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Simps may contribute to some unrealistic expectations, but they didn't "ruin" dating. Women aren't forced to expect certain treatment, and plenty don't. The real issue is supply and demand. If enough men voluntarily give away attention, money, and validation, some women will come to expect it. That doesn't mean every woman does, or that every man has to play along. Men who don't want those dynamics can simply date women who share their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:38 PM
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Red pill didn't fail men. Some men failed to apply it. The core message was always personal responsibility: improve what you can control, understand the dating market realistically, and stop expecting the world to change for you. If someone spends all day blaming women instead of improving themselves, they're doing the opposite of what red pill originally preached. That's not the philosophy failing it's people ignoring it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:40 AM
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The best way to judge your league is by consistent results, not your own opinion or compliments from others. The people you can consistently attract and keep are a much better indicator than who you wish you could date. Self-perception can be wrong, but reality is usually much harder to argue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:46 PM
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I generally agree. If something is a shared experience between two people, then both people have some responsibility for the outcome. It doesn't make much sense to place nearly all of the accountability on one person while treating the other as if they have little or no agency in the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:26 PM
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I think there is some truth here that people are dismissing too quickly. The men most affected by social feedback are usually not the players or the guys who do not care. It is often the more empathetic, cautious, conflict-avoidant men. If you spend years telling men that approaching can make women uncomfortable, that normal behavior may be creepy, that mistakes carry social consequences, some men will obviously overcorrect and withdraw. Meanwhile the men who were never highly constrained by soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:22 AM
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I wouldnt say your framework is more accurate because it assumes social meaning only exists when intention is explicit. A lot of human behavior does not work that way. People communicate through presentation, appearance, grooming, style, photos, body language, etc. without consciously stating an intention. Your framework also creates an uneven standard. Male behavior gets interpreted by function (“approach = pursuit”), while female behavior only gets interpreted through private intent (“prove sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:00 AM
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The “just be yourself” advice only really works if your natural self already fits what society rewards. A lot of men learn very quickly that raw honesty, bluntness, aggression, or saying every thought in your head is not socially rewarded in modern environments. People call it “fake,” but most functioning adults are filtering themselves constantly to keep relationships, jobs, and social stability intact. That does not mean men should become dishonest manipulators or completely suppress who they …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:23 PM
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There is truth in it, but it is overstated. Hobbies can make someone more well-rounded and give them more to talk about, but they are not what makes a person valuable or interesting by themselves. Plenty of people have hobbies and still lack depth, and plenty of people without impressive hobbies are still funny, warm, thoughtful, and easy to bond with. What really matters is substance. Hobbies can help show that, but they are not the whole picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:38 PM
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A woman being “slutty” does not automatically make her better relationship material, just like a woman being traditional or conservative does not automatically make her worse. Those things do not tell you enough on their own. What matters in a relationship is character, loyalty, compatibility, emotional stability, honesty, and whether the two people actually want the same kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:21 AM
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A lot of women like gay male romance for the same reason a lot of men like lesbian content — it lets them enjoy the fantasy without feeling as directly inserted into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:10 AM
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I didn’t say that is the only thing needed. I just said that is their position, which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:05 AM
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Because they are in a position to be, since they are typically the choosers instead of the chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:19 AM
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We would need more context, these women could be ones that dont view men all that highly. So them saying it with that in mind, might not mean to much. So they are downvoted in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:37 AM
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Yeah they can but probably not without a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:18 AM
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Not exactly the most noble way to go about it, that’s for sure. Even still some men would see better results going about it this route.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:02 PM
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They can want both of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:38 PM
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He just should.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:35 PM
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A man should have his rights if he desires to be a father. Once he does so he should fulfill his obligations to keep his rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:31 AM
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Naw that’s desperate it’s best to just move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:46 PM
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Well unless women’s rights are taken not much can be done. So they are responsible for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:09 AM
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Nothing is wrong with it. As he is just finding love wherever he can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:13 PM
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Well men will still feel the need. Since men can be shamed for theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:47 PM
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I don’t think they do if they grew old together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:40 PM
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I don’t think anyone is trying to make them do that. They should just know their options are likely to be reduced given their past decisions. This is of course unless they hide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:32 PM
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No it will hurt men more than help. Since men typically are expected to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:00 AM
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Yes it definitely does especially in the united states. Maybe in other places it isn’t as common
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:20 PM
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Not at all if a man can’t be sexually desirable for hookups and that’s what he wants then it will suck. Because he will be forced to take the relationship route. Even if he rather just hookup. Which will make being called husband material feel empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:55 PM
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Hate is such a strong word. I don’t think men have hate. They just may not prefer women that are sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:45 PM
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Not at all, experience for a man is never a bad thing. Especially when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:01 PM
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Not really it can make a man better at learning about how to best navigate dating. That way he can always have options if anything goes wrong. So he isn’t too desperate for any one chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:49 PM
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Not really because if a man is liked but he isn’t that attractive he still can’t be too honest. Especially when it comes to just wanting casual very early on. Still a high risk of losing her lust trying to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:23 PM
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Regardless most men can't do i't. So i guess it's not. If becoming very desirable was so easy, most men would gladly do it as it would end all struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:27 PM
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Lol you make it sound so simple well it isnt. Most men never achieve any of that. Which is the reason why top guys are rare not the other way around. Just know that anything that a man does to become top tier is difficult to do, its just how life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:23 PM
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Men that can get to that level typically are above most men in said attractive qualities. Which is the reason they are top 10% guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:25 PM
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Well its hard for most men to be honest upfront about that because its frowned upon unless they happen to be either attractive, rich or a celeb. Which of course is hard to be for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:46 AM
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Not at all if every man is great then there will be different measures used to qualify for being a top 10% guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:55 AM
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Yeah it would be nice to be told this but men have to mostly seek advice. Unless they have friends that will tell them that info which is possible. Even still they should want to learn how to present themselves appropriately. Because it will be important to know even outside of going to parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:54 AM
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I dont think they demand it they just might wish for more to be showed. Of course no one is guaranteed to get any from anyone for any reason. It is just something that people hope to get from others when struggling with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:35 PM
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Yeah he had that head injury recently that caused him to have a concussion. So until that was healed up he probably shouldn't have been in the ring in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:24 PM
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Yes i do believe men like for their women to have confidence for sure. It is always good for everyone both man and women to be sure of themselves. Never good for anyone to think less of themselves as it doesnt make for good relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:46 PM
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Well women get told they are attractive way more then men do. Men might only get told that very few times in life if any at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:40 PM
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Yeah doing it like this takes the pressure off for a date for sure. A man can also feel alot more comfortable paying for breakfast or dinner under those conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:44 AM
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Yeah a man can desire to date the women that they missed out on when they were younger and didnt have the chance to date. Of course now that they have their stuff together and possibly their confidence its a road they can look into exploring. Makes sense from that standpoint i guess but people will not know the mans story and will judge him critically if they are against age-gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:43 AM
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No they are just viewing what is provided they have know way of knowing how it was made. So they trust these big companies that platform this product to make sure its legal content.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:08 AM
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I want to be treated like a chad so though their eyes i need to be that no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:33 AM
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I dont think anyone takes it that literally they just know its important to do along with the other things. It can just be something that takes more priority for some men moreso then the mindset changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:35 AM
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I believe everyone describes it as someone who is very handsome that can get with women with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:03 PM
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