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There's plenty of attractive men who are so socially incompetent they frighten women. Attractive people experience the halo effect but their personality is also molded by this, meaning they often are treated kindly and this learn how to be kind, presentable and charming. Some don't, and these people also experience rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:54 PM
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Yeah, OP sounds like they have a lot of shame regarding the concept of sex and believe it to be inherently degrading to women, yet also the ultimate expression of value attributed to a man. This attitude is a huge problem because it also leaves in the mind of others that forced sexual acts can thus be used as a weapon of punishment and degradation to women, depending on their purity status or how deserving one believes them to be of it, or if they are triggered by a rejection. Think I'm joking? …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:52 PM
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America != anglosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:03 PM
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No one wants to bring children into relative poverty and in my country people in that situation condemn their children to malnutrition and social isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:03 PM
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The nordicsphere is vastly superior for quality of life. The number of billionaires a country possesses doesn't translate to joyful existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:55 PM
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You just answered your own question. Evopsych does affect people's decisions, but it doesn't change social and economic reality or cultural attitudes. The fact is that people cannot afford to have children in their early 20s anymore because the cost of raising children is too great, and birth control means less pregnancy through sexual impulse alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:53 PM
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Most people do want a family but it's important to be realistic about the financial and time costs associated. For women, this is an extreme burden and it has become very difficult to raise children on a single income. If you cant spend time with your kids, you are betraying the maternal instinct that motivates having them. Many recognise this and choose not to put themselves through that, knowing they still must work full time or face poverty. If birth rates are to increase, governments (such a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:48 PM
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Simply incorrect there's still class systems in these rich nations along with poverty. Women are not immune to that and marry largely within their own class.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:42 PM
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I think so. However, military service isn't associated with second-class citizenship. Women are not good in combat. Men know this. If women are dying in combat, the children die too. From a perspective of 'how do I ensure the survival off my offspring', women in combat made little sense. In modern warfare, that may not track since the military has non combatant roles which women can be called to do, and are in many countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:20 PM
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Humans did live in the wilderness, including the men. The group wouldn't follow the woman if she left, but other groups wouldn't deny her if in the same general tribe because women had value and weren't viewed as a 'useless eater'. Her family would also still be around the general area or even within the same group. We know women were hunters because they have the same burials as men from that time, and were buried with their hunting weapons. There's different roles in hunting btw, yes bringing …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:13 PM
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Prior to the agricultural era, humans had no wealth to retain ( beyond perhaps sentimental objects like weapons) because by nature, nomadic hunter-gatherers could not accumulate wealth as they were always on the move. Thus, no patrilineal system. Also, in such societies men and women were equal in their ability to gather resources because despite men's better strength, women have better long distance endurance which is critical for hunts, thus evening the playing field. It was also much easier f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:20 PM
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Before the agricultural era, humans were nomadic hunter-gatherers. The nomadic nature of these societies often prevented the retention of material wealth. Men and women were equally useful in these societies in terms of resource gathering (bringing home the literal bacon) because despite men's superior strength, women have greater long-distance endurance, which evens the playing field in regards to hunting. Foraging was also a task in which men had no inherent advantage. In regards to relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:13 PM
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Theres two definitions. In anthropology, it refers to clans or families controlled by fathers or eldest males. The more modern use refers to patrilineal societies, where men rule the roost as in the previous definition but also extend to areas beyond the clan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:00 PM
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No, it was the agricultural revolution that produced patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:43 PM
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Everyone is forgotten unless you're some historical figure. I don't know the name of my great great grandma or great great grandfather. I do not care about my legacy or being forgotten
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:41 PM
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You seem to be conflating patriarchy and hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:39 PM
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Name one existing policy that subjugates men to second class citizenship... I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:37 PM
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I do prefer dominant men, but it depends on the expression. If someone is a sexually aggressive, perverted bully, then that person is a threat and totally untrustworthy. If someone is competent, assertive, and wise, then they are all positive traits. Maybe it's because I'm not a very assertive person, and I'm not good at reading intentions, so being around men who are good with those helps me greatly. Doesn't have to be sexual or romantic, I just prefer being around men who can guide me in the r…
/r/MensRights04/06/24 05:25 PM
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I know this is hypothetical but I'd obviously choose for her to recieve attention. Why? Because overt responses of sexual repulsion can actually be just as harmful as unwanted attention. Learning how to stand up for yourself is part of growth. Also, although it doesn't pass in this scenario, in real life, sometimes repulsion is an act, used to break down self-esteem, so she'd be more likely to accept a man with poor character who enjoys bullying her in the hopes she'd submit to him, or, just be …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:13 PM
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I'm sure you're doing all you can not to isolate these people by demonising them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:10 PM
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Everyone's different, even autistic people. There's a lot of autistic men who are very empathetic and successful, but the cognitive empathy is a learned skill for autistics, its not a natural skill. Affective empathy isn't impacted, which is the most important type of empathy since that is true empathy rather than performative. Example, one of my close friends is autistic. He is super successful, tons of friends, in multiple bands, and he's funny and confident and charming. My dad is autistic to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:30 PM
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So, men shouldn't date autistic women? That's not worked very well as a strategy considering autism is thriving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:25 PM
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Lmao, this is just blatantly untrue. Most veterans have PTSD. My mentor was in the military for 30 years. He has seen some shit. Yet he has a large family, 9 kids, is well adjusted, and very accomplished in his career. Can we stop treating people with PTSD like ticking time bombs? Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:20 PM
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Yes. I like to know if I'm looking good, my boyfriend doesn't mind it either because it's confidence boosting for him also. The same vice versa. Obviously, there's a line, though. You can appreciate attractive features without veering off into sexual harassment or crude comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:15 PM
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Thanks. My concern is that the more we as a society relax the social definitions if SA, the less seriously it will be taken, and it risks poisoning the well for actual victims.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 03:25 PM
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Uk is far too soft on violent crimes. This is a travesty of justice and it is clear the impact of this crime on him wasn't taken into account in the sentencing. Imagine going through that and having the attacker be let off with a slap on the wrist. This will worsen his trauma and offer no closure.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 01:17 PM
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I've been pretty frustrated with the continual relaxing of definitions regarding assault. Recently, there was an accusation that went viral. The details amounted to a girl who willingly sat next to a guy, cuddled, and he put his hand on her stomach under her shirt. She got up and went back to him multiple times. Anyone who has actually been through a sexual assault knows how traumatic and terrifying it actually is. You do not have the ability to get up and leave. You are being attacked and are a…
/r/MensRights02/06/24 01:09 PM
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It is not the therapists place to police your language regarding trauma. Of course, they can challenge your perspective, but it needs to be constructive rather than dismissive of your feelings. When it comes to trauma like this, you'd be better off going for a therapist who is the same sex as yourself.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 12:47 PM
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The bar for an accusation going to court is extremely high. I find it very unfortunate that there are people who make such accusations frivolously. Rape is one of the worst crimes a person can experience, and I don't doubt these people contribute to a lack of willingness by prosecutors to take more cases to trial without it being an immediate open and shut case. In general, there is always doubt when it comes to rape within established couples because of the dynamics.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 12:44 PM
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Autistic women are less likely to be single because they have a higher EQ than autistic males. Also note, 9/10 autistic women experience sexual abuse. Grass is not always greener
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:58 PM
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Never heard of a BJ or cowgirl?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:32 PM
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I feel like a lot of men in the sub do not hold the responsibility of their partner being sexually satisfied on themselves, not just overall, but also the act itself. Being able to give your partner an orgasm is basics. Does that mean with no assistance from the partner? Ofc not, men should insist that it happens because without the partner having an orgasm, they're being 'blue balled' and imagine dealing with that for years and years. Most people, regardless of gender, would not enjoy that expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:56 PM
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Sexual chemistry does matter, but the bar should not be 'best sex of your life", if you're climaxing and enjoying yourself, that is enough. Heck, many women never even get to experience decent sex because there is a fair population of men who simply do not care about their partners pleasure in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:51 PM
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Lmao why are you comparing acts of global terrorism with being raped by a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:25 PM
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If it's consensual then it's not really predation. Predation implies an imminent threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:06 PM
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You did not have a personal relationship with Al-Queda.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:05 PM
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Depends on the metric. In terms of violence? Women are treated worse by far. Economically? Women get the short end of the stick. In terms of familial disputes? Men are treated worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:29 AM
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Yes, I think on extremes men are far worse. But in terms of average behaviour, it's pretty much even.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:27 AM
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The wall only exists for women who want a man who is in a much greater position economically and socially. In terms of a standard relationship between people in similar economic brackets, there is no wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:24 AM
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In my experience, no, not all men are predators. To me, being a sexual predator requires a few things. Like, the desires to humiliate, degrade, betray, or attack a victim. The intentions for this are always nefarious, and the attacker goes into it with the intent of having their way, whether there is consent or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:13 AM
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99% of rapes go unconvicted. Why is this? First, about 5-20% of rapes (varies based on age demographics) are by strangers who use date rape or sneak/rush tactics. The likelihood of getting caught doing that is pretty low, as long as his DNA isn't already in a crime database, or he doesn't mess up the drug dosing so that the woman retains key memories such as locations involved. The remaining 80-95% of rapes are committed by non-strangers, ranging from acquaintances to friends, romantic partners,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:05 AM
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Encouraging people who have kids to stay together is a bad idea, ask anyone who grew up with parents getting in constant fights and arguments. What would be good is to teach the value of co-parenting after a separation and learning when to let go of a romantic relationship before it breaks to the point the two become mortal enemies who use their children like weapons to harm each other
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:48 AM
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Well, my uncle has created what is essentially a shrine to an Olympian woman he has a crush on. Definitely not exclusive to women. It is normal to have crushes even in a committed relationship. A shrine, though? Maybe not! If my boyfriend (bisexual) met his celebrity crush and hit it off with him, I wouldn't trust him not to do something but I also wouldn't blame him either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:34 AM
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Simply pointing out that strictly monogamous societies can actually be harmful to the most vulnerable children, who get unlucky with their parents. Nowadays, it has become very difficult to adopt. Kids are placed in a revolving door system if there are issues, the goal is always reunion with biological parents except in the absolute worst scenarios. thats no guarantee either, sometimes they are left anyway and then you see on the news that they got abused to death by their monstrous parents. Or …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:29 AM
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Because humans aren't swans despite what people say. Humans are somewhere between monogamous and polyamorous, but which one has a lot to do with the social group setting we exist in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:21 AM
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In this atomised scenario, a child who isn't in a stable home is well and truly doomed, emotionally speaking, since the sole caregivers have no stability to offer. Meanwhile there are plenty paternal and maternal individuals who would act as great rolemodels, but can do nothing useful because we as a society have decided that raising kids does not take a village.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:15 AM
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Monogamy isn't natural for humans, as humans do not imprint or mate for life. It is a social construct that began to dominate during the agricultural era, getting progressively more strict, especially with the spread of Abrahamic religions throughout Europe. Marriage, of course, has existed far longer, but it's a common misconception that marriage has always been a monogamous union. The Celts, for example, had many different types of marriage, and not all of them were lifetime commitments. Emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:10 AM
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Monogamy only makes sense for women in atomised societies. In tribes, it wouldn't make much sense at all because everyone in the community shared the burden of child rearing. Also, historically speaking, monogamy for women has been a social necessity for us as women didn't have property rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:07 AM
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Single fathers are praised by just about everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:34 AM
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So, men seem to take their own mistakes out on their offspring. Women do not abandon their child due to having a kid with someone they weren't that into
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:29 PM
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I used to be really afraid of that but ironically the only reason I'm afraid of it is because I'm conscious. The whole thing is a big joke
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:14 PM
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Metal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:11 PM
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This goes for most men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:10 PM
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Considering so many men don't even bother paying child support for their own biological children, I don't think they care much for child rearing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:05 PM
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Not for cold approaching someone asserting that you want to hang out with them. That's creepy af. She also looks underrage .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:43 PM
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Meeting people at a bar, coworkers, class mates or at a dance. Not people interrupting during day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:39 PM
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How is that extremely specific, and when did I say months? A public pool isn't a bar, it isn't work, it isn't a college class.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:38 PM
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Never heard of a woman being mad when a man didn't approach her in a public pool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:38 PM
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No woman says that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:37 PM
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It is creepy to randomly insert yourself into someone's day, especially someone as young looking as she is. What do they have in common? Is he a class mate? Are they co workers? Did she invite any small talk? No, he's a stranger. Men here don't seem to understand that women existing in a public space isn't an invitation to be hit on. Leave people alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:01 PM
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Some guys act like it's rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:37 PM
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There's usually a reason someone lacks experience, also generally less experience can often translate into being worse at sex. I'm engaged to someone with little experience, and I don't have any prior experience with sex. On his end, it makes no difference. But, men are way easier to please than women. Guys are used to jacking off, no finesse required. Essentially, the more sexual partners or sexual experience a man has had, the more likely he is to be good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:56 PM
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Yep there's plenty guys who prefer fully grown adult women and MILFs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:29 PM
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Both are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:12 PM
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Morally yes, but legally, no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:27 PM
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Not true. At least in my country they will not take it to trial without being certain they will win the case, which actually has resulted in less offenders being put in jail overall.. look at the Rotherham cases. Over 1000 girls raped, took years and a major public scandal for any court cases to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:18 PM
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Yes he got charged but sadly he got no jail time and only a year on the register. We were both 16 so that might be why. The main reason i reported was because I knew he wanted to become a youth worker and I was afraid of him doing that to someone younger and weaker, so at least that door is closed for him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:12 PM
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Yes it makes sense, would a witness count as evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:11 PM
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A few reasons 1) No personal relationship to muddy the waters, 2) rapists who attack strangers have a more dangerous criminal profile than those who attack those they know, and have a tendency to escalate their crimes. 3) sort of like the last point, public safety concerns. DNA or injuries would be needed to prove a stranger attack which is usually present in those cases
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:02 PM
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DNA kit might not always be useful depending on the nature of the attack. When it happened to me, I saved the clothes I wore but I don't think the police actually used them since the guy did a good job of incriminating himself. Its extremely rare that SA cases even go to court and they usually only do if 1) the attacker can't keep a straight story 2) there are witnesses and 3) the victim has compelling testimony
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:55 AM
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What would you class as evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:43 AM
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I went through a court case after being attacked and SA cases are very difficult to prove, whether people like it or not, often it's based on testimony and witness statements. Rape is a bit different due to physical evidence being present. My attacker got charged because he was a known creep, I was known by others to be very naive and wasn't secually active (i actually didnt know if what happened was a crime, a school counsellor called the police), I had witnesses to him following me and harassi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:41 AM
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It is misogynistic because it implied women are a secondary sex who must dress based on their partners wishes, or indeed, the wishes of men as a collective. Dating someone who dresses that way casually and expecting them to change the way they dress after us absolutely controlling behaviour. If you value modest clothing then pick someone who already dresses that way. Also, a lot of men like their partner dressing 'sexy' particularly when they are together in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:27 AM
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Pretty sure this is also the case for men given the fact that in order to get a high n count you need to sleep with men who are willing to sleep with you despite that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:23 PM
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If murder conviction rates were as low as they are for rape, we would definitely say we live in a homicide culture
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:32 PM
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They deserve life on a psych ward for the criminally insane, or capital punishment if their crimes are grave enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:40 AM
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1 in 6 men are sexually assaulted. That’s not a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:37 AM
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No, it’s their willingness to bring cases to trial. They don’t need to prove every case to make an impact, in fact, not accepting there will be cases that go unproven is the problem because it creates a standard for bringing cases to trial that will result in more criminals on the street. It’s an issue with the justice system in general tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:36 AM
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Except that’s not true, because there were more rapists being charged when they took on cases that weren’t clear cut. The issue isn’t it being hard to prove, it’s that police can’t be bothered trying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:33 AM
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Prevalent means widespread, rape is in fact, a widespread issue. 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men have been raped
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:31 AM
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This isn’t entirely true. The biggest issue right now is the willingness to take on cases, for example, in UK cases being brought to trial has been reduced by 50% in the last ten years, because they wanted to only focus on strong cases. The practical result of this however, is that although the conviction rate is higher, the overall number of rape convictions has drastically reduced and this means there are many rapists walking free who would have been convicted if they’d bothered to try the cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:30 AM
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But isn't that mostly because it is difficult to prove and that you can't really rake the risk of throwing an innocent person in jail? Going to trial and resulting in a conviction are not the same thing, the issue is that police forces aren't even investigating the crime. In the UK for example, in the last 10 years, the number of rapes being brought to trial has been reduced by half. The excuse for this, is that not all rapes being brought to trial will result in conviction, which is true. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:36 AM
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Gang culture also exists, and culture plays a big role in that. I don't see how culture wouldn't play a big role. If rape was severely punished (which, it demonstrably isn't in the West due to low conviction rates and pathetic sentencing.), it would obviously be less common. Also, if rape was viewed as inexcusable, it would be less common, but currently we have exceptions, such as getting a woman drunk or attacking a woman who wears revealing clothes. Such rapes aren't taken as seriously as brea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:32 AM
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Is sexual assault of women normalized though Until recently in the West, it was normalised. Gang rapes are still a huge issue in colleges although they are at least now, being taken much more seriously. Only around 4% of all reported rapes end up going to trial. Which means rape often goes unpunished. The sentencing for rape is also very low for the amount of trauma it can cause, only the most extreme forms are heavily punished, the kind that can leave people physically disabled or near death. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:28 AM
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Something like rape being taboo doesn't mean it isn't culturally prevalent. The prevalence of sex offences, like SA or rape, within culture, and how it most often goes completely unpunished is rape culture. It affects all people, men, women and children
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:24 AM
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instead of shaming men constantly we should maybe promote the good in men Then perhaps do so, because no woman actually respects these fresh n fit dudes. Men need to have better values.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:22 AM
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rape is a crime, it is not cheered, it is not "allowed" therefore we do not have a rape culture Incorrect. Firstly, rape is still legal in certain countries, especially marital rape. Secondly, the rape of men is widely viewed as comedic in media, and the sexual assault of men isn't even portrayed as a crime but as something 'cringe'. Thirdly, 'frat culture' is very prevalent in the west and it essentially involves drinking alcohol until everyone is drunk and then often, raping someone whilst the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:16 AM
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Well if you're bringing up something like rape as a point of debate, people are going to have trauma around it. Humans have been raping each other for all of history, it's incredibly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:12 AM
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Rape culture is real and men are absolutely victims of it too. Most male victims of sexual assault may not even realise they've been sexually assaulted, and such behaviour toward men is basically normalised. Women also suffer, since women are more vulnerable than men, but in no way are men suddenly not also victims of rape culture. Raping other males is even seen as comedic in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:07 AM
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Rape culture is the normalisation of sexual assault. Men face it a lot too. A girl groping your junk in a club? That's sexual assault, but most dudes will see behaviour like that and see it as gross or annoying. So men are also victims of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:05 AM
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Many guys I know have been SA'd at some point. Sadly its common in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:04 AM
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Well I’m autistic so if my son had autism, I wouldn’t ignore the signs like my parents did, I’d get him early interventions and utilise all the help available as once you reach adulthood, there’s not much support left. I was diagnosed very late (age 20), and have a friend who was diagnosed in early childhood (age 5), and there’s a clear difference between us both despite the fact we both have the same type of autism. My friend is very sociable and I have no doubt he will find a girlfriend one da…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:35 AM
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Yes, if that means using logic instead of emotion. Its just a fact that women perform the majority of domestic tasks in the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:55 AM
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Homemaking is not two things, it’s being a personal chef, a maid, and a nanny and often an accountant. It also involves sacrificing time she could spend at her career.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:16 PM
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Women generally want a committed relationship not casual sex, casual sex has close to zero value for the average woman because it is risky and unlikely to even satisfy her sexually since women have a much harder time reaching climax from sex than men do. What’s worse, is that if the sex is good, she will want a committed relationship way more and that’s a risk in itself, why fall for someone who has ten other options? Also, a guy being a match sexually or even personality wise doesn’t mean he ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:11 PM
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In the past, and in many countries today, pregnancy could quite easily be fatal too. Being pregnant also means the woman can’t work as efficiently, and having a baby on her chest is the same. So obviously most women want a partner who can provide for her. Men do the same with house chores
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:02 PM
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The vast majority of men also expect women to be homemakers, even if they’re not stay at home
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:00 PM
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Men are no different ‘I want a woman who can cook’, ‘I want a home maker’, ‘I want a woman who wants multiple kids’, ‘i want a woman who has sex with me everyday’….. all of those things provide some kind of service. Most of women’s beauty standards are for the male gaze, so, men are no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:59 PM
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I was a tomboy growing up because I am autistic. It’s bad enough that I’ve been diagnosed with gender dysphoria too( I’m still a tomboy, but I realised that I am not trans.) In my case, it just happened that I liked boys toys and I disliked anything with frills such as dresses (scratchy, uncomfortable), which meant I couldn’t relate with most girls my age because of my interests. It was also easier to communicate with boys (mainly in pre school and high school) for me because they weren’t as com…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:56 AM
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Not really… most the comments are sympathetic to the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:50 AM
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It is a justification and the language you’re using is to minimise the perceived harm of sexual cheating, ‘a little fun on the side’ sounds a lot better than deception, betrayal, risking STD/STIs and unwanted pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:48 PM
23

Interesting how you’re trying to justify men cheating, it’s also strange how you believe men cheating is purely sexual when actually there is more often than not, an emotional affair preceding the sexual cheating. Sure some men may just be hooking up, but that’s still disrespect since it’s deceit, and it’s exposing the partner to STI/STD risks. Essentially; it’s the same thing as when a woman cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:43 PM
1

Fostering and adoption aren’t the same. With fostering there’s always a chance the abusive family will get the kid back and that’s not something everyone with a kind heart is prepared to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:16 PM
2

If you view marriage in such a cynical way, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:18 PM
1

The porn industry is absolutely riddled with sex trafficking anyways, it’s only a small minority of sex workers that haven’t found themselves in their situation due to abuse of some form
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:30 AM
1

Most women involved were trafficked using the ‘loverboy’ method. If you mean ‘willing’ as coerced, emotionally abused, intimidated and manipulated, sure. Thankfully that’s not what’s considered ‘willing’ in terms of being trafficked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:29 AM
2

I think it depends on the type of cheating. Sexual infidelity is extremely likely to repeat itself, but an early stage emotional affair (non-sexual) would be something possible to recover from, as long as the person who engaged in that recognises that it can't continue and learns to set proper boundaries in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:19 AM
1

Can't have his cake and eat it, if he wants to be with someone in an earlier stage of life, he has to accept their finances will match that stage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:58 PM
2

Ever heard of Stockholm syndrome or battered wives? Love bombing is an abuser tactic for a reason, it works. When someone is hurt, being comforted feels good. Abusers use this to their advantage and basically lock their victims into a cycle of violence and love bombing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:31 PM
1

Andrew Tate has admitted to using the loverboy method to get girls to webcam or escort for him. It’s actually the most common method of sex trafficking women. I think people tend to view it as being kidnapped off the street, but most sex trafficking is done by deception, coercion and manipulation rather than brutality (at first, anyway). Andrew Tate is a funny guy, but he’s also an exploiter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:27 PM
4

At 26 your only have, realistically, a decade left to get pregnant and have kids so yeah you actually would have been better off dating someone earlier in their 20s e.g a 21 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:22 PM
2

That’s still shit odds, idk about you but I wouldn’t like rolling the dice on something that can pretty much ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:20 PM
4

I hope she leaves him, gets surgery and will be far more attractive than him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:07 AM
1

Seriously? If you mean “anyone who isn’t made of plastic” sure but otherwise I’d count Bjork as very conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:04 AM
1

I guess this depends on if you consider foreplay to be sex, personally for me, if there’s no orgasm or penetration on either side I don’t think it counts. People fool around a lot, even mens counts would be higher if we count any type of sexual contact as sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:52 AM
1

The same thing happens with dick sizes in porn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:46 AM
1

If he’s a real friend he’s happy for you, if he’s a fake or emotionally manipulative he is jealous and not a real friend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:44 AM
-2

Treating others like trash isn’t the same as having low empathy, you can have good empathy and still be a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:05 AM
2

He was quite big for a while but there’s only so many beans one man can shovel down his throat before it all becomes tiresome. Also, the potential for injury is quite high. His emotional intelligence sucks because he is autistic. I am too but my EQ is much higher than his
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:40 AM
2

He has a six pack, not fat he was actually lean
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:34 AM
7

Some people do seem to expect full submission without showing any tolerance for conflict or disagreement, or any loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:31 AM
1

I’ve actually read that people can essentially only fall in love (fully, purely), twice in their life. So once isn’t quite fair, lots of people fall in love as young teens but that doesn’t mean they can again when they’re actually capable of having an adult relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:24 AM
1

Depends. If I may speak about myself, I did have some dating experience from highschool when I met my fiancé but nothing serious and adult. But, it did help me realise what I don’t want in partners. I also have autism so, frankly it wouldn’t matter how much experience I had because I can be naive and blind to others intentions. Im glad I met him before I got hurt by anyone else, I was almost hurt badly as a teen by and that gave me PTSD, I couldn’t trust a guy until I recovered from that. My fia…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:22 AM
0

Have to disagree. I know a dude who is a power lifter but he can’t get a girlfriend because he is incapable of putting himself in others shoes and treats people like trash during conflicts due to this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:16 AM
1

(TMI warning) I’m bad even at pleasing myself so it’d make no sense for me to be mad at my partner for not being good at it. I also have a neurological condition that makes me super sensitive to certain sensory info, so what some women enjoy is actually painful for me. That being said, if there was no improvement or enjoyment at all then it would be a deal breaker. Still had my V card when we met and he is similarly inexperienced
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:12 AM
1

(TMI warning) I’m bad even at pleasing myself so it’d make no sense for me to be mad at my partner for not being good at it. That being said, if there was no improvement or enjoyment at all then it would be a deal breaker. Still had my V card when we met and he is similarly inexperienced
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:12 AM
-1

Low empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:10 AM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:14 AM
1

How is it impossible when he sends the profits to his own accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:37 AM
1

He’s not worth hundreds of millions (lmao) and he can make tens of thousands off one sale to a Saudi elite
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:04 AM
1

Because he’s said it many many times and is constantly going back and forth to Saudi Arabia to sell the women, he also lives in Romania which is basically the capital of sex trafficking regarding the UK at least. Most trafficked women here are Romanian and the UK has a lot of andrews main clients
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:58 AM
0

That’s the websites not Andrew taint
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:57 AM
1

Women produce men so it’s not comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:56 AM
1

Pimps regularly beat and rape the women they sell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:55 AM
2

That’s a bit different tbh since you already knew the person closely prior
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:54 AM
3

He literally showed his bank statements, also there’s over 20 women who the authorities say he has sexually exploited and trafficked
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:31 PM
1

‘Hopefully he gets out 😞’
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:51 PM
2

Degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:46 PM
7

He’s already admitted to being a pimp who takes a 99% cut of the womens earnings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:42 PM
8

Too much sex doesn’t give you beef hangers, it gives you a blown out hole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:30 PM
4

Yep they’ve been saying this for years and nothings changed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:26 PM
14

Andy ‘sex offender’ Taint L
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:21 PM
3

Not quite, they use marketing tactics to make women feel insecure about an aspect their product ‘fixes’. Basically they create the insecurity and then sell the remedy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:20 PM
3

They’re created by corporations who want to sell new products/ cosmetic procedures
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:10 PM
3

It was a woman who discovered nuclear fission, which will one day allow humanity to reach into the far corners of the galaxy. God bless women 🙏👩‍⚕️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:54 PM
3

Nuclear bombs have really helped society, like modern medicine and agriculture and computers, huh? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:51 PM
2

Nope, all of the above women created/discovered. Sorry to bruise your fragile male ego
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:46 PM
1

Women invented: Computer algorithms, compilers, immunosuppressants, stem cell isolation, CRISPR, industrial agriculture, Kevlar, chemotherapy, catalysis, synthetic radio chemistry, electron microscopy, recursion theory,… we also discovered DNA, RNA and viruses, oxygen gas, pulsars, radiation, nuclear fission, kinetic energy, the composition of stars… in short, you’re wrong. Women were the pioneers of the technological era, stay mad 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:37 PM
1

Tesla was asexual, he had many suitors but didn’t want to be with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:23 PM
2

I wouldn’t be with anyone who hasn’t experienced some kind of trauma because I’ve found that such people are incapable of understanding what PTSD is actually like. and thus wouldn’t be a good partner for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:20 PM
5

For me it’s play fighting. If I start trying to bait you into wrestling me, it’s because I like you a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:17 PM
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Ok but who lets someone have unprotected sex on a first date? Literally asking for STDs at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:13 PM
7

Money 💰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:10 PM
1

Why has this sub turned into incel meme posting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:21 AM
6

And? It’s the men who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:51 AM
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This can be explained by higher rates of autism tbh, also the suicide rate drops significantly when transition is successful
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:26 PM
1

Why has the rate of FTMs increased dramatically then? My 5”3 ftm friend is SO MUCH happier being a so called ‘manlet’ than he ever was as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:05 PM
0

Explain why FTMs exist then. Most of them are becoming ‘micro-dicked manlets’ but are still happier as dudes than they were as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:04 PM
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Andrew tate has been an admitted ‘pimp’ (human sex trafficker) for years. He’s even blogged about his tactics regarding keeping the women from escaping and also how much money he exploits them for while they’re basically paid a fraction of a percent of what they actually earn him. Dude will pimp them to rich Saudis. He is a serial sex offender at this point. He uses all the tactics pimps use
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:56 PM
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Ngl this sounds like a male issue considering women from single moms don’t decide to become barbarians. Also men are way more likely to pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:53 PM
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Yes because it made me laugh (I’m assuming the bio is a joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:51 PM
4

It very much depends on the individual tribes. Different tribes have different processes for dating, generally the most freedom (such as dating consensually rather than women being given away as property) is reserved for tribes with plenty of natural resources and few rivals. Tribes in harsher environments and with more rivals tend to be far more strict and also treat women more like cattle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:29 PM
1

I’m autistic and it’s not about hate it’s about the fact that we objectively have a much harder life than non autistics usually with a shorter lifespan and less chance of having children or even having a career
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:42 PM
1

It’s pretty unethical as an industry. I still watch it though, so does my fiancé
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:40 PM
1

My fiancé is bisexual and it doesn’t bother me, we’re both bi rather than gay so no issues
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:39 PM
1

I’m below average and although I’ve had people interested in me sexually, I’ve only had about two people be interested in a serious way. Im 23
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:37 PM
2

I see this behaviour from both genders, men will make fools of themselves over women and the same vice versa. Personally I would never date someone who shows they have no filter in this regard, and no control over their own behaviour. I've seen dudes like this who complain they can't find a girlfriend but are thirsting and degrading themselves over anyone more attractive, and at the same time, engaging in shady behaviour like talking to multiple women whilst in a 'relationship'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:30 PM
3

Literally all you said was “porn bad” someone didn't understand the comment then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:28 PM
1

Doesn’t help that the economy is based around the idea that the housing market will never crash, meaning that even if it does go down, so will everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:31 PM
1

This. Our world has literally been poisoned with micro plastics and chemicals we don’t know the full consequences of, thinking that this has no impact on the astronomic rise in fertility and mental health issues is folly. We are also removed from our natural habitat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:29 PM
1

Starvation is not ideal. We have to work more hours than feudal serfs just to eat shit processed foods
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:27 PM
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Western society is extremely individualist to the point we shove our elders in homes where they often die alone and afraid. We are filled with micro plastics and forever chemicals, most youth will not be able to buy property, they will not even escape debt. We are more removed from nature too and our food is becoming more unhealthy so is the water. We work longer hours than feudal serfs. There is no meaning to life anymore, no adventure or mystery, no improvement in qualify of life for our kin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:19 PM
1

No it’s not, age gap relationships are taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:11 PM
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Your argument was that past legal age, age does not matter. I did not argue that it should be illegal, I’m arguing it’s unethical to date someone who is just legal when someone is past the majority of brain development. Age does matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:50 AM
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.They’re infantilizing an adult and suggesting they know what’s best for them more Han they know what’s best for them. Believe it or not OP, the brain isn't finished developing at 18. It's still in major development up until 23-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:08 PM
2

I've seen a few different scenarios. Complacency - The woman is in a secure legal marriage and has no incentive to try 'win' the husband, she has a naturally lower libido and so becomes less willing to have sex. Husband becomes complacent, sexually - Another thing which i've seen is that some men become complacent and begin to pay no attention to foreplay or seduction once married which are essential things for female sexual arousal. A guy can jack hammer his wife and still get off. I actually h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:19 PM
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This. I wouldn’t trust anyone like that especially when there’s kids in the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:50 PM
3

If you get divorced past your 30s it becomes much harder to remarry. I’m already dependent on my fiancé due to my neurological disability, am I happy with that? No, I’d rather be more independent for both our sakes but I’m glad I’m with someone who really cares for me and protects me.I’m hoping to find suitable work soon but it will be part time not full time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:48 PM
4

Well yes because unless it’s for a religious reason there’s not any good reason to wait until marriage for sex, unless he is already a virgin. I’d understand waiting but until marriage is taking it too far in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:46 PM
1

Scouts do accept girls now though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:55 PM
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starting things from scratch is hard? Scouts have been around for over a hundred years in my country, so starting a new organisation that would be girls-only that would have to compete with BOTH the scouts and the girl guides would be very difficult. It was easier and better for the Scouts overall membership to start allowing girls. Most girls who weren't interested in the stuff Scouts do would avoid it, but tomboys and other girls who liked such activities were free to join. It was a win-win si…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:57 PM
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Exactly. I was (and still am) a tomboy and I was always so jealous of the Scouts getting to do fun stuff like going camping, playing fun games outdoors, climbing, archery, etc etc where as at the girl guides all they did was basic crafts, baking you couldn't eat because they sold it, or babysitting younger groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:52 PM
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You don't even get to eat them, it's a tragedy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:50 PM
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First of all, I'm a biological woman. Second of all, there's a good reason as to why more girls want to join scouts than vice versa, and that is because MOST young girls these days are not interested in what they do. Membership for girl guides is dropping. Girl guides != all womens groups. This isn't the 1950s or 1800s anymore, girls aren't like "wow knitting and mopping floors, so fun and cool!!" when they could be doing much more exciting things like going on camping trips and rock climbing. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:48 PM
2

You've misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:08 PM
4

What does that have to do with having female friends in childhood? You do realise you don't need to ask to date every single female friend, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:45 PM
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You’re misunderstanding my point, I meant how is anyone supposed to get a girlfriend without ever having a female friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:53 PM
1

Person A. I wouldn’t want to be with someone who didn’t love me. Sex can be learned but love is something that has to happen naturally. Also the idea of dating a ‘yandere’ in (weeb terms) is hot (hopefully without the murder though)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:49 PM
2

Yes I’d care because as someone with a very small n count I wouldn’t want to be in an LTR with someone who had a big history
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:45 PM
8

I’m sure your country has no woman’s rights issues
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:45 PM
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In the UK we have Rainbows, Brownies and then girl guides. I went to Rainbows and Brownies, they were more fun (still lame compared to scouts), but girl guides was basically paying to be a cleaner/cook. Scouts always did cool things like camping and sports games. I wish they’d been open to girls when I was a kid because I was a tomboy growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:39 PM
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How is anyone supposed to get a girlfriend if they can’t even be friends with a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:34 PM
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Yea but they won’t take accountability for that, they’ll just blame girls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:33 PM
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Scouts isn’t a hen party though or a bachelor party, what? It was the male scouts leaders who wanted to let girls join
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:32 PM
3

This is assuming tomboys don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:31 PM
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That’s because girl guides is incredibly boring and always has been. It’s been that way for a hundred years where as scouts has always been more physical. I went to guides once, it was expensive to attend, and we baked cookies (which we weren’t allowed to eat) and moppped floors. It’s like paying money to be a maid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:28 PM
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Because Girl Scouts sucks, seriously it’s boring. Not every girl wants to sit around and knit or bake, sell cookies and not even get to enjoy the fruits of their labour, barely ever go on trips. Scouts is far more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:25 PM
1

Because it’s a separate organisation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:21 PM
13

WGTOW is huge in certain Asian countries because women aren’t benefiting from being in full on relationships anymore. Women are now well educated and have careers, why would they want to add cooking, cleaning and raising the child for someone else (who will not help with any of that) on top of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:47 PM
1

she refuses to work and only wants part time work Then she isn't refusing, she's just refusing full time work. Also, she 100% should be having sex with him. IDC what people say but in a relationship, sometimes libido will drop and avoiding sex will not help, its best to communicate or try different things. Should be compromises on both sides not just on the mans part. Sex is very important for mens emotional connection and they have higher libidos in general
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:35 AM
2

Because most pro-lifers believe life begins at conception, and there are many contraceptives that have the potential to kill a zygote. Some go further and want all of it banned because contraceptive is 'unnatural' and not 'gods plan', or that sex is sinful and not allowed unless its with the goal of pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:27 AM
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Because a lot of dudes idealise polygyny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:20 AM
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There's healthy ways to have sex and unhealthy ways. If someone wants sex with multiple people, with less strings attached, the healthy way to do that would be to have a friend (or friends) with benefits who will engage in STI/STD testing and open communication. Polyamory is an example. An unhealthy way would be to have sex with people you just met, or to lie to others in order to have sex. The problem currently is that polyamory is so frowned upon that people will decide to LARP as seeking mono…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:41 AM
7

Prior to being honest no one was interested in a genuine relationship they just wanted to 🦆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:27 AM
8

You should try the autism quotient or the RAADS-R if you’re curious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:20 PM
8

Yep, my partner said before he got to know me I looked very ‘cold’ and like I didn’t want to talk to anyone or would be a ‘tough’ person. I’m actually the opposite of that but you wouldn’t know it because I have the ‘autism stare’ and all the suspicious body language that goes with autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:18 PM
5

Yes we do know that because there are studies into masking in autistic people and impacts suicide rates way more than NTs. NT masking is not the same as autistic masking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:16 PM
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Depends on the guy. Generally NT dudes will be fine with fucking an autistic woman but not a long term relationship. But, some guys are still cool with an LTR. I have a partner who is not autistic, but he's known I was from before we dated and has never really had an issue with it. He likes my quirks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:09 PM
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I "mask" when I'm trying to be arousing, charismatic, and attractive. That's life. Masking doesn't cause NTs to develop suicidal thoughts though. The impact of masking on autistic people is far more severe and can even reduce life expectancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:05 PM
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Im an autistic friend an can confirm. I have literally zero female friends. The only close female friend I had in the past also turned out to be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:04 PM
2

Due to the fact that autism is higher in men even if all autistic women paired up with autistic men, there would still be autistic men leftover This is debatable as autism in males and females actually has a different presentation and even some different effects on the brain depending on the sex of the person. The current theory is that there are almost equal numbers of autistic males and females, but currently, the diagnostic criteria for autism is based on the male presentation rather than fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:03 PM
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The issue is that, as proven by various studies, neurotypical people cannot empathise with autistic people to the same degree autistic people empathise with each other and vice versa. It the communication differences that are the issue, and it takes someone really empathetic as an NT to relate well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:00 PM
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There are definitely girls who love autistic guys, but if someone wears a mask all the time they wont attract those girls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:58 PM
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I didn't have any luck in dating until i started being very honest that I was autistic. It weeds out people way faster and people who are actually interested will be chill and understanding about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:55 PM
10

incest is not an autistic trait lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:53 PM
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they have the will-power to change abusive or even violent men. But never a socially awkward one. Being ever so slightly autistic seems to be female repellent. Both are bad decisions. The majority of women will not date violent or abusive men, by the way. In regards to autism (I am an autistic female), you cannot 'change' an autistic person who is socially awkward. It's a permanent neurological disorder that causes the communication issues, it's a true disability. It is possible to get less awkw…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:51 PM
1

Very much depends on how they've handled it and what their goals in life are. My partner faced some abuse in childhood (physical), and is from a poor background. He was homeless a number of times as a kid. That said, one of his parents was very loving. I was also poor and dealt with some abuse/neglect but not as bad as he did. I don't see him as 'less' than anyone who had a good childhood, its basically just a worse start. How someone handles bad times is a good indicator of how they'll handle s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:55 AM
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Personally I think there's something wrong with what she is doing, but I can also understand the waiting. Hook-ups can be bad for mental health and also fairly dangerous in regards to STDs, especially group stuff and anything sporadic. That said, I don't see why someone with that history would want to make a guy wait THAT long without being honest about her past (lying by omission is not very nice , and also why they would tone down the sex so much) If a guy did this to me I'd break things off. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:35 AM
1

Looking after kids is stressful so with cleaning I’d expect 50/50. Kids are very messy and exhausting, at least at work no one’s screaming in your face (hopefully) and you’re not wiping someone’s ass cheeks. Older kids? Probably 70/30
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:58 PM
4

If it's equal ways I don't see an issue, but I would never tolerate being with someone who would want exclusivity from me but not expect it from himself. Either both poly or mono.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:57 PM
3

Both had money 💰
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:32 AM
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Unless he's gonna be a sugar daddy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:23 AM
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Thanks for reporting this because I had no clue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:00 PM
1

Big age gaps are an issue because a 20 year old dating a 50 year old is gonna be 40 when he is 70 and probably become his full time carer or bail
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:57 PM
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If you don’t show you care about someone then they’re less likely to be vulnerable around you. If you’re traditionally minded (eg want to be the dominant partner, have a family), a woman must be happy to be vulnerable around you for things to work. If not, she won’t risk pregnancy with you. If you show no care, or none in a genuine way, then why would anyone want to have an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:53 PM
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My philosophy on this has always been, time is worth more than money. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to show someone you care about them, that being said, it’s polite to offer to buy people things occasionally. My fiancé and I would buy each other snacks a lot, simple stuff like that. It’s also important to note that both my fiancé and I are from lower working class backgrounds so money is something that was never abundant for us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:38 PM
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“I have to put effort into finding a mate”, shocking. Yes, when you want to attract someone, you have to put effort into being attractive as a partner. Also if you think the average woman does nothing, you’re wrong. The average woman spends time doing make up, dressing well and having nice hair, smelling nice. Sorry that men also have to put in effort lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:18 PM
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Because being used sexually by someone you’re genuinely interested in hurts way more than someone you don’t care about much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:12 PM
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I'm from Scotland and in my country, attacking women is viewed as extremely shameful because women are weaker than men. If a man didn't protect his girlfriend from an assailant, he would need a good reason for it. That said, the laws here are very strict on what counts as self defence so you couldn't just beat someone up. The goal would be to get time to flee, and never apply anything more than equal force back. That said, IMO if a woman is trying to start a fight with a man (or woman) then ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:41 PM
3

Because men and women want different things in dating. Men want sex, a casual gf or a FWB, women usually are looking for a long term commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:36 PM
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Immigration is absolutely causing problems in Britain. Both labour and the tories do nothing about it, but there’s a housing shortage crisis currently ongoing and there’s also a crisis in the NHS being flooded. Mass immigration isn’t helping
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:39 AM
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Because it’s painful and attracts unwanted attention
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:25 AM
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I had my ears pinned back as a young teenager and it definitely helped me get bullied less. The surgery was free
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:24 AM
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It's interesting to see how so much blame on this sub is placed on women for 'choosing the wrong guy', but for men, there can be no blame lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:57 PM
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They could do that, healthcare used to be far less of a worry for the average person. But the hybrid model of the current US health care system does not actually incentivise lower costs to the consumer at all. It has bloated the cost to the state, and to the citizen, which just means even more to the citizen lol. The UK healthcare system is facing similar issues as it becomes more privatised and takes on a hybrid form. You can’t have it both ways, there are many private health care systems that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:56 PM
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Probably my mistake, it seems that worker productivity isn’t as simple to calculate as one might imagine due to what is counted. The real issue is actually a drop in the relative income of production workers rather than production levels themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:51 PM
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Personal spending power impacts GDP. Productivity has gone up but if spending power lowers, other areas of society suffer. People spend less on nights out, holidays, travel, cars, etc. this means less jobs, more government spending on welfare, which will bite back. when you have the majority of the population facing such issues it’s going to cause problems in the long term. Income inequality is out of control. The last two years have been an issue because the government decided to close everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:39 PM
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American healthcare is not cost efficient. It essentially forced those who do not benefit from social healthcare programs to cough up the money to pay for those who do, this is the issue with healthcare that is not universal. In a universal healthcare system, everyone pays the same, a contracts for equipment, supply of drugs, etc force companies to offer the best price possible. This is so long as the system is not infested with leeches, useless middle managers (which the American health care sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:32 PM
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2 years? Try since the 70s. This is not a short term issue. The lower and middle classes have been squeezed hard for the last half century and it’s affected birth rates a lot. What’s the point in having children if you can’t enjoy them? Also GDP isn’t a good indicator of standard of living
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:24 PM
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Your point about populations not catching up has one issue: mass immigration. This is already happening in the UK. There will no doubt be huge social issues caused by replacing native populations, but that’s what’s happening anyway. Social health care can actually be cheaper than private healthcare, btw. But only if it forces pharmaceutical companies to get competitive for contracts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:21 PM
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Humans have always been greedy when given the choice, a lack of restriction of corporate greed is what has lead to the current situation. Productivity is higher than ever, people are working long hours, yet wages remained the same. In fact, relative to inflation they are far lower. This had lead to a lack of spending power in the middle and lower classes, and has been disastrous for birth rates because peoples quality of life has dropped for the first time in centuries. Most people cannot even r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:17 PM
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The government should penalise deadbeat fathers more strictly imo. Same with absent mothers. The economic cost of abandoning children is massive and it weakens society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:10 PM
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Governments are aware of the population issue and are responding to it by encouraging mass immigration, this will weaken the country in the long term, but it gets votes and people seem to support it. I am generally pro welfare, to an extent. I think single mothers should be working at least part time and the government would do well to create meaningful and reasonable employment for dependents of the state (this includes the disabled, etc). However cutting off welfare entirely for such individua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:00 PM
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I guess the worst case was a guy who was trying to convince me to do sex job as I could get a lot of money from it pretending I was a minor. "There's a whole niche waiting for you!". WTF. I guess dignity didn't matter to him at all :/ I am someone who also doesn't look my age and I would lose my mind if someone said that shit to me in a genuine way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:35 PM
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Assuming you live in a country with common venomous snakes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:33 PM
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I don’t think men are raised to be husbands and fathers. The ones who do hold these values tend to be much more conservative, religious or have had a traumatic past that makes them value fatherhood very highly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:32 PM
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A lot of guys have absolutely no interest in commitment, they just want sex, where as most women do want commitment. These men often fail to be honest with their intentions, either by outright lying, purposely being vague, or lying via omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:29 PM
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How is anyone supposed to know that if the dude just ghosts? It would be polite to contact back and say they felt a relationship wouldn't work. The ghosting is most common because these dudes were after a one night stand, not FWB, not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:27 PM
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At no point did I say I was talking about the majority of male posters. Also why would a guy who can have lots of sex only marry one girl? For the same reason a virgin girl avoids having sex despite easy access, that they value waiting until marriage or at least not engaging in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:08 PM
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At no point did I say I was talking about the majority of male posters. Also why would a guy who can have lots of sex only marry one girl? For the same reason a virgin girl avoids having sex despite easy access, that they value waiting until marriage or at least not engaging in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:08 PM
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Yeah that’s true, my issue is not them being able to get virgins it’s the sense of entitlement. Like life has cursed them by making virgins so hard to come by when they are part of the reason there are less virgins since they engage in casual sex. I had my v card when I met my fiancé but he’d only slept with 2 women prior both of whom were ex girlfriends, I had a friend who was a typical ‘player’ who complained about how women were too slutty yet he was monkey branching himself and had many diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:13 PM
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Yes definitely, most manosphere dudes tend to want low n counts rather than virgins but you get the occasional unhinged virgin hunter who has been racking up his n count for years prior lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:10 PM
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Most virgin women (so, saving themselves for ‘the one’) tend to want either virgin or very low n count men in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:08 PM
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Yeah sorry I forgot all these virgin teens don’t care about handsome jock football players, they want the alpha beer belly red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:06 PM
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Should this not also apply to men? Men who enjoy casual sex yet want a virgin wife seem entitled. They would be no more ‘pure’ than the high n count woman they claim they’d never settle for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:02 PM
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Wondering why guys expect girls to have casual sex with them, yet want to marry a virgin… where will these magical virgins come from if women are supposed to have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:59 PM
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Yes, they want to have their cake and eat it too. “These frigid bitches won’t give me sex!” “I would never marry a high n-count slut”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:57 PM
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Hot imo but absolutely not achievable without roids or being a super super rare legendary genetic specimen haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:10 PM
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Built fat or peak natty (this is not natty though). Built fat is most realistic, comfort matters a lot and hugging a guy built like a washboard isn’t comfy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:08 PM
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I’ve never had casual sex (many reasons for this) but for me it’d have to be with a long time friend. Almost hooked up with a ‘friend’ once but he was basically just a lying classmate not an actual friend. Thankfully I didn’t but the whole situation put me off hook ups
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:02 PM
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When I mean often I mean, almost all waking hours which is unfortunately happening to some kids. They scream until they get their iPad, they watch YouTube, etc. Yes I know supervised isn’t constant watching it’s just checking in every so often, I’m not sure if I would be okay with my kid having unrestricted access even to an offline device. Learning how to use technology early is helpful but I don’t think it should be unrestricted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:58 PM
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I’d expect her to do most the housework but childcare should be split when the man gets home, because otherwise the SAHM won’t get any free time. If someone is working 60hrs they need to look into hiring a babysitter at times
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:54 PM
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Letting a young kid play on the iPad or play video games alone often is bad parenting. When I was young I got supervised computer access, when I turned about 6yrs old I got more time on the computer and got my dads old N64 (this was in 2006). Most my time was spent doing activities, playing in the garden, on trips or watching old kids television video tapes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:46 PM
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Nothing stated he disliked her being back at work, he disliked her not doing all the housework and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:42 PM
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That’s hypocritical lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:36 PM
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Nope, 50/50 split. Only exception would be in an LTR where the man in the breadwinner and the woman is a SAHM/SAHW or there is a large gap in earnings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:15 PM
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I think I’m kind of the first but I’m not ‘really’ attractive by any stretch. I’m absolutely not photogenic though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:04 PM
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A biological adult female
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:00 PM
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I’ve only ever had sex with my fiancé. I’ve known instinctively for a long time, not to have sex with a man not willing to be a father or who has no loyalty toward me. Accidents happen and id much rather it be with him than some random hookup. I was raised catholic (no longer religious) and although I’m pro-choice, I’m not sure if I’d get an abortion unless it was absolutely necessary. I use an IUD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:53 PM
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I said in general it is less enjoyable for women, I didn’t say it wasn’t enjoyable at all….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:38 AM
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Do you know what general means?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:19 PM
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Especially in regards to sex and tbh I blame porn and movies for it. The media shows men, falsely, that all they need to do is penetration and women will be moaning and having huge orgasms. I’ve noticed that behaviour especially from dudes with above average penises, they get offended that their dick isn’t magic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:33 PM
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Yep, they have an attitude of “not my problem it’s harder to make you orgasm than me”, which is shitty. They pretty much blame you for having a pussy and not a dick, and some cultures in the past straight up denied that it was even possible for women to orgasm at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:30 PM
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This. I’ve noticed they don’t take sexual advice well, or correction. I’ve had to say don’t finger me like that, don’t use your nails and pretty much straight away they get upset and start saying they were doing it perfectly and just go in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:27 PM
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This is the typical excuse men use ‘women are harder to make cum’, then why can other women do it? Just proves my point men aren’t willing to learn and are selfish in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:15 PM
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Then why can women make men orgasm and women orgasm but most men struggle to make a woman orgasm? Sounds like men can’t be bothered to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:10 PM
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Wrong, lesbian relationships disprove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:53 PM
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Men suck at foreplay with women because they can’t be bothered to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:52 PM
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If you look a lesbian relationships, lesbians are far better at foreplay. When it comes to sex, men are most often selfish and this is true even in historical contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:23 PM
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Definitely agree with this. People heavily underestimate the risks of pregnancy, even today. Before modern medicine and the C-section, childbirth was a gamble between life and death. 1 in 100 odds, in the early 1800s, and women had a lot more children back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:45 PM
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I would say this is the case for the silent majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:41 PM
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Or just to deal with the inevitability that they were going to have to have sex with stronger men who would make them, one way or another? I think people underestimate how much of pregnancy used to be (and still is in many places) a result of rape. It used to be relatively common practice to rape a woman to force her into marriage, and this still happens. All people need to do is look at the animal kingdom and see how common rape is as a whole (obviously it doesn't justify it morally speaking, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:39 PM
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Men are also not very good at foreplay compared to women, so many fail in getting women aroused enough to enjoy sex, and most women can't orgasm from PIV alone. Sex just isn't as enjoyable for women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:31 PM
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I think biggest difference is the percentage of opposite sex we find attractive Alcohol disproves this. Moderate drinking increases libido, which is why women are more likely to sleep with someone when drinking (same goes for men). Women aren't turned on by average man any more than the average man is turned on by a pig This isn't really true, women aren't as interested in average guys because they have a lower libido. Casual sex, really doesn't get women much pleasure anyway. Sex as a whole is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:29 PM
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Men are less picky when it comes to sexual partners because they have higher libidos, thus, a higher drive for sex. However, men tend to be more picky about who they commit to than women. If a women is attracted to someone, she is more likely than the man to be interested in a long term partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:21 PM
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People typically date within their class, so definitely not. I’m working class and so is my fiancé, initially we were trying to get a tech degree but Covid ruined that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:25 AM
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Never really got the whole settling thing, everyone settles. To find the perfect partner would be like finding a unicorn, and expecting attraction to be constant is naive. If you’re going through life together there’s going to be hard times and good times
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:55 AM
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DiCaprio is regularly roasted for having a cut off age of 25, I haven’t met anyone who thinks that’s appropriate of him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:54 AM
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She's also very pretty, just had grey hair which is...normal for her age and not unattractive imo. Some people get grey hair earlier than others, Reeves is getting some grey hairs himself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:48 AM
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Keanu and his wife Alexandra? Not seeing the issue, she's very pretty just has grey hair. They look like a well matched couple
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:47 AM
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Society has lost respect for those who remain celibate for whatever reason, in the past, not having sexual relations was seen as 'pure', 'respectable', 'honourable' and people tended to mind their own business in regards to such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:36 AM
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True, better to live a quiet life focusing on hobbies and friends than to spend life in a constant state of rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:32 AM
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When they themselves look like this Failing to see the problem here, they look average to above average if you have realistic standards and aren't looking for teenagers/college aged women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:30 AM
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What? Below average? Not sure where you live but they look like normal women, actually above average by USA standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:28 AM
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For real, any of her babies will be chads from birth lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:26 AM
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As long as the guy is completely honest (And continues to be honest), there's no issue. What makes guys like this become jerks is when they purposefully act vague or dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:15 AM
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It's probably easier to cum if you aren't overthinking all the time lol. Low functioning autistic people tend to be happier than high functioning for this reason
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:53 AM
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I barely cum anyway so yes it's a deal xD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:52 AM
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Agree and tbh I think most women can see through men who are only looking for a relationship or sex in a competitional way. If someone is less influenced by that and approaches you, it seems more genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:51 AM
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Both genetics and lifestyle, but lifestyle is more so important for skin. Definitely is also genetic though, my fiance has such clear skin haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:49 AM
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In my relationship, the longer we go without sex the harder it is to start again because it's like my body isn't used to it anymore, so sex becomes painful. If we have frequent sex (daily or every other day) then there's much less issue. I will say foreplay matters much more for women. If my partner wants sudden sex, most times I wont, but if he's hugging me etc prior and being really affectionate then I likely will. I do think that as a couple it's important to compromise, and sex is much more …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:42 AM
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I'm well below average by most standards (Note: With women, some who get a below average will be some men's highly rated. People have types. My partner is very attracted to me and that's easy to tell, boners don't lie. Im definitely the type most guys in highschool would be embarassed about since i'm a pale, underweight, anaemic looking tomboy with masculine features). The majority of approaches from guys are just for pussy, essentially. They will pretend to be interested in more but it's pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:59 AM
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Purpose because money isn't happiness. I'd rather be with a poor, good man than a rich narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:52 AM
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Yeah i think this is true, guys will wonder why they have no luck in dating when they're not part of any groups of shared interest that have females in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:47 AM
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