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| 1 | 20 Years old guys needs help with confidenceMaybe an unpopular option here, but this is my honest response. 23 y/o male here, been through college all the while sleeping with many women as well as having short-medium-and long term relationships over the years. Honestly, I don’t think “game” is even real. When you see a woman as an item to score, or a game to play, you’ll ultimately be unhappy even if you get “results.” Love, romance, and lust isn’t a science because it’s exceptionally situational, just like making friends. Yes, being funn… | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 06:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you build kino with a shy girl being a shy guyI’m glad I hear it! Go get em’ tiger :D | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 07:58 PM |
| – | How do you build kino with a shy girl being a shy guyI DON’T agree that you need years of practice to get kino down. P.S. I’ve taken Calculous and I did learn it in one (awful) night. I DO agree that it’s based upon non sexual touching, primarily, at least at first. I take almost every opportunity to break the touch barrier and it’s worked out well for me, especially if one of the woman’s love languages is touch, it builds trust and comfortability. Examples I’ve personally had success with: Hugging her when you see her, if she hands you something … | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | People rarely give me a chance I feel like.That’s awesome that you have experience with it, I go through periods where I stop too, I think that’s part of the journey really. Sorry to hear about your ex, I’m glad you went to go see someone and I’m glad meditation could give you some insight into that, good for you man | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 03:35 AM |
| – | People rarely give me a chance I feel like.I felt this way until I found meditation, a path of mindfulness filled that “void” for me. I realized searching for more “things” (friendships, hobbies, money) didn’t satisfy whatever the hell I felt I was missing. Even when I would find something, a friend or lover, it didn’t feel like “enough.” Mindfulness just kind of turned up the volume of everything I was doing, including those relationships. It made me feel more a part of things I participated in, it made me thankful for where I was. If y… | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | The guy I like is really confident and I'm really shy - how do I get over how nervous he makes me feel during conversations?Sometimes guys over compensate for anxiety or nervousness with confidence. If you feel a strong sense of confidence he might very well just be nervous. I would try to see if this is the case when you’re together, try to understand why he acts in the way he does, if he’s trying to be exceptionally funny, if he’s specifically trying to do things like make an order or reservation, open doors, make physical approaches, intense eye contact, etc. Maybe seeing this confidence as his way of dealing with… | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Techno ClubWhere I live, there are bars that are more fast paced like the ones you’re talking about. I’ve never found great results from trying to talk to/pick up women from these because of the exact same reasons you’ve mentioned. I’m not saying it’s impossible, or even highly effective for some people, but for me it doesn’t work. The music is too loud for conversation, there are too many different potential partners looking to do the exact same thing you are, and everyone is very drunk. I pickup women wi… | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 02:06 AM |
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