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they cant get past the anger stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:55 AM
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Did she “preform anal” was an …interesting way to phrase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:58 AM
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.. it’s that women’s sexuality doesn’t work like men’s does. which is why judging by the parameters of how fast she has sex with you is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:23 PM
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Your title “Blah blah blah IS LIKE blahblahblah” literally is comparing I guess you mean specifically that you are comparing the validity of invalidating either experience within a bubble that excludes “severity” If 20% of ppl in Australia pee a lil when they sneeze - and 6% of people in Australia drop kick a human baby when they fart I’m not saying peeing when you sneeze isn’t awful/ let’s look into this I am pointing out that within a bubble that excludes (in this case) severity - the data wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:39 AM
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Readddd the sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:00 AM
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It’s human nature to be social. Mating with unsocial humans doesn’t compute with lizard brain. You don’t HAVE to do it, but it’s gives you better odds
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:41 PM
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Believe it or not, most people ENJOY having friends and don’t just participate to get “social credits” to “trade for affection.” Making friends isn’t about winning the approval of others, it’s about enjoying spending time with others LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:47 PM
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Hand packed husband, battered wife
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:47 PM
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average men get married everyday?! True, but many on this sub would disagree/ claim that those guys are all actually above average, or find(hamster) a way to declare those marriages invalid for whatever other ‘reasons’
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:26 AM
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I'd feel no different than before, though it would be unnecessary to do it in the bathroom if we were already in bed. Sometimes when I’m not in the mood, he will ask if I just wanna watch (which I often do, but I know majority of women would not be interested in that, especially when already turning down sex) sometimes watching gets me in the mood, sometimes it doesnt. sometimes I help at the end, sometimes I dont even watch. I dont care if he uses porn to get off, I sometimes do too. I’m intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:10 AM
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women dont actually do that do they? thats gross
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:23 PM
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You have a 2 minute refractory period*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:23 PM
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This is my exact experience also
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:15 PM
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having littles buddies as a fully grown adult OMG are you under the impression that adults dont have, want or need friends?!?!?! That is so wrong and sad that you believe that. Man.... Humans are social animals, Humans of all ages want and need friends. Its a symptom of neurodivergentcy (or some disabilities) to not want friends/social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:12 PM
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its personal preference I suppose. I personally find FAR more enjoyment having quality back and forth conversations, rather than talking at someone while they occasionally add simple comments or ask simple questions. we could both like trying new ramen spots, or both enjoy action scifi. maybe we both are gamers, or both into snowboarding. I personally makes friends based off of a similar interest or hobbies. I need my partner to be my friend also . its important to have separate hobbies and inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:29 AM
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not the original commenter.but I’m gonna answer- of course not. but its much more fulfilling to have a back and forth convo with someone who has a similar level interest in the topic as you do. For both parties involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:32 PM
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retired at 40? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:35 PM
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My boyfriend and male best friend (and other male friends) get along great. We all hang out and go shoot pool, see concerts, go skiing together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:05 AM
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It's usually playful banter that escalated to some kind of physical contact In my personal experience. (Obviously with someone I’m attracted to) With 1st times or established relashionships People are different, I have a teeth fetish If my bf bites his teeth together close to by head, the sound sends shivers through me. He likes the reaction he gets from me, I like his reaction to my reaction. Lots of bedroom eyes and suggestive eye contact and lip biting, then we obviously make out. I turns me …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:23 PM
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Your type of girl doesn't use social media though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:19 PM
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Literally had a dude accuse me of being in a porn video like two weeks ago, and I was baffled. I was shocked and confused and actually got scared that someone somehow made a deepfake or whatever of me. I threw up from the stress and anxiety, I ended up watching it and it was clear to anyone who has seen me in real life that it was not me. Turns out he hadn't even watched it, just got a friend to instead. It was the most unexpected and outlandish thing I’ve ever been accused of. Ruined my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:49 AM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:49 PM
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Life do be like that, I agree Super attractive people of both genders get to put in less effort to get what/who they want and can also get away with more. It makes total sense and I’m not crying about it was just laughing at the reversal of what dudes on this sub complain about Have to do it all, when chad does nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:46 PM
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She has to jump through hoops and work hard for what Stacy gets for free.... where have I seen this before
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:20 PM
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8-10 months. I’m a very sexual/sex positive person but between going through a break up and struggling with other things in life, seeking sex takes a back seat. After a few month I just stop thinking about it completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:19 PM
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My boyfriend brought the topic up with me. God do I adore the man. His work buddies were talking about it and he came to the conclusion that he will do it after we are married with kids and not wanting anymore. He's so thoughtful and kind, I can't wait to spend my life with him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:19 PM
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I have a mixed group of friends and we all contribute. Sometimes one person is broke (male or female) and the rest of us will chop in so the don't miss out on whatever the activity is. When dudes on here screech about male/female friendship involving men giving and not receiving anything in return it pisses me off That's not friendship lol. I’m 25f and my best friend in the world for 12 yrs is a dude. We will be in eachothers wedding parties, Friendship is a give-and-a-take with no score board o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:58 AM
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Love doesn't mean sex for goodness sakes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:12 PM
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I’m 4'11 and my bf is 6'5 and we do look ridiculous together. He was sitting when I met him..... I wish he was shorter But he's not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:02 PM
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Transactional relationships exist But so do reciprocal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:32 AM
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Sure, won't disagree with social proof,, That is super valid and would explains HIS ability and execution of hypergamy But also, social proof/money aside, his face is cute and the skater type style I originally knew him for was exactly what I went for all of high school (I’m 25 now) He's attractive to me and some friends and was before and after anyone super famous he's dated Anecdotal for sure, but that's all I have for this thread X
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:27 AM
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Men say Pete is ugly, women love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:12 PM
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Keep going and start striking up convos with the people who's names you recall. Just a simple "hows your day going so far" Either they will have a story to kickoff a convo, or they say "not bad what about you man" If it's the latter, have a few statements ready if you need to think of them before Something like "Same here, So you hear about --insert whatever current event people are talking about in your area/country-- what do you think" Or "I actually had the craziest day --insert crazy story h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:46 PM
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Men an women are different sure. Men value and respond to VISUAL stimulation more, so they care less about "good personality" Women, while still placing importance on visual stimulation, can be swayed to have MORE attraction or LESS attraction based on "good personality" humans are social creatures. It's a fact. Sure a women who is a little shy or reserved will still have an easier time than a male. This is again irrelevant to what I was discussing as the topic is WOMENS attraction to MEN But ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:18 PM
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Humans are social creatures. Those things I listed that make "good personalities" are logically what humans in general find attractive. Nature isn't fair. It is what it is. Dating being harder for men is off topic to anything I’m talking about, obviously I don't disagree, it's just irrelevant to my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:41 PM
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I was under the impression we were talking about women's attraction towards men in relation to their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:33 PM
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Im an introvert. I'm an outgoing, funny and confident introvert. Socialization comes very easily to me. I am a great conversationalist. I just prefer to spread my time alone and need to recharge after socializing. It's not intro/extro that matters. But being outgoing vs shy, being confident vs timid, Being able to hold a back-and-forth conversation Having a relatable sense of humour Having relatable, or interesting hobbies/interests to talk about all of that matters tremendously towards what is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:13 PM
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*To have a reciprocal relationship (of whatever form) where you are both each others "person" before and above anyone else and agree to continue to be moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:42 AM
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*To have a reciprocal relationship (of whatever form) where you are both each others "person" before and above anyone else and agree to continue to be moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:42 AM
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I’m not making any claims other than what my comment explicitly said. I only responded to/acknowledged the third paragraph None of that is relevant to my comment/opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:50 AM
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So can you be nice and hot? Or when you turn hot you change to act like other chicks? These are conflicting statements
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:19 PM
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So u arnt looking for a nice girl you are compatible with. You are looking for a hot girl to have sex with Kindof like the hot girls you complain about... who arnt looking for nice dudes they are compatible with but rather chads to fuck. I hope the irony isn't lost on you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:07 PM
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Not the person you originally replied to but I can comprehend what you want, The issue is that you can't comprehend that it really is as simple as "too bad" You are not owed "free sex" As in sex that you don't have to put effort (or money) in to get. I understand what you want and why you want it. I’m just under no obligation to fulfill that desire. Your options are to play the game-called-life with the cards you have been dealt, or don't. That's your call. You can't negotiate with the players i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:03 PM
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Why all the emojis.. this is Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:53 PM
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"Getting a mid Gf is not a win" is what I was specifically replying to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:46 PM
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Great! Then the advice is not for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:34 PM
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Theres no "dunking" going on. Dont be so dramatic.lol My comment boasts valid advice.-If you are not getting traction with the young attractive women you claim to speak with, than you likely are not evaluating yourself at an accurate level. Try the same with a slightly lower level. If you are not seeking to gain traction with the women you speak with, that's fine. Keep doing what your doing then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:11 PM
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If you are not getting any traction with young attractive women, you should approach young, average women, or slightly below average. Are you a young and attractive man? Me thinks not, or you wouldn't be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:02 PM
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Are you trying to "win" ? I thought you were trying to find a nice girl who is compatible with you and will give you intimacy (specifically in the form of sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:52 PM
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Every dude who subscribes to RP ideology is Neurodivergent (mental issues) Vast majority are on the autism spectrum. Tons are Narcissists....like actual NPD Others have clear psychosis, Riddled with anxiety, depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:49 PM
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He likes small boobs better than big boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:55 PM
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I don't have kids, and if I did, I'd too be saving them first. I just wanted to offer a different perspective that I read once. A husband/wife were discussing the exact topic of who would be saved first in the case of a serious house fire. The wife was astonished and couldn't believe the husband said he'd save her before the kid. His reasoning was that as devastating as losing their child would be, they could have another once they healed from the tragedy, but there was only one her. Sounds a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:30 PM
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//r/oddlyspecific
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:10 PM
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Rape and assault are not the same as consensual sex 50 shades is irrelevant these days
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:47 PM
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Just goes to show you've never had a coed friendship. My best friend in the world for over a decade is a dude, and I’ve been helping him pulling girl/ sending them his way the whole time. If anything, he's a drain on ME with since my love language is acts of service I’m always helping him out with crap or cooking when we hangout LOL For real tho, coed friendships are real and so fucking valuable if you ever are so blessed to find a real one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:22 PM
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Arranged marriages don't have higher success rates due to the couple being a good match, nor or they more happy. They just have lower divorce rates because it's not culturally acceptable or often even legal to divorce. Not divorcing ≠ Successful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:53 PM
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Yea that's a fat reach and arguing in bad faith bud
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:05 PM
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Oh please. It was heavily implied / suggested wby the wording of his comment. you need to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:59 PM
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I'd suggest he finds a women with a similar IQ, not date 16 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:49 AM
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The seat can't be left up If the lid is down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:52 PM
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If you arnt getting either from her then ...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:48 PM
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Your league is who can get tho so liek If u can't get her she's not ur league
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:29 PM
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I opened up about being adopted at 6, and that because I older siblings who never got adopted, and have consequently had very hard lives because of it, (to say the very least) I really wanted to either adopt a child (not baby) or even just foster kids of whatever age for a few years at some point in my life. Its fine, thats a compatibility issue. I’m ending a 2 yr relationship because he has never opened up about anything ever, or had a conversation deeper than small talk like ever. (Other than …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:39 AM
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I think that men and women move through the world differently. Men seem to more often be moving through their day with intent to make a connection with a women in that way either overtly, or if the opportunity presents its self. Women on the other hand generally do not go out daily with any intent to make that kind of connection, so it's more likely that she really is just doing her job/being nice and nothing more, while more likely that he is open to some escalation past "thanks have a good day…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:18 PM
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Everyone is unique.. we be talking about those specific things that make u unique. If you are stuck on being nothing but a body then we have literally nothing at all to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:56 PM
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Sure in simple terms that's all you are. But what we are talking about is the things that make others perceive you in whichever way they do. Not boiled down to the simplest form of "body and chemicals" What makes your body and chemicals different from the next. A big main 3 is how you socialize with others, what you do for work and what you do for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:09 PM
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Humans are social creature. Your social skills, hobbies and career are all huge main points in what makes you, you. Luckily you have almost complete control over that!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:19 PM
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All the things that contribute to who you are...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:21 PM
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Why are you under the assumption that I am trying to prove something to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:54 PM
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sigh How exhausting. No. I was just pointing out that even on this sub you will see the same opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:52 PM
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... why are we going in circles. Yes, and the one who do, say they are good to look at/for sex but not to seriously date. That spending time with someone in such a dif part of life is mind numbing at best and torture at worst. Literally the post before this on this very sub is full of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:41 PM
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Prefer. Outside of this sub (and sometime in this sub also) you will hear men saying women under 25 are good to look at but not spend time with. That they'd rather shoot their brains out than seriously date someone in such a different place in life that they cannot relate to. Or other similar statements. Edit I’m of course talking about men who themselves are 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:10 PM
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Vast majority of men irl will find women in their 20s to be the most physically attractive. That doesn't mean the vast majority would prefer to seriously date women in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:33 PM
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Water is wet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:49 PM
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My boyfriend of 2 years and I treat it like any other day and treat eachother to dinners throughout the year.. Fuck that capitalist expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:34 AM
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No ones picking the guy whos a wife murderer this is dumb. Women will stay single or if they like the non murderer maybe him. 3 crazy, fucked up and delusion people (out of billions of people) r gonna pick pat, and the people who would are just as fucked as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:08 PM
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I (f) prefer a male masseurs because their hand are larger. I find with the pressure coming from a smaller surface (women's hands/fingers) makes me more ticklish and harder to relax and enjoy. I don't think it's weird to have the opposite gender massage you, it's a paid service and not sexual in any way. It would be like getting upset that a women cut my bfs hair- weird. To each their own tho, just not something I could fathom caring about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:25 PM
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Shows how detached from the sidebar this new wave of ppd is. Agree and amplify is the answer and few few are saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:17 PM
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There were a few final nails there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:54 AM
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I don't have sex with men like that. If I had an issue with my boyfriend I wouldn't withhold sex as a bargaining chip though. I'd like to say we'd have a discussion and work through it before it had a chance to seep into effecting other parts of our relationship. Solid 2 years with no real fights, and just a couple small disagreements that were easy to navigate so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:20 PM
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You explained nervous attachment style not love LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:39 PM
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Creepy? No I 25f Wouldnt care if my bf followed "models" but would of course care if he tried to contact them, or was leaving comments on their pages... thats being unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:36 PM
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20 mins a day sounds awful. 20 mins is barley enough foreplay. 4mins every other/every 3 days would be far better. 20 mins is unlikely to be good for a women Edit just saw that you said every few days not everyday!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:35 PM
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Is it still purge week ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:35 AM
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If all you need is sex, you are not seeking a relationship, just a sex partner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:31 AM
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Hed be heartbroken if I didn't think he was husband material ! Hes tryna have a marriage and children too. Such a sweet man. Hope you all can find what we have
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:41 PM
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My bf is husband material As in, hes someone I would marry and would be a good husband. We also have frequent great sex. If he was t husband material I wouldn't be dating him..... as I’m looking to have a marriage and children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:35 PM
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If you are getting "starfish sex" from someone, you are having sex with someone who does NOT want to be there, get off of her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:29 PM
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Gay men have quick, frequent sex Gay women have 4+ hour sessions, less frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:05 PM
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I’m 25f and my best friend in the world is 26m We used to go to the bar and I'd be his wingman and help him get chicks. I help him with what to say (over text) to girls hes tryna date. When we are both in relationships we hangout as a group and play trivia and go for dinners. We vent to eachother and cry to eachother when we go through breakups. He's newly single, and will show me hot girls he's matched with on tinder, and I'll hype him up, he tells me how it goes (I even ask) When I was single,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:40 AM
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Oral doest count toward ncount, but very few dudes will get a blow job from a girl they dont also have sex with. Anal (which I dont do) would obviously count though. Never been asked my ncount and noone in my coed group of friends has hangups on such things. We are all regular, well adjusted, social people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:34 PM
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18 year old men get exploited all the time. Getting fed propaganda influencing them to enlist for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:06 PM
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Not at allllll what I was saying. Age of consent is good where it is. 16 yr olds doing it with 16 yr olds is fine 18 yr olds doing it with people around there age is fine Its just weird when 30 yrolds go for teens
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:12 PM
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The left girl looks 25-28 and the one on the right looks 38-44 my friend… have you seen real life women before?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:28 PM
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If he kept the old haircut hed be a 5 he went from a 3.5 to a 4 7 is far far too generous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:16 PM
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This exact women, 10-15 pounds more pounds would be a 3-4 Shes currently a 4.5-5 Edit I’m in Cancun right now sitting by the pool surrounded by below average women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:45 PM
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Wait what? What are you talking about?? I literally said that I see plenty of below average women. Can you not read or something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:34 PM
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That is an average as fuck women. Skinny fat, no deformities. Nothing disgusting, nothing amazing . Average as can be. I see plenty of below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:21 PM
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You honour me good sir, I cant wait to tell my mother
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:29 PM
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Ill take one of each. Someone has to entertain me with fun crazy stories when I’m old and decrepit… best to have two, so they can take turns/ have a break
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:28 PM
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respectful bow Wow, what an honour
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:25 PM
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Solid translation, thank you for your service
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:24 PM
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Geriatric pregnancy is not at 30 LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:10 PM
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Leaving a relationship is the same as leaving a child so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:22 AM
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5 and I’m 25f 1 year long (end of grade 9-part of grade 10) 1 year long (grade 11) 4 years long (end of grade 11- till I was idk 21?) 1 year long at 22 Currently 2 years in and am 25 years old I intend to marry this one I don’t find it unreasonable to get to 10 in 21 years. My first 3 we all started in highschool, where dating barley counts. I wouldnt say I truly loved anyone until the 4 year guy. I thought it did, but I was just a kid, I had no idea what romantic love really was. Its not that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:48 PM
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Madonna/whore complex I thought women “gave” different sex to hookup vs bf, You do too? I have both romantic passionate love making, and passionate animalistic fucking with my man. We both enjoy both and it just naturally happens both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:44 PM
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Idk.. When I was a highschool student, I actually came to the realization that I was always attracted to my perceived “leader” of the group of guys. If I got a new bf and then met his friends, and someone else was the “leader” of their group, id find myself more attracted to them. I even once dumped one for the other. (Hypergamy amiright?) I’m 25 now and with some introspect and maturing I’ve gotten over that behaviour. My bf is certainly not the leader of the people he spends time with, but I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:46 PM
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Skater looking guys have always been my thing growing up, Now its Rugged, strong, manly lumberjack type (rare) and skater looking guys/ tattooed guys I’ve dated guys outside this preferred type, my current boyfriend of 2 years doesnt fit wither of these
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:49 PM
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No because thats not what I believe. I was just explaining the difference between to two uses of average. Also, for straight men looking to mate, a womens perception of attractiveness is the only applicable perception
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:53 PM
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People are Conflating two different meanings of “average” Average1 meaning the range where majority of people fall on the map. And Average2 meaning the exact middle point between the highest and lowest. OP is saying that the average1 man falls below the average2 point on the scale of attractivness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:30 PM
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Conflating two different meanings of “average” Average1 meaning the range where majority of people fall on the map. And Average2 meaning the exact middle point between the highest and lowest. OP is saying that the average1 man falls below the average2 point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:29 PM
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You don’t understand what cherry picked means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:30 AM
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You need to address your mental health (serious depression) that caused you to give up on everything. Depression is also a libido killer. I would not want anything to do with someone who didnt know basic anatomy or why women get periods. I live in Canada, where sex ed is the norm, and even if it wasnt, Google exists. Your age preferences on top of everything make it extremely unlikely for you to find a partner.. hopefully therapy can help you there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:23 AM
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It was a joke really :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:19 PM
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Fully agree! Id always cringe a bit when people would say “my other half” Like no.. I’m a whole person. I’m full and complete, all by myself. I dont want a half a person, I want a whole entire full person to grow with/beside. Not someone to complete me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:54 PM
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Spending half your salary on a cheap prostitute? Me thinks you need a better job!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:37 PM
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I have “hoe” friends, who like casual sex and have it frequently. I’m in a committed relationship, and a few other in our group are too. We do the same shit, we go to the same parties, same events, same concerts, same restaurants/bars. We hangout together. I’m just always going home with the same man, and theirs changes up. We are all doing what we want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:59 PM
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I have done it too, it just made me laugh to read
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:50 AM
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Im stuck on the part where you said people used to spend hours on buying and lighting candles LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:05 PM
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Andrew tate is definitely a loser good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:09 PM
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I told my boyfriend when we started getting serious that I (23 almost 24f at the time) that I wanted to be married before I had kids, and wanted a kid before/by the time I’m 30. I’m 25 now and he wants to know my ringsize and styles I like so he can surprise me within the next couple years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:09 PM
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I think its less about seeking “variety” and more that the beginning parts of mating is FUN and EXCITING to those who can properly participate The flirting and sexual tension and build up is the very best part of any new sexual interaction I’ve had
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:24 PM
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Men and women who are 18+ are allowed to dat who they please. I'm 25f and my bf is 24m. My previous relationship was with a 32 year old when i was 22/23. I liked that i was "mature" enough for him, and i was attracted to him. It ended up being the most mentally draining and emotionally abusive situation I've ever been in in my life. it was awful, it took me months to get out of the confused mental fog he put me in. He was manipulative, I'm certain he had actual NPD, he love bombe me, then entire…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:33 PM
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While I do enjoy these online spaces and discussing "gender politics",trends, generalizations and statistics, I dont take on the burden of all human relations. You shouldn't either. I only worry about my own personal relationships. Talking "in general" works when discussing everyone, but on and individual level it doesn't work. Everyone is a little different. I dont try to fit people i interact with into a box, or immediately assume their actions/intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:39 PM
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Having your own life, interests and hobbies outside of a relationship should be default. its unattractive to have nothing at all going on for yourself.. like you have no life at all outside of me? thats weird.. but intentionally withholding attention as a mind game is also bad. my boyfriend is basically never "unavailable" to hangout when I ask to, but he doesn't try to text 24/7 or see me everyday. He's not suffocating me with attention. He texts back when he sees a text, and has a moment to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:06 PM
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thats still infidelity LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:16 PM
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I intend to have a test done just to have my kids genes/identity documented incase they want or need that in the future for any reason. (after my bf and I (25f)get married and have a kid), and have told him that i intend to casually in conversation when we were talking about our future/kids. I was adopted and didn't always have the family medical history/info that I needed. (i do now) Id like to avoid the trouble for any future kid I have. If you ask someone for a paternity test, there is no oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:45 AM
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Make female friends with the intent to make new friends. Then DONT try to convert them into sexual partners. Just have female friends. Get comfortable interacting with women and hopefully take them off the pedestal and start seeing them as regular people. Then use this experience to meet other women than your friends (maybe even their friends)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:26 PM
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They just said they dont care about being a good person, only upholding tradition so you shouldn’t be surprised they want less empathy in the world LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:34 PM
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Thanks for editing to elaborate past “almost all ways”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:17 PM
0

Which specific political views do you hold that lean left?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:11 PM
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In which ways are you left leaning politically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:00 PM
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Its not “meaningless mombojombo” You are projecting YOUR PERSONAL feelings of value on to everyone. YOU value women for them “giving sex” and making babies. Why the flying fuck would I value women for that? I dont. I still value women. Because human life matters. I value mens lives too, including men who I’ve never met and who do nothing for me. I value your life, and have empathy for you too. Human life has value as is, without giving anything to “earn it” Even you. Even me. Sad that you dont s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:50 PM
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YOU dont value men Inherently, I do though. Dont project the value YOU have placed on other men onto me. I do not value women inherently because they have vaginas that can be fucked, LMFAO I value men and women inherently because human life has value as is to me. YOU value women for “giving sex” (lol) and making babies. And YOU dont value men who arnt giving or doing something for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:39 PM
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No it says that depression negatively effects libido. Which can be confirmed by all the depressed people who report low to no libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:02 PM
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As an adoptee who was groomed by my foster parent (before I was adopted by lovely people) this is fucking terrifying. He cant be allowed to adopted a child to abuse :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:40 PM
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To be clear, he was clearly nervous and shook when I started initiating sex the first couple times, he was still good though, I didn’t know he was a virgin until I was asking his help to get his pants off and the look on his face gave him away. It was cute tbh. I asked him a couple days later and he said ya it was his first time, no biggie to me, I enjoyed myself. It took him 6 months to start being more forward and confident in terms of touching my body and escalating when I had already initiat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:04 PM
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length means nothing without girth. (I’m not requesting further details about your penis, just a statement to keep in mind) I certainly didnt know my bf had a huge dick when I was first meeting him or talking to him LOL So that had no influence on me getting with him I found out the first time we had sex of course. He is amazing tho, he cares about our mutual experience, not just getting off. He pays attention to how I’m reacting when hes doing stuff, and listens if I say anything to guide him, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:31 PM
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I havnt tested the theory heavily, but I did date a couple “life of the party” types in early highschool and they were average size, and not super enjoyable in bed- granted we were young My current bf (24m) was a virgin when I met him, shy as fuuuuuck, but I was surprised to find he was huge lol And hes an amazing lover, better and better the more time passes (2 years together so far) Would encourage others to fuck the local shy guy and hopefully find similar results lol, imma marry this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:59 PM
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My bf is the shyest guy I’ve ever met, he could barley hold eye contact with me when we first met, and he’s got a hog, so I wouldnt say they are connected. I do assume arrogant dudes must be compensating for something tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:47 PM
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there was another post today where A guy was explaining how few attractive women there were to go around. many in the comments were stating that being ugly didnt make them attracted to ugly people. this is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:46 PM
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In my head, calling a guy Daddy isnt calling him your daddy, its like.. ur gonna make him a daddy When you have a baby you can you partner mommy/daddy infront of the kid right, I dont really use daddy with my partner but prob will once we start trying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:13 PM
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Babe, baby, honey, cutie, cutiepie, baber, love, my love, lover, lovie, sweet baby love, butt, handsome, sweets, and one thats a play off his real name I wont specify The first half I’ve used for past relationships. Anything past “my love” is specific to my current relationship. Past relationships may have had one or two of their own as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:47 PM
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My bf is in my phone as Sweet Baby Love!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:44 PM
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So you are telling me that you are going for the top 20% and writing off the bottom 80% as unattractive Hmm Interesting this must be the 80/20 thing I’m always hearing about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:35 PM
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I clearly defined the things that you need ontop of base physical attraction(attitude/mannerisms/style) to get to sexual attraction. I didnt clearly define which mannerism or style because that would depend on the specific women. The point is for women, physical attraction does not equal sexual attraction. When women say that they grew to be attracted to their partner- they were always subconsciously physically attracted to them in some way, but the sexual attraction (which is separate for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:41 PM
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Physical attraction and sexual attraction are twisted up and mixed for men. If you see someone is physically attractive the you are sexually attracted to them. Women are different, physical attraction is only part of sexual attraction. This is why we can objectively say certain actors are attraction but not for us. For (most)women, if u pass a certain subconscious threshold for physical attractiveness, you still are not seen as SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE yet. she likely does not even register that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:22 PM
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Compared to being safe ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:49 AM
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my boyfriend was a virgin when i met him (22/23) and it had no effect on my perception of him. he was and is great in bed. he listens to what i say i like, and reads my body language well. I've slept with experienced guys who thought they were sex gods for jack hammering me. very unenjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:37 PM
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I see people looks matched within a point of each other as the vast majority next I see more attractive women with less attractive (not below average tho) men everywhere. Especially in high school, but still now that I'm 25. Every pretty women I know, or pretty friend I had in highshcool dated plain/borderline ugly dudes I never see less attractive women with more attractive men (unless they are married and she started out more attractive/looks matched but after age and kids/weight he is now mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:09 PM
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True that! Lie and say a high number, then dont put out for 4+ dates, should do the trick Edit- I would never directly ask a guy his thoughts on casual sex because thats not something normal everyday people talk about off the internet and id sound autistic. “So tell me about your past relationships” or some tactful way to bring up dating views maybe, I’ve never actually dated a guy who asked or cared about “n count” all the people I’ve dated have normal healthy social and dating lives. My large …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:40 PM
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Uhhh men date up all the time, I exclusively see looks matched couples or pretty girls with ogres. In highschool and in the real world (I’m 25) I never see a good looking guy with a girl below him,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:13 PM
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I think that women should lie and always say high numbers to filter out guys who would judge and think less of them for having consensual sex Would be a really good filter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:58 PM
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I “took” my bfs virginity (he was 22, I was 23) and it was great. Only gotten better and better over the last two years. Listen to what ur partner says, read the body language and facial expressions, Do not try to copy porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:36 PM
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In highschool i had a crush on this guys that ran in some of the same circles as me a couple years ago when I was 22 I started seeing him… Every time I got naked he would say OhMyGod You are SOOO hot and repeat it like 5 times AT LEAST. I laughed and took the compliment first time, but got weird fast
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:02 PM
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Lesbians have sex less frequently but it lasts like the whole day when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:37 PM
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Im flakey as fuck and will cancel frequently to just stay home by myself (i will see you the very next day after i flake tho!) My bf of 2 yr knows I'm like this obvi and doesn't get upset with me, it will be easier when move in together because i only bail cuz i love being home, with my dogs and just in my comfort zone (home) not because i dont want to see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:43 PM
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Im Canadian. Average dudes have 1-2 high school "relationships" of some capacity. Lose their virginity between 17-21. Most average guys can't get casual sex until they are a bit older and even then its sparse. Average dudes have a few friends, guys and gals, they likely have a trades job or trade adjacent job. Average guys here are either on the skinny side with no definition, or skinny-fat (we dont have the same obesity problem as the states) Average dudes are not recluses, they are not shut-in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:25 PM
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and she risked turning into a pumpkin at midnight lol or whatever the catch was if we are using cartoons as examples what about louis and petah griffin?? hmmm? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:52 PM
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lol you are wrong? cinderella was an abused step daughter not a maid, and she was beautiful, and given a full formal gown and shit by a magical fairy godmother to look her best for the prince the story even highlights how ugly her step sisters were (the others who wanted the prince) he picked the most beautiful based on one night of dance with her.. so def not her personality edit- back to the current , have you seen romcoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:30 PM
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have you seen any RomCom ever made? They almost exclusively feature average to below average men winning over model-tier women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:24 PM
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if you havnt changed from 18-25 that’s a much much bigger red flag than inexperience could ever be ?! 18-25 was a huge maturity and life experience jump for everyone I know (i’d say inexperience past a certain age would be a yellow flag - depends on the reason)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:12 PM
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I dont know anyone who asks dudes when they lost their virginity... tho i do know i took my bfs (when he was 22 almost 23) and didn't think anything of it. he's super shy, it made sense and doesn't effect our relationship in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:11 PM
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I’m not insinuating anything. majority of men 30+ don’t think 30 is too old for a women. that doesn’t mean anything other than what it says dude, why are you having issues understanding that? they can,and will, still find others attractive , but that doesn’t stop the majority still finding 30 year old women attractive too. lol good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:59 PM
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ok, irrelevant to my statement. 30 years is not too old for the majority of 30+ men. as per real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:43 PM
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As per real life, yes its true that a 30 yr old women will likely be too old for boys and men -18-28 However for the vast majority older than that, they will be perfectly happy with a 30 yr old women. some will prefer younger, but most will not think 30 is too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:27 PM
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absolutely not. Teenage boys/20s will. the rest dont
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:23 PM
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even with separate accounts, as a family unit you should be working towards the same goal (imo a happy healthy home to raise children) obviously a marriage is whatver you make it.. just that’s my view of what a marriage is. one family unit working towards the same goal/outcome. your right its just my interpretation. (and my partners)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:04 AM
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I hear u and take back that statement, it wasn’t accurate. it was not quite what I meant, my wording was misleading. I meant marriage imo is two Individuals becoming one family unit. not one legal entity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:40 PM
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compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:50 PM
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I think that in your/my grandparents day, a large portion of people were in horribly unhappy marriages, and just couldn’t leave. ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:37 PM
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I think that it’s less that they want or feel they need to be a “boss bitch” and more that it’s either unrealistic to have a 1 income household- especially with kids, and that there is no assurance that you won’t be left out high and dry after giving up your working years to raise children. it’s nearly impossible to re-enter the work force when you’ve had no job outside the home for 10+ years… there are pros an cons to any dynamic of course. and this is not to ignore that men can also be left hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:04 PM
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you know I actually see similar trends in my own friend group. the couples who are more traditional seem happier to me too, where he works and she takes care of the home, or at least he work more and she does the homemaking/child raising then gets a part time job when they are school age. I don’t have friends who have been able to continue this past school age though, due to how expensive child raising is! that extra income comes in handy. as for chores, as long as everyone cleans up a mess they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:40 PM
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I hope they get to change their opinion. truly sad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:27 PM
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because there are so many women out there. the only ones you hear from are the unhappy ones. there are many other household who have the right balance figured out where everyone is happy and no one feels taken advantage of. those people just sent the ones posting online, or venting to their friends. personally I intend to do a bigger share-but not all of the house hold maintenance/ day to day stuff. my partner and I have our dynamic figured out. if something comes up for one of us, like sickness…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:26 PM
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I always hope for a southpark reference when I call someone pal or buddy on reddit so thanks for keeping up with tradition
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:08 PM
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yes thank you for the amazing addition to the conversation. you both know what I was getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:05 PM
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you are still doing it pal, you knew what I was saying. this is no longer a productive conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:04 PM
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right. I’m head over heels in love with my bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:03 PM
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you are being pedantic. I refer to them as one entity because they are one family unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:00 PM
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like I said about OP, you don’t understand the concept of equity, (majority of marriages work a equitable 50/50) and are ignoring that almost every women who commented said they were ok with exact 50/50 with a bf. most men here are adamantly against marriage anyway my partner is very happy and we’ve talked in depth about all of these topics, as i’d encourage anyone to do with a serious partner. you shouldn’t have surprises going into a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:57 PM
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subtract the word legal, that was an inaccurate addition to an otherwise true statement marriage is two individuals becoming one entity. having separate bank account doesn’t effect that. you are one family unit working towards the same goal. I feel bad for those who go through life viewing all relationships as purely transactional. I love being in love with my guy. I cant wait to marry him and come home to him everyday. i cant wait to make mini versions of us, and live a “boring” white picket fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:52 PM
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with a boyfriend, almost every women who commented was happy and willing to go exact 50/50, so long as it was within her means, if her partner wanted to live above her means then he would pay the difference… no one is forcing you to be with women. you are more than welcome to opt out. my boyfriend makes more than me, when we buy a house and get married he will pay far more than me towards bills. I will do the cooking and the laundry. we will both do base level cleaning (clearing the table, clean…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:26 PM
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most people naturally do date/marry in the same economic bracket.. it’s only here on PPD where people claim a women’s job doesn’t matter, and that a CEO will marry a waitress if she’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:21 PM
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you don’t seem to understand what an equitable 50/50 relationship looks like. which is for example could look like each partner using 60% of their income for bills, 20% each into savings and 20% each for “fun” almost every commenter agreed 50/50 split down the middle for bills would be fine with a boyfriend, so long as he was comfortable living within her means, marriage is literally 2 individuals joining to become one legal entity. All is shared. (majority of marriages work on an equitable 50/5…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:17 PM
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exactly this, The specific women you are going after are like this. It’s not a trend in women, it’s a trend in your type
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:58 PM
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I (25f) know that there’s a fair chance my compliments will be taken as interest, but I personally still compliment men, even strangers; if I see reason too. I tell men/women in passing that I like their shirt/outfit/sweater/shoes. literally anytime I see any that I really like. happens frequently. “hey, love your ____” and then I keep walking. I tell literally every person with a dog I like (most dogs) “I love your dog!” (this one I will even shout out of car windows lol) I compliment women as …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:50 PM
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I 25f am in a committed relationship with plans for children in the future. i also live in Canada where we have abortion access. I get scared anytime my period is late. I am NOT ready for a kid yet. its pretty scary to waiting to get your period a couple days late
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:30 PM
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rather than getting engaged now and being engaged for 2-3 year untill we are ready for a wedding, we agree we want to wait the 2ish years regular dating then get engaged when we have the funds for the house we intend to buy together and the wedding —leaving our engagement period to be the length of time it takes us to plan the wedding (at very most a year) we both think it’s silly when people are engaged for three+ years before actually “tying the knot” we have a solid 5 year plan for our lives …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:12 AM
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I personally can't imagine being ready to get engaged to someone if we hadn't already talked about this. There shouldn't be any guessing. (and you should already know what their answer will be) If he has a family ring he imagined giving to his future wife, thats something that would be talked about at some point well before popping the question. If it doesn't fit the idea she has in her head that is something that will be talked about. maybe they reset the stones in a dif ring, maybe they save t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:58 AM
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The idea that we compare men that way is really misguided. I’ve honestly never thought to compare in my mind two guys I’ve been with… they were separate , unrelated instances and it provides me no value to compare.. we don’t mentally rank guys sexual performance in comparison to eachother. so odd to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:29 PM
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oh I def prefer sex around 10 mins. I orgasm fairly easily and my bf is really big… if he too long on one time i’ll need a couple days off to let everything recover down there. if we keep it to around 10 mins I can go again later
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:18 PM
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childlike? wtf that’s creepy and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:35 PM
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still not too old good sir, just being happy and content with your life and yourself regardless of female attention (or at least appearing so) is my biggest advice aside from personal improvements. I wish u the best, truly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:32 PM
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for sure, I just don’t think he’d ever get to be a rage filled individual since it directly conflicts with his gentle soul and stoic demeanour. also he was 22/23 and had never had a gf or sexual experience… just wanna point that out to any teens who think they are a write off/ it won’t happen for them. you are not too old for it to happen!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:17 PM
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perhaps in the sense that he would’ve preferred to be having sex and wasnt. but he never really tried due to shyness. i’d say no because he was not angry or bitter about it on any level. he was pretty content with his life before me.. he is a major gamer and has a main friend group from there he knows only in game/discord. but he also has irl friends and goes snowmobiling and seadooing with them, he wasn’t isolated or spending his whole life online.. and he wasn’t mad or angry about lack of fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:45 PM
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I don’t even live in the unites states dude. thank goodness lmfao though I’m 90% sure this lad does -so your comment is irrelevant. I actually gave advice on how to change the situation. why don’t you focus on giving your own alternative advice if you disagree with my approach hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:28 PM
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I’m an enneagram type 2, and totally mom of my group. my friends and I were out boating on the lake (canada) and my drunken friends saw him seadoong and asked him to give them rides . then they invited him back to our boat slip for a bbq. he came but was sooo quite and seemed shy and nervous… so I started being myself and taking care of him. my friends are quite rambunctious and I could tell he didn’t feel comfortable asking so I grabbed him a beer and asked what he wanted from the bbq and just …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:24 PM
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therapy my friend. it’s not just talking. they help identify where you want to be then they straight up help you make a step by step plan to get there AND they help you follow through while troubleshooting any issues that come up on during the journey. and that’s what i’m this will be, a journey. one where you/they will come out better on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:43 PM
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I did most of the approaching with my bf. he’s very very shy and I’m sure we would’ve never seen eachother again if I didn’t ask for his snapchat the day I met him (where my friends started the interaction) I also made the first physical move, asked if he wanted to be official (tho he had called me his gf already) and I said I love you first. (I think he felt it first tho) hed kissed someone before me but I’m his first gf and “took” his vcard (he will be 24 next month and I just turned 25, we me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:35 PM
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That is awful horrible parenting. I feel very bad for what those parents have caused their kids life to be. pushing for normal development would’ve had them job seeking around 15-17. this would have given them opportunity to meet a variety of different people, practice their interpersonal skills, show them independence and the value of money. it likely would have naturally led to them wanting to drive, making at least a friend or two. they could still pay video games and watch anime, just could …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:30 PM
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what…. never had a job over 30???????? get a job and some life experience… how does that even happen ??? i’d imagine they are extremely socially stunted and have no grasp on how the real world works. get into therapy and get a job, learn how to world works
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:13 PM
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how pretty or ugly I feel doesnt have any effect on how I see others???? like I do my makeup really well one day and wear my best clothes and suddenly chad down the st seems less chad-like? lol I roll out of bed one day and look like a slob so so terry working the corner store by my house starts looking mighty fine??? these things have 0 correlation if you look good, you look good regardless of what I look like. if you ugly… you ugly no matter what I look like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:08 PM
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sure I can tell if a guy is physically attractive but I’m not sexually attracted to photos. how he embodies his physical form is sexually attractive. his mannerisms and such
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:09 PM
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I don’t remember seeing this case on any news source here.. where in Canada was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:31 AM
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the womens chad? you mean her rapist? wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:56 PM
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that average life span is so low because it’s screwed by child deaths. many many people lived longer than their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:55 PM
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No. no bad feelings towards him, just haven’t thought of him in years! virginity is a man-made concept. you don’t feel any different after really. like on your bday does 22 feel different than 23? No. you just know you are a year older. we lost it to eachother, dated for 1 yr before and 1 after, went separate ways, doubt he ever thinks of me either haha. break up was sad but nothing worse than any other. we ended on fine terms, just he was moving and we were too young for long distance to be rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:30 PM
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lol what? then why are you here on this sub where we debate sexual strategy theories?? are you lost
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:24 AM
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some people actually like women regardless of sex LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:32 PM
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I (25f) live with my mom, and my (24m)bf lives with his parents. We are saving to buy a house in the next year/two years depending on the market. (ON, Canada) I pay rent to my mom.. though far less than what rent in the area would cost. My bf doesn’t pay rent. (lucky) We don’t have disagreements that aren’t smoothed over with a quick convo.. certainly nothing that we would need a second opinion on haha, maybe like what to watch on tv at most We have a 5 year plan involving buying property/a home…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:13 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:44 AM
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I (25f) live with my mom, and my 24m bf lives with his. We are saving to buy a house in the next year/two years. any preference/standard you want to implement in your own dating life is fine by me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:59 PM
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it’s all about your attitude about it. like my bf lost his virginity (to me) when he was 22 yr old. he had kissed 1 girl before but never had a gf or dates. he is very very shy, he’s a gamer who does not go out too much. he’s not a basement dwelling neckbeard though. he held no hate or resentment toward women. he wasn’t angry or bitter about it, he never dated cuz he never put himself out there. he was also a late bloomer. his grd12 grad photo looks like he’s graduating 8th grade! he looks more …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:29 PM
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if he would play football is a ridiculous statementLOL, first of all football is not popular here in Canada.. and second he is extremely shy and hasn’t played sports since he was a kid and his parents signed him up. (hockey and baseball which are popular sports for kids here) yes if he would just pick up any hobby out of the house he would meet people irl. he’s very shy and I introverted so he doesn’t do that. I don’t think his social life is unhealthy either. like I said, if he wasn’t willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:03 PM
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my boyfriend has gamer friends hes known for years but he’s never met in person, talks to on discord and over the phone (I’ve even talked to some of them) he doesn’t really hangout with people irl.. he is friends with his boss and we attend his bosses kids bdays parties, and will go join them for days on the boat occasionally. he also has a group of guys he go snowmobiling with twice a winter but doesn’t see outside of that. it doesn’t bother me or scare me, he’s happy to join me when I invite h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:06 PM
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I spent my whole life believing I didnt want biological children! Met my bf when I was 23 (I’m 25 now) I will 100% have his babies. I wouldn’t have babies with anyone else. I planned to adopt with my ex that I dated for 6 yrs before my current relationship. I met him when I was 15 and I was smitten, obsessed and infatuated with the guy from the moment we locked eyes. I never once wanted to have his children. My current bf is far better husband material, and I will have as many kids of his as he …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:57 PM
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men in their 30s are 1.6 times as likely to have a child with autism as men under 30; men in their 40s have a sixfold increase. Google it. Edit not saying they cant have healthy babies, I’m just saying age does have an effect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:22 PM
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The older a man is, the more likely his offspring is ti have birth defects or autism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:14 PM
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I wouldnt ever say that to him wtf ? & Who says teehee?? Weird To be fair I doubt he would’ve wanted me back then either, I was far from his type, with my extreme dyed hair and face piercings I no longer have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:44 PM
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Hes tall and skinny, much skinnier than id prefer but not a deal breaker. Also has a baby face, I saw his grd 12 grad pic and he looked like he was literally graduating from 8th grade! Wouldnt have fucked him back then lol (met we he was 22 and I was 23, about two years ago) He still has a baby face but its not that extreme anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:31 PM
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My bf is the cutest and I tell him all the time. (Also fuck him all the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:02 PM
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Ya frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:10 PM
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I’m slowly working my bf into being comfortable witht the thought of trying. I KNOW that ill love it. I’m normally very submissive but the reactions of my partner is the HUGEST turn on to me. If he never ends up warming up to the idea, or we try finger with a blowjob and hes not into moving further, or even if we try it and he hates it, no worries.. we can exclude from the roster However if he eventually gives it a go and likes it/loves it ill be happy as heck to be able to see the pleasure I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:24 PM
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A small minority of women fully rely on a partners “resources” Majority of couple share “resources” with eachother. Not exactly a parasitic situation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:06 PM
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I’m 24f and of all my friends in relationships only one of them met their bf online. Everyone else met in person, either at an event/bar or through friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:53 PM
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I agree it’s frustrating when people lie to themselves. I’m just pointing out that fwb to bf/gf does happen. Especially within friend groups. I have multiple friends who started casually seeing anything person in our group, and eventually it turned to more. Doesnt happen with strangers but actual friends +benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:47 PM
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I agree with all of this except that I definitely was FWB for 2 yrs with a guy I went on to date exclusively for 5 years after. I broke up with him a couple years ago (we stayed friends without the benefits) I’m 24f hes 4 years older. Its just not common and neither of had intentions of falling for eachother. It just happened
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:34 PM
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I’m in Canada laying in my boyfriends bed in his parents house. Hes 23 I’m 24. I live at home also, We plan to move out and in with eachother in the next year .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:26 PM
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And its not just women, its children, the elderly or even men who appear in need of help. I would step in to defend anyone I saw being mistreated in front of me, or being harassed by someone/others. Thats just my morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:17 PM
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As a women, when I see another women being harassed i step in to defend her. Its not a “duty” in my mind, its just the right thing to do. I’m not obligated to, but I wouldn’t feel right if I didn’t, due to my own morality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:04 PM
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In a relationship I find its always me or my gal pals planning dates for us and our bfs Before the relationship the guy picks a restaurant or activity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:11 PM
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I would argue that i am not my body.. I am my mind/personality/spirit whatever you wish to call it. My body 100% will change
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:16 PM
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Nothing is being given though That doesn’t even make sense. The body still belongs to the woman. Very detached outlook
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:10 AM
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Such a strange and detached tack on things my dude. You dont give anything when you have sex with someone. You dont give your body to a man LOL, your body has sex with his body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:08 AM
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I dont give sex to anyone… I have sex with people. Its not something being given or taken.. its a mutual activity. What a weird way to look at intimacy lol You clearly dont have any clue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:18 PM
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I always shake my head when I read dudes say this. Trust me, men look significantly better at 25-35 than they do at 40+ lol The only 40+ year olds that are hot are the ones that were gigachads when 25
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:35 PM
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Less passion/feeling/connecting and more just tryna get off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:50 PM
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No, but our best sex is the passionate love making Edit and our other sex is not aggressive, just more mechanical rather than passionate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:58 PM
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My current bf is the best I’ve ever had and we make love, passionate and lots of eye contact. Never made love before him, only had sex. Its an otherworldly experience, goodlord
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:10 PM
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The irony of escaping one cult then ending up here…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:33 PM
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My bf was a virgin when we met. I did ask him a couple weeks after if I had taken it. It was due to his extreme shyness and not his skills tho. I was on top the first time, but he lasted a decent amount of time. Him on top took a lil to get rhythm but hes the best I’ve been with now I’m ok with his lack of experience, its fun when I randomly add a new position to our repertoire and it blows his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:41 PM
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My current partner by far. Yes hes big, but its not just that. He is sensual. He pays attention to my body and reactions and we have amazing sex. We make love, we fuck, we ply with eachother, tease eachother. Hes amazing. (Was a virgin when I met him and is better than anyone id been with before.) I would 100000% do it again, will do it again and again I day dream about him all the time. I dreamt about him while asleep in his arms last night
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:15 PM
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I’ve had a few casual hookups, fwb that turned ltr, and a couple other ltr. I’ve been cheated on 3 times and in 1 emotionally abusive relationship with someone with NPD. But to generalize, I think men are great. I think some men have toxic mindsets and I think some men are a potential danger to me The men I keep in my life are great though. I have a handful of male friends who are real standup humans. Do they have flaws? Of course. But they have good hearts and good intentions. I value our mutua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:40 PM
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If you dont like pussy just say so bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:00 PM
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How strange, thanks for the read!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:54 PM
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Really? Thats odd I wonder why there is a name for such a random number of lbs (Canadian)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:45 PM
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Tf is a stone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:43 PM
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Thats disgusting and horrifying. I live where there are romeo/juliet laws. Where 15/16/17yr olds can have sex with people within 3 yrs their age and 14 yr old within two years their ago. It should be illegal everywhere for fully grown men to have sex with children. Thats fucking gross and predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:40 PM
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I just looked her up and she looks 12 Id say its pretty gross and sus if any fully grown man are watching and following her. Even if she looked 16 it would be weird but she looks 12-13
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:33 PM
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Legal for her to have sex with someone her age, not for a fully grown man to
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:31 PM
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As in- when she looks into her partners past, she separates his casual and relationship encounters and inly cares about how much casual hes had It was pretty clear she was talking about her partner the entire time bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:10 PM
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Having basic social skill is not a personality type no. You can know how to function like a human who relates to others withiut wanting to gonout and be social. if you don’t like other people, and can’t relate or emphasize with them then of course noone will want to spend time with you let alone date you. Thats just a given and common sense. Having basic social skills does not mean being extroverted. Like I said, my boyfriend is introverted. Hes infact very quiet and very shy too. He doesnt disl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:10 PM
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Having social skills is not a personality type. You can be introverted and still have friends and the ability to function normally around people. My boyfriend is extremely quiet/shy and introverted. It would only be weird if also didnt have any friends, and couldn’t empathize or relate to other people. I def would not be interested in someone like that. Who would?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:09 PM
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Alien? No Autistic? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:36 PM
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Made up stats and more assumptions.. hmm like I said, you painted a picture- a pre conceived notion of what you assume an individual women to be like, and then get upset when she doesnt follow the script you wrote in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:45 PM
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But why are you assuming she did that? Why is it unfathomable that she made those guys wait too? You painted a picture of her in your head and then get upset when she dorsnt follow the script
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:51 PM
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This is a very true trope. Like the movie 500 days of summer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:48 PM
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Yea and people are NOT evenly distributed. Theyre are not the same amount of 1s and 10s as there are 4s or 5s Most people fall in the middle of the curve, and fewer and fewer people fall towards either end of the scale the fart you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:53 PM
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I only ever got mad when a guy would invite me over, then just game and ignore me? I could be at home instead of bored here. Hasnt happened since highschool though (I’m 24)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:08 AM
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I actually would agree but it so cringey to read you use “men” and “females” together instead of men/women or male/female. Good lord lol My boyfriend makes in an hour what I make in a day. We plan to get married in a couple years and are on the same page that hes gonna buy a house and I’m going to turn it into our home. (I will work and contribute how I can financially too, but it will be a fraction of what he does) I will literally pack him lunches for work and make us both dinner, I’ll handle …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:51 PM
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My boyfriend makes more than twice what I make. We plan to move in together soon. Ill be packing him a lunch and making dinner every day. Ill also do the dishes and laundry for our family. I’m happy to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:47 PM
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Work. Anywhere else is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:24 PM
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I can guarantee you that there are MANY factors other than (but including) height that are causing this to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:30 PM
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I’m 24f and my boyfriend is 23m and hes got such a baby face! He looks 16-17 just in the face (hes tall so it offsets it I suppose) I saw a pic from his highschool graduation and he seriously looked like he was graduating from 8th grd wtf. I definitely couldnt have dated him if we had met 3 years earlier!! Definitely a late bloomer, and I look forward to seeing if he keeps the babyface or if it continues to mature! Ill be happy eitherway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:44 PM
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What you understand is wrong. Its a sub full of women. And there are some women who claim its run by men because they dont like what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:38 PM
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Dick is free and abundant tread closed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:46 PM
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Amber heard is an abuser and an entire nutcase who needs serious help. Johnny depp has not proven his innocence. He seems to also be an abuser (these can coexist in the same relationship) he was found to have abused her and made her fear for her life as per judge ruled in his UK trial. And I’m pretty sure this case is leaning towards 12 of the 15 cases being found true. She is also an abuser and should be treated as such
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:23 PM
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There are red pilled women who do believe the same concepts about human nature (to an extent) but they avoid “red pilled men” pike the plague. They know red pilled men are looked to spin plates and thats not what they want to be. They use the same pseudoscience and concepts about human nature to find a naturally alpha husband with rather traditional roles. /r/redpillwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:03 PM
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Having a gf/wife shows that a man has something to offer in a relationship. Preselection. Hes safe. Men do not get turned off when they learn a women is taken. This is not an accurate statement. Men are no more or less turned on by a womens relationship status
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:10 PM
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The Bell guy who was hooking up my internet looked kindof cute so I went outside (in my pjs and messy bun from juuuust waking up) and asked for his number. We went on a nice long walk later in the week, but he ended up arguing with me over something stupid (it was a snake fact, I have pet snakes and they are an Interest of mine and he couldn’t fathom that ball pythons are docile… like to the point that he yelled at me) so I just went home and deleted his number. Glad I did it though, just for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:03 PM
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Therapy to get over your issues, or hobbies unrelated to getting sex to keep you busy. (Or both if you really want a good life)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:23 PM
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Attracted to men and women. Women 24-29 men 28-32 That’s purely physical and from the perspective of a 24 yr old women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:42 PM
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Natural Chad-types will ride the pussy carousel (or serial monogamy) until they feel that “spark” RP men complain women hold out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:36 AM
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Absolutely not. I’m not attracted to my best friend in the slightest, and would not want a friend of mine to sleep with my boyfriend either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:28 PM
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My (24f) best friend is a male. We used to have sleep overs and hangout almost daily. He got a gf first, I set them up. When they got together we stopped having sleepovers and going out 1 on 1 for food/drinks. I have a bf now and they four of us do movie nights and trivia nights! My best friend and his gf (now my closest girlfriend) live together now, so I do actually have sleep overs again! Them in their room and me on the couch. I call them mom and dad as a joke when they bicker. I also filled…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:26 AM
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I helped him with some nuances in his texting her. Theyve now been together 2 yrs. helped him a few times with what to say/ how to act in arguments z(that happened over text or phone) They live together now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:51 PM
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I value my alone time greatly! I need it to stay sane and recharge. My boyfriend has no prob playing video games by himself while I’m on a dif floor doing my own thing for the the day. He also isnt upset If I need to sleep in a bed alone for a night, ill just go to the other room and come back for morning snuggles. We have independent hobbies and hobbies with our own groups of friends. Id say we have a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:39 PM
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I thought so at first but I think he seriously means go out as “pick up artists”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:38 PM
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What he did was dumb and laughable but they have an agreed upon open marriage so they both openly bang other people and are ok with it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:58 PM
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I think maybe you could be aromatic. Sortof like asexual except where you still fee sexual attraction but no romantic feelings. May be worth looking into On the otherhand, my bf is 23 and lost his virginity at 22. He didnt think much about lack of dating /sexual life. He said it was no big deal to him and it rarely crossed his mind. He had other stuff going on like school / work / hobbies. Seems healthy. Focusing all your energy and attention on dating/sexual life is draining to think about. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:58 PM
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Obese? I weigh 108lbs LOLOL but you are wrong in saying that it only goes to the stomach when obese. Its just plain wrong. For some (maybe even majority of) women they store it in their butt and thighs first, (pear shaped) and some store it in their stomach Personally when I put on a bit of weight I notice first in my FACE and stomach. I WISH it went to my ass! I’m in the exact center of the healthy range for my height on a bmi scale. Its not once you are obese it goes to your stomach factually …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:33 PM
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Your second paragraph is totally wrong though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:08 PM
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I’m 24 and I Haven’t experienced older women resenting me. I’ve experienced older women giving me advice rooted in personal experience. Some I listened to and some I didn’t. Some of it was well founded, some of it was not. None of it appeared then or later to be intentionally bad advice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:51 PM
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I’m 24f and I dont care if my bf watches porn. Id care if he couldn’t keep an erection without it, or if he chose that over sex with me. I watch it occasionally if I’m alone and horny nbd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:42 PM
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Wouldnt work unless it was height and weight. 130 is vastly different if you are 4’11 vs 5’10 180 is very different if you are 5’3 vs 6’2 But even then You could be 250lbs of PURE MUSCLE or 250lbs or mostly fat. These numbers dont give you the full picture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:05 PM
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Wouldnt work unless it was height and weight. 130 is vastly different if you are 4’11 vs 5’10 180 is very different if you are 5’3 vs 6’2 You could be 250lbs of PURE MUSCLE or 250lbs or mostly fat. These numbers dont give you the full picture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:05 PM
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I dont OLD but I love only texting for logistics. I hate text convos. I also like this within my friendships. It gives us more to talk about in person after time apart I’m 24F
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:38 AM
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Yea I agree But worth mentioning that I was in a 5-6 yr relationship a couple years before my current; where I didn’t experience any “love making” but would argue that I was in fact “in love” I’m not in love with him now, but still do love and care about him .. we are actually still friends and my current bf has met him and knows we send eachother relatable memes I loved my ex but it was incomparable to what I have now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:58 AM
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Its hard to really explain. When we fuck its initiated by moods of playfulness/horny When we make love it slowly grows from laying cuddling and holding each other with slow passionate meaningful kissing and looking into each others eyes and connecting intimately before any clothes come off The kissing gets deeper and feels hungry and we just want to get closer . I’m having such a hard time putting the feeling into words so this isnt a perfect description. While really analyzing this myself for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:19 AM
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I’m totally in love. I swear I can feel it physically radiating from me when we are together sometimes we have really passionate physical intimacy that grew from slightly awkward intimacy I’d never “made love” before, only “fucked” (or had badboring sex) if that makes sense to you. I honestly didn’t even know there was a difference before We “fuck” and “make love” about a 50/50 split depending on the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:22 PM
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Ive dated guys who I had instant connection/chemistry with (spark) I’m currently dated someone who I didnt have an initial connection or spark with. I enjoyed hanging out but didnt feel anything at all until about 3 months in I love him more and more everyday now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:32 PM
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My godmother is married but never had kids and is happy about it. Her and her husband have done lots of traveling and just moved across the country to live beside the ocean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:25 PM
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Not to be pedantic but your formative years are 0-3yr old btw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:21 PM
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The women saying they dont like that (me included) arnt lying to you. We just dont all share the same opinion about it if you could imagine. Just do you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:19 PM
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Your post is just fine. The context lies in the reason for the lack of libido. Is it that I’m just not happening to feel horny, or is the lack of libido caused by outside factors. In neither case does the word should come into play. Noone should do anything they dont want to. But I personally dont mind having sex if he wants it when I dont -if i dont have outside reasons for a lack of libido
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:04 PM
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This is exactly what i came to say. Its about context.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:47 PM
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I live in the GTA and the day after it happened they had found his posts on TRP as mentioned it on the news!!!! Incel attacks ARE terrorist attacks. They called it a terrorist attack because women were the demographic that he was aiming to inflict terror on!! They did not talk a lot about the incel movement at that time but DID mention it as the reason it was labeled a terrorist attack Crazy fucked up what he did I hope you are staying safe and healthy fellow Canadian
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:10 PM
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After Elliot Rogers. Then I fell out of the loop until the Toronto van attack brought me back to the world of trp, following the quarantine I moved here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:08 PM
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I laughed out loud at this!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:54 PM
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I almost exclusively see men with more attractive women (even when I was a teen in high school) or looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:02 AM
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My best friend in the world is a man, Weve been friends since 9th grade, I’m now 24f We have sleep overs and share the same taste in music we go to concerts together, give eachother dating advice, buy eachother dinner, support eachother through hard times Yakno like friends do. About two yr ago I got him hooked up with an old elementary school friend of mine Now they live together and the three of us hang out. I got a bf a year ago and the 4 of us do movies night He is still my bestfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:02 PM
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My bf was a virgin before me (he was 22, is 23 now) I didnt care he was passionate and in the moment and it was great. I guessed he might be one before we had sex just because he was pretty freaking shy haha I asked him about it a couple weeks later and he said yea he had been one till then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:48 PM
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Insecurity it 10000% a valid emotion That doesnt mean every reaction is valid Food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:13 PM
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I observe in real world it being directly tied to personal sexual success too. Which is understandable, but its not inherent or innate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:10 PM
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I’m childless (24f) and used to seek them out. I wanted to have a family but did not want biological children. I called it looking for a “starter family” They would have to be on good terms with the mother of the child, or her be completely out of the picture. (Dead or lost custody) Couldnt deal with an ounce of drama or hate gojng either way. I will have kids with my boyfriend. Things change and I decided i would have biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:51 PM
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Easy flowing conversation, makes me laugh, smells good, we have a place to go to, I feel safe, not pushy or overly touchy/handsy Not too eager to leave/be alone, not trying too hard Seems like someone I would get along with and enjoy talking to/have fun with. Must be friendly to my friends- Infact I’ve never had a ONS or hookup with anyone who I didnt meet in a group of friends or through a “friend” Go out to local bar with small group of girlfriends, bump into our group of guy friends (friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:31 AM
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The women doing that have already made sure their location settings are turned on and are updating their friends at agreed upon times that they are alive and safe. Obviously not every single women ever but this is a place for generalizations right Heck my friends start spam calling me if they think I shudve been home in my uber already. We do have the fear of kidnap or murder in the back of our minds for dates. It doesnt mean we dont date. It means we take precautions (even for “chad”) that as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:58 PM
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No, no I dont. Thanks for the input though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:22 PM
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Uh we def do say that to our friends?!? We also send pics, license plate # and our location and ask our friends to call the police if we dont contact them by a certain time. Listen to us telling you our experiences. We do consider the possibility of kidnapping and murder before dates
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:35 PM
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Absolutely nothing he does or says would make me overlook his views about women/relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:59 PM
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Irrelevant to the topic. Some single women are happier and some married women are happier. It comes down to their individual experiences which category they place themselves in
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:31 PM
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Im a poor texter I just cant make myself stare at a screen and stay engaged I’m often accidentally leaving half typed messages never to be sent. Thankfully my boyfriend listened when I told him I was like that with everybody and id prefer to only text for logistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:38 PM
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Women are individuals, so some married women are happier, some single women are happier. It comes down to their individual experiences which category they would put themselves in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:12 PM
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My boyfriend is obsessed with me and i LOVE it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:53 PM
1

The 16 and 20 is way weirder. 16 is a child. You change dramatically between 16-20!!!!! 20 is at least an adult living in the “real” world (out of highschool and has a job likely)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:43 PM
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I think its insane that its normalized! Its unnecessary cosmetic surgery on an infant. It takes away nerve endings. Its insane. My boyfriend is circumsized and thats fine, but we’ve talked about it and I’ve explained id really like to just leave our potential kids inact
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:15 PM
2

Im 4’11 and for real do you know how little food 1000-1200 cals is even eating exclusively fresh healthy food?? I’ve always wished i was taller just so I could eat 1500-1600 cals a day and still be slim but no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:13 PM
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Women dont “give” sex as a reward LOL we have sex if we feel like having sex and things line up right for it to happn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:05 PM
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OPs definition of passionate is “sacrificing more than one hole for him” So clear to say he has no idea what passion is outside of porn. I’m not even against porn or kinky sex, but that sir is not passion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:13 PM
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My boyfriend is a “safe” option. As in, I took his virginity, hes too shy to talk to other women, I know he wont cheat, I’m def the best he could do, Hes a good provider, makes me feel good etc I’m also very attracted to him, I intentionally sought out someone who id feel emotionally safe with. I’m not settling I’m getting exactly what I wanted. A safe option for starting a fam and life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:54 PM
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I did say ask if the pics are recent in the single sentence comment you replied to. I do understand and agree that angles and cropping can and do hide bodyshape, and that there are women who use these strategies on OLD- if those women ask your height and you choose to ask their weight- id say thats fair(wont get you a desired outcome but for the sake of discussion I suppose its fair) As an inshape women with a desirable body shape, who takes full length, front view photos, with no filters and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:15 PM
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Can you not just look at her photo or ask her if her pics are recent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:01 AM
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My boyfriend is a gamer. Hes shy and introverted. He doesnt listen to music, is not a dog person, doesnt smoke weed, longboard, do crafts, read books or write. (My hobbies and Interests) If he made an OLD profile I wouldnt have seen it because I dont use OLD But if I did I def wouldnt have swiped!! We have nothing in common (so it appears) When I met him in person I really appreciated his calm energy, I thought his shyness made his awkward in a cute way, and I had a desire/curiosity to see if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:47 PM
1

Healthcare is a need
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:24 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:24 PM
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My bf was a 22 ye old virgin I didnt know before but had an idea. I asked a little later and he said he had been before me. It was no big deal. My ex before that had been with lots of women and ended up trying to cheat on me constantly . Dont think he succeeded, and I dont think that every guy whos been with “lots” of others will cheat I do think if they are sleeping wih people to “rack up” numbers they are fundamentally incompatible with me and ill steer clear if I know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:55 PM
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Im 24 he is 23
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:12 AM
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This is me and my bf. He’s extremely shy. Hes 23 and I took his virginity a year ago, was his first kiss and everything. I know for sure he finds me attractive and that he also couldn’t do better than me lookswise. I am conveniently attractive. He is far too shy to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:40 PM
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The number one thing that drive men to redpill is sexual rejection sir
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:23 PM
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I love my shy man ! Its not boring!!! It was SO fun going from when he could barley make eye contact and gave one word answers and was clearly all cute nervous, to slowly getting comfortable! He talks passionately about things with me now and it was worth the time I spent for him to be less shy with me! I dont mind making the appointments, phone calls or speaking up for him/us in our relationship I’m an extremely confident, bubbly and sociable person. It comes naturally to me I prefer a shy man …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:08 PM
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Alcohol and being in the places people consume alcohol is going to make casual encounters much more likely. That being said, my boyfriend doesnt drink, I do a bit and my friends do fairly heavily, and we all hangout no prob. We just go home a little earlier than others
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:27 PM
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Rpwomen sub is full of women who would never date rp men... ask the sub yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:33 PM
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Yes of course they exist!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:11 PM
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My boyfriend is quiet, shy and introverted. He has 2-3 friends and they are guys he works with I’m outgoing, bubbly and have 6 main girlfriends who hangout together and and extended coed group that sometimes join in He comes to fires, minigolf, movie night etc with me and my group of friends, he said hes never done so many activities in his life. He’s normally home playing video games lol He is pretty quiet around them but my guy friends will get him talking about 4 wheelers or ski doos or somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:26 PM
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I’m 24f in a relationship and my best friend is a dude. I still hangout with him, just not 1 on 1 anymore, tho that actually changed when he got a gf many months before I got a bf They live together now, so ill go hangout with the two of them, or my bf will come and the 4 of us do movie nights. My best friend and I do text and send each other memes daily, and call each other if we are upset or whatever still
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:55 PM
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The guy in the first link is waaaay hunkier than the second guy. Not sure hed appeal to less women than second guy at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:28 PM
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I’m 24f from Ontario Canada No kids, in a LTR Edit I wanted to add The wording doesn’t come across as innocent and playful, I do believe the person saying it could be oblivious so how they will be perceived and really are being playful in their own mind! The struggles of human interaction yakno
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:06 PM
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Yes, but he could’ve complimented her in a dif way and even still called her sweet without coming across that way. This specific wording in the this context isn’t quite so innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:46 PM
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You’ve been framing this wrong the whole post. the fact that theyre calling you sweet in a playful way is gross? I assumed at first you were being intentionally obtuse, but then I remembered his is PPD and you may actually be on spectrum and not get it... A large majority of women are not going to perceive this as “playful”. It is not that they find a “playful comment” gross, its that this specific comment does not come across as playful at all. Regardless of the intent of the commenter. If they…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:40 PM
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Yes people in clothes that are too small look funny! you can tell whose fit and whose not without buying ill-fitting clothes intentionally haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:40 PM
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I’m very surprised to hear that, my friends and I always have a good chuckle at too-tight tshirts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:46 AM
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Food is oriental, people are not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:32 PM
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All of my friends date guys less attractive than them. All young couples I see are either evenly matched or with the man being slightly less attractive I am hard pressed to think of a single instance when the guy was with a less attractive gal Unless we get Into the 40+ crowd Where it depends on which partner has gained substantial weight The fat one being the leas attractive of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:31 PM
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My boyfriend being super into me and talking about future marriage topics like last name, location, engagement length with me is extremely attractive! I want to be married before I’m 30 (I just turned 24) So having convos like this is reassuring to me that I vetted properly for someone whos wants in life do line up with mine I’m confident I chose a partner who is crazy about me, who I dont have to stress over if hes gonna cheat on me, because I know he values commitment. I know he wants a cliché…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:42 PM
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My boyfriend of about 10 months is completely introverted and shy. He will be 23 next month (a year younger than me) I’m his first girlfriend and I took his virginity He could not hold eye contact with me the first couple times we hung out and was very bad at conversation. Id get one word answers to questions and he was clearly shy af. I thought it was kindof adorable and I wanted to see if hed get more comfortable with me, so i kept hanging out with him. I initiated by getting his snapchat, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 09:57 PM
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I’ve seen a growing trend of ridiculous over-use of the word “simply” in posts and comments on this sub. Has anyone else noticed? (Ex: Its simply my observation/ its simply a fact that..) I simply cant take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:43 PM
2

I agree with your post but why the emojis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:30 PM
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Worrying about appearing “beta” instead if doing EXACTLY what the fuck you WANT to do is whats beta. You want to kiss her? Fucking do It You want to tell her to fuck off? Fucking do it Thats the whole point. You getting what you WANT Not asking Internet strangers if its ok with them
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:39 PM
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Is this comment about the nice guys sub or the red pill sub? Because its ironically applicable to both and I enjoy that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:11 PM
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Not copy and pasted, Typed it out each time LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:32 PM
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Its kills me that youve copy and pasted this exact comment 108 times on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:00 PM
3

How old are you ?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 07:50 PM
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Hypergamous of you
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:53 PM
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Dick is free and abundant. You will be sleeping with elderly women and men
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:38 AM
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She literally has NO REASON to give you attention when you are already completely in her frame lol
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:29 PM
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You asked if you should “next” her, But she already did that to you. Shes onto the next You should move on yes. That was her saying she isn’t interested. Not sure how you conclude that this was a potential LTR but thats another topic
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:54 PM
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She nexted you
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:48 PM
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Trust is what you described as respect. Respecting someone is treating them with dignity, and having due regard for their feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions. I “”respectfully”” don’t agree that respect needs to be earned. Human decency is respecting others. You dont need to “”trust”” everyone/anyone but showing them basic respect should be a baseline. Respect can also mean admiration (which is earned) but thats not the context we are using it in
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:08 PM
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Im a women who would date men and women Women slightly underweight> Men slightly overweight > Would prefer both at in a healthy range though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:43 PM
1

Id say 30 is a little extra cushion, 35 is chubby/fat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:30 PM
3

Rpw would NEVER date a rp man!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:14 AM
2

Easiest way to kill a mood and have me never want to touch or be near you again, romantically or platonically!!!!! Tickling is NOT enjoyable for a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:19 PM
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It’s hilarious that she thinks thats not cheating smh
/r/askTRP23/01/21 08:27 PM
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As is often the case with men too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:11 AM
2

I longboard in the summer and ski in the winter I go geocaching I make things like keychains and jewelry out of resin epoxy (recently made a really cool chess set!) I read a ton, and am attempting to write a novel! I used to take violin/fiddle lessons but stopped a handful of years back Was on a competitive cheerleading team for 7 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:03 PM
1

? I always find it odd when someone doesn’t use the smallest fraction.... Why say 8 to 2 When 4 to 1 is more clear
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:37 PM
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Red pilled women are not the women red pilled men are seeking, and viseversa. Red pilled women believe in the same human nature theories as trp For example, alphas vs beta and hypergamey. They seek alpha men who want to lead the relationship. They want someone they can submit to, who is worthy of being submitted to... yes traditional gender roles come up a ton. The men they seek also seek this. Rpw do not seek to be plates spun by puedoalphas, but rather wives to true alphas. They focus on being…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:56 PM
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Social media header? You mean the part that is literally called “bio” on Instagram?? Basic bio info is name age and location....
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:52 PM
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Yes tell them
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:48 PM
2

The one part where you mention “noticed she saved yesterday, not today” lost me.. shaving is preferable ti me too... but yesterday is close enough lol
/r/askTRP24/11/20 09:20 PM
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And likes new but not as good on paper girl better because tingles
/r/askTRP28/10/20 06:28 PM
2

Work for what
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:41 PM
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She soft nexted you cuz you dont know how to women... autism?
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:42 AM
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Change your phone setting so that the notification just say snapchat and not who it is from, and keep for phone on do no disturb around her
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:01 PM
2

Men on this sub and the asktrp sub always talk about FAKING being ok with high n count to get women to be honest even though they aren’t ok with it, i suspect thats what is happening here. He DOES care, it DOES matter to him and it DOES effect the way he thinks about you. he doesnt love when you open up, he resents you for what you’ve done before meeting him. Not saying lying is the way to go, but what he really wants is none of you past to exist. Which isn’t possible. Id stop sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 06:02 PM
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no it is not, maybe you are overplaying the fake confidence
/r/askTRP23/08/20 10:41 PM
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Confidence can certainly be a by product of being sexy... But it can also take a person from baseline attraction to being sexy or far more attractive. Abundance mentality and DGAF chill attitude definitely help keep women attracted. less physically attractive men who are the outgoing fun types who like to have a laugh, and are confident in their social lives and selves are def getting more attention and attraction than if the same guy was NOT outgoing and confident in his social life and self...…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 04:58 PM
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no they are not.. fomo is what causes the sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 11:05 PM
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how to plate a man
/r/askTRP17/08/20 05:06 PM
10

"we" do not. you may not speak for all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:00 PM
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This is 1000% a man larping as a women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 07:01 AM
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Wow, thats awful... I cant imagine, id live in constant fear of accidental injury... You could just wake up in the hospital and owe hundreds of thousands of dollars.....for an accident?! Paying thousands when you lose a pregnancy is outrageous too ug what the heck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:24 PM
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Omg imagine paying to give birth?? In Canada you dont pay out of pocket for that, and you cant wake up in the hospital after and accident with life changing debt. Thank god. I dont think single or married moms should have to pay to give birth? Thats wild.. pay for everything else your child needs but to birth it???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:52 PM
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Tell her it was a friend of yours, “why, were you jealous 😉 ?”
/r/askTRP01/08/20 01:15 AM
1

What if she’s actually just running late? There was u expected traffic lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 09:04 PM
2

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 08:41 PM
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All my friends agree, if there’s girls in his pics its swipe left immediately.. or if you cant really see his face clearly. Most of us stopped using tinder or any other dating apps after high-school tbough.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:16 PM
1

What kind of things did you say?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:22 PM
2

My best friend is a guy, and i give him red pilled advice where is see it applicable! Hes great, I even sleep at his house frequently, but on his couch, I actually recently got him hooked up with a very attractive friend of mine!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:24 PM
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It is your pettiness. this is a horrible and unhealthy way to view sex. Sex is sex. A fwb and ltr dont have the same importance, and Sex is not the thing that differentiates them, sex is not that important-nor does it coincide that highly with emotions, value or commitment in the way you seem to view it to. I thought men were the ones who saw sex for what it was... just sex. As a sexually active man, are you reserving certain sexual acts for you’re future wife, so that she views your relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 07:15 PM
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When men on this sub reee about women choosing the wrong men, and how they need to take responsibility for their own bad vetting etc it is true, but makes me shake my head because it is the EXACT same men who claim AWALT. These men dont see that THEY also need to take responsibility for their own bad vetting etc Women go after assholes and get treated poorly and cry all men suck, men want one thing - no lady, you went after an asshole who only wanted one thing. And u continue to do so. Not all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:49 PM
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You know how after you cum, if you keep going going it feels over sensitive, or over stimulated, it is similar to that. You should have just changed up ever so slightly so you could keep the sex going. She already submitted to you and was down with the sex, she just communicated that the stimulation was getting to be too much... thats not rejection, thats communication, should have just flipped her over and fucked her a different way you liked and you would’ve been good
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:28 PM
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Look a the redpilledwomen sub, They are a group who believe the same human nature ideologies, but do not in any way want to date red pilled men. Might be more up your ally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:58 PM
2

Sorry, my assumption is that for you to get a list of things to improve on for over all attractiveness, you had to have looked it up or looked into finding it, or read a title and thought “hmm yes if like to learn more i can do to improve my looksmaximg” And then after reading the list decided NONE were worth trying (in reality, each helps the over all picture)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:08 PM
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Its the same ideology of human nature, male and female, but applied in a way for women to get the leader the agree they desire. They do not in any way shape or form want to date a red pilled man, They just agree with gender roles and human nature discussed on the red pill
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:54 PM
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You ask for help and instead of tryin anything you find a way to shut down each one. Guaranteed most of those would help you since you seem to by applying none
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:51 PM
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Its playful also because a bj is something you would already do regardless of the store run, and running to the store is something he would do without a bj— ppl in relationships joke like this and dont see it as transactional You could frame all human interaction as transactional if you wanted to,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:51 AM
2

Curious to know if he is also red pilled
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:21 AM
2

I think you need to pay more attention to how shes saying your name. Is it still in an endearing tone, or not.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:19 AM
1

Cockiness and arrogance are essentially the same. You have to have arrogance to act cocky. Both are a bog turn off because they make the confidence seem like an act. Like insecurity hiding behind fake/false confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:59 PM
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As adjectives the difference between arrogant and cocky is that arrogant is having excessive pride in oneself, often with contempt for others while cocky is overly confident, arrogant and boastful. Neither are attractive, confidence does not need to be arrogant or cocky
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:50 PM
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Men dont belong on rpw Redpillwomen do not in any way want to date “redpilled” men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:57 PM
1

All of these terms mean different things. A Simp is not the same as a white knight, and neither of them are “niceguys”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:12 AM
0

You mean you find out your dad is a skank who never cared about your mother or your family unit..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:02 AM
3

Is this some sort of humblebrag? You deny yourself hotgirl pussy to “stick it to the man women” ??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:45 PM
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He means he went on the literal subreddit deadbedrooms and that it was mostly women he saw posting there...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:06 AM
1

Thats how you get sex not how you get a NICE boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:34 AM
2

Copy pasta
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:49 PM
1

If a man platonically loved me (as a friend) that would be cool. If a STRANGER who didnt know me created an idea of “who i am” based on looking at me, and the decided that he loved that made up idea of “who i am” then I would do nothing and ignore him. Sounds like 500 days of summer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:10 PM
1

Exactly. Snake is fed once every 7-10 days, and shits once a few days after eating. Its urine comes out as a solid too so only you can spot clean and only have to clean the terrarium completely every couple months, and they do not need to be handled frequently to stay “socialized” like mammals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:57 AM
1

The is no relevance to the discussion in your comment. To “not care about personality(etc)” as in to be able to find a way to connect and be compatible with absolutely anyone one wouldn’t be shallow. To “not care about personality (etc)” as in viewing it as completely irrelevant because connecting and compatibility doesnt matter- they are looking for a warm hole exclusively is being shallow Thats all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:20 AM
1

You can value people and not be with them?? This is how you select someone to be with... it is not shallow to want to be with someone you are compatible with. (The utility of enjoying being around eachother lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:08 AM
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Again, that is just an example of where to find compatibility. Yea one could find CONNECTION AND COMPATIBILITY with people who have other interests and hobbies, being interested in the other person is exactly what i mean.. thats the not shallow part. Appreciating the sentience .... its shallow to not care either way. As in never even looking at WHO they are. Just needing a human and not knowing them or caring to. Its not that it doesnt matter who coz they will connect with anyone, its that they …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:00 AM
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You may want to review it yourself. I cant imagine believing that wanting a connection with a compatible person to be shallow, I cant imagine thinking the only way to not be shallow is accepting any and all humans intimately without bothering to get to know them first (ie building connection and compatibility) As for your first paragraph, that is still a man who is connecting. They may not be selecting for any specific compatibility but they find compatibility and connection. We are talking abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:54 AM
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You ignored the other part i think selecting for the utility of compatibility (which means being able to getting along well and enjoyable time spent on common interests/hobbies or goals or good enjoyable conversation) is far from shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:46 AM
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I entirety disagree with your second paragraph but im tired of going in circles. We completely disagree there. As for your first paragraph, that is still a man who is connecting. They may not be selecting for any specific compatibility but they find compatibility and connection. We are talking about men who see no value in knowing a womens personality in any type of way for it to even matter if he could connect of be compatible. Shallow to not care about the personality. As in disregard it compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:44 AM
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You can enjoy the company of anyone if you are not shallow, sure. you pick one over others because that individual is more compatible. If we are calling it a utility than i think selecting for the utility of compatibility (being able to getting along well and enjoyable time spent on common interests/hobbies or goals or good enjoyable conversation) is far from shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:40 AM
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Again, the men we are talking about are not interested in deep or enjoyable connection, they have no interest in what makes a person an individual, only that they are human (hole) Its not men who can connect with anyone, its ones who disregard that whole part of a being and SOLEY care about the wet hole. That is the shallow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:33 AM
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Uh ... ok... ya ... if you want to view it as “utility” to enjoy someone’s company and spending time with them than ok. It is not shallow to want to be with someone you enjoy being around, and it is not shallow to not enjoy everybody’s company. There are many many different types of people and it is ok to not like them all. There are shallow reasons to dislike someone and their are deeper reasons to. choosing not to be with someone you are incompatible with is not shallow. Hating someone because…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:26 AM
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Quite frankly I think it speaks volumes that you see “compatibility and connection” as “utility to ones self” thats shallow thinking. Compatibility meaning things like sharing a similar sense of humour so you can tell jokes when together and enjoy them. Compatible values and beliefs, maybe a compatible goals, or a shared opinion that creates a connection. A shared hobby or a shared love for food. Things that will determine if you enjoy spending time together because you value a deeper connection…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:11 AM
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Looking for compatibility doesn’t mean utility. It means for example someone who shares the same values as you, or has a sense of humour you like, or has similar experiences you can compare and bond over. Etc To see someone as a person/individual is the opposite of objectifying. To objectify it to take away all that makes one an individual and ignore their sentience. Thus seeing them as an object
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:48 AM
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It is not shallow to seek someone you are compatible with. It is not shallow to have differences of opinions on raising kids, or politics.. its not shallow to prefer sarcastic humour over other kinds. It is not shallow to not be compatible with everyone. Of course there is a way to be shallow while caring too much about the specifics of another person, just seeking compatibility is not shallow. This is where we disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:43 AM
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I completely disagree. Disregarding a personality is not seeing the “actual being” its seeing just a body (and seeing it for the purpose of use) To take into regard someone’s personality etc doesnt mean their utility. Its a difference of opinion. I view shallowness as not valuing someone for the entirety of their being (personality, values, character traits, appearance, flaws, humour and much more collectively) Only choosing to put value in one (any one) of those things with the disregard and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:36 AM
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In my opinion Its not that wanting physical attraction is shallow per say, but disregarding the rest (personality etc) as if it’s unimportant or indifferent is inherently shallow. If one is only looking for shallow interactions with others I’m not here suggesting that that is wrong To be clear, wanting someone (man or women) SOLEY for something else could be shallow too. For example- part of their personality is that they are naturally generous and you like the things you receive from them. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:49 AM
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Its not that these men dont have a preference of who it is they connect with, (Not shallow) Its that they dont have any preferences because they are not looking to connect, they are only looking for a hole. (Shallow) Its ok, if they dont want a connection then being shallow is what it is who cares But it is shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:12 AM
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It would be less shallow to turn someone down because your values and world views are incompatible than it would be to never get to know someone on that level to even find out. To not see a person for their WHOLE self(personality, values, traits flaws etc), or have any care to attempt to make a personal connection is more shallow. To only need a wet hole and not care either way for the person attached. Someone who is open to any and all personalities is not necessarily shallow, if they are open …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:02 AM
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You need to stop framing you examples as if the hypothetical man a is looking for a very specific thing and only that. I used hobby as an example of a potential way to find someone you are compatible with. I do not mean that man1 is only looking for or open to that. It means he cares and takes into account personality, and looks to connect and find compatibility’s. When talking about the other hypothetical man, the one who does not care.... we are not talking about the same thing. When you descr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:18 PM
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choosing to sleep with someone because you enjoy their personality is less shallow than not caring wht their personality is. What this means is enjoying someone’s company, and the conversations you have. You keep framing your examples as “Man A ONLY likes women who blahblah blah” but thats not what is meant by liking a personality. It doesnt mean having very strict and specific expectations of how someone should act,look and what they like with no acceptable variations whatsoever (shallow) It me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:29 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:58 PM
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Thats ivanka his daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:36 PM
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/r/redpillwomen is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:49 PM
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I told my male best friend around 6 months ago to start eating waay more because he is scrawny and wasting his 6’2 potential. He has been (i make sure he has food in his fridge when i go over and we will grocery shop together when we hangout. Hes gained a bit and already looks waay better, i also have been dropping redpill advice constantly. Recently (2 or 3 months ago) i brought him to a good-friend-of-mines bday party and dropped some hints to her cute friend about how awesome he was, and how …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:41 PM
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Women are like the fbi, if shes digging for info she will likely catch wind that you’ve moved onto new girls. May help her let go. Stay no contact and give no attention, if shes unsure if she is getting through itll slow down with time Take it as an ego boost without playing into it
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:09 PM
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Just stay no contact completely. Any sign that she is getting through will be enough to keep her going. Stick to your guns,
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:04 PM
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Ha it is what it is, still a better place to ask ltr questions imo
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:28 PM
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Check out marriedrp
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:09 PM
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Youll have to lie about your n count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:20 PM
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Ill be the odd one out here. Im 22F with no kids and i would. Id love to be a mom and i don’t want biological children. Adoption or a “starter family” would be the way id like to experience being a parent. I certainly do not seek out men with children, but its far from a dealbreaker for me. Life happens right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:58 PM
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No that would be extreme give a fuck attitude
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:29 PM
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You dont have to keep it a secret from everybody but the mainstream world doesn’t accept these theories. Its like having a cheat code, others playing the game don’t believe in cheat codes and aren’t happy you are using them. Dont try and force cheat codes or slip cheat code lingo into convos. People get upset. Use your cheat codes in peace and if anyone else wants them they can look them up themselves. If they notice you playing the game well, maybe they will ask. If the women notice you using c…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:57 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:30 PM
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The key to the red pill working is to not let others know you are using it. You cant use rp lingo or ask too many questions to “test theories” (IF ANY) Having a group of friends that includes women is the best way to meet other women.. (they see other women with you and it increases you SMV)
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:25 AM
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/r/badwomensanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:45 PM
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Its really depends on what and how it was said. It could easily be something that upsets me but we could discuss, or depending on what it was yea i would dump someone for holding a disturbing point of view
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:40 PM
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How did you enjoy your first time on the receiving end of sexless hatred lol
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:31 PM
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Ayyyyy good fo you Enjoy your post-nut sleep (or post-nut reddit scrolling)
/r/askTRP12/04/20 04:00 AM
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“Thats the plan” Edit* or “yea im down”
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:15 PM
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Those are not the women or men we are discussing. We are talking about men/women who are not able to get sex/commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:59 PM
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That is comical, physical attraction is important. Its also comical that the people getting posted there dont think their personalities are what took away any remaining chance they may have had.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:57 PM
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Which is why it is comparable with the pool of men worthy of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:28 PM
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Yes the point is that is not of any value to a man. As casual sex without commitment is of no value to the lonely women we are discussing Men could have female company (without sex) very easliy. They do not value this. Women could have sex from males (without the emotional company/commitment) easily. They do not value this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:22 PM
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I am by no means claiming that looks are unimportant when choosing a mate, What i am saying is that the people who get posted on inceltears get posted there because of their extremely vile and off-putting personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:09 PM
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In the cases you see on inceltear... its almost entirely their personalities being vial that grts them rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:13 PM
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Not at all ! A comparable trauma would be a man getting raped!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:12 PM
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Thanks for answering i was just curious!
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:50 AM
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May i ask why?
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:44 AM
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Across the pond! Omg i love it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:47 AM
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Are you in the GTA, Ontario coz then ask me when corona virus is gone Ill buy the second round
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:43 AM
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1) Taller than me (4’11) 2) sweet spot around 5’6 for easy stand-up sex 3) not taller than 6’1 it gets awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:29 AM
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Ok, you stated that i supported trp and i corroborated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:21 AM
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You asked if I support TRP in the comment i replied to. I said i do yes in some ways and gave an example of how
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:01 AM
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I believe in some of TRP yes. Women are not a hive mind, which is why i say trp works for a certain type (the majority of usa sure) I believe in human nature, some of which is outlined in trp. I do share parts of trp with my male best friend to help him with his game. Anyone on this sub would call him a beta orbiter of me but we really just value eachothers friendship- he just got into relationship with this really hot girl i know through friends. I read all his texts to her and help him reply S…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:57 AM
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Apologies i edited my other comment before i saw you reply
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:50 AM
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Im not suggesting ignorance! Im suggesting that letting resentment, or outward dismissal of women as people ooze out of your personality is going to make you fail. Women pick up on it and run. One does better with female “friends” who they treat as actual people so potentials dont see them as weird or creepy. Im saying you have to hide the redpill covertly or itll likely turn black from failure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:46 AM
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I know why blackpillers claim to be black pilled, but im telling why they actually failed with women while trying to follow TRP Edit * step 1 and 2 were for me nd how to get in my pants. (Step 3 is right place right time) And in my life i dated my best friend (friends for 2 yr dated for 3) and tbh a lot of girls i know date their friends ! nothing better than a bestfriend you fall for ! In the BP world ppl value friendships of either gender for more than sexual purposes. My best friend rn is a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:35 AM
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Generally men dont see women as just sex objects. TRP and sexists do. Most of the world is blue pilled and value human connection with both genders for more than just sex. Thats why i said i exclusively sleep with men who i have have female friends. Not arguing that men wouldnt have sex with most of their female friends, but they value them outside of that. So thats step 1) value women for more than just sex Step 2) have a sense of humour and personality that aligns with mine, The reason a ton o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:27 AM
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So you’re only even in your entire life either been a virgin or have sex in exclusive long-term relationships? Ive had a few STR or LTR with people i chose based on personality, values, sense of humour, mutual likes, Ive also had 2 ONS with men i chose based on their personality and sense of humour. Oh so women knowing fuck men who treat them as objects. I know which guy I’d rather be. I dont know what this means or what you are trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:06 AM
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If a women appreciates/values a man ONLY because she wants his status and money and an easy life to raise her kids- yea thats shallow. I don’t think that valuing/appreciating someone only for their physical body is LESS shallow than that no, but not necessarily more shallow either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:01 AM
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I appreciate/ choose men based on these these same things. Its fairly easy to identify men who don’t see women as people worth knowing for anything but sex. just by talking to them or seeing the the things they post online. I avoid men who don’t have any female friends at all, And i meet guys through friend groups and social activities. I also obviously speak to a guy and get to know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:52 PM
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You are being intentionally obtuse.. But to reword since you “don’t understand.” what im saying Men here do NOT value women for any part of their being besides the physical body. And the utility of that body. Men here do not value or appreciate women for their personalities, sense of humour, like/dislikes, values moral or any of that. That is what I find shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:35 PM
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I would rather be appreciated for my being than my looks. I would like someone to find me attractive but not base my value on that. I would like them to value and appreciate me for my personality, sense of humour etc I exclusively fuck men who treat me like a human person with thoughts and feeling, values that they respect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:29 PM
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Nowhere did i say i dont want to veiwed as attractive. I dont want to be VALUED for that and my utility (sex) alone. That is shallow and superficial. I want to be appreciated for who i am, not what i look like. Id like to be valued for my personality etc MORE than for my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:22 PM
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The discussion is about being shallow. I see this value of body only as shallow . Thats the point. No, physical body and ones being is not the same we just finished discussing this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:19 PM
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Good hygiene
/r/askTRP06/04/20 11:14 PM
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Riight, this is why i see men as shallow. They dont value a person, they value a body. (Men here*)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:10 PM
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As if “I only like you because you make me laugh and have good taste in movies” is somehow better than “I only like you for your titties and nice smile.” Its is???? I will always have this personality?! And its my “being” Yes... yes it is better And what i mean is men do NOT appreciate the whole body and being. The ones here OPENLY discuss how they ONLY value the body and utility to themselves (sex) That doesnt equal appreciating the personality, values, sense of humour etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:01 PM
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You are being intentionally obtuse. Being appreciated because of the physical body does NOT equal being appreciated for the personality, sense of humour, like n dislikes, values, morals and beliefs as a package. In fact men here openly see women as only their physical body and their utility to them (sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:58 PM
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No, my tits are part of my body. Being appreciated for ones body is superficial and shallow. Being appreciated for ones personality, sense of humour, hobbies, likes and dislikes, etc is being appreciated for ones “being” Edit spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:46 PM
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Men here state that they need *just the body And most outwardly claim to hate the rest of the “being” My being is NOT my body, its my mind and soul . Wanting women for their appearance nd for their utility to you (sex) does not equal wanting their “being.” It means wanting the body not the PERSON who lives in that body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:43 PM
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I find that men here don’t appreciate women for their “being” as you suggest, they appreciate them for their appearance and their “utility” (sex) That is not ones “being” Ones “being”is their personality, their likes and dislikes, their morals values and beliefs. Their sense of humour, their fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:32 PM
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Id rather have my “being” appreciated than my tits. As in my personality, sense of humour, likes and dislikes, morals values and beliefs Not appearance or my utility to you (sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:29 PM
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Uh ur before photo u look good. Grow ur hair back out and go to the barber for another fade Looks good on you Edit* the front has to be different- I suggest growing in out again then going to a *barber shop *not one where you will see old men and women. Pro tip- find a late 30s or younger black barber. (Show up with ur long hair and say “hey man can you line my shit up; give me a fade and just get me looking fresh, not too short on top” hes gonna be like OK. I gotchu— Don’t worry about styling i…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:01 AM
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Ive had men tell me this and i was surprised to find out. I used the scale loosely like this when describing men to my galpals. Hes cute<hot<sexy And anyone who falls on that scale is fuckable (i know thats what yall care about) When hes below cute ill say “he doesnt have any good photos” or mention whatever quality made me interested past physical attraction. I don’t call guys that aren’t fuckable cute. You’ll need to be cute with game tho
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:53 PM
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Totally made up statistic but no prob
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 10:31 PM
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Yes !!!! Met women like this too. You can be attractive/cute/hot and ruin it with a shitty personality/attitude. Def not just looks that matter. Being an all around decent human is a make or break
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:38 PM
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Many dont, some do . We are not a hivemind, we make individual choices
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:46 PM
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Yes!!! This movie is about a guy who paints an image of this girl in his head, that is not her at all. He projects his wants and needs onto her and ignores everything she actually tells him. Its the manic pixie dream girl epitome Edit spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:35 PM
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Average for the chubby rednecks. Depends if they kind, friendly, fun to be around or alternatively if they make jokes that make me uncomfortable or dismiss me in convo etc Im immediately turned off and Unattracted to anyone who dismisses me in convo or makes rude demeaning jokes/ comments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 06:36 PM
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Doing something wrong you should be held accountable, you didnt mention any scenario with anyone doing something wrong so i was confused about the need for accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 08:42 PM
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If nothing is WRONG there is nothing to be held accountable for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 08:28 PM
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Women’s taste does vary, Women just wont go AS low value as men will. they need basic hygiene, some effort, human decency, and basic kindness without conditions. Sorry you have been rejected and have been hyper focused on the men YOU deem chad.. but while watching Chad and dreaming of him every night, you failed to see all the regular doods (not chad) also being chosen by girls and women. The only thing in common my 5 bfs in my life have had is that each had some type of common interest with me …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:33 AM
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Attractive is subjective in a women’s world also. In your world that means chad..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:52 AM
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The comment I replied to did say word for word “only attractive women are worth the effort” Which is wild to read here since the men on this sub are SO angry that women would only put effort in for the ppl they find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:42 AM
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So only attractive women are worth the effort but HOW DARE WOMEN ONLY GO FOR WHO THEY FIND ATTRACTIVE
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:31 AM
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A sexless 14 yr old oh my ?! U nast
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:14 PM
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