Anon-Dutch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How to hold frame (my complete guide) James, great response, there is nothing like some historical facts to put bullshit in check. I did however perceive a bit of a contradiction. You stated in regards to patriarchy that "there were literally no other systems that developed to any historically meaningful position." In contrast you seem to imply that the Indus civilization during the Vedic period was not patriarchal. Was that not the intended implication? Or how do you reconcile that seeming contradiction? More importantly, beyond re…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 04:23 PM
1	[serious question/rant] Why does everybody want me to continue with this life? I would suggest working with your therapist to get off the antidepressants and focus on cognitive behavioral therapy. Don't give up, I was in a dark place and I could not imagine a light at the end of the tunnel, but I promise you there is happiness ahead.	/r/askTRP	17/12/15 08:33 PM
3	[serious question/rant] Why does everybody want me to continue with this life? Go talk to a therapist, now! I have personally been where you are. I know it feels like things can never get better, but I promise you, talking to a therapist works. Seriously, go find a therapist now!	/r/askTRP	17/12/15 05:29 PM
3	Staring at someone in public transport is now sexual harassment, apparently. What ever happened to: you can look but you can't touch?	/r/MensRights	04/12/15 08:36 PM
3	An article my Wife just showed me I'm at work but literally just laughed out loud when I read that. Kudos sir.	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/11/15 05:47 PM
0	The Three Rules. It's your funeral. It's your funeral. You're welcome, and it's your funeral.	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 03:58 PM
0	The Three Rules. I read the post start to finish. Rules 1 and 3 were great, the section on tit-for-tat was great, however proposing the golden rule in the context of inter-gender dynamics is tantamount to a cardinal sin. At the end of the day, it doesn't impact me one iota, but I honestly think it may lead some guys here astray, especially because it's sandwiched between two acknowledgedly great rules. It's your post, it's your choice, but please consider editing the second rule, not for my sake or yours, but fo…	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 03:20 PM
0	The Three Rules. Tit-for-tat strategy in games is sound. However, tit-for-tat is analogoys to treating others as they treat you, NOT treating others how you want to be treated. You can dance around the argument all you want, but proposing the golden rule in the context of inter-gender dynamics is indefensible.	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 03:00 PM
0	The Three Rules. I expected someone to have pointed this out already, but apparently the community is asleep at the wheel. Rule number 2 is in direct conflict with the most basic tenet of TRP, namely that men and women are different. Treating a woman like you want to be treated would be treating her like a man. Try that at your own peril. A better rule would be; treat others as they wish to be treated. The difficulty with that is that you cannot rely on how they tell you they want to be treated, you must infer f…	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 02:50 PM
2	[FR] I feel like I'm doing this redpill thing wrong somehow. Ah yes, the inverse fucks hypothesis; the fewer fucks you give, the more fucks you get. In all seriousness, the inverse fucks hypothesis is extremely well supported by empirical evidence. Sage advice.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/10/15 02:50 PM
0	FR Girls Night Out "Use them thirsty betas for all you can." Really? I would find it disrespectful for my wife to accept a gift from another man. It just doesn't seem right. I'd be curious to hear what other RPers think about that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/09/15 09:58 PM
4	FR Girls Night Out I drew this boundary early and hard. Bars are human meat markets, period. Going "out" without your partner is not appropriate, period. A girls' night in at a girlfriend's house, I fully support. A girls' night out, is not acceptable behavior. A little success story. My LTR recently came back from a bridal brunch and told me they were planning a trip to a caribbean island for the Bachelorette party. I just laughed and told her that was absolutely ridiculous. She immediately agreed and said of cou…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/09/15 08:09 PM
1	How do RP men handle legitimate LTR's. The same principles still apply, but you are correct that LTR's require a more nuanced approach. LTRs are referred to as the Red Pill on hard mode. For advice on LTR's check out r/marriedredpill.	/r/askTRP	25/09/15 05:20 PM
1	SMV is not the only measure of a man Most of the things you say are correct, but you draw a distinction between SMV and MMV that does not exist. Everything you mention under MMV is already included under SMV. All women want an interesting man, whether for a night or for a lifetime. You narrow definition of SMV is just plain incorect. Secondly, the comparison is not between your SMV and her "threshold." The appropriate comparison is between your SMV and her SMV. The higher her SMV the higher yours needs to be. Read the sidebar mater…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/09/15 05:30 PM
1	LTR invited male friend to stay with her for a week. It's not appropriate for her to allow a man to stay at her house while she is in a relationship with you. Full stop. Not appropriate. This is not about you or her or him or trust, this is about boundaries. Letting a man stay at her house would be out of line, beyond the pale, simply not acceptable behavior. Assert that you have no insecurity, you know she has no interest in this guy, it's not about trust, it's just plain not appropriate. Full stop. For future reference, you might prefer to direc…	/r/askTRP	22/09/15 08:39 PM
2	TRP causing a complete loss of empathy. Surely it's not just me? Here is some food for thought. There is a direct trade off between equality and freedom. To ensure absolute equality, we would need to abolish all freedom. If anyone was free to choose anything different from anyone else, it would no longer be equal. This absolute equality scenario is akin to extreme communism. On the flip side, if we sought to preserve absolute freedom, we would not be able to do anything to promote equality. Any attempt to promote equality would necessarily impinge upon someon…	/r/askTRP	18/09/15 03:47 PM
2	Big Lessons 1 Year In Seldom has a more comprehensive yet concise summary been written. Thank you. Kudos on the inclusion of the dog. Taking charge of my LTR's previously untrained dog definitely helped establish me as the captain.	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/09/15 02:31 AM
1	Shit Texts: some notes for newbs Nice post. The last sentence cannot be repeated often enough "your happiness does not depend on her reaction to you. But on your lack of reaction to her."	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/09/15 03:26 PM
1	Fake Until You Make Congratulations.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/09/15 04:22 PM
9	Defining (and Destroying) Your Code Interesting topic and write up. Unfortunately, you only address half of the issue. It is absolutely true that "every "I will not" statement is a self-imposed limitation you have chosen to wear as a shackle." It is however equally true that every action you take is a self-imposed part of your history that you have chosen to wear as a shackle. If you take advantage of a weak person, you will need to live with that memory. If you lie or cheat to advance yourself, you will need to live with that kno…	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/15 03:52 PM
0	It works... Welcome and thanks for sharing your experience, great read.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/09/15 09:51 PM
6	Why is r/MarriedRedPill not part of the TRP network? Is it not a reliable resource? I was blissfully unaware of that fact. My guess is that it resulted from a clash between a married and an unmarried TRP member, the latter claiming that the former wasn't truly RP, or something along those lines. That is pure speculation, but that is how most factions occur, whether in religion, politics, or internet forums. I have found MRP to be a reliable resource on par with TRP. The difference is that TRP is more focused on spinning plates while MRP is more focused on LTRs. Lastly, note tha…	/r/askTRP	03/09/15 03:55 PM
2	[Noob] shit tests in the kitchen While that might be an underlying reason for her behavior, it absolutely does not in any way excuse her behavior. It sounds like you handled this situation near perfectly by maintaining your frame. Congrats.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/09/15 01:29 PM
1	10 Ways to Keep Your Wife on Her Toes. Thank you for this excellent post. I can add that all types of surprises work, not just full blown vacations, but surprise dinners and activities of all sorts. The key is that it is a surprise to her, which means you took the lead in planning it. Women love surprises.	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/08/15 10:57 PM
2	How do you guys even entertain the idea of an LTR You are definitely still in the anger phase, but let's think through the alternatives. There are only 3 options; celibacy, spinning plates, or an LTR. Unless you are an asexual person, celibacy is not an option worth considering. In the choice between spinning plates and an LTR, you will be interacting with "black mamabas" either way, the only difference is whether you interact with one or many. Which do you think involves more risk? [Side note, women are not unicorns but they are not black mamb…	/r/askTRP	28/08/15 02:57 PM
0	Withholding sex test- Failed? You overreacted. You got upset instead of maintaining your frame. You threatened to cheat on her. You should have ignored her threat to withhold sex, who cares if you don't have sex for one night or a few nights, you should have laughed it off, that would have taken the power out of it. Never threaten a woman, it never works out. Actions, not words.	/r/askTRP	27/08/15 11:42 PM