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| 3 | Episode 10 - No Frame, No Game Part 2Ok, we miss you! | /r/RPChristians | 30/07/20 11:44 PM |
| 9 | RPC Video ChatJust finished both episodes! Great stuff. Good on you for putting yourselves out like that! Also, can we start a go fund me to get u/thechristianalpha a shirt with sleeves? | /r/RPChristians | 05/06/20 09:39 AM |
| 6 | RPC Video ChatI seriously was like WOAH that is unfortunate to be the face of the sub with that voice. | /r/RPChristians | 05/06/20 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Paint me a picture of the essence of a woman - kind, open, warm, not diminishing, collected,Exactly this. That hurt to read. I am so sorry you went through that. We need to remember to always value the person over the object. I remember once I dropped oil on the floor and my mother got so angry she smashed a jar of nails near my feet. She started to laugh when it smashed because she said “oh, I thought the jar was plastic” ... big hug we aren’t going to be like our mothers. I promise. God is good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Why I love my husbandOh honey!!! You are so kind!! ❤️🥰 I’m feeling the love. Wow, it makes me so happy to hear you are with someone who is so gentle and loving towards you. Those goals are amazing and with the right person by your side they are not too big. You may really enjoy this community, in short, it’s a place where we believe loving your partner (in the right way) brings out the best in them to love you back, hehe. There are women at all the ends of the spectrum some conservative and some liberal. You definit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/20 01:28 PM |
| 1 | I stop biting my nails but now I’m picking my face.r/calmhands will welcome you with open arms! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | r/RPCWomen is now active.Did you do it? I just may if you haven’t! | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/20 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Differences between red/blue for men and women (Drafted for RPCW)This situation sounds worth making it’s own thread? I would love more details. Unfortunately it sounds like the age old “try until you get the ring” and once the man is locked down, some women get comfortable and let themselves go- or even resent their husbands for expecting the same treatment they were getting before the ring (as they should, men don’t marry expecting a woman to change!) | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/20 01:18 PM |
| 11 | r/RPCWomen is now active.I am so excited! This is awesome. Thank you. I look forward to having the men float around there too, but mostly I’m going to value having our own ladies corner. 😛 | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/20 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Well, the mods have spoken! r/RPCwomen has been born 💓 | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/20 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Who should you listen to on RPChristians?Woohoo! Can’t wait! Praying for you guys. Thank you for spear heading it. | /r/RPChristians | 20/05/20 11:30 PM |
| 3 | questioning male sex drive and porn useLol I’m reading this as my husband is trying to jump on me!! Point noted 😂 | /r/RPChristians | 20/05/20 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Christians who have used the dating site E harmony, what was your experience like?I haven’t myself but from what I’ve heard you need to be careful of predatory women who engage with you then ask for money! Be on your guard for women who mention their finances early on if they aren’t in order. It can be less obvious than one may think. Edit: I definitely think they are helpful and worth it | /r/RPChristians | 20/05/20 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Who should you listen to on RPChristians?You’re right, you did leave me out ;) Great post. | /r/RPChristians | 20/05/20 10:45 AM |
| 14 | Paint me a picture of the essence of a woman - kind, open, warm, not diminishing, collected,A warm, friendly soul who is gentle and not overbearing or pushy. She welcomes you when you’re new and helps you feel not alone. She watches out for you and is considerate and generous with her time. She genuinely wants to know how you are when she asks and cares what you say. She remembers the things you tell her. Her house is tidy but well loved. Her child drops a cup and it smashes- she doesn’t scream. She asks if the child is ok and is calm, promptly cleans it up and wipes up the water with … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women?There are definitely adornments like jewellery that are scriptural :) I edited my original comment for clarification. I understand where you are coming from | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 12:16 PM |
| 1 | A Quick Reminder about Women's CompetencyThank you for this post! Unfortunately there is a line of dislike towards women in some Christian circles, I suspect as backlash for how some woman have over stepped. Still hurts tho :( | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 06:25 AM |
| 1 | To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women?That’s really interesting, as many men find those qualities feminine and my husband pushes encourages me to be that kind of woman take a high level of care towards my appearance. Edited for clarification | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 06:21 AM |
| 1 | To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women?“When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it.” Genesis 3:6 In some ways, very intertwined with the original sin. Women also have an amazing ability to cause others to stumble. | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 06:21 AM |
| 5 | To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women?What about swearing? ;) | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 06:19 AM |
| 1 | To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women?Eep! In saying that, all woman are attracted to men that can provide money and stability. It’s up to the men to discern wether the lady in question has qualities they are looking for. I am pro choosing a husband that will “finish the race”. That’s how I chose my husband. You check their hoofs (lol, bare with me) make sure their foundation and what they walk on is stable (their faith, ultimately it’s their relationship with God that will carry them to the finish line), make sure they have a stron… | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women?Definitely this too, one of the original sins links into this strongly. I suggest everyone re reading Genesis ! | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 06:14 AM |
| 1 | To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women?Women often are insecure and feel threatened by other women. Eg; I had a best friend who was extremely jealous of me and was passive aggressive as a result. She eventually admitted her jealousy and couldn’t handle it. The sad part is women usually see everyone else as “better” than them, when that really isn’t the case. It’s why many let themselves go because they think everyone else is “better” anyway. Ironically, my (ex) best friend was gorgeous, feminine, great legs, amazing singer with a suc… | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 06:12 AM |
| 3 | To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women?Some things where we are weak and the man is strong is an amazing opportunity to surrender completely. I was horrible with my finances before I met my husband. He laid down the law and I followed and it’s all gone pretty darn well! | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 06:09 AM |
| 4 | To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women?Obviously the following isn’t gender exclusive but I believe is probably some of the most common downfalls and positives for women. Cons; Envious, sensitive, emotionally abusive, manipulative, gossipy, fake, easily lead astray, following her eyes, vanity, selfishness, arguing with authority, wanting to gain authority, using sexuality, mocking Pros; Caring, loving, understanding, kindness, having an amazing ability to fix things, supporting, encouraging, gentleness, bearing children, creativity, … | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/20 06:07 AM |
| 2 | How to cope with PMSI drink Rose hip w/ lemongrass and ginger as well as lemon and ginger tea. I just pick them up from my local supermarket :) I use the brand Nerada. They aren’t miracle workers but a tea can signify you having a break and taking some time to reflect. I highly suggest starting a sort bible reading plan on the holy bible app! They’re so good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/20 11:56 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffThat is a good suggestion, although it seems to be because of the positions I move into when I’m asleep (flare ups) because sometimes I’m not in pain when I go to bed but wake up miserable. It’s not consistent | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/20 04:52 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffGreat idea, I will try, I did try today and it didn’t go too well as he woke up when I got up lol! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | How to cope with PMSI take semi low level antidepressants and have lots of herbal teas (that don’t cause cramping!) I also pray and read my bible. You can meditate and journal if that helps you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/20 12:14 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffMy husband is being so annoying in the morning- singing, asking me to do things straight away (every morning I cook him breakfast) I haven’t handled it well. I wake up irritated and usually in pain. I have medication to take first thing and I’ve been lashing out at him saying things like “please don’t talk until I’ve had my coffee” which sounds like such a Karen Boomer thing to say and so cringey. I have no idea how to handle this. I’m such a downer in the morning and he’s always energised and p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/20 12:08 AM |
| 8 | I dumped my low-value boyfriend and things have been amazingYou made one of the best (or potentially the best) decision of your life! But seriously, what the hell is it with insecure guys being upset when you’re kind to waiters and family members? So cringe and insecure it’s nauseating. Your old relationship sounded exhausting. It’s not supposed to be like that. In a lot of ways, it’s freeing because you share a burden with someone else, not carry theirs! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Being a servant sexy?What does do stuff exactly mean? My love language is acts of service. I am with my husband largely because he can do many things I can’t (and vise versa) Not only is it sexy, it makes me feel protected and taken care of. Edit: being spoon fed isn’t sexy- I wouldn’t expect my husband to do things I can do myself, however, as the wife I do many things for him he can do for himself. That would be the difference in the relationships to a large extent when it comes to acts of service | /r/RPChristians | 13/05/20 08:56 AM |
| 16 | From other thread "RPW won't want to marry RP men" Just curious as to why?This probably comes down to a few factors, the most compelling being that the gender difference in the RP is huge. RP men have theories that revolve around sexual strategy, some of the most notable being; AWALT (all women are like that), “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn”, as well as the practise of “spinning plates” which entails balancing multiple sexual relationships, referring to the plates as women. RP men (not to be confused with Christian RP men, eg; r/RPChristians) are generally atte… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/20 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What to do about my dad?It sounds like you have a high level of sensitivity towards disgust which is common with more conservative people. It’s not our place to tell our parents what to do is the simple answer. Distance yourself to stay respectful and less disturbed by all of this. Pray for him. You may enjoy; Why We Should Love Our Enemies – devotional by John Piper https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/why-we-should-love-our-enemies | /r/RPChristians | 12/05/20 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Discovered an inappropriate relationshipSorry- the implication wasn’t that the woman may be up for a poor partner, rather that the men that may be attracted to her may want to prey on your children. I know it’s a horrible thought but I’ve been it happen. That’s why I’m saying be extra vigilant. Hope that makes sense. And no problem :) | /r/RPChristians | 11/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Discovered an inappropriate relationshipThat’s heart breaking and hit too close to home. I am deeply sorry that happened and I’m really not sure how to respond beyond that. | /r/RPChristians | 11/05/20 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Theory; Respect in practise and the God given order.That’s a great analogy! | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Discovered an inappropriate relationshipThe reason why I stay loyal to my husband is not my love for him, but my love and relationship with God. The reason why my husband stays loyal to me is not his love for me, but his love for God. Of course the heart is evil, that’s why we don’t do what we “feel” like doing. We rely on God to give us new desires, we slowly die to our old self. I say I would NEVER is simply because it’s a shocking and gross breach of boundaries. A lot of our Christian walk is doing things even though we don’t feel … | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Theory; Respect in practise and the God given order.Very well said. I would find it difficult to respect my husband if he did not love God and showing that respect in the absence of God as the head of our marriage would be... I can’t imagine. I understand the scripture says that, but I would have to rely solely on God’s strength to bring me through a situation like that. No excuses however. In a lot of ways we are responsible for supporting our spouse to not sin, yet if they do, they are completely responsible. What a weird dynamic! | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Theory; Respect in practise and the God given order.That is true. Respect is given for many reasons I suppose. I wish there was a word for God given respect- honour perhaps? And in what situations did you see the wife put first? Sometimes I worry my husband does do this, especially with my health. He drops everything to help me. | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Discovered an inappropriate relationshipSingle women with children are a prime target for creepy, low value men. Take care of your kids. I will be praying for you | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 02:11 AM |
| 6 | Discovered an inappropriate relationshipLiterally made me sick to my stomach... | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 01:33 AM |
| -3 | Discovered an inappropriate relationshipIt seems like she’s getting something from him she isn’t getting from you. Wether that’s because she’s blocked you out or because you are legitimately not giving it to her, you need to decide. She’s having an emotional affair. She may need you to step up and lay down the law. Support her. Ask her why she’s relying on someone else like this. You need to do this in love so she feels like she can just run and collapse in your arms. I would NEVER FaceTime or call a coworker about non work related th… | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 01:32 AM |
| 8 | Just a tip on virginityEven my super religious husband was forgiving and accepting. If someone truly believes in God, they believe in the new self and forgiveness. The religious nuts that demand it are usually way off in other areas too. Ofcourse, if you’re a virgin yourself, you may want one. I respect that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/20 01:26 AM |
| 10 | Just a tip on virginityThat made me tear up. I wish I could do the same, tell my younger self that the man you’re going to marry is strong and confident and isn’t going to hold things against you like the immature assholes you’ve dated. 😭 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/20 01:25 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/06/20)My husband enjoys chocolate daily with a tea after dinner with me, I value that down time with him. I think my issue was I was snacking on it while watching movies with him, and getting through way more than I should have! I don’t think throwing it out is the issue. I wouldn’t say I’m addicted, now that I’ve made the decision to not indulge it won’t be difficult for me to set that boundary. On the other hand... my purchasing frenzy is completely out of my control in a lot of ways and I need to c… | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/06/20)I don’t count what I eat but I have a pretty solid idea of how many calories are in what because I’ve previously calorie counted for a long period of time. I’m not worried, now that I’ve decided to drop the weight it will be easy to come off. It’s only 1kg after all ! | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicWow, good on you for laying down the law! That’s amazing. The respect you showed your husband in that moment will have a life time of results. I still remember a family member trying to guilt trip my husband into helping set up for an elaborate party they hadn’t planned well. He said no, he’s going to the gym. They said “oh, it’s for so and so.. blah blah” I’m like NO. HELL NO. Don’t pull him into this. Geez! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/06/20)My first OYS; Physical: 59kg, 5”4. I haven’t been eating well recently due to a ridiculous amount of chocolate in the house. I find myself eating a lot, then refraining from food because I’m terrified to get to 60kg. I usually stay at 58kg to be on the safe side. These 2kgs make a huge difference to my figure. I went on a walk with my husband today and plan to go on daily walks. I am still getting lightheaded when I walk or shower and am slowly building my strength. I also started back at work f… | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicI’m not saying the MIL is right, but the OP definitely is not handling it well. I’m trying not to be too harsh on her considering the current climate and we all have our own limits. Good advice on not marrying a mama’s boy! Although my hubby is slightly one. Haha. A true mama’s boy will have a supportive mum that wants to make him happy and support his wife I say! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 03:37 PM |
| 5 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicHis mother becomes a source of comfort and acceptance and his wife becomes the spiteful source of stress and conflict. 👏 👏 👏 Well said! As with many relationships the man may engage in with a quarrelsome wife. The wife may dislike him spending time with his friends and rant about it, but that very act drives him to his friends even more because of the dynamic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 03:34 PM |
| 5 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicAgreed. Women need to return attitude with kindness to diffuse the situation, so they don’t see their DIL as a threat but rather a support and asset to the family. When I married my husband my in laws made it clear they gained a daughter and never saw it otherwise. In the original posters thread, all sides are losing. And your comment was so great. Why should that bond be broken? Women in the other thread were calling it emotional incest- imagine tainting such a sacred bond. The love a mother ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 10 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicTo be honest, her story seemed to change to fit her narrative more. It seemed in her original post the MIL either cooked meals and dropped them off or paid for food for them to pick up- and mentioned an occasion she seemed to buy or bake cookies? The implication seemed to be to bake. I am not disagreeing, OP did indeed say it was fast food, but I wonder if that is true all of the time? EDIT to correct: it seems none of the food is prepared by the MIL which is disturbing, how could this go on for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 03:25 PM |
| 14 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicIt seems she sees it as an unwelcome gesture at best or a means to manipulate and control her home and environment at worst. She clearly feels threatened and has put her walls up. If a RPW was in this situation, I’d hope we would have the gentleness and humility to speak to our MIL about it and sort out a solution. Although, some stories are indeed horror shows for MILs. I think it’s something that if we can’t relate personally, we may just not understand. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 02:38 PM |
| 6 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicThat’s an interesting point. Some women are much more sensitive than others, you’d think someone so sensitive herself would be more caring to someone else’s feelings? Eep. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 02:35 PM |
| 9 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicAgreed. I also stalked the original thread and some of her posts. Really interesting to see other people’s comments and views on the situation- some absolutely horrible! I can’t imagine condoning sleeping away from your husband as punishment for not listening to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 02:20 PM |
| 8 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicI don’t know if I’d go that far, she is obviously bothered by it and has let it get to her. It definitely points to bigger underlining issues. How she handled it seems to be the biggest error. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 02:18 PM |
| 28 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicMy question is to you, what would you do in this situation? The Initial issue is obviously with the OP, poor vetting, high intolerance etc etc... but let’s say for a moment her position is completely justified and give her the benefit of the doubt. How would you handle an overbearing MIL while respecting your husband? I think this is a helpful avenue to explore in married life. (Personally, I love my MIL, she often gives us gifts and food, some not needed, but I always save it for later in the f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 12 | When Is The Right Time To Start Dating?Start praying for your future wife. Pray that God sends her your way, pray that she is protected and pray that God strengthens you to keep yourself for her. Ask for wisdom and discernment to navigate courting. | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/20 02:38 AM |
| 1 | What’s up fellas. Would love to hear your thoughts. I am also a strong believer.Personally I have a small following on my Instagram- only family and close friends. As a Christian, remember you are an ambassador for Christ and take that into your social media engagement and posting. I found it helpful to see pictures of my husband on Facebook before I met him (we have both deleted it since). Some flattering photos, pictures of your friends and family, things you love. Avoid: pictures of drinking and partying. Hope those thoughts help | /r/RPChristians | 06/05/20 10:52 AM |
| 30 | My Boyfriend wants to take a trip with another girlMy BLUNT opinion; Hard next. He isn’t taking your relationship seriously. Don’t waste anymore time. Cut your losses and call it off! This is not respectful behaviour. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/20 10:30 AM |
| 1 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.It may be valid in what you saw when you watched her channel. No one if perfect her or myself included :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/20 01:16 PM |
| 2 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.Personally I didn’t find that as it seemed to me that the husband is more introverted. Each to their own! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/20 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Questions about marriage under state and sexual desireWow OP, that was really well said. Mad respect! | /r/RPChristians | 04/05/20 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Is it nomal for men to be very critical of women’s appearance?I find the more attractive you are, the more of these comments you will get. They feel like they have free reign to comment on attractive women. An overweight woman? Never. Time and time again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 08:01 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsGo to bed on time Wake up on time Sleep well Eat well Start going for walks with hubby | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 07:58 AM |
| 3 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.I have been so motivated by her. I am attempting a no buy on makeup and skincare unless I finish what I have. I adore minimalism and as I say this I’m buying two turtle necks in two different colours but you get what I mean...... | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 06:24 AM |
| 2 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.Feels like that for sure! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 06:23 AM |
| 4 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.I understand that and am totally happy to delete the part about her being a Christian. It’s a feminine RP leaning channel regardless and she doesn’t evangelise her faith. Eg; 10 healthy habits for women | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 06:21 AM |
| 2 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.Woah that’s high energy. I’m pro life and I think vaccines are important, but I have no issue with Sarah and thought her YouTube channel was lovely and conservative. Edit: this is definitely not a hate thread I created... I saw women complaining about her channel because of her conservative views and I saw them as a huge plus. So I thought to share her channel with the ladies here. I think there is some confusion | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 06:17 AM |
| 3 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.What do you mean, half of this subreddit probably has religious roots? Surely this would appeal to a large audience here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.You hope you enjoy xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.What?! I haven’t seen that, lol Edit: I watched the video and I thought it was wonderful... personally it made me much more comfortable with the idea of giving birth and relieved some of the fears I have. I’m really thankful she shared it :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.So inspirational! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.Give me the benefit of the doubt, I wasn’t trying to patronise! I can’t answer these questions. I’m sorry, I’ve only ever known him as the same man. He’s consistent and that has always been his greatest strength. He does things even when he doesn’t want to do them (ie go gym everyday even though he’s worked ) | /r/RPChristians | 02/05/20 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Martin Luther go brrrr | /r/RPChristians | 01/05/20 04:08 PM |
| 3 | I'm a teen girl who looks very masculine and unattractive. How can I look a lot more feminine and beautiful?Counselling allowed me to set goals for myself and achieve them. It also gave me a safe space to speak to someone who has interest in helping me and was non judgemental. I’d encourage you to answer these questions as if you were one of your parents seeking counselling for you. From there, maybe have some time to consider if it will be helpful. There would be free services in your area I am happy to connect you to aswell. This would require me knowing your state and location. Ofcourse, this is up… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/20 02:14 AM |
| 6 | I'm a teen girl who looks very masculine and unattractive. How can I look a lot more feminine and beautiful?I’ve messaged you on the chat function on reddit. I am happy to locate and fund some counselling for you to do with a verified psychologist. This will Ofcourse require commitment on your part as well as communicating to a trusted adult in person (maybe a teacher, school guidance counsel, mum, aunty) about 1) How you are feeling. 2) You are considering doing counselling. 3) An adult on the internet is offering funding (most likely through better help ) Edit: seems to be a specific teen counsellin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.I’d encourage you to be inspired to lift yourself up to a higher standard rather than seek to bring someone else to yours. This isn’t said in spite, I understand completely if I was sugar coating my experience with him, but I’m not. Our age gap has a lot to do with it Ofcourse, he doesn’t partake in young squabbling nor immature taunting as some women may lure their husbands into engaging in. | /r/RPChristians | 01/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 5 | I'm a teen girl who looks very masculine and unattractive. How can I look a lot more feminine and beautiful?I can’t help but feel we are feeding this. Her comment history shows she’s made more than 6 posts like this in different places even though she’s deleted the thread. So many people providing advice and support. She needs to change how she receives this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/20 01:12 AM |
| 4 | Apparently now if you are just in a good mood, you're toxic.I’m literally the happiest I’ve been... I get to be a full time house wife. I wake up in the morning and make eggs and tomato for my hubby, clean all day, do my makeup, be girly. Cook more complicated dinners for him because I have more time. More relaxed, watch movies together... Lol talking about being in a good mood in a bad situation maybe refer to Acts 5:41 when the disciples were literally beat up and they skipped away because they felt so blessed to suffer for the sake of the Lord! How mu… | /r/RPChristians | 01/05/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Chastity and New FaithI have known many couples who are in committed relationships and then find Christ. The solution is to get married now. If you are both sure you want to be together, hold a small ceremony and get married. Withholding sex after partaking for so long will bring its own issues. Don’t delay! Flee from sin. The solution is a Godly marriage. This is if, Ofcourse, you are going to get married eventually anyway. Connect to a church, speak to a local pastor and explain your situation- you would be hard pr… | /r/RPChristians | 01/05/20 12:20 AM |
| 8 | I'm a teen girl who looks very masculine and unattractive. How can I look a lot more feminine and beautiful?I didn’t ask these questions in my original comment because I wanted to get a better understanding. I’ve seen your post history and you seem to be plagued with these issues constantly and you have reached out many times, so I ask; Do you know your mother? What is she like if so? Do you have aunties? Do you have a sister? What women are in your life? What are they like and how do they act? Do you know women who look like you? Have the same hair? Same skin? You need to remind yourself that what yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/20 03:23 PM |
| 13 | I'm a teen girl who looks very masculine and unattractive. How can I look a lot more feminine and beautiful?There can be online counselling or over the phone. There are many women who are not traditionally “pretty” but are well groomed, dress well, have good hygiene, wear a nice perfume etc... but that isn’t the issue here. If I looked at you for example, I could guarantee I would see something positive. That’s how I am as a person, I look for the good in others- that’s not always how I was, I used to look for the bad and I was utterly miserable. Right now you are looking for the bad, sometimes you ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/20 03:05 PM |
| 17 | I'm a teen girl who looks very masculine and unattractive. How can I look a lot more feminine and beautiful?Well, did you apply anything you have learnt from your last thread? Did anything stand out to you? Edit; I can hardly bare to read you be so unkind to yourself, I wonder if the issue is psychological. Are there counselling services in your area? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/20 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why I love my husbandA lot of prayer and self work is what worked for me...getting introduced helped so much too 💓 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/20 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.Thank you ! | /r/RPChristians | 30/04/20 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.Thank you xx God bless you! | /r/RPChristians | 30/04/20 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.I guess I don’t see the benefit? He’s aware of his failings and that’s probably why I’ve always had such a lovely experience with him. I wouldn’t go out of my way to ask him about where he could improve, it’s just not my place | /r/RPChristians | 30/04/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Why I love my husbandHehe, that’s ok. And thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/20 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone seen dynamics change latelytwilight zone into music plays | /r/RPChristians | 30/04/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.I am glad you enjoyed it :) | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.Wow, what a great point. I never saw it like that at all. I am happy to share some of our struggles, but I don’t know what to say in some regard. It almost depends on how the woman sees the man. My husband is my hero, he’s the best thing that’s happened to me besides salvation as I always say. But sure, he’s blunt, he’s to the point. Sometimes he leaves his socks in the weirdest places in the house and I always think ???how??? ...when he’s drained he goes quiet, as I think is the same with all o… | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.He loves his beard if that’s any consolation! But I understand what you’re saying. I obviously have complete confidence in my husband | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 08:38 PM |
| 3 | I’m 20 and I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m terrified that no one will want to be with me after I turn 25It seems like you are in the right place to work on your inward self if the outward self is up to standard. Now is the time to consider deeply what you want, decide where your values lay. Do you want a captain, someone who will treat you well and finish the race with you strong? Consider this strongly. You may not be attracted to the men around you, but there may be men that you reconsider once you have your wants written down. Not everything is about attraction, but if it matters highly to you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/20 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.Wow! What a thoughtful document those men have put together, they should have gotten a thesis out of that! I think my husband would find it interesting if we read and discussed some of the ideas together, I’ll enjoy reading what you’ve suggested too. A very helpful resource | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.Thank you. His actions convict me also! | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 01:50 PM |
| 4 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.Thank you, today was his 29th birthday so I thought it would be a nice way to honour him and also encourage others. Personally, I would absolutely love him to have a reddit account. However, beyond a gentle suggestion I don’t push him. My husband is much more industrial in the sense that he says he only needs to know the things he needs to know. He doesn’t enjoy reading (besides his bible) and cares about the immediate and what is around him. He is very strong willed. I drop suggestions here and… | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.Haha I had a laugh. What you said is actually quiet profound... acts out his passion and love for God I’ve found that in all the married couples I’ve come across through bible college, churches and mission, the ones that are actively in mission (fulfilling the great commission) or are giving up a lot financially or otherwise are so happy. I remember being on a mission trip with a 60 year old couple. The wife was speaking to me and saying “I still find him so sexy, I look at him and I adore him, … | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 01:36 PM |
| 6 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.My husband doesn’t have reddit himself, but he knows about my posting and I often talk about what happens on reddit. We’ve been married for almost 1 year. We’ve been together for 2. Courting was 8 months and married after 12 months together. He made clear he was in it for marriage on our 3rd date (but Ofcourse I knew he was from the beginning). Hubby asked for me not to engage in question about sex, which I will respect. | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Why I love my husbandOh I didn’t mean it like that at all!! I just meant if you make your own thread many women will see it and be able to support you, as comments aren’t seen as much that’s all ❤️❤️ thank you and God bless you I’ve said a prayer for you and your husband | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/20 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Why I love my husbandI see. Maybe post a thread about what is happening so other women can give you advice | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/20 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Why I love my husbandPray and cry out to God. Become a person who can be lead. You are in a good community | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/20 11:19 AM |
| 6 | Why I love my husbandSuch kind words I am humbled. It isn’t always perfect but there is definitely a peace in our marriage I can only contribute to our faith in God. The core values my husband holds are all centred in Christ. I cross posted this to r/RPChristians as I hoped it would inspire them to see what a fellow believer is doing and how grateful myself as a wife is to be treated how I am. I constantly feel undeserving and his actions convict me to treat him even better as a result. Xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/20 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Why I love my husbandIt has not been easy, I feel undeserving at many times. I will pray for you and your husband. You are in a good place to learn how to bring out the best in him xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/20 11:01 AM |
| 9 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.Maybe I should ask him? So it’s more accurate. My guess he would say I’m a good cook, caring and easy going. I’ll edit the response to let you know! Edit: “Honey, I’d be here all night telling you what you are for me.” I asked him to list 3 things regardless, he said; “Beauty, support/helper & very knowledgeable- wait actually, caring as well. Oh and loving. Sexy. You’re aware of your surroundings unlike me...haha” | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 10:06 AM |
| 12 | Why I love my husbandGreat question. I moved to a new area and one of our mutual friends told me he lived in the same area. He said that his friend (my husband) was a great man and a faithful Christian. With that introduction we went out for coffee and never looked back. Being introduced is a lovely way to meet someone and there can be confidence in their character and accountability! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/20 09:31 AM |
| 4 | Why I love my husbandSo true. Every time. It’s true love because they love us enough to tell us | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/20 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Can’t stop disrespecting women.Make a decision. Either you disrespect and degrade women , from what seems to be a deep hatred towards them, which can stem from many things including bad experiences with your mother- you call yourself “king” of your own life, put yourself on a pedestal and bark down on others...OR you can slap out of it. Realise everyone is made in God’s image. Realise you are a sinner, ask God for forgiveness and ask for Him to transform you. It’s one thing to have issue with how some women live and how they … | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/20 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Are there some worship songs you enjoy?So will I Vapour (personal favourite) Jesus! There is a hymn I am attempting to track down aswell, it’s old school and awesome. Lovely thread idea. Worship and praise is essential. | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/20 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone seen dynamics change latelyPotentially everyone is being kinder to each other because it’s a global pandemic and we all need a break? | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/20 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Men commonly find sundresses and flowy skirts and dresses to be attractiveIt is, thank you! Meanwhile my husband insists on jeans and a shirt with white sneakers is optimal 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement resources for being a better/warmer conversationalist and for regulating emotionsI highly highly suggest partaking in this test . Let me know if you have any questions, but it will help you have a deeper understanding of yourself and how your personality is built. There is an info page where it explains in detail :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/20 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Is there anything that we can do to help him?Pray for him and pray extra hard for yourself for God to make your own motives clear to you and purify them. You can’t control people but you can confront them in love. I didn’t see the video but if his Mrs didn’t mind it, it’s really not your place to say anything. What in particular disturbs you? It also seems by putting your “friend” up for public humiliation, you were not being Christ-like, potentially much more than your issue with your friend. | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Bible Study with Wife?I second going straight to scripture to study the bible together. You can take turns reading chapters aloud, discuss and pray together. If you are concerned about being able to have structure, the holy bible app has plenty of plans that walk you through specific passages with commentary | /r/askRPC | 27/04/20 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.That’s a very humble and gentle way to explain your point of view and I respect that a lot. Ultimately the sub would be about Godly relationships and marriages, as well as navigating the world as a Christian woman, along with the usual fun feminine topics of house making, makeup and general beauty advice. You have definitely aided the discussion, thank you for articulating your point of view in such a lovely way. Personally, I’m not into labels, especially when there is such a variance with Cath… | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/20 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Gospel books yes, gospel message as in the good news, no. It could very well be a semantics thing, as I am referring to traditional- namely- Roman Catholics. If we change the question to be more specific, however, we can have a definite answer: “are Catholics who adhere to official Roman Catholic beliefs and practices saved?” The answer to this question is “no.” Why? Because the official teaching of Roman Catholicism is that salvation is not by faith alone, through grace alone, in Christ alone. … | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Top comment and the thread attached! | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.I agree with your latter point, I rarely bother addressing theology online, which is why I would avoid the debate of such topics on the sub. This thread was more to smooth out any speed bumps. However, with faith, it is important to highlight where we disagree if it is a salvation issue! That’s the only exception and the only reason why I addressed it. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Church history clearly shows that the Catholic Church went off road. The reformation was bringing the Church back to the original, bible believing way. Modern Catholicism is not Christianity. So the Catholic Church of today is not “original” Christianity. This is a very basic explanation. Catholics believe in salvation by works through faith which is not biblical and will NOT save you. If it depended on what we did, then it completely undermines Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross. It wasn’t back hand… | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 05:38 AM |
| 0 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.This thread in particular is trying to work out the speed bumps in advance. Arguing over theology wouldn’t be allowed in the community. I’m sorry you felt off put by it. I have an Orthodox background and can really appreciate where you are coming from. God bless :) | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.I do understand. I’ve consistently posted on r/redpillwomen and earned 1 star. However majority of my posts have been discussion prompting or advice seeking. Since marrying my husband I have been able to present some theory , but majority of my guidance and advice has been through comments towards other women. I believe I need to be prayerful about taking this on, I do enjoy creating content a lot, especially God focused. I also enjoy beauty, makeup, skincare and taking care of the home, so I be… | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.It’s bizzare. There was a stark change, maybe at the start of the whole COVID issue? We were flooded in with curious and empathetic users that did not prescribe to RPW as a whole but found it valuable to cherry pick. Sure. Fine, go ahead. Then some of the more unchallenged principals begun to be questioned. Ofcourse, none of it has biblical standing nor accountability, so why wouldn’t it morph from its original design? In the end of the day, anything not justified by God’s word will become world… | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Thank you for your thought out comment. I agree with it not being a place for theological debate. I am weary of naming denominations or religions and I understand Catholics can be very sympathetic towards the Christian gospel. However, I believe a biblical statement of faith should be made and whoever agrees with the statement is free to participate on that deeper level. Obviously we can not police who participates in the sub but there should be an over arching authority, being scripture. “For n… | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 03:58 AM |
| 4 | Any Christian women who participate here that this idea appeals to, I would love to hear your advice!Ofcourse, I believe there are many Christian women who participate here however ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Any Christian women who participate here that this idea appeals to, I would love to hear your advice!Yes, I myself and some other women have noticed a new wave coming through that are very much more progressive. Open relationships and the like are becoming more common here and I’m not sure how that jives with everything. Also, more traditional stances are being challenged time and time again. It is a bit bizzare to have to constantly explain yourself for having a more conservative view, but the women with open relationships do not have to explain anything. That has been my recent experience whi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/20 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.That is really helpful and I appreciate your input a lot! I look forward to being prayerful about some of the topics that may be worth sharing. I have been married to my husband for under 1 year. I do believe I have valuable things to share from our experiences together. I will reflect on what you’ve written and I do value building rapport in the community. I’ve seen some women posters that I respect a lot and would love them to open up about their relationships in time too. Thank you again :) | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.This is AMAZING I can’t believe it’s the first I’ve seen of it! I will enjoy checking it out further. God bless you | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Lovely. To be honest, I’d much prefer to join a community that has already been started in some way. I think frankly I am unqualified to create the sub. I have only been married just under 1 year, and although me and my husband are happy and in love, a much more mature woman who has been married longer would have more to offer. I do have things that I believe are valuable to share and look forward to posting :) | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Well it’s nauseating. I understand Red Pill theory exists on a spectrum but my safe space from the world has been ruined in a way. Women constantly challenge my more traditional beliefs and there is pointless time spent arguing. Posts are made constantly about open marriages and hall passes. Sigh. I wrote about not saying no to my husband and if I really can’t be intimate I say “later” to not shut him down, and a whole bunch of women in the RED PILL community went a bit crazy about it. I’ll link… | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Agreed! | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Thank you, that’s very encouraging :) | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Thank you! I’m trying to be prayerful about it. Ultimately, while I do believe I do have valuable things to share, I’ve only been married just under 1 year. I’m 23. I’ve studied theology in bible college and have also worked in mission. I believe it would be much more fruitful to have mature women in the faith sharing and helping build the subreddit. I do plan to reach out to a few I’ve seen engage in Red Pill boards that I respect (yourself included). Also, great suggestion on preparing content… | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.I completely agree. Catholicism is clearly a different religion all together. Some Catholics Ofcourse can be saved and faith filled, but if one were to follow Catholic tradition it is far from Godly. I didn’t want to engage with the theological aspect, in my mission experience some Catholics Ofcourse can find salvation. That is why I wouldn’t be against them participating, as if you seek God and draw close to Him, He will draw near to you. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.I appreciate you sharing and it’s important you did. This is why I posted, to get more insight and to understand what would be some of the differences in audience too. Catholics would be more than welcome to involve themselves in the community. Ultimately a statement of faith would be made of salvation by grace through faith. God being the ultimate authority, who inspired and breathed into the words of the Christian bible. Granted, I still have many apprehensions. I myself am far from perfect an… | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.I’m not concerned about participation, rather theological standing, it would be beneficial to making it clear in a gospel statement as a theme. As you said yourself, they actually have a different Bible as it has extra books that they consider God breathed. In practical sense for example, if I was asking a sister for prayer, I would want that prayer to be to God through Christ, not to a saint to reach God. Edited to add: I understand that there are many beliefs throughout Catholicism and that ma… | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Thanks for bringing that up! I’m happy to clarify. I’ve been apart of some Christian boards where there were not strict boundaries (I’m not saying I’m the one to make them) and some women in particular felt the need to share visions, dreams and prophecy. I am not discounting all of those things, but I would say with confidence that it was not appropriate for those women to do that, not in guidance with how the bible instructs, so I am weary of this repeating itself. All would be welcome, but the… | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Genuinely curious about your philosophies. Not looking to debate just want to listen.Ahh! I love XXX Christians. I don’t miss having Facebook at all, with the exception of seeing the updates on their page. | /r/RPChristians | 21/04/20 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Genuinely curious about your philosophies. Not looking to debate just want to listen.To be honest, I would be wary to say (or of anyone who says) RP is supported by scripture because it’s such a large concept and there are parts that are not consistent or that have HORRIBLE exegesis. I don’t think it’s wise to blanket it as Christian, as only scripture is the authority. What you can do however, is take RP concepts in context from the bible (in my previous comment for example). The vein of RPChristian is based on traditional gender roles that are in the bible. I’d encourage you t… | /r/RPChristians | 21/04/20 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Genuinely curious about your philosophies. Not looking to debate just want to listen.What a great question! The theological aspect of the theories here revolve around scripture and people’s interpretation- because of this there are some inconsistencies in what is shared as there is 1) A vast representation of the denominations of Christianity here (some more traditional and some more progressive) eg: Reformed / Catholic 2) Red pill theory has always existed on a spectrum as it serves to better support the order in your life and make sense of our interactions. Where red pill & Ch… | /r/RPChristians | 21/04/20 02:28 AM |
| 4 | Saw Him liking some booty models photos on instagramOh gosh, it’s a little cringey. It reminds me of the men who comment on porn star photos on Facebook when everyone can see what they write??? Like why like photos and advertise you’re looking at it. Instagram is particularly bad because of all the photoshop and poses. I would find that really difficult to accept. Maybe it’s best you bring it up like “babe, by the way... you do know everyone can see what you’re liking? Just a heads up” | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Let's Have a Little Talk About RespectI think I know the one you are talking about. No need to “call him out” was just curious as you referenced it. | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/20 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Becoming beautifulYes, great points. I will add a note that a large part to me working on my beauty inside and out is accepting my husbands (sometimes brutal) honesty. I accept his advice and words even though they may be convicting or uncomfortable. Examples including; I didn’t dress in a way he thought was nice, so I changed the way I dressed. He also doesn’t let me eat unhealthy often nor buy unhealthy food for the house. | /r/RPChristians | 18/04/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Becoming beautifulWow, I’m reading some of her posts. I will reach out, thank you | /r/RPChristians | 18/04/20 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Hate Going To ChurchYou should definitely consider crossposting to r/reformed . Thank you for sharing. It is difficult as a young woman to not look well when in public. It puts some of us in a difficult position. I wish there was clearer guidance on this. Granted I’ve seen some girls show their belly’s at church. They would be more respectful if they were told otherwise I’m sure! | /r/RPChristians | 18/04/20 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Becoming beautifulIt’s a lovely community but there is a spectrum of women who follow traditional values to different degrees. Very useful for self improvement, but no spiritual guidance. Some Christian women (like myself) post :) | /r/RPChristians | 18/04/20 01:07 PM |
| 6 | What she does before, she does afterGreat post and refreshing from some of the more worrying things I’ve read on this sub. Simple and practical! I’ll also add, marrying them won’t make anything better or solve any issues. Women fall into this trap a lot “if we just get married, he will want kids” “if we just get married, he will spend more time with me and be more committed” | /r/RPChristians | 18/04/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Let's Have a Little Talk About RespectCould you link the previous thread you mentioned? | /r/RPChristians | 18/04/20 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Listen up you pricks, we have work to do.Ok- is there a sister sub for Christian RP women? | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/20 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Listen up you pricks, we have work to do.Sorry, have I misunderstood? Is this sub for women also? | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?Wow, thank you for sharing. That’s really difficult. It may be worth posting this as a thread on its own so women who have been in a relationship longer than me can advise their best. I’m really sorry this has happened in your relationship but I know you are not alone. Spirituality has a lot to do with sexuality and you may feel more fulfilled if you explore that. Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together. If you post a thread please let me know I would love to read the replies and be t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/20 11:15 AM |
| 1 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?I am so sorry to hear that. Has anything changed significantly in your life? A new job? A sick family member? Are you using hormonal contraceptives that could imbalance you? Is your mental health ok? There are so many factors in this that ultimately, it may be worth speaking to your GP about as libido change may be a sign of something else that isn’t balanced too well. As you said you are fairly young and fit. All that aside, if you believe it’s purely motivation- I suggest doing a every 2 day d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/20 09:42 AM |
| 2 | He proposed!Congratulations!! Enjoy the start of the rest of your life together 💓💓💓 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/20 03:18 AM |
| 2 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?Lovely and thoughtful. Supporting your husbands weight loss is a huge deal, I bet he appreciates it beyond belief! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?I’m happy everyone is sharing! 💓 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | How did you meet your men/husbands?Through a mutual friend, ultimately through the Church :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?I seriously don’t understand why people downvoted your comment. It’s what you personally do and follow- I’ve noticed in the comments many of the women come from different cultural backgrounds where there are different norms and expectations. If we’re not complaining about it, take it at face value ladies! If everyone is happy, is it really wrong? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?Thank you, I love your list too. And so true, unwinding after work is a ritual for my hubby. He’s not a huge talker over dinner either, I don’t push him! Thank you for sharing xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 04:59 PM |
| 6 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?That is so caring of him to support you through that difficult time in such an understanding way. When a man bonds with a woman with that mutual understanding and safety it is truly something special. Thank you for being real because bluntly- I don’t want my husband sleeping with another woman (or wanting to) either, lol! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 13 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?You are so right. What’s crazy is people claim sex is purely physical for men- but in a committed relationship it fulfils an essential form of intimacy. It gives them joy and makes them feel wanted. If you asked a man would you prefer your wife to keep the house clean, cook all the meals OR have a healthy sex life, they’d all chose the latter! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 03:12 PM |
| 3 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?Loved what you wrote! I’m learning so much from you ladies. So many good points. 💓 | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?Yes. A Captain, I’d say ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 02:42 PM |
| 3 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?Beautiful! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 02:38 PM |
| 7 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?This is something all women need to take extremely seriously, as this topic becomes more difficult the older you grow with your partner but still just as vital. It will completely jeopardise and potentially end a marriage or make your SO deeply depressed and ashamed. The consequences to withholding intimacy are endless in a relationship... | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 02:37 PM |
| 23 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?I will tell you, simply put and maybe controversially, being a RPW will make you vulnerable if you are with a man that is not captain material. It will open you up potentially for abuse. I say this because I’ve experienced it myself in past relationships. Because of this, some of the methods RPW follow may seem uneasy, but they will only work in a healthy environment when the man is the right match. A lot of these things should only happen in a committed relationship. You do not need to adopt al… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 02:30 PM |
| 2 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?That’s lovely! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 02:24 PM |
| 0 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?Wow, beautiful points. Thank you for sharing! Point #2 is huge for me too- do NOT move his things! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 02:23 PM |
| 6 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?Well said! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 10:58 AM |
| 50 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?I totally understand what you are saying. I guess it’s because me and my husband have been very honest with each other about our needs and sexuality, for myself especially I try my best to be enthusiastic and even when I’m not in the mood, when we start to be intimate it’s easy for me to enjoy it. My husband has always said that he never wants me to do things I don’t enjoy just for his sake and he has always been a believer that no one can keep that up. But hearing “no” in married life can be an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 10:17 AM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?I’m thankful that my husband is absolutely LOVING me at home. I could cry just thinking about it... he said “it’s so good to see you happy again” when I was cooking in the kitchen. I am SO happy to be quarantined with my best friend. He keeps calling me his “hot wife” when I do things around the house. I guess because he’s home he is seeing the work go in. God, I love him! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 06:26 AM |
| 7 | Does this sub consist of mostly Christian women?I’m a born again Christian and sometimes offer RPW view point from a Faith point of view if I believe it is relevant and helpful :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 06:25 AM |
| 5 | How to be more "gentle" during everyday interactions?Being honest with yourself is the first step. It’s great you’ve realised you have this area to improve and you want to. You mentioned you are not religious but gentleness is a “fruit of the Spirit”. I mention this because patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, love, joy, peace, gentleness and self control are all fruits of the spirit - all these go hand in hand. If you are wanting to be gentle in particular, learning to exercise your self control and patience is key as being slow to anger a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you find that insecure men have a problem with "confident" women?Yes! Some men are drawn, others resent. It all depends on character. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/20 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you find that insecure men have a problem with "confident" women?🤮 Oh the horrible flash backs of me feeling guilted into constantly reassuring men. What a nightmare. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/20 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you find that insecure men have a problem with "confident" women?Unfortunately I can testify to this being an issue in the workplace, even whilst doing my best to avoid them. Very difficult for me and it was sure a way to grow in grace... | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you find that insecure men have a problem with "confident" women?Insecure people can have issue with anyone who they perceive to be better than them as it intensifies their insecurities. Men aren’t immune to this concept and although some men may admire confident women, some become bitter and can become passive aggressive or resentful. I’ve found when living RPW lifestyle, many people find problems with me. I do have a more extroverted personality, but sometimes I just feel like they are “hating” (for lack of a better word) because they are so insecure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Quarantine recipes?LOL- In saying that, there was only gluten free pasta left at the shop and I attempted to make Mac & cheese... I’m not sure what exactly went wrong but both me and hubby agreed it tasted like vomit. I think we couldn’t get past the texture | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/20 03:45 AM |
| 15 | What value does your man bring to your life?Wow what a blessing from God. Thank you for sharing that! Reminds me of my Hubby. God brought us together, we totally needed each other. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/20 03:34 PM |
| 3 | What value does your man bring to your life?That’s beautiful | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/20 03:32 PM |
| 9 | How to date in late twenties to get commitment from guys who are also late twentiesSure, potentially, your post comes across that you may rule someone out if they were a bit older. Would this be the case? Ofcourse there are quality men in your age group- the worry is that you are limiting your options and may not consider a high quality man due to his age. You definitely have the freedom to find this out first hand as everyone’s social circles are different! In mine, the men are just older. All the best | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/20 05:59 AM |
| 8 | How to date in late twenties to get commitment from guys who are also late twentiesCan I please understand a bit more in depth as to why you want to date a man your age? Why wouldn’t a gentleman in his early 30s be ok? Me and my husband are 6 years apart and it is wonderful | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/20 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Remember to put in the effort for the man who matters most in your life!Also I think our around the house clothes really do matter. I’m making an effort to slowly gather up cuter casual dresses or pjs that aren’t stained, worn down or extremely oversized. You can have the best of both worlds! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Remember to put in the effort for the man who matters most in your life!I second the gaining weight comment!! Keeping yourself groomed and slim is the most important right now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineHehe, good to know 😛 I did think the hobo steaks weren’t an instant pot thing don’t worry | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/20 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineYUM-O!! That sounds so good, thank you for sharing! I have my eyes on an instant pot, I’m just going to have to pull the trigger and get it for the home, I think it’ll be a life saver! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/20 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Has your intuition ever been wrong?No unfortunately, feelings about people or situations that is. However, there are instances with illness where my body goes into “doom” mode, where I can convince myself in those moments I am going to die... hasn’t happened yet so I attribute those to panic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineCertain things make sense, I get home first and I know how to cook, so I prepare the meals. I’m picky about which loads go together (light, dark, delicate) so I prefer to put the loads on- my husband is very helpful in putting them up and taking the clothes down if I can’t. I have to say he definitely does put me first, but I understand how people may have understood otherwise. This negative situation around the virus has brought up some valuable time to reassess how the house is working current… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineWell this is an opportunity to press the reset button like I mentioned. I very well may chose to stay at home when this crazy period is over, we will have to see! Thanks your your advice | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/20 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineYes! 💓 agreed | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineNo I didn’t feel accused and you raised a fair concern. I guess with the context of all he does hopefully it sounds more even, it’s very ability based too | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineI am so big on “to do” lists! They are great. It’s good you keep each other accountable. Thank you for sharing :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineEdited my post to address :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineThat is great! And lol about the toys.. maybe make a tidy up time with your 3y , in childcare we would play a song and all tidy up together and then the kids would show us some very interesting places they hid toys !! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineThank you for sharing! That was very helpful. I’ve got my eyes on an instant pot lol, just a little one. I wish I grew up with that kind of routine, it’s been very difficult trying to figure it all out on my own. I remember my mother would leave clean clothes on the couch for days and days not folding them... | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineThat’s a fair point, I edited my post to address what my husband does do at home and for his family as he has many responsibilities. But I agree working together to find a good routine is vital | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineHaha! I know that feeling... once I made a curry and put way too much yogurt and my hubby said “this tastes... interesting” oh gosh. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routine😂 I fold it when I take it off the line... getting it out of the laundry basket is always the issue | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineThat’s great advice! You are so creative with your meals! I’m inspired. Thank you for the tips they are really helpful. I edited my post to address what my hubby does at home. It’s definitely not all on my shoulders :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineHe’s never been upset with me about washing, quiet simply if we’ve agreed it’s something I’ve said I would take care of and it’s consistently something he’s had to worry about, that is unfair. I’ve edited my post to include what my hubby does around the house for more context. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineThat is lovely. You have a great attitude! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Being a reliable first mate and taking care of the home routineHe made me instant noodles the other day ;) haha. His way of treating me is taking me out to dinner or things like that, which I’m grateful for | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 10:35 PM |
| 4 | Worked on my femininity and I have NEVER felt better!Wow. That sounds so fulfilling and natural. I’m so happy for you and your boyfriend! Isn’t it lovely? You are still yourself but you’ve allowed yourself to be more in tune with your design. Beautiful! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 09:42 AM |
| 5 | Self Improvement Reading RecommendationsThank you for the mini reviews!! ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/20 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Cultivating femininityLavender is so beautiful in a garden! There’s a breed that has “fairy wings” at their tips, highly recommend! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/20 11:08 AM |
| 10 | Cultivating femininity•Learning to bake desserts rather than cook the main meals if that’s mums forte is a great way to go. Having a signature throw together sweet thing for a pick me up or to bring over to friends places is a good way to bless people. •Growing femininity directly has to do with how you hold yourself and how you speak, so keeping your mind busy with literature or watching documentaries I believe is really helpful. It’s horrible hearing a woman talk about something she has no clue about! So we either … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/20 11:07 AM |
| 95 | Curious to hear people’s strategies in responding to pushy/ forward attempts at sexual escalation?Oh my goodness. To be completely honest, the problem is completely with the men, and how you’ve vetted them to begin with. Try not to date at night at the beginning of meeting someone. Coffees and brunches are great. This will give him an idea of your values and how you are, any man that is after sex will start to back off. To answer your question if you find yourself in that situation, you simply lay out your boundaries “this makes me feel very uncomfortable” and you don’t need to say anything … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Dating app first date - offered to pick me up from homeSigh I learned the hard way... so many pointless dinners. I knew in the first 5min it wouldn’t work but now we have to stretch it out | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/20 01:06 PM |
| 8 | Excerpts relating n-count, likelihood of infidelity, sociosexual orientation and divorce in women.I’ve seen it justified in more physiological terms; higher n-counts = higher neuroticism trait = unhappier in a relationship = higher level of unfaithfulness. Jordan Peterson explains some of these concepts and personality traits that I think weigh very heavily and effect the numbers in the statistics above. See: the big 5 aspects scale | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/20 12:29 PM |
| 15 | Excerpts relating n-count, likelihood of infidelity, sociosexual orientation and divorce in women.Definitely, but remember God designed marriage for all men and women, not just believers. Non believers can still have somewhat stable marriages, as that is in God’s design | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/20 12:13 PM |
| 2 | I think my IUD is making me depressedPersonally I had the copper IUD, which was completely detrimental to my health. It made me bleed heavily, cramp horribly and this depleted my already low iron levels. I was miserable. The experience getting it put in and pulled out was also traumatic. It made my IBS unbearable- during my period I would vomit and have horrible trips to the bathroom. I had it taken out after six months. (They recommend to have it in longer to adjust, I simply couldn’t make it) I had “the rod” that was a hormonal f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/20 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Is it possible for me to turn out different?You have an amazing opportunity to turn out nothing like them. You know where they went wrong and God willing, you will not follow any of their footsteps. I can relate a lot, my mother was terrible and I never had any solid female role models. But here I am, making my husband as happy as can be. You need to push back and REFUSE to turn out anything like your mum. Just like how I refuse to be anything like mine. Your children won’t have to go through what you did, that is a blessing. People are s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/20 06:08 AM |
| 2 | My husband is sick and I feel helpless. Any and all advice appreciate.God forbid. I’m telling him to go back to his doctor today and I’ve made him stay home from Church. Another reason why I feel helpless, if I had it my way he would stay home until he was better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | My husband is sick and I feel helpless. Any and all advice appreciate.That would be a nightmare. I think we have assumed because I had a cold before him, he caught what I had. It just took me a few days to get over but because he was so run down looking after me it hit him hard. Ofcourse he shouldn’t even leave the house. We are staying home today from church because there are many older people there. In the end of the day, I can’t force him to stay home. He feels a lot of pressure from work to go in because of the time he took off taking care of me after my opera… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 10:15 PM |
| 3 | My husband is sick and I feel helpless. Any and all advice appreciate.Thank you that is great advice. Maybe there is some pneumonia involved, he isn’t the best at relaying what the doctor said! I will suggest a fluffier pillow for him tonight and will put on the humidifier. Thanks again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 11:16 AM |
| 2 | My husband is sick and I feel helpless. Any and all advice appreciate.Ofcourse, wise words. Thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 10:42 AM |
| 4 | My husband is sick and I feel helpless. Any and all advice appreciate.It seems to be the flu, as if it was a cold it should have passed? I don’t understand the short course of antibiotics the GP gave him to be honest. He’s snoring very loudly which is unusual and is sometimes having trouble breathing. He got a little bit better at one point then pushed himself to go to work and got worse again. Do you have any thoughts? And you put that in a really good way :) thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Feel guilty about my pastNo problem bub. I’ll write something here and if you have any specific questions feel free to ask. Like most things, I waited for a weekend, that way he wasn’t tired from work or had anything heavy on his mind. I didn’t start the conversation when he was driving or when he was eating. I waited until we had enjoyed most of our day together at his place (so it wouldn’t put us in a weird mood the whole day). I had in the back of my mind to have this conversation and had prayed about an opportunity.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Feel guilty about my pastI don’t want to use generalisations, most men in their later 20s understand if they date someone in that age group they’ve most likely had partners before. If you need any advice feel free to DM me as I’ve had this convo with my hubby. It went well for us xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Feel guilty about my pastHow old are you two? Was he a virgin? If it disturbs you, Ofcourse bring it up to him- but don’t doubt him or challenge him if he tells you he has accepted it or is “over it” which he may very well be if you two are engaged. I was my hubby’s first and I’d had many relationships prior, he’s a strong confident man and although it’s not ideal, it didn’t bother him because 1) we are Christians and believe when I repented of what I had done, I was forgiven & 2) He sees me as a person and loves me dee… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 09:09 AM |
| 2 | My mental health is so bad right nowWow, you have a sweet face and lovely hair! Your dancing is really impressive. It’s great you have a hobby that is active. It’s seems like it’s a great time to put the focus back onto some of these things that you have enjoyed in the past. Great stuff! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 04:46 AM |
| 3 | My mental health is so bad right nowThere’s no shame in being medicated. I take Zoloft (Australian brand for steraline 50mg) and it helps me maintain a stronger emotional state. Times I’ve gone off them, my husband has noticed and commented. They help me sleep better, maintain my weight and mood. In the long run I don’t want to be on them but for now they give me support I need. I’d encourage you to consider medication as a short term solution. In the long term, seeking out therapy that is 1 on 1 may be better, some services are f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/20 03:50 AM |
| 26 | What is being submissive to you? I’m loving to read the threads here but it’s all so philosophical! What is a practical everyday example of submission? Thank you!Knowing that although I am free to discuss things with him and have my own opinions, he has the last say on the issue. If he puts his foot down, I will need to respect whatever he decides. This doesn’t make me upset because ultimately I married someone who I trusted and who would build a family structure/ environment I wanted to be in. My husband has had the last say on how much money we save and where we live. Smaller examples include the size of the cups we bought for the house. As you can tel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/20 12:09 PM |
| 2 | What’s a good, cheap but sweet gift I can send my mom (she lives out of state) for her birthday (she’s going to be 62 years old) in a week?Amazing!! Started following | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/20 10:16 AM |
| 5 | LunchesOh my goodness I know the pain- my hubby only eats chicken breast. Apparently every other part of the chicken has “after taste” . Also won’t eat reheated chicken breast ...the things we do for love | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/20 09:06 PM |
| 6 | The key question women seek an answer to: is there something you find in me that is so rare that it would outweigh all other temptations.IMO- that’s why I value my husband’s relationship with God. I’m not first, I’m not #1, this way he is grounded and his value and treatment of me isn’t because “I’m so special” but is because of what God commands and what my hubby obeys out of love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/20 07:47 AM |
| 1 | What are some habits/ways to glow up you would recommend to a single RP women in her early twenties.Oh my goodness thank you for the heads up! In the end of the day, I heavily rely on a big silly hat and high cut shirts/ long sleeves. Sun protection is unfortunately complicated and isn’t achieved by sunscreen alone | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/20 05:01 AM |
| 19 | What are some habits/ways to glow up you would recommend to a single RP women in her early twenties.Sunscreen 🧴 | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/20 03:25 AM |
| 14 | What are some habits/ways to glow up you would recommend to a single RP women in her early twenties.•Sunscreen •Retinol •Keep your weight consistent •Have a healthy way of winding down or de-stressing •Learn how to speak well | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Finding like-minded women IRLWoohoo you should come rock climbing with us! I’m MIA at the moment as I’m recovering from an OP. Dm me anytime :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | It’s overEveryone has areas of improvement. I think there’s already some great advice in this thread and to be frank, part of being a high value woman is being who is willing, able to improve, aware and capable of RPW values. She’s made a huge step towards that. I don’t think it’s nessisary to think or say otherwise, as in this situation OP was in a disintegrating relationship and working her way out- not a helpful time to judge. Also seems OP is aware of where she has gone wrong, amongst other ladies pr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/20 10:51 AM |
| 4 | It’s overSo so so proud of you, let yourself cry! Get it out man. There’s no shame in crying. I’ll say a prayer for you | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/20 11:55 PM |
| 16 | It’s overWow. I am so proud of you reading this. You are amazing!!! Thank God you left him! You did the right thing. He took you so for granted and it’s heart breaking. You are a high value woman and will find someone who cares about you. Go 0 contact with that jerk and block him. Clean cut. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?I’d recommend identifying something that would greatly benefit you and aim to fulfill that. For example, some women may find some pampering is all they need. A monthly professional massage, getting their nails done, shopping with your friends more often etc- monetary fixes. Others may find they need a fix of time, more time out, more scheduled days off, a more flexible job etc. I would start by addressing what you do have power and control over and fixing this up. Will buying a slow cooker help … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | At what age is appropriate to teach children about fitness? What about skincare? And makeup?As young as possible!! They will always have skin and a body (I hope..) so it’s essential to teach kids to apply sunscreen young, as soon as they are able to do it themselves. In childcare when they were too young we used to pump it into the child’s hands, use their hands to apply it then wash their hands. It’s a bit more fun for them and it gets the desensitised to the sunscreen experience! From a young age your child should be active, with the exception of heavy weight lifting as it can stunt … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/20 12:16 AM |
| 6 | HiWelcome!! I think you’ll enjoy it here :) as others have said, side bar, but you can search by best of - all time- and get a good feel for the subreddit too | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 11:04 PM |
| 2 | RPW meet ups? Coffee chats?Totally get it , for the best | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 12:31 PM |
| 2 | RPW meet ups? Coffee chats?Woohoo well if you visit hit me up!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Finding like-minded women IRLAlso! Try physical activity meet ups via reddit? I’ve gone to a rock climbing event and surprisingly a lot of people off reddit are down to earth and accepting, not all conservative but a decent amount. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Finding like-minded women IRLWell if you’re in Sydney AUS, there’s me! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 09:05 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsStill equally awesome! All the best! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 12:52 AM |
| 6 | What do you talk about on dates in a LTR?We like talking about things we have experienced together- it’s a way of processing it I guess? So that includes movies, tv shoes, sermons, songs and we reflect on them. We talk about family (not in a gossipy way). We talk about goals we have (building our house) and we talk about work. Ofcourse, topics are different from when we first got together but still lovely. Sometimes we sit there in silence and enjoy each others company and the night. Something nice about a LTR is there’s no pressure or… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 12:21 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsYes! I want to read more of my bible too. You know the Bible app has reading plans you can commit to ? Helps a lot I think | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 12:14 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsMy main goal is to recover from my operation completely, as I’m still very sore 1 week after. I want to gain my strength back and eat healthy. I also want to buy/ start using a slow cooker and show my hubby how to cook a few meals, as when I was sick he had to get take out a lot- he expressed a want to know how to cook meals so why not! :) I also want to wear a lot more makeup, I’ve invested so much in it and I hardly wear it which is boarder line insane. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 12:13 AM |
| 15 | [Advice] How to talk to an "alpha" guy and look cool while doing it.Great thoughts. In the end of the day, men LOVE women who are sure of themselves and know what they want. “Alphas” find this refreshing and worth while to have someone who can discuss with them on an equal playing field. Desperation will also make a man run faster than Usain Bolt... away from your direction. I found what helped me was the thought and confidence I had built up in myself, I knew that I had a lot to offer and I knew I could make a man happy. My Christian faith that acknowledges tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Podcasts for redpill women?Imagine how wholesome a cooking show/ pep talk would be from an older lady who’s had a meaningful marriage!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/20 01:34 PM |
| 5 | This 1955 ‘Good House Wife’s Guide’ Explains How Wives Should Treat Their HusbandsYes I still laughed when the article said be a little gay. Also, great points. Can’t wait until I’m a stay at home mum. Loved the point about planning ahead about dinner. Me and my hubby always go back and forth “what do you want to eat” “what ever you want” “I don’t mind” “what do you want!!!!!” Lol. I’m going to plan ahead. If I’m the cook, it’s on me to decide. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/20 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Baking Ideas?It might be good to make a batch of muffins he enjoys :) blueberry is fresh but not everyone’s favourite. Maybe they’ll freeze ok too? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Baking Ideas?Yes or add some walnuts if you live in a hot climate! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | What are some physical hygiene tips/Ways you like to care for your physical hygiene?Great advice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/20 06:16 AM |
| 2 | What are some physical hygiene tips/Ways you like to care for your physical hygiene?I second working your way up to the 10mins! The first use try 2, then a week later try 5, my first use of 5mins peeled the skin around my mouth and gave me a coldsore from the dryness ! But, it’s amazing and used properly is ridiculously good value | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/20 10:52 AM |
| 5 | What are some physical hygiene tips/Ways you like to care for your physical hygiene?I clean mine everyday before hopping into bed! I would encourage you to do it daily- phones are filthy | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/20 10:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some physical hygiene tips/Ways you like to care for your physical hygiene?My hair is such a big let down lately, I’ve invested in some Haircare but am still starting out- tips for waking up with hair that looks good? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/20 10:08 AM |
| 1 | What are some physical hygiene tips/Ways you like to care for your physical hygiene?Just FYI, don’t over do it. You can damage the skin barrier and promote acne. Transfer of already existing acne can also occur. Your hair won’t grow back thicker but is more noticeable as the hair on our face points down, newly growing hair grows “out” It’s worth getting it done professionally the first time to fully understand how light the process is! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/20 10:06 AM |
| 10 | Realizing how truly annoying I amHahahaha oh my gosh I’m so annoying too. God help us. Thank you for sharing , let’s aim to have 20/20 vision of 2020. Be more aware of our surroundings :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/20 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.At the end of the day, an eyelash curler will probably make an identical result :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/20 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.I am on the market for a lash serum! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.So kind thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.Yes I agree curling everyday as a part of your routine is really effective! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.It may have been the person who did yours? I’m sorry you had that experience, it happened to me once too. It was very upsetting | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.If you’re in Sydney there is a great place in Bexely but it’s $100 for the lift and a tint. I’ve also had it done at Rhodes before at the ibrow experts and they charged around $60 and did a lovely job. Unfortunately, this does depend on who you get doing your lashes. I’ve gone to a nail salon and they messed my eyelash perm up pretty bad. Try to go to people who do eyelashes/ eyebrows only , it’s a much safer bet :) bonus if there are before and after photos ! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.So keen to try that! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 12:55 PM |
| 7 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.Could you recommend any brands? That’s a great point | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.Awesome! I’ve been meaning to pick up some dye, I feel like I’d manage better with that than the at home perm | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 11:07 AM |
| 1 | He proposed and I said YES!Beautiful!! Congratulations! ❤️❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | How are you preparing for the new year?That’s amazing!! Great goals | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 10:43 AM |
| 5 | Being a red pill woman =/= being his mum.Hahaha I had a giggle | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/20 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Being a red pill woman =/= being his mum.I have no idea why people downvoted you, perhaps they can share why?? Thank you for sharing your experience I found it helpful to hear from a male perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/20 12:12 AM |
| 3 | How are you preparing for the new year?Wow!! It sounds like 2020 is bringing some amazing things your way. So happy to hear. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/20 12:08 AM |
| 9 | Being a red pill woman =/= being his mum.Sure, the article isn’t perfect and it’s not a hill I’ll die on. I think one of the points I took away is that being his “mum” implying he is childish. If you treat your SO like a child, the power balance becomes very off and resentment on both sides will build up. Even an example as simple as reminding my husband about his wallet and keys- which I’ve stopped doing now- he’s on occasion responded with “thanks mum” or “you’re not my mother”... that’s a pretty clear boundary he’s laid down that to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/19 07:09 PM |
| 5 | Being a red pill woman =/= being his mum.I think they may have passed over the intent of the article. Sure you can get specific and talk about hypotheticals; breaking down physical attraction to aspects of a mother figure etc... but the article is very clearly stating a specific example and using it as a metaphor- because in reality, you wouldn’t want those aspects in an ideal mother either! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/19 01:16 PM |
| 15 | Being a red pill woman =/= being his mum.It’s definitely a simplified theory that in reality is much more nuanced | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/19 10:40 AM |
| 4 | Being a red pill woman =/= being his mum.I was about to say Ofcourse not all, but it is safe to say most aren’t...then I saw your username. Go on and be happy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/19 06:47 AM |
| 2 | How are you preparing for the new year?That’s amazing and so exciting! Good on you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/19 10:10 PM |
| 2 | How are you preparing for the new year?Wow that was an intense read. I’m going to look into it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How are you preparing for the new year?I’ve heard so much about silent retreats. What made you want to go on one? Can you please share some details? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | How are you preparing for the new year?Same. Great stuff :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 11:43 PM |
| 2 | How are you preparing for the new year?That’s just awesome! And thank you, I thought it was so cute. Thanks for the reminder to wash my pillows I completely forgot 😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 11:43 PM |
| 2 | How are you preparing for the new year?Hahaha that’s awesome! I’d love to see which planner you pick up. I love them too. Organising paperwork is a great way to go | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 11:41 PM |
| 2 | How are you preparing for the new year?That’s awesome! A clean fridge is a great feeling. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 11:40 PM |
| 2 | 2020 Goal SettingThat’s a very underrated goal. Amazing. All the best for your new year, feel free to reach out for support! Xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 07:42 AM |
| 1 | I have no idea how to cook anything more than pasta and I need help startingSeriously what you can cook is a great start and covers so many staples in cooking. A baked dinner may be a good birthday gift? Baked potatoes are good with baked carrots, they go long and slow and the more colour the better. You can pan fry some chicken (crumb it if you like) and make some mushroom sauce? Depends on what he likes. For your exploration into cooking, master some baked dinners. They have a bit of preparation (peeling) but once they’re in the oven you can forget about it for a good… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/19 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Keeping up appearances when stressed/busyOh my goodness! You sound so much like me. I’ll link some similar threads. I’m so sorry you are feeling this way and it’s great that you’re reaching out. I highly recommend getting your eyelashes tinted/ lifted. This lasts months and makes a huge difference to your facial appearance. Beyond that unfortunately the only thing I’ve found helps is a bit of retail therapy- buy yourself a nice lipstick or something you can use and be happy to use. Helps relieve stress and helps you look put together. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/19 08:16 AM |
| 4 | Christmas showed me how much my marriage needed RPWWhat amazing gifts and an amazing lesson to bring into the new year. Such a blessing! All the best XX | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/12/19 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with snarky comments (especially from women) in a graceful way?There is great advice in this thread already. I just wanted to say I can really relate, to the point where I believe women are commonly jealous of me because I’m young, decent looking and happy. I’ve had hair dressers ruin my hair, ladies dig into my nails and others try to embarrass me when I shop...the list goes on. For whatever reason, some women are completely sour. They can’t stand that you’re happy and take care of yourself and they feel intimidated. Just know that is a complete reflection… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/19 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Being looked down on because you are a well kept feminine woman, anyone ever been there?100% | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 08:05 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffThat is great advice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 11:45 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffI have been extremely overworked, I’ve been cooking less and quite at home. I’m barley able to hold a conversation I’m so tired and my ongoing health issues mean I’m in pain most of the time. My husband sees I’m miserable and there isn’t much of a solution until a coworker returns and I can breath. I feel very sorry for my husband. Not even sure what to do | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 12:53 AM |
| 2 | He proposed!So happy for you!! If you need any wedding/ post wedding advise don’t be a stranger!! Congratulations ❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/19 08:49 AM |
| 1 | I really wish I could meet like minded women.I agree. Shallow relationships are easy and spontaneous but empty, worth while friendships require time put aside and can be inconvenient to meet, but are crucial. I’m excited for you! I’ll say a prayer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/19 12:07 PM |
| 2 | I really wish I could meet like minded women.In saying that, the older crowd isn’t too bad either. Most of the women my age I’ve befriended are married (like myself) but have kids. I don’t have kids at the moment. But besides that we are at the same stage of life. I’ve never been the girl to have many girlfriends but being able to message a lady from church to pray for me or to go to dinner with our husbands and have fellowship has been amazing :) I would definitely encourage you to go | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 5 | I really wish I could meet like minded women.Sigh same. Church has been my lifeline meeting likeminded women | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/19 12:51 PM |
| 4 | Potential prospect seems too comfortable letting me pay. Bad sign?Hey the other ladies covered the bulk of the advise but I just wanted to say good on you for being aware of it, and because you are aware of it you’ll be able to notice it more clearly moving ahead. You’ll know if his behaviour becomes cheap or if you’re being taken advantage of. I wouldn’t call this initial senario a red flag, but it’s given off a little “hey! Notice this just incase” in your head, and that’s fine. :) you’ll also notice if his behaviour becomes more chivalrous when you are a lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/19 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Advice on reclaiming my life and relationship with a chronic illnessWhen reading your post I actually thought you were me. Thank you for sharing what you’re going through. I made a thread a while ago about RPW & illness asking similar questions, maybe looking through people’s comments there will also help you. I want to remind you of a simple yet comforting truth. Men and women are different. This means your SO can do things that you physically can’t do for yourself- and likewise, what you do for your SO, he can’t do for himself. So remember the things that he n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/19 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Need AdviceI’m saddened to hear he treats you like that. In honesty, you have the right to leave him as he has committed adulterous thoughts, via a religious standard nullifying the marriage to an extent. If you want to work on it, remind him, it’s you and me VS the problem- NOT you VS me. Also a suggestion is asking “why?” An example very scripted convo; “I want to do xyz” “I hear you want to do xyz, that makes me uncomfortable. Can you help me understand why you want that? I want to understand where you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/19 01:18 PM |
| 4 | Need AdviceI admit I would do the things he requests too. You are his wife, and although he’s going about asking in abhorrent ways, this may reveal that he isn’t being satisfied in the way he feels he needs or potentially does not feel connected to you. I understand your religion may say otherwise, but what happens in a bedroom between husband and wife is between them, and if you want to keep it that way you may find compromise needs to be made. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/19 02:13 AM |
| 10 | Need AdviceAmen. “If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.” Proverbs 25:21-22 Although he is your husband, not your enemy, he is treating you in a hostile way. Do not waiver on your beliefs and continue in kindness and gentleness towards him, this will convict him. If you are religious I greatly suggest you bring in a mediator from your church/temple/etc. At the leas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/19 02:10 AM |
| 3 | At what age and how did you meet your boyfriend/husband?Met 21, married by 22 :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How to CARE about my appearance?Very well said :) what a great time to take advantage of the motivation you’re feeling!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 12:15 AM |
| 13 | I'm so happy with my boyfriend of 6 months that I'm becoming fearful and riddled with anxiety that I will lose him in the future.I still feel that sometimes even though my SO proposed and is ridiculously in love and committed. When doubts go through my head I realise it’s because of how much I love him so therefore how horrible it would be to not have him. So I tell him. I say “I am so thankful for you” “I love you” “you are a huge blessing in my life” These things may or may not be appropriate in your context. Don’t let the anxiety result in nothing, try to centre yourself, acknowledge what you are feeling, identify it (… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | How to CARE about my appearance?There are great tips already but I will say your issue with not caring is something I can relate to. The key is to be consistent. A simple routine is easy to be consistent with. If you only start dressing up for an SO, eventually you may find you end up going back to your less motivated self. Take pride in your appearance and focus on the CARE aspect (sleep, skincare) as others have mentioned. Don’t let yourself go down that slope of giving up or “why bother?” It will reflect in other areas of y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Older menIt’s more so about life stages. My SO is 6 years older than me but is at the same stage as me (wanting to settle down). I am a big believe in dating older men because they usually have the finances and maturity to provide for a family. Not a blanket statement, but I’ve found it to be true for me and my friends | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 03:05 PM |
| 2 | How are you guys doing?That sounds lovely thank you for sharing. I can totally relate to the needing to give him space. As me and my SO will be living in a smaller place for a while, I want him to feel like he has his own space and time. Me and my sister in law joke that men spend ages on the toilet to get away from their wife, not that it’s a personal thing, but guys really do need their space. It’s really good that you’re aware of it too, I think that’s the most important part of it. And hehe I happen to enjoy chang… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 02:17 AM |
| 5 | How are you guys doing?What’s the first month like?? Is it surreal? Did you live with your partner before marriage? I’m getting married in June. I can’t wait to live with my SO | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/19 04:21 PM |
| 3 | How to balance dressing in a way that makes me feel happy, confident, and pretty with how my husband wants me to dress?What in particular gave you that impression? Is there a chance that he may not want you to receive attention from other men as a result of dressing nicely? Has this issue ever come up in your relationship before specifically? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/19 04:14 PM |
| 6 | How to balance dressing in a way that makes me feel happy, confident, and pretty with how my husband wants me to dress?Guys are visual, it may just be the fact there is a “slit” to begin with, which may be in his mind something immodest, even though it’s ridiculously low. Sometimes men aren’t great at describing what they actually don’t like about something, all they know is they don’t like it. If every time you wear the dress it upsets him, it may just be better to not wear it...this is IF he’s just hung up on the slit. Or you could sew the slits together. If this is a bigger issue and it’s extended to other st… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/19 03:46 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffCompletely let go of my diet and have had no motivation to eat healthy or wake up at a normal time. Trying to push myself this week but it’s torture 😑 thank goodness I can fluctuate 2kg either way and it’s not noticeable. But now I’m at my max weight I allow myself to get so I’ll be getting strict again. Sigh | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/19 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?I think $14.95 and it was a 8ish page report. If you go to their website it explains the theory and accuracy :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?;)) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 02:33 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?ESTJ for the Myer Briggs. 2w1 I highly highly recommend Jordan Peterson’s understand myself test. It costs a bit of money but is extremely insightful and very accurate, not a “feel good” personality test. Eg; I scored quite low in industriousness and intelligence. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 12:46 PM |
| 3 | What are the core traits that represent femininity? This is in light of the perspective that masculinity is represented by strength, courage, mastery, and honor.I second gentleness !! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Experience living with in-laws while married to your SO?Ironically, my parents in law are amazing and “side” with me (there aren’t arguments, but my SO isn’t very close with them) they cherish me a lot and love both of us. I also can’t speak the language my MIL solely speaks but we communicate in our own ways. They are very stand-off ish as people and don’t usually push their wants on us. But I totally understand what you are saying and it seems I am very blessed to have the parents in laws I have, although ofcourse I still have my worries | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Experience living with in-laws while married to your SO?What do you think is the most ideal best way? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Experience living with in-laws while married to your SO?Thank you for sharing your experience I really enjoyed reading that. What seems to have helped is your positive attitude and bond with your hubby. Happy to hear you have a bubba on the way too ❤️ all the best | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/19 12:12 AM |
| 4 | Experience living with in-laws while married to your SO?Oh my goodness your last paragraph made me laugh. My MIL is lovely, we also don’t speak the same language. She honestly loves me more than my own mum does. But never the less, living with people will strain any relationship from the sounds of things. Thanks for sharing | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/19 12:09 AM |
| 8 | How did / do you “Glow Up”?I have a long way to go. But I have made AMAZING improvements and I am proud of myself for them. •I have healthy strong nails that are almost always painted. (My biggest tip is oil for your nails and cuticles, check my post history if you want to dig into the details more) •I have a decent makeup collection with products that help me achieve universal beauty; ie; clear skin, defined eyes, glowly/ tanned complexion, supple lips •Thanks to my fiancé; I also now have a wardrobe that has clothes tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/19 01:46 PM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?Thankful for my fiancé, he took me to his Aunt’s house this weekend to see her and his grandma, they can’t speak English so he spent the whole time translating for me (something he doesn’t enjoy doing). Very very thankful | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 09:37 PM |
| 2 | “When you do things right, people won't be sure you've done anything at all.”God bless you ;) Baby gums are ridiculously joyful to see. What you wrote really rings true, thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/19 09:49 PM |
| 5 | RPW & illnessThank you for the advice I think easing into things is amazing advice. The mole was cut out and they sound some weird cells so they went in and cut more out and I was given the all clear thank God :) And I will be honest, I have the occasional meltdown but I withdraw rather than attack. I’m sorry you had that health scare but you writing letters seemed to be a very wise and therapeutic thing to do, I will follow that advice . Thank you again | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 12:07 PM |
| 5 | What to do when he is angry with you?I’d totally encourage you to make a post explaining exactly this in detail :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Valentines...what do I do for him? I’m not the romantic typeYou are very right. I am slowly learning | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/19 12:17 PM |
| 8 | Valentines...what do I do for him? I’m not the romantic typeWell your comment gave me the idea of baking cookies or brownies for his work so he can bring them in and feel proud and happy 😎 | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/19 06:06 AM |
| 6 | Advice for engagement period?Woohoo also am 21 and engaged! Keen to hear the answers to this thread too :) | /r/RedPillWives | 28/01/19 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Just curious about the first time you and your captain said “I love you.” Who said it first?Yea I am what of it sis 😭 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/19 09:49 AM |
| 10 | What does your captain do that makes you feel protected?He has always done what he said he would do. He is consistent and that makes me feel very secure and safe | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/19 01:28 PM |
| 5 | Dating older men?As long as you both have the same values and expectations (he understands you are serious and want a serious long term) a lot of the same vetting principals apply. But personally, I would be extra sensitive to any immaturity, any past cheating (did he get a divorce, why?), his job and financial status. If he’s 23 and he’s a barista with little savings, that’s much more acceptable than a 40+ year old with no vision, no money and no stable job. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but I think a man that ol… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Make your own wreathsI love the little birdie. Very nice touch! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/19 12:01 PM |
| 6 | Dating / Vetting Advice - your words of wisdomGreat question! There are certain markers that both genders see that tell us “this person is fertile” “this person may make a good mother/father” For men there are a few things, but please keep in mind we don’t need to achieve all of the following; An hourglass figure (which not everyone has, duh, but making sure to have a slimmer waist which you can highlight by your clothing choices, try to avoid looking “boxy”) Weight- being a healthy weight that gives you enough fat in your face to not look … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/19 10:27 PM |
| 5 | When being RPW isn't enoughMy heart feels for you. I used to tell my girlfriends that If you do everything you can right and it still doesn’t work, at least you can say it was not you. IT WAS NOT YOU. I hope fully that you find someone who truly appreciates your admiration completely. You are worth so much. I look forward to hearing updates. You are loved by the rpw community and thank you for sharing. Sending love | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/19 10:50 AM |
| 7 | Dating / Vetting Advice - your words of wisdomA great vetting strategy is mutual friends. It’s hard to start dating a complete stranger in my opinion and is often why many people spend years dating. If someone’s personality and character is consistent and friends of yours can vouch for them, that’s a great sign. Of course that being said, not all things are seen by friends so the idea of that is not fool proof. I dressed modestly but well, know your good features and make them stand out. Wear makeup that with the goal of looking healthy. I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/19 10:48 AM |
| 9 | Feeling HopelessI too am a Christian. I understand the situation you are in and please take seriously that there are many single Christian women ( something crazy like over half of missionaries are single women who didn’t get married..) 1) Christian dating websites 2) talk to the elder or pastor// pastors wife, explain your situation and you are finding it hard to find a Christian man. The older couples in your church may have sons in the same position or they may know single Christian men. Going to coffee with… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/19 10:24 AM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsHow do you handle the constant hair tornadoes that tiles make??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/19 04:56 AM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsDifferent take but ; I’m a big believer in the little comforts. Have tea and coffee (not the cheap kind that makes you need to use the restroom!!) at home. Have cookies or snacks for when guests come over. Have ice or a cold drink available in the fridge even if it’s water. These are little things that make guests feel very welcome in your home. If you’re into baking, biscottis are great because they last ages. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/19 04:55 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsGym two times a week (hopefully to work up to 4 times a week) Skin care AM/PM daily Use hair removal (finish laser sessions and use my epilator) Meal prep lunches for work Read my bible and pray more | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you bring up physical appearance with your SO?Great advice! For body hair I think he should just use a trimmer instead of a bare, no hair solution. Easier for a man to transition to I think | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 01:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you bring up physical appearance with your SO?I think you’re on the right track with your last sentence, don’t point something out if he can’t fix it and you can’t help. My SO had a pair of shoes that made his feet look so small???? I don’t know how someone made shoes like that honestly. I mentioned I preferred his other shoes more and told him I wanted to buy him a pair of shoes from Windsor smith (leather pair) I have pointed out things with my SO here and there, but you need to be consistent and supportive. Don’t like his shoes? Either 1… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you bring up physical appearance with your SO?My SO used to wear a very tight fitting turtle neck. Oh gosh the jokes we had about that shirt... I ended up taking it from him and sometimes I wear it to work. Take his French shirt for a PJ shirt!! Good memories | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 12:56 PM |
| 2 | How important is clear skin for physical atttactiveness?I thought I’d write a new reply so you get the notification! I did some research, the French confuses me a bit but the tinted acne cream is for more acne prone skin but you might find it appropriate for you. SPF is critical for hyperpigmentation not getting worse. I highly recommend you take some time reading this regime guide by the ordinary. Scroll down the page until you see the pigmentation issue section :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 12:27 PM |
| 2 | How important is clear skin for physical atttactiveness?Yes more dramatic with makeup :) I usually use darker eyeshadow I will edit this comment soon when I find the correct product name because there are a few for that brand ! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 04:52 AM |
| 7 | How important is clear skin for physical atttactiveness?Highly recommend r/skincareaddiction There are plenty of products, especially from the ordinary that deal with hyperpigmentation. There are example regimens on their website. I do believe clear skin is important, I’ve had my struggles too, mainly with acne. I wish I could tell you they don’t notice but I know for a fact they do (even the nicest men point out spots on my face), with men they want the overall picture to be pleasing- acne takes away from this and helps them focus on the imperfectio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend prefers I wear makeup every time we’re out in public.Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/18 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend prefers I wear makeup every time we’re out in public.Personally I wear up to 16 when I’m going out. Day to day I wear nothing or 6 products for a simple look Edit: check my post history if you’re interested :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/18 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Boyfriend prefers I wear makeup every time we’re out in public.There’s already great advice in the thread but I read that you mentioned makeup can be overwhelming for you sometimes: so if/ when you chose to wear it, I’d highly suggest watching this video by a YouTuber called Tati who is very classy and has a very good outlook on makeup https://youtu.be/2iFzS1fc1Bg Of course it all depends on your main concerns and if you require foundation but a quick makeup look should achieve a more healthy looking skin and defined features: so concealer, eyebrow powder, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/18 12:25 PM |
| 4 | My captain proposed after church today and I said yes 💕We had the same friend group but no, our first date was the first time we met :) In the culture and religion we are from, this is an average if not generous time period | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/18 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Thank youMerry Christmas lovely!!! Blessings this new year xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/18 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Thoughtful gift!That’s seriously so awesome!! How thoughtful. I too dream about the cute pjs I’m going to wear when I get married | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/18 12:30 AM |
| – | Self CareNo way!! That makes me so happy you went to try them thankyou! There are plenty of expensive brands but go for the cheap ones from your supermarket as they all do the same thing :) so glad you enjoyed it, I think with long term use you will notice your muscles being more relaxed xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/18 12:24 AM |
| 7 | Love This Sub!Amen!!! Welcome home :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/18 09:47 AM |
| 3 | My captain proposed after church today and I said yes 💕Haha really? And thank you so much 😘 | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/18 01:49 AM |
| 3 | My captain proposed after church today and I said yes 💕Thank you!!💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 08:50 PM |
| 8 | My captain proposed after church today and I said yes 💕Thank you!!❤️ He’s a romantic. He wanted to drive to the beach but it was an hour away and we had just eaten and I felt so out of it so I asked if we could stay home. I knew he had the ring and we picked it out together ☺️ He lit two candles and played “I can be your hero baby” and spoke to me about how far we had come in 7 months... spoke about the first time we met and all the big mike stones we reached together...then he got down on one knee and asked ☺️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 08:50 PM |
| 2 | My captain proposed after church today and I said yes 💕I know!! Ahhh !! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 08:47 PM |
| 3 | My captain proposed after church today and I said yes 💕Hahaha THANK YOU!! I’m a huge believer in cuticle oil. Would you believe that I painted them his favourite nail colour only to have my navy blue dress stain them purple 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 08:47 PM |
| 6 | My captain proposed after church today and I said yes 💕Thank you ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 09:33 AM |
| 5 | My captain proposed after church today and I said yes 💕Amen. Thank you xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 09:33 AM |
| 7 | My captain proposed after church today and I said yes 💕Thank you ! 💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 05:32 AM |
| – | Self CareI’d highly recommend the salts! They’re cheap in bulk and apparently are very good for your muscles | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/18 10:41 AM |
| – | Self CareThat’s awesome!!!! Such a good idea, it’s a win/win- Pampering and looking better for your man :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/18 09:16 PM |
| – | Self CareSo glad to hear. Do you use bath bombs or Espom salts? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/18 09:15 PM |
| 7 | Meal for two ideas/ meal planning advice?I’ll briefly stress the importance of buying GLASS containers that have a plastic lid. Fully plastic containers begin to smell, stain and mishape. It can be disheartening and gross. Go win glass! Better for your health. In AUS IKEA has $3.95 for the glass container and lid, all freezer and microwave safe :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Husband trying to hide behind my skirt?You wrote so well. Thank you for approaching OP with kindness and respecting the fact she is willing to listen and learn. Good stuff!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/18 01:39 PM |
| 3 | When your friends make the wrong decisions...True, but that does not remove a woman’s responsibility to do her best (not that you were suggesting that) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/18 02:01 AM |
| 1 | When your friends make the wrong decisions...If you conduct yourself in a respectful manner, present yourself well, are in the right circles, then you increase your chances of having more men who would like to court you. Granted I always end up looking through the lense of Christian dating where women are more spoilt for choice so excuse the bias. Maybe your advice is more suited for other situations, as mine is too | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/18 01:59 AM |
| 8 | When your friends make the wrong decisions...I disagree with your first statement, I think if you’re a high value woman that is prepared for motherhood and can run a household, it’s ok to marry up with someone who’s ready to go. I don’t think we should be helping and guiding a man like that, they kind of make their own way towards independence and manhood | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/18 01:41 AM |
| 3 | When your friends make the wrong decisions...And if it’s the early days, I think men see these red flags and just back right off rather than say anything and risk coming across controlling. Thankfully my SO was honest with me the more we got to know eachother and he saw the toll my ex best friend was putting on me and the bad influence she was on me. Since that, we’ve had really honest conversations to where our boundaries are at with friends, family and coworkers . It’s taken a lot of guessing out of the picture. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/18 01:05 AM |
| 4 | When your friends make the wrong decisions...That’s completely fair, I think the issue is largely culture driven and not a factor through age. This is especially apparent in the church where there are many young men who have good standards. Although regardless, I would always advocate for an age gap. It is less common to find a young man who has a stable job and is ready to settle down and have a family | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/18 01:02 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffYea, personally women swearing is extremely unattractive to my SO and I think men in general. But yes I agree, it’s good you didn’t ruin physical boundaries when you got tipsy. I’ve heard worse stories | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 11:21 PM |
| – | Own Your Stuff😂 God bless you making me laugh with a blocked nose | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 11:20 PM |
| 4 | When your friends make the wrong decisions...I completely suggest dating older!! It’s the best thing I’ve done. My SO is 27 , completely stable and knows exactly what he wants. Really refreshing (I’m 21) It’s very disheartening to look at the “men” from our age group 😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 11:19 PM |
| 12 | When your friends make the wrong decisions...All the friends I had like this eventually disappeared from my life. If they are open, loving and worthwhile friends you can encourage them and share with them what you know about redpill- make it fun, do a “no guys for a month” thing with a goal to self improvement. If they are serial repeaters, ask for advice then continue living the way they do and are on a destructive cycle, I will tell you, be careful. In my experience these people are very taxing as friends and high value men despise them … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 02:01 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffMy hamster hijacked one of those bubble soccer things this week. God speed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 01:55 PM |
| – | Own Your Stuff5 beers and a “little tipsy” ? You’re much stronger than me haha! How much was he drinking if I can ask? Did you say anything that makes you think you have a bad impression other than the drinking? Was it a first date and he asked you to drink? If you want to talk about it that is :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 01:53 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffTry to slog it out and go consistently then go easy on yourself over the Christmas/new year week. Once is better than not at all. It’s a new start of a week soon :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 01:48 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffI overspent on Christmas presents which disappointed my SO because I manage my money so poorly. I’ve been feeling exhausted and sick which I used as an excuse to be straight up rude to my SO, even though when he is sick he is never short tempered with me. I challenged him when he suggested things that I know he only meant out of care. I haven’t tanned for almost two weeks even though my SO greatly prefers me with a tan. I haven’t worn makeup for what feels like ages because of a bad break out an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsChurch, but I’ve honestly found it very hard too | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Christmas is around the corner...what gift ideas do you have for your captain?That is so thoughtful and lovely! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Christmas is around the corner...what gift ideas do you have for your captain?That’s a very cute idea about the bell! Oooh may I ask what kind of cupcakes? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Christmas is around the corner...what gift ideas do you have for your captain?Hahaha I’ve seen some cute ones like “captian” with a steering wheel & “first mate” with an anchor (very poetic for red pill). If the ideas were a bit more refined they’d look less corny I’m sure. Your dress shirt sounds lovely | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Christmas is around the corner...what gift ideas do you have for your captain?I was seriously considering getting my beau a grey shirt with black capital letters saying “CAPTIAN” but a bit more stretched out across the chest... hahaha obviously I’m sure the shirt you designed is much more lovely | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Tips for growing long lush hair?I’m not sure if this will help you but many women have had good results talking halo beauty , there are equivalent multivitamins you can buy but this is the top of its game and fairly affordable in comparison. I’ve started taking it for skin and nail issues and I’m happy with the results :) Worth looking into! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 08:56 PM |
| 6 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & RelationshipsFor the “don’t compare your man” part, what about saying he’s better than everyone else? Sometimes I feel like guys are so competitive they need to hear that they’re number one. My man is indeed, #1 lol. Sometimes I feel like he needs to hear a bit of “you’re so much more handsome than him” when he points out a good looking actor or something. Is this wrong? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/18 04:32 AM |
| 6 | Struggling with keeping up?Amazing advice!! I think if you keep your eyebrows groomed and for me personally my nails done everything else falls into place pretty well! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/18 09:23 PM |
| 4 | Struggling with keeping up?I really really resonate with what you’ve written. It’s not natural to me at all and I lean heavily towards the demotivated girl in a messy bun and track pants. Some women wrote tips in this thread maybe you’d appreciate their advice too. The best advice and someone else wrote it in this thread too is when you have more time at night, shave and scrub and do the things that take time. I’d also say if you have a higher standard for yourself, you’ll want to stay away from the inner slob. I threw aw… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/18 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Engagement advice wanted! Tell me your storiesThank you for taking the time to write that! Lovely story. What a proposal too wow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/18 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Engagement advice wanted! Tell me your storiesWow, your story is crazy and your ring is beautiful. Thank you for sharing. Sounds like you could write a book! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/18 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Engagement advice wanted! Tell me your storiesThat’s lovely thank you for answering | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/18 07:39 AM |
| 2 | What NOT to do: A threadDid you read the one that shot his wife’s fork out of her hand with a nerf gun at breakfast 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | What NOT to do: A threadHow can I amend the issue? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/18 06:44 AM |
| 16 | What NOT to do: A threadYou know you could almost replace it with “What did your child tantrum about today?”.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/18 01:10 AM |
| 6 | What NOT to do: A threadOuch I feel hurt for him :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/18 01:09 AM |
| 6 | What NOT to do: A threadI’d be lying if I said some of them don’t remind me of myself at my worst... | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/18 01:08 AM |
| 5 | Ending a relationship. F26 M28 LTR 1.75 yrsI just came back to this thread to see if you posted an update. I’m so glad you came to this conclusion because you can always decide when you’re level minded to end things if they don’t improve, but once you’ve ended a relationship it’s over for good - which may be a good thing if that happens, but you will be sure and confident with no second thoughts. Even worse would be going back to him when he’s proven he can change after the relationship has been damaged by the split. Also, super awesome … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/18 01:41 PM |
| 28 | Thoughts on letting your guy pick (or have a say in) your outfits?I now always shop with my SO. He is honest and helps me narrow down things that look good on me. I always used to wear black and he suggested I try some pinks and reds because they would match my skin tone better and they looked great. I also used to wear this long black skirt often and he told me that he doesn’t like how it looks and that it ages me (he was right) he’s also told me how he doesn’t like knee length jeans. He has a really balanced view on what is flattering on me and modest. He’s … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/18 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Met an amazing guy - but how to stop the hamster wheel from spinning?So.... I make an effort to be the absolute best girlfriend ever - in the end, all I can control is my own life, and my own behaviour. Loved this advice and it’s very true | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/18 11:25 AM |
| 4 | How to make short hair more feminine?I’ve done the same thing before, my advice is do more eye makeup and wait for it to grow out. Don’t stress, hair grows! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/18 01:55 AM |
| 15 | What is something you love about your Captain?He picks me up for church every Sunday and I know when we are older and have kids, he will drive us all to church every Sunday. That for me is the most valuable thing | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/18 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What red pill things did your mother do for your father?I tried | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/10/18 08:19 PM |
| 20 | What red pill things did your mother do for your father?Wow, if my daughters can oneday say that about me I will be a very happy lady | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/10/18 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Keeping your nails doneI think the timeline is maybe over a year for the physical pictures but they were in healthy and fine shape before then. Depending on how fast your nails grow (mine tend to grow fast) and depending on how thin or brittle yours are, maybe the “white part” or end part of the nail may have to grow out 5 times (shaping each time) if that makes sense. In terms of months, I want to say 4 months until you’d see something you were really happy with. All the best 💓💓 It’s also worth getting a manicure pro… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Keeping your nails doneOh gosh thank you!! I was searching for a more active nail subreddit | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/18 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Keeping your nails doneYes! A good glass file is about $8AUD. Invest in one, and learn to file with the grain of your nail fibre ,not against (google videos or images about it) Biotin is great and taking a supplement is good if your nails are weak due to nutrition- it may be worth seeing a GP as weak nails and hair loss can be a sign of a bigger thing and they can also test to see how deficient you are :) The one thing I’ll stress is get an oil for your nails and massage them daily or as often as possible, the stimula… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/18 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Keeping your nails doneI am a big believer in having your nails done. I posted this on r/nails. Any girls who are nail biters or who want to stop using acrylic but their nails are too weak maybe this will help- My before & after | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Can I implement RP philosophy at work?Great advice in this thread already but it won’t hurt to set boundaries and be clear about them in your workplace. Some of the guys joke inappropriately with some of the girls which they don’t seem to mind but I’ve made it clear that’s NOT ok with me nor when it’s about me. Same goes with “so and so would be cute together” I have a serious partner. Those jokes aren’t funny. Some of the women joke about them leaving their boyfriends so casually it’s completely disrespectful. My advice would be to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/18 02:18 AM |
| 5 | How do I effectively and respectably find out my SR?As stated before rating isn’t an accurate tool to measure. However, there are things that are great points to compare ( not in a bad way but a “oh I could be doing that” way) Some things may or may not include; Showering regularly, using perfumes/deo, making sure your hair is brushed and not oily, keeping your hair a natural hair colour, painting your nails or using hand cream, keeping your skin supple, applying modest makeup, dressing feminine, treating your skin for blemishes, shaving your leg… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/18 02:10 PM |
| 2 | I am cacklingGOOD LUCK CHUCK. Ew | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/18 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever realize how lucky we are?Completely. I love looking at my boyfriend and knowing I can make him happy and take care of him in a way that he needs. It’s like I’ve tapped into his head. I daydream about cooking for him and keeping his house clean, making sure I’m a soft landing after a hard day at work. It’s amazing to know you can love the person you love, well. It’s amazing to know I have the tools I need to give marriage with him the best shot possible. I think about it a lot too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/18 06:56 AM |
| 72 | Regretting my "alpha" career, do I even have a chance at the love life I want?I don’t want to be naive to your situation, but I’ve seen many families that both parents are doctors. RPW doesn’t exclude women who want serious fulfilling careers, it just means that won’t be your whole life. Is it possible to find an older, mature doctor? Surely there are men in your course? You would be intimidating to someone who has no drive or career aspirations, but you’d be perfect for someone in the same or a similar serious profession. Not all red pill stories are the same. In Aus we … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/18 12:44 AM |
| 10 | Thank youAmazing!!! Cherish the years with your kids and enjoy making your house a home 💓💓 happy for you | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/18 09:07 PM |
| 2 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceThank you! I love the premade packets | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/18 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceThat’s exactly what I did today; I prefer makeup over hair and just started off with eyebrows and some mascara and lipgloss :) already a huge difference | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/18 09:02 PM |
| 7 | I've never had a guy give me gifts or take me on datesI hope that comment is in good faith... | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/18 01:18 PM |
| 7 | I've never had a guy give me gifts or take me on datesI appreciate that you were just trying to “say it as it is” when describing yourself- and I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt and say you’re right. But saying that you don’t need a man is where you’ve missed the target. Needing a man isn’t “needy”. Men are designed to be cared for and loved by women as women are designed to be protected by and provided for by men. There are important gender roles. In practise it all looks a little different, women work and are financially independent but the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/18 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceGreat advice xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/18 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceThank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/18 03:37 AM |
| 5 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceYou’re so motivational oh my gosh. I don’t think I’d be able to run in the morning but I’m noticing reoccurring themes; Sleep earlier, Wear dresses, Simple clean makeup, “Big” shower at night, “small” shower in the morning. I do not want to become that oversized shirt girl with tights (that was me before!) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceStandard office wear, nothing bright. Clean, tailored and modest | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/18 09:25 PM |
| 4 | I Need adviceHey, you’re in a great place to learn. I know the situation you’re in feels definite and like things can never change but they can- read some of the posts here and the wiki to get a better understanding of RPW. And I’ll be honest- the guys you see casually are selfish, they don’t care deeply for you in the way you need. One of the biggest things for you that you may find is hanging around better people, friends with better values (if all your friends always get drunk or do recreational drugs, yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/18 12:27 PM |
| 2 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceI’m going to give it a go! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/18 07:03 AM |
| 2 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceAwesome. I want to invest in some office dresses- do you know any brands ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/18 06:33 AM |
| 3 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceI wake up 6:05 to have a coffee and shower and walk 10mins to the bus, which leaves at 6:50. I get to work by 8- I hadn’t thought about doing my makeup on the train... I don’t think I’d be able to do concealer or anything like that but eyebrows and mascara sure | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/18 06:32 AM |
| 1 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceAwesome advice. My wardrobe isn’t great right now- what brands do you buy your office gear? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/18 06:30 AM |
| 3 | How do they do it? Women in the workforceOn the nights I see my partner I get home 10pm, asleep by 11pm. Finally got my good mattress from my old house so yes, but only since two days ago. I don’t do my hair (I brush it if it looks crazy) and I don’t do my makeup for work due to time. I can do a very nice makeup look in 10 mins, something not too bad in 5mins. My commute is just over an hour. It’ll be like this for about a year until I finish my traineeship | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/18 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Marriage AgeI’m not sure if someone else mentioned it but because of the older religious law, divorce is extremely hard to process (I think two years?) and you aren’t allowed to remarry legally for a while? Can someone confirm this? I remember Irish couples telling me about this. They seemed genuine | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 09:05 PM |
| 8 | I’ve developed an aversion to marriage/commitment after being a plate.Please don’t say you don’t belong here. RPW is a place for you no matter where you are on your journey. Thank you for sharing what you did. I’ll say some things that I hope will help; I have some strong similarities in experience to what you shared. This was because I had confused masculinity and “alpha” traits with the completely wrong thing. The alpha R/theredpill describes is NOT the same alpha man that many women of the RPW are seeking. A man that is interested in marriage, shows commitment,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 12:37 PM |
| 9 | I just want to be more feminine, how did you do it?This may be a strange answer to some. I grew up as a tom-boy, wearing my older brothers and boy cousins clothes as hamy-downs. I loved being outside and rolling in the dirt, I loved sport and always had this ignorant pride thing in the fact I wasn’t a “girly-girl”. I was pretty not clued in to a lot of obvious things most girls are- I think I was the last person in my year to shave my legs and I always had my nails chewed down to a pulp. After highschool I joined bible college at the advice of m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 5 | What's for dinner?Tomorrow my boyfriend is coming over and I’m going to cook him chicken carbonara! He’s never tried my food before so I’m so excited and he really likes white pasta. Tonight I also did some meal prep by boiling brown rice and throwing whatever leftover veggies and things I had in the fridge on top. I ended up with some avocado, feta, cucumber and tomato + a bit of salt and pepper. I’ll eat it cold. I just wanted something simple for the next few days :) A lot of people use a brown rice base and t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/18 11:59 AM |
| 4 | What's new on RPWGreat news! Thanks mods | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/18 04:43 PM |
| 9 | Dressing Yourself: A Starting PrimerThank you for posting this! Awesome timing. Planning on a huge wardrobe revamp soon. I end up wearing lots of gym clothes, sneakers and jumpers and focus on my makeup to look feminine which is not the ideal at all. Edit: Would anyone be interested in me posting about makeup and nail care? I take good care of my nails and I’m really into makeup, both being a focus on boosting my feminine appearance | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | I thought this was really well written, what do you think? The best of TRP.Thanks heaps! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I thought this was really well written, what do you think? The best of TRP.I hope the issue is just on my end. If it’s not too much of an issue could you copy and paste it as a reply? Incase other people have the same problem | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/18 02:06 PM |
| 2 | I thought this was really well written, what do you think? The best of TRP.No :( it either shows no text or it says [removed] | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/18 02:00 PM |
| 2 | I thought this was really well written, what do you think? The best of TRP.Well I think a lot of what TRP has is horrendous. Actually the men that appeal to their more worse dogma aren’t traditional or anything like what we’d like in a partner- but this post seemed to flow really well and align with RPW values. I maintain that if you truly want to be red, you have to at least read MRP. Learn what men want, you don’t have to like how we think but the red pill is truth above feelz. Very well said | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I thought this was really well written, what do you think? The best of TRP.Pardon ? Edit: it’s not showing up for me either when I click on the link, I’ll try to find a copy 2nd Edit: It has been removed sadly | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/18 01:49 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsOk here it goes- Goals for July; 1) Losing 5kg -Healthier good choices -x3 gym per week -Walking consistently 2) Physical care -Doing my nails x1 weekly, keeping them long -Moisturising my face &body -Hair removal consistently 3) Financial -Apply for jobs daily, hopefully land an interview -Start working/ saving 4) Other -Finish a draft of the children’s book I’m working on -Contact publishers and start laying out contacts/ground work -Prepare for Father’s day -Have my boyfriend over for a cooke… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/18 05:04 AM |
| 2 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)That’s lovely thank you for taking time to respond. No matter how much we put in it’ll never be enough for the wrong person, we need to work on ourselves and keep ourselves to a standard regardless of others | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/18 07:52 AM |
| 3 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)Oh my goodness, now I’m extra glad you’re resting in bed. That’s really intense and I’m very happy it cleared up at 14 weeks. All the best for bubba! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 03:10 PM |
| 3 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)I'm working out for a healthier pregnancy not a sexy body. Very wise. Thank you for sharing and I’m happy to hear you’re wanting to improve, it sounds like you have a great attitude towards it already | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 02:58 PM |
| 3 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)Thank you for sharing. I’m very happy to hear you’re in bed and eating it made me smile. I’ve always wondered how women vomit when they’re pregnant- as in- does something predetermine your susceptibility to morning sickness ? Is it hereditary to have it bad? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)Thank you for sharing ! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 02:28 PM |
| 4 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)Wow I’m genuinely worried about getting pregnant (probably 2 years away)...I know I don’t lean on the thin side but I do love the gym. Can I ask how it feels to work out pregnant? Do you lift weights ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 02:22 PM |
| 3 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)Thank you so much for sharing. I can’t believe I haven’t read Titus 2, it’ll be my reading for tonight! I’m googling the books you mentioned now. I have deep joy for you, that you realised you slipped a bit and are working your way back- Amazing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 02:19 PM |
| 3 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)I’m a Christian and I believe prayer is talking to God about something. I completely agree about setting smaller goals, when we try to jump the gun we end up with too much to chew | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 02:17 PM |
| 3 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)I know it feels awkward but I can bet he loves and appreciates it. What are you reading ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 10:12 AM |
| 3 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)YES! Gosh. Agreed completely | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 09:59 AM |
| 12 | How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO)Yes!! Awesome. I’m a huge believer in that. I really think men are more sensitive to teasing than I once thought and have really been careful with my current SO. I’m glad to hear what you wrote it’s a good reminder to keep showing my man how grateful I am. Thank you ! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/18 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...That’s so sweet to say! That’d be because I’ve never gotten anywhere too good being dismissive and I’ve learnt those lessons the hard way 😅 💓 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/18 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...Hahahaha gosh you’re so right. I need luck AND prayer 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/18 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...I can kind of relate but on the other end... my ex asked a mutual friend about my history and said mutual friend spilled all. Yucky situation | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/18 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...Thank you for sharing, love the username! x | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...Lovely, thank you for sharing. How did you feel about your friend making your status known ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...I’ll quickly say; I do agree with being upfront about it and maybe upfront is a good word to use because it reflects the kind of honesty men value, which is freely given and not avoided. So I think their point is no, you’re not being dishonest in the fact you’re forging numbers, but because of how men read honesty, social ques etc they may see this as a red flag because something you’re not upfront about maybe something you hide (not always true ofcourse) In this thread I asked for how people ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...For sure different relationships have different norms. Thank you for sharing your experience :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...Thank you for sharing your story, ironically our situation have some parallels. I will be honest and the question has been asked, although it was the end of a long day and I explained that it’s something I wanted to discuss when we weren’t so tired. Playing games, evading the question, lying, justifying ... all these things will only work on a weak man. If you want a strong man, trust him to handle the conversation with strength, even if you don't like the outcome. You don't want the man on whom… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/18 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...Hey, thanks for your response. I totally get what you’re saying and that’s my fault for not putting in the context! Sorry! Our relationship works in a religious framework and we are courting rather than dating. I became a Christian later in life and have made many mistakes. He’s completely humble and honest with me about his flaws and is not someone who would shame me at all. I’m vulnerable with him and I trust him- he believes in grace from God and knows I am completely forgiven for my past. Ho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/18 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O...Reading through responses now- in my mind there is no chance I will avoid it or lie. I will be completely honest and humble about it but really wanted to hear how other ladies opinions. Thank you for sharing I’m very glad it seemed to go like a breeze for you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/18 10:34 PM |
| 5 | How can I tell love and infatuation apart?Ofcourse sure, he’s 27 and I’m 21. We are both committed Christians. We had coffee this afternoon and we told eachother we loved eachother and he told me he is in it for the long run- he also asked me to be his girlfriend- I said yes :) We come from the same culture and live in the same community | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/18 12:06 PM |
| 3 | How can I tell love and infatuation apart?Surely evolution allows for superior species... Anyway this is very off topic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/18 06:33 AM |
| 5 | How can I tell love and infatuation apart?I don’t think it’s all that simple, I want to make clear I didn’t downvote you by the way. I’m open to evolution but I do believe humans are distinct from animals because of our interaction with God, sure. Christians aren’t afraid of sex 😛 they just chose to honour God with everything, including that. Although I can’t see the relevance in your point I can appreciate it, to which I’ll add; animals also value companionship , they work in a team and there’s a lot of parallels between human value on… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/18 05:57 AM |
| 2 | How can I tell love and infatuation apart?Interesting, very based, doge | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/18 05:06 AM |
| 3 | How can I tell love and infatuation apart?I believe with the biblical structure in place, which is the one I follow, sex isn’t apart of courting/dating anyway and is enjoyed in marriage- the end goal is to glorify God by uniting with someone who also loves God, living together to show God’s goodness and if possible having and raising children together. Romantic love requires intimacy and if married I’d imagine that would be near impossible to hold onto without sex (for long term) but there would be times where that can’t happen due to s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/18 05:00 AM |
| 3 | How can I tell love and infatuation apart?Thank you I really see the truth in what you just wrote. Very valuable advice ☺️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/18 04:35 AM |
| 6 | How can I tell love and infatuation apart?I believe love is very much a verb. Love is actually an active choice and an ongoing one | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/18 04:34 AM |
| 9 | How can I tell love and infatuation apart?Thanks for your answer it really helped me understand. I feel like a kid again. I hope I grow to love him completely | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 11:30 PM |
| 3 | How can I tell love and infatuation apart?You’re right ofcourse but I feel like this 😍 | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 11:28 PM |
| 5 | What kind of nails do you have?Yaaaay something I’d love to contribute to! I’m really big with nails because at one point I was an obsessive nail biter and it looked horrid. Grab yourself a good hand cream- “HAND FOOD” By soap and glory is $8 and generously sized. Something nourishing that you can massage into your hands generously every night and more sparingly in the morning or after showers. Feminine scent is a plus too Natural, nude and French tipped nails are the way to go, with the exception of a classic red OR if your … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/18 10:38 AM |
| 3 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)I’m really happy for you and what you described is truly the ideal | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/18 01:51 AM |
| 2 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)Thank you so much | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/18 05:13 AM |
| 1 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)I can really appreciate this taking. I think it’s lovely and traditional but maybe wouldn’t apply to my circle, it’s not unusual for friends to shout friends commonly (usually someone gets the whole bill in turns) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)Well written, I shouldn’t push when challenged. I think reading through this thread highlighted I seem to think the worst (that they don’t actually want to pay) and if that’s the case, your last paragraph applies. Thanks for your comment | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/18 12:53 AM |
| 2 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)I’ve never had a guy not ask for a second date (not trying to brag) I think it’s more the fact that I’d want someone with more traditional values and when I speak to men in my church or friend group they’re pretty horrified about the idea of a girl paying the whole bill the first time. I really love how you don’t challenge him, you just thank him and accept the kindness. I think that’s something I’ll really take to heart. (In the past) I love taking my guy somewhere special to pay the whole bill… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/18 12:50 AM |
| 2 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)That’s the hard truth, I guess we girls who aren’t like that hope they realise we are the exception , but it’s pretty naive. I haven’t been on many dates with the “alpha” type | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)I see a lot of truth in that | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)Me too tbh | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)We see it differently then, I’m financially independent and to give over that independence and humble myself to take that gift is an act of submission | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/18 12:43 PM |
| 2 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)Yes it also helps with the whole I’ll only order what I can pay for thing haha 😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/18 09:30 AM |
| 4 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)I never complain to them 😛 just to my ladies here. I understand what you’ve written and I def agree | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/18 09:30 AM |
| 2 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)Wise words I think I won’t even bother with what I’d put up with in the past- if they don’t put effort into planning the date or don’t take charge of the bill paying at the least- then eh to them | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/18 09:28 AM |
| 3 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)I’d like to see myself as an avid gift giver, where what I give him would far surpass any meal paying (not that it’s me vs him or there’s any payback or tabs) But I do understand why it came across that way. Honestly I see it as an opportunity for him to show his care and love for me, and me being submissive to him in this way | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/18 09:26 AM |
| 2 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)Perfect that’s lovely | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about a periodic gratitude thread?Amazing idea!! Keen!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/18 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Cooking for your man...horror stories and favourite recipes?Thank you so much for your input I love it! There’s something about food that shows love in such a special way | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Cooking for your man...horror stories and favourite recipes?Oh my goodness I’d love if you could share it! We are both huge fans | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/18 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Cooking for your man...horror stories and favourite recipes?Yum!! Do you serve it with corn chips or bread/rice? I love Chilli I think he’d love it too ☺️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/18 02:38 AM |
| 5 | jewish beliefs & marriageLove it! Thanks for sharing. Would you share more about the marriage classes? Is it tradition? Do girls only attend when they’re courting or do all women attend? I seriously love the idea! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | How to complain less/He took me out to dinner last night and we ended up having a similar conversation ironically. He ended up saying “you’re my princess” and was very happy that my hair was brunette again, said it looked good etc. The whole situation was laughed off, I think he realised a lot of my anxiety was from not having had quality time with him this week and even tho he didn’t have to make that up to me he went out of his way to be more gentle with me which was really sweet. I feel like I’ll handle these thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/17 11:06 PM |
| 2 | How to complain less/If you’re interested in the results def not happy but it’s better than what I had and I can live with it :p | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/17 04:13 AM |
| 1 | How to complain less/Well said thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/17 10:09 PM |
| 2 | How to complain less/It’s always two way. I do listen but I’m also a problem solver, I think he’d much rather me as an ear instead of give advise | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/17 08:31 AM |
| 3 | How to complain less/I wish I could say this is the first time I’ve made this mistake but I’ve managed to do this a few times :p you’re completely right. I’m going to go a mahogany (brown with red) because of that exact reason. God bless you | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/17 07:21 AM |
| 5 | How to complain less/Hahaha I love that. Yea I actually appreciated how he laughed it off rather than got pissy at me for not being happy and blaming me (I did it to myself. Genius I know) Just got me thinking I guess 😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/17 07:19 AM |
| 4 | How to complain less/That’s really amazing advice especially the quality over quantity part and him leading interactions. He always says Goodmorning first which is super sweet and means a lot to me | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/17 02:36 AM |
| 3 | How to complain less/Gosh I’m going to dye over my blonde (orange) and go brunette, what a nightmare. We joke around a lot and he’s lovely just when I heard the words drama queen I just thought oh gosh that’s something I never want to be Thank you I think that’s true we are all allowed to have bad days | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/17 02:33 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsReally well written thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/17 01:45 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsWhat’s rpw opinion on the feeling of love and infatuation? Apart of rpws beliefs id like to think is that love is very much a verb (action) and daily choice to put your captain first. What about all those lovey dovey feelings? How should one deal with them? (Especially when they seem to cloud judgement about your captain) Also, what if your captain makes jest or “banter” with you and it hits a sore spot and you’re suspicious he may be trying to hint at you to improve in an area... thoughts? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/17 02:02 AM |
| 5 | For Single Ladies “Late to the Red Pill” Part I: Motivations for being RPW, Facing the Wall, Dealing with N-CountReally enjoyed reading this and keen to see your next posts!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/17 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Rejecting men politelyAgreed completely I wrote something similar in much poorer form below 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/17 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Rejecting men politelyOh my goodness that’s the worst. I hate that this sounds so feminist but why does my no really need justification to them, like I need to give an evaluation of them and help them self-help. A simple and polite response has always been met with crazy messages for me too. But honestly I’m writing that I kind of figured that men often believe if they’re rejected it’s because something is wrong with them or not up to scratch, I wish more could understand some people just aren’t suited together | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/17 04:45 AM |
| 4 | What is your RP relationship like?Aw I was smiling reading this I'm so happy for you 😘 | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/17 07:46 PM |
| 3 | How should men show their anger and how should us as women respond?Thank you I really appreciate and agree with this. Strong men can have fits of rage that are intense but never resort to hurting someone weaker to make them feel strong | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/17 05:36 AM |
| 2 | How should men show their anger and how should us as women respond?I really appreciate this response thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/17 08:45 PM |
| 1 | RPW FB Group and PinterestI'm fairly sure it doesn't show up at all if it's a secret group | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/17 06:36 AM |
| 1 | RPW FB Group and PinterestIf you make the group "secret" people won't see :) I too like the idea xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/17 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Best RPW Ways to Manage an Intense CrushJust read your post on xxfitness. I'd honestly wait until the first 10 sessions are over and see if he wants to keep contact or ask you out. (In rpw fashion) It's the man's role to make the first move, he could potentially be waiting for the sessions to be over to ask or like on the other thread he could just be genuinely a nice guy and may not be interested beyond your current arrangement. You deserved to be chased. Enjoy the crush and be patient, it's good you're on rpw! 😘 | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/17 10:17 AM |
| 3 | What role (if any) does religion play in your RP tendencies?Eish, stay classy- TRP is another ball game all together gosh that's a bit foul though. Here's an example- I can call myself a cowgirl all I want but if I've never lived on a farm or ridden a horse am I really a cowgirl? If someone calls themselves a Christian and doesn't persue Christ, they aren't a Christian as being one means to follow and be like Christ. Ps: I think the wife shouldn't of denyed her husband sex. The wife has a duty to her husband too | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/17 02:06 PM |
| 2 | What role (if any) does religion play in your RP tendencies?Well said. Thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/17 01:54 PM |
| 7 | What role (if any) does religion play in your RP tendencies?My faith tells me to trust God first and because of that I can extend my love and trust to others. I'm not afraid to be hurt and I look forward to marriage with my whole heart. Distrust hardens the heart and makes you bitter, I simply can't afford to think like that. I understand that your warning is from a well meaning heart so thank you. I'm sure you have an interesting story about your life and how you ended up on RPW. I'd be very happy to hear it if you'd be willing to share it :) What value… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/17 12:39 PM |
| 3 | What role (if any) does religion play in your RP tendencies?I didn't necessarily suggest that, but at least it'll solidify common ground. I also have a sad number of stories about "Christian" men. My faith is the conviction to my behaviour and I trust that there are men with the same convictions :p It's ok to be optimistic- Hope for the best prepare for the worst right? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/17 12:32 PM |
| 3 | What role (if any) does religion play in your RP tendencies?PS: The story is pretty disappointing but real religion isn't following rules like keeping the Sabbath, "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world." James 1:27 :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/17 12:23 PM |
| 11 | What role (if any) does religion play in your RP tendencies?Sure, but in the same way men have their failings, us women have ours. We all have our "sin of choice". Trust me I know too much about men failing in those areas but I also know of many who strive to constantly be more and more Godly. Being a Christian doesn't mean being perfect. But hey, I will admit some ignorance, I am in a small Christian community and probably see the best of things (and sometimes the worst when people fall from such a high standard) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/17 12:20 PM |
| 4 | What role (if any) does religion play in your RP tendencies?Oh wow that's pretty intense. I'm a bit more optimistic, I know good Christian men and they're not all like that. Alphas like all men have needs that need to be met, being respected and cared for, to have a consistent woman etc... Granted, Christian men also have different morals | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/17 12:01 PM |
| 3 | What role (if any) does religion play in your RP tendencies?What do you think it'd be ?? :p | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/17 11:51 AM |
| 10 | What role (if any) does religion play in your RP tendencies?A HUGE role, I'll c&p the verse I'm referring to but I'm a Christian and believe that I should sumbit and love my husband, serving him. I know when I get married my ministry will be to my husband and children and I can't wait to (hopefully) reflect the amazing design God has set for Christian marriages. I'd encourage you to read below :) it's almost identical to RPW theory. If you have any questions about what things mean please ask xx Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, su… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/17 08:37 AM |
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