AnlRushr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	DAE notices that when it rains it pours, and then there are dry spells? It's because as soon as you get a period of success where you go beyond what your capabilities previously were, you start to identify with those results, and think that that's the new you. In doing that, you become complacent and end up neglecting the basics because you think you're beyond that, and you refuse to do all those things that improved your results in the first place because you're now afraid of making mistakes and identify with your results.	/r/seduction	13/08/12 10:58 PM
0	Let's keep this one simple boys. How do you know you've maintained a frame? No. Just no.	/r/seduction	04/07/12 01:47 AM
1	A quick (60s) video about what is confidence - simple thoughts, but not necessarily obvious :) I'm not saying to draw confidence from the results of action being taken to better oneself, but rather from action itself. In that way it becomes a positive thought-loop. IME, knowing that I'm constantly bettering myself by taking action (not missing the gym; going out consistently), pumps up my self-esteem, thereby resulting in confidence.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 04:00 PM
1	I have mediocre frame control, I don't know how to rip into my friends to defend my frame or test theirs Like ThrowawayPUA said, you hold your frame and stay unreactive. Same way you'd get past a shit test from a girl, you show them that what they're saying doesn't throw you off. How do you do this? Don't let what they're saying shift your emotional state.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 02:24 PM
1	My bar game is terrible, I don't know what to do, help? Approach like you'd be doing otherwise, extra noise is your excuse to escalate faster. Approach sets as you normally would, but get physical quicker by getting closer to the girls than you would during daygame when you're talking to them. If there's a dancefloor, you can pull girls there, escalate, and makeout.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 02:14 PM
13	Different Techniques for How Long You've Known a Girl A girl's a girl, dude. Kino isn't something you should be using as your "new technique", it should come naturally as a result of you expressing yourself as a man. Do what feels right to you.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 02:07 PM
1	Anxiety as a virgin/Cyclical failure Accept that you might get nervous, don't make it your enemy. You should be getting nervous anyway, fucking chicks is exciting, but if you're young and can't get it up during foreplay, try some more r/nofap, you're probable addicted to porn. Alternatively, look up some meditation or breathing exercises to calm your nerves.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 01:54 PM
1	" I feel like "Pickup" has pretty much ruined me, and I wish I didn't know anything about it. I wish I could hit a "reset" button and start over." Sorry to hit you with reality man, but what you posted in that forum proves that you're still outcome dependent, you wouldn't be here otherwise. Next time you're feeling uncomfortable in a conversation and can't act or speak in the fluid way that you'd be acting around your closest friends, ask yourself why. First realize that you're doing so, then ask yourself why you're giving a fuck. Might take you a while, but eventually you'll realize you do it because you're trying to project an identity f…	/r/seduction	16/06/12 01:46 PM
1	[FR] K-close, but under special circumstances Yeah, good job dude, sounds like you definitely could have gone for it at any time anyway. Don't be analytical with shit like this, just do what you want to do. As soon as you start give yourself a reason for why you can't do something, you'll just start a chain of rationalizations which'll just keep you analyzing and spin your head out.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 11:28 AM
1	[FR] Too eager? Without reading too much into the subtext of what's going on here, I can say for a fact that you're over-analysing the situation. What probably happened was that your "Yes" sister flaked because the "No" sister was the one that was actually interested in you, and you failed to build sufficient attraction. Regardless, flakes are going to happen, it's a reality of the game. Girls might seem really into you while you're talking to them in a party environment, and then flake when you text them the n…	/r/seduction	16/06/12 11:17 AM
1	A quick (60s) video about what is confidence - simple thoughts, but not necessarily obvious :) And what exactly is wrong in drawing confidence from a positive self-image of yourself coming from you having taken right action to better yourself? You say you prefer inner game, but this is exactly what taking action builds up. There's an inherent contradiction between completely accepting who you are and taking action to better yourself. Why would you need to take action if you're already fine with the way you are right now? On one hand you have the notion of accepting your imperfections, and…	/r/seduction	16/06/12 10:50 AM
2	Guys, don't fight being skinny. You're beautiful no matter what they say!	/r/seduction	16/03/12 02:35 AM