	What do guys like a lot when being seduced by a woman? Men don't always want women to be direct. Sure, that is the common belief, but it is just porn education. So be aware of advice here, because it may be some guy's fantasy. Personally I love when women escalate with casual, but explicit touch that goes beyond the norm. Not sexual, unless situation calls for it like on a dance floor. Too much escalation from women makes me stop, because where's the fun if she's doing it all by herself? But it's just me. Do you know what is your guy's fantasy? And …	/r/seduction	29/06/20 07:08 AM
2	The tinder date cheat code It's possible to be authentic, while still taking advice and following suggestions. Fun chat in a coffee shop? Check. Park and romantic setting? Check. Kissing? Check. Escalating so easily? Sometimes it happens naturally. I would have to get out my comfort zone, but it sounds good to learn to do it consciously. CHECK.	/r/seduction	28/10/19 08:17 AM
1	You don’t feel like game is evil or abusive or something like that? Hey man. Late to the party, but I want to give you an answer, because I went through something similar and mostly overcome that belief. You may simply have a strong conscience and moral belief system. You may even be a giver, personality-wise. It's totally okay, many women love a man who is caring and has strong inner values. Like your co-workers like you. So there's that. You may want sex from women, but you don't want to be offensive - this is amazing. Again, it shows you are a caring person. …	/r/seduction	15/10/19 05:17 AM
2	How the EGO Effects Your "Game" Cheers for spiritual enlightment on a seduction forum.	/r/seduction	13/10/19 06:38 AM
1	28. Still not good at any of this. Sounds like she expected playfulness for playfulness and then either a free drink or another non-serious answer that would continue the interaction.	/r/seduction	24/03/19 05:43 PM
5	When she wants to break up or wants a, “break” I get it, you are saying not to be clingy. But this: Instead what you do is fuck the nearest bitch next to you, or go out with the boys and pull as many girls as possible. You do whatever it takes to get your whilly wet, of course make sure it’s within legal parameters. This is still desperation. Desperiation to prove to them or just to yourself that you can get sex, that you are worthy of sex. I'd rather fix that for good with therapy, meditation or anything else that will make me feel good abo…	/r/seduction	20/10/18 05:19 PM
1	Think of this as a field report that needs grading from someone with experience. I'm too young (18) and naïve too decipher everything in life. I know this is really long so I really appreciate your time to help me improve. I'm no expert, but she gave you a really good hint asking why you and the other guy want to jump in so soon after her breakup. Take it. Relax, stop with the pressure. Focus your attention elsewhere.	/r/seduction	16/10/18 07:01 PM
1	Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could help Seduction means being emotionally unavailable, so you got the first part right, lol. Seriously, don't worry that all the other guys are more touchy. I tried to play this game and I tell you - you can get friendzoned while lying with a girl in bed while massaging and caressing like lovers. I got the best results when I wasn't doing ANYTHING AT ALL. Just sitting there. I wish I was kidding. You are quiet, unlike the other guys. Different. Attractive because of that. Just be yourself man, but be a …	/r/seduction	18/07/18 07:08 PM
–	How do i become unthirsty And this spiritual stuff is working for you? Truly? This sounds contrary to most advice here, with all the push-pull and games. I'd like to put as much honesty into dating as I possibly can, but I know it is not so simple, especially if I easily get into oneitis mentality. Maybe I should start with being honest to myself? Do I really want to get involved with someone like that? What are my deal-breakers? Fuck's sake, it's humbling to realize that the oneitis thing comes from the lack of self-res…	/r/seduction	06/07/18 03:20 AM
–	Question about stop thinking about girls Do you have any sources about how it affects how we see women, aside from what common sense says? I'd like to read them.	/r/seduction	03/07/18 03:10 PM
1	I'm a man now. Thank you TRP I'm not leaving. This wasn't a goodbye, just thank you. I may have different beliefs and sometimes I can't stand the toxicity here, but I found value in some posts and will continue looking for more.	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/18 08:05 AM
1	I'm a man now. Thank you TRP Heh. Probably, but life doesn't stop shoving at me signs to open my eyes, even now. Yet still, caring is a quality I can't ever remove from myself. I want to give. But maybe the best thing I can give to women is to take them.	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/18 07:15 AM
2	I'm a man now. Thank you TRP It didn't. ...I... want it. It just showed me what to do about it. Or mostly - what to watch for.	/r/TheRedPill	01/07/18 01:02 PM