Angry_Sparrow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, Status The ability to recognise a bad environment or person and seperate that from yourself and not internalise it and think it is something wrong with you is what I am talking about. Moving away from America required you to have ownership and responsibility for your own agency in the situation.	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 08:53 PM
1	How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, Status How did you take my comments and make them gendered. I am amazed. I just want to help OP and people vulnerable to TRP ideology tend to be insecure, both men and women. All those things you suggest are great in combination with doing work on yourself internally. I mean, he’s upset and it is upsetting dealing with shallow people all of the time when you want or need more. Who is selecting these people? Everywhere you go there are shallow people. But there are also deep people. There is a saying: E…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 07:56 PM
1	How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, Status Yes it does. If OP wasn’t then it wouldn’t matter where they were meeting women. OP should be able to say “this woman didn’t like me but that is about her not me” and pick himself up and move on. But he is internalising rejection. You can’t avoid being “exploited” (hurt/rejected) when you put yourself out there. But you need decent self worth to not make ever rejection into some damning evidence against women. If you have a healthy relationship with yourself, you will be able to meet people anyw…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 06:49 PM
7	How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, Status What do you want in a partner? Edit: also, why do you have such a low opinion of women? Is it because some women have treated you badly?	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 07:19 AM
6	How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, Status Yes, if I had some physical attraction to him. Like maybe he has big hands that look like he could really throw me around in the bedroom. Or a nice smile. Or beautiful eyes. If he can make me laugh and keep up both conversationally and in the bedroom, and he does therapy, I’d consider marrying him.	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 07:13 AM
6	How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, Status Physical attraction is just the first thing people notice about each other and it is essential in a relationship, but there needs to be more beyond that after the initial “aha, I like that person”. For me, I need an intellectual connection to a man as well, or it is a no-go for me. Personality is important too. When you became more “good looking” it just helped you get past that first hurdle. But it doesn’t mean that it is the only thing people are attracted to. I assume you are attracted to mor…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 06:53 AM
13	How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, Status Your comment reveals deep insecurity. You need to work on yourself and stop projecting your insecurity about yourself onto women. You act as if you know what women think about you, but how can you? All you can know is your own thoughts. Start with those, because they need work. You will be less vulnerable to people that could hurt you.	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 04:47 AM
-1	The Reason Why I was never fully Red-pilled Your post is red pill. Nobody cares about your “body count”. And in a healthy relationship you shouldn’t be asking about your partners. So gross.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/22 08:30 PM
4	The white pill: An Alternative to Red Pill A therapist would ask you what attracted you to pill ideology in the first place. And then make you work through your insecurity, misogyny and childhood trauma.	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/22 07:06 PM
2	29 years old. Very Successful Academically yet Unable to Garner the Interest of Females “garner the interest of females”. Red flag. Trying to sound intelligent with outdated word usage. This isn’t 1800s England. Also… FEMALES. Ugh. In academia it has been difficult for me to watch men who I deemed of lesser intelligence have such success. Red flag. Insecure. Judgemental. Super patronising of other men. Rude. Unkind. I wondered what they had that I didn’t. Red flag. Insecure. I am highly intelligent and currently working on a PhD in philosophy and yet no females I talk to seem to ca…	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/22 11:22 PM
1	Why would women nowadays want to be monogamous? Please stop projecting your fantasies of being an unrepentant slut if you had the access onto us.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/22 07:37 PM
5	New to ex Red Pill-is hypergamy even the norm? Do women love cocky Dbags? Is any of this stuff even true? Here is my story. This makes me wonder: how much of this shit is actually true? None if it. Is being the arrogant, macho guy the way to a woman’s heart? No. Is it the end all be all to be good looking, muscular, and rich? No. If it is, why haven’t I found my wife? Be yourself. Find the person that likes you for you. Stop taking advice from men that no sane woman would date. Red pill gurus are full of shit and are highly toxic men that women can sense from a mile away. It sounds like you are a very attractive, suc…	/r/ExRedPill	04/10/22 02:44 AM
2	If I'm to be frank, I think a certain selection of people here do not host an environment that's helpful for Red Pillers to detox. Agree that there should be a safe space. But I also see the blind trying to lead the blind here, which results in some half-baked RP misogynistic comments getting upvotes. It’s like a pat in the back turns into a circle jerk of woman hating. And those who are freshly leaving TRP don’t even see it.	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 08:16 AM
1	Why men prefer younger women obviously you have no experience with females to make such a statement Feeeeeemales.	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 08:13 AM
3	made a post yest but everyone accused me of being a man so lets try again, I grew up muslim and lots of RP views were pushed on to me, I cannot stop trying value to my womb after following so many tradwife accounts, how can I step away from all this? its ruining my relationship with my SO Get therapy. Unlearning what gets indoctrinated via the patriarchy, and all that goes with it is a long, hard journey. You are on a journey to find you. And it is going to scare you shitless. I’m curious as to why you suddenly found being a traditional wife so attractive when you met your partner? And what is putting you off it now? Also the things you listed about being a traditional wife that you enjoy - staying home to cook, clean and do laundry… you can fit all of these into a working life (…	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/22 09:08 AM
15	Is the alpha beta dichotomy true? Help me understand I just didn’t find her that attractive for her to make me wait cause she didn’t have that much value in my eyes. I’ve hooked up with other women who were more attractive than her imo. Should’ve probably communicated that but she probably would’ve just been pissed. This whole post is so toxic and you don’t even see it. You’ve got her competing in a competition she a) doesn’t know she’s in and b) wouldn’t care about or want to be in if she knew about it. You have screwed yourself over because of y…	/r/ExRedPill	04/09/22 09:40 PM
1	To those who have parted ways with Red Pill, what was the most eye-opening thing that helped you see through the mirage? My point is that you point out if diversity and propagation are the ideal (which they are) then men should father children with multiple women and I agree. But women should also have children with multiple men. It’s best if both genders diversify.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/22 02:26 AM
1	To those who have parted ways with Red Pill, what was the most eye-opening thing that helped you see through the mirage? In fact, if pace of propagation and diversity are the primary goals then a more efficient model would be for a man to sleep with a broad range of women concurrently. It’s best for both genders.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/22 02:14 AM
2	To those who have parted ways with Red Pill, what was the most eye-opening thing that helped you see through the mirage? Every modern nation (and continent, as you listed) is or was made up of smaller tribes that amalgamated over time and adopted homogenous societal norms. Where there was a colonising patriarchal power this of course led to the expectation that women should be chaste and were treated as property of men. That doesn’t mean it is the norm or that it is natural behaviour. Survival of a species relies not just on propagation but also on genetic diversity. If anything, women should naturally seek multip…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/22 01:45 AM
11	To those who have parted ways with Red Pill, what was the most eye-opening thing that helped you see through the mirage? In some cultures that is true, mostly western ones. Many indigenous cultures encouraged women to produce children from many men and the children were raised communally, with less emphasis on paternity than us found in western Patriarchy. Additionally there is no way to know if a woman is a virgin or not, the same as men. The general belief is that the breaking of the hymen proves it, but the hyem can break during physical activity such as sports or horse riding, and the hymen is just there to pr…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/22 11:58 PM
19	To those who have parted ways with Red Pill, what was the most eye-opening thing that helped you see through the mirage? In a perfect world men and women would be chaste until marriage. I’m sorry but this is still very red pill thinking. In a perfect world people could live their lives how they want without fear of judgement or persecution. As a woman, I prefer a guy with experience because a) he knows what he is doing and b) he knows what he likes. For example, If I ask if he likes butt play he won’t freak out. I would expect men I am with to want the same from me, not to want a chaste and pure damsel. A healthy …	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/22 11:16 PM
8	Feeling forced to go talk to girl? Step 1: don’t call us bitches.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 08:04 AM
0	What discussion topics do you find the most beneficial here? If you have NPD you need to work with a therapist to first confirm the diagnosis and then work on it with you. Narcissism isn’t being a self-centred person, it is a personality disorder that can destroy the people around you.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 07:58 AM