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| 1 | Older Girl Who I Work With | Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit | AndroidProject | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Weird Date Situation | Outer Game | AndroidProject | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | GF broke up because she cant trust me | AndroidProject | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 06:57 PM | |
| 0 | GF Thinks We Had Sex Too Soon | AndroidProject | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 08:01 PM |
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| 1 | [deleted by user]Thank you for the great response. Well, I've hinted that I am ready for a relationship and that I have had enough of fooling around. For these past 6 years I've done everything (trust me) and now it's enough. She knows I'm not just there to fuck her. I do agree that age is what will probably fuck it up eventually. She likes my devilish vibe and she said I'm super fun to talk to. That's what drawn her in. But I definitely get her point of view. If I had to say something about our situation lookin… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 05:46 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I know the principles of Corey Wayne. She did reach out today with a meme and asked me how my vacation is going. Instead of texting i called her, we talked and set up the date on Thursday. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh I definitely did do that yeah. I do tease her but I am also affectionate and give out "rewards" | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I guess yeah. You could be right... She did seem a bit reluctant to go out for drinks though. When I invited her she said: why? What will my boyfriends say about it? I'd have to ask them. Of course, completely jokingly. She was laughing and was sarcastic. And then later on when i mentioned drinks (a few days later) she once again asked why and if her rommate and my friend will be there. Which I said no to and that I would like for only the two of us to go. She ultimately accepted. I guess that s… | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]We are colleagues at work. We went out only once before this, and that was two weeks ago. That was are first "date". Me, my friend and her roommate all went out to an event in the city (she invited me) and we made out and the vibe was very good overall. Before that we were really flirty and it was a matter of time before something happened honestly. She was with one other guy after our make out session, they went for drinks last week and he even invited her to go to the sea with him and she is t… | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks for the reply. So what do you suggest? She already accepted the drink, I told her that I'll tell her when and where. That's why I intended to call her tomorrow. Keeping it short and brief - telling her when and where we will get drinks. We haven't talked since thursday. And if we are to meet up, are you suggesting that i tell her straight up - no more bullshit? Since you are telling me that I should hold myself in high regard. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Older Girl Who I Work WithYeah. She is going on a vacation with a guy (that one vacation she asked me to go a few months back) so its definitely a no. Yep, moving on. Thanks | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Older Girl Who I Work WithToday we started talking and I asked her out. She was still wishy-washy. First she asked if her female friend and my friend will to be there also and when I said "no", she asked: why? After a bit of back and forth, I just said that my friend wasn't here and told her to pick a day when she is free. She then said that she will come back to me and tell me when her schedule is a bit clearer this week. So yeah, I'm still not getting a clear yes or no answer and it seems that she only wants to go if h… | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Older Girl Who I Work WithWell, it's a little annoying because of the mixed messages. I have a feeling if I keep it slow it will never develop into anything because of her being wishy-washy. | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Tips on friend zoning girls you've slept with?If you don't want to hurt their feelings, you got to do it beforehand, in the initial approach. Don't put yourself in the "provider" category. Show her with your value and even words that you just like casual sex. Girls see right away if you are a player or something more. If you're a fun guy who has sex with a lot of girls and she sees and feels that, then she will know what to expect. "This guy will just fuck me and that's all." You want her in that state of mind. You want to be the guy that j… | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 09:01 AM |
| 2 | I don't really believe in the friend zone being impossible to get out of, as most of my 'female friends' have shown strong interest at some point.I was the same thing. No game, sucked with girls and had a lot of girl friends at the age of 18. As soon as i started approaching women, getting better at it and hooking up with hotter women than them, i wouldn't say that they instantly wanted to fuck me, but they definitely respected me more and think differently of me now. They are the same as any woman. If you have a lot of options and other hot women want you (especially ones that are hotter than them), their attraction for you will go up. I… | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 04:07 PM |
| 7 | How does one respond to the “Why are you still trying” shit test?"Why am i still trying what?" - Todd uses this method a lot. Every time you get a shit test you just ask a question back. For example, "Do you tell that to all the girls?" He responded, "Do i tell what to all the girls?" Or just straight up ignore it and continue on. Just don't appear butthurt and everything will be aight. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Second try with a girlGive it time. 2 months is fine, as long as you display high-value behaviour that will re-attract her. If you have her on Instagram post stories with other girls, of you out having fun etc. And don't be butthurt about her not wanting anything with you. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 09:43 AM |
| 1 | ‘Once a cheater always a cheater’: Why infidelity happens more than once, according to scienceIt mostly happens if a guy is a chode, and after a few years of marriage, of course he will be a chode. However, some women just won't cheat no matter what you do. Those are healthy women. No amount of game will help you in those cases. She will get attracted, but it does not mean she will act on that attraction. Attraction is not a choice, however, acting on that attraction is a choice. It goes both ways actually, i think men are even more prone to cheating. | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | I am mid 30s now how many 'good years' do I have left? Feel like it is a race against time now to have success30 years is still prime dude, look at Tyler and guys from RSD. Todd Valentine is 37ish right now and still going hard. Even if you won't be able to get it up, viagra is your friend. Don't let it affect you. I mean i know how you feel. I'm 23 right now and am starting to feel old, i can already imagine how its for you lol, but no worries. | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Simple Question: PORNI think it depends on the person. I am watching porn almost every day and it did not affect my game or anything related to that in any way. I am always horny and find a lot of girls sexy. I read about the effects it has on your brain but for me at least, it does not matter at all. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 07:22 PM |
| 11 | What are the reasons for a beautiful, smart girl to be single?Guys usually don't approach really beautiful girls because they are scared of them, or when they do they suck so they get blown out. I am talking about 9s and 10s, but even 8s sometimes have trouble finding a boyfriend. Only young and insecure beautiful girls have a lot of boyfriends because of those insecurity problems, otherwise, a high self esteem beautiful girl will not give a fuck about being single, except if a really high value guy comes along. Or, the girls you are talking about have s… | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 10:37 AM |
| 8 | The girl I liked ended up getting with someone else.It depends. I used to think so too, had a crush on one girl and she was my oneitis 2 years ago. After i got my heart broken like you, i googled "how to be good with girls" and found an RSD video. After that, getting abundance was not too hard. You will find a way better girl i guarantee you. It took me literally a week to find an amazing girl and forget about my oneitis and it was my first week picking up girls, back in 2017 and i was so bad at it too lol. And guess what happened after i worked … | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 04:02 PM |
| 27 | The girl I liked ended up getting with someone else.No contact and with time it will pass. The griefing period will last. Cry if you need to, heal, don't try to force it. In the meantime work on yourself, go out, meet other girls and when she sees you in a few months, and sees an abundant, cool and alpha guy she will be all over you. Though, you will not want her then anymore. It's the greatest feeling ever. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid getting friend zoned and make yourself appear as a potential "mate"/partner?Todd has an interesting concept about that. The moment you go in, you establish a premise. You can do that either by an opener or immediately after the opener with push pull or a direct compliment. The compliment however, is a bit risky if the girl does not find you attractive and you can get blown off. With push pull you don't give too much of your power away. It tells her that the interaction is man to woman, but unlike with the compliment, it does not mean you want her already, plus she exper… | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Fix the Paradox and have sex with her: The concept of Value and Comfort.Who said i purchased it? Of course i did not buy it, i was as sceptical as you were. However, i strongly disagree with you. The System is not a rehearsed bullshit. RSD programs are, for the most part, and i have watched them all and implemented them all. Todd's program is different and hits different angles, even dissagreeing with a lot of mainstream ideas widely known in PUA community. He added his things which worked wonders for me. Try it before you bash it. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Fix the Paradox and have sex with her: The concept of Value and Comfort.That just isn't correct. You can practice pickup all you want if you are doing it wrong and not learning from your experience. I did that and got results here and there, was not consistent at all, and i am a fairly outgoing and happy guy. Doing it the RSD way hardly worked, until i watched The System and a week later i already got better results than in a long time, and it only got better as time went on. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Fix the Paradox and have sex with her: The concept of Value and Comfort.I've watched them all, and i can without any doubt say that Todd is the one that spills the least bullshit out of anyone. His program "The System" literally brought my game to a whole new level. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Is it worth trying to pick up girls if I don’t have my own place?It's even more fucked up than you think haha. I live in a really small town, so everything is known immediately as well through gossip, and there are not a lot of places to go to, but i usually go to a place where in the summer, a club is opened, and from September to May it is closed and there is no one there. I do mention that I live with my parents, why not? I'm not even from that town, but from a place near that town. I have never had a negative reaction about living with my parents, not e… | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 01:58 PM |
| 18 | Is it worth trying to pick up girls if I don’t have my own place?It is. I fuck in my car, they love it. Don't let it bother you. I have the worst logistics ever and it does not bother me. I don't have my own car, i live 12 km from the club i usually go to and i live with my parents. The only way i can fuck is in my brothers car who i drive as well on friday night and saturday. So don't worry. | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 01:42 PM |
| 3 | My relationship ended last night... What do I do?First of all, go no contact with her. Not because of manipulation or anything, but because you need healing and you need to get past that period of suffering. In the meantime, read books, meditate, go to the gym and work on yourself. In terms of the question you asked, I sucked with women until I watched The System by Todd. It skyrocketed my game and I recommend it to everyone. Basically anything from Todd (Women, The System, Daygame by Todd). If you are unfamiliar with him, he is an ex RSD in… | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 04:28 PM |
| 2 | How to keep interest warm for 2 months?Well whatever you were gonna text her, don't text her but call. If you didn't text for two days let's say, then on the third you call her and ask her what she is up to, tell a funny story or something, and talk for a bit. No, no, don't. Unless you are already talking sexually with her. By spicing things up i mean not to be bland and boring. Don't always text at the same time, don't always talk about the same stuff, don't be generic. | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | How to keep interest warm for 2 months?Just don't be boring. Don't text her for a day or two and then call her, talk for a few minutes and then tell her you have to go, spice things up a bit sometimes. May is in a month and a half, you should be alright. | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 01:02 PM |
| 2 | How to keep interest warm for 2 months?It is. I do it all the time. A pic from the club, it does not even have to be you. Sent her a pic of the bottles on your table if you are drinking etc. There are tons of options, just show her that you are living a cool life and having a good time, but don't over do it. Send her one pic and then go party, do not contact her until the morning. The key is for her to see that you have a life outside her, and a good one preferably. Elaborate teasing? Don't be a nice guy. Flirt with her, you know wha… | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 12:50 PM |
| 2 | How To Make Her Miss You (works on casual flings, ex-girlfriends and everyone in between)Good post, agree with most of the stuff, would like to add that it is important if it is an ex girlfriend to never show her that you are sad or angry about the breakup, even if it is early and you broke up a few days ago. Trust me, nothing will make her curious more then to see you out with your buddies having a good time, and especially talking to other girls. Not in an obvious "I am doing this in reaction to you" way, but in a subtle way. You are just talking to girls, she just happened to see… | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 12:43 PM |
| 2 | How to keep interest warm for 2 months?Do not text her all the time is the definite number 1. Be a bit mysterious, let her hit you up more times than you hit her up. Send her some high value pics, bring value with funny stories or anecdotes that happened to you (you can lie a bit here if you do not have a fun life). And most importantly, never stop teasing her. Be just how you were when she met you. Tease her, push pull her, compliment her sometimes etc., do not end up in the friendzone. | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 12:34 PM |
| 6 | How to get out of the Friendzone... My Epic 6 Month ExperimentIt's a good guide bro, and a very nice story, congrats. I also found out that you can also get out of the friend zone if you rapidly change yourself just like you did. For example, if you never pulled anything and wasn't really good with girls and suddenly you start going out with hot girls and pulling all the time, her attraction for you will go up, she may even begin testing you at this point. If you were always a nice guy, and suddenly you start having boundaries, stop being a doormat, she wi… | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 12:31 PM |
| 1 | GF broke up because she cant trust meWell there were some other smaller issues but those could be dealt with, the primary and number 1 reason is the one i mentioned above. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | GF Thinks We Had Sex Too SoonUpdate: a few hours after that text about how we had sex too early she doubled texted and told me that we will actually break up, out of the blue. She was out with her friends drinking. Thinking she met another guy or something. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 05:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA)Hi Todd. I am naturally a leader, people always ask me where we will go out, i make decisions etc., i'm always giving value and people compliment me on my humor. In group, im vibing with everyone and i think people are often in my frame. This especially happens when i am in a group (example: me, my friend and 3 girls) i am always dominant and bringing most fun without being a dancing monkey, but they just always choose my friends over me, and sometimes they are even disgusted. We were playing a … | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA)Soccer question for you Todd: Ronaldo or Messi? :D | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 08:14 PM |
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