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| 13 | men 30+ how well do you do with younger women like 18-25?Once I turned 30, I feel like I became invisible to women my age and only have been seen by younger women or women over 50. I have a good job and am a lot of fun. Maybe it’s due to a lot of those younger women being grifters and not that cool. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Nothing seems to work with this girl, I need your thoughts please.This is the best comment. | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 05:41 AM |
| -2 | How do you charm bad bitches?Money. Nice body. Eye contact. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 07:16 PM |
| 38 | Why is every woman on the street wearing headphones?Keeps away the wackos and the talkers | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Getting super soft rejections, how to have a more assertive vibe?You’re coming off as inexperienced and from what it sounds like, low sex appeal. I’d loom into the book MODELS by Mark Manson, The Charisma myth, or have you read the game? | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 03:36 AM |
| 2 | I (M26) hooked up with a girl (F28) twice over the weekend. When should I reach out again?IMO, not texting and waiting a certain amount of time actually kills the game. It’s OK to text as long as you’re using texting to setup a date, not have conversations. I would text as soon as possible and get a date on the calendar: | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 02:34 PM |
| 0 | 34M. Experienced with dating. Met a girl I liked a lot & dropped other options. Then got dumped. What’s my mistake?💯 | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 06:36 AM |
| 24 | Met a girl on a plane. Instant intense chemistry and i got ghosted.1) When a girl future fakes you need to raise your value regarding it. I would have responded “do you plan the future with everhone you meet” and delivered it in a turned off but also can’t tell if it’s a joke way. 2) I would have told her “we just met” if she tried to hold my hand. Someone of value and that is worth something won’t let you hold their hand right away. By you playing into both, you showed her you were over eager and left nothing for her to imagine or desire because you were easy.… | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 03:09 AM |
| 17 | Met a girl on a plane. Instant intense chemistry and i got ghosted.You got played. Future faking is the first sign and letting her hold your hand. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 02:41 AM |
| 3 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Wow | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Best response to her “I had an amazing time tonight” text“Slay 🤘 “ or “happy to hear. What’s going on (insert next day you’re free) | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 04:31 PM |
| 23 | How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks?“ what makes you think you deserve me to buy you a drink?” Works like a charm everytime. The girl either realizes it’s too much work for a drink or she likes that you don’t give a fuck about her. | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsWhat! So how was IT? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?If they are into you, they will literally move mountains to see you, be with you, etc. If you’re confused if they like you or not, keep on moving on and dating. Don’t get attached. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?Plain and simple- He’s vulnerable and honest. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Yup, multiple times and the common denominator was that it has ALWAYS been on the dance floor around 11:30PM that I meet them. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 07:38 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]“Why in the world would I send you a dick pic” | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:22 PM |
| 39 | [deleted by user]This would be the best route. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:21 PM |
| 25 | [deleted by user]Pay attention to Don Juan here. Couldn’t t have said it better. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 01:09 AM |
| 3 | My Ex gf reached out..Right here. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 3 | I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard.Say something came up and you can’t do this anymore. Something did come up, a better thought in your mind and reality. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value.80% are probably all virgins. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Zodiac signs are a great cold opener and will increase your pull (teens and 20s)This is true. Pulled many using zodiac. | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone used "get-rich-quick" online marketing strategies in online dating? It'd be fun to see what happensWorth a shot. You got me. | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Thank youGreat job!!!! | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 2 | What makes some guys don't care when they get rejected and others think about it for weeks?Confidence. Takes a lot to build but worth it. Also, hanging with someone who lets people walk all over them and is emotional. You see it and you think holy fuck, I never ever ever want to be that person. | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:14 PM |
| 11 | Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life?I would like to know. I am struggling with this as well. I get bored around 6 months, start to crave other women but lately I just get bored. My cravings have gone down and am no longer finding excitement in the chase, sex, same woman or a new woman etc because I have been over sexed. | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 08:28 AM |
| 7 | How to text a girl you've never met IRL?Yes. You will just become every other guy. Only like posts occasionally, never compliment and ask genuine questions ONLY when you have one. I really wouldn’t even advise picking a chick up over the internet unless it’s a dating app. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 11:46 PM |
| 21 | How to text a girl you've never met IRL?The code is not to use Instagram to pick up girls. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 10:50 PM |
| -7 | How to text a girl you've never met IRL?Don’t ever Direct Message a girl. I don’t even direct message girls I know because they may think I’m interested. Even if I am. Girls get scared when a guy is obviously interested and trying. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 10:44 PM |
| 17 | How to text a girl you've never met IRL?That’s exactly what I meant. Only ask the question on a post so it doesn’t seem like you’re going out of your way to talk to her. If she’s an influencer and has over 1-2k followers. I wouldn’t even try. Although, I have had Brittany Furlan Lee ( Tommy Lee’s wife), some comedians and a wannabe porn star respond to me after about 1-3 years of randomly liking their posts and asking genuine questions. I never ever ever flirt with them and I’m actually not even trying to hit on anyone. I would have f… | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 10:43 PM |
| 123 | How to text a girl you've never met IRL?This is actually not true. If it’s a random chicks profile, follow her but don’t like her every post. Never comment, never compliment her. When you feel like there’s something you guys have in common, ask her a question about it but don’t slide into her DM’s. Keep mysterious. I picked up a European like this and I’m not from Europe. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 6 | Is there an "ultimate" reason for a girl to stop being interested in a guy she was really interested in?Relationships are incredibly disposable nowadays. Girls are being hit on all the time literally because of social media and apps. It’s not like it used to be where you actually had to go out to meet people and be out there. So.. people growing up in this kind of environment don’t really value connections or relationships because they can just get on an app and find one.. they are also not focused because they have many different options stimulating them at any given time. This is just in my expe… | /r/seduction | 01/10/20 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Say what’s on your mind without hesitationHa! Good melatonin line. | /r/seduction | 24/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Two girlsOnly go stand next to the one you aren’t interested in. Interact with her, ignoring the one you like. Then ask a group question. Drives them crazy each time. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 05:43 PM |
| 8 | You can't make someone love you.When you give up and move on, that’s when they come knockin’ | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 06:14 AM |
| -7 | Turned 30 as a virgin. Now 1 year later after a few lays and my first relationship (Part 2)This is oozing perpetual male toxic energy. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Wondering what the best online dating opener would be for mass TextingI usually insult. | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Is she into me?Just ask! | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | 19 year age difference... Marni testWhat’s wrong with someone your own age? | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:47 AM |
| 86 | Muted Girl [18] I Just Want A Boyfriend...I’d walk around with a flash card with something witty and approach boys you like. We’re actually in an age of texting so once you get over the hump of meeting someone. I feel like you’re good to go. You said you’re in high school and I just want to remind you that kids are still really fucking shitty at this age and don’t appreciate much, if anything, beyond themselves. Just hang in there. Things get better in time and I’m sure when you’re in your twenties, you’ll be overwhelmed with a good pic… | /r/seduction | 21/08/20 10:19 AM |
| 7 | An old but relevant article highlighting the dangers girls have to face when rejecting a guy. It's important to be considerate. This is one reason why 1) You're given a wrong number by them and 2) Ignored over text on the follow up from a receptive Cold Approach.Sometimes it simply comes down to another creep ruining it for all men. Don’t be that creep. In fact, act like you could care less and that’ll peak her attention. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Is age really just a number?Not true about older women neglecting the fact that a relationship is possible with someone younger. | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Is age really just a number?Don’t listen to anyone here telling you that older women do not see a relationship with a younger man as plausible. That is not true. They actually dream about this. However; with an older women. Game does not work. You have to have a solid connection, things in common, maturity and accountability. I would highly suggest sending her or showing up with flowers. Checking in with her during the day via text. Playful flirting. Show you’re interested but make it fun. Show her that you’re mature, can … | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Is it normal for girls to lose interest quickly if you don't make a move?This. You also might be overthinking the situation since you’re high. I would suggest not getting high before, during or after a date as it clouds judgment. Also, getting high can be a major major turn off for a lot of women. It heightens the dumbassery. Anyways, if someone’s legitimately interested in you, they won’t ghost. I’ve found in many cases, they’ll ask “what’s going on here” or make the move if you don’t. Forget about her. | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Being Single During COViDI wish!!!!! | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Being Single During COViDTake this time to read the game by Neil Strauss. It’ll change your confidence and you’ll be excited to go out next time you do. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to smash and stay friends?Don’t smash. Keep it at the friend level. This will make her more crazy about you. Keep it like that until you get older and more mature. | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Interested girls lose interest after talking to me for a while.You gotta keep the conversation incredibly fun.. Make her await your texts. Make jokes, show her some attention, let her know you remember small things about her. | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Just need advice on how to keep a conversation going with a girl I like.Jokes & memes. Make her look forward to a good time everytime you text. | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 07:59 AM |
| 1 | I need help badly.This is what you should do— start working out, Kay off the crap food, watch & read more positive shows/ things that make you laugh (King Of Queens is one of my favorite). What you intake as a huge effect on every part of your life. join a hiking or outing club that has no influence of dating whatsoever. Everything starts with your mood & confidence. The outing club will get you used to social settings and conversations. You will make friends who will introduce you to more friends and so forth. A… | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 07:55 AM |
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