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| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Bro why are you replying to me that's literally my argument. I didn't say that women are married to rich fat guys, I said male models are rich too and they take the women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Yes but that isn't because all the hot ladies are shacked up with ugly fat guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?It's saying a dad joke, not trolling. But okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality.Can you rephrase this in science? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Fuck, sorry. $100K converted to USD. I think your $100K would actually be about $81K Australian, so basically just our median income is "high value" as in its an attractive baseline according to polling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Oh yeah sorry, I'm Australian. The median income here is like $81,000 a year. You'd have to do the Yankee Doodle conversions, but if you made 100K before tax American that's probably similar, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality.Yeah it is strong, I don't know why you downvoted me lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Well I mean it's a dream for some, reality for some. They're not all still single. Millions of men earn above 10 grand a month. I earn more than that and I'm literally a grunt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Oh wow you work in a field? Holy shit. Do you know my dad was a professional scarecrow for thirty years on his farm? One time he got an award from the city council, for being out, standing in his field. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Well this is to women who consider themselves people who date high value. It's not a dream for them, many women wouldn't settle for less, hence why they're all single and just fuck the attractive guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality.Women by and large have a pretty good grasp on not holding a lot of toxic masculinity perspectives. They're still not perfect as men, but way better than most men. Therapy and help are something you guys don't have such a complex about in ways toxic masculinity stops men from doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?What do you do for work? I'm always curious about this answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?It's definitely changed it, they say minimum 10K a month after tax is the "ideal" male income to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Why is porn hated by so many women?Yeah like on the one hand, I don't really think ANY of this shit should be normalised in the sense that it as absolutely, unequivocally wholly unreasonable, and very rape culturey to say this should be something any male ever expects from a sex partner. Totally on board with you there, and I wonder if when you guys (women) say things like "majority of women don't like that," we take it to mean "majority of women will never ever want that," when what you actually mean is "there's no universe in w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Why is porn hated by so many women?I mean I fully agree with your last part, but I guess this is one of those things where our experience as men just disagrees with your intuition about what women tell you. It's common knowledge as a guy that other guys will have sex, or you'll have sex and they'll describe one woman asking to be slapped or choked or pinned down and pretend raped or like my old FWB punched in the stomach or spat on, and many times these are things that are very hard as a guy to make yourself okay with doing, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?By definition, misandry is the idea of being anti-male and sexist, which isn't feminist. I don't personally think misandry is a real thing, but if it was, it wouldn't be feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?Feminism is ill-defined? This is a very fast way of telling everyone in the room you don't have the slightest clue about what feminism is. It's quite easy to define feminism, and has been an academic field for literally decades. Feminism is the socio-political umbrella term for all of the schools of thought and sociological theories for how to equalise the treatment of all sexes under the law, which has historically and currently largely focused on addressing obvious setbacks women have faced re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is porn hated by so many women?I mean there's no safe way to eat pussy if this is your standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Why is porn hated by so many women?So when women during sex initiate some or all of these acts, what do you say to that? If a woman says she lives being slapped, and nobody's ever literally mentioned it, how can you in good faith just say she's lying to get her "dinner paid for?" I know many women that LOVE being choked and fucked, it literally intensifies the orgasm like seven fold and they find people dead from that strangling themselves while masturbating. It feels like you've got a position and even when there's obvious male … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 08:55 AM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?Can you give an example of when feminism has made "misandry" claims? I'm a guy, and I think misandry is something that doesn't even really exist, and quite often men conflate things that are actually true about men as a class analysis to be personal attacks when they're actually not really part of the cohort being talked about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | When women find most men ugly, it's because they overrate their own attractiveness due to desperate men and the added benefit of makeupI don't know, I think to you guys that's true because you've been conditioned into thinking that when you're made up, you're actually better looking, but to men make up is gross and ruins a lot of people. Like I want to see the stretchmarks, and the acne scars and the lines, not some lady who looks like she's made out of clay when you see her face. I know this would never happen, but I think both sexes should pull back from the make up crutch, not delve more into it. I don't think humans ought t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | When women find most men ugly, it's because they overrate their own attractiveness due to desperate men and the added benefit of makeupI think this actually turns a lot of straight women off when polled, but I agree they should be doing a lot more to understand what women like and groom to that standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 07:21 AM |
| 1 | When women find most men ugly, it's because they overrate their own attractiveness due to desperate men and the added benefit of makeupYeah but the reason so many women find men gross is because so many men are actually gross. It's purely down to grooming and taking care of yourself. If 80% of men put the same effort in to look good as women do, 80% of men would be pretty attractive. Short/tall doesn't matter. Most women do the most they can to look pretty, most men don't. Simple as. And I say that as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 07:20 AM |
| 1 | I think a part of the reason war has been a default for mankind seemingly since mankind began has something to do with the fact that society needed something to do with all of its men who weren't at the political elite who had access to all the women.I don't think so either, I think the army is a terrible idea, but if we're being honest here, if those thousands of men who were as you say were forced into the army in like mandatory service when you were 18 or something, do you not think it would be (in a fucked up way) kind of the kick up the ass a lot of them needed? And that historically this might have given large groups of men purpose when they were idle at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | I think a part of the reason war has been a default for mankind seemingly since mankind began has something to do with the fact that society needed something to do with all of its men who weren't at the political elite who had access to all the women.In some sense, being in the nobility/political elite is to have access to most of the women, but all the men. Really there's something very homo-erotic-sapiens about all organising around a masculine leader who like wants more women and goats and sends thousands of men to go retrieve them for him. It's like being cucked to the nines | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I think a part of the reason war has been a default for mankind seemingly since mankind began has something to do with the fact that society needed something to do with all of its men who weren't at the political elite who had access to all the women.I don't think it's necessarily "over" population of men that would be necessary, merely a large enough gap between the haves and have nots. Like the 16th century might not have had excess men, proportional to the women, but a minority of men probably still held access to all the women in ways that made men feel like they'd be better off focusing energy on deeper life meanings, which ironically could make them far better men to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I think a part of the reason war has been a default for mankind seemingly since mankind began has something to do with the fact that society needed something to do with all of its men who weren't at the political elite who had access to all the women.Oh true I guess I did technically mean literally every single male ever born in every society, despite the vast differences in society and the implicit problems idiosyncratic to their particular culture, geographical setting and timeline, was a hunter and all societies kept every female out, even in societies we don't know anything about. I guess, similarly, the military isn't a force that turns men into competent men by and large by making them go and have to be disciplined and courageous becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I think a part of the reason war has been a default for mankind seemingly since mankind began has something to do with the fact that society needed something to do with all of its men who weren't at the political elite who had access to all the women.I agree fully, but it also keeps those men from ever competing with you too doesn't it? If you're part of the elite, you just take hundreds of thousands of men and have them constantly fighting and training and away from the women and parties. Like the men who aren't useless will have made their way into the nobility and upper echelons anyway, like they have now. So they would have maybe seen many men of the class who would get sent to war as largely fodder who weren't that productive/geneticall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I think a part of the reason war has been a default for mankind seemingly since mankind began has something to do with the fact that society needed something to do with all of its men who weren't at the political elite who had access to all the women.You say yeah, no, but then share something so unbelievably redundant to the conversation that it's hard to know what you're actually saying. Also one of the rules is very clearly stated don't downvote, so it's a bit cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I think a part of the reason war has been a default for mankind seemingly since mankind began has something to do with the fact that society needed something to do with all of its men who weren't at the political elite who had access to all the women.Did you incite violence? I'm not inciting violence, I'm not even saying this is a good idea, I'm just pondering out loud if this might be a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I think a part of the reason war has been a default for mankind seemingly since mankind began has something to do with the fact that society needed something to do with all of its men who weren't at the political elite who had access to all the women.Ah, but when we were tribal (which is actually more like the last 250,000 years) all the men were the hunters and gatherers, and were basically doing the tribal equivalent of being around a group of men all day and forced to become competent at combat, team skills, military/hunting tactics, assertiveness etc, and so they were technically out hunting becoming more intimate, well-rounded men for their communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenYeah, of course you haven't experienced being a male looking at women and other women telling you they're hot when they aren't. It's literally impossible for you to experience. The argument is simply that women drastically overestimate their attractiveness as well, as well as other women's to men. It's like how a lot of men think all women love men the more they look like a roided out Action Man, when they just don't get how plain looking and ugly many of those men are. They think because they'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenThe comment was about overestimating your attractiveness, and the accusation that men do this to a point that as a woman you find noteworthy. I'm merely suggesting that it occurs both ways, and regularly very plain women are held up as "insta models" by other women and they say "dude she's hot afffff! She's a total ten why don't you think she's hot?! She's so much hotter than him!" And they're just like objectively wrong to every man in the room. It's like the parts of women they see as pretty a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenSo do women though, like holy hell. They've just got no idea what men seem to find attractive, you see a lot of women complaining that average men are asking out models, and then when you see the women they're talking about, all the women find her gorgeous and all the men think she actually is quite average. There's a huge asymmetry between what we find hot and what women think we should find hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??The very fact you think therapy is stupid advice is all the arguing anyone needs to realise you need therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Popularity/Status does not make up for your looks unless it’s in the top 1-5% tier after high schoolThis is the most cope I've ever read lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.You've asked one of the single cringiest, most clueless set of questions about feminism I think I've ever seen in my life. Is this post a troll? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not."I'd like to understand why feminists shut down Jordan Peterson" Fucking LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive?Also it's absolutely not repulsive to men biologically OUTSIDE of their TRIBE (or even at all tbh) why these men pretend to be angry is because they're not inside the tribe of men who get to sleep with her. A "Chad" type literally never cares if the woman has seen many dicks, and often is into wife sharing, exhibition and swinging, Polyamory etc by nature anyway. I've got friends who merely like watching their gf fuck other hot guys with them, and the more attractive as a man you seem to get, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive?Lmao I'm not a red pill cuck, I couldn't give a single fuck about those people who think virginity was highly coveted biologically, it's just simply not how history worked. Polyamory was like the default for a very long time, especially in Greece and Rome, men would fuck loads of men and women, and vice versa. The Greeks even had a saying after a while "women for babies, men for pleasure." And liked many of the same traits in men that gay tops like in "twink" types. When religion started to real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive?Humans were tribal creatures that relied very heavily on very strong social bonds to organise together. In order to hunt with the men, you had to intimately trust the other men, and the women had to intimately trust the women, AND the men, and this trust and sense of community bled over into sex. In a more tribal setting (where we evolved to thrive best) everyone kind of banged everyone. In order to have a well established and trusting society, wherein the whole village raised the children, the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive?Rivals are different, I'm talking just other men. Other men in your tribe aren't your rivals in mating, they're just people you throw the woman to once you're done, like in military conquest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive?There's probably not a way that can happen without taking away those things, but when have the majority ever cared about that? We have the first real tangible wave of incel culture now, if you don't think a Hitler type can't arise and declare a genocide on women, fuck man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive?No, really it just means they don't get breeding rights over another man that dominates. Many men still would have had lots of sex with these women though, just not impregnated them. I even read a study once that said they think the glans and the ridge of the head of the penis actually evolved in part to pull others men's ejaculate out of a vagina on the out/stroke, and I'm some sense it's why women evolved the preference for larger penises, it incentivises them to sleep with men who get the fur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.It grants them power, but not power that outweighs his to the point where she holds that power over him. If she has power, why the fuck would she settle for a balding 38 year old loser? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.Here's the thing though She doesn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.Do you think this is a terrible argument though? Like seriously? It's almost an ad hominem to argue that someone disagreeing with you is "programming." Inversely it just sounds like you've all programmed yourselves to want to fuck kids and justify it with hasty appeals to pseudo evolutionary psychology takes. But that would also be pretty bad faith, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.You say that as though it contradicts itself, lmao. Yes if the man is older than the woman, given that men historically have preyed on women who are young, it's reasonable to examine the power dynamic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.Yeah how come this doesn't apply to almost any decent man though? How come I'm 31 and don't want to impregnate 17 year olds? How come all my friends are married to women their age? How come my male friends think it's creepy as fuck to swipe on 21 year olds? I find women my age much more pleasant to look at, I see these 20 year olds on Tinder and think I can't actually believe how much like kids they still are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can someone explain why I'm supposed to care about body count? I feel like literally any time it's ever brought up it's by someone who very clearly wants to sexually abuse someone and force them into servitudeIf this is the most common topic, that's my fault. I have posted here exactly once, and am new to the sub, and genuinely posted it because I encounter this opinion in the real world and I can't believe it. I agree that it would often get dismissed as predatory, because predatory men use justifications for their actions, and I'm trying to see if there's justifications around the obviously predatory ones, or if my suspicions are indeed correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can someone explain why I'm supposed to care about body count? I feel like literally any time it's ever brought up it's by someone who very clearly wants to sexually abuse someone and force them into servitudeEven in your reply here, I can feel this odd sense of justification, as though you can't let on that it's kind of gross. As long as they consent, like you just throw away all leverage, social pressures, power dynamics, sex differences towards dating, expectations, how they were raised etc, if she said yes, then there's nothing more that ever needs to be said. I could never agree with a take like this, it's like an abuser's wet dream of a logical premise. This justifies never questioning 45 year … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can someone explain why I'm supposed to care about body count? I feel like literally any time it's ever brought up it's by someone who very clearly wants to sexually abuse someone and force them into servitudeIs there a way to edit posts on here, I want to add some context. Or should I just delete and then re-upload when my thoughts are a bit more gathered?/ Also sorry, will keep civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can someone explain why I'm supposed to care about body count? I feel like literally any time it's ever brought up it's by someone who very clearly wants to sexually abuse someone and force them into servitudeThe issue there though is that she's lying to herself, I'm not saying ANY body count argument is bad, just that when men in their 30s want virgins in their late teens, very early 20s, what is their excuse for why she has to have a low or 0 count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can someone explain why I'm supposed to care about body count? I feel like literally any time it's ever brought up it's by someone who very clearly wants to sexually abuse someone and force them into servitudeNo, in context it's not that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can someone explain why I'm supposed to care about body count? I feel like literally any time it's ever brought up it's by someone who very clearly wants to sexually abuse someone and force them into servitudeYou can be with whoever you want, I just feel like on a philosophical level, what you can want at 18 is very limited by what you believe to be true about the world, and your place in it. Like I think many women do actually want (at the time internally) a lot of scenarios they later come to see as very predatory and very manipulative of the man, in some sense you can want a bad deal without knowing that's what it was, and then be really angry that you didn't know better. Women want a lot of sex t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can someone explain why I'm supposed to care about body count? I feel like literally any time it's ever brought up it's by someone who very clearly wants to sexually abuse someone and force them into servitudeYeah but I'm context, these are people who are extremely racist, sexist, transphobic etc who make absolutely disgusting comments about women all the time, and how they fuck this and that, so it's not like a random office professional guy said it, but like a feral factory worker with three failed marriages and a penchant for Thai sex tourism kinda thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can someone explain why I'm supposed to care about body count? I feel like literally any time it's ever brought up it's by someone who very clearly wants to sexually abuse someone and force them into servitudeBut I have difficulty getting laid and don't have a wife, and it doesn't cross my mind, like I feel like I've missed some important memo that the whole red pill world has just decided is very important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can someone explain why I'm supposed to care about body count? I feel like literally any time it's ever brought up it's by someone who very clearly wants to sexually abuse someone and force them into servitudeYeah okay, that actually makes a bit of sense. I still find it wholly predatory and yikes, but I can see what you mean. Wouldn't it be more of a win if that lady was your own age and still wanted all that? Like if you've bagged a 34 year old sexy wife and she literally worships you, she's probably someone old enough to worship you because you're actually high value, and she loves that she found you, and not because it's her first boyfriend with a car? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 01:58 PM |
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