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So for (1) Edward being like 100 years old mentally is in love with a 17 year old child? Gross! Like yeah the book portrays Bella as being selfless and mature, but her actions following her breakup with Edward indicate a lack of maturity. Also - somebody as accomplished as Edward I would think should be at least pursuing somebody in their late twenties who has some life accomplishments under their belt? (2) the time Edward went to commit suicide because he thought Bella died and didn’t bother to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:44 PM
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Ha I like the bit about you allowing him to orbit so he tortures himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:27 PM
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Yeah I agree with this. Especially with orbiters who don’t reply to your texts but still interact with your social media. Men who have little to offer think that playing hard to get is their best bet at attracting a woman. A person (friend, family, ir potential suitor) who really is busy and overwhelmed (it does happen) will still text back mentioning their situation just to let the other person know that they need space and time. Ignoring a text is just rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:01 PM
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Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:07 PM
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Men do this to beautiful women as well. They view attractive women as sexual objects and treat them as such. It doesn’t translate into actual respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:05 PM
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It also hurts the future women the guy fucks. Like I had a boyfriend who didn’t like oral sex and told me I was the first woman to not orgasm from simple PV sex. I think the ex girlfriends were faking it ….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:48 AM
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I agree with the ego boost thing. I want to get off of course, but it turns me off so much when the guy gets an ego boost encause of it. Like “oh yeah I’m a papi who knows how to please a woman” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:45 AM
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I’m sorry you are going through this. I know it’s tough, but faking it is essential to survival. I wish you the best of luck! :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:00 PM
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I work with a colleague with whom I had a toxic relationship with years ago. Basically, stop caring about his perception of you and whether or not you’re living your best life. If you have a work related reason to interact with him, be as professional as possible and only stick to the work related topic. Do not chit chat or engage in any friendly idle chat. Keep the encounters as brief as possible. Be polite seeing him in the hallway and don’t treat him differently than you’d treat any other col…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:26 PM
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The dead eye stare is so real. I had an ex who did it with me. I once told him that I felt he objectified me but I couldn’t put my finger on it. But I really felt like he was looking at me like I was some sort of prey! It made me so uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:28 AM
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I know exactly what this is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:08 AM
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I completely agree. I’m not denying the problems among progressives and the Democratic Party, but why side with republicans who are clearly much worse and aren’t doing anything to advance civil or economic rights? I am speaking in context of US politics here. Conservatism in other countries has a different context and is associated with different beliefs, etc. But in the US, the Republican Party transparently caters to the interests of big businesses, white supremacy, and Christians. There is no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:30 PM
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I agree so much. I cannot separate politics from feminism. Yes some progressive men can be cocky. They mansplain. They practice micro aggressions. I don’t tolerate it. But it’s still much better than treatment I get from conservatives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:13 AM
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By definition, progressivism is not regressive. It is the position that we should do something to solve problems in society. Conservatism is the position that society is fine and we don’t need to enact change. Regressivism is the position that we should actually revert back to what we were decades ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:10 AM
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I’m curious about the legalization of prostitution and other sexual work. I agree that in its present form, the porn and sex industries profit off the objectification of women. But I don’t think the workers should be paying the price (and they are often women who have undergone trauma, etc). The narrative of women who simply love sex and do sexual work because of it, I agree it happens, but I’m not convinced it is the norm. If we had a genuinely equal society, then porn, stripping, and prostitut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:04 AM
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Being in limerance does feel good when the person reciprocates (the feeling where you can’t stop thinking about somebody for no reason and you’re just so attracted to them it completely overwhelms you). There’s no doubt that for me, it’s been the best feeling I’ve ever had (when reciprocated). However, it’s short term. Generally when I get this feeling, the guy acquires the upper hand and uses it to manipulate me for his own benefit. I had one relationship where I was in limerance and he recipro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:58 AM
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I guess I don’t understand the notion of why they would vote for candidates who oppose those things while they themselves don’t oppose them. Like they support civil rights and gun rights, but for them gun rights matter more? Situations like this? Generally republicans oppose government regulating businesses unless the intervention benefits the business’s bottom line (like banning unions, etc). So unless they are (1) ignorant about politics or (2) they are compromising on feminism and civil right…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:50 PM
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Also - Candace Owens is not willing to discuss and give different opinions. She gaslights people. Misrepresents their views. Insults them. She is not interested in having genuinely honest conversations, nor in changing her mind when the facts don’t agree with her narrative. She’s just a troll who isn’t engaging in politics in good faith. Anybody who is aligned with Turning Point USA, an organization that puts out memes and speeches that intentionally misrepresent the positions of progressives, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:36 PM
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I feel like conservatism in the US generally opposes removing the structures that allow sexual harassers to thrive in the workplace (I.e. forced arbitration clauses in employment contracts, relaxing title 9 laws, opposition of unionization rights, etc). Not to mention the transparent lack of shit republicans give when their candidates are accused of sexually harassing women. And of course the abortion issue. While I agree that leftists can be very misogynistic, I just don’t see what conservatism…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:39 PM
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This laziness never ceases to astound me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:13 PM
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Yeah. I mean the most unappealing part of dating for me is the moments when the guy is pressuring me for sex. Or is just way too eager. Plus you know there’s always going to come a time when they are going to be thirsty. And then they initiate and you aren’t feeling it. And you’re trying to decide if there’s a way to “get in the mood” or if you should decline. And even when they respect your decision to wait, they keep giving off these subtle signs of being too eager. It feels like so much press…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:01 PM
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It’s none of his business at this point. Maybe it could be appropriate in a more detailed conversation if he was genuinely (I.e. in good faith) trying to get to know you better, understand you, your values, and why you make the choices you make. But this comes off like there is something wrong with being single. Or attaches a lot of value to it. It’s a red flag that he thinks this is so important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:46 AM
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He probably assumed there was no chance you’d consider him for a relationship. Either that or it fed his ego. I’m also a PhD, good paying job, reasonably attractive and have also been ghosted by men after they got sex. And I have had men try to exploit my interest in science as a means of trying to sleep with me (which is rather cruel since I’d assumed the discussions were in good faith at the time). Men also ghost me when I refuse sexual advances, etc. Being successful in your career or being g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:48 PM
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They also like younger women since they are easier to manipulate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:29 PM
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LMAO not gonna lie - honestly I’ve been laughing for a solid few minutes at his misspelling of “esteem” 😂 Like I just can’t get over it 🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:49 PM
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We are all entitled to want to be with people we are sexually attracted to. If the thought of sex makes you recoil, then you aren’t doing anybody any favors in bearing through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:45 PM
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Yeah I see your point. I mean men who hate them should also hate Ben Shapiro, tucker Carlson, Sean hannjty, Charlie Kirk, etc for the same exact reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:14 PM
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People like Tomi lahren and Candace Owens are actively working against the agenda of feminism to uphold the patriarchy in addition to systematically racist structures in society. They aren’t allies and I think most criticisms of them are justified. They make intentionally misleading arguments, lie, and spew right wing propaganda. They are vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:11 PM
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In dating, the only comeback is to stop engaging. Throughout the years, I have heard many entertaining excuses from men regarding their justifications for ghosting me. 😂 “Never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it.” Work is trickier. I’ve had men gaslight me to the point where I literally just tell them “get out of my office”. There was also one time my coworker told me I needed to learn how to be “logical” and “have good judgement”. I got angry to the point where …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:35 PM
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Love this story ! Good for them. Also The boyfriend, when reached by The Washington Post, said, “There are two sides to everything, but I think the best thing right now is to say nothing.” Hahahaha nice try asshat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:20 PM
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I understand how you feel. I don’t have any advice apart from telling you that you aren’t alone. I’ve blocked and disengaged with my crush since he disrespected me. But it’s hard to get him off my mind. It’s frustrating because you know that logically, this guy isn’t a good fit for you. But there’s an emotional side to you that yearns for him. I think sometimes it just takes time and patience… Even when I engage in work, friends, and hobbies, it’s tough to take my mind off the issue. I just do t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 08:02 AM
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This bullshit makes me rage. So basically if a fuckboi doesn’t settle, it’s because the women isn’t offering value? Why does this asshole get to decide what is and isn’t “valuable” when he clearly doesn’t understand the concept of why it is immoral to manipulate women? Basically if the woman doesn’t offer whatever he considers to be valuable, then she is a piece of trash who deserves to be lied to? FUCK THIS ASSHOLE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:32 PM
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“most of you are a fucking burden” This so much! It can take many different shapes and forms. But YES!! 👏 This is also what I tell myself when I’m bummed out because the guy I thought was a HVM turned out to actually be a LVM. I want a relationship where I feel supported and I am not burdened by the other person’s problems. I hate the feeling of not wanting to come home because you don’t want to deal with your boyfriend who’s waiting for you to fill all the voids in their hearts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:45 PM
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Fuck this guy. I’m really sorry she had to put up with this. He’s a piece of shit. Just the nerve … ugh “I don’t mean to be rude” OMG this makes me rage. At least own up to being a racist asshole. Also the part about her being too “sensitive” when I’m guessing she reacted to something disrespectful he did So much wrong here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:56 PM
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Not sure arguing with them is a winning strategy because they will just gaslight. I think the woman in the video did the right thing in recording them and exposing them for what they really are. And hopefully the school will hold these men accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:53 PM
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Yeah orbiters are a hell NO for me. The ones who ghost you - and just want your social media from a distance? It’s super uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:10 AM
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OMG this is horrifying. My heart goes out to this women in this video for putting up with this “Find one who doesn’t talk” “Blind one” These men don’t see us as real human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:03 AM
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I’d never date a republican. It’s completely against everything feminism fights to achieve. In addition to other evil shit the party is up to. So for me it’s a deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:04 AM
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Good for you for setting your boundary. I know it’s tough doing the right thing. Stay strong !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:03 PM
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If her husband won’t acknowledge the way he hurt her and only prefers to deny or gaslight, then she should leave him. Ughhh this behavior is infuriating ! Like I agree we are responsible for our feelings but we are also responsible for our actions. How can she trust somebody who won’t acknowledge the effects of their actions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:00 PM
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I sympathize with your concerns about male doctorates. I recently got my PhD and have dated others. Even the ones who seem sweet at first, they can be super condescending and controlling. They have this notion that they know best and they love teaching you about how to live your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:56 PM
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This is a tricky issue because we of course want to judge people based on how they handle the cards they have been dealt - and not based on factors they can’t control. But there are a lot of factors to think about when evaluating compatibility. My last two boyfriends grew up poor, and not US American poor, but third world country poor, before they immigrated to the US. My longest relationship was with a guy who wanted to financially support his mom eventually - which would have been a financial …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:21 PM
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Good for you! Walking away is tough but you did the right thing. Also him telling you he loves you is fucked up and manipulative. Ugh what a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:59 PM
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I agree I hate the saying “they aren’t that into you”. It does seem to give them a lot of power and it kind of makes women step back and wonder “why wouldn’t he be into me or why am I not worthy of respect?” In the beginning, it’s normal for a man to be unsure if he sees you as relationship material. He SHOULD be unsure and he should also be vetting you if he has self respect. But this can be done in a respectful way without false promises. There is absolutely no excuse for a man to act more int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:05 AM
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Completely agree. They can trap you when they talk about how their intentions are good and YOU are the one who misunderstood them. But it’s exhausting being friends with people who aren’t socially aware of boundaries - and constantly dealing with annoying situation after annoying situation. Not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:36 PM
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I think that’s an elegant way to put it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:08 PM
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Good luck on your thesis! A PhD or masters thesis is tough - especially as a woman when you have to prove yourself all the time. I finished mine last year which was the culmination of 7 years of work. I was going through a lot of personal traumas the year I defended my thesis and I spent the last year feeling very burned out and was extremely lazy (so not very high value - my main accomplishment was losing the weight I put on in my last few years of PhD. And I made some friends when the pandemic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:19 PM
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I just wanted to complain and get some things off my chest. I often find myself feeling bitter over the notion of men constantly trying to manipulate me into having sex with them. When I was 20, it at least used to flatter me even if I wasn’t interested because it validated my ego that I’m an attractive woman. Now I’m 30 and I don’t find this shit flattering at all. Like it isn’t a compliment to me that men want to sleep with me. I just want them to leave me alone and stop pretending to be one o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:00 PM
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The rule is half your age plus seven, right ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:57 PM
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Same exact thing happened to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:49 PM
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I work in a male dominated field and 90% of my single male friends have made a move on me at some point during the friendship (attempted kiss or asked me out on a date). This is something I only very recently realized. There are some who I rejected and they accepted the rejection with grace and stayed in touch. And others who lashed out at me or ghosted me after the rejection. The ones who didn’t make a move were either in relationships/ married, or they were HVM who were genuinely interested in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:14 AM
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Oof. I’d suggest that you tell him that you feel he is disrespecting your personal boundaries when he masturbates after you telling him you aren’t in the mood. If he listens, genuinely tries to understand where you’re coming from, and stops the behavior, then he may be worth hanging onto if you really like him. If he’s defensive at all then run! It is definitely rude for him to ask you to do sexual favors for him when you aren’t in the mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:18 AM
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One of my exes told me he wished I was more submissive. But he wasn’t willing to put in the work required to actually exercise good judgement about the decisions we needed to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:41 PM
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Lmao 🤣 “a fucking loser” Couldn’t have said it better myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:51 PM
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I feel like a lot of rom coms exist to pander to the notion of giving hope to women who are tolerating bad behavior from their romantic interests. Perpetuates a fantasy that he’s a HVM but can’t act like it because of [x,y,z] and then they end up together once [x,y,z] is settled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:45 PM
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🤣 I thought the same. What a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:30 PM
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Oh god. Honestly - there are so many good food blogs and recipe websites. Google recipes for your favorite foods. Think of ways to make it healthy and have self control Ughh it isn’t that hard to follow a recipe !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:27 PM
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Aww. Well I’m glad you are realizing this at 32. And trust me - you aren’t alone. We all have our own very different stories relating to how we’ve been treated by men. I am disappointed in myself for some of the things I’ve tolerated. I was also raised in a traditional family where my father showed little respect for my mother and how much work she put into taking care of him. A part of me has internalized that one sided relationships with the woman doing emotional labor is normal. The best we c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:59 PM
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Completely agree. I’ve never faked it before but it does annoy me if I’m sleeping with a man whose previous girlfriends faked it. Thus he never learned how to be good at sex and thinks I’m the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:41 PM
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You can be friends from a distance. There’s a saying that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. I kind of agree with the concept. You want to be spending most of your time with people you admire and respect. I have other subsets of friends who are at more of a distance. And I don’t mind seeing them from time to time but I could never elevate them to BFF status because of their issues or I just don’t admire/respect them as much as I do my other friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:45 AM
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I love it when they tell me that I’m the first woman they have slept with who hasn’t orgasmed from the penetration alone. Like I’m pretty sure all of my ex’s previous girlfriends faked it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:12 AM
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A good boundary to set is that he isn’t allowed to come until you do. This will weed out the men who are selfish in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:10 AM
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Hahaha says the guy in an open relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:54 AM
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Had this happen to me as well. His boss was treating him badly (which I’m sympathetic to). But then he’d tell me it was my duty as his girlfriend to make him happy and make his life better and I wasn’t trying hard enough. And then he’d hold it against me that my work situation was overall good. Ranting about how I don’t understand him and I don’t know what it’s like to struggle and how I’m selfish because I’d come home from work too tired to be his therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:52 AM
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Ughh “I prefer conversations to happen organically” What an asshole! He’s basically blaming you for not being a good enough conversationalist for him rather than interrogating his own lack of skills. Honestly it reminds me of a time I was hooking up with a guy and he told me he doesn’t like it when women ask for oral sex - it has to happen “organically”. Needless to say I didn’t get off on that hookup and I never called him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:44 AM
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I love it when they mansplain political issues to women 😂 Especially feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:00 AM
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Lol you can find them at college frat parties, Wall Street, sports games, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:36 AM
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Thank you for the sweet comment! Being misled sucks and it makes me so angry because it’s a universal thing that happens to all women - regardless of attractiveness, social class, race, etc. I never hear about women pretending to care about men as a tool for getting laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:48 AM
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I agree - this is good advice and I kind of do this too. And I also start envisioning the future relationship with said LVM and how miserable I’d likely be as a result of their behavior. And then I remind myself of how super relieved I was to get out of past several relationships I had that were unsatisfying. This puts me in a mood where I feel thankful to have dodged the bullet. Being single is always 100% always better than being in a relationship that isn’t adding value to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:45 AM
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There is no shame in having the feelings you have. Often times LVM do have some genuinely interesting qualities that draw us to them in the first place. They just end up being overall unsuitable which is why we block. But I think it’s normal to miss your interactions with them and it’s admirable that in spite of those feelings, you have the ability to see a bad situation for what it is and take the appropriate action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:17 AM
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Hahaha is he being self aware about the fact that he’s a super fucked up person ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:05 PM
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I appreciate the comment. We all have a responsibility to logically analyze the situation, evaluate if a person’s behavior is acceptable, and respond appropriately for the sake of respecting ourselves and others. But there’s no shame at all in having feelings of disappointment when you realize it’s not a good situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:11 PM
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Hah great analogy. I completely agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:05 PM
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Hahahahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:38 PM
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Right. It is always so disappointing when a person who initially seems great and likable turns out to be morally bankrupt or is simply unable to handle situations with grace and dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:27 PM
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Self esteem is a journey and I’m glad that you’ve been making progress. Respecting and valuing yourself by cutting off LVM will always make you happier in the long run than the alternative path to misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:23 PM
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Thanks for sharing. As a female scientist I identify with this a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:12 PM
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LOL this is the funniest shit I have seen today. Thanks for posting. Ohh the audacity for him to ask what men have ever done to women. Completely ignoring ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:02 AM
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😂 this is so true. The struggle is real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:01 PM
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This looks like a great list with healthy goals. Good for you for channeling your post breakup heartache into bettering yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:04 PM
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Completely agree. Like sometimes the men who bench me do things that are so “off” it’s hard for me to imagine their tricks being successful on other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:56 PM
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Haha Yeah it’s laughable to interpret a general after 11 pm message asking to come over as anything other than a desperate plea for sex. I cannot respect people who try shit like this. As a woman, it just frustrates me when men pretend to want a collegial or friendly interaction with you as a front for trying to sleep with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:50 PM
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I agree. Dating is weird because you feel morally obligated to not discriminate against people for things they can’t control. But at the same time, being a caregiver sucks and I think we all deserve to be with somebody who can take care of us as much as we take care of them. My mom has been caring for my dad for eight years (he had a very very bad stroke and cannot speak or walk properly). She is miserable and puts up with it because she needs his money from disability insurance (she was a stay …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:25 PM
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Also Natalie Portman in Star Wars? I mean yeah she was a queen and senator. But Anakin told her “I killed them. I killed them all. They're dead, every single one of them. And not just the men, but the women and the children, too. They're like animals, and I slaughtered them like animals. I HATE THEM” And Padme is just like “ohhh poor baby” when in reality she should run away from this genocidal maniac. And report on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:47 PM
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I agree that politically, I try to vote for candidates who are compassionate toward the poor and want to implement policies to reduce poverty. But I’m not doing society any favors by shooting myself in the foot and sacrificing my future financial security. Not to mention how unpleasant it is to date men who will envy you for your success and hold it against you. And for what? So I can virtue signal about how “not classist” I am?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:39 PM
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Oh my god! Initially I’d thought that maybe he was drunk and was undergoing a temporary surge in ego that made him think he was invincible. But your scenario would be so evil if true! Purposely not being sexual/romantic to trap a woman into coming over - then subsequently pressuring her into sex. I can see it being a clever move for predators and one that we should all watch out for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:12 PM
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Just had a guy slide back into my DMs after he ghosted me a month before. We were just friends and one night he randomly booty calls me (asks to come over super late despite nothing physical or romantic or sexual ever having happened between us - I really have no idea why he thought this would work). Anyway, he had previously told me a bunch of stuff about how glad he is to have me in his life as a friend, respects me, I’m a priority, etc but ghosted me right after the booty call didn’t go his o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:20 PM
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Yeah! I HATE when they hide behind ignorance. i.e. “oh you just misunderstood my intentions. I didn’t mean to be hurtful. “ 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:00 PM
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For example, most men agree that Harvey Weinstein is an evil dude so they don’t complain when he is labeled as a bad guy. But they were super pissed about the Aziz Ansari story. Which yeah he didn’t rape his date in the typical sense, but he displayed disturbing degrees of male sexual entitlement and was pressuring his date into doing sexual acts she didn’t want to do. And a LOT of men are like that and don’t want to be called out for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:12 AM
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I once had an ex who didn’t read cues. Early in the relationship I told him I wasn’t ready to have sex but he would still flash his penis at me and pressure me. Later in the relationship there was a night where my body was ticklish for some reason. And he kept touching it and I would feel ticklish and get uncomfortable. And then he had the audacity to yell and complain at me because I wouldn’t let him touch me and he couldn’t have sex. Like “Why can’t I touch you?!?! OMG this is ridiculous “ But…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:10 AM
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Can also add to the list responds to phone calls and text messages in a reasonable time frame is respectful to your parents, friends, and family prioritizes your orgasm and pleasure during sex isn’t jealous nor controlling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:56 AM
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Anger is a great emotion and it can make you strong if you channel it into the right things. Be angry. But use it to motivate yourself to do better in your career, work out, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:20 PM
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He was 18 years older than me (I was 23 and he was 41) We had a LDR for most of the relationship and he ghosted me after visiting me one weekend after about 6-7 months of dating. This completely traumatized me but I still took him back months later since it was during my Pickmeisha days When we got back together he ended up spending his days and evenings with his ex girlfriend even when I would visit - only wanting to spend time with me in bed at nighttime - despite our verbal agreement that we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:19 PM
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Yeah whenever I’m on a date and a guy mentions something like “I’m principled, I always keep my word”, an alarm sounds off in my head. Like you shouldn’t have to verbally convince people that you have integrity: they will infer from context based on your actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:01 PM
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Completely agree. The last guy I was in a relationship was 100% sure I was the one for him. Without even vetting me, getting to know me, etc. He had been through a lot of trauma and didn’t really have anyone in his life so he was desperate to find happiness in his relationship. I told myself that I’d stay with him and sacrifice my own happiness to make him happy. Thank god I broke it off. It was definitely unsustainable. And you aren’t doing that person a favor by pretending to be happy when you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:07 PM
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I agree with this. Venting is okay but friendships should always be two sided. The issue for me isn’t necessarily the venting at face value since I am sympathetic that such situations are difficult to navigate emotionally, but when they vent all the time and don’t ask me about my life or show concern about anything else, that is selfish and exhausting. Also - the friends who vent and then remark about how “nobody cares about them”. That is SELFISH! I had a friend who did that and it’s insulting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:54 PM
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Dating can be a rather miserable/scary experience for women… it’s nice to have some solidarity. Especially when emotions are involved and men are willing to manipulate us to get what they really want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:03 AM
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It looks like she is going out of her way to accommodate him. Ugh. Anyway you’re justified in being concerned. I guess take her out for coffee or a beer. And ask her to interrogate ways in which he is going out of his way to accommodate her life. Sometimes people need to reach conclusions on their own. It is okay to tell her you feel concerned (and perhaps you can also share relevant stories from your earlier years). But nobody wants to be lectured at so it’s wise to be gentle when bringing up s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:35 AM
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I just turned on the movie and the first thing the comedian points out is how men being creepy is rewarded by women as “he is showing up for me so I guess I should give him a chance!” While for women, two text messages in a row implies you are a psycho 🤣 I feel exposed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:59 PM
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Her not being allowed to take out her IUD is super fucked up. Ughh. Among everything else of course Let’s entertain for a second the possibility that Britney is very mentally ill and her dad genuinely has the best of intentions. As his lawyers claim. Then seeing how much she doesn’t want him around, the decent and logical thing for him to do would be to walk away and let her pick her own conservator. It’s very malicious for him to fight this process knowing his own daughter considers him bad for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:28 AM
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I also second this. I dated a man 18 years older than me in my early twenties who told me that I’m “mature for my age”. When I look back on how mature I was at 23, it’s so completely laughable !! I’d also advise myself to be less hard on myself. Falling in love with somebody who doesn’t respect you is tough and I’d tell my younger self to treat myself better. Because it’s normal to suffer, have feelings, and be confused when somebody is pretending to love you as a tool for getting laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:58 PM
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