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Alternative step 2: https://youtu.be/0rXwXXHh-Mk?t=1m21s
/r/askTRP08/09/17 11:11 AM
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Men usually prefer to overcome inner issues in solitude. He's crying at night, because he doesn't want to look weak in front of you (or anyone else). That's good. A sort of male get-out usually helps. "Hey man, wanna go grab a beer this evening and shoot some shit?" - and don't talk about his current situation, unless he explicitly brings it up. Try to cheer him up, scout some local talent, play pool, or xbox, whatever - try to get his mind off the current misery. If he declines, let him know th…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 11:04 AM
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First of all, this belongs in asktrp. Second of all, if you read the theory (sidebar), you have the answers on what to do. No, actually, you KNOW what you need to do and what happened - you wrote it yourself. It's just that you're hoping that someone here might tell you what you want to hear so you could easier rationalize to yourself the stupid shit you're about to do. Stupid, foolish hope. What for? She ain't the girl of your dreams. You just think that right now. I wrote before - if you think…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 10:47 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=78-4RobJQ0Y "It only cost you 20$ to get rid of him. He's never gonna bother you again, he's never gonna ask you for more money, he's out of your life for 20$, you got it off cheap, forget it" I think this scene is genius portrayal of the the attitude one should have in life. Sure, it might feel like you spent so much time and money for the girl only to dump it all, but think of it other way around - what if she didn't do it now, but 5 years later? 10 years, a mar…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 06:28 AM
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I go to dentist every ~6 months. Granted, I have good teeth, but that could just be because I DO go to dentist every 6 months. There's no better outcome than shelling ~$30 (how much it costs where I live) for dentist to say that "everything is good". And if there are cavities, it's usually caught early and ends up cheaper / less painful. Men, take care of your teeth.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 06:02 AM
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Even though I often think of motivation-videos is just sales of feel-good to the audience, look at the guy. If he can do it, you can do it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GSayMXTaQY8 We've all been dealt the hand we have in life. Everybody, EVERYBODY have their problems - no matter if they were born with a silver spoon, or to crack addicted parents, or with a debilitating disease. Doesn't matter - to each of them, their problems are the worst in the world, even though objectively, one's problem…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:24 AM
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To sum up: Woman becomes a single mom; Still tries to get with and hopefully lock down an alpha for 12 years, whilst ignoring all those nice, gentlemen betas around her Hits the wall Finds even betas don't want to commit to her anymore, and the quality of men she can attract dropping quickly. Feels that cold gnawing feeling inside that she fucked up and will be a second class citizen for the rest of her life. Decides that it's not her fault, desperately doubles down on trying to lock-down any pa…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 09:06 AM
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Great response. And yes, genuinely support you. Alas, appears that then, both of us had failed in conveying our thoughts to each other. For me, it appeared so because the upshot ending was rather short and lacking same emotion and intensity as the beginning and middle had. I will try more succinctly: "One has fully gotten over something not when he says he got over it, but when he forgets about it in the first place." If remembering this motivates you - great. If this pushes someone to see thems…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 08:45 PM
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Reading your story, I wanted to quit 1/3 in. Realized that we had a lot in common when we grew up, only I found the red pill, or what would become it, a lot earlier. I forced myself read through your post. I wanted to stop reading, smack some sense into you, just yell "Why didn't you grow some balls sooner???" so many times. You made me think - how did you elicit such response? was it because I had a very similar background to yours? I want to say I couldn't have been like you throughout my twen…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 07:32 PM
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Unless the only thing you read are rant/venting threads, you are either mistaken, or deliberately twisting the words. "Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved." - that is the real TRP quote. But see, you're not the first one, nor the last one to say that "TRP says women aren't capable of love LOL.", it's been pretty much standard modus operandi for any woman who encounters this phrase to take it out of the context and put it like that. And we're not …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 07:20 AM
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I partially agree with you think there is something else in play here. I remember reading somewhere in an article about people and savings - after interviewing a large group of people with a monthly income ranging from 700$ to 2500$ (and no savings), nearly all of them said they need around extra $400-500 to actually start saving. (This was non-US, where median salary is ~$1200 month). See, we all form certain habits that tend to dictate our lives further on, and it becomes very hard to break a …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 04:00 PM
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No, she was not. LTR =/= plate. Not sure why one would call it an LTR if a girl was getting it from somewhere else. LTR = girl gets my loyalty for her fidelity. If she cannot accept that - I find one that can, or simply stay free if I don't. Cheating from a girl who accepted to these terms means she is not worthy of my loyalty, and I walk. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 12:56 PM
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If you read your own post again, you will realize that you actually do care about his opinion - hence all the emotional reaction to it. Anyway, here's your (untested) plan of action: Your goal is to make HIM feel inferior and uncomfortable WHEN he acts like this. A way to achieve this: 1) When such a moment happens again, take a high ground maneuver - instead of addressing his quip directly (I'm not an idiot, cause XYZ), brushing it off or ignoring it, reframe it so that it becomes something eve…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 06:56 PM
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Sometimes I do, just not when asked. The dishes themselves are not the point. She is capable of doing dishes, and it is very simple, short task that does not require much time or resources - which means, if she does not do it, she is either : *lazy (I don't like that) *it is an attempt at powerplay (I don't like that) *she believes that her time is more valuable than mine and that other things that I DO (things she is not capable of) are less important (I don't like that). And that is a minuscul…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 06:21 PM
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zman990, I've wrote somewhat of a further explanation bit down, in an answer to Lashlarue123 - have a look at it. If one believes one cannot live without something, and then goes and lives without it - he beats his own belief - how can you call such man, as you said, pussy? To me, that is the mark but of strongest men. And nowhere did I write that one should not love. It only seems to me that you are mistaking what love is! Love is joy! I GIVE love to my girlfriend, not TAKE it, and that is what…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 05:34 PM
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Alas, but your solution, and mine, are the same, if you only read hard enough! cold approach to regain your abundance mentality and But this is not a strong answer anymore. It's an automatic answer, and digging deeper, I feel a twinge of doubt. "Well, why leave her, I mean, she tells me all the truth, she didn't give me a change to doubt her in past two years, and she's great! Come on!" I spend the next week away from her. Don't call her, don't text her, don't pick up her calls. Concentrate on w…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 05:07 PM
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Whenever she visits my place, I cook - she is my guest, after all. Nevertheless, if she insists on cooking, I don't mind. As for cleaning, she often starts it on her own, without me asking. At her place, I take care of red meat most of the time. If asked, I don't do the dishes (sometimes I do it when I just want to prepare something/etc), and she does not ask me to help with any other sort of cleaning. On the other hand, I take care of various "manly" jobs, such as fixing stuff etc. I like it, a…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 04:23 PM
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Yep, definitely noticed that. Time away helps get rid of that high and put mind straight. The clearer the mind, the more rational decisions.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 08:44 PM
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I had the movie on my to-watch list. It just got bumped up higher!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 08:43 PM
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Without knowing too much... Consider that perhaps this is not some sort of shit-test - she simply wants you to tell her what to look like when she sees you. If you are a charming silver tongued snake that charmed the panties of her, what she is (in)directly saying is: "Hey wartotle, what should I do to make you like me more?" I get something along those lines every so often, and just take it as a face value: "Hair straightened out. Subtle make-up. Heels. Red dress." Then, when we meet next time,…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 11:53 AM
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Of course this happens. Seeing you focus on yourself and work hard to achieve things - it reminds them of what they are NOT. Nobody really wants to see the reality. In average person's mind, they are the smartest, most hardworking, the most attractive and skilled person. In their mind, the rich, successful and good looking are where they are because of luck, fate, or any other bullshit external reason. The only reasons are why that average person is not where he wishes to be are , again, some ex…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 12:11 PM
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The real secret is simply being so confident in yourself and such a "cool guy", that this will not bother you at all. I get people shit-talk me behind my back. I used to think just like you - hey, how can I one-up him, how can I get the perfect responsonse... And then one day I realized I just don't care anymore. Once you have enough respect for yourself, and from others, once you become a "hot" commodity, the dynamic changes. People get polarized, and either respect and like you, or shit-talk a…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 10:23 AM
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In regards to prednisone - my family member is undergoing topical steroid withdrawal - I know of the drug name from her. She was given prednisone as eczema treatment. I suggest reading around on TSW, just in case.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:18 PM
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He probably is afraid of leaving his "comfort" zone. Change is difficult, and after 10 years+, even if the relationship sucked, he is probably simply too attached too it. The uncertainty that alternative (leaving the wife OR rocking the boat) offers is simply too uncomfortable for him to face. As a frog that is being slowly boiled, he has experienced much pain in very little incremental doses over the years with his current wife, and his threshold here is simply too high already. He's "boiled" i…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 09:15 AM
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A relatively little known fragrance brand could be propelled into world-wide stardom by creating an ad where a guy sprays some of their product, all the landwhales then quickly flock away from him and only few hot girls stay and come closer. "The Attraction by Gulliaci - Get only the hot ones" SJW outrage -> hate-sharing the ad -> seen by everyone -> $$$. Protein World all over again.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:59 PM
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... I think pretty much every beauty product directed at women had hot woman as a selling face. Also, clothes. Target audience might be wider than it seems at first glance. In it's simplest form, we like to see pretty people more than ugly ones. Plus, there's usually the same message in the marketing: For men: Buy X and girls like her will like you. For women: Buy X and you will look just like her! If we go to niche, i.e. - girls in bikinis washing trucks - yeah, you narrow down your audience to…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:11 PM
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"I never do X" -> "I do X a lot, but I don't want you to think I'm a slut". Everyone has different standards, but I wouldn't even entertain the notion of LTR until we're 3 months in dating. Just like a girl is sexiest and most attractive to you before you sleep with her, so are you the most attractive until she has extracted commitment. A girl who puts out for any guy == a guy who wants commitment from every girl etc. Extrapolate. I'd just go with being vague. "You need to wine and dine me first…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:03 AM
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Did you tell her to suck your dick, or were you just passively waiting for her to initiate it on her own? You now have your answer.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 08:57 AM
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It all boils down to your own happiness, which is internal, not external. You know the paradox - once you stop caring about girls, girls start liking you more. When you need a woman in your life, you are basing your happiness on something external. This could go like this: I want to be happy - I need a girl. To get a girl, I need to do X, Y, Z. This means, "I need to do X, Y, Z so that I can be happy". To the person who enjoys seducing girls, the process itself is fun, and doing different things…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 07:42 AM
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Hey laboda_, Understand that this is all in your head. You place a huge VALUE over sex, and that is why you fail. But I am nervous what happens if I make it that far with a girl and she finds out that I am not experienced and that will turn her off and then from the shock I would not be able to maintain an erection and that will cut my confidence back.. Get out of analysis paralysis. This didn't happen, so why the hell are you thinking about it? There's loads of people who waste their time think…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 02:18 PM
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Ahh, the easy way! Well of course, there is this magical tincture that will solve all your problems. Come closer, cause I shall make an amazing deal for you - for a very low price $97.99! In all seriousness, the easiest way to show high value is to BE high value. Once you pass a certain threshold, you won't have to think about it - you will simple be, and that in itself radiate a high value. As for the practical way - from the depths of Chateu Heartiste: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/02/0…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 12:25 PM
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DotComod, from someone who was in a similar position/mindset when younger: When you get that anxious little voice in your head that starts suggesting you text her, that "oh maybe I should get some closure" or "what if she misunderstood me?" or whatever other little thought that tries to push you into contacting a girl and trying to keep/start whatever "relationship" you have in mind, know that this is your male hamster, and nothing good ever comes out of it. Seriously - that little voice is like…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 06:34 AM
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Think of it this way: Hey, I was looking for jobs, and found one - it seemed quite good at first, but now I found out that it is quite dangerous - apparently, there's a high chance that I will get permanently injured while working there. If I quit this job, it seems that there are only hazardous jobs available. I've declined a few offers for dangerous jobs before, but I didn't decline this one because nobody knew up-front how dangerous it is. If it was a job - if it's dangerous, does it pay well…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 01:05 PM
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"This is just faggot-ass, blue-pill male hamstering" I found most of what 0xdada has written to be true in my relatively short experience in LTR's. Is it really cheating if she knows it and is OK with it? If two people are happy in a relationship where one of them is free to sleep with others, are you saying that you know better than them in their specific circumstances? How is it different if I came and told you that you are a "blue-pill faggot" and you know nothing of LTR's because you don't g…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:39 AM
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I was fifteen when my father committed suicide from depression, leaving me, my mother and two of my younger sisters alone. I did not have any grandfathers either, since they died relatively young, before I was born. I think my fathers funeral was the last time I cried. My father was a great father and family man. Sometimes, when I see my male friends having a glass of whiskey with their fathers, talking about something menial, I do feel a twinge of regret, this deep empty feeling that I will nev…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 08:30 AM
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I'm not familiar with the scenario, but anytime anyone mentions dishwasher loading, I remember this strip: http://theoatmeal.com/comics/dishwasher
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:49 AM
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I take the stance of "If I don't think it's rape and she doesn't think it's rape, it's not a problem for us. What anyone else thinks is none of their business." Context is king, and I don't force myself on her no matter what. I'll leave it at that.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:41 AM
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Tried that - and you are probably correct about point of diminishing returns; I will see what I can do to fix my problem, and take this as it looks like - her simply tiring out.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:36 AM
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Thanks for the tip about the doctor - I will probably do that - as I've written here, I came to realize this may be a problem with me, and there's not much that I can do to fix it externally/via girl.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:34 AM
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I considered this position for some time, and although I agree with you on the principle, it is unlikely that this is disrespect - she simply can't do it anymore for (likely physical) reasons. "If she wants to stop sex, tell her to suck you off then." - done that, been there, doesn't work for me (can't finish). It seems I need to do some introspection and fix something with ME, not her. Thank you, though!
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:33 AM
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Thanks for the tip - I do that, although I preferer coconut oil. After reading the replies, I figured I will look into myself - seems like it's some sort of issue of my own and there's not much left to try externally.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:29 AM
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I have - although I never went into full blown discussion, since I got the idea that she simply needs a break. I remember someone writing about sleeping with a married woman. She'd have problems with lubrication, and her husband, when she suggested using some KY, just laughed at her and told her: "why would you need that - you should be wet for me". So she started sleeping with someone else, who didn't mind listening and using lube. I try to remember this story and not be too ignorant about need…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:13 AM
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Thanks - they say great minds think alike, and all of those ideas are being used, to greater or lesser extent. There's not much how I can advance practically - as I've read on the replies, I came to realization that it is not her that's the problem.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:05 AM
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And neither do I. I thought some, and I lean towards agreeing with you. I will see what I can do to fix my problems, whether they're psychological or physical. I assumed that lasting long was not uncommon, but after reading answers, this is at least something I will look into. Thanks for the perspective!
/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:57 AM
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I assumed she gets too sore. I'd say I'm somewhat above average in size and she's quite petite and tight, and I enjoy rough and intense sex for prolonged periods. She usually becomes dazed, giggly and has a big smile on her face afterwards. What I can't figure out, is what to do once she asks to stop every so often - say it is from her getting sore, and not lack of my performance. Do I react neutrally, or negatively?
/r/askTRP07/07/15 02:02 PM
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I don't really try to count it, but it seems she cums pretty often - she even complained a few times that sometimes it gets too intense for her. I adjusted somewhat, and I'm fairly certain she's happy on this regard.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 01:54 PM
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I used to have PMO habit since I was 12 or so. I've read yourbrainonporn, looked into it, and been off porn and masturbation for last 6+ months. It did help somewhat - I used to take even longer before. I'm not hoping for much improvement from this front though - I had phimosis(?) and got some stuff cut up when I was a child (6-7 y.o), so I assume this might have some negative impact on sensitivity/etc. I just learned to live with it. LTR is 5'7" and 110 lbs. I've actually had plenty of times wh…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 01:43 PM
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