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1

Neither will you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:48 PM
2

I’m not talking about you as an individual but you as a collective so it doesn’t matter if you personally don’t want kids. You’re talking about the survival of humanity yes? In the survival of humanity both are needed so why even bring up KS’ stupid thing in the first place? Like - think that one through first maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:37 PM
3

To them that is bending over backwards. I agree with you 100% but there’s no convincing these whiners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:21 PM
6

Yes my vagina makes it so I don’t starve if I decide I don’t like working. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:19 PM
8

You need women to survive beyond a generation. This argument is beyond stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:14 PM
5

Equal grounds - except for all the prostitutes and womb slaves you mean. I don’t think they would quite say it’s a fair shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:12 PM
11

None. Unless men can take on half pregnancy, childbirth and nursing babies there will never be parity and there is no equality without parity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:08 PM
1

Seems like you’ve solved your own problem then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:35 PM
1

Oh please. You could try just not going to the ball game or whatever. Right? If the date planning is in your court this is easy to avoid. You’re acting like women are out beating you when you could just…not play along with silly games. I can’t imagine the fragility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:43 PM
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In the future - it’s a burning red flag when guys say they’ve been so hurt and it’s hard to trust. If they’re that hurt they should really try therapy instead of dating. But these guys aren’t interested in personal growth so they don’t. They’re all about “taking it slow” - except when it comes to sex. They will blame their bad behaviour on how broken they are without lifting a finger to heal. Wastes of time.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 07:41 PM
1

Going to a ball game is “forced competition”, “manipulation” and “abuse” now? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:30 PM
2

I don’t get told all the time that I’m desirable and my self love is high. Self love doesn’t require validation from others - that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:55 AM
5

Yes. While I see a lot of objectively good looking young people - the dress and grooming standards are in the gutter for so many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:13 PM
1

Then why do I hear so many men whine “no one cares about or wants to help men”? Like, men need to pick a lane here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/21 11:04 PM
15

We all know she is not okay - if she’s even still alive. 😢 He knows too but doesn’t care. The “too bad” was for himself. Her humanity hasn’t even entered his head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:54 PM
3

Makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:43 PM
1

This makes sense. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:42 PM
2

Very interesting take. I guess I was equating “taking responsibility” with actions but you’re right - attitude is a part of it and most people these days do have an attitude of not taking accountability even when we act responsibly. I find accountability beautiful because it’s a form of personal power. I wallowed in a state of victimhood for a long time and found others really perpetuated it. I went to therapy to heal but all we did was rehash my hurt feels over and over. There was never any tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:37 PM
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“The Columbian girl disappeared last week..too bad.” Horrifying. 😢 I can’t imagine caring for someone whose body I had been inside so very little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:42 PM
5

I’m curious. What makes a woman “good at sex”? What does that look like/mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:41 PM
1

You think you’re telling me something that I don’t know. Yeah I get it. Men are sluts “iTS MuH BiOlOgy”. Fine. Cool. Go be with other sluts then. Don’t commit if you can’t or won’t keep the promise. This isn’t complicated. Men just sound weak and pathetic when they say stuff like this. Like sad animals with no forethought or character. I refuse to think so little of you as a whole.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/21 02:35 PM
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I’m not a cheat and I hate cheaters of all stripes. Whataboutism is a weak non argument to defend the indefensible.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/21 02:27 PM
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If you keep hearing that women don’t take responsibility I’d say you are spending too much time in the manosphere and not enough in the real world. In life women are taking responsibility all over the place. They work hard, raise kids, care for elderly parents…often alone. I am not special in taking responsibility for my mistakes! I’m average. The age of consent issue is not something I have any insight into and I know it’s complicated. I absolutely raise my eyebrows at large age gaps and try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:22 PM
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“A few tablespoons of his sperm.” Dude - please. You’re not this dumb. Lying, deceit and bringing home your dick diseases is waaaay more than some worthless sperm and you know it. Otherwise you would never tell men to stay after their wives cheat. You know it’s a big deal. Don’t pretend to be this obtuse. You are bad at it. I do not expect the universe to adapt to me but I do expect and require integrity. I’d live a hundred life times alone before lowering that bar.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/21 03:14 AM
2

Yes I know they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:26 AM
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Damn I wish I was a lesbian after reading this. Men will devastate their entire happy family to bed strange but don’t actually value sex? They will make their kids grow up in a divorced home over what means nothing to them except a few minutes of pleasure and validation? I am gobsmacked. They are happy to throw everything they claim to hold dear…for literally nothing. Wow. I did not expect a black pill today.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/21 12:18 AM
5

Yeah there’s a wide range of happy medium from 30 second Sammy to 45 minutes of jackhammering. Porn definitely affects a man in bed for the worse. It’s so hard to find porn-free men these days and the difference is night and day from what I’ve heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:10 AM
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This could be a big part of it! Do you watch a lot of porn? Men who jerk a lot take so long to cum. After a while it just starts to chafe and hurt. If you’re jackhammering for 45 minutes straight - it’s exhausting and it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:18 PM
4

Thanks my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:57 PM
7

I was, definitely. But I also take responsibility for my own naive mistakes. It’s a devastating lesson but I won’t need it twice. Thank you for the kind and compassionate responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:04 PM
6

Thank you, I really appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:57 PM
12

Yep. This a textbook example. There’s way more to the story and none of it is good. I hope the younger ladies reading this learn from my mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:39 PM
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I am so happy you’ve managed to thrive after being in a suicidal pit of depression. Your story is inspiring and awesome. Go you!!! I still believe depressed people need as many tools in the toolkit as possible. Pills don’t build skills - you are absolutely right on that one. But sometimes they are necessary and life saving.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 05:29 PM
7

There were a few times my gut twisted like “hey! Pay attention something is off!” but I rationalized his behaviour. I loved him. I believed his words over my gut. Looking back - it’s a sea of red flags but I was 21 (he was 34) and genuinely believed “love conquers all”. I’ve lived and I’ve learned that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:25 PM
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Totally understandable. To me a promiscuous past is a sign of not actually valuing sex, connection or fidelity. It’s a sign of low standards and self worth. Men who were promiscuous in the past have a harder time staying faithful in monogamous relationships. If community peen makes you uncomfortable there’s a good reason. Don’t let yourself be gaslit out of your own feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 05:00 PM
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Prozac saved my life - twice. Telling people meds won’t help them is terrible advice. You are not her doctor. Glow ups are great, looking pretty is a boost when you’re mentally well. However If you aren’t well meds can help bridge the gap so it’s actually possible to take on things like therapy, exercise and getting outside. Lipstick doesn’t replace dopamine and serotonin. Meds save lives.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 04:54 PM
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It’s hard for a woman to desire a man who doesn’t do what he says he will do and puts his wants above his family’s needs. This is a logical consequence. I’m not sure why you’re all “gotcha” about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:46 PM
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Yeah. When a man breaks promises, refuses to fix what’s not working and cheats - loss of respect is a consequence. Without respect there is no desire, not from me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:44 PM
6

You’re right we don’t know the deets. I shouldn’t assume
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:42 PM
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He insisted he could support the family on his low wage job in a high cost city but he couldn’t. When I brought up the idea of a career change or move he always shot it down immediately keeping us stuck. So I took a job working nights in a care home to help keep a roof over our heads. He took that opportunity to bring other women into our bed with our kid sleeping in the next room. I didn’t know this at the time but knew something felt off and I didn’t really trust him anymore. I was absolutely …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:41 PM
9

My grandpa fully supported the family from his income and my grandma was a mom at home. He hired a cleaning lady to come in once a week and a teen from the neighbourhood to be a mother’s helper. He knew being the at home parent of two boys was a ton of work and wanted to make sure she had sufficient breaks and rest. He insisted on leaving work early on Fridays so he could take her to lunch and her hair appointment. When he noticed her mental health faltering he rearranged schedules so she could …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:19 PM
4

Sir, no one asked you for details.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:19 PM
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That’s exactly how I felt when my husband stopped being a man I could trust and respect. It became a tiring chore. This is still fixable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:11 PM
9

Not ranked relative to each other? Y’all forget you literally refer to us as numbers right? Tell me again how women aren’t ranked relative to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:10 PM
1

Perhaps. I’ve often offered help to men and they always refuse it. Sometimes they seem offended although my intention is not to offend them but to help. If men don’t accept help I don’t really register complaints that “no one helps men”.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/21 05:43 PM
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Sure, I’ve been helped by men/people when in a bind before. But was that because I’m a woman? The people that helped me did so because they are kind and are the type of people who help others in need. I doubt my sex organs had anything whatsoever to do with it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/21 04:56 PM
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Ah the subtle neg. An RP man classic.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 05:21 PM
9

This has nothing to do with the conversation. Your bitter ramble made no sense and we are all dumber for having read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:10 AM
2

Big assumption. No one has ever made me feel special for my gender. Much less 24/7.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 12:58 AM
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Am a lady. This is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:14 AM
5

It’s a pickup strategy. To get us to “enter their frame” or whatever. It’s forced intimacy with a heaping side of intimidation. I’ve seen them talking about it on RP before it was nuked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:17 PM
4

Dirty socks left all over is disgusting?? Grown adults are perfectly capable of not leaving smelly dirty laundry all over the floor. I can’t think of any mature adult who would defend such a gross lazy habit
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 04:27 PM
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I would avoid any man who refers to himself as a chad, alpha male or high value man (🤮), talks about women in terms of numbers or uses terms like cuck, simp or hypergamy. These are obvious red flags. Less obvious are manipulation tactics like negging or triangulation or breadcrumbing. It’s helpful to read about these tactics so you can spot them in real life.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 01:23 AM
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I haven’t either. I’ve had two partners my entire life.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 09:34 PM
2

Nope I don’t have an hour and twelve minutes to watch a thing because some rando told me too.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 01:17 AM
5

Uhhh it favours good looking women too. Bro - this is not rocket science here. Beautiful women have a much easier time on dating apps than ugly ones. It’s not the “gotcha” that you seem to think it is.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 01:04 AM
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“The only difference between a ONS and LTR is timeline.” Lol. No one who has ever experienced a healthy, happy, connected and emotionally intimate LTR would EVER say that. This really shows his lack of experience in healthy long term relationships
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 01:01 AM
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Which is why they should stop giving shitty advice on women’s subs. Some do realize and really don’t care because free access to sex without commitment is exactly what they want. It ultimately serves their interest. We need to be extremely careful when we take advice from men for this reason.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 10:30 PM
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It is insulting. Women take the lion’s share of risk when we open ourselves up to intimacy. We risk pregnancy, disease, heartbreak, loss of reputation, rape or falling in love with a man who doesn’t love you, being unknowingly videotaped? Why should a lady take on all of that risk for a man who doesn’t want to commit? For a man who wants to have his cake and eat it too and will drop her like a hot brick when a woman he actually wants to commit to comes along? There is no “benefit” to friends wit…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 08:31 PM
1

You’re welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 03:34 PM
2

Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 03:22 PM
7

Just because people feel entitled to a second chance does not mean we should give it. Women are not rehabilitation centres. Self preservation and good sense overrides a criminal’s inflated sense of entitlement full stop. Whoever called you “picky” is flat out wrong and does not have your best interest at heart.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 02:51 PM
7

“No criminal record, no drugs, no bad habits that could harm his future” is not a lot to ask, my friend. Those are basics - not you being picky or having too high of standards. I’m glad you found a great guy and you are happy together.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 02:31 AM
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This is what I found for myself. The deep companionate love when you’ve been together for years is so much better than the honeymoon phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:08 AM
2

He’s not joking he’s testing the waters. He’s telling you how he really feels. If you had said “yeah I agree” he wouldn’t have corrected you and told you it was a joke, I can almost promise you. He is telling you his real feelings here and it’s important to pay attention and not laugh it off. Would you make “jokes” about castrating him? I’m guessing that you absolutely wouldn’t. He should be held to the same standard you would hold yourself to. Vetting does not stop even in a relationship. Matur…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 09:53 PM
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My grandmother was a HVW married to a HVM. She took amazing care of herself because it brought her joy. She was the most elegant and classy lady I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing but she was silly, goofy and loved to joke and laugh. She made elegance warm and enchanting instead of stuffy and cold. Even though she was a busy mom at home she made time for her hobbies and self care. She never had a boyfriend before my grandfather and did not give LVM the time of day. She was a rebel who chose …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:22 PM
3

Please get therapy. Please. I’m not trying to be mean or using this as an insult because therapy is awesome and I’ve personally benefitted. There’s a ton to unpack but I’ll give it my best. I have a deformity now too (not congenital but I’ve had it for 15 years). I am not able to get surgery to fix it and will have to live with it and the physical pain it causes. It’s one of the first things people notice about my body and no clothing hides it. I could definitely lapse into self harm and cutting…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 01:40 AM
4

No I don’t know what your social skills are like or what you talk about at parties. The thing about self proclaimed “incels” is that even if they don’t vocalize “poor me” energy it oozes out of them and becomes their personality whether they verbalize “I have an ugly face” to people or not. Just hanging out in the black/red pill world leads to entitled victim woe is me energy and that clings to men like a residue. Most self respecting women can smell it before you open your mouth. Hang out in be…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 11:01 PM
5

There’s nothing uglier to women than guys throwing sad sack pity parties for themselves for not getting laid easily. It’s absolutely repulsive. Your attitude is far more of a handicap than your jaw trust me.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 04:36 PM
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22 year olds look like children to me. “My life is over” dude, no. It is not. 22 is so so so young. Looks are massively overrated in “pill circles.” Men think that looks are just as important to women as they are to men and that really isn’t true. I met the love of my life in high school. He’s average in the face and chubby. We were best friends and my attraction to him grew over time. I was really pretty and surrounded by classically handsome guys - but he was the only one I had eyes for. His s…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 10:55 PM
4

Absolutely!
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/21 03:44 PM
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It’s not weird at all. My husband feels the same way, my friends’ husbands do as well. Dads these days are very connected to their kids and value spending time with them. They are aware of how much they miss out on. Jealousy seems pretty damn normal to me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/21 03:44 AM
10

Redpill is racist and most of them are sad white supremacists. Don’t let people so riddled with their own messy issues inform your view of yourself.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 05:30 PM
2

Lots of space, sure. But with climate change impacting weather and growing conditions there is less and less arable farmland that is capable of growing food. Not to mention the dwindling supply of fresh water. The planet is not ok.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/21 04:22 PM
3

Hard disagree. I’ve seen this dynamic play out too often in the real world. I also really think it’s gross to blame a spouse’ infidelity on their partner (“she just couldn’t inspire commitment/he couldn’t maintain frame”)
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 05:42 PM
4

Without women the species dies out. You’re forgetting that (obviously it would die out without men too.)
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 07:23 PM
6

Absolutely. This is very well said.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 03:21 PM
11

Women work hard in dating too. Perhaps you would have more success with women if you worked on your empathy for their experience rather than just expect their empathy for your experience.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 02:26 PM
1

Didn’t say you were
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 03:04 AM
1

So cheaters are animals with no sense of agency? Poor helpless victims who have no choice?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 02:33 AM
8

I totally understand where you’re coming from and why you’re feeling hesitant. Bad habits tend to cement over a lifetime. The consequences of it aren’t always apparent in your twenties but the compound effect over decades isn’t pretty.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 07:26 PM
7

Hmm. What shit does he have that’s not together? What does that look like? It could be you’re not compatible/at different places in your maturity levels.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 06:40 PM
1

Yeah this is ridiculous. I’m a SAHM and the fact that I’m home means I can cook healthy food from scratch including all our bread and cereal. My being at home helps keep drive thru nights at a minimum.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 06:30 PM
2

I have to say this is not a flattering picture you’re painting of yourself
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 06:01 PM
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I think if he manages to complete his responsibilities it shouldn’t matter that he naps all day and works at night. If he’s not pulling his weight that’s different. Could he be struggling with depression or undiagnosed adhd? This sounds absolutely typical of both/either of those conditions.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 05:53 PM
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I failed several because I had undiagnosed adhd and severe depression. It was not a lack of desire to improve myself believe me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 05:51 PM
1

He could have not put his penis inside someone. No one put a gun to his head and rationalizing his betrayal is pretty gross to be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 01:45 AM
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You do their laundry and clean their house after two dates??
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/21 04:36 PM
1

This is a sea of red flags. Think about it. Would you ever suggest moving in together with someone without even meeting them in person? This isn’t normal or healthy. This guy is a disaster in the making. Your instincts are correct please listen to them and end it with this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 03:56 PM
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Agreed. I work hard to be a gracious, put-together and elegant lady at home. My family and I deserve the best me possible. While I agree we all need a soft place to land at home -lowering the bar for the people we love the most doesn’t feel right.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 03:48 PM
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At six weeks you’re barely cleared (if everything went smoothly). I can’t imagine sex three times a week at six weeks PP. Her husband has no idea how good he has it quite frankly.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 02:27 PM
3

Honestly - this is your assumption and it might be completely off base. Unless they’ve told you “we don’t like you cause you’re a sahm” this is all just a story in your head. There’s a lot of working moms vs sahm drama in red pill spaces but in reality no one cares.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 11:39 PM
3

I agree. Femininity is an inside job. Some of my most feminine friends live in basketball shorts and tee shirts but their gentleness, creativity and the loving attention they pay to the people in their lives make them so beautifully feminine. Than there other friends of mine who look extremely feminine but have a very hard edge and a foul mouth.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/21 02:15 PM
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