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Yeah it’s true in the middle, definitely not all the way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 06:11 PM
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Why does this matter? If it is true why do you care that women aren’t aware of workout details? Men don’t understand how few calories women can eat to stay thin, and a lot of you don’t have a remotely accurate concept of the extent of or the cost of our beauty routines. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:18 PM
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Forgot to log out of your alt?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:42 AM
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I’m not challenging I’m genuinely curious. Are you attractive yourself and therefore inspire envy in unattractive people? Is it vanity? Or purely just what pleases your eye?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:40 AM
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Are ugly people an embarrassment for you? Or you just don’t get along?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 12:53 AM
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It is fake and troll sounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:16 PM
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Go back t braincels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:15 PM
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It’s hard for someone who thinks like you to get, but some men actually offer to pay with no ulterior motive and no woman thinks he owes her anything. I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:15 PM
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Yup that’s clearly what I meant and not at all a giant leap to conclusions missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:25 PM
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Yeah he doesn’t know pill terms except what I’ve told him because he’s never needed a manual to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:24 PM
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I was relying to a removed vulgar comment suggesting no one cared about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:24 PM
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I’m sorry, you must be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:23 PM
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Ask her out and if she says no, no effort, if she says yes, go out and have fun. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:43 AM
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Right but it’s against the rules here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:33 AM
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Oh to be clear I was talking about a comment someone made in reply to me. I am with a man who had never heard of pill anything and he doesn’t know what starfishing means or care. But I do appreciate your support.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:15 AM
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TIL about emotional starfishing. Turns out you can starfish literally any activity by not acting how a man wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:48 AM
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Placebo actually does work when they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:24 AM
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Yes I agree. Who you say you are is part of who you are, it shows your ideal and what you want to be. Practicing it badly is another trait, or not actually believing it is yet another trait, but they all are part of a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:22 AM
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Okay clearly men here do not understand that when women say don’t let him pay or he’ll think you “owe him something in return,” we mean sex. He thinks you owe him sex. It’s a euphemism because it’s always exactly the same, the sex part doesn’t need to be said. No one owes anyone sex. And no one owes anyone anything because they got dinner, if it was consensual. A sad, emotionally miserly, petty, score-keeping attitude shows a profound lack of basic human interaction skills and will only turn peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 10:40 PM
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They still suck imo and reflect a fundamental lack of romance in the personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 10:13 PM
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It’s definitely happening to me too. I think people are going back in my PPD history even. Edit: I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 10:10 PM
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Mixing metaphors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 10:09 PM
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Humans like people who like them, more at 11. It does not inflate smv, most women recognize a man who just genuinely appreciates them, they realize it’s him, but still like it. If you know someone is charming it doesn’t have to be because you’re so great it’s just enjoyment, normal people don’t keep score.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 10:09 PM
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Literally hundreds of guys here want strategies for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 09:00 PM
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You already lost before you began.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 07:59 PM
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Seeing a lot of comparing dating to a job interview or full time job, or to buying things. No one wants to feel like a chore, try having fun and actually liking flirting and dating. It’s more attractive. Also people aren’t cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 07:27 PM
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I don’t see how you and your wife on a date not using your phones is an example of a man paying for dinner for a woman he just met and creating a covert contract in his mind that she now owes him sex or something else. Projecting is not the best argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:49 PM
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No I don’t understand how your personal venting is really related, I didn’t lose context, you came in off topic. Not about MEN’S POV, I just don’t really see how your personal rant is pertinent. I don’t think you actually understood my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:45 PM
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To be clear I’m saying wrong as in I think it’s poor character, an erroneous view on human beings, and will in the long run lead to misery. I don’t mean the viewpoint renders you unable to casually fuck. Sometimes yes sometimes no. I specifically refer to seeing a human as like a car with depreciating value who can be “used.” I know even married couples sometimes consensually objectify each other. I don’t really know of any perfect personalities or if they’re virgins or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:43 PM
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I wasn’t talking about the girl doing a covert contract at all. Never said she was. I also was talking about first dates, not your wife. Thanks for sharing your opinion and feelings. It’s interesting, although not totally related to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:28 PM
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They usually have higher desire for sex than other women. They can easily be sexy. And then are able to marry a masculine man that the average women would think is too crude or something. They struggle in dating markets where there are too many soft, deferential men, who think of dominant women as bad and defective because they can’t submit to passive men. Men like that act catty and critical of those women instead of just accepting they’re higher dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:20 PM
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It’s self evident that not having fun dating and thinking of it as literal work is not attractive. Constructive criticism is helpful if you put aside your ego and don’t think of it as insults. You’re right about the objectifying. I’d add it’s also toxic to think of people as depreciating assets and not as humans with stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:14 PM
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What? Who said any of this outside of your imagination?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:07 PM
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Knowing what you want and an creating unspoken expectation are vastly different. Edit: covert contracts by definition don’t have a direct conversation. A direct convo makes it no longer covert. I really don’t think you get this. And no dates with women aren’t pay to play, he’s not entitled to anything from her and vice versa. Marriage is a different ball game than first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:37 PM
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I believe you that this is your system and that’s fine. I’m saying that a lot of girls on the higher cusp of 2 can easily pass as 3 because of charisma, and you may not realize that’s what is pushing her up in status, and think it’s only looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:36 PM
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Yes, I am saying though if he offers it’s not logical to insist he only pay half.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:35 PM
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Yeah that’s great I don’t care, no one is trying to be cute or different, it’s a basic life skill, I’ve done it multiple times alone including situations where 4 men had no idea how to. This isn’t a gender thing or bragging or anything it’s just a travesty people don’t know this. It would be like saying I’m trying to be cute by saying I know how to pay a bill or brush my teeth. And having help from someone isn’t not knowing how. There’s no shame in teamwork if you have more than one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:33 PM
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This is male centric thinking in the sense that you reduce it to pure physical appearance, and don’t include charisma, being sexy, attitude, or overall demeanor, all things women need. Most men actually are strongly affected by those things in women, you all just don’t realize it and pin seduction purely on her looks, as that’s what you focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:26 PM
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This attitude attracts women. The attitude that it’s a high pressure sales pitch does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:12 PM
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She shouldn’t. It doesn’t even make sense, apparently some men will hold it over your head if they pay, expecting something in return from her. First of all his expectations don’t make it true. Second of all, if anything she should always let him pay, to find out immediately if he’s that type. Women are saying that’s why they insist on paying half. That makes no sense, then you may not, until you’re already with him, and he does you a favor, even know that he’s the tit for tat, you owe me type. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:08 PM
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I was honestly just taken aback how many don’t know how. Seems like a genderless life skill to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:53 PM
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So why not let him pay to find out what type he is? When I let men pay, on the rare occasion if he did lord it over me, I nexted him. I also found decent men who pay by choice with no covert contract. If you pay, who knows, maybe the guy is the type who would think you owe him for an ice cream, but you won’t know this about him if you pay. Just let the guy pay and filter out the bad character ones by how they respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:51 PM
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Okay the truth is women like men who genuinely like women and enjoy banter and flirting for its own sake. If you can learn to enjoy it and not obsess over the end game, you’ll do better. We know when someone’s spitting game to try and short circuit our filters against casual sex, but resenting that he has to actually bother to be charming...and we know when a guy genuinely enjoys us. We like the latter better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:40 PM
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Really? I think the job market and buying an item in a shop analogies are very off the mark, but they do explain why he’s having problems dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:35 PM
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no paycheck this time I found your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:26 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 03:17 PM
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Good thing I know how to do it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 03:26 AM
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I think I no longer believe in amorality. Now in theory yes, but in practice no. Indifference to evil or lack of action is still a choice. If you want to say you don’t believe in morals or right and wrong at all, that’s at least intellectually honest. Although I think incorrect. But I think it’s illogical to both believe in morality but then claim to act a amorally. Not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:14 PM
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Imagine the mommy gatekeeping that would ensue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 06:48 PM
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U wot m8?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 07:09 PM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 10:49 PM
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Re: your edit: you take what endorses you sleeping around and reject what endorses women doing so. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 09:53 PM
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No. your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 09:52 PM
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This is red pill 101. Seems like you’ve taken only the parts of rp that would benefit you, but can’t taste your own medicine so are denying the female dual mating strategy part of red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 09:38 PM
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Yes mgtow red and black pills are just one specific guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 09:37 PM
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No that’s not what I said. I said you have to tolerate her marrying you as a beta and fucking chad. If you want her to tolerate your indiscretions. That way everyone’s biological imperative is granted. Otherwise I’ll say the same thing: no high value woman wants to marry a man who openly whores around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 08:00 PM
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They the men are not happy about it. That’s my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 07:59 PM
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This doesn’t pertain to the conversation we are having. PPD isn’t your diary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 07:05 PM
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Okay well society also conditions women from sleeping with and marrying as many high status males as possible. It conditions them that they shouldn’t marry a beta provider and fuck as many chads as possible. Are you okay with undoing that conditioning too? Since you are concerned about fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 07:01 PM
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Lol uh huh because most women would be totally chill with openly allowing her husband to slut with whores, you definitely wouldn’t have to bully and manipulate women into it because they all would just be so thrilled by the idea. Edit: that’s great how you try to say something’s wrong with me for pointing out something uncool. I suppose people who call the police on criminals are just as bad as the criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:54 PM
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Uh huh and men are totally on board with it. There’s not a whole movement of men butthurt about it. OP is suggesting women be on board with men slutting around, so men would have to be enthusiastically in support of her leaving him for a better guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:45 PM
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Right you meant bullying your wife into “allowing”it. Still unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:43 PM
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Why would I or any woman who wants 2.5 kids want to be married to someone who uses evo psych terms to justify being unfaithful and a vapid lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:18 PM
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I thought women’s biological imperative was to constantly branch swing to the higher status male. So you’d have to be okay with that being normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:13 PM
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He’s right that she posted them so she shouldn’t have assumed she had control over who views them. He’s still socially clueless and kind of an ass in how he went about it. Notice he had to dig and search a lot to find her profile when he was at home. And then specifically got off on the taboo that it was his friend and she didn’t know. And then was solipsistic enough to blurt it out. And then acted like a busybody meddling 70 year old woman by calling her bf. And I bet he says things like he hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:07 PM
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Yes it’s called “boat hot.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:02 PM
2

Giving OP fair benefit of the doubt, he did say it was one example not the whole basis for the theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:54 PM
1

Did you tell the ex to stop listening to ColdPlay?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 03:48 AM
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I’m not reading all this but you’re being obtuse, your comment clearly indicated you believe all women who make less than their bfs and shack up with him are glorified prostitutes, I explained that not all women who do that are prostitute-minded, I never said all women in the world. I am not mad or upset or personally attacked, I’m interested in truth. If I was shacking up with some guy who was replaceable just to have a roof and traded sex for it, I’d be honest with him and not ashamed of it, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 10:15 PM
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Uh yeah what is your point? You’re so contrarian and assuming I’m stupid that you see an argument where there is none?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 09:51 PM
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Having a low income and finding a boyfriend to shack up with isn’t seen as prostitution, but it’s not that much different. You know that this is a general statement, right? You don’t have to use the word all in English to mean all. Why does Reddit assume a disagreement is a personal attack? I couldn’t care less about your views as they don’t affect me personally. I could be an escort and I wouldn’t care what you thought. I care about this distinction because this sub has a tendency to assume tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 05:26 PM
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You didn’t say most you said all. You said living with a bf is like prostitution. I’ll take this comment as changing your statement to mean some. Yeah I know it doesn’t work like that my point is your anecdotal evidence is worth no more than mine, and especially since they say opposite things, are unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 04:55 PM
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Your original point said that shacking up with a boyfriend simply IS like prostitution, not that it sometimes is. If you just said arrangements and sugar babying is then it would be accurate. And if you only have anecdotal info, it’s cancelled out by my anecdotal info that I know zero people who do that. Therefore irl it’s likely in the middle of our experiences: some but not most. It’s very simple I’m asking you not to conflate exclusive boyfriend cohabiting with having the same qualities as pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 04:00 PM
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Again missing the point, a good majority are not doing this. So to call all cohabiting boyfriend girlfriend things as similar to prostitution is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 03:13 PM
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She refers to women as a whole, not whatever women you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 03:02 PM
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Okay I don’t know any women like that but I believe you. However it’s disingenuous to suggest that any relationship she chooses inherently is prostitution-like. Plenty of women are not treating them like how you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 04:37 AM
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Yeah I’m saying it is that much different. Boyfriend implies she actually likes the guy and wouldn’t shack up if she didn’t. Actually sees a future. And is attracted to him. 3 things escorts don’t require from clients. What you’re describing is more of a sugar baby or arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 03:52 AM
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No you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 03:31 AM
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Shacking up isn’t like prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 03:23 AM
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No prob. Just watch My Fair Lady or read about the rules royal families have to follow. And there are hundreds more unspoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 09:53 PM
1

Can you expand on that last paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 09:34 PM
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So if you really want to become UC it’s not impossible, but it’s going to take a lot of work now and then if you make it, the rest of your life. Even for royalty born into that world it’s a full-time job and you’re under much more scrutiny. And college would’ve been the best time to start, so you’d have catchup to do and no guarantees. Also in some, not all circles, mistresses and gambling and other secret vices are just accepted. Go for it if you like, but no need to write off decent MC and UMC…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 09:15 PM
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No I’m not saying you don’t enjoy family life I’m just explaining my comment. You said you sought financial security which is fine, so I addressed that, then in the next comment you said you weren’t saying only UC can enjoy family life. So it was a separate point that you changed but you thought I had commented on it. I’m just saying I only addressed your first point about finances and I didn’t comment on enjoyment at all because it wasn’t in your original comment to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 09:12 PM
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I’m just going off what you said. You said UC. You didn’t say you just wanted more income. Class is much more than income. You can stay whatever social class you are now and be wealthy, or be UMC for the connections and wealth, but going UC in one generation is hard and it’s not going to be fun always. If your only goal is financial stability there’s no reason to go through the amount of work it would take, you should only do it if you really fall for a guy who happens to be UC and want to marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 08:06 PM
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To me it’s ok to think thoughts of attraction, but it’s exceptionally uncalled for and rude to just announce that for no reason. Sometimes I don’t understand why people choose to say things out loud.
/r/RedPillWives07/06/19 07:31 PM
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Why do you assume UC means better chance of that? You can easily be UMC and support a big family. The gap between UMC and UC is bigger and harder to cross than you’d think. I’m just curious. UC has some good values and lifestyles, and it has others that aren’t that great or not even that fun, just like every class it’s a mixed bag. Why is UC necessary if all you want is a big family with opportunities? There is a lot of work you will always have to put in to make it as UC.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:23 PM
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I don’t. I’m an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:52 PM
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Because sometimes people can’t just say something isn’t for them, they have to tell themselves it’s not for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:50 PM
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Please yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 03:56 AM
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No in this context he meant some makeup is harmful to the human body. The only bad makeup like that is illegal in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:00 AM
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There’s a third way, but it’s harder. More rewarding, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:16 AM
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Imagine if everyone stopped thinking of sex as a matter of give or take at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 03:19 AM
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Reinforcing the behavior is maybe a better phrase. Reward implies an intent on the part of the woman that just isn’t there. She is not trying to train men as a whole to behave “badly,” she just thinks he’s hot. Reinforcing his attitudes is a side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:54 AM
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How can anyone even look at him when Justin Bieber exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:07 AM
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Yeah i mean you’re changing your statement but yes, I would say there’s a clear distinction between fashion competition in the FSM and beauty and clothing choices designed to be more hot to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 06:33 PM
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Well it depends. You can get a trim at a Supercuts for cheap. If she wants something that framed her face to make her prettier and highlights or something, you risk a cheap place doing a poor job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 06:26 PM
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Most makeup has small amounts of ingredients that would be harmful if you ate a bunch of them, but not a tiny bit on the skin. The bigger risk would be actually inhaling powders by mistake. That’s why I never use loose powder. Kohl eyeliner is dangerous because of heavy metals, but it’s illegal in my country. In the US there are strict regulations on cosmetics for health reasons. Yeah I agree men don’t need shoes like women like. They notice high heels yes because it lifts up her butt, but never…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 06:19 PM
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When your argument is pulled out of your ass, someone with experience and who’s done the research trumps that. Bad ingredients? Name them. Did you get that from all natural health alert news that also says that sunscreen causes cancer and vaccines cause autism? You know what causes aging? Sun exposure. Which makeup helps cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 06:06 PM
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there’s no such thing as “bad makeup” and I just explained to you that makeup causing faster agin is a myth, why are you continuing to say that? “Bad makeup” sounds like superstitious nonsense. There is no makeup that speeds up aging unless you’re literally allergic to it and keep wearing it for some reason. That’s a myth that men online make up. I’m a woman who wears makeup and actually knows what I’m talking about and it’s funny that to you that’s less reliable than a man online who pulled fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:56 PM
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Makeup does not speed up aging, that’s an internet myth among men. Almost all women who do makeup also do skincare. I commented makeup because it’s a common trope along men which you just demonstrated—you think it’s aging and looks bad, which is false. You don’t notice good makeup. Tons of makeup even has skincare ingredients, but even if it didn’t it’s ok. The nails don’t have be colored. Manicure so they look neat and clean takes time. So many things and details but you all wouldn’t notice, on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:48 PM
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Okay sure. The hair comment though. Men will complain they hate women who spend too much time and $ on hair makeup clothes etc. But hot chicks rarely spring forth fully formed And it’s a bit odd that you think your opinion defines what’s important. You’d probably see a woman as less hot if her hair and nails sucked, you just wouldn’t know why the overall look was less interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:36 PM
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So you were gaming women, and now can’t trust anyone romantically because you expect everyone to be gaming you? How tragic 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 03:53 PM
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Hold up, there’s so much in this comment. So she’s ok to focus only on aspects of looks you find important? Do you know that all women have to take time to look their best?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 03:50 PM
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A small one, but competing over beauty and grooming by saying how extensive your routine is but framing it as the requirement. Oh well of course I tightline my waterline and you know you HAVE to separate your lashes with a pin, mine look sooo bad if I don’t. What is really being said is if you don’t take your beauty routine to that degree, you’re ugly and not good at being a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 03:46 PM
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I enjoy life more as I age. Thinking your best years of happiness are behind you is a bad sad attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 03:42 PM
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It is already the end times. There are like 59 kind of m&ms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:03 AM
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It’s less about the actual number and more if he feels like he’s sowed his wild oats or if it’s not something he feels he’s missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:27 AM
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We await on the edge of our seats
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:41 PM
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Yes there’s truth to it, but the real winners decide that softness and needing people aren’t weaknesses. Much better to have loved and been hurt than to have always had the upper hand but been shut off and unfeeling. Takes courage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 03:25 PM
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Who are you talking to? None of what you said has anything to do with me, including the hilarious fact that you can’t understand grasping meanness and penuriousness to mean anything beyond money, (even when I explicitly make clear I’m not referring to that definition), and the rest it seems you have me mixed up with someone else. You don’t want to play the which of us is more educated and read and went to better schools and is more intelligent game here, it’s irrelevant to me as long as people a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:13 AM
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Princess, nice try but next time you may want to look up the actual word I used (and something better than dictionary.com)!and not try to skirt around it with the root word. In the English language, miserly is often used to refer to abstract traits, although the root word miser is not as much anymore. Please see especially marked by grasping meanness and penuriousness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:02 AM
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Of course a miserly man would interpret the most materialistic definition of the word and then assume that’s the only thing a woman could mean when she’s trying to talk about something abstract, to do with generosity of spirit, kindness, noblesse oblige.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:48 AM
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The experience I have with that was they were so obsessed with “making a statement in the public square” that they forgot to be nice to their loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:21 AM
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Okay then. My comment obviously went over your head. Clearly people can be exploited into doing all kinds of things and acting into it. Even believing they are. I can’t understand it for you if you don’t know that simple fact about life. Carry on by all means, but don’t kid yourself they actively like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:06 AM
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Nah they don’t you’re exploiting people. It’s like tickling someone until they are begging you to stop. Just cause they’re laughing don’t mean they like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 11:58 PM
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Speaking of false dichotomies...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 11:56 PM
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Uh huh this hurts me more than it hurts you. Ok buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 11:54 PM
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*miserly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 11:46 PM
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Do you know the word miserly? Did you just correct my spelling on a word I spelled correctly because your vocabulary isn’t that good?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 11:45 PM
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Almost like she’s on a debate sub not a dating site
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 11:42 PM
1

You started off correct and then swerved. She doesn’t “need to fix” him at all. If you’re always surrounded by people saying yes to you, you’re not an idiot so you realize at some point those people are lying. If everyone says you’re a goddess or a hero you have to know some of that’s fake. An asshole is direct, so while directness is a good quality, being a jerk about it is not. But women who never truly experience directness because everyone sucks up to them are probably so happy to find someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 11:36 PM
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Do they not see such a miserly bitter attitude is unattractive? Edit: miserly is a word, one I used on purpose. you illiterate philistines.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:23 PM
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Ew, Victoria secret
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:22 PM
3

The over 40s never dated like that at all. Must be foreigners or young reactionaries who don’t go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 12:22 AM
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No way, old people dated around. This is a new way of thinking based on a mix of casual sex culture, porn, and the internet leaving people with no social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 11:59 PM
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These responses are like a joke, this can’t be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 09:22 PM
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Older generations didn’t all do monogamy. They weren’t hooking up. But the greatest generation had a dating rule never to go out with the same guy twice in a row. The pre-civil war era you don’t commit without a proposal. Even the revered 50s had different people you were seeing until going steady. People are just more upset about it now since they could be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 11:54 PM
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One thing I’d like clarified is the connotation of “like that.” I feel the phrase can have different meanings. Emphasis on like, meaning she can be similar to or potentially be alike but not identical to certain behaviors. Replace with can act similarly / potentially act that way Or Emphasis on that, meaning she more directly conforms to whatever “that” is. Replace with all have that same personality / are exactly this way. I’m never sure which is meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:21 PM
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