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| 2 | [deleted by user]I think too much focus is being drawn to being young. They might mess this up badly but I think it would be from inexperience more than their ages. That is definitely not the norm! I'm sure there are couples like that, but most non-monogamous couples don't actively help the other get laid more than maybe reviewing a tinder profile or whatnot. Regardless, I don't think this is super relevant to OPs question. I suggest you do more research on that. There are more and more couples opening every… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]But how does one become a mature person with experience without gaining experience? Yes, it is possible that this blows up and she loses this relationship. It is also possible that if she ignores her desires to be non-monogamous that she will feel trapped and break up with him anyway. 6 years is a long time to be with someone but, especially when you are young, people grow and they sometimes grow apart. Telling someone they shouldn't change or explore who they are in order to try and save a re… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The Ethical Slut is not bad as it is an easy read, very accessible, and some good ideas, but it's not the first book I would recommend for someone interested in learning more about sustainable non-monogamy. That is a personal choice. I don't think that it will necessarily become gossip at work as we are living in an age where people live different lifestyles and non-monogamy is becoming much more well known. Yes, sometimes younger people can be mean, but they are also exposed to these kinds of… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:50 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Poly/enm here. I think there are a couple ways to approach this. First is the direct approach that someone else commented. Ask him out for a drink and then bring it up in conversation there. This is the riskier approach and requires you to put yourself out there more. The other way to do it is to just bring up the open relationship in a casual way. You are his friend and coworker so I imagine you talk about personal things, just let it come up. Once it does, he then has the option of asking you … | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:41 AM |
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