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And yet they lose their minds if they hear something along the lines of "It's not your responsibility to stop a man from getting used for his money; it's his." Lol put up or shut up scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:33 AM
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The first red flag is hardly ever the last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:27 AM
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I love her energy. 😂 She says all the things I feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:50 AM
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I firmly believe "men age like fine wine" speaks more to how men are allowed to age as opposed to what they actually age like (which is usually terribly). Of course it seems like fine wine when you're actually allowed to have wrinkles, fine lines, and graying hair. Women aren't afforded the same luxury of being allowed to age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:51 PM
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Men who speak differently to women in a relationship vs single women are red flags already. News flash geniuses, why not just talk to us like human beings regardless of our relationship status?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:52 PM
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You don't even need to preface anything with "not being a bitch."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:39 AM
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Hinge allows calls now?! Oh hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:24 AM
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Lol I've had men go insane over the phone when I told them I didn't want a second date. This is why I just ghost now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:07 PM
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I think this is really up to anyone to decide on a case by case basis, but I have no desire to date a man who thinks dating is a necessity right now. The man I'll be impressed with once this COVID stuff is over is the man who took this time to level up, find a job (if he lost it due to the pandemic) or found a better job than what he had, kept up with maintaining his mental, physical, and emotional health, and thought about what he wants for his future in the long term. I've monetized a hobby, f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:39 AM
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It's such a pity that LVMs, incels, redpillers, and the like would probably try to infiltrate a meet up and do something crazy and/or violent. If not for them, I could see FDS meet ups being a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:23 AM
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And yet they freak the fuck out when they get cheated on and use that as justification to mistreat every partner he has after the girl who cheated on him because his ex left him in a "bad place." Lol ok bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:35 PM
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I remember when my mom was supporting the family, she would come home during her midday work break to COOK DINNER and then go back to work. This is cause my dad refused to even try to cook. I still suffered from a bit of malnutrition because I was still being feed poorly because of my dad's ineptitude. Truly despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:46 PM
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I worked as a bartender for a number of years and the shit I had to put up with during that time was unparalleled. It always infuriated me that it was considered a "low skill" job when you actually needed to have a fair amount of wits to do the job well and to fend off unwanted advances in a way that wouldn't get you fired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:34 AM
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Desperate men just give themselves away completely lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:38 PM
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I thought I was the only one. That tone of voice where it's going up in pitch due to rage puts me on edge. Severely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:37 PM
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I've watched one too many episodes of Unsolved Mysteries to get on a boat with some random dude lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:50 AM
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I've ghosted plenty of men for them asking me to drive to their city for a date. I mean, what really is the point of continuing to talk to them after that? They've pretty much shown you what their conduct will be like if you were to enter a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:49 AM
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So glad she found him after having a child with Future's worthless ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:46 AM
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Check out r/breakingmom too and sort by "man rant." Dear lord that sub is a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:56 PM
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https://reductress.com/post/maybe-we-could-go-for-a-socially-distanced-walk-says-man-trying-to-cum-on-your-face/ Omg the article is so fucking on point. 😂 Would recommend reading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:52 AM
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I've had two men propose to me (didn't marry either of them) and they did it within a 1-2 year time frame. Men know early on whether they can see themselves marrying a girl or not. And a woman should NEVER have to "bully" a man into marrying her. Jesus Christ. If you have to do that, he doesn't want you sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:52 AM
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I'm so confused 😂 He pays for that plate whether I finish it or not. Does he mean HE wants to take the leftovers or something? None of this makes any sense lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:59 PM
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Lol this is so fucking true. A friend I haven't spoken to in awhile messaged me today asking me how life was in the new city I moved to and what the pandemic has been like. They asked me if I've been seeing anyone and I just said "hell nah 😂 that's the last thing on my mind." I really have no need or desire for a man in my life right now and it's wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:50 PM
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Lol this is so fucking true. A friend I haven't spoken to in awhile messaged me today asking me how life was in the new city I moved to and what the pandemic has been like. They asked me if I've been seeing anyone and I just said "hell nah 😂 that's the last thing on my mind." I really have no need or desire for a man in my life right now and it's wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:50 PM
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THANK YOU. I'm so tired of this narrative that WAP is the female empowerment anthem of the decade. If some people find it empowering, fine, whatever floats your boat, but don't force the rest of us who don't find it empowering to strictly conform to that narrative lest we be called "misogynist" or "prude" or whatever the fuck else libfems like to call us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:24 PM
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At the root of every LVM and NVM is self loathing and a lack of self respect that manifests as hatred for other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:16 PM
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It hasn't happened to me on LinkedIn (because I barely use it), but I'm a writer on a few platforms and I've gotten thirst emails from men who at first, purport to be emailing about appreciating an article, but then it devolves into telling me what a "babe" I am. Barf. I even had a blog stalker for awhile who sent me like ten unanswered messages (and he still keeps sending them). These are retirement aged men and I'm in my twenties. Men are fucking crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:09 PM
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"Do you like men?" "No but I'm attracted to a very small minority of them anyways." 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:27 AM
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Who said anything about the 50/50 scam we want so badly (also, why are you accusing us of something we haven't even said)? It's clear from the video that this woman is heavily implying the source of her wealth is her husband. What happens to her if he takes that wealth to another woman? I understand FDS, but this ain't it fam. I've seen too many women who enjoyed good livelihoods be burned because it was only being brought in by her husband and he decided to leave for a pickmeisha. I can't condo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:25 AM
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One of FDS's tenets is that we level up our own careers to not be financially dependent on a man so I'm also in the camp of thinking this is stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:44 PM
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Disgusting. How tf does he think this will impress a woman? He must be as dumb as he is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:17 PM
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Men really only have themselves to blame for what their lives are like. Men have controlled and ruled the world for millennia. Men have waged wars. Men have set up the economic systems that make it so hard for anyone to make a living. A handful of men control an obscene amount of wealth in the world. Modern day young men are just upset that the entitlements they were taught to expect from generations of men before them aren't trickling down because older and wealthier men are still hoarding it. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:14 PM
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I love black cats. 😍 I would love to have a herd of them while living in a cottage deep in the woods somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:26 PM
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The whole concept of the work of moms being unpaid labor is a house of cards that would come toppling down the very first day moms went on strike. The world depends on the unpaid labor of caretakers in the home and look at what their lives are like. It's atrocious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:19 PM
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Yes the perpetuation of the true love myth is incredibly harmful. Most of the couples who are currently married are not each other's true loves. Most end in divorce. And the ones that don't have various amounts of resentment and anger from years of conflict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:02 AM
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At this point, the only reason I would want to get married is for the financial power that dual income couples have. I don't want kids. I don't need a man to fulfill me emotionally (because more often than not, they drain you rather than fulfill you). The bullshit I've had to put up with in past relationships for the fleeting moments of romance just weren't worth it. And let's face it, marrying a guy because our dual income is the only way I'll likely buy a house is probably not a very good reas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:00 AM
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This is why women should never take on a "project man" even if she is okay with him staying the way he is. If there's something about him that's lacking (whether he's overweight, his career is garbage, he's broke, etc.) if he decides to improve one day, he'll be done with you. They want the next new shiny toy that they couldn't get when they were younger and they'll have no qualms leaving a whole ass family to get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:35 PM
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I was wondering what the home thing was about. She said she built it with her own hands. What happened to that home?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:32 PM
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When I see that the majority of mass shooters are white males too, it unnerves me. There's definitely something the entitlement of white men specifically that drives them to commit these crimes in overwhelming numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:28 PM
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angry, sad, jealous, weak, stupid Look how little self worth he has that the past actions of his partner can completely destroy him. Imagine having your self worth be dependent on some shit your partner did in college. Lol wow this is so sad. Honestly I hope they break up so she can find someone better. This kind of weakness in a man will hinder his wife forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:25 PM
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Wtf. I swear these red dudes just throw their own red flags out there for everyone to see. He must've hurt someone bad for his first instinct to be that someone contacted you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:21 PM
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The scary part is, I don't think you can ever fully know someone. I mean, fuck, parents of mass shooters don't even know their fucking kids that they birthed and raised. It's a scary world out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:00 PM
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I don't know why society keeps pushing this narrative that men who aren't socially gifted need to be understood- that women need to go around make excuses for this kind of behavior because hE mIgHt ReAlLy lOvE yOu tHoUgH. I like my men socially savvy. I don't want some socially awkward dude I'm going to have to babysit emotionally, who's going to want to dodge hanging out with my friends, who's going to dodge social situations, who aren't going to flourish on their own, etc. And it's okay for an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:58 PM
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Preach! I'm sworn off dating until the pandemic is under control too. I don't care if it takes years. Anyone who "needs" to date right now should really ask themselves why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:46 PM
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The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:17 AM
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Check out what my man Chris Hedges has to say about pornography as well. Him and Noam Chomsky are definitely among the great modern day thinkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:21 PM
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He's not. That's why he texted her three months later looking for a hook up. What a clown. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:46 PM
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I know right? I love seeing the truth but sometimes it makes me depressed lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:43 PM
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Nothing more disappointing than thinking I have a good friend and the whole time he was just interested in getting into my pants. I just keep my distance from men now. Even being friendly with them is like playing a game of chicken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:29 PM
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Male entitlement knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:45 PM
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I don't OLD either sis. Best decision I ever made for my life. Men's entitlement has run even more rampant since OLD became a thing which is insane considering it was already terrible begin with. The 50/50 phenomena and "take you to a field" dates was born out of the fact that they have access to more women online then they actually have money for. And instead of vetting for a compatible woman and taking her on proper date, they decide that they're entitled to see every woman they can for $0 - $…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:01 PM
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This. ☝️ In the thread with the twitter screenshot polling people whether men or women have more at stake when dating and women expressing the fact that we have to worry about literal murder, I saw so many scrotes saying "well ya'll women are going out with complete strangers, that's your fault." It's kind of amazing the cognitive dissonance they have. If ya'll don't want to spend money on something that doesn't work out, maybe YOU shouldn't be dating complete strangers too. If they have seven w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:03 PM
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I don't see how addressing actual events that took place is in any way equivalent to saying "women are responsible for what men do." There's room to address that Donald Trump and the Republican base are misogynistic maniacs while also addressing that Hillary Clinton also made strategic decisions during her campaign that helped him secure the primary. Dealing with absolutes when observing politics is the surest way to make a misstep. Just because misogyny does indeed exist and is especially rampa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:32 PM
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I chuckle softly to myself every time I get a rage DM from one of these losers. If only they could see how pathetic it makes them look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:39 AM
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A female candidate but one that actually stands against patriarchy and the oligarchy that this country is. Hillary absolutely should not hold any position in government. She's a huge reason why we have Trump in the first place- she strategically worked to make sure he won the Republican primary in 2016 because she thought going against him would make her a shoo-in. Turns out she was wrong but she was willing to gamble giving the keys to the government to an absolute maniac for a chance at power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:25 AM
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Motherhood is a losing battle for women. No wonder society had to create this narrative that a woman isn't complete with a child because there's no other reason we would do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:49 PM
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One of the main reasons I quit OLD because I realized I was swiping right on like 2/100 guys. It was a chore, not an actual way to date. Unfortunately it's not any better once you get out into the real world lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:26 AM
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Watch how he asks her why she's acting all "weird" when she says "oh you just wanna be put in the friend zone." Oh she's acting weird for recognizing what this is: two friends going out to eat?? Cause that's all I'm seeing right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:22 AM
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I'm ashamed to say I've dated more than one man with underwear that looks like this. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:17 AM
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I feel so sorry for the women on relationship subs who post things like "my bf keeps liking pictures of half naked models on Instagram, how can I get him to understand that it hurts me?" Girl, you get him to understand by dumping and deleting him from your life. Behavior like that screams low value and we see proof time and time again that this is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:37 PM
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Often times with prominent men, society is more than eager to treat his character like it should only be defined solely by his career and social accomplishments, and that it should have nothing to do with how he conducts his personal life. MLK. Elon Musk. Steve Jobs. The list goes on and on. A man can go around disrespecting and abusing women all he wants to, and there will enough people in society saying that has no bearing on his character because apparently a man's character is only predicate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:07 PM
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Men were conditioned and taught so poorly by previous generations of men (their boomer parents, uncles, etc.) that they think women not tripping over themselves to please them and be approved of by them means we're heartless now. I almost feel sorry for them because they were raised this way, but they also refuse to help themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:03 PM
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"Omg look how much I hate feminists too guys! Aren't I so reasonable?! Pick me pick me!" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:58 PM
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All you have to do is browse Reddit for a few minutes to know guys aren't drowning in anything except their own filth and self-loathing lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:56 PM
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This would be a juicy morsel for r/FDSSuperFans lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:46 PM
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I stopped reading when I got to that. What a stable genius this guy is lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:23 AM
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Unfortunately MGTOW don't go their own way. In fact, they become even more obsessed with women the longer they brew in their filth, hate, and anger. It's honestly a shame. I would be thrilled if a majority of men went their own way and just left us the fuck alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:06 AM
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Lost it at "read over your credit reports and credit card statements." 😂 Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:51 AM
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These scrotes are so porn sick they can only think in porn categories now. By race. By age. By this. By that. Truly pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:40 AM
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That crown reveal is everything. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:55 PM
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God that subreddit makes me wanna resign myself to life in a nunnery. I can't believe the bullshit so many women are putting up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:50 PM
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I think in addition to giving this kind of advice to young girls, parents need to back it with a lot of education and development in emotional control and intelligence, coping mechanisms, building a healthy self esteem, etc. You can tell a girl til you're blue in the face to keep her standards high and to not compromise on them, but unless there's a wellspring of confidence, strength, and knowledge from which she can draw from, that advice is going to be impossible to actually implement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:31 AM
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This is what I can't comprehend when men complain that they don't want to have an actual date for someone they don't know at all and have never seen in person before. Well uhh... I don't think online dating is for you then and maybe you can boot yourself off of it?? But they would rather die than have someone pry their potentially easy sex partners catalog out of their hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:22 AM
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Omg this is where the meme came from. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:16 AM
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I'm going to be teaching my nieces this for years to come. There are so many more worthwhile endeavors to focus on rather than being by disappointed by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:15 AM
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Honestly that's really the only argument they have when they're discussing us out in the wild. They'll take one of our hot posts, call it ridiculous with no explanation as to why, and then say we're the female version of MGTOW and incels (which also has no reasoning behind it). Pretty much rinse and repeat- that's all you'll see in a thread discussing FDS lol. They think if they speak the words, it'll somehow just be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:07 AM
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"It's your fault you got hurt because you have bad taste in men!" "Okay, we're only choosing great men that won't hurt us from now on." "Wait, no- not like that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:04 AM
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It warms my heart that there are enough of us that women in need are getting MULTIPLE DMs. Fuck yes. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:36 AM
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These scrotes just posting red flags up freely. Take note ladies. 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:33 AM
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Sis, at the very least make him come sit down at the dinner table and have a conversation with you while you eat together. Wtf is this tomfoolery?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:32 AM
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Congrats ladies! I've been here since it was a wee little sub and have cycled through a couple accounts since then. This is the only place on Reddit that keeps me coming back. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:15 PM
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"He actually expected me to love him unconditionally." - Amy Dunne (Gone Girl) I think women are finally waking up to the fact that this is a gross expectation of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:01 AM
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Same sis, same. Accepted so many worthless men in my life because they were marginally better than my father who's a piece of flaming garbage. I resent my mom for being too weak to leave and subjecting her children to that kind of life and conditioning. This is why FDS is so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:57 PM
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Ladies, they know what they're doing. Don't let them play dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:30 PM
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"Divine feminine." These libfems out here pulling phrases out their ass to justify the sex trade. This is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:27 PM
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Even fathers who stay can harm girls irreparably by teaching her to accept LVM behavior. It's so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:25 PM
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I don't trust the media at all at this point. I saw a guideline from a public health agency about how to have random hook ups safely during COVID. One of their tips was to get "kinky" and make use of barriers between you and your partner (yeah, I'll leave that to your imagination). Women have to understand that the media still caters to a narrative that benefits men. You know what more rational advice would be? Stop fucking randos for a bit while we ride out a once in a lifetime pandemic. Jesus …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:22 PM
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This right here. 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:19 PM
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I broke up with a guy for kind of this reason. Being with me made him so happy and it gave him a purpose. He was applying to go back to school and making long term plans for his future. I was wasting away working in consulting (hated it) and I realized that I wasn't going to go through this to support him and his dream. I broke up with him, relocated, and am now pursuing a new career that makes me much happier. There wasn't anything wrong with him per say but we would have been better suited if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:27 AM
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I carry a taser in my purse at all times. I also have a kubotan on my key ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:16 PM
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I hope Jennifer knows better than to fall for this bullshit. He publicly leaves her by having an affair with a costar in a movie and now that he's hit the wall, his children dislike him, his ex-wife kicked him to the curb, and he has a drinking problem, oh now he's flirty? Lol yikes. Miss me with that bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:07 PM
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Her laugh is giving me life. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:42 PM
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I'm gonna start telling scrotes "wish you the worst of luck, bye" lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:37 PM
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Brilliant. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:54 PM
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I got SEVERAL direct messages and chats from men telling me that my post convinced them to kill themselves (really homie?). Wow if women were this fragile we would've ceased existing long ago. Everywhere we go, every moment of the day there are far too many people forcing beauty and sexual standards on women. And ONE POST can make them kill themselves? Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:50 PM
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I quit online dating years ago and I've literally never been tempted to go back, not even when I relocated to a new city and didn't know anyone. Riddled with garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:37 AM
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I've been single for almost two years and I have no interest in trying to date right now. Been some of the most peaceful and unproblematic time of my life (even with the pandemic, which should say a lot).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:34 AM
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In ten years, you won't even recognize the person you are now. Trust me. If you can feel yourself becoming dependent on him, I think you know what you need to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:32 AM
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LADIES, please Google your full name + phone number to check what records of you are online. You'd be surprised how many websites such as WhitePages, ThatsThem, etc. will have your name, phone number, addresses, associates, etc. on full display online. You can submit an opt-out request to most of these websites. Emailing them to take your info off can also work, just tell them you have a dangerous stalker who has violated a restraining order and you fear for your safety. Don't bother with online…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:53 AM
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Haha aww this is so wholesome. I'm gonna buy myself some flowers later. ​ Edit: I didn't see any bouquets that I liked so I bought a bunch of eucalyptus and placed some arrangements around my apartment. I love it. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:16 PM
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I saw that one and my heart broke for her son. Her ex husband took a disturbing amount of glee in the fact that he had her ashes and not her son. What a freak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:50 AM
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Dear lord ya'll are savage and I am LIVING for it. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:46 AM
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PM The sooner we stop shaming "negativity" in this context the better. If someone's husband sucks, he sucks. I don't know how it's supposed to help anyone if we bury our heads in the sand about it for the sake of avoiding nEgAtItIvItY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:09 AM
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Never have I heard one complaint out of these scrotes' mouths when the thriving misogynistic underbelly of Reddit was calling us foids, holes, roasties, c*nts, etc. But scrotes, yes, clearly this is where humanity has crossed the line lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:12 AM
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Lol shit like this makes me not want to get married even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:40 PM
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I'd be willing to pay a hefty sum for this flame thrower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:32 PM
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Men complain about gold diggers and then "subtly" drop the word "millionaire" in casual conversation completely unwarranted. Lol wtf is wrong with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:31 PM
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LMFAO!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:32 AM
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There was definitely discussion resembling this in the dumpster fire of comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:15 AM
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I know right. 😂 I want all my queens to get good sleep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:05 AM
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You know something idiotic is about to pour out their mouths as soon as they say "think about it" lol. Happy cake day! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:13 AM
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That's not picky at all sis. Effort = interest. If a man can't even ask you out, trust he's not interested enough for it. Even if a man is extremely interested and he doesn't have the gumption to ask you out, how will he ever protect you and your children? How will he stand up for you when you need it? How will he be your defender when the thought of talking to a woman makes him tremble?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:04 AM
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Look up orthopedic pillows. They're not big and fluffy, but firm and shaped to match the contour of the shoulder/neck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:59 AM
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I remember reading on the relationships subreddit about a guy who was charging his girlfriend per night for every night she slept over at his place. The scrotacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:45 PM
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This place is truly one of a kind. There's nowhere else on the internet where you can have these kinds of honest conversations without men brigading and sending rape, murder threats while they shout nOt aLl Men!1!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:38 AM
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When I was twenty years old there was a man in his mid thirties that went to the same university as me and lived in the same housing complex as me. We kind of floated around the same circle of people but never actually spent time together. I had been through a lot of trauma when I started college and was still trying to sort it out at the time. He actively pursued me, slept with both me and a friend which caused our friendship to end, actively pursued another friend of mine, and then continued t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:16 PM
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Lol the sheer entitlement that you should even consider what he "prefers."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:09 PM
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The problem with men wanting to go 50-50 on dates is that women are already giving up more to go on a date. We have more suitors. We're putting our safety at inherent risk by even going on a date to begin with given that the greatest risk to our safety is men. Women's anatomy are more at risk for STDs than men's anatomy. It's scientifically proven that transmission of STDs is greater going from man to woman than the other way around. We're the ones that can get pregnant and we bear the brunt of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:16 PM
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Men's entitlement is astonishing. I've never even heard of a woman reacting like this to an ignored text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:10 PM
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My ex husband is 12 years older than me. Each year that passed, the more it became glaringly apparently why he kept dating girls so much younger than him. A woman his age wouldn't put up with his ass and his lack of ambition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:18 PM
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A million times yes. I started a new career this year that's now gaining traction. I'm looking into buying a few acres of land and starting a homestead. And I realize that when I think about these things my heart soars higher than the thought of being with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:13 PM
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Lol this is queen energy. More and more older ladies tell me not to bother trying to get married unless there's something in it for me. There's truth in numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:11 PM
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And men call us gold diggers. Unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:30 AM
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So, I had never heard or watched WAP but this post made me inclined to watch the music video. It honestly reminds me of softcore porn and I'm getting so tired of the fact that depictions of "empowered" female sexuality keep pandering to that narrative. Beyond the song or music video, I'm just tired of people counting on the music industry to be this bold purveyor of female empowerment. The video was directed by a white man who owns the production company that produced this video. We need to get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:54 AM
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Is it pickmeisha behavior if you are being trollishly sexual? Belle Delphine has made a career off of being trollishly sexual and I really don't feel like there's nothing positive about the message she puts out into the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:43 AM
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Even if she wasn't pregnant, this is a problem worth dumping him over. It's particularly egregious because she's about to give birth to his child. Lord help us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:17 AM
10

Sounds like the writing of a mediocre student in your high school English class who insists he's a tortured soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:15 AM
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Men refuse to believe that gorgeous queens like this aren't begging to be picked by a man. They literally think everyone here is a deformed hag just by virtue of us being here. Boy are they in for a surprise lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:30 AM
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I watched Daria for the first time ever in my life during quarantine and I loved it. The opening sequence and her volleyball antics (or lack thereof) always cracks me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:28 AM
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I'm gonna be straight with my kids about the reality of this world. Why any parents shield their teenage children from the knowledge that pedophiles and groomers are out there and instead opt to control their clueless children is beyond me. Knowledge is power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:26 AM
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I told my children that we won't even discuss the idea of them having a TikTok until they start high school (~age 14). I'm confident that TikTok is going to go the way of Vine (as in, fall completely out of relevance) so I'm sure I'll be dealing with another platform then. There's nothing good about TikTok if you ask me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:24 AM
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who asked my friend for a cigarette and then threw it at her when she said he didn’t have to give her a dollar for it (that hurt his ego) . GIRL, I am so glad you dumped this piece of shit, but give us some insight on what he said for you to react like this after he so blatantly disrespected your friend so we can arm ourselves with that knowledge. What a bizarre story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:20 AM
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This is such an important message! I always think about how if all women were to follow FDS principles, the number of women who remain unmarried and childless would skyrocket. Foregoing things like marriage or motherhood is a daunting prospect but it's a price many will have to pay for keeping their standards high, and I think it's important to acknowledge that. None of this is easy and that's why it's so important to have this community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:00 AM
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Agreed. Neither she nor he comments on how exactly it came to be that she was on his phone and checking his text messages but I think we all know the answer. There wouldn't have been a need to look if there weren't signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:25 AM
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Wow. It's pretty telling that his ex wrote this in the blog post: "Trust me when I say the last two things on this earth he should have authority to speak on are relationships - at least successful ones - or anything on behalf of black men." What an awful situation all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:21 AM
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We thank the mother goddess of FDS that a queen was able to escape this LVM before legal ties and children entered the mix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:18 PM
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Part of me takes glee in the fact that the extremely vulgar details in the texts probably contributed a lot to how utterly damaging this was to him. There's no punishment great enough for putting someone's health at risk like that, but this comes close enough for me to sleep at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:09 PM
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That's what I got too. He's still so unaware of what is wrong with himself. And that dig at his ex that his "new" professional name was also included in the metadata of her blog post as it should. You don't get to decide you're going to go by a new name to get a fresh start because you besmirched your old one. Seeing him even attempt to try and take control of this narrative was sickening. I was glad to see that many people dragged his sorry ass in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:07 PM
30

This is the whole truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:04 PM
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When men claim that toxic masculinity isn't a thing, but they base their confidence on getting laid. So much so they're willing to use women to boost their fragile egos. This is why men are so often pathetic losers. When they start basing their confidence on their achievements, skills, dignity, compassion, respect, etc. we can talk. But this? This is just them being sick in the head. And you want proof that even accomplished men have this same idea of toxic masculinity? Look no further than male…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:41 AM
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Have these people seen 38 year old men? Lol time and a lifetime of bad habits is a cruel mistress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:35 AM
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Always direct PM people who could benefit from FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:34 AM
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"I don't know why my age says that! I don't know how to change it." Suuuuure buddy. Sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:18 AM
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Can you copy and paste some of the excerpts? It would be like NYT to put potentially life saving information behind a paywall lol. I currently have a digital stalker. He's a guy from my past and he won't stop sending me weird contact form messages on my professional blog. He's been saying he's been reading the work I post elsewhere as well. I haven't responded to any of these messages and yet they just keep coming. Like, get a fucking clue. Thankfully there's a large geographic distance between …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:11 AM
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It's scary what people can find with a general idea of your location, a first name, and a photo of you, all things online dating apps READILY provide to strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:07 AM
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I love my tattoos but hate how it seems to embolden men who cannot hold a conversation to try and use them as a talking point to start a conversation anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:56 AM
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It's always confused me how men think they hit their prime in their 30s and 40s because that's when they (supposedly) reach financial success. And then they fully expect that financial success to help them find a woman, but in the same breath they rail against gold diggers. Like wtf do you guys want?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:23 PM
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I saw so many scrotes on Reddit lamenting how Keanu broke the illusion of being one of their companions in the "forever alone" mindset when news first broke that he has a gf. They are truly pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:38 AM
27

Just from your general experience, how many posts on r/nofap do you see that cite wanting to stop because they think porn and its exploitative nature is immoral vs. wanting to stop for personal gain (like having a functioning dick again, wanting to have more sex, etc.) Right now the top post in that sub is "The woman behind your screen doesn't care about you!" and the first line of the post is "This 100% true, when a woman shakes her ass or titties on camera, she's only doing it for money, statu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:29 AM
7

Conservatives watch more porn than liberals. I'm not surprised. Those unhealthy feelings of sexuality just make them seek it out in equally unhealthy ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:25 AM
2

You were put into a situation where you needed to stand up for yourself, and you did. You did good sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:21 AM
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Men, once again proving they're willing to be rape apologists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:19 AM
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I'm cracking up at whoever is behind the camera trying to hold in their laughter. 😂 Why does this guy even bother to go on dates? He should just stay home with his precious dollars. Oh right, but he "needs" attention from women, he's just shopping for the woman who has low enough self esteem to accept this sort of behavior. Gotcha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:53 AM
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Read the handbook. This question really doesn't need to be asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:09 PM
15

I don't like dad bods or balding heads and I'm proud. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:05 PM
11

That narrative kills me too because they place all the blame on women as if we're the only ones that can compliment them. I've never seen a man criticize other men for not complimenting him because "no homo bro." If compliments only matter to them when a woman gives it, then they don't actually need compliments. They're just making shit up to whine about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:04 PM
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They just start pulling valid but completely unrelated societal issues out of their ass to defend their right to something horrid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:00 PM
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I also hate when men think they're the only ones who get lonely because of a lack of social support. They literally think all women have a big group of friends and family who are always checking up on them and highly regarding their feelings and trying to cheer them up when they're sad. Completely idiotic. Newsflash scrotes. We have the same challenges, but then we have the additional challenge of putting up with men online telling us that our reality is not true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:57 PM
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He probably watched some PUA bullshit that told him if he's inappropriately forward women will take that as some sort of attractive mating signal. I can't imagine why else (besides sheer stupidity) a man would degrade himself like this. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:17 AM
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cHoRe ChArTs!! Grown ass men wanting to be treated like children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:10 AM
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I go for guys that don't use Instagram at all. The less social media presence they have, the better in my opinion. I live my life the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:45 PM
9

It's on Audible as well for those who like audiobooks. The narrator does a really fantastic job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:26 AM
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I was raped while black out drunk as well. I woke up confused why I was naked and why my tampon was pushed way up towards my cervix. I never reported the man because I was afraid. He continues to live on like nothing happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:24 AM
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Lol this is so fucking relatable. All my exes have tried to get me back and now I realize it's because I was the better half in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:21 AM
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I think almost all women have a story about the man (or men) who reacted in an insane way when being rejected, either in person, through text, etc. This is why I fully promote women ghosting or lying to get out of even having to reject someone. Men ruined it for other men. We're not playing games, we're trying to stay fucking safe. Why the onus of complete honesty/transparency was thrust onto us when we're regularly in danger of violence is beyond me. But that's patriarchy for ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:28 AM
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You'll see threads on FDS from time to time about celebrity LVMs who are trash. They can be sculpted like Greek gods, have the whitest teeth, not have kids or any ex wives, etc. but a man who lacks values and the ability to treat their partner with the utmost respect they deserve is trash. You uprooted your life to and fought to protect your children from a predator, something many truly low value women don't have the gumption to do. You've shown strength most people would not even conjure withi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:25 AM
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Where was our "cheat on men for a whole month" movement when Jay Z cheated on B? Oh right, we're not complete fucking sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:39 PM
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The bar is so low, Satan is using it to limbo in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:22 AM
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LADIES, JUST QUIT ONLINE DATING NOW. I've said it a million times, and I'll say it again, the exceedingly rare gem that you're looking for on OLD apps is not worth the hundreds of potentially dangerous men you're going to have to put up with to get there. The idea of even putting up with these dangers and glorifying your pursuit of that one rare gem is pickmeisha behavior in itself. "Oh no, I don't mind having to interact with overtly sexual, disrespectful, abusive, and potentially dangerous men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:08 AM
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Here's the ugly truth about abandoning online dating: Because online dating exists, it has become exponentially more difficult to meet people in the flesh with the intention of dating. Hardly any men approach women in a romantic context in public places anymore. All those interactions have been relegated to online settings because most people want the easy and comfortable way to date which is swiping on a dating app. Even when it's not specifically a dating app, think about all the relationships…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:57 PM
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I'm anti- all forms of online dating. Dating online encourages low value behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:15 AM
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So many of my girlfriends, and myself included, have wasted time in relationships where we invested so heavily in men. We housed them. We fed them. We filled out job applications for them. We drove them to interviews. We packed their lunches. We supported them. We encouraged them to be the very best that they could be. I don't think I've ever had a man who bent over backwards to do that for me. Even the best of the men I've dated were benign at best. They didn't abuse or mistreat me, but they di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:12 AM
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I always say that when you first start dating a man, he should be able to say more about how you make him feel rather than what he knows about your personal life. Keep your feminine wits about you, ladies. Maintain an air of mystery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:04 AM
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This is a hill I'm willing to die on, even if I die single and never married. I want a man that will keep a tidy home unprompted. When I see relationship posts about women making chore charts for their men, I have a conniption. What is this, a fucking daycare?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:02 AM
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I quit online dating years ago and never looked back. I even moved to a whole new city and I never once had the urge to download the apps again to "socialize myself" to a new dating scene. These apps are inherently harmful. They've game-ified the act of swiping and now our brains have been rewired to view human beings as products in a catalog. All the ghosting, fizzling text conversations, and fleeting attention spans are a consequence of this and I can't understand how anyone still feels the ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:42 AM
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He tried so hard, and got so far, but in the end, it doesn't even matteeerrr!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:30 AM
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Lol oh Grimes. Was it worth that free ticket to Mars? Was it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:17 AM
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This exactly. I think we do a pretty good job at calling out celebrity LVMs on a regular basis because we know that no matter how talented, how wealthy, how handsome, how famous, how connected, etc. he is, a low value man is a low value man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:05 PM
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Omg I knew we had a handbook but I didn't know a gracious being took the time to compile it into such a nice PDF (seriously the font choices and the pink are such thoughtful touches). Thank you whoever did this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:56 PM
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How is it pickmeishas find nothing of note to talk about except for meaningless sexual encounters? Like forget encouraging women to get an education, forget maintaining physical health, forget learning new hobbies, forget leveling up your career, forget just about a million other things you could be talking about during a global pandemic. It's just sex sex sex sex sex. Truly idiotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:32 PM
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Can we just stop and say how gross and unhygienic that is? Like if I would be revolted at a man rubbing precum on his neck and wrists, I'm equally revolted at a woman rubbing her vaginal fluid on herself in the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:28 PM
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There's a porn subreddit for every color of woman imaginable. Reddit has more porn subs intricately categorized than the Dewey Decimal System categorizes books at a fucking library. Truly porn sick simpletons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:26 PM
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Ladies, check out r/Instagramreality. A shockingly large percentage of the photos you see online are not genuine so please don't compare yourselves with the impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:40 AM
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