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Don’t mother him. Don’t do things for him. Make him pay his own way. The best motivator is necessity. What helps people with depression is having useful work to do and living social connections. So you can give him love but don’t take care of him.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 09:59 PM
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We actually bailed on my husband's family Christmas party this year. We just did not want to go and he told his mom he was sick and stayed home and played board games with friends. They just smoke tobacco and marijuana the entire time and watch stupid movies. They don't even talk to me. People don't like it when you're better than them, it makes them feeling shitty about themselves, so they insult you to bring you down. I also have Asperger's. I've learned to not care if people like me and to st…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/20 05:34 PM
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It’s customary for the woman to text the woman and the man text the man when there are two couples that are friends. The man and man can hang out and the woman and woman can hang out and all four can hang out. But the man and woman should text or have private conversations. So as a single woman to be friends with a couple you would text the woman and make plans to hang out with both at the same time or group chat with all 3. Does that make sense?
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/20 05:22 PM
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I had this problem before I met my husband. Even when I waited a while, until the guy asked for a monogamous relationship, and I got pumped and dumped. I had no idea why and it really hurt. Why would a guy say he liked me so much and even mention introducing me to his Mom and taking me home for Christmas and stuff like that. And then the day after having sex for the first time he ghosts me! My husband told me that I looked better with my clothes on than naked. I had just lost a bunch of weight a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:23 AM
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This is assuming monogamy. We evolved in a system of polygamy. One man can have multiple mates. In the past half the men didn’t have any children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:42 PM
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Eye contact is only creepy when it’s unwanted staring. Again, non-verbal clue should clue you in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:38 PM
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If a woman approaches a man he will assume its for casual sex. And men almost never reject casual sex. Even if the woman is not good looking, or if they are married. So 1 is debunked because there is no such things as out if her league when it comes to casual sex. If we’re talking about finding a husband, women tend to be attracted to more average looking men with good jobs. Average looking men will have less opportunity to cheat, making them better husbands. But you can’t tell someone’s job jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:30 PM
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Women don’t care about looks. So while women don’t find most men particularly attractive, that’s okay, because they care about other things. Men have a hard time wrapping their minds around this because that’s 90% of what they’re looking for in a wide and 100% of what they’re looking for in a casual sex partner. It would be stupid for women to walk up to men and ask them out because they don’t have any info to go off of. How are they supposed to decide who to ask out? They need to get to know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:48 PM
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OKCupid is where I met my husband. There are questions and they score you. My husband and I were 97%. There's even questions like "Would you date a virgin?" and "Would you be willing to wait until marriage to have sex?"
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 02:38 AM
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If the woman says "Hey, what do you think about marriage?" and the guy react negatively HE WAS NEVER GOING TO MARRY YOU!!!! They know whether they are using you for sex or want to commit. It's not a gamble to ask for what you want, because if he doesn't want to give it to you, then great, you're saving yourself time in a dead-end relationship. Why should she work on a relationship with no commitment? You're just putting energy into something that is temporary. If the point of relationships are c…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 02:32 AM
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You’re delusional. She didn’t complain that the relationship isn’t secure. She’s complained that she has nothing to do. And babies give women plenty to do. Stop being a baby hater.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 10:44 PM
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I didn’t say get knocked up without his consent. I said get married and have a baby. That will be bringing something to the table. A lot of men actually want a wife and children and love their wives for being great moms to their children. This is why guys will fall in love with the nanny so often. What’s the point in even having a relationship if it’s not to get married and have kids? What’s the point to anything without kids? Kids are the greatest joy in life and the biggest project you will ev…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 10:40 PM
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This isn’t a relationship problem though. This is like hints being too perfect. A baby really would solve her problem. What a dumb response. Think about it for a few seconds. She doesn’t have anything to do, babies give you plenty to do.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 04:57 AM
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You just need a baby. Get married and have a baby and you will be so thankful that he doesn’t need you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 09:35 PM
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It’s fine to have a casual relationship as long as these what your partner wants as well. Don’t manipulate someone into being an a relationship that makes them unhappy. You wouldn’t like it if someone did that to you.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:23 PM
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Always drive yourself! I had a first date and the guy mentioned his ex wife accused him of abuse and I was like check please. He then claimed he locked his key in his car and I was like oh, so sad, bye. And drove away. Not fucking with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:21 AM
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This reminds me of a memory! I had a cast on my broken ankle and even a slight nudge in the wrong direction was very painful. My boyfriend kept nudging my cast with his foot in the bed even though I was trying to keep it away from him. I would say “ouch” and he would say “that didn’t hurt”. This must have happened multiple times a day! I think it was a subconscious dominance thing, like if he could hurt me like that and get away with it then it meant that I was his bitch. And I just let it go ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:05 AM
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She unfriended me! Oh well so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:49 AM
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Oh no, not the “I’m offended. What does THAT even mean?” Karen is here. Just looking for her next self-riotous outrage fix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:16 PM
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It looks like he doesn’t have Facebook because I’ve never seen him tagged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:05 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s strictly unethical unless the promiscuous one lies. But it would be more ethical if they volunteered the truth. But on a practical level: if the promiscuous one wants to play that game they should make sure the relationship material person doesn’t find out they are a shady slut. If the other person knows their worth they will dump immediately. But if they have low self esteem they might stay. So for some really fucked up games the plate spinner will subtly convince their part…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 03:17 PM
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She literally said that men need to be pampered. She’s been with her boyfriend for 2 years and living together for 1 year. She’s always posting memes about how much she loves her boyfriend but I don’t see a ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:48 PM
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People don’t have their sexual kinks in their DNA and they have to discover it. Those men weren’t gay until they became gay probably from porn. Marriages between virgins have much lower divorce rates. When it was the norm to be a virgin when married society had much lower divorce rates. Children grew up in stable households with two biological parents who were married to each other much more of the time. Children who grew up with married parents have much better outcomes, less likely to commit c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:46 AM
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They CAN do whatever they want, but they SHOULD put the needs of their children above their own desires. Having another man in the home is extremely dangerous to children. And if the father of the children isn’t coming back then just be single and celebrate. In order to have a functioning society you need to put the needs of others, especially your children, before your own selfish desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:36 AM
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Yeah, you didn’t read the article. Rich people can just move away or stop working so much instead of paying taxes. You don’t want to kill the goose that lays the golden egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:33 AM
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Men being attracted to chaste women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:32 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laffer_curve
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:20 PM
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No LTR, step-fathers are dangerous. And you need to leave open a place in your life and your heart to get back together with the father of your children. Single parents should not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:19 PM
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Polio has been eradicated. And the reason that we still have the diseases despite the vaccine is either dirty immigrants coming in carrying diseases and/or the vaccine is not very effective. Vaccine compliance rate is very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:17 PM
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"Hey, honey, I really love you and I'm considering proposing, but I really need to have sex with you, to see if we are sexually compatible before I commit." "Yeah, no thanks. I don't think we're "sexually compatible", bye." That's dehumanizing as fuck. And sexual preferences and compatibility is something you learn and develop over time. It took years for my husband to find the g-stop and figure out this amazing thing he does to stimulate my g-stop and clit at the same time. It took him years to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:14 PM
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You can't just rationalize it away. It is deep in your animal brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:03 PM
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You can talk about those things. You don’t need to take a woman for a test drive and put her sexual skills to the test. That’s so dehumanizing. You develop sexually together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 09:56 PM
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The sexual compatibility stuff is such a lie. You need to test drive a woman and make sure her vagina is tight enough? Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 09:25 PM
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Well, it is talking specifically about getting rid of rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 09:24 PM
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The problem of many single men will be a problem that India and China will have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 09:09 PM
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If you make money and they find out they will come for their pound of flesh. How am I contradicting myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:36 PM
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Well, that’s nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:23 PM
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You don’t find chaste women attractive for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:22 PM
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Yes, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:22 PM
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The punishment is banishment aka excommunication. I can only banish you from the property that I own, not the entire country. The punishment would be shunning. I don’t want you crappy medical care or education, and I don’t want to pay. You just said the “then move” argument was bs and now you’re using it against me? I would love to live in the woods but the government still demands taxes. Let me opt-out and I won’t use any government services. Btw roads are paid for with gas tax, can I just opt-…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:20 PM
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You want to live in my society or you’re just tolerant of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:14 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:14 PM
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I don’t think abortion should be illegal. I’m an anarchist. You’re not actually disagreeing with me, you’re disagreeing with an ideology I don’t hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:13 PM
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I never said anything about jail time! WTF? I didn’t say two parents who hate each other have to stay together, they just can’t remarry somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:11 PM
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That’s what I’m talking about! I never said anything about forcing it on the world. WTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:09 PM
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To encourage stable families for children to grow up in. To make marriage a serious commitment. To prevent children from being abused by step-dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:08 PM
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Do you know how averages work? There are very few two parent homes in poverty and very common for one family homes. Having two shitty parents is shitty but that is the exception that proves the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:07 PM
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Mohammad never made a rule against birth control, otherwise they would be unaffected.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:05 PM
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People need an ideology or they will go insane. Building communities is what I’m talking about. And communities need rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:03 PM
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They can leave but they can’t get married to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:01 PM
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I am actually for a voluntary society. Not your bullshit throw people in jail if they don’t want to pay. The worst government ever have been communist, not religious at all. I don’t want to throw people in jail for not going along with my made up rules, that’s your fucked up ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:00 PM
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It’s not a thought provoking question. I have no interest in answering it. Look up stats about single mother households and look as societies where single motherhood is the norm. I don’t need to explain it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:55 PM
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While I agree that me s wages would go up compared to women’s I don’t think it would be that pronounced. Especially if you don’t find a way to stop men from dropping out of society for their video game and porn addictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:53 PM
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Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:49 PM
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Well, I learned something new today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:46 PM
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Those small groups in America are just examples of small but growing groups. The Muslims are a growing group that are huge and growing. It the FLDS and Mormons do t give women free choice in who to marry, which is important. Most would chose to be monogamous. Because women wouldn’t be powerless they could control the predators. Marriage is a great way to get new members. And when the entire world population is under my society then we can get rid of excess men by letting them go be monks or some…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:45 PM
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Women are drawn to men with money and status. If the society rewards thugs women will be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:36 PM
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Yeah I don’t think you’re going to have a high enough fertility rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:31 PM
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I love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:29 PM
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Exactly! You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:28 PM
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Dystopian for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:26 PM
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That’s crazy town. How would that be good for society? The gene pool would get really ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:25 PM
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All of my ex’s would have given me good references.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:21 PM
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Just because you may want to have sex with any woman you see doesn’t mean it should be socially acceptable to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:18 PM
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It failed quickly. One of the requirements of the exercise is that it has to be a stable society that doesn’t die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:13 PM
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Why would you want the pussy to spin?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:12 PM
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How would those two rules fix everything? How would marriage and procreation work?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:09 PM
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Very true. The MeToo movement is all about how society doesn’t care about sexual abuse. I know a guy who got throat cancer from HPV from giving oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:07 PM
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I replied to the wrong person. If there’s no fault divorce then how is marriage anything more than a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:01 PM
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I believe in free will and being able to make choices without violence. But people can be influenced by what they see and are told. Advertising works, companies spend a lot of money on it, and they aren’t wasting their money. They do it because it works. If you tell people something enough times they will believe it. They will even kill their own children and then we wracked by guilt or denial and go insane. You can tell an ideology is bad because it makes people go insane. I want to give people…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:59 PM
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But there’s no cap on spending, only on saving? That’s dumb. But off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:54 PM
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I’m using it the regular way, it’s in the dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:53 PM
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Sure, a single parent who isn’t dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:52 PM
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What does that mean? I’m using the dictionary definition of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:49 PM
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I’m not talking about forcing anybody to do anything or superpowers. Just social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:47 PM
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The Muslim population is growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:47 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:43 PM
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I’m so sick of repeating myself. Births are declining and populations are getting old. If trends continue the western world will go extinct. Having a clone army of children who never had a mother’s love is scary and evil. How is that ok but encouraging marriage isn’t? Newton’s pastor/family should have encouraged him to get married and helped match him up. We are not all lone wolves who are never influenced by others. Having people rely on the government for their income is a good idea? Nope. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:30 PM
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How would it get undesirable women out of the gene pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:18 PM
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But take away violence and you could still have a society based on traditional social norms. Like the Amish and Orthodox Jews. You can also have a totalitarian society that runs off violence to support left wing ideas like in China. The problem is the violence, not the conservative ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:17 PM
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Violence is not at all necessary to make my society work. People will want to immigrate there and join, far more than those who want to leave. The government is so far left it’s crazy for you to suggest we are going far right. The republicans had all three branches and they didn’t even try to reverse gay marriage. The government recognizes same sex marriage, gender transition, and mandates private insurance pays for it, allows sex change operations on children, allows abortions clinics, etc. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:06 PM
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That’s why society needs to guide women toward good men. That’s why a marriage needs the permission of the families and the pastor. There’s no reward for thugs in my society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:45 PM
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Yes, thank you. If we are in denial about human nature we will not be able to have a harmonious society. We should not make people feel guilty for natural feelings. It makes me sick to hear women say they accepted a date or even had sex with a man out of pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:28 PM
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This is actually traditional and it’s only us weird westerners that think polygamy is fringe. The FLDS are growing and so are the Amish and the quiverful people. Muslims also do this and they are growing. Everybody that doesn’t make births a priority is going to go extinct. We need to figure out a way to do it without letting the predators run things. If the society is a nice place to live then women from outside will want to move there and become second wives, increasing the breeding capacity w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:25 PM
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Voluntary segregation for HIV but mandatory vaccination for mild illnesses and banish them if they refuse. That’s so stupid. Make the HIV segregation mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:19 PM
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A lot of these ideas are fine ones. But I wouldn’t want to see it implemented on the government level. Like making private school illegal and stuff like that. People need the freedom to do what they want and to not participate in your system. Having the government indoctrinate all the people into their shitty ideology will make people brainless morons. And you didn’t address how to create high fertility and stable families.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:17 PM
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I actually did get references in an informal way from friends and family. You don’t have to get it directly from the ex. The friends and family know what they’re like and what went down in previous relationships. Even his mom and sisters will let you know if he’s an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:12 PM
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I’m not talking about forcing anyone to do anything. I’m talking about encouraging. There’s a big difference. If Joe doesn’t want to have kids fine. But most women do and should want to have kids or the society will collapse. People are sheep and think they want what society tells them to want. If society tells them to want to be a single slut with a career they will unhappily think they want that. If society tells women they want to get married and have kids they will happily do that. If benevo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 01:25 PM
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And your society dies off. You lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 01:21 PM
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The handmaid’s tale is really bad because they are violent, enslaved women and rape them. I’m not for any of those things. It’s a very dysfunctional society. But there is something about being taken care of, being a virgin bride to a strong man, not being expected to work a paying job is attractive to women deep down. Why do you think women are so obsessed with the handmaid’s tale?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 01:17 PM
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Those are big factors. But even people who want to get married and have kids often seem unable to do it. It all needs to be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 01:13 PM
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It still exists in some places.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 01:12 PM
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We need to reward men that make a lot of money, not thugs. Men like Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos should have hundreds of children. Isaac Newton should have been strongly encouraged to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 01:11 PM
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We do need more people. We need to worry about an underpopulation problem. The more people to better because people create value. The world with fewer people is going to be a very sad place. People are different but the fast majority have the same needs when it comes to love and sex. Most people are too stupid to make their own decisions and are miserable with freedom. But if someone doesn’t want to conform they can go join a different society. Social change happens when parents aren’t strict en…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 01:01 PM
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That wasn’t a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 12:51 PM
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And the Catholic Church that had a rule about everything and micromanaged Europe for over a thousand years was run by....men. The sheep are too stupid to make their own decisions, they need to be micromanaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 12:50 PM
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In the long run monogamy makes the gene pool and men weak. There are short term benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 12:48 PM
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Have fun living in a dysfunctional society, then. And then your life will suck. A functional society should be of such benefit that even selfish people will want to follow the rules in order to stay in it. But if not you are welcome to go be an individual by yourself or in a dysfunctional society that will have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 12:47 PM
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The kabutz cried that and failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:05 AM
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So everyone has lots of promiscuous sex and long relationships become very difficult even if they would be happier in a relationship. And what about stable families for children?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:47 AM
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Define stable? Lol. So after a generation or two of children being raised in unstable families society collapses. And no I don’t think single parents should date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:45 AM
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Yes obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:31 AM
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You mean back when we lived in tribes? Modern day dating isn’t working and eventually only Muslims will be left having babies. So you’re saying we should go back to the traditional ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:30 AM
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What if she doesn’t want to have sex with him because he’s being a jerk?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:14 AM
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So everyone is just having sex with everyone else? So then what? Who raises the children?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:13 AM
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But why would people work? Especially when they hit the limit they would just stop working. Would women get annoyed because men are constantly wanting to have sex with them? Would men get annoyed because women wouldn’t have sex with them? Would children have stable family structures? Or would it be mostly single moms with a parade of Mom’s boyfriends coming in and out of their lives? Are men expected to pay child support or be involved with their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 03:54 AM
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I think I’d go with the good old traditional polygamy. It may not sound like much fun, but it would create a high fertility rate and maintain a good gene pool by getting undesirable men out of the gene pool. The men would be taught that they shouldn’t have sex outside of marriage. They should be well educated and encouraged to make as much money as possible. The more money they make the more wives they can have. Men who are losers won’t be able to find a mate, but that’s better for society. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 03:43 AM
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Men and women are attracted to different characteristics for obvious reasons. We evolved to have gender roles. Men go hunting and bring home and meat and provide protection. While women are pregnant, breastfeed and do chores that don’t require a lot of strength and can be done with a child tied to your back. Like cooking and cleaning and gathering/gardening. Women are attracted to men who are big and strong and can do those things she can’t, and men are bigger on average so that works out. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 02:54 AM
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The solution is voluntary societies. The government should be stripped down to only dealing with violent crime, property crime, fraud, and things of that nature. Everything else should be left up to voluntary social societies. If you want to join one that believes in traditional gender rolls and lots of children and provides education for all those children then great. If you want to join one where you’re expected to use birth control and have orgies and they pay for your STD treatments and BC a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 07:57 PM
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Yeah, as an adult the entire “I steal to survive.” Thing didn’t fly with me. He’s an able bodied young man, get a job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:32 PM
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Yeah, women rarely leave a good enough husband for a better man. Usually they can't deal with what a loser he is and divorces him with no expectation of ever getting married again. But if we had polygamy it would be more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:58 AM
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Unless you’re a tranny you’re delusional. He is stronger than you and would win. Why don’t you wrestle or arm wrestle him and see? Especially that comment about being stronger than strong men. Lol. There is very little overlap in strength between the strongest women and the weakest men. But no woman is stronger than even an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 09:52 AM
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Next time accept the cash.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 01:19 AM
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Son! Definitely a son!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:46 PM
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See if you can find a local LOLA group or some republican women's group. Or church!
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 02:59 PM
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I've been engaged 3 times in my life. The first time it was his idea to begin with, he bought a ring off ebay, but he bought it on my computer and I looked at the history and saw it. I guess I should have pretended I hadn't seen it because he got miffed about that. I really wanted him to show me the ring when he got it and I just kept it and never gave it back and started wearing it. So he didn't really propose properly or anything. He later told me that this moment made him not want to marry me…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 01:18 PM
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I've never heard Ben say anything misogynist. I have not heard everything he said so I will be happy to change my opinion if given a clip. He is against feminism, but the same lib-feminism that people on this sub make fun of. And he's not for traditional gender roles in the home either, his wife is a doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:09 AM
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Brett Hawthorn Against porn, against men acting like pervs, against casual sex, thinks women should be treated with respect. This sub actually has a lot in common with traditional dating norms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:07 PM
1

What about before you were old enough to go to school?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:03 PM
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He's making fun of feminists who think that the only reason a woman would want to get married and have kids is because they were indoctrinated by the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:03 PM
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Do you want to have kids?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 11:01 PM
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You are both going to med school but you feel like you should be doing more housework? Do you plan on having kids and how will that work?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 08:47 PM
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I've checked out his podcast ad read one of his books. I do not know what you refer to. This subreddit believes a lot of the same things he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:45 PM
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Who took care of you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:37 PM
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Ben's dad was stay at home. I assume he means that one of the parents should be home. Unless you hire a nanny or have different shifts or both work part time or work from home I don't see how two working parents work. I don't want to work, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:20 PM
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I'm not afraid of my neighbors. Our kids all play together and my kid is going in and out of the house all day. The older kids keep an eye on the younger kids and tattle if they're bad. It's really expensive, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:04 PM
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I thought everyone did this....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:51 PM
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No, I am an extremely assertive and disagreeable person. He is even more so. I could not be with a man who was submissive or thought he was a victim of our legal system. He trusts me to not fuck him over in divorce court. Which I would not do, because I have morals. He could leave the country and move some place where the girls are cheap and they don’t extradite to America. And I would be fucked without his help raising our kids. Marriage is about trust and commitment. Women respect a man who is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 09:42 AM
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If he really wanted to be with you he would be begging you to move to be with him. He signed up for the military and is now a slave to the government and has to move wherever they tell him too. He obviously doesn’t have a problem with commitment. If you want to be a military wife and follow him around than offer to do that and if he says no say goodbye forever. If you aren’t willing to do that then you need to say goodbye forever. If you’re still single when he gets out of the military he can co…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/20 09:09 AM
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America. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 04:55 AM
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That’s literally the definition of family. Parents and children. You’re just a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 02:14 AM
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My husband wouldn’t allow me to treat him badly? So I don’t need to worry about treating him well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 02:10 AM
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She makes no sense in not wanting there to be any rules about sex. I remember she mentioned how in college they fought for the right to have boys in their rooms and go out all night without curfews. And complained about how joe young women want protection and rules because they’re afraid of being raped. And I’m like yeah, we need rules and boundaries to keep us safe. It was bullshit her generation got rid of them. It’s not working for us. When I went to college 15 years ago we had co-Ed dorms. T…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 04:20 AM
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I would be happy to see the government go. My husband can pay for private protection for our family. We don’t need socialized security or anything else, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:22 PM
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Isn’t Russia’s population decreasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:20 PM
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Oh, a marriage without kids isn’t a real marriage. You’re just playing house. The moment the first kid is born the egalitarian wife starts hating her husband and doesn’t understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:40 AM
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Okay...I guess I misunderstood. That whole improving yourself but not in the way women would like made me think you were practicing your shooting skills or some shit. What the hell are you talking about a future with equality with no sex or pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:04 AM
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It’s not about pleasing me, I’m already married. If you want to be in a relationship you only need to please that one woman. It doesn’t matter what anybody else thinks. It isn’t that hard to find a woman. You don’t need to use violence to try to force women to be with you. You think you’re going to join an Incel army and take over? You can’t force a woman to love you, do you really want to use violence to get sex? Why don’t you just get some woman from a 3rd world country? They would be grateful…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:35 PM
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You don’t have to start planning now. You just need to set a date. I was once engaged for s year and my fiancé refused to set a date. Turned out he never intended to marry me. My husband married me within 4 months of meeting me. Not all guys are going to want to get married that quickly, but they know whether or not they want to marry you right away.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 09:24 PM
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Do you have a wedding date set?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 05:51 PM
1

How old are your kids? Did you work when they were little? And if so you had no problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:06 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? I never demanded equality. You know that not all women are a hive mind, right? I believe in equality of human rights, but that’s all. Men and women should be treated differently. I don’t despise men or think they are unworthy of existing. You think you’re going to take over society and get rid of pregnancy and sex and create perfect equality but you can’t be bothered to improve yourself? Riiiight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:23 PM
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What do you mean by egalitarian?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:17 PM
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All women want a man who can be her captain. Liberal women don’t understand this and are confused about why they bitterly resent their husbands. After all, they do everything they’re told, why be angry with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:31 AM
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If you want a woman to find you attractive you might want to behave in attractive ways. Being emotionally unstable is not attractive. You can be single, lower your standards, or dance the peacock’s dance. And the same applies to women. A woman whining that men don’t find her attractive because she’s fat, you can lose weight, lower your standards, or be single. Life’s a Bitch. You want women to just pretend that they find emotional men attractive? That won’t work well. Our attractions are ingrain…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:29 AM
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That’s really dumb. Do whatever you want and be a genetic dead end if you want. The gene pool will thank you. But men and women evolved in certain ways because it works. Women have a huge burden when it comes to having kids. The a man will contribute to that the more attractive he will be to women. And to demand equality is ducking retarded. You going to be pregnant for 9 months, push it out your cunt and then breastfeed it? No, I didn’t think so. Equality is a retarded idea of modernity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:56 AM
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In college I had a friend who dressed like a slit and got lots of attention. These scummy guys would make nasty comments towards me because I wore t-shirts and genes and didn’t wear make-up or do my hair. There were often comments by my friend and others in regard to our looks. But I didn’t want sexual attention from fuck boys. I wanted a husband and would dress up for a date, but not every day life. And who finds a husband in the club? Men want a woman who’s not a slut so don’t dress like a slu…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 03:27 PM
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Women are attracted to a man’s actions more than his looks. Emotional stoicism is one of the most attractive qualities in a man across cultures. The woman is in the situation of getting pregnant and breastfeeding, a task that takes a lot of time and energy. It’s really great to have a man support you in that, traditionally by hunting and helping with other tasks. So men that are strong and capable, hard working, generous, dependable, loyal, are attractive. Looks are nice but a good looking man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 03:17 PM
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That does make me feel unsafe. Not because I’m afraid of him, but because I’m afraid of him not filling his responsibilities. Depression can be a big deal, I can’t carry the entire load by myself. I need a partner who can shoulder his load.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 03:13 PM
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Who says I don’t give emotional support? It doesn’t suck for him, I make him feel better by putting his feelings in perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 03:06 PM
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No, it doesn’t bother me to see him in emotional pain. We all have emotional pain, it is part of life. Accept it and move on from it, do something to improve your life. Emotional pain doesn’t bother me because I know that they are emotions. Emotions are a valid way to figure things out. Sometimes your gut knows something your brain doesn’t. Just like physical pain, it can be an important clue that something is wrong. But if it’s just labor then don’t let it bother you and work through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 02:51 PM
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Reconsider what? That I don’t like it when my husband breaks down to the point I worry about his ability to provide for our family? Being emotionally stable is one of the most attractive traits women have for men across the world in all cultures. A man who has emotional breakdowns is not optimally for just like a skinny man is not optimally strong and fit. Unfortunately my husband is emotionally sensitive and is always whining about something and sometimes has periods of unemployment due to his …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 02:45 PM
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My husband will tear up when he’s super proud of the kids or something and that’s attractive. Whining and “breaking down” to the point that I worry he won’t be able to fulfill his responsibilities to the family, no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:11 PM
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Nothing. I’m not a dude so what would I do? I marked with a bunch of girls and chatted with a few. They were really boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:56 AM
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I did this. I put something like “Looking for a wife. I have a good job and a big house.” It was incredibly easy. 90% of the girls profiles said that they wanted a real relationship not just a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 09:47 PM
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I would be grossed out if a man shaved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:10 AM
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So basically never is what you’re saying. This is really bad advice. You should work on these things WHILE dating, but do not think you need to have the perfect life BEFORE dating. Men can do that because they have time. Women have limited fertility and you better off getting a man as young as you can. There will be plenty of time to improve yourself while married.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 01:44 PM
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I agree that the Children’s chance of being abused goes up if you separate and he has the kids by himself for long periods of time. Hopefully your father laid down the law and he realizes how what he did was really wrong. Hopefully he will not do it again. I don’t think you really have to do anything at all.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 07:51 PM
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If the latch is better now I would encourage you to breastfeed directly and let your supply regulate to his appetite. It can be such a pain to figure it out without proper help, but once you get going it’s go easy. Also you can try a nipple shield. I did that with my first for a while, when she got nipple aversion from the NICU. But I breastfed her for 2 years and it was so easy once we go it figured out.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 03:44 PM
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Just take a deep breath and relax. You don’t need to be perfect. Why are you pumping and bottle feeding? I’ve done all 3, breastfeed, pump & bottle and formula. Breastfeeding is BY FAR the easiest. It does decrease your sex drive but that’s ok. You don’t have to be horny in order to have sex. My husband would watch the baby and I would go to bed early, like 8:00. That way when he went to bed at a normal time I was back on baby watch, waking up to take care of her. You don’t need to spend tons of…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 02:38 PM
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It’s not moralizing because I didn’t say it’s evil. I said it was not smart. Those are two very different things. Step dads have a high likelihood of abusing step children.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 06:19 AM
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How is it different? You shouldn’t deny your gut. You can express yourself in a healthy way, but why should we be concerned with the man’s feelings and not the other way around? Let your man know that you need to lean on him for emotional support sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 05:13 AM
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Yes we all need to take care of our needs and take time to chill out which might involve being alone. But in the long term an attitude of self indulgence is not going to make you happy. If you feel like your partner is ignoring your needs remember that you need to strike balance in your relationships. Don’t give too much to a person who doesn’t reciprocate. Women have a tendency to think they need to a martyr and always think of the other person and never of themselves. When in actuality most pe…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 03:40 PM
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This extravert introvert stuff is BS. If you are pretending to be someone you aren’t than you will quickly become exhausted. And we all need down time to relax and not be “on” or highly stimulated or being hyper aware of the needs of others. But I’m not talking about momentary feel good happiness. I’m talking about long-term contentment fulfillment.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 03:34 PM
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You find happiness is other people. You can’t make yourself happy and you shouldn’t try. Being around people who treat you well will make you happy. And being more concerned for other than you are for yourself. Have boundaries and don’t let people bring you down. But this self love bs is bs.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 04:06 PM
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For every negative thought force yourself to have two positive thoughts. So if you catch yourself thinking something bad about yourself give yourself two compliments. Your brain can get into the habit of negative thinking and it can get out of the habit as well.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 04:03 PM
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I’m noticing that this group and the alt-right are coming to the same conclusions about sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:55 PM
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I’m imagining you pulling out a knife, getting upset that it’s not sharp enough and berating your wife. After years of this she probably just ignored you and didn’t give a shit about the knives BECAUSE you were such an asshole about it. If my husband yelled at me about something retarded like that I would laugh in his face. I would tell him that if it was important to him he could buy his own knives that I wouldn’t touch and he can have his sharp knife obsession and leave me out of it. It’s craz…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 02:22 PM
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Only a crazy person wouldn’t respond positively to a partner trying their best. And you can tell if they are crazy before you marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:53 PM
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I’m 34. I don’t know many divorced people. We probably come from different cultures because I have never heard anything so simplistic when it comes to marriage. You live on the coast?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:50 PM
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You usually know these things going into the relationship. If she’s not that into you then you can tell. Most women won’t cheat, some women will. It’s not hard to tell which is which before you marry them. Before you propose ask your family and friends what they think of your girlfriend. If you are blind to her shortcomings they won’t be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:48 PM
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Sounds like you’re both emotionally reactive. Did you not know this about her before you got married? Did you try learning relationship skills and changing the way you dealt with her instead of just expecting her to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:44 PM
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I think we can all agree that the marriage and divorce system needs to be changed. Why is government even doing this? Let people write their own marriage contracts, religions would have standard ones they could use. And when there’s a divorce let them go to private arbitration like businesses do. Divorce lawyers are the worst. And relationship skills need to be something everyone is practicing and taking classes on. Our culture around how to have a functional relationship sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:41 PM
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Why did you choose to initiate the divorce? Did you think it would be easier than it was? Did your wife want to get a divorce? Good job choosing to not commit suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:31 PM
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The government shouldn’t be writing and re-writing marriage contracts. Let individuals and churches write their own marriage contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:21 PM
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Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:18 PM
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I’m sure that can be really frustrating for you because you want to have sex and women are able to get casual sex without trying. I would like to point out that incel women don’t even know the term and don’t hang out on those forums. I have a female incel friend who is a 38 year old virgin. You would never know it. She is good looking, fit, dresses well, has an active social life, has a career, goes on vacations, she even has a boyfriend. She is Christian and refuses to have sex before marriage.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:15 PM
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Because that high value woman is not going to accept cohabitation without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 11:13 PM
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I one googled how to prevent divorce and got lawyer ads for months. It’s pretty messed up. But I would like to point out that first time marriages have a lower divorce rate than 50%. The people who keep getting married and divorced multiple times skew the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:28 PM
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Why get married? Okay, I’ll bite. Married men lead longer, happier, healthier lives. They are wealthier and are less likely to become poor. If you get sick your wife can earn money and take care of you. Married men have more sex. A wife could cook for you and do things for you to make your life easier. You don’t have to be alone and always have someone to be with. You can have children, which are the greatest joy in life. And later you can have grandchildren which are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:21 PM
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What do you mean current lifestyles are not compatible with marriage? We are free to live however we want, but how do we want to live? I see this myth over and over. The divorce rate for first time marriages is much lower than 50%. And it’s not a random chance. Your decisions affect the outcome. If you choose to be loving to your wife every day the marriage will be a happy and long one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:15 PM
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That’s something they say when they break up with someone they’ve been dating for a few weeks. That’s not a reason to get divorced. Did she never love you? Did she fall out of love? Why did she fall out of love?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:10 PM
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You can continue to seduce your wife. You just have to put in a little bit of effort and most women will be very happy with their husband. You need to understand something about women. This is very important. Women don’t like sexual attention from other men. The only time a woman is accepting of attention from another man is when her husband is ignoring her. If you and your wife both believe that divorce is a choice, you need to treat each other well to keep the marriage happy, and that a happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:07 PM
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Have you considered that divorce isn’t a random probability. It’s something that two people (or one person) chooses. The actions and decisions and beliefs affect whether or not you choose to get divorced. Yeah the outside world, the social norms, the laws affect your attitudes and decisions but it’s still a choice in the end. Our culture tells us this myth that you have to pick the right person or you are destined for divorce. But that’s not true. Who to marry is a big decision, but every day yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:58 PM
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Good luck on your search!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:56 AM
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Why did you get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:55 AM
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Why did you get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:54 AM
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So you would not be comfortable with a wife who didn't have a career in today's system?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:52 AM
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So are you married to someone who does those things? Or looking for a woman who will?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:50 AM
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Aww, that's so sweet in a way. Of course nothing is perfect, but it could be said that men had a better deal back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:49 AM
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Why? And what change to the marriage laws would change your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:48 AM
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Are you a Chad, Incel or MGTOW? What changes to the marriage/divorce laws would make you consider marriage? Would it change anything if you could marry multiple women? What if there was no no-fault divorce? Or if they couldn't get child/spousal support if they divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:48 AM
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You don't want a woman to challenge you or expect you to live at a certain standard? Those sound like good things to me. Some women would rather be single than compromise their standards. And it sounds like some men like you would rather be single than compromise their standards as well. This isn't really a problem until men demand that women lower their standards and give them no-strings attached sex. In reality marriage is one of the best things you can do for your lifetimes happiness, financi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:09 AM
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Yeah, the guy needs to be able to hold down and job and probably make more money than the woman. And he needs to not be significantly uglier than the woman, unless he’s very rich. There are plenty of young women looking to settle down, maybe without the same urgency of an older woman. The requirements are high for a high value woman. But a low income single mom who isn’t attractive will take anything she can get. And I don’t think these guys that think they aren’t sending “I’m looking for a hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:22 AM
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Exactly! I wonder how many incels realize that they could probably find a wife if they were willing to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:11 AM
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What do you mean women don’t have to try? They don’t have to try to get sex. But they try really hard to get and keep a man in a long-term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:08 AM
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I know plenty of women who are single for a very long time! Single women can get sad about it but they don’t get angry and tell people it’s their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 11:51 AM
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That only explains 1% of men being incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 11:49 AM
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Are you sure about that? Are these men approaching women in such a way that is sending the message that they are looking for a wife or looking for a hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 11:47 AM
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Men are the ones whining about not getting laid. Women don’t seem to care about being single that much. They might get sad about it but they don’t get angry and blame people for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:39 AM
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There’s more men than women? In China??? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:30 AM
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They’re willing to do anything to have sex except for actually get married? Lol What is it that men are telling women to do in order to help the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:10 AM
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Women hate being hit on, sexualized, having guys begging for sex, demanding sex, sending dick pics, etc. women have gotten so tired of loser guys trying to fuck them that men become disgusting. A woman wants to have a romance with a man who doesn’t pressure them for sex, wants to commit to a life together, is a natural leader, is the bread winner, wants to have children and isn’t scared or overly emotional. But when all you see are loser guys who don’t want to commit who just want to have sex it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:07 AM
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Never have heavy conversations over email or text. Phone is not as good as video chat which is not as good as in person. If he only lives 2 hours away why aren’t you having this conversation face to face? How often do you see each other? What is the plan for the future of this relationship? When I was dating I would feel insecure and I would tell myself I was being silly, but my gut was always right. These guys just weren’t that into me and I was never insecure about my husband’s affection for m…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 04:26 AM
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Our instincts aren’t that logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:28 AM
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Any context. My husband asked me out after I randomly sat next to him at a movie theater. In the lobby he started talking to me and asked me on a date for the following Friday. Keep it classy and non-sexual and you can do it in almost any context.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:02 PM
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The bar for willing to go on a date with a guy is much lower than being willing to go to bed with a guy. Sure, you have to be a functioning adult, not terribly ugly or smell bad, but the bar isn't very high for going on a date. And if she says no take a no with grace and move on, no problem. If you're getting rejected a lot, lower your standards until you get success.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:56 PM
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Attractiveness is not even the top thing that women look for in a man. If they're going to have meaningless sex than they will pick a very attractive man, yes. But in a study where an attractive actor went up to women and asked them to have sex 0% women said yes, not a single woman said yes. An attractive woman doing the same to men, I forget the % but it was a fast majority said yes. All men are getting rejected when they come at women for sex. Just try it! Ask a woman out on a date and see wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:45 PM
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But women want to be asked out on dates! Try it, I bet you will be surprised. But make sure you keep any hint of sex out of it. Something nice, taking her out into public and doing something fun or just dinner. Women will love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:18 PM
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You're dumb -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:02 PM
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You think my husband is lying to me about not having sex until he was 21? LOL. I lost mine at 17 so he has no reason to lie. To me being an alpha means being a good leader, having high social status, etc. Not being a man slut going around begging or negging random women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 06:56 PM
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Dead bedrooms are an extreme minority, and when it happens there's usually a serious reason. These problems are preventable and fixable when they do happen, it's not a random thing. Just put in the effort and you'll probably be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 06:53 PM
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What? You think that men can't get first dates? I can tell you how if you want. On dating sites send a message that indicates that you read the profile, aren't interested in a one night stand or a fuck buddy, how that you are interested in taking them out on a date and not just "netflix and chill". Apparently a woman being asked out on a date is rare now-a-days. I've been married for 6 years, before tinder. If I got a message on a dating sex with anything sexual I would ignore it. If you send me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 06:47 PM
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he “that’s the mother of my children” is very different. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fwK7ggA3-bU So I cross my heart and I hope to die That I'll only stay with you one more night And I know I said it a million times But I'll only stay with you one more night So I cross my heart and I hope to die, yeah, yeah That I'll only stay with you one more night, yeah, yeah And I know I said it a million times, yeah, yeah But I'll only stay with you one more night, yeah, yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 06:21 PM
5

No, lol. I’m a woman. My husband was a virgin until he was 21 because of his morals. He is very high T. He is an alpha and gets as much sex as he wants. Being an alpha doesn’t have to mean fucking random chicks, it means being a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:35 AM
1

I’m sure you can find a woman who is fine with being with an introvert. Remember, you only need one. All the rest don’t matter. I went on many many first dates before finding my husband. Just keep on meeting new people until you find the one that you click with. A positive attitude wouldn’t hurt, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:32 AM
6

It screams “get married” because married couples have sex 3 times a week on average. And I’m sure there are young men in that group who don’t want to have sex until they are ready. Nothing wrong with a man choosing to be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:25 AM
1

You’d make a good husband but if you have to put in effort you wouldn’t want to keep the girl around? You have to understand that women think differently about sex and relationships than men do. It’s programmed into us by evolution. We can get pregnant and we are vulnerable and could starve to death if we don’t have help. If we have sex with a man who just wants to pump and dump us than ourselves and our children are less evolutionarily fit. If we make a man invest in our relationship, marry us,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:17 AM
1

Why would a woman want to be in a LTR with a fair weather boyfriend? They want to know you’re willing to invest in a relationship and stick around when it goes and get tough. It’s sounds like you’re not interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:55 AM
2

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2LyzBoHo5EI
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:31 AM
1

It’s not about winning, it’s about not raping people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 03:39 AM
1

Perhaps that’s how you understand it, but the original poster did not bring up the timing of the no. He said rape is bad but I wanted to be sure we all understood what rape is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 03:39 AM
12

In the 50s they weren’t having sex on dates. When we were expected to put out immediately they also expected us to be exclusive immediately. Then you end up in a dead end relationship for years because you agreed to go on a few dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:23 AM
1

So what did you say when she asked you what you were doing for the New Year?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 04:35 AM
2

I think that we should balance the happiness of the individual and the functionality of the society as a whole. I think that we are too far individualistic right now. There is a deep unhappiness in living in a society that doesn’t function well, a deep underlying sadness. I believe in individual rights, that should never be infringed. I think it would be a good idea to adopt social norms that would find a better balance between individual hedonistic pleasure and the long-term well-being of every…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 04:34 AM
0

No, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:46 AM
2

I’m not against education, but if we could figure out a way to convince people not to have sex outside of marriage that would be great. Can you elaborate on what you mean about sex not being a means to an end? Are you referring to China’s one child policy? I don’t want any law passed against consensual sex. I don’t think that recognizing the effects of sex on the individual, family and society leads to totalitarian control of consensual sex. There is room for healthy social norms that are good f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:04 AM
1

Their animal brain wanted to but their conscious brain didn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:43 AM
1

My cousin was a virgin homeschooled Christian and married a childhood friend who was the same. He’s a high value man who owns his own business. It’s not impossible but they get married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:51 PM
1

Because I’ve talked to so many women who have done the same thing. She’s probably saying to her friends how she didn’t mean to have sex but she couldn’t help herself. She didn’t say that she wasn’t going to have sex with you as a lie. She meant it when she said it. Like the person on a diet who says they won’t eat the office birthday cake but gives in and eats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:49 PM
1

By come back I think he meant come back to his place. Yes, haven’t you ever said no to something but was then tempted or pressured into doing it? Going out when you have to study? Eat a piece of cake when you’re trying to diet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:43 PM
2

There is no 100% way of preventing pregnancy or STDs except not having sex. But also for social and emotional reasons. Sex is a powerful way to bind together husband and wife and is the backbone of a stable society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:39 PM
2

I don’t believe in sex before marriage so I’m going to have to disagree with that last bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:36 PM
2

I didn’t say girls don’t have to take responsibility for their actions. Where did you get that? He didn’t say ok, leave and she chased after him. They were on a date and he was using every tactic he knew to try to get her in bed. You even been talking into doing something you didn’t really want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:33 PM
4

Married women do. And married men get more sex than single men. You just have to actually give your wife orgasms and she will have sex with you. Also, there are a lot of hormonal issues, sometimes people need to get hormone replacement therapy. Sometimes it’s because they hate their spouse. Plenty of people have happy marriages and have lots of sex. There’s studies you can look up about how married sex is better. And you don’t have to use birth control! Hormonal birth control kills a woman’s lib…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:18 PM
2

The best is a high value man who doesn’t choose to sleep with lots of women because he has morals, but he could if he wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:13 PM
2

Yeah, that’s called marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:02 PM
1

It’s a shit test. Men try to get sex without commitment from women as a shit test. They do want sex, but they don’t want to invest in a relationship with a woman who is easy. They want to marry a woman that will be chaste so they can feel sure their kids’ are actually theirs. This is all programmed into their brains by evolution. They want to impregnate lots of women that they don’t give a shit about. And they want to marry women that would be good wives and mothers and invest in those children.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:59 PM
2

Girl: “I don’t want to have sex with you.” Guy: “We will see about that.” They have sex Me: “Yep, she didn’t want to have sex with you.” BilboBagginghole: “Was he supposed to read her mind?”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:48 PM
3

News flash. She didn’t want to have sex with you. Maybe she drank too much or just fell to temptation but she doesn’t feel good about what happened now. She’s hating herself for having sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:52 PM
9

If you’re about to stick your dick in her and she says no and you’re thinking “oh, she’s doesn’t actually mean it” and stick it in, that’s rape. If she doesn’t physically resist, it’s still rape. Maybe stop trying to have sex with women that don’t want to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:47 PM
1

Women have a surprisingly low rate of cheating, but there is a phenomenon where a woman with a good provider husband “beta” will cheat during ovulation with the “alpha” and have his children while tricking the beta into raising them. But this is actually quite rare. Single women will end up having uncommitted sex because that’s what society teaches them to do but it’s not really what they want. They do it hoping for love and marriage. These women eventually go insane from being rejected and chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:02 PM
1

What about it is nonsense? I’m not even familiar with blue pill. I read a lot of evolutionary psychology. Please tell me what I got wrong. I’m an old married lady, I don’t have a horse in this race.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:31 PM
1

Lovely
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/19 04:31 AM
2

It’s a bad idea to date someone from a different background. Any language married or culture confusions would just make life more difficult. What do you mean by hooked up? You sucked his dick? Don’t do that next time. Keep it in public and don’t go back to either of yours houses. If your gut said he wasn’t that into you than I would trust your gut.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 05:04 PM
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If you want kids lie and say you don’t, you don’t want to pressure him. Don’t judge a guy for how much money he makes, you don’t want to be a good digger. You need a big expensive wedding that takes years to save up for. Don’t get married young. You need to have sex with lots of different guys before settling down. You should let guys have sex with you even if you don’t really want to because you should be nice. Don’t make a scene if someone sexually assaults or harasses you, people will think y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 02:55 AM
2

That sounds really nice but unfortunately men aren’t monogamous by nature. Western monogamy is actually really strange in context of the worlds cultures and through history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:33 PM
0

Yeah, maybe he was a good husband. Maybe he could have been a good husband to both of you. It would be interesting if we started practicing polygamy again. If a guy can support multiple wives and all their children and is a good husband and father why shouldn’t we share the good ones? Monogamy only works if ALL the women honor the girl code and don’t fuck with married men. Unfortunately we do not live in that situation now and we got the worst men impregnating lots of women and high class men ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:40 PM
16

Men will definitely lust after other women even if their wife is perfect and always willing to have sex with him. Men are not monogamous by nature. It’s only their morals that stop them from cheating. And what options do you think average women have? They don’t WANT to hook up and just have sex. They want to get married to a man who wants to raise children with them and financially support them while they raise the children. That’s why they want a man with a decent job. Stop whining about it and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:48 PM
2

Very true! You can never talk a man into wanting to marry you or give you children.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/19 04:55 AM
4

I’m a 34 year old wife and mother. It was my goal! I worked as a nanny for practice before I got pregnant with my first. I taught myself about parenting/child development, cooking, nutrition, homeschooling, birth. Once you’re in the thick of it you don’t have as much time to read. I do listen to audiobooks a lot while I’m cleaning. There’s lots of different homeschooling styles to learn about. A mistake I made is letting a loser waste my time and fertility. There was my high school boyfriend who…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 02:33 PM
3

I guess you’re just a better person than the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:05 PM
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Well, there’s a difference between a man wanting to marry a woman and toxic sexual chemistry. Sometimes a man really wants to fuck a woman and even when he tries to leave he can’t make himself stay away. I think there’s a maroon 5 song about that. The “that’s the mother of my children” is very different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:21 AM
2

I didn’t say you weren’t. Re-read what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:38 AM
2

If you’re not having sex how would you know if you had ED?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:30 AM
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But how is that the woman’s fault? When I was dating 7 years ago I first experienced guys with porn induced ED. Before that my boyfriends hadn’t had access to high speed internet and porn before having real sex and they weren’t big porn users. But when I did online dating and meeting men that had been using a lot of porn for a long time from a young age I kept having this situation where we would try to have sex, the guy couldn’t stay hard and couldn’t orgasm. They would get frustrated and I’m i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:19 AM
2

And how hard did you look for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:10 PM
1

Who doesn’t have a rocky marriage? If you expect life to be perfect before you’re willing to live it, it will pass you by.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:23 AM
0

What did I say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:21 AM
1

I don’t think it really has anything to do with looks. You didn’t get married and have kids because you didn’t really care to. If you do you would have made it happen. It’s a cultural thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:11 PM
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I just saw from your profile that you’re black. I’m sure our grandmothers’ experiences of the 50s were completely different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 11:23 AM
0

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2019.1672036?journalCode=hjsr20 15% more orgasms. People in the 50s were having great sex! Go ask your grandma. The men didn't have porn, weren't fat, and didn't have a phone to distract them. What do you think the past was like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:57 AM
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Does he earn the money and support you? If so not really doing anything around the house isn't so bad. By run the household what do you mean exactly? If you want him to do a household chore what do you do? Do you nag, whine, yell? How does he react? What is he doing with his time? Watching TV and playing videos and jerking off to porn? What would happen if you just stopped taking care of him? How is his diet? Does he have low testosterone? Was he always this way or did it develop?
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/19 06:01 AM
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Because women didn't require it of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:22 AM
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"Maybe abstinence really is the answer." Yes, yes it is. Sexual revolution was a failed experiment, glad to see it go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:56 AM
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" Ever since HBC (Hormonal Birth Control) came on the market, men have acted like they’re stuck on stupid as to how babies are made. I don’t know why men today think that because of this new option that just became available 50 years ago, men are completely absolved of responsibility for controlling their own fertility. How do you think your grandfather got laid before HBC (Hormonal Birth Control)? " Yeah, they act stupid because women ALLOW them to. Women used to demand men wait until marriage.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 02:58 AM
1

Then leave those countries!
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 10:09 PM
99

I saw the Adam Ruins Everything episode about breastfeeding and he said that breastfeeding takes about 40 hours a week. Yep, that doesn’t mean give them formula and get your ass back to work. It means that’s your full time job and it’s the man’s job to make money. And if a man doesn’t want to support his wife and kids than he doesn’t deserve to have his genes continue in the next generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:48 PM
1

Who makes up that they’re a rapist for attention?? I’m sure he is a rapist and wanted to know if you were ok with being raped. Porn has messed with these boys’ heads. You said lots of negative things about yourself. Saying you weren’t 100% where you wanted to be and it stood out how you always felt the need to put yourself down. When my preschool daughter hides behind me when a stranger approaches and they say “Oh, she’s shy.” Or “Don’t be shy.” And want to be like “She’s not shy, she’s acting a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 05:45 PM
2

I don’t think there’s any appeal. The governors and the president can pardon anyone. Nixon was pardoned by his Vice President when he resigned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:53 PM
2

I’m very concerned that you said you were willing to hook up with this guy if he didn’t want a relationship. Don’t have sex, don’t hook-up. Block any guys who asks for nudes or send you nudes and shut down any talk about sexual stuff. You said you became religious in the last year, that’s good. Stick to that and stick to your sexual morals. Sex is a temporary good feeling but will leave you with a much longer bad feeling. When a guy uses you for sex it feels like shit. I lost my virginity at 17 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:24 PM
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I know a couple where the woman is a charge nurse and the husband is unemployed. She ALWAYS on call and works crazy hours. So sad. There aren’t even any children for him to be taking care of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:43 PM
15

Can confirmed, I worked as a nanny for a family where the man was a surgeon. He was NEVER home and when he was he was on the phone with patients. Also lots of traveling and going to third world countries to do charity work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:35 PM
10

I’m confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:31 PM
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My husband knew right away. We were married within 5 months of meeting. Now we’ve been married 6 years and have 2 kids so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:30 PM
15

I knew a woman who was living with her boyfriend for 5 years! They were “engaged” to be married in 3 years without a ring, basically her nagging let to him giving her a breadcrumb with the excuse of “saving for the wedding” that would never come. Well, she got pregnant and was shocked when he bounced. Just because a woman wouldn’t do that doesn’t mean a man wouldn’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:59 PM
7

Sounds like a good excuse to not have sex before marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:47 PM
1

Where does homeschooling not work??
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 07:31 PM
-1

Let his genes and memes die with him! Our grandchildren will be better off without his grandchildren in the gene pool.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 07:28 PM
1

You need to find a faith community so that your children can find a partner raised with similar values. In the very long term things will work out through evolution. The genes and cultural memes that lead to low birthrate will be weeded out. The Duggar’s and the Kardashians will propagate their genes and memes through the population. You just need to shield yourself from mainstream society for now. That means no public school! K-12 or college. The divorce laws don’t matter if you don’t get divor…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 07:24 PM
1

When are you getting married?
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 07:19 PM
4

My husband’s cousin got a PhD is philosophy. We used to be able to have fun, lively debates before he completed his PhD. But now he fashions himself a professor and thinks he can demand respect. Last time we talked he told my husband I was a psychopath because all his students agree with him, only the few psychopaths with disagree. I didn’t major in philosophy, I just read about it as a hobby. He wasted so many years of his life, has massive amounts of student loan debt and still knows less than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 06:12 PM
3

Oh yeah, I would drive myself and meet the guy at the restaurant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:36 PM
4

I would suggest instead of drinks for s first date you do an inexpensive restaurant or even lunch. Though the guy should be planning the dates, when I was dating I would suggest a cheat Mexican restaurant near me for lunch. Because I never knew who would pay or not. My first date with my husband was there. Drinks suggest late night, getting drunk and then he’s hoping going back to your place for sex. Lunch on your work break is really casual and non-sexual and short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 02:26 PM
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He plans the date and he pays. If he wants to plan an expensive date that’s on him. There is no such thing as equality, only balance. You are giving your valuable time. His time is not as valuable because men tend to get higher status as they get older. Married women shouldn’t be giving their husband money either. The mans money is for both and the woman’s money is for just her. I haven’t worked a paying job since I got pregnant 5 years ago. It’s the mans job to financially support his woman. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 02:20 PM
6

Reminds me of this music video from The Crazy Ex-Girlfriend. So much truth in that show. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bkAjUBtn_TM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:05 PM
2

I guess I felt responsible because I had been financially supporting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:24 PM
2

Then yeah I could see waiting until after the holidays. I would suggest in the future being careful about who you date and get attached to. When I was dating I went on a date with someone I matched with on OKCupid. He said that he didn’t want kids and was even looking into getting a vasectomy. I knew I did want to have kids so I suggested we just be friends. A week later I met my now husband and he took me to a party for our second date. And then the guy who didn’t want kids walked in! He was su…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 10:21 PM
13

Omg that’s so true. I broke up with my loser ex and bought him a car as a breakup present. I for some reason felt bad because I financially supported him. I was even paying his car insurance. Then 6 months later in the middle of the night he calls me and is screaming at me because he got pulled over and the computer said he didn’t have insurance on his car! The car actually was still insured and I sent him proof of insurance and straightened it out! Whyyyy? He always blamed all his mistakes on m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:48 AM
4

I use my instant pot to make stock.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 03:39 AM
2

Do you live together? Do you go to each other’s families holiday stuff? Will you be hanging out with him and his son? How is it that you dated for 2 years before realizing you wanted kids and he didn’t?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 03:33 AM
1

Married people throw around the d word all the time. You have to be very careful that you marry a person that believes in the sanctity of marriage, most people don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 03:14 AM
2

Marriage no longer offers security. The guy can divorce you at any time and no one will blame him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:50 AM
1

Men’s incomes rise by getting married. A single guy who can get free sex with little effort has no motivation to get a good paying job. A man with a wife and children he loves and takes pride in providing for, that gets him to work. When I met my husband he was unemployed playing video games on his mom’s couch. He got a job bc he wanted to take me out on dates, got a better paying job so I could quit working, got really motivated when our first was born. Now he makes 100k and supports me and our…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:30 AM
1

Women aren’t entitled to a man spending his money on her and a man isn’t entitled to spend time with her. It’s the traditional way of doing things and it worked. Things fell apart when women started giving it away for free. Men have been paying for sex for forever and you’re going to start whining about it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:15 PM
1

The one time my mother was sexually assaulted was the one time she asked the guy on the date. She told me to never ask a guy out because he will think you want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:59 PM
1

I would let him know that lying is unacceptable. And that he can make it up to me...somehow. You all are so sensitive. You’ll reject every guy until you’re an old maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:30 PM
2

What is so great about this guy that you like him so much when you haven’t even spoken to him over the phone? Have you only seen pictures of him? Only communicating to him through writing? I’m worried that he could be completely different than you are imagining him. And you already have a boyfriend? This is very confusing. Why are you so scared to call him or meet him? Why do you want to delay meeting for so long?
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/19 08:06 AM
3

Men complain about how fat and ugly women are now, dying the hair weird colors and super shirt haircuts etc. But you know what? I feel more comfortable being overweight because the sexual harassment stopped immediately. In a society where men are constantly demanding sex in public, at school, at work, being fat and ugly is your best defense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:50 AM
1

What are you getting your graduate degree in?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 03:33 AM
15

You shouldn’t be crying and carrying on when he didn’t even yell. You both need to chill out. It’s winter time. Are you taking a vitamin D supplement? He needs to accept that things won’t always go right, mistakes will be made. If he yells or insults you set boundaries by saying “ You can’t talk to me like that.” He probably feels disrespected that you left the stock out. Let him know that you respect and appreciate him and ask him how you can make it up to him. But also let him know that yellin…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 01:26 AM
1

Don’t have sex until you’re married. Don’t go to his house or your house. Just meet in public and drive yourself. If something embarrassing happened during sex that might have turned him off. Long term virgins often get ED from too much porn and when they do have sex it’s a disappointment. Or maybe he lost interest because you gave it up too easy. Whatever it was, he lost interest, move on and don’t have sex with the next guy. And don’t text so much! Be like “Okay, see you at our next planned da…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 12:57 AM
0

I saw Ben Shapiro's speech live and I saw the comments full of knife emojis. And then the next day I saw his reaction to the speech and he was playing with a knife the entire time. A long knife. That was enough for me, no thanks. I'm no fan of Zionism but I'm not into violence either. I do like the idea of "policing our own" like the left does and making conservatives actually be conservative or they get criticism. Like how is it conservative family values to be speaking with a loud and proud so…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 09:22 PM
2

Oh, I didn't realize keeping yourself and your child safe is impractical. Keep it to lipstick shade. Remember ladies, society doesn't want you to be realistic and protect yourself, just look pretty and only care about other peoples feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 06:31 PM
2

I thought this sub was for dating advice for the best interest of women, not the country. Who gives a fuck about alienating male veterans? This is for women only. I didn't say never tell them you have a kid, I said don't put it in your profile. But the fact remains, they are trained killers and statistically speaking not the safest men to date.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 06:27 PM
1

Not in your dating profile! Bring it up on the first date, but don't advertise and attract the perverts.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 06:21 PM
2

I'm a paranoid lunatic? Have you looked at the statistics for girls abused by step-fathers? Or for vets? Let's just invite trained killers into our homes with our defenseless daughters because he's just so dreamy. Give me a break.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 05:45 PM
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Don't get so excited about a first date. You need to chill. I hope you didn't put it in your dating profile that you have a daughter or put pictures of her because that's how you attract pedophiles. Military men are way more likely to go psycho and abusive or have other mental health issues. There should be no sexual touching and no talk about sex. This is a first date, you're getting to know someone new. Just wear whatever make-up you usually do to go out.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 05:08 PM
2

It's not unhealthy for your happiness to depend on another person. But you aren't nothing if you're single! It's not hard to find a husband, just keep lowering your expectations until you find someone.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 02:24 AM
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Okay, here's my advice. 1) Do you want to be a lawyer or a wife and mother? You can't realistically do both because you're already in your life 30's. If you wait until after you graduate law school you will be too old to have children. If you have kids in your 30s than you could go back and become a lawyer possibly when your kids are older. You could go to school while they go to school. So that would mean 5 years after having your youngest, going back to school. That's not so long to delay your…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 02:18 AM
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Okay, I think I understand better now. I have a few more questions. I would still really like to know your age. Late twenties? Early thirties? Don’t feel ashamed. Do you want to one day get married and have kids? If so how many? And how do you see that fitting in with your career goals? From your original post it sounded like you are very attractive. Would you say that’s accurate? Are you religious? Member of a church?
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 12:00 AM
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Sundays are my day to do what I want while my husband takes parenting duty. I will sleep in, yay. And hang out with a friend. Just getting out of the house and talking face to face with an adult is all I need. And sleep.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 09:16 PM
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This is what I did for first dates: I would suggest a lunch date at my favorite Mexican restaurant that had cheap meals 5 minutes from my house. I would reach for my purse when it was time to pay and pay for my meal if he didn’t insist on paying. Hence the cheap restaurant. I had the same dress for every first date with matching jewelry. I didn’t do nails or anything like that. But I had my beautician friend help me figure out a hair and makeup style. I hit the gym and dieted. I drove myself the…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 09:09 PM
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Before giving advice I have a few questions so I can better understand the situation. How old are you? What are your family obligations and how long do you expect to have them? What are these self improvements that you want to make? You mentioned going to school, can you tell me more about that? What do you want to major in and what career are you interested in? Is online sales and social media what you want to do for your career? Do you have the ability to travel to your nearest city weekly?
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 08:46 PM
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If by cool girl you mean someone that pretends to be ok with behavior from a guy that they’re not actually ok with or pretend to be interested if things a guy is, than you shouldn’t try to be a cool girl. I’m reminded of the journal entry from “Gone Girl” about it. Just be genuine. Don’t throw a fit and be crazy if a guy does something you don’t like. But have boundaries and express them in a respectful way. Not passive, not aggressive, but assertive. Respect yourself and your man.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 05:58 PM
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