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| 55 | How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them? | Discussion | Annual-Umpire8567 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 10:30 PM |
| 48 | Modern dating is like a housing bubble | CMV | Annual-Umpire8567 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 09:50 PM |
| 26 | Society tells men to step up and be better but then actively prevents them from doing so. | CMV | Annual-Umpire8567 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 03:30 PM |
| 20 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptable | CMV | Annual-Umpire8567 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 04:18 PM |
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| 1 | Society tells men to step up and be better but then actively prevents them from doing so.Ah.. so you are going to pretend that tokenism in the name of diversity never happens and that it is mutually exclusive from actual bigotry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the startThere is nothing wrong with having standards and wanting to be attracted to someone. The issue is that many women have a very overinflated sense of their social market value based on social media, dating apps and our culture so the man they feel entitled to is unrealistic. It's like someone in the market for a new home. Social media and their friends all tell them they DESERVE that 700,000 mini-mansion when they can reasonably afford a 350,000 house. They picture themselves in that new house, dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Telling men who have trouble with dating to “treat women like people” to improve their chances is actually gas lighting and abuse.I get what the OP is saying here. It's gaslighting because the advice is simplistic, trite and does not reflect the current dating market. Of course you should treat women like people, but pretending that is all you need to do to be successful is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the startHow do you infer that I think playing video games and checking out makes men attractive? It's an observation about the current culture, nowhere did I say that it makes men more attractive for it. You are missing the bigger picture. The problem isn't about women refusing to date men who don't measure up, the problem is that social media, online dating and our culture of telling women they are perfect just as they are and can do no wrong has created a sense of narcissistic entitlement in many wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Will dating/relationships/marriage become a thing only the elite/wealthy do?Well, it seems our birth rates are declining as they are in other first world countries and that slack will likely be taken up by immigrants. Ever wonder why we have a wide open southern border and little actual resolve to enforce it? I think the powers that be see the writing on the wall. I think that the people who do want stable families will start looking either to these older cultures as inspiration or actually marry into them and join them. I believe demographic studies say the US will bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:18 AM |
| 2 | If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the startI agree. I don't think anyone is suggesting women should try and force themselves to date men they aren't attracted to. The problem is that many women have higher and higher standards and there are only so many men who meet them for all the women that want those guys. So if a woman is able to find one, the same logic applies in reverse.... he then has to be physically attracted to her! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 04:43 AM |
| 6 | If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the startThe elephant in the room here that people aren't willing to notice is to ask why women have such high standards that few men can meet. You hit on it by mentioning dating apps and social media but we can also add the fact that our current society tells women they can't do anything wrong and should apologize for nothing. Every woman is a queen or a goddess, obese women are beautiful and on it goes. Now... very few women will be introspective and see themselves and their unrealistic expectations or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 04:21 AM |
| 11 | If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the startThis! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 01:57 AM |
| 0 | When does dating market decline for men?If you are willing to look overseas or at different cultures within your own country, your SMV doesn't need to decline as quickly and you will have better options than many younger men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Women contribute more to their objectification than men doYou questioned why I asserted that women gain power from objectifying themselves and I listed several reasons why they do. Do you deny any of them? For what reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Women contribute more to their objectification than men doThose were a few examples off the top of my head. Here are more... How did Kim K BECOME a celebrity in the first place? It was from objectifying herself, it wasn't just the sex tape. That was the spark and she sustained it and grew it by objectifying herself as a career choice. Onlyfans main revenue stream and business model is women objectifying themselves and many of them do very, very well. So do many social medial influencers. Sexualization of women is often used as a marketing tool in adver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Women contribute more to their objectification than men doKim Kardashian is a BILLIONAIRE for objectifying herself. Many young women make bank on Onlyfans and Instagram for objectifying themselves. Attractive women get free entry to nightclubs, free drinks, free dinners from men who want to get with them. I could go on all day. There is even a phrase for it in the common lexicon.. sex sells. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Women contribute more to their objectification than men doyou're kidding right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Women contribute more to their objectification than men doI'm not aware that men posting shirtless pics of themselves are taken very seriously either. It is also nowhere near as common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:49 PM |
| 0 | Women contribute more to their objectification than men doExactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Women contribute more to their objectification than men doWomen do it because it gets them instant attention and power. Then they want the best of both worlds and don't want to own the negative appearance of getting instant attention and power just from showing off your goodies in a provocative way. This isn't some conspiracy by 'the patriarchy' to sexually objectify women, our cultural preoccupation with female sexuality is driven in large part by women who like the instant attention and power it gives them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Women contribute more to their objectification than men doPart of the problem is that we currently live in a culture that tells women they can't do anything wrong. Hence you get the sheer yoga pants, butt crack showing low cut jeans, exercise shorts that may as well be underwear at the gym, wearing flip flops to work, pajamas in public (though men do this too) and on and on. like the first comments said... you aren't allowed to say that.. and that's why it is an issue. I think the only people who do say something are the parents of teen girls and even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How were you first introduced?Laurence Fishburne came up to me once holding his two hands in front of me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.where did I say they throw themselves at them? i was responding to your claim that they don't even get the time of day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 08:53 PM |
| 4 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women....and seeing the two women side by side, one shrieking, overweight, loud, masculine and the other gorgeous, feminine and still able to defend herself and take-no-shit ... ... tells you really all you need to know about why this is becoming a 'thing'!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Boom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:50 PM |
| 14 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.https://travellingjezebel.com/sex-tourism-the-gambia/ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2401788/Sex-tourism-Meet-middle-aged-middle-class-women-Britains-female-sex-tourists.html https://juliebindel.substack.com/p/female-sex-tourism-white-middle-aged https://www.iol.co.za/travel/africa/is-africa-becoming-a-female-sex-tourism-destination-19444345 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Didn't this happen in Sweden because it has gone hardcore left & feminist and some men started seeking alternatives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.That is your opinion. An increasing number of men are coming to a different opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Then why do young men who backpack through many parts of the world, in poor areas have lots of success with local women? They aren't rich in many cases and cannot or would not be willing to settle down and provide a woman a better life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Yet women in America seek out men who outearn them all of the time and nobody seems as concerned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women."but the difference is that there's a power dynamic to consider when you look abroad. Taking advantage of that is almost 'cheating'." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:44 PM |
| 18 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.I think they have to frame these men as unwanted losers so that this does not become a popular trend and the men they are interested in start thinking about it. Which then is lowering the ever shrinking pool of high value men that almost all women feel entitled to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.It absolutely IS sex tourism https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/8709959/gambia-sex-brit-nans/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.You are believing an old stereotype that these women are living in fishing villages and dont' speak English. Many of them speak multiple languages and are better educated and conversant on a wide range of topics (History, culture, philosophy. etc) than the avg. Western woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Why should I speak for black men? Why should I believe in the 'stats' that you have not produced, especially when stats can be manipulated to mean anything anyone wants them to mean. Why is your dad's situation representative of all interracial dating? For that matter how in the hell is that different form swiping left or right on photos in Online Dating that much of our culture does now? Let me ask you a question. Do you think the average black man in America has this list of negative character… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.I notice there wasn’t an answer to my question in your response though. I'm not a black man and your question seems a bit racist, assuming the avg, black man has all of these negative traits you listed that are apparently backed up with "statistics". Also, 'mail-order bride' is yet another slur. If you can't engage in a conversation in good faith, why bother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Nice way to stereotype thousands upon thousands of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:05 PM |
| 7 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.That assumes that modern western women are some sort of gold standard and failing to attract them is some sort of character deficit. I don't think that is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Who cares what they think? You found a solution that evades many men. Here is the real 'pill' to swallow... For modern men, the situation looks pretty grim on the dating front *Until* you open your eyes and realize there is a whole WORLD out there with more feminine, attractive , not-overweight, women who you have a real chance with. I posted a similar story about meeting my Asian wife years ago and suggesting other men do the same, not neccesarily Asian but foreign. Anyway, a few women took thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.I doubt that someone willing and able to be a 'passport bros' and have the discretionary income to travel is going to be an inner-city hoodlum ... and spoiler alert the average black man isn't an inner-city hoodlum either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Man's burden is woman's choiceIt's because we have 'pretend equality' in our society. It's basically LARPing In addition to the points you raised, you can add that men still have to register for the draft despite that fact that women serve in the military (even though their physical standards have had accomodations made for them) Men are still expected, without question to be the defacto bodyguard in the relationship,if the couple is in danger. As you say, sometimes women step up but there is no burden to do so. So many wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsIt's all in the context. You are citing stats about men be violent because you seem to hate men and want to prove they are shitty people. (while conveniently forgetting that most victims of violence are men also) It's really no different than the sort of hate speech that red pillers use to try and assert that the female gender is lesser. I don't think one gender is better or worse than the other. I think it comes down to people on an individual basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.Why does this not surprise me in the least? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:18 AM |
| 2 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsYou sound very angry. I'd seek counseling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:03 AM |
| 17 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsIf a guy wrote the same post you just did with the genders reversed. He's be ridiculed and/or banned so fast it would make your head spin. Have you considered that? Also, if the common denominator in your relationships is men treating you badly, maybe instead of blaming half the human population, you might do a little self introspection and figure out why you are attracting such poor people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 02:32 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableThe women you talk about are not 'trad' they're just gold diggers. Nice way to negatively stereotype so many different women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:53 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableThe purpose was that I have read this forum in the past and it seems to me there is a lot of frustration with men regarding the current dating scene and I thought my experiences could help or be a different option potentially. I have not read this forum long enough to know that this a trend or a common subject. I really don't understand why you and a few other women seem to take exception with this post as if it were meant to trigger you or something. In all honesty, it was written for the male … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:43 PM |
| 3 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableI think alot of guys are doing the same thing for different reasons (opting out and not actively seeking someone but being open to it if it happens). Kinda sad because I think there is value in finding someone to share your life with and letting a relationship grow long term. I also agree that the internet distorts things. I notice that when I take a break from media consumption and just go outside and engage with people IRL. Most people are not as extreme, angry or combative as you see online a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 03:29 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableWhy don't you let the moderators worry about where posts belong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 03:23 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableI think that was the starting point but it has since morphed into this socially acceptable way to virgin-shame men and nobody can come out and admit that because virgin-shaming is rightly looked down upon by most of polite society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 03:21 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableWell, I have seen plenty of stories of men who are avg to above average and have trouble even attracting their equivalent in western society. I even know a few in my life. Meanwhile it seems to be a very real thing where most women feel entitled to 8-10s in guys no matter where they are on the scale and refuse to "settle". How in the world is that sustainable or even possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 02:58 PM |
| 3 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptable...and has since been co-opted into being used as an insult or are you actually going to pretend it isn't used by women to shame men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 02:33 PM |
| 3 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptablemail order brides is pejorative, shaming term and not the entirety of what I was suggesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 02:31 PM |
| 3 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableYour comment is weird AF. I am not very eager to do anything, that is you reading into this with your own assumptions. I just shared my experience because I thought it might be helpful, I'm not on some crusade to get men to date/marry internationally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 02:29 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableHow is marriage and dating that both parties willingly engage in exploitive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 02:27 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableFrom the About: "PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex, relationship and gender issues" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:10 PM |
| 3 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableYou are basically questioning why this forum exists then if you are wondering why people care about how others date. I just saw a lot of frustration out there and thought my story could help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:07 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptablewhy rightfully so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:51 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableboomer misogyny of "womens roles" and "women should be submissive" Where have I said that? I'm also not a boomer and I realize that's a trendy and lazy insult to dismiss older people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:47 PM |
| 3 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableBecause I don't identify with either group nor does my intended audience for my post. Also, in my opinion the term "incel" has largely become dismissive shaming language for someone as a lazy way to shut down a conversation. It's just as bad as calling a woman a slut. You are just shaming someone by associating their worth with their sexual activity or lack of such and it's wrong no matter who it's directed at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:44 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptablePoint taken. I've seen some disgusting comments online from men about why they like foreign women While we are being honest here though, there is also a stigma because it threatens some women's perceived sense of power in the dating market. When I first had that job in my 20s where there were a good number of Asian women who were getting attention from guys, I overheard a local woman say something about them "stealing our men". It's also the same as age-gap relationships. Older women are threate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 06:43 AM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableAmerican women are much more entitled because currently (again from what I can tell as an outsider who has not dated in years) they dominate and control the dating market as a result of social media, our instant gratification consumerism mindset culture and the dynamics of online dating apps. Would American men be the same way if the shoe were on the other foot. Sure! I think it's just human nature. I mean look at how toxic much of the pick up community and the advice they share can be. I person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 06:28 AM |
| 0 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableOh.. the narcissism! The post was not written for you or other western women's benefit and it wasn't written to trigger you or make you feel bad. *Spoiler alert* it isn't always about you! What's stopping me? I already did this 25 years ago. I am sharing my experience for other guys just because as an observer, it seems like many men are very frustrated. There is a stigma and lots of false info about interracial dating or marriage so I figured that my positive story might be helpful to some peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:29 AM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableWell, obviously Chinese women do not constitute all Asian women. As for the divorce rates, I don't know where you get your data but it seems to be wrong... "It found that after 10 years of marriage, interracial marriages that are most vulnerable to divorce involve white females and non-White males (with the exception of white females/ Hispanic white males) relative to white/white couples. Conversely, there is little or no difference in divorce rates among white men/non-white women couples, and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:18 AM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableIf a woman from this culture encounters an average American guy, she will tear him apart in ways that are very manipulative and brutal. Unlike western feminists, she. has. all. his. shit. figured. out. none of the women I have observed from my wife's culture or anywhere else have displayed any interested in being manipulative and brutal. You make it sound like they are predators. For that matter, I have never known any western women who were manipulative and brutal to their partners. They only p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableThe kind of guy who jumps through immigration hoops to go find a woman in the East is more often the kind of guy who is simply not successful with women here You say that as if women here are some sort of international gold-standard of women and failing to attract them, which more and more men are doing, is some sort of personal character failing on their part. Dating/marrying internationally isn't some kind of cheat code for guys! They still have to pull their weight and contribute to the relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:20 AM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableI don't understand why men feel the need to constantly announce that they are doing this. Good luck and enjoy the satay. Because it could help out guys who feel lost, hopeless and frustrated in the current dating scene. I wanted to share what worked for me and maybe guys have preconceived notions and hearing a positive story might lead them to giving it a chance. Honestly it was written for men, not women. I don't understand why so many women feel the need to police male conversations. You are c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableBecause the women come from a different culture and upbringing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:44 AM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableI agree! I just list it as a potential issue because not many people want to live with inlaws | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:38 AM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableI think you likely need (or will soon need) more than that to attract the typical American woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableIDK, If I were not married & looking for sex, I think I would prefer to travel. Maybe someplace fairly closer to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:36 AM |
| 3 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableThank you :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:31 AM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableFirst of all, any preference or standard that you have as a man that doesn't mirror the majority of women's opinions will be demonized and called misogynistic. Very true & happy it worked out for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 09:49 PM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableDid you mean biased? What does "based" mean in this context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableYeah, the window may be closing. I think the only way it ever changes is once enough women realize being alone and single because they never "settled" is not all it's cracked up to be, especially as they get older. ... then they tell they younger generations of women not to make the same mistakes. One can hope. I mean it's basically mathematically impossible for there be enough HV men for all the women who feel entitled to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableNo, but I did not have much exp at all before her and wasn't part of any sort of hookup culture. I certainly didn't fuck around in my 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableWhat is a PPD dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableIn my case, I am not religious, but yeah, that's an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableAs long as she didn't try and force her religion on me I guess. That's not my experience though with highly religious people in my country and that I have known. Buddhism is much more laid back, accepting and it's not forced on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 06:40 PM |
| 0 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptablethey think that she’ll assimilate and become a feminist. They don't though. Not to the degree that women raised here do. They grew up and in many cases are still involved in a very different culture. That is not to say feminists are bad, just that much of late stage modern feminism and woke culture is pretty toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 06:33 PM |
| 7 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableI think society tries to shame people into not doing this so there is a stigma associated with it. I felt the same way until I simply met different cultures. I suppose men who travel a lot to other countries notice the same sorts of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 05:39 PM |
| 0 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableThere's no real point in taking the effort to look elsewhere for that, although if it happens then it happens. I don't get your point. That would be true if most men were happy with the current dating situation and their options but what I can see as a background observer, they are not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 05:32 PM |
| 5 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableNo, not one size fits all, you are right. I just don't think it's on the radar at all for many guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 05:31 PM |
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