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| 4 | How to vibe after opener? | Conversation | Anhedonic_Gamer | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How to game without ability to sense/feel emotion? | Outer Game | Anhedonic_Gamer | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 10:50 PM |
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| 1 | How effective is the "fuck it, I'm nervous but I'm going to ask her out anyway" approach?I have the complete opposite problem, I have no fear to the point I can't sense the subtle shifts in emotions they experience. It makes talking to girls seem like trying to pilot an indestructible battleship with no steering wheel. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How effective is the "fuck it, I'm nervous but I'm going to ask her out anyway" approach?As someone who doesn't have approach anxiety, I can tell you that you're very lucky to feel nervous. It means you have strong empathy. It works because your interest in them is genuine. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How to game without ability to sense/feel emotion?Anhedonia | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | How to game without ability to sense/feel emotion?Quite frankly, I don't think they'll ever come back. But that's okay, I want to do what I can to improve my life in the meanwhile. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How to game without ability to sense/feel emotion?What does authenticity feel like to you? | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 11:11 PM |
| 2 | How many cold approaches do you do per week/monthAll of them within any given bar, 7 nights a week and all street sets at the end of the night, so like 20-30 depending on time remaining. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | What are some tips to having better conversations?The wingmen I went out with happened to teach game so I learnt a lot thru osmosis. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why is it STILL scary to approach girls after 20+ approaches?If you really want to know why it feels scary is because your body produces a flight or fight response when there is uncertainty or fear of danger. You need to decondition your anxiety by repeating the same actions and getting your mind to see that nothing bad happened after an approach. The more you practice the better you become. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | How to vibe after opener?A story about safety and anticipation Just curious, do you have any books you recommend for these stories? | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | After watching a lot of content from max and Julien I finally decided to go out every day for 30 mins..Yeah bro I follow the same content, I go out 7 nights a week currently, definitely interested in starting a mastermind game group. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 02:05 AM |
| 3 | What are some tips to having better conversations?Try the "magic 8 ball" exercise, when you're by yourself at home; free associate (improvise) words in a sequence. Say any word that comes to mind without a.) associating from the previous word (e.g. sky, plane, clouds) and not associating off the environment b.) (e.g. House, street, car) So this would look like : "sky...cat...pencil...ramen...shoes...pineapple" etc and just do this for a 1 minute or two. You'll find that it stills the mind a bit, which is what you need when talking. You can also… | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Club Game vs Bar Game TipsJust walk around, feel the music. Do a gentle tap tap on the shoulder if she doesn't see you and a gentle wave then introduce yourself. Don't forget about the friends as well. Have fun! | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How to vibe after opener?With that, I have a plan or sequence that I stick with. And I follow the sequence ev Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | You under estimate the amount of work needed for cold approach to workIf you can feel your emotions, just generate positive emotion/strong emotions and convey it in a socially calibrated way while moving through the process of isolation escalation logistics etc. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Should you push yourself to meet people in settings you're not as comfortable in?"Meeting people at more like minded places and events" would be a great 1st choice as you'd have a lot in common with them which is great, but not always practical to find these environments. If you want to get better at game, you'll have to get comfortable in mainstream, high volume environments. You don't need to know how to dance, but you'll need to know how to open properly with good energy. Vocal Projection is the #1 reason guys fail in loud club environments, so I'd work on being heard fir… | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How to vibe after opener?Sure, you have to reframe how each approach feels. Don't judge yourself and think, "who the f**k would have the balls to do that?" OR when your do an approach just think to yourself "what did I find funny in that last interaction". OR another great one is thinking in your mind "1000 out of 10" and just repeating the mantra. You'll find that the adrenaline wears off after about the first 5 mins, so just keep approaching and keep up your momentum. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?Just go out and talk to a lot of people while building into a better and better mood. Share this energy with people and if it feels right, escalate, lead and find a way to make it happen. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Cultivate self love, and learn what triggers put you in a good mood. Build a genuinely interesting life that you'd like to live and invite people into your world etc. Work on developing a particular style that conveys your unique interests passions etc. Hangout in environments where similar types of people are so that you have a basis for rapport. Go on instagram and find some styles of people you like/resonate with and go buy some new cloths. Just some tips. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What Are The Cardinal Personality Traits That A Man Must Have To Attain "The Player Vibe?"These are the 4 basic pillars of game: Being alpha: Strong eye contact, downward tonality, vocal projection, leading, unreactive. Strong emotions: Positive and some less positive Validation: Screening questions (to find girls you are compatible with) but also to trigger chasing of validation. A better place to go: A new bar, afterparty, location in the environment . | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How to vibe after opener?Hmm, understanding other's feelings does have neurological basis. I'm not sure how to activate those neural networks just yet, but I'll find out eventually. Thanks for the tip! | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 09:16 PM |
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