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| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongI find this fascinating and if I knew how to and was driven would totally do the same thing. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 2 | How to get tinder hookups?As a F who has used Tinder my advice is to strike up a conversation and when you feel like you both have a vibe and then move over to talking (texting, snapping, talking on the phone - I personally want to FT someone before meeting them in person). Don't start of by saying you want to hook up but be clear you don't want anything serious. I would discuss what you want after you build a good repour. | /r/seduction | 21/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Should I first focus on myself before trying to meet a girl?Focus on yourself. If you want someone spectacular then you yourself have to be someone spectacular. That comes with inner and outer self growth. Live up to your potential and the right person will come into your life. | /r/seduction | 21/09/20 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Building rapport with a girl?What's the problem? Say hello and depending on how receptive she is build the conversation. | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 8 | Thank you r/seductionWow that's beautiful. The fact that you did so much inner work and it really shows in your growth. Confidence is something I really struggle with and the thought of rejection sends me running the other way. I think I may have to try and test my comfort zone and boundaries more to grow. Thank you for the advice. I am on my own personal development journey and this gives me a lot to think about. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Casual Sex AdviceLoosing your virginity is rarely ever fun. From many friends and my own experience - sex usually gets better a few years into it and then keeps getting better. I was disappointed when I lost mine but a few years in I was elated at how good it can get. In terms of how to meet girls.. IDK I think a guy may give you better advice. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Thank you r/seductionNow that I've read your experience I am curious how I could apply it as a Female. Any advice would be helpful. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a DilemmaCall her or text her and just talk to her. Don't focus so much on your insecurities and focus on connecting with an old friend. You can slowly build a solid friendship and go from there. If you are both attracted to each other you will eventually have a point where it's addressed. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Cannot accept the modern dating, oneitis, worst pain of my life.Not for you and that's perfect. It is like that for some and that's okay too. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Cannot accept the modern dating, oneitis, worst pain of my life.Heyy... It be like that. Don't Hate. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 51 | Thank you r/seductionThis is so motivational. Good Job Bud Keep It Up! | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.Sometimes I get excited to respond right away and get distracted and reply hours/days later. Just the other day I got a text and was excited about the guy and texting him back and then completely forgot until 2 days later. It be like that. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Girl Extremely Open About Her Sex Life and KinksIt's too straight forward unless she is older and is not into playing ANY games. Play the game and get the prize. All of my FWB in the past have started out either as full on relationships that fizzled or friends who there was a level of attraction with. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 07:52 PM |
| 7 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.THANK YOU. Not one person is entitled to anyone's time and the entitlement to ones time will result in disappointment. If you appreciate someone giving you time/energy while recognizing they could do anything they want with that time but instead they gave it to you it's a different experience of the same interaction. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl Extremely Open About Her Sex Life and KinksWhy would you ask that? You become FWB with time.. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How To Hookup?You’ll do great! Just be as confident as you can and have fun. Most importantly HAVE FUN. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | How To Hookup?That's too fast. Put on Netflix and talk. Make her laugh and connect. Once connection is established start by touching her hands, arms, shoulders. If she is receptive go in for a kiss and things will naturally progress if you both want them to. I'd say wait at least an hour not 5 - 10 min. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How To Hookup?Are you concerned regarding her eagerness/aggressiveness? As a female I don't find females being super aggressive when it comes to hanging out with a guy. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 04:29 PM |
| 6 | When does seduction turn into simpingReinforcement is key however not like every minute. At least once a day depending on how often y'all talk. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | What’s the proper way to respond to girl who ghosted you then hits you up down the road?Then the answer is clear! Get it lol | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What is a romantic and/or memorable time you kissed or were kissed by someone?This totally happened to me! Cringy but Bold haha | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | I failed to pull a 10 last night but she didn't reject meonly in your book bud | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | If you're dating a girl when is it ok to hold her hand?Worst Advice! If a guy felt comfortable touching me in any way the first time we meet it's a huge red flag. However, after a few dates holding hands and kissing should be introduced. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I not fall for a girl that shows me any attentionThis is pretty common in men and women. The comments below offer great advice. I myself (F24) have talked to men who keep me on my toes and wanting them to text, snap back quickly and often. I've also talked to men who I liked but I didn't need that constant attention from. It depends on how strong the vibes are. When I have that pathetic feeling I know I am giving away too much of my energy/power and purposefully slow my roll and usually cut those guys off to stay mentally healthy. Idk if that'… | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Do women get excited To have sex when they watch porn same as men ?I (24F) and my romates F22, F24, F23, all enjoy it here and there. S ome of us daily and some of us weekly/monthly. It's interesting to know what type of porn different people like. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | What’s the proper way to respond to girl who ghosted you then hits you up down the road?You were not choice #1 but you are apparently a good back-up. The real question is who do you want to be in her life? | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Does weed impair anyone else's charisma/out going vibe?Yes... And even before I started I never minded it. Now if he smokes ciggs that's a deal breaker. Can't even kiss or hug them. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Upped my picture game and the amount of effort I need to put in has drastically went downBoring Girls ... Dead | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Does weed impair anyone else's charisma/out going vibe?I disagree - Female. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 2 | When a girl does something that upsets you, how do you react? What's the best way?People only learn when they want to. If he is just interested in keeping them around to sleep with/interact then he will need to keep them happy enough to want to be around him. Most women don't need one specific man to sleep with so if someone makes her feel better about herself why stick around? This is not a perspective for a full on relationship where both parties are emotionally invested and are mature. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 05:38 PM |
| 2 | When a girl does something that upsets you, how do you react? What's the best way?If you point it out and she is not open to that observation then you are the bad guy in her eyes. If she is open to the feedback it will make her feel bad (selfish, rude, lacks self-awareness). Unless it's worth that dynamic maybe let it go. When people are rude and clearly selfish I don't even bother. They won't believe me and I would have wasted time and energy. If it is a repeated behavior look at the root. If it is selfishness you really can't do anything about it. If she has good self-aware… | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Texting her the night after the first date?If you waited and did not text her that same night she would have thought you're a player and would be more cautious with/around you. You did good. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 4 | When a girl does something that upsets you, how do you react? What's the best way?Well what is the end goal you have? If you call her out it could be ignored pushed back on/dismissed her being mad back at you possibly apologizing to get you off her back Either way there is nothing positive that can come out of that. Your best bet would be to change the topic or address it very directly with no anger. As a female I shut down when men are angry and try to deescalate because I have seen what CAN happen if a woman escalates a mans anger. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 04:43 PM |
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