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| 58 | Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling meI'm a butch queer woman and even I refuse to go to heterosexual bars now. The energy is always weird, fake af, and sometimes predatory. It's just a high stress environment compared to lesbian bars, but I digress. My advice to you would be to change your social settings to places that are more hobbies focused or activities focused. What are your interests? Are you willing to try new interests just to meet new people? If your personality is your favorite thing about you, then you need to be in soc… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/24 11:09 PM |
| 8 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Hamza has low-key always been deranged. He's a clever and eloquent dude, and his brand of misogyny has always been very calculated and carefully curated to manipulating women in very subtle ways, but with a pleasant British voice attached to it. I remember in one of his videos, he showed some woman he was dating at the time (she looked 18/19) that was helping him film his content, and an arrow appeared on screen that pointed to the girl with a caption that basically said that guys should use wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill ideologies popping upI'm glad to help, man! Good luck on your healing and strengthening journey. Also, try to find some hobbies and passions that you're interested in and immerse yourself into that shit. Better friendships and relationships will come naturally for you when you learn to love and enjoy your own company and intelligence. Take care! | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/23 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill ideologies popping upThere's a lot to unpack here. Do not take offense to what I'm about to say, because my intent here is to offer up some good faith advice and analyses. She is in uni with me and in a long distance relationship with her boyfriend. In the time she spent with me in uni we were joined at the hip and engaged in about as much behaviour as you could without it being regarded as physical cheating. (Flirting, close contact etc.) You're young, and so I do not actually blame you for having some poor boundar… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/23 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill ideologies popping upFor example, i had an argument with a girl I liked over how she acted in front of other guys and instead of telling her truly how I felt, that her behaviour was inappropriate and that I was pissed We need more context here, man. So, you have a crush on this woman, which means you're not dating her (because obviously this story would be about more than a crush), but you also want to regulate some sort of behavior she is allegedly displaying around other guys? If a woman had a crush on you and the… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/23 03:36 PM |
| 28 | Red Pill problems solved my femenistsI'm not sure why you're receiving so much backlash to your post? Perhaps it is because people are triggered by the word "feminist," but what you're implying is spot on. To be more specific, traditional gender roles, or more specifically, the idea that men should adhere to traditional masculine gender roles, has been shown to significantly harm men (and women). The more a man feels pressured and chooses to adhere to traditional masculine roles, the worse he does in school, the worse his mental he… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/05/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?What do you mean with this exactly? Men tend to make themselves unappealing to women during online conversations, especially when they try to steer the conversation towards sex. Many of them do dumb shit like send dick pics non-consensually, and then pick THE WORST fucking pictures of their dicks that they could possibly send (ashy dicks, greasy dicks, etc). Or they troll women, or act condescending, or start up with the nonsensical PUA shit, or they act passive aggressive, or they go the extra … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/23 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Do you think men sleep with women they are not aroused by? I think most people are easily aroused by the average population of whichever gender(s) they are attracted to, and are therefore capable of being aroused enough to participate in sex with average members of said population. I've said this twice now. It could make sense if you thought men did that for social valiation I never said anything about sexual attraction or arousal being caused by social validation. I said that the WILLINGNESS to… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Multiple replicated studies in social science show that more than 70% of men would say yes to a conventionally unattractie strange woman asking them in public to have sex (the figure rises to more than 90% for attractive women). These experiments are useful to assess what men are sexually attracted Assuming these studies exist, they don't actually tell us what men are sexually attracted to. Only that men are more willing to sleep with any person who offers them sex. This is why I brought up the … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/05/23 04:09 AM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?So, in your opinion, women do also find most people sexually attractive just like men do? I assume you're saying that men find most women attractive, and not people in general? If so, I would have to ask you how do you know that most men find most women attractive? And do you distinguish between men being attracted to most women vs men being willing to fuck most women if given the chance? I'm not sure that either gender finds most people attractive (of whatever respective gender[s] they're attra… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/05/23 02:54 AM |
| 11 | My disturbing experience with a Red Pill man at workHR is more likely to protect the sexual harasser and help the company to get rid of the victim in some environments. Everyone should be extremely careful about going to HR. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/23 07:13 PM |
| 8 | I love F.D signifier and signified B sides.Yes! I love seeing his positive representation of masculinity. Hopefully more guys spring up like him. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/23 12:34 PM |
| 3 | 48 Laws of PowerI wish you and I could hang out, or like at the very least I wish I could find someone that would actually try this hard with me as you do. I looked through your post history and you seem like a really decent person. I'd have no issues at all hanging out with you. Unfortunately, loneliness is as much of an epidemic in America as COVID. Back in the 80s, 90s, and early-2000s, there were huge communities filled with (and dedicated to) "weird" and "awkward" people who didn't fit in with mainstream s… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | 48 Laws of PowerI will talk to people and get such strange looks for saying some of the most basic things Give some examples please. Try to be very honest as well, because I can't give a proper analysis on otherwise. I am asking these questions for specifics about your words and interactions in order to help you gain a better verbal delivery, if needed. I will say things that are obviously jokes and people will take them seriously (which has actually led to me developing a tic of always saying "I'm joking" afte… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/23 09:17 PM |
| 5 | 48 Laws of Powerbut other people don't seem to think I'm all that attractive and so I clearly need to do something to change. Honestly though, I'm really coming to the conclusion that I'm just not physically attractive enough Can you name some things about yourself that you think these other people don't find attractive? I've been losing lots of weight recently and I'll have abs soon. I think a lot more people will be willing to overlook any awkwardness if I'm attractive I'm kind of confused here. You said you'… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/23 05:45 PM |
| 4 | 48 Laws of PowerWell that begs the question, what kind of person are you? And what type of person do you think the world wants you to be? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/23 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Red pill is literally ruining my marriageIt's so weird, and they get very emotional and irrational too! I've also noticed that when "red pill fever" takes over a person, they start talking and arguing like an online debateBro™. It's like these people enter into a mental trance when the RP crap takes over them. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 01:22 PM |
| 7 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?So women also find less people attractive as an explanation for the difference compared to men? I've never seen data that concludes this. However, like with all genders, there are people that get turned down for sex because the person that turned them down wasn't attracted to them. I do think desperate men are more willing to sleep with any woman that says yes to them as opposed to desperate women saying yes to any man, but that's only because of the social factors we've already mentioned, such … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:43 PM |
| 8 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I can do all of that and still get 0 offers My 3 points above can only be applied "after" the offer. Not before. and I could even woo a woman open to it for one entire year for a chance at sex but still nothing. And those women probably detected that you were only interacting with them for a "chance at sex" and honestly, if you were wooing women for an entire year, that means you most likely presented your interest in them as being something other than purely sexual, when your actual intent all … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:32 PM |
| 12 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Then clearly slut-shaming and safety don't explain all the difference But why would they even need to? Sexual objectification, lack of sexual attraction to the other person, and simply not wanting to participate in sexual activity at that particular time, in combination with safety and socialization (like slut-shaming), presents a pretty convincing picture as to why women are more likelier than men to go against their own sexual impulses. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:18 PM |
| 17 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Then why do progressive women stille reject sexting and offers faceless cybersex even on anonymous and safe platforms like Reddit? Because they want to? Being progressive doesn't imply automatic consent to sexual activity. Also, the sexual objectification that women experience on the Internet is mostly unappealing, awkward, and creepy. Who wants to fuck someone that only sees you as a living sex doll? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:47 PM |
| 8 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Disclaimer: My post only refers to Cishet couples. Women crave sex at similar rates to men, it's just that women are also more likely to be socially shamed and punished for having a lot of sex, especially outside of marriage and with more than one man, which has a huge influence on the sexual decisions made by women. Secondly, the rate at which women's bodies are "ready" for sex is probably a lot slower than for men, as women tend to need a lot more foreplay for their body parts to feel more rec… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:40 PM |
| 15 | Hamza made me miserableI think what's even more scary about it is that he openly admits his plans, and people still fall for it! The same with Andrew Taint admitting his illegal and unethical business plans. At least back in the day, manipulators had to stay quiet about their plans in order to trap other people, but now, manipulators can openly speak about their plans and strategies and still use these same plans/strategies to trap people, even people who are well aware of said plans/strategies. Smh. It doesn't speak … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 09:46 AM |
| 36 | Hamza made me miserableI knew Hamza wasn't shit when I started noticing that his "girlfriends" all seemed barely legal and with low self-esteem and high gullibility. I remember one video (which I'm sure his gf at the time edited for him) where he used an arrow to point towards said gf on film with the caption: "Use your gf for free labor" or something close to this. His view of women (and obsession and fetishization of white women) is fundamentally unhealthy and comes from a place of low self-esteem, racial and gender… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 09:38 AM |
| 4 | Where may I find women who do not care about looks/height?You're not ready to date right now. At least not in a healthy and mature way. "Ugly" people cheat every day. Being conventionally unattractive doesn't make a person impervious to cheating, and you believing in this lie will get you into a lot of avoidable situations. Right now, you're living in a fantasy world, and the only thing holding you back from dating is you. Here's the politically incorrect truth: Your doomer personality is what is unattractive, not your height. Why would anyone subject … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Where may I find women who do not care about looks/height?You like soccer, so join a co-ed sports league. That's a great way to meet people. And because you're meeting them in person, everything about your physical characteristics will be out in the open. Let women tell you "no" because of your height. Don't go around putting "no" in their mouths because of your own insecurities. Also, have you tried dating women 5'3 and under? Plenty of them on this earth. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 09:33 PM |
| 6 | There's something off about the red-pill, but I can't put my finger on itFor an example redpillers just make a statement like "men prefer women with bigger breasts because it helps feed babies better" without having to show any evidence that this is actually the case I swear, people can justify anything so long as they connect their justification to children in some way. It never fails to amaze me how cowardly adults are, as a group, that they constantly hide behind the skirts of children in order to justify their own bullshit. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 09:13 AM |
| 2 | There's something off about the red-pill, but I can't put my finger on itScihub exists, but I'm sure they didn't think of that. No, because that requires actual reading and analysis, and scientific studies aren't as entertaining as Lobster Peterson explaining female chaos dragons or Andrew Taint openly bragging about kidnapping and sex trafficking women while evading taxes. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 09:07 AM |
| 1 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?Yep something is not adding up. Either dude is vastly overestimating his fitness/hygiene, or he has such low self-esteem that he refuses to accept his own attractiveness, or his personality sucks and he's not ready to let go of the lie that it's his looks, and not his character, that's preventing him from attracting women. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 11:27 PM |
| 4 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?If you're fit and well-groomed, then you're probably at least automatically a 5/10. Like, I'm struggling to understand what body feature makes a fit and well-groomed man a 2.5? Regarding OLD, what kind of info about yourself do you share in your bio? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?Why do you think you're a 2.5/10? What metric(s) are you using to determine this? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsShe was indirectly insulting him Her husband passive-aggressively spoke about social positions as though other people, and not him, believed in those same social positions. OP responded by calling the people who hold those views losers and incels, not knowing that her husband actually held those positions as well. She didn't engage in any indirect communication at that point of the conversation. Her husband did. The proof is in the pudding that whatever she said was insulting, aggressive, etc. I… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsNot claiming that the husband engaged well either (he brought up something in a very provocative way). But you can only control yourself... you can insult and escalate, you can agree to disagree, you can disagree calmly and civilly, among other things. Insulting was one of the worst reactions OP could've had. I think there is this myth in modern American society that people are obligated to respond to bad faith and bigoted arguments with calmness and civility, as though taking the high road is m… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 05:11 PM |
| 6 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsHe can “insist” all he wants but she doesn’t have to listen to him. Correct. And he shouldn't get mad or feel like less of a man if she chooses to keep her job. The point about working class families is irrelevant, because she said he made a lot of money. Actually, no, it's not irrelevant, unless you're suggesting that men who don't make a lot of money are less manly for not being able to afford to have a single-income household? If a man who makes less money and who has a spouse that works, sho… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 06:04 AM |
| 4 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsShe confirmed herself that she was talking about her husband, both in the post and in the comments. That's not what I saw. She said in one comment that, had she known that her husband was personally harboring the beliefs he was speaking generally on, she would have responded differently. He's not married to every woman, so why should his opinions about women he isn't married to matter That's like asking a black person who's married to a white person, why it should matter that their white spouse … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 05:26 AM |
| 6 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsThere is no redeeming reason that could justify telling another adult that they're not allowed to have a job. Again, a person may want their partner/spouse to not have to work, but that doesn't mean the person can dictate whether or not their partner/spouse is "allowed" to work. but if he was indeed trying to get her to stop because he felt like a failure as a man that his woman had to work, then I can sympathize with him. This thought process should be unpacked and corrected by the man, and not… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 05:07 AM |
| 6 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsWe don't know that's how the conversation started. That's just the part she brought up With this same logic, we don't know every potential horrible thing her husband said that resulted in her response about only incel losers having this particular mindset. He wasn't referring to all women And OP wasn't specifically referring to her husband when she called out incel losers. and all women don't need to respect him, his wife does though. No woman needs to respect any man who calls women hoes for pa… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsYou didn't engage well in that conversation. You indirectly called him a “incel, loser, misogynistic, immature man". Insulting someone, that's not going to solve any problem; Didn't the conversation start by her husband directly calling women hoes? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 04:40 AM |
| 12 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsA man not wanting his wife to have to work is not the same as a man insisting that his wife should not work. Whether a woman works is a woman's choice, not a man's. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 04:35 AM |
| 11 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsSorry, but you can't start a conversation by calling women hoes and then expect to be treated with respect and empathy by women. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Why is Andrew tate so popular amongst people?Yes, people underestimate the power of the spectacle, which has been made even worse with the invention if mass media, reality tv-ism, and social media. In this day and age, only the most outrageous will win the attention of a modern populous that is addicted to entertainment and parasocial validation. It's why Trump became so popular as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/23 05:28 PM |
| 3 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?Well obviously, men are the one's who live with them, Not just men, but yes, there are people who have penises, and no one should be shamed for their penis size. I don't think anyone would disagree with that here. But there is nuance to be had in the context of redpill philosophy and the ultra-misogynistic alpha male ideology that Andrew worships, and that also unironically uses penis size to determine a man's worth. Greta's comment used Andrew Taint's own philosophy and ideological language aga… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/23 03:37 AM |
| 24 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?Andrew Tate deserved what he had coming to him, but I think the Small dick energy thing shows how women truly feel about penis size. While an argument should be made that society should abandon body-shaming people that have penises, "penis size" matters a lot more to men than it does to women. Greta used that insult precisely because ultra-misogynists, like Taint, base their entire facade and self-worth on how well they encompass traditional masculine traits, which includes having an above-avera… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 06:59 PM |
| 15 | Stop trying to make Alpha males a thingInteresting how this man's psyche presents "alpha" males as only having boys, while beta males actually managed to get wives? Hmm. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 01:15 AM |
| 2 | How to Vet STEM MenI was in an Engineering course right before the COVID lockdown in March. When it came to the class group project, I, the only woman in the group, ended up being the one who came up with the project idea, and the one who provided the sensor/electrical equipment that we needed to complete the project. I started the Discord server for the group and created online project management profiles for all of the group members to help everyone stay on track. So, of course, when it came time to begin the pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:12 AM |
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