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and if I say stop talking to a specific bitch, you stop. it's interesting you refer to a potential other woman as a bitch
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 06:09 AM
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I have many friends that were raised “minimalist” who had great childhoods and have become happy, healthy, and secure men and women. Granted they all grew up in very outdoorsy families and did have nice things (like reliable camping gear), so ymmv when it comes to your own family. On the other hand I had lots of things but grew up without parents around. I definitely would have traded all the stuff to have more quality time with both parents.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 08:53 AM
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my confidence and even self confidence decreases and my self conciousness increases when I wear make up, its so strange. It's all about being comfortable! I have girlfriends who absolutely own that runway makeup look. But that's 100% not me. I recommend looking up color compliments for your tones and eye color. A little can go a long way! I'm generally very light skinned, which is why I like tinted moisturizer; but when I'm tanned I need it much less because my complexion is more even. I'm with …
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 03:26 AM
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Personally I don't think so! I'm not a very make up oriented woman, but I do usually use neutral colored eyeshadows (light pinks and browns compliment me very well) and when I want my eyes to pop I'll add in a little bit of almost imperceptible purple. Other than that I stick with tinted moisturizer and during the winter a bit of blush. I think part of being appealing is being confident, and I don't feel confident with lots of makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 02:05 AM
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Especially with a computer science degree. You could even do freelance work, and as long as you keep up with certifications, it shouldn't be too hard to re-enter the workforce if you do leave.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 07:03 PM
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Personal preference I'd imagine.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 07:28 PM
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Oof I feel called out by your novel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:47 AM
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Is it to much to ask to be left alone if I’m feeling awful, was that really bad of me? This sticks out to me. A proper man likes to try to fix things. Have you communicated with him that sometimes there is no 'fixing' and that he just needs to let you feel your feelings, and you'll come to him when you're ready? Or have you set up a communication channel where you indicate that you want him to do his thing as a proper man (aka fix) or just be there for you while you unload, with no advice needed…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 12:24 AM
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If they have to brag about what they do, then they're insecure.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 07:03 PM
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My only advice is don't assume they have the qualities you're looking for just because they're military men. I've dated mostly military (I was in the military and now live by a base so they're hard to avoid), and a lot of them really only bring "being in the military" to the table. That being said there's nothing wrong in assuming a servicemember will have the qualities you're looking for more than the average population. All my coworkers are veterans and most all of them hunt/shoot/fish and get…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 07:01 PM
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I literally was going to leave this same comment!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 07:40 AM
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Women like your mother inspire me. I'm sorry for your loss ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:19 PM
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"Everything's on fire!!!"
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 12:50 AM
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You had me at no more in growns! This is definitely something I will be getting.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 12:44 AM
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I was riddled with anxiety and other issues which caused me to be negative for a large portion of my life. With the help of my doctor (and medicine) I was able to change my perspective and one of the things I noticed after time was the change in attention from both sexes. I never realized how much of an affect my change had on others until an old coworker and I were moved onto the same project after being on different ones for the last few months. After catching up he said "you know after you mo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 02:24 AM
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This is great advice! My friends and I fell into negative mindsets so we started asking each other to list 3 good things about our days/ whatever "bad" thing happened. It got so ingrained in me that I started doing it naturally. A few weeks ago I dropped a water bowl all over my kitchen floor (at least half a gallon of water). Normally I wouldve been in hysterics but my first thought was "oh well the floor did need a good mopping anyway!" And it hit me how completely my mindset had changed!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/20 04:09 AM
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Still, ask her. If she's a leftist then she should be all about women making their own choices. Even if you know her answer, every time she make a comment about your appearance or femininity ask her why she's so against women being who they want to be.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 06:22 PM
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You could always ask her why she thinks it's okay to shame a woman for how she dresses or acts.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 05:42 PM
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I know he didn't mean it figuratively, but I always read it that way, especially when trying to explain to male friends why women get "so upset over nothing".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:28 PM
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What's dread protocol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:27 PM
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Yes, earlier. That may be the main issue.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 08:24 PM
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Oh sorry! I was just curious. I'll delete the comment.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 08:23 PM
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Well they half planned for one and didn't want another baby so soon is what she said
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 01:12 PM
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Not in OPs mind though
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/20 06:37 PM
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I don't think asking him directly to be more dominant would be a good idea as it seems too emasculating and it sort of goes against the dynamics I'm trying to establish (him being the leader). If I tell him I want him to be more dominant I'm still telling him what to do which actually makes me the dominant one.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/20 06:01 PM
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Seriously, I don't think I stopped being awkward until my late 20's. And even now it's questionable.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 06:46 AM
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Seems like you think all men are that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:07 PM
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Why do you hate men so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:46 PM
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Why do they have such shit jobs if they have carpentry skills? You do though, you said men have no use unless they have money or they're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:40 PM
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You are though, you think they're pathet and so desperate for a woman that they "sniff around" then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:39 PM
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Why do they have such shit jobs if they have carpentry skills? And why do you have such a low opinion of men that you think they have no value unless they have money or they're "hot"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:04 PM
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You really underestimate men, I don't think they're as pathetic as you're making them out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:02 PM
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You say "up to your requirements" like it's a bad thing. People are attracted to certain qualities, why are you treating it like a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 07:04 PM
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So what are they going to fix?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 07:02 PM
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So every obese guy that I don't find attractive knows how to tile floors and rebuild decks and will do it for me for free?! Why do they have such shit jobs if they have these skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 06:59 PM
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Just because you can't back up what you say and you don't understand that your experiences dont make a stereotype true doesn't mean I'm trolling. But I'll take this to mean that you have no evidence that men are more logical. I know in your case you're definitely not more logical since you don't understand how your assertions made no sense in our last little convo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:41 PM
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Men already have lives that are free of female control.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:16 AM
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Can't back up your point again?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:13 AM
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How is your logic better than womens though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 10:38 AM
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Okah so experiences aren't facts anymore then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:20 PM
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So you do agree that my perception is also a valid fact since according to you yours it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:18 PM
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So they're not anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:17 PM
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What retorts? I'm genuinely trying to help teach you. But in order to do that you need to know the actual definitions of words first. So, to the dictionary we go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:14 PM
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Oh so now experiences aren't facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:11 PM
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According to you that's not how it works though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:10 PM
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Wouldn't I though? I've been providing you so many and you're just ignoring them. Oh! That's the disconnect - you don't actually understand what a fact is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:09 PM
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I have figured it out though, which is why I've been able to explain it to you. I know you're still having trouble understanding what the words you've been using mean though. So, step one, pull up merriam webster!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:07 PM
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I know I've been told that I have saint like empathy and patience. I'm happy you're feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:05 PM
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But my perception is that I am so that makes it fact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:04 PM
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Maybe in your opinion but factually you haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:02 PM
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What?! No I can definitely help you understand why what you're saying isn't making sense don't worry!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:01 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:59 PM
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You're not though. It's sad when someone is so confused that they don't realize they're contradicting themselves :( like I said though we'll get you there I'm not gonna give up on you don't worry!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:59 PM
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No, you haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:57 PM
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Well you keep saying contradicting things so you definitely haven't succeeded. It's okay we'll figure this out together though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:57 PM
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Is that why you pretend they don't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:55 PM
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You don't get it then? I guess when you've clung to a delusion for so long it's hard to understand reality. It's okay we'll get you there!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:50 PM
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You haven't though. As I said your reasoning is "this thing is fact because I think so"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:48 PM
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No problem.*
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:47 PM
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You may have known but you definitely didn't succeed in saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:47 PM
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Facts. But I know YOJ said you don't like those so I understand why you pretend they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:41 PM
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In your subjective reality then. You finally get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:41 PM
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I improved it to reflect what you were trying to say. It's okay, I know that you guys have issues with expressing yourselves so it's not easy for you to be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:39 PM
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Awww thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:38 PM
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I mean you keep insisting you're right and can't provide anything more than "bEcAuSe I sAiD sO" so I think at this point it's more that you're not able to and the standard male inability to deal with logic and need to be right is driving you forward. Also, you keep going back and forth between perception and fact. You seem to have trouble understanding the difference. Maybe read up on the two and then we can continue?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:38 PM
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Your perception of reality you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:33 PM
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So your perception of women speaking more isn't necessarily true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:33 PM
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You're trying to say that the perception of some men is fact. Are you so delusional that you don't understand your own statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:30 PM
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Improve it to what? That you think that just because something is your opinion that makes it fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:24 PM
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What more?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:22 PM
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Perception and reality aren't always direct correlations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:22 PM
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Keep clinging to your delusions then if that makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:22 PM
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You have no proof that your perception is credible though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:12 PM
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The reality of it makes it a fact. But other than the claim that it's the perception of men you have nothing to back this up. You're saying that perception = reality and that makes it a fact, so means that since I and other women perceive men speak more, that makes it reality, which makes it a fact. Other than your perception, which science has proven is flawed and incredibly influenced by biases, you have no actual evidence that women speak more. You just think they do. And your opinion doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:10 PM
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Is that also your perception
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:53 PM
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See? You say "reality" here, when you later go on to say that it's just your perception of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:52 PM
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It's the common PERCEPTION of most men. Fixed it for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:51 PM
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The simple fact is that you and some other men perceive this. There, I helped you fix your statement to say what you actually meant to say :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:50 PM
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What science are you quoting? Is it that some worthless science you mentioned later on?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:49 PM
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No, you stated many times that women speak more than men and cited your perception of experiences as proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:46 PM
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Okay so you admit that it's a fact that you think women speak more but it is not a fact that they do. Happy we reached a conclusion!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:43 PM
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Perception is fact according to you. Why does that work for men and not for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:41 PM
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But you have to because according to you perception is fact and this is my perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:40 PM
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My perspective and the perspective of a lot of others. Men are best placed to know men's perspective, so what they say their perspective is, is fact. Women do not and cannot know men's perspective. According to you what is perceived is fact though, and since I perceive that men speak more but somehow say less, that makes it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:39 PM
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It's not just what I believe though, it's fact that men speak more because that's what I percieve!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:36 PM
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More proof that men speak more yet somehow say less. Very interesting wouldn't you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:33 PM
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Sure your perspective and the perspective of other men is fact, let's go with that. It's my perspective and the perspective of many other women that men speak more. And since we're best placed to know our perspective, what we say it is, is fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:33 PM
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At least you're admitting your delusion now. Progress!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:29 PM
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Your perspective and the perspective of some others, which is proven to be biased and that you're trying to pass off as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:23 PM
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Tell me more about how you're not delusional by the way. "Since the time a few of those studies were conducted, other surveys have showed that men and women do speak about the same amount — roughly 16,000 words per day. "
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:22 PM
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Ah so you havent proven anything either then. So where is your evidence that women speak more than men? But you apparently are, since you think women speak more but can't back it up with anything better than an "because I said so".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:18 PM
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I know I haven't proven the claims are false, the studies I provided have though. That's the point of science! Men are better placed to know how they experience the world unless, like you case, they're delusional, or, as these studies show, are biased to the point that it changes their perception of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:00 PM
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You do though because the link you provided makes false claims. I guess you can keep citing it though if you want to cling to your delusions that much. Whatever gets you through the day I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:35 PM
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https://time.com/4837536/do-women-really-talk-more/ "The longest comment by a woman at all seven gatherings was shorter than the shortest comment by a man. Susan Herring found a similar pattern in online discussions among linguists on professional topics: Messages written by men were, on average, twice as long as those written by women."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:34 PM
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https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/women-talk-more-than-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:22 PM
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https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/features/do-women-talk-more-than-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:22 PM
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Oof do better "This is false but quite pervasive in popular culture. Many books and magazine articles have popularized the idea that women speak approximately 20,000 words per day, as compared to men, who manage to utter a mere 7,000. This claim has seeped into common consciousness but is not backed by any evidence. The truth is that American English speakers of all genders use an average of around 16,000 words per day." http://itre.cis.upenn.edu/~myl/languagelog/archives/003420.html
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:18 PM
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I know you think you pay attention to reality, but you don't and your delusions are upsetting you so let's address them! What some men say, and again, your delusions are obviously skewing your perceptions of reality. Science doesn't, but at least now we're establishing how deeply your delusions go!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:09 PM
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I do pay attention to reality though, why do you think that your experiences are everyone else's reality? Delusions do play a part in your understanding of the world though because by your own admission you think women speak more when science has proven that overall this is false and mens delusions directly contribute to this misconception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:00 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 01:46 PM
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I'm sorry. Maybe pay more attention to reality then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 01:42 PM
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Yes facts tend to comfort me. Do delusions make you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 01:32 PM
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You're giving me your perspective and are somehow confusing your experiences and delusions as indicative of all women and the majority of men. Your argument is the equivalent of "I've never been hungry so starvation isn't real." By your own admission you're surrounded by people who speak a lot and need affirmation. Change your social group and you won't have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 01:25 PM
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The experience of a few doesn't change facts though. Do you have anything to actually prove this is the case the majority of the time? If there's so much evidence then where is it? It seems like you may be confused and think your opinion is evidence - it's not. Is that a fact though? Again, your opinion isn't evidence and doesn't change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 01:08 PM
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You say the common experience for most men but do you actually have anything othet than personal experience to back this assertion up? You say I'm in denial and delusional yet you cant provide any actual evidence to back up your claim. The experience of some people doesn't equal proof that it's the experience of all. Not to mention studies have shown that men speak and interrupt more than women, yet still think they speak less. This makes me think you're one of those delusional men who just want…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 12:50 PM
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Common experience of some men, can you prove that the majority of women are this way though? Maybe, like you, these men keep finding women who need lots of interaction and affirmation because they need it as well. As I said, you may want to find more compatible partners since the ones you've been with seem to annoy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 12:14 PM
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Anecdotal evidence then. Seems like you just hangout with women who need a lot of interaction and affirmation. Do you hangout with women like this because you need lots of interaction and affirmation as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:54 AM
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Where are you getting this info from? And what world do you live in where this happens, because no guy has ever just shown up and fixed things in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:44 PM
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You can't have peace and quiet with women. It's in their nature to require attention, Yes you can, and no, it's not. Where are you getting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:39 PM
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If you need peace and quiet to be happy why not date someone who's the same? Its seems like you've been seeking out incompatible partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 11:59 AM
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Yes, people like attention from people they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 11:55 AM
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that you personally refuse to consider, Why consider people you're not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 11:54 AM
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There’s always that woman who thinks she’s “not like other girls” Those are girls, not women that think that way. It’s “cute” and “admirable” to not be like other women as long as the air-conditioning is working I'm confused, are you saying we like to think we're unique until something needs to be fixed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 11:52 AM
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