Anniealmighty1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	I think all men are the same, tbh Exactly!! OP just demanded I prove I'm a women!! Bc if I'm a women I must hate men! 🙄🙄 She told me to shut up and insulted me! It's sad bc most likely that is why she hasn't had a hvm. It is. If I conducted myself like she is and thought like she is here I would never attract a hvm. She literally thinks the hvm in my life-and anyone elses harbor dark secrets like a rape fetish. Normal, not mentally ill people do not think like that. She needs a cognitive behavioral therapist. Too many women here…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:58 PM
21	I think all men are the same, tbh This. This comment. The fact that you're speaking to me like that. If this is how you conduct yourself normally then that's exactly why you haven't attracted a hvm. Edit: Thanks for the silver	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:51 PM
16	I think all men are the same, tbh YES. I'm not saying it again. If you look in my history, you'll find me giving advice on winning a sexual harrassment lawsuit, as I've won one myself. I am a women	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:50 PM
12	I think all men are the same, tbh How?? I'm honestly stunned that a normal comment: "hey maybe we shouldn't say for example all men are bad, all women are bad, all minorities are bad, etc. because generalizing like that is a cognitive distortion makes me a man. Women can be aware of cognitive fallacies and distortions	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:47 PM
9	I think all men are the same, tbh Money is NOT hv	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:44 PM
12	I think all men are the same, tbh Lmfao!! So a women can't be sane and logical?? Come on. You cannot say an entire gender is bad. That is objectively ridiculous! All of my friends don't think this way either and they are married to hvm	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:32 PM
11	I think all men are the same, tbh Exactly! Why isn't this sub working then? Bc it works for me. It's possible she happens to be surrounded by shitty people. There might also be something she can do to attract a different type of man. Not that it's her fault but her experiences don't define an entire gender. Why are you ladies here? Why haven't you had success? I'm sorry I'm just confused. I would never date if I thought like most of you. I just don't get it what is the point of this post in a dating sub? It's 100% true for me th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:26 PM
1	In need of advice Also what are the recording laws in your area? If it's legal record every conversation at work	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 07:49 PM
6	Rings in Insecure Times Just remember rings don't have high resell value these days, not like back then. Sometimes only a few hundred to a few grand at the most. But it's something	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 07:35 PM
3	LVM thinks being a man is so hard, is completely bothered and justifies his thinking Lol like you get respect for being hot! Lol You do get the halo effect, people are nicer, but it's not respectful attention by men it's just being hit on or being hated bc they can't have you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 09:32 AM
1	Boss level Pickmeisha Video games are enriching, most require strategizing and problem solving. There's studies that show that playing once in a while is good for your brain. It is absolutely a hobby. I don't really play, but I have it's fun! I'm a bookworm but some games are similar in that you get drawn into another world for a while. There is nothing wrong with the hobby, there is something wrong with a grown man neglecting his family and responsibilities to play for hours and hours.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 09:27 AM
1	In need of advice I said this before in another comment, but since you mentioned the witness, ask your manager for a meeting with the witness and the two men. Ask if it's alright if you record the meeting. Your manager will agree, if not get another manager in there as a witness to the meeting. Report it in front of them and call dude out as a witness. If they all deny it (honestly I have a hard time understanding why the witness would deny it to your face and his own managers, why would he want to be on the side…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 09:16 AM
1	In need of advice You need to directly and immediately tell them to stop. Your lawsuit will be much more successful if you prove you have tried to stop it first on your own, then with a manager, then with HR and so on. I recommend setting up a meeting with the manager and those two men and reporting exactly what you said here in front of them. I guarantee you it stops there. It gives you more power showing that you aren't making it up behind their back by having them present when reporting it. If you feel that th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 09:02 AM
1	In need of advice I'm so sorry! If you're going to report this, you need to document everything. And next time they say something you HAVE to speak up to them directly. The chances of you winning are much greater if you prove that you told them clearly not to make sexual comments and they continued. This is for sexual harrassment specifically, I successfully sued my former boss.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:53 AM
3	[ FDS Rescue Mission ] My husband thinks kissing is gross and I feel sad and resentful It can force her partner to confront the problem with her and give her the answers and strength she needs to walk out. It's been 15 damn years. A couples therapist will help her come to terms with the fact that it won't get better and it's time to leave, if that's what needs to happen here bc obviously she's having a really hard time accepting this on her own. A therapist will also see each one individually. I'd bet anything he's cheating and feels guilt. Couples therapy is actually a great idea…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:20 AM
3	Male raped a captive dolphin for a year, claims it was a "consensual relationship" and "she seduced him" 🤢 I'm with you girl!! I'm honestly at the point where I'm thinking of starting an FDS2. 90% of the stuff here has nothing to do with dating strategies. And there was a female researcher that lived with a male dophin and had a sexual relationship with him for years. It's well known. These posts are pointless, it does nothing but depress us	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 07:56 AM
24	Rings in Insecure Times I'm confused, do you not trust him to manage his own finances? Trust him and graciously accept the ring he wants to be proud to give you. It's not your money. Honestly, it sounds like you believe your future husband spends frivolously and is financially illiterate to the point where you have to make sure he doesn't spend too much on a ring. You're not his mother. I understand this, you look at the ring and think of all the places the money could have gone and you're used to not being able to spe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 07:36 AM
9	Rings in Insecure Times Exactly! I was going to comment the same thing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 07:27 AM
29	Yet another reason never to “date down”... If you, do they can’t handle it. Never settle. It's relevant on the other end too. I grew up in abuse and met an amazing, very hvm at 22. Two and a half years later we were engaged. He treated me like a Queen. My friends and family loved him, my sister used to joke that he worshiped the ground I walked on. That man never lifted his voice to me once, was loyal, kind, attentive, happily provided, did little things like brought me my favorite starbucks every morning, and surprised me with jewelry, flowers and once with concert tickets to my fav…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 04:56 AM
7	We reinforce this behavior ALL THE TIME Closure truly comes from within, it's not something someone gives you. You give yourself closure! Remember that. This women is right, closure is an excuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 04:40 AM
14	This sums up so much trying to look into their mindset. Are you serious? That is insane to me! Are there seriously men who compare the two practices?!! While I didn't circumsize my son bc I do consider it a kind of genital mutilation and bc unnecessary proceedures bring unnecessary risk, it is fundamentally different than the female genital mutation! His father is circumcised, but we both agreed we're not religious and the practice is outdated for men. As long as he practices normal hygiene there's no reason, and altering your kids genitals so it loo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 03:38 AM
11	(Shared by male facebook friend) So even when you make us mad, we are supposed to clean for you? Yeah, I don't think this is meant like that at all. I immediately assumed a couple that lives together. His language is offensive and he sounds lv, but I know lots of men and women who angry clean, and I do too lol. It's a thing. He's not completely wrong in that most healthy, normal people don't go fuck other people to hurt their partners when they're angry, and no one should put up with that. And sometimes in healthy relationships as well, you make each angry and you have to cool off before yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/20 10:10 AM
22	He Knows, Sis. 👏👏👏👏👏👏 This is the truth!! Strange how obvious it is when you finally realize this. How absolutely obvious it is that OF COURSE they know!!! I spent years in denial about that. Part of it was gaslighting by my own father. I'd complain about clearly abusive behavior and my Dad would say "that's just how men are." That's a lie. That's how low value, irresponsible, selfish and immature or personality disorded men are. And they can choose to be different, but they choose not to bc they don't care en…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/20 10:02 AM
1	My pickme cousin told me "Getting married is the biggest accomplishment in our culture" a few years ago. I got married last week. One more thing-if you're childfree than the chances of your marriage failing-again excluding Narcs which are a MINORITY of the population-are very unlikely. Childfree couples rarely get divorced. Children put a ton of stress on marriage. I do love being a mother, I've always loved kids but they're so hard. Married couples with no children are the happiest couples. And if they don't divorce, which is unlikely, then the marriage contact increases their wealth, better tax status, better social stat…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/20 01:18 AM
2	My pickme cousin told me "Getting married is the biggest accomplishment in our culture" a few years ago. I got married last week. Divorce does seem to bring out the worst in people. But the point of FDS is to choose carefully. Studies show that people who get married when they're older divorce significantly less often.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/20 01:12 AM
2	My pickme cousin told me "Getting married is the biggest accomplishment in our culture" a few years ago. I got married last week. Abusive relationships are the minority. Several studies show this, and I've been in one. Edit: It doesn't mean I think you should get married! It only means you shouldn't think all women who are married are taking the kind of risk you think they are, unless they have married an abusive man. Which you apparently think is the majority of men. That is literally stating the "no good men" fallacy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/20 12:54 AM
1	My pickme cousin told me "Getting married is the biggest accomplishment in our culture" a few years ago. I got married last week. Don't know about contracts? You don't think there are signs that a man has issues? You're the one who is naive if you honestly think that the man who ruined his family gambling showed zero signs that he had issues, even BEFORE the gambling. That's the entire point of FDS. To spot these guys so you don't end up like that. I have been in one abusive relationship. Since then I've wized up and pay attention. I am ruthless about cutting men off at any hint of an issue. And no, I honestly don't think …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/20 12:53 AM
16	Don’t make the first move, he’ll feel he settled Yep and you're so right about the looks thing! Men have types, women do too. You can be objectively gorgeous (bc lets be honest, some beauty truly is objective, there are many scientific studies showing this-e.g facial symmetry, certain waist-hip ratio) but other beauty standards are cultural and change like fashion. Combine that with an individual man's psychology and there is no way that any women is going to be the ideal women for every man. A man can objectively think you're beautiful but yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/20 12:33 AM
0	My pickme cousin told me "Getting married is the biggest accomplishment in our culture" a few years ago. I got married last week. There are many ways being an isolated STAHM is not mentally healthy. My concern is why you think that it has to be like that? I was a STAHM for the 1st two years of my sons life, and I loved it! My bf gave me lots of breaks, helped with housework when he got home, got up with our baby at night and let me sleep in, every weekend I got an evening to myself or to see friends. Honestly I love being a mother and I don't mind cleaning and enjoy cooking. We weren't rich but I had complete access to fun…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/20 11:56 PM
1	My pickme cousin told me "Getting married is the biggest accomplishment in our culture" a few years ago. I got married last week. But that's your personal situation. My comment was simply that a lot of women benefit from marriage even if they don't have children. That's what I was disagreeing with. Because it's objectively not true. It's one thing to say that there isn't a benefit for YOU to marry. But you literally said there wasn't any benefits for anyone if they didn't have kids. Which yes, makes you sound bitter, like you don't believe that there are good men and that even if a women is working, marriage carries benefi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/20 11:44 PM
3	So ladies, there has been a lot of focus on LVMs but what is your definition of a HVW? I consider myself hv. These are traits I have and am actively working towards: Self respect; Goals that she is actively working toward; values education/is educated; self sufficient; not emotionally needy; has passions; has and maintans a support system; takes care of her mental health; has dealt with her past in a way that it doesn't effect her future/doesn't carry baggage; not afraid to say no; self aware; strong boundaries; open minded; good social skills; emphatic; a good friend; a good list…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/20 11:36 PM
2	My pickme cousin told me "Getting married is the biggest accomplishment in our culture" a few years ago. I got married last week. I disagree with the contract being useless if you don't have kids, there are several practical and emotional benefits to marriage if you're in a long term healthy partnership, but you're right about everything else. Culture has changed significantly and millennials are especially waiting because of financial issues that the boomer generation didn't have. And the questioning of social norms in general that we've seen in this generation. And also of course, women don't NEED to be married and it's …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/20 11:17 PM
3	Left him at the cafe Ah! True true. Makes total sense!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/20 07:32 AM
3	Left him at the cafe Exactly!! I'd have smiled and waved bye!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/20 07:31 AM
13	Left him at the cafe I'm stunned. I wouldn't have made up a story tho, I'd have just smiled and waved goodbye! Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/20 07:29 AM
5	LVM?? Yes, he's LV. But a word of advice? Never tell them you'll have sex "when it's official." Say I'm not ready yet. That's it. Saying when just gives them a way to manipulate you. Don't say when you think you'll be ready	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/20 05:03 AM
5	PSA for all couples - PLEASE USE CONDOMS until Coronavirus dies down I'm so sorry!! Congrats! I just read an article, pregnant women testing positive who have given birth have not spread the virus to their babies! I don't remember what precautions the hospital took, but the mothers recovered and their babies never got it. So worse case scenario, the virus is not transmitted in that manner, although again I have no idea about separation protocols for mother and infant and that would be extremely hard. Chances are, you don't become infected and you and your healthy…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 04:58 AM
7	Fun Quarantine Activity That's exactly what I imagine early 20s guys to be like lol. Normally I'd say 28-35, if they're much older and haven't settled down it's usually for a reason, (barring divorce, to me that's acceptable) and should be avoided-I feel like this is more true for men than women. Lots look like shit at 30, but there are some great looking men in that age bracket. But! Lately as a whole, men are taking longer to settle down and might not be ready even at 35. So maybe we should go for older. Studies have…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 01:06 AM
4	What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously? I wouldn't have responded. It's honestly would we should all be doing. Let him figure out what happened!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/20 10:19 PM
5	A observation on men and reading... Well read is one of my hard standards as well and none of this "I love to read too! Have you heard of Dean Koontz?" bullshit! I hate it, I get excited than immediately despair. Yes, I'm snobby about books and won't apologize lol. I have friends that aren't into books that are very smart and wonderful, but my ideal partner can talk about books with me, or pick up a book I'm reading and have an intelligent conversation about it. I don't care if he doesn't read the same things or genre, as long as …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/20 09:51 PM
14	Fun Quarantine Activity True! Ladies take care of yourselves, especially while you're young! A lot CAN be reversed, but it's expensive. I honestly did spend the ages of 19-25 partying and doing drugs (worked in the nightclub industry, bartending, promo modeling where this was the lifestyle of everyone, even our managers) and stopped at 26. I was a smoker from 18-26. I made very good money and am in a good financial position now bc of those jobs but the life I allowed myself to get caught up in took a toll. I honestly l…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/20 09:14 PM
2	If you think men are shallow, try being a female wheelchair user like me. Let me tell you! I'm sorry! You're amazing for knowing your worth doesn't lie in the eyes of a lvm that is a much worse person than you. Being disabled is not related to your worth as human being. It takes a lot of strength to see past the lies and stay true to yourself instead of settling for someone that doesn't deserve a second of your time. I completely believe it about men in wheelchairs being more likely to marry, of course that would be true. And they say we're the shallow ones, when there have been sever…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/20 02:31 AM
3	Saw this on r/Advice today. Very sad that this kind of thing is promoted. There's nothing feminist about being a slave to your husband. A husband who can't even cook or clean for himself smh 🙄😑🤡🤦‍♀️ Agreed. Her friend is correct to have concerns, but there is nothing inherantly wrong with being a STAHM! And nowadays women do get shamed for it and they shouldn't! Raising children and managing a household IS respectable. Her friend is an absolute asshole for saying she needs to "rethink their friendship" over her friend's choice. She can give her opinion but she has no right to try and manipulate her friend like that. That's terrible to not be able to maintain a friendship with people that th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/20 11:13 PM
16	Hilarious but enlightening video on how Elle Woods went from being a pickme to thriving after ultimate LVM Warner’s narcissistic abuse - great example of transformation Favorite feminist film!!! It happened during the feminist movement fighting against beauty standards, (90s) women weren't wearing makeup or fashion as a protest. Then Elle Woods comes and shows us how to embrace beauty and still be badass. I love it. Also highlighted the plight of professional women working in a man's world having to prove herself more than others, and dealing with sexual harrassment and standing up for herself and her values instead of allowing the fear of repercussions to hold…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/20 10:06 PM
2	Such a cool girl Lol she's so jealous. Honestly that's it. The one thing that has been great about the rise of the Kardashians is the sudden reveal that 99% of all of the most beautiful famous women have plastic surgery or other procedures e.g fillers, botox, etc. You can't really get to that level without it. Well except for a very lucky few. So if they can't afford that, they just tell everyone they think it's immoral and it means those beautiful women they don't measure up to are fake. It's the only way they …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/20 09:57 PM
3	They want the hottest women and they don’t even brush there teeth. Yes! Very lvw behavior tbh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/20 12:28 AM