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GeneralAnonJetlag/r/MensRights23/05/23 03:46 AM
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GeneralAnonJetlag/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:13 PM
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Activism/SupportAnonJetlag/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:21 AM
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GeneralAnonJetlag/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:08 PM
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CMVAnonJetlag/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:47 AM
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AnonJetlag/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 11:20 PM
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AnonJetlag/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 09:44 PM
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DebateAnonJetlag/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:05 AM
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AnonJetlag/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 11:18 AM
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AnonJetlag/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 02:45 PM
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AnonJetlag/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 03:56 AM
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AnonJetlag/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:11 AM
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AnonJetlag/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 11:03 PM
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AnonJetlag/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 06:18 AM
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AnonJetlag/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 01:56 AM
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GeneralAnonJetlag/r/MensRights08/07/23 10:52 PM
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GeneralAnonJetlag/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:28 PM
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AnonJetlag/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 04:28 PM
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GeneralAnonJetlag/r/MensRights03/04/23 03:30 PM
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I mean, did he say anything wrong?
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 04:24 PM
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Even if they did, what does that even mean? They aren’t dying, men are.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 09:33 PM
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I believe this. They get what they want in the end. Although eventually they may have to hide their true intentions to get what they want because they will realize that no one wants them when they’re this honest about what they want. But I hope more men learn about stories like this. Shit’s scary out there.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:43 PM
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Welcome to 2023. This is why MGTOW exists.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:41 PM
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That says a lot about their decision making skills; but also that could just mean that they used the first one to get child support and alimony before she fucked off. Women are crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 03:45 AM
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The ones who don’t act like this are invisible to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:34 PM
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True. He made this decision at the end of the day
/r/askMRP13/08/23 05:36 PM
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The question is why would a woman get with a man who she’s not attracted to and then treat him badly? The answer is because women love to extract resources from men, they don’t only date the men that they are attracted to and this is the point of this whole discussion and why men walk away from relationships. It’s because if the woman gets with us and she doesn’t find us attractive then we can read it off her, and we know that she is using us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:36 PM
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Idk, I thought women are independent thinkers with today’s feminist world Also you ARE being cheeky and at this point your arguments are becoming absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:33 PM
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Is a non-chad man the equivalent of a homeless lady? You really don’t sound like a good person, you’re making your case worse with every comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:32 PM
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Gonna copy paste my comment: So you stoop down to that level based on a small percentage of men that have done this to you? You sound awfully vindictive and damaged, and I would advise anyone to stay away from a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:33 PM
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So you stoop down to that level based on a small percentage of men that have done this to you? You sound awfully vindictive and damaged, and I would advise anyone to stay away from a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:31 PM
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Why do you treat men differently based on whether they’re chad or not, is the real question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:15 PM
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Why does a woman require the man to be chad to treat him well? You are admitting that the woman is not a decent human being
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:07 PM
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Not wanting your wife to be a hoe is a completely reasonable response. It definitely is an issue with the woman.
/r/askMRP13/08/23 02:53 PM
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OP listen to this. It is the truth.
/r/askMRP13/08/23 02:51 PM
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How do you even argue with a woman like this? It’s impossible…I just would’ve know wtf to say lol
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 01:55 PM
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I dated a girl like that. She did something similar. When I found out I dropped her like a hot potato. She’s been out of my life for a long time.
/r/askMRP12/08/23 11:55 PM
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I noticed the same thing. When I’m in a relationship I always feel like I am distracted by the woman
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 02:36 AM
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25 yr old guy here with probably a lot less experience than you, but I dated a nurse and she was a goddamn SLUT that’s all I’m gonna say. Didn’t cheat but she damn well was about to.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 12:38 AM
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Nice as hominem attack. You don’t seem to have any rational counter arguments to what I just said, so you resort to a personal attack. Very clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:22 PM
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Usually the way it goes is: I got the good genes, now I want a reliable partner and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:05 PM
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I don’t think you understand the red pill. You should go on /r/theredpill and read the sidebar. It is common knowledge that women bang assholes when they’re attractive then when they can’t find get an attractive guy to commit they settle with someone whose “pErSoNaLiTy” they appreciate. It’s as simple as that. Ask her how tall, attractive her ex was. Ask her whose dick was bigger. Ask her who made more money, you or him. Ask her what she saw in him. She was a single mother because she was a moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:29 AM
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Your wife was a single mother before she met you. You are not going against any red pill teachings. With all due respect it feels like she settled for you. But you settled for her too. That is exactly what TRP tries to teach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:19 AM
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This is an important comment. Well said.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 03:03 AM
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Unrelated but: what’s special about GOA compared to other skincare routines? I used CeraVe products but I’d love to learn about other products
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 02:50 AM
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Holy fuck lmao good luck bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:04 AM
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You have no reason to do this. So, no.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 01:27 AM
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This comment nails it. OP needs to read this one and truly internalize it
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 12:58 AM
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I find it so ironic and funny that a MGTOW man is technically the perfect man according to feminists. He doesn’t marry or have sex with women so he can’t “oppress” women
/r/MensRights07/08/23 01:06 PM
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Wemon 😰🫣
/r/MensRights07/08/23 12:42 PM
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How is it unpaid work if the man is providing for her? Why does her work need to get paid if she has to do the dishes and clean regardless of whether she had a husband or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:50 PM
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I didn’t even watch it lmfaoo
/r/MensRights04/08/23 12:46 AM
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There’s no such thing as an egalitarian relationship. Again that’s why you and your other friend are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:05 AM
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Why are you so hung up on the shame thing? Just shut up and realize that men want submissive women, end of story Again if you wanna know why you’re single that’s why. Instead of constantly arguing, learn what I’m teaching you and go with it. I’m giving you valuable advice on how to get a man, if you wanna die on this hill alone with cats and wine that’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:48 PM
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You saying that men asking for a submissive woman, whereas no women are shamed for asking for a dominant man, is what made me feel like you are shaming me. It is the double standard. Women are allowed to have preferences and none are shamed for it (no virgin, 6 ft tall, makes money, handsome, 6 pack) But when men have the slightest expectations we get argued with and told “no you’re not allowed” Why is that? EDIT: keep disliking. I made valid, reasonable points and asked you questions that you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:58 PM
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Do we ever shame a woman for saying she wants a dominant or masculine man? No, so don’t shame us for wanting a submissive woman. Another example of double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:27 PM
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No, it’s saying “I’d rather be alone than come back to someone that puts me down constantly”. Nice shaming language btw. Men are allowed to have expectations, and that’s one of them; if you want to find a man, it’s your responsibility to adapt to the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:08 PM
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Men have difficult lives, our friendships are not as strong as female friendships, and we don’t get as much validation as females do. As such, we like to compensate for that by not pairing up with a woman that puts us down but rather a woman that is agreeable, soft, and helpful to us. We face enough challenges in the real world, at work, and in our social lives; we don’t want to come back home to another “challenge”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:02 PM
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When women shame men for dating younger chicks we forget that half of the situation is also the women dating an older man. Why do they blame the man? Because women cannot take accountability. Apparently she is too young (even though she is an adult) to be responsible; therefore the man must be the problem. But we forgot that she chose him. Welcome to modern feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:58 AM
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Funny how my life usually gets better when I cut women off. This is not true.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 01:45 AM
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Keep telling that to yourself. Until one Day you experience a false accusation. Or a ruined reputation. Or a woman divorce graping you and stealing all your shit. Those last two you can generally avoid… Enjoy the decline, brother.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 10:34 AM
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Join MGTOW my friend. Living with constant shit tests is not sustainable but this is what modern feminism has done. Just go your own way. I am in the same boat and I gave the fuck up on bishes.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 02:45 AM
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That’s definitely gonna end well for her. Lol. She doesn’t know how to be alone. Always needs some man to leech off of.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 03:40 AM
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Poor woman 😔 no one wants her sloppy seconds 😢
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/23 04:10 PM
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That quote is from my favourite poem: Desiderata by Max Ehrmann I recommend that everyone reads it.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 05:15 PM
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Why are you still single if you seem to know so much?
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:35 AM
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What’s JFL? I see it a lot on this sub
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:34 AM
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Find a husband challenge speedrun any% [IMPOSSIBLE] [HIGHEST DIFFICULTY]
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:32 AM
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Yep. The oldest form of gaslighting and deflection: the ad hominem attack.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 03:12 AM
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I’ve already responded to you in another comment, your choice seems to be to ignore the long list of things I’ve made that men are fighting for. Have a good day.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 04:48 PM
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We are fighting for the freedom to: - not get half our shit stolen from us during divorce - get custody of the children. Alimony, child support - not have our reputation ruined if we divorce or sleep with a woman and she regrets it - not have our bodies mutilated through circumcision - higher rates or suicide - higher rates of homelessness - violence against men - social safety nets - conscription and the draft - prostate cancer is way less researched than breast cancer Women are literally so pr…
/r/MensRights22/07/23 03:26 PM
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And: to see how badly we get treated in 2023, go to /r/Divorce_Men.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 03:14 PM
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That’s your side of the story. When you have privilege (and women have so much privilege in 2023) you are blind to everything. Believe all men.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 03:11 PM
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And for that reason men don’t matter? In 2023, how are things going? Women are more delusional than ever, and honestly things have changed in the other direction. I think more men need to speak about how badly women treat them.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 03:02 PM
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Ngl OP has a point. Why are women incapable of admitting what they want?
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 10:20 PM
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Lmfaoo I didn’t know it was this bad for women. Good, let them have it. Most women have been acting like entitled cunts in the past decade or so Men’s expectations haven’t changed, we all want someone who’s friendly, feminine, and loyal. That’s all we ask for Women’s expectations have gone through the roof.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 12:33 PM
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No it was on TikThots.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 11:58 AM
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That post you linked is crazy cause most of us had a woman that we treated this well and simped over, and she took us for granted, spit on us and our efforts and went onto her next relationship like it was nothing. Why does she feel the need to post this on social media? Who knows. But I do know that I would not be a happy man in his shoes, after what I’ve been through. I’m willing to bet lots of money that she doesn’t appreciate him as much as she should in real life…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 04:09 AM
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As always: single women keep other women single.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:35 AM
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Totally justified but it’s the fact that they never admit it, that makes most women manipulative and deceptive. If they were to admit it, I’d go “you know what that’s fair”.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 11:11 PM
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Wow that one resonated with me. I tried to make amends with my ex but her friend had to put herself between us and try to ruin my reputation.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 02:28 AM
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It’s cause that’s what they’re attracted to; they’re projecting You can tell a lot about what a woman is attracted to just by looking at how she portrays herself
/r/MensRights20/07/23 01:04 AM
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That’s scary. According to that model, anything you do is considered DV even as a response or as self-defence. This is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 12:22 PM
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It’s my first time looking at the Duluth model. If I’m honest, it seems reasonable. Am I missing something? Just looking for an explanation on why it is so controversial
/r/MensRights18/07/23 04:58 AM
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No women denying it in the comments section either.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 02:50 PM
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These people are straight up brainwashed. And even if it were two sided, wouldn’t that make sure as shitty as him for stooping down that low and trying to take revenge? It doesn’t make it any better if it were two sided
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 04:46 AM
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Wtf? No, abusive can definitely be one sided and that is not a rare occasion. I don’t know what you’re talking about and I don’t think you know what you’re talking about. Women can definitely abusive men, try to control them, and disrespect them. If his wife felt “abused”, she can calmly address this with the husband and communicate this information clearly and directly, before resorting to nastier tactics like attempting to “flip the script” and abusing him back. Nowhere did OP mention that she…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 12:05 AM
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She’s abusive because he was abusive? Great way to flip the responsibility onto him.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 11:29 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/23 12:47 AM
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Your ex is a damaged woman.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 08:10 PM
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I sent them a DM asking why they did that and they never bothered to respond. If they really agreed then they would’ve at least explained it to me via DM.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 07:55 PM
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Watch as the mods of this sub take down your post. They turn a blind eye when I mention that. I posted twice about MGTOW and they took down both my posts. In the second one I asked why they took the first post down; and they took that one down too.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 04:14 PM
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Is it that bad?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/23 03:16 AM
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Go MGTOW.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 11:13 PM
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Because women are allergic to accountability; every one is abusive to them.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 08:47 PM
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No, trust me, we go our own way. We talk about women on the internet in order to show people our experiences, and teach other men that there is a way out, and how they don’t have to be chained to validation from women. But in real life we avoid women like the plague and we have jobs, we work out, and look after ourselves and families.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 11:41 AM
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Guys, just go MGTOW. Join the side that doesn’t care about women
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 11:27 AM
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It is literally 1984, not even memeing here. The things that were mentioned by MGTOW guys in YouTube videos resonated with me so much, that I was like “wait you guys dealt with this shit from women too??” It was so enlightening to see that other men were dealing with the same crap, and that there’s a way out
/r/MensRights13/07/23 01:34 AM
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Jonah Hill literally did nothing wrong. He stated his opinion honestly, was not mean or rude, and he gave her the choice to leave. Women like to push men’s buttons to see how far they can go. And when they go too far and you call them out, they point the finger and say “see?? He’s so abusive!”
/r/MensRights13/07/23 01:26 AM
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You seem angry. Good. Let the anger motivate you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 12:28 PM
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Well, I know that women generally can't handle being alone. That's why they jump from relationship to relationship. If they're alone, they usually go crazy. Generally, "lonely" men are extremely creative and ambitious. At least that's what I've noticed in my social circle, and in myself.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 03:54 AM
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Because feminism is a religion. I've realized that human beings need something to look up to. God has been replaced by the idealization of women.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 03:15 AM
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What a disgusting person she is.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 05:38 PM
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Did you read my comment? I said if men are getting with women like that, then these women want them too. So who is really responsible? Why are we just blaming the men? Don’t these women have full agency over their actions, or must we infantilize women for their conscious behaviours?
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:55 PM
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If those men get with women who are 20 years younger, then that directly implies that these women get with men 20 years their senior. But we don’t shame these women? Once again, women show that they cannot take accountability and must shift the blame onto someone else.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:19 PM
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Even men that do this are very rare.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 01:49 PM
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Literally every ex I had was younger than me.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 01:29 PM
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Do we say the same about women who go for older men?
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 11:07 AM
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Invest in cat food and wine companies, I bet they’ll skyrocket in the next ten years. Oh and plants.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 12:48 AM
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No difference at all, you are fabricating the difference. You seem particularly offended by my lack of attraction toward post-wall women
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 10:41 PM
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That is the goal.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:56 PM
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When enough men, like myself, refuse to sign the contract. Go your own way, gentlemen.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:56 PM
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Yes. I don’t owe anything to a woman who did nothing for me.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 09:52 PM
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This is extremely common, by the way. They do it because they expect you to understand their hints.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 09:52 PM
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Not as soon as they reject him; later in life, maybe 10 or 20 years later. That’s the point of OP’s post.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 07:23 PM
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Because she hit the wall, do you not know of the passage time?
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 07:09 PM
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Why are you bitter?
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 07:08 PM
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Yes. My ex.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 07:08 PM
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I understand brother, but you need to remove the idea of her in your head. It’s not that there is no hope, it’s that you thought she was someone that she is not. I recommend listening to Jock Willink’s podcast talk on breakups. It helped me.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 07:04 PM
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I have a prediction that feminists will go extinct by 2030
/r/MensRights09/07/23 06:15 PM
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You need to move on. There’s no going back. I know you said things out of anger, probably, and you lashed out; that’s a normal human reaction when someone wrongs us. However, it’s important to have self control in the future. But now it seems to be over. You need to leave this relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 05:55 PM
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Relax, you need to fix those anger management issues of yours. Very offensive to talk about brain damage.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 04:38 PM
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Stop trying to sound cute
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 03:50 PM
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🌟 She is a Libra ♎️ 🌟
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/23 02:04 PM
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The pregnancy was intentional, meaning that Tyrone was exploring his breeding kink intentionally before he ventured off into the sunset
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/23 02:01 PM
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<3 Craft Beer
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/23 01:58 PM
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You must be dumb, right?
/r/MensRights09/07/23 04:01 AM
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She lied, though. It’s not the compatibility that bothers me, it’s about her being a liar and the commenter conveniently turning a blind eye on that and just chucking it up to compatibility as if OP’s gf didn’t lie to him. This is what boils my blood about the comments sections in these posts; the women always try and tone down what another woman did and ignores the bad behaviour. They focus on how “you’re not compatible” “maybe she’s stressed out and needs love” No, she’s a fucking liar
/r/MensRights08/07/23 09:26 PM
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It makes no sense, I don’t understand how it makes him the asshole when they clearly communicated about this boundary. She can’t just go change her mind
/r/MensRights08/07/23 07:42 PM
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“She’s allowed to do those things” Why do women defend each other so vehemently? Holy shit Idk what it is but maybe cognitive dissonance, I’ve tried setting boundaries like this in the past and they were agreed to; then I was labelled the asshole What the fuck? They want their cake and eat it too, like no I don’t tolerate my girl clubbing, go do single stuff after we breakup. Just don’t agree to it then after a few weeks decide I’m an asshole after your friends convinced you that you can do what…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 07:36 PM
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I’m kinda numb to these stories now. I see them so often that it’s become the norm.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 05:57 PM
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We all need a reminder.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 05:23 PM
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It’s a dating app. So, ultimately, yes.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 03:57 PM
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Respect. Please share it on this sub when it is finished.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 02:38 PM
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I will never get married. 500k is a madness. I know you probably want to stay anonymous but you should make a YouTube channel or something discussing your experiences. There’s lots of guys like you, who go through these experiences, but you’re in a higher “value” bracket than most so I think the average, and younger, guys can benefit from your stories
/r/MensRights08/07/23 02:03 PM
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Fucking hell. I don’t consider myself ugly at all, I am fit, around 6 feet tall (more like 511 but no one spots the difference lol) and I got constant disrespect from women too. I got cheated on by 2 girls. My first one did it with some YouTuber at a party who later completely discarded her after she tried branch swinging. She then got fat and 8 years later apologized to me claiming that he tried to sexually harass her and it was not cheating. The lying cunt. The second one was more subtle and s…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 01:52 PM
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And you got cheated on multiple times? Is this true? If it is, then we are all fucked.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 01:31 PM
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It’s truly fucked out there. I had a similar experience as you.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 01:24 PM
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That’s really what it boils down to. How can they want something serious and excuse all forms of unfaithfulness?
/r/MensRights08/07/23 05:22 AM
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The only thing that will make women change is when they realize that there is no one left to date.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 05:20 AM
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As someone in tech I agree
/r/MensRights07/07/23 08:17 PM
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I used to work in a sector where it was mostly women. It was the most toxic, vile, depressing, loud environment I’ve ever worked in. Hell, women in the workplace can’t even stand each other it seems. My ex who was a nurse would tell me stories about all the drama. Now I work in tech where it’s mostly men and everyone is direct, calm, now mind games, no bullshit, no one tests you. It’s so peaceful, My mental health has drastically improved since.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 08:16 PM
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A friend of mine has been in a relationship for 4+ years now, and she’s a keeper. He told me about some minor annoyances he has with his gf and was considering breaking up. He asked me “how’s the dating scene anyway?” I told him don’t you dare breakup with her if she’s good to you. Unless you intend on being single, which is fine. But if you want to date agin…You’re gonna go through absolute hell in the current dating world. It’s a shitshow
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:47 PM
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The point is, she goes clubbing. The shoe thing was probably sarcasm, sure; but not the clubbing. And women who club are in general trashy.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 04:43 PM
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That’s her fault, what the hell is your problem 😂 she definitely has life on easy mode to have this much privilege and she fucked it up
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 11:10 AM
2

I can reply to you in the same way. You gave us one example, and then you say “yet they don’t live life on easymode” You’re not arguing I’m good faith and you need to stop gaslighting
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 05:11 AM
9

What the fuck lool
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 04:23 AM
3

Not sure if you’re trolling, but that’s how you end up either with STDs or a ruined reputation
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 03:25 AM
5

Those are the consequences of their own actions. I once met a girl who was in med school and she was a stripper on the side. A year later I heard from a friend that she dropped out of med school. She would’ve made more money in the long run as a doctor but you can’t take the streets out of her. Guess we know where her priorities lied
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 03:23 AM
2

Many whores and sluts are thin and beautiful
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 12:38 AM
57

Going MGTOW even though I’ve had gfs and fwbs in the past. There comes a point where all that shit with women isn’t worth it
/r/MensRights07/07/23 12:34 AM
1

Imagine wifing up someone who dresses like that 🤢
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 12:30 AM
2

Explain the joke please
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 12:29 AM
12

You literally said you lose a shoe at the club what the fuck
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 10:56 PM
12

It’s not necessarily about looks, but yes hypergamy is absolutely a thing and it’s been worse in the past few decades because western society has allowed them to be this way without any consequences.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 10:06 PM
12

You sound really trashy tbh
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 09:45 PM
1

It really feels like you’re trolling at this point How am I supposed to change her feelings? It’s her responsibility to be a good communicator and tell me what she needs
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 12:08 PM
1

I used to but in the current social climate I realized that it’s impossible. If I decide to marry or have kids, they will eventually get taken away from me.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 12:02 PM
3

Nah bro. I’m not even married and never divorced but there comes a time where you just say I’m so done with these modern women and the way society treats them, compared to how it treats men. Acting soft and stoic like this will get you nowhere.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 03:33 AM
28

Gen Z here. These bitches don’t need a man, well I don’t need a woman.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 12:33 AM
59

“Reinvent men” It’s like they’re not even trying to hide it anymore
/r/MensRights06/07/23 12:31 AM
24

Most guys I see here did the opposite, they tried harder and they ended up being the ones taken for granted
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 11:18 AM
45

Even the unmarried guys need to hear this one.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 09:52 PM
2

Omg…
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 09:34 PM
5

She didn’t trust you because she’s projecting. You should never trust her.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 09:09 PM
1

Shit’s fucked.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 08:18 PM
6

I still consider that crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 08:11 PM
7

They’re crazy. They will never be satisfied. Your post really nails it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 05:08 PM
4

Great comment, OP needs to read this.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 03:26 AM
2

I don’t think it’s due to losing empathy, but stress could explain some of it. Another thing is that there’s a weird culture among nurses to slut themselves out. It’s very common, and I think that’s also due to stress.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 03:19 AM
13

This is the key observation, they are constantly in panic mode to try to find a good provider. They just destroy everything along the way in a rush. I always saw it as a defence mechanism Imagine someone who’s really panicked and rushing through the streets pushing everyone in their way to get to their destination. They don’t see themselves doing it. If they did, they would know that they’re crazy. That’s the only explanation I have for their behaviour
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 11:13 PM
3

I was never married but I had an ex gf with the same traits as your ex. Made more money than me Was a nurse (the shit they say about nurses is true) Roommate was recently broken up with her ex bf Became more distant the closer I got with her It’s the same story over and over again. I refuse to marry
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 10:04 PM
24

Swear these bishes think they’re cute when they tell you “come spoil me 😩 “ or “I’m crazy 😜 “ You’re not cute you’re obnoxious
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/23 07:12 PM
2

Idk how much of this is true, but I would say most of it.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 06:34 PM
12

Holy shit. I’m so sorry brother. I have no advice but I wouldn’t wish this on my enemies.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 12:32 AM
1

But don’t you agree that women robbing men is more common? What I’m saying is that women are okay to leech off of men and don’t actually love them when they get together a lot of the time. They just see money bags 💰
/r/MensRights02/07/23 04:23 PM
1

Honestly no. I’ve had girls just hang around because I provided good money or a fun lifestyle, not because they actually wanted to hang with me That’s the main problem
/r/MensRights02/07/23 03:55 PM
1

Women nowadays already go with men they don’t like, that’s why the divorce rates are so high. Women rush to find a provider and then they get bored and suck him dry when they get what they want
/r/MensRights02/07/23 03:04 PM
6

Single women keep other women single.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 03:05 AM
28

Good observation. I noticed that the independent types are usually the rejects.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 01:44 AM
5

Idk if it’s true but people have said that she’s the only moderator and she makes multiple accounts as a way to power trip.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 01:08 AM
6

It’s a defence mechanism. That’s the result of western feminism
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 01:00 AM
18

The mod is crazy. She bans people and is biased toward feminists
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 10:58 PM
1

She did you a favour brother. I’ve dated feminists and they’re hell to be around. I see my friends engaged with those feminists. They’re awful honestly.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 09:48 PM
9

Because they are children Hate not getting what they want
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 08:09 PM
1

Still hit tho 😂
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 08:07 PM
3

180 and grey rock is the general advice that’s given here, and it works. Don’t negotiate with her, focus on the divorce and let her be a cheating hoe. It’s her loss
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 05:51 PM
4

Holy shit you sound fucking crazy. Go away
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 03:31 PM
2

I am not interested in her, and that is my right; how about that? You are taking that quite personally I am afraid. I don't want to continue a relationship with her. Do you have any advice on how to respectfully turn her down? If not, then don't address some irrelevant parts of my post.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 03:25 PM
2

Why do you seem so personally offended by this post? None of this is your business tbh, I asked a simple question
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 03:20 PM
1

Sounds about right
/r/MensRights01/07/23 02:07 PM
24

Cause they know that by 30 it’ll ruin their chances to get a provider. Go figure.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 02:06 PM
7

Holy shit loool
/r/MensRights01/07/23 02:04 PM
1

Been there. I don’t like the travel types, they don’t appreciate anything.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 01:48 PM
1

Well said.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 01:46 PM
1

Wtf bro that girl is insane. I hope her husband divorced her. Glad you didn’t get involved in that bullshit
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 01:36 PM
-1

Not really, there were some great suggestions in the comments
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 01:35 PM
0

I was clear to her about my intentions. Don’t make assumptions about people
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:06 AM
2

That’s literally the worst advice, ghost her so she has even more incentive to ruin my life? If men listened to your advice I swear they’d be in jail lmfao And stop the ad hominem, I asked for realistic advice, not a psychoanalysis. Someone in the comments suggested saying that I’m gay and honestly I’m considering that
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:03 AM
2

I categorically refuse to be honest and I will die on this hill in order to protect my reputation and my civil rights; I refuse to get fucked over in court over some false rape allegations. You’re delusional if you think I can get away with being honest in 2023. You need to live life as a man to see what that’s like. I’m genuinely scared. There’s a risk, and although small, I may be unlucky and refuse to become a statistic.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:58 AM
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One of them did. It was after a 1 year relationship and she basically tried telling her friends that I forced her, even though I never did and she always initiated; in fact she complained that I was too busy at the end of the relationship and we didn’t have enough sex. And I don’t even have to have gone through this myself to know that it only takes one woman to ruin your life; look at Jonny Depp. It is a well known fact that women do this
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:48 AM
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I literally said in my post that I am worried of doing this due to false rape allegations. I can’t do that because women have tried to accuse me of rape and have gotten really angry at me when I did that
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:44 AM
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I’ve had girls agree then try to ruin my reputation because I didn’t want to commit to them after. Even though I never agreed to be their bf after we had sex. That’s the intent of my original question in the post
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:40 AM
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I just said that I’m not interested in the foodie dates. I don’t want to go out, I want to stay at home and watch Netflix and chill. She is using me for food, and when did I even say that she gave me blowjobs? You’re making some weird assumptions And why does it have to be so transactional? I don’t want her to “pay me” back or some shit
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:35 AM
3

Genuinely considering this, thanks
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:20 AM
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Yeah, don’t. Usually they’re a little crazy and won’t pass up an opportunity to ruin your life if you let them.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 05:03 AM
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All I’m gonna say is she was the most submissive (ironically), and the craziest in bed. She loved choking, slapping, hair pulling and light domination. Yet she was an “independent woman”; she got mad at me cause I offered to help bring down boxes from her apartment that she needed help with cause she can do it all on her own. Other than the sex being good, not much good came out of this relationship.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 04:49 AM
2

Chadlite 😭
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 07:30 PM
17

Bro they don’t know wtf they want
/r/MensRights30/06/23 02:48 PM
1

And are you guys still with these girls?
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:04 PM
2

You find a gamer guy attractive?
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:50 PM
11

Interesting observation and I noticed that too. Women are always encouraged to do what they want; men who do what they want risk not being attractive, so they do what the opposite sex wants.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:05 AM
3

Do women actually do this? Is this why my ex was acting all nice after the breakup until I blocked her on fb and even explained to her “it’s not out of animosity, it just hurts me to see your posts”
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 09:41 PM
1

Why do you still have her added on Facebook? Block her, not out of pettiness but out of sight out of mind
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 09:38 PM
2

As a man you sometimes feel like you can’t do anything right. Whatever you do, you will get criticized
/r/MensRights28/06/23 01:59 PM
44

I think the numbers are a form of sarcasm/humour, but the point still stands
/r/MensRights28/06/23 04:48 AM
149

It’s called hoeflation. From urban dictionary: The average man nowadays needs to work several times (~5x) harder than his grandfather (finances, bodybuilding, career etc.) to attract women who are several times (~7x) in lower quality (inferior) to his grandmother (less attractive, abhorrent personality) etc.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 01:04 AM
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If more men thought like this, society would be a much better place. The dating scene would be easier to navigate
/r/MensRights28/06/23 12:29 AM
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I am a 25 yo male and I completely relate to this. Women are behaving like crazy children. No wonder men are checking out. Funny thing is the women are just doubling down the more guys check out. They are going on overdrive which drives men away even more. I wonder when they will calm tf down. Maybe when they realize that men hold the key to commitment since we don’t have menopause.
/r/MensRights27/06/23 11:53 PM
1

I feel like not women want to flip the script because men won’t take non-virgins seriously. Women like this are petty
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 10:08 PM
3

Ask every man who visits this sub and he will have a story about how he gave a woman the world and she either cheated or left him. It’s either that women are unaware of their own desires and impulses; or, they’re lying about it. And I’m not sure which is worse. The red pill exists for a reason
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:37 AM
2

I think a better one that I’ve recently started saying: she can never love you.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:36 AM
1

Wait is this a real phenomenon? Can you elaborate??
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:35 AM
1

I’m starting to think that this is true, a bit more everyday.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:32 AM
3

😭 🐟
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:24 AM
1

All these things, religion warns us about and we roam earth as if we know better. I’m not very religious myself but I respect religious teachings very much. They’re there for a reason. People who demonized religion or completely write it off, those are the people we should be afraid of and avoid. Those who are blindly religious aren’t better.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 10:16 PM
1

Look him up on YouTube you’ll see what I mean
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 10:13 PM
1

Real shit. Thanks brother. Life’s only been up for me. Looking back, every single setback I’ve had in life - and I truly mean every single one - was due to a woman I let into my life and that shouldn’t have been there. I don’t regret it because I’m only 25 and I had that experience early rather than late.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 09:58 PM
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I don’t have much to add to this, I agree with most of the things you said. You sound cynical but I don’t blame you. I got into relationships thinking “this one will be different” and the woman ended up being a clone of the previous one. They all behave the same way. Act a bit weak and they’re gone. I don’t understand how you’re expected to build a family with girls like this; life has ups and downs and even the strongest men have an Achilles heel. We all go through bad moments. So when we share…
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 09:45 PM
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You’re gonna get hurt if you continue down this path.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 08:22 PM
2

Also you sound like Jon Zherka and I fucking love it lmao
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 08:13 PM
2

I see this a lot but is it true? I’m 25 and bitches be fucking crazy at my age or a few years younger, does it actually get better? Do women start behaving better in their 30s? It’s a genuine question cause I’m kinda concerned for my generation
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 07:58 PM
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I am definitely NOT the problem. No, it’s these men who just want to play games.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/23 01:52 PM
1

I don’t want to group you all together but there are enough bad women (yes, people in general - but we’re heterosexual men) out there that men must learn how to protect themselves.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 11:14 AM
3

“nOt aLl WoMeN!!!!!!!!” Tell ‘em to fuck off with that bullshit. Most women I’ve dealt with were like this, despite me being a kind and caring human being. I don’t like that “NAWALT” argument; at the end of the day, enough of these types of dangerous women exist that men must be red pill aware and always on their guard to protect themselves.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 10:57 AM
2

Not OP but thanks for recommending that channel.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 12:02 AM
1

They feel abandoned.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 08:42 PM
2

It’s okay to speak in generalities. In general, western women are not trustworthy in 2023. Most men you will talk to have had some kind of bad experiences with a few women. The internet enabled these men to share their experiences and to go “hmmm, so it wasn’t just me all along; you guys are ALSO dealing with that shit from women? Seems to be a widespread phenomenon.” And that’s a fair conclusion to make. Just go on /r/divorce_men and look at the shit you find over there; men do NOT want to risk…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 08:30 PM
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I am trying to find where that other redditor said that women cheat more and I can’t find it? He’s just saying that modern women can never be trusted, and he has the right to have that opinion and many men have the same opinion; which is why the modern dating scene is so fucked
/r/MensRights25/06/23 08:24 PM
8

What was the lie?
/r/MensRights25/06/23 08:18 PM
38

You can give a woman everything - and I mean everything: a house, a car, a job, kids - and she will still leave you. Women have no code of honour in the modern western world. They don’t think to themselves “I am angry at my husband for X - but he did so much for me. I’m going to have a mature conversation with him about how I feel and hopefully we can resolve this issue together as a team.” Instead they would rather play mind games, give the silent treatment, stonewall, wait years, then rip out …
/r/MensRights25/06/23 08:12 PM
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Can we stop with the whataboutism? You’re on a men’s rights sub, we’re talking about women and the dangers of committing to one in the modern western world. Go to TwoX if you want to complain about men.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 08:09 PM
5

Very predictable behaviour
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 07:59 PM
1

😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/23 02:40 PM
2

Wait, you’re seriously expecting her to be held ACCOUNTABLE? What a misogynist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/23 02:39 PM
1

Yas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/23 02:19 PM
3

😭
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/23 02:14 PM
1

What happened?
/r/MensRights25/06/23 01:47 PM
2

That’s literally what women want in a relationship wtf are you even talking about I thought women preferred dominant men as they claim
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:25 PM
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Why do you say kid or kiddo it’s so cringe lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:58 AM
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You’re so edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:48 AM
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Don’t act smart. No one needs citations. This is not scientific research; look around you, it’s not hard to see. Stop acting so deep and wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:28 AM
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No, it’s true. I haven’t seen a woman not hop on the newest trend just because her friends are doing it. My “lazy analysis” is based on concrete observations. Although anecdotal, I’ve seen enough to conclude that most women are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:02 AM
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This is so well said. I used to tell an ex of mine that I like planning for the future; it drove her crazy. “Why can’t you be more iN tHe MoMeNt????” Cause that’s what men do; we plan things out, we strategize, we think ahead.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 03:42 AM
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Honestly women just always hop on the new trend, it’s as simple as that Whatever is popular they love it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:27 AM
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By her logic: if I kill a man with a knife, then I’m not guilty because the knife factory created the knife. Remember: women are MASTERS at shifting blame. They’re amazing at not taking any accountability, ever You hit her with logic and notice how she deleted her account too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:04 AM
5

The women here don’t listen; they ask questions just to sound smart. When you reply with facts and logic they get all pissy and dont really know how to defend themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:38 AM
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Yes the vast majority of women take advantage of the divorce laws, when they can. They don’t dictate the divorce laws they use them when they can. By your logic, if a woman takes a man’s house that he built, during divorce, then she isn’t exploiting the system nor the man, because he built the house. By your logic: If I kill a man with a knife, I’m not guilty because I didn’t forge that knife; the factory made it. Nice blame shifting! Women do exploit men through feminism. This is why most men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:37 AM
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Basically every single woman posting on this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:29 AM
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Lmfao Divorce laws Feminism Men r trash Gold digging
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:43 PM
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You’re basically admitting that most women are shitty people. They view men as commodities rather than human beings. Why is she with the man if she only tolerated him? She must be getting something out of it 🤔 Stop trying to act smart and witty and go find yourself a man to put you in your place, you wouldn’t be talking shit if you were chosen by someone “There are no feminists around Momoa” literally the most masculine and attractive men get divorce graped 🍇 by women nowadays. Brad Pitt couldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:50 PM
7

I wonder what your husband would say if he saw your arguments on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:41 PM
12

Leadership is literally the most common trait among masculine men; it is the definition of masculinity. The reason why most women who are single can’t find a man is because they won’t let a man lead the relationship. It’s so ironic because women claim to love dominant men; this is why you go for the taller, more attractive, more more more You are lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:21 PM
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Yes I can. If you’re working, why would I provide for her before she brought me any kids? Once she brings in kids only then will it be fair to tell her to stay at home and let me handle the money stuff But women solely focused on their careers is honestly a red flag Also most women want money for a lavish lifestyle, not for the kids. I can live off like 20k a year alone, and 50k a year with children. But women want so much more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:12 PM
13

Feminist delusion doesn’t know any bounds. They will die on this hill; and alone with cats and wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:10 PM
4

Watch them argue with you over this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:08 PM
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Very wrong use of the word intimidated here. I’m intimidated by a bear or a wolf Intimidated by a career woman? No, I can talk back and call her out on her bullshit. The reason men won’t want career women is cause they’re honestly annoyingly masculine, to the point where they won’t let you lead in the relationship and constantly want to argue with you over small shit Also is the career woman gonna be there to look after my kids? She’d rather slave away for a boss There’s not much attractive abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:05 PM
6

Huh? All I said originally is that most men feel like they are constantly disrespected by women, that’s the whole point of this post When did I say you disrespected me? Don’t get triggered please
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:51 PM
3

I do too, but you can’t get anything from it. It’s a losing battle. Trust me, you will win in the end by walking away. There is absolutely nothing to be gained from arguing with women who won’t listen. You can play the field by trying to talk to them, if they push back or shame you, just walk away. Not worth it.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:50 PM
5

What us men are trying to tell you is that, how a woman treats another woman is irrelevant from how a woman treats a man. We have completely different lived experiences based on our gender. Us men are constantly belittled and disrespected by women
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:39 PM
3

Not sure what you’re doing on this sub if you’re here to ridicule what I’m trying to say
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:36 PM
6

Most women don’t like nor respect most men
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:32 PM
4

That’s because you’re a woman
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:29 PM
11

The best thing to do is walk away.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:29 PM
1

You’re very naive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:53 PM
2

Same here
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 04:54 AM
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Racking up body counts, and expecting the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:07 AM
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They’re all married?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:04 AM
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Cause I’m in my mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:55 AM
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I don’t envy women. I know in 20 years women are the ones who will have it rough. They act like this now because they know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:37 AM
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No, it simply shows that most women are cold and calculating. This is why no guy will commit to you, by the way. From this perspective, men who don’t commit to women like you are the ones who think it through and plan the best course of action for their future because they are immune to losing their assets in divorce. As for the solution, I believe that shaming women for their high body counts will do the trick. And I’m not being sarcastic; I mean that. Humanity came a long way by valuing virgin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:55 AM
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Maybe not, but divorce r*pe initiated by women is 10000x more statistically prevalent and likely than a school shooting. In addition, one is encouraged by the media and the law; the other is obviously punished severely. Guess which is which.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:37 AM
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No, instead they do it quietly. They divorce their husbands and take all the money while he slaves away for 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:52 PM
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Because of the current state of society Also for the same reason that there’s a lot of anger against incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:30 PM
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I’m sorry for your experience, and you’re strong for fighting cancer. I know how you feel. After a certain point you just learn to let it go; these people are twisted in the head. They have no morals I noticed that men have a concept of loyalty in our “honour code” that women don’t necessarily have. They’re backstabbers and it all depends on their emotions. Talk about “nice guy.” Women fake being nice for years, hold it all in and plan a breakup for years until one day she switches up on you and…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 06:49 PM
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I’m not even married and never was but I lurk around this sub sometimes; I went through something similar with my ex gf. They’re pieces of shit, trust me. They have no integrity and no self-awareness. Just realize that when someone does this, it’s not necessarily because they hate you. It’s because they’re very insecure and don’t have it in them to act properly; the sense of urgency they have for finding security in a relationship masks their ability to act ethically. I hope this makes sense. It…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 05:59 PM
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Wtf is a trick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:25 PM
1

You sound so lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:59 AM
2

Fucking facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:57 AM
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Ok don’t get married lol If you do get married, don’t lead a man to divorce you. Be a good wife. It’s simple
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:55 AM
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They complain it’s manipulative because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:26 AM
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If he divorces she’s no longer his, why tf would he support her lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:39 PM
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Y’all want the world, for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:51 PM
5

What if she caught an STD?
/r/askMRP22/06/23 12:15 PM
1

Yikes…
/r/askMRP22/06/23 12:11 PM
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“That I know of.” Careful out there brother!
/r/MensRights22/06/23 05:03 AM
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Wtf? Why would he
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:01 AM
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The thing is it’s the women complaining that they can’t find a decent man…so who’s losing in the end? I can have kids until I die
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:01 AM
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Eventually they know and they just understand that you been ran thru, and that’s exactly why you’re probably single
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:19 AM
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You can smell the N count, let’s just put it that way. Men know from her behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:14 AM
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Lmao so basically get run through? Okay go for it, have fun finding someone to commit to after that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:05 AM
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Well, seems like you truly are the exception. Good to know you’re still together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:18 AM
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I hate to make this assumption, but he’s either extremely popular, extremely rich, or extremely good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:10 AM
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Jesus Christ you even used the word attacking. Well, what if I put “I feel that” before it? I am sharing how I feel. And now I’m getting “attacked” for that. I hope other men are seeing this, and learn from my mistake and not open up Lmao. EDIT: I said so many other things; why are you so dead focused on the one thing I said about her breaking up with him? The issue at hand is about women never wanting to listen to men’s issues, or if they do, they get distant…you’re literally derailing the conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:43 AM
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Me learn from this? I’m a man, and I opened up about my feelings in this thread. And what was your response? Exactly what I and other men expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:37 AM
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My ex gf told me the same thing as you. When I told her how I truly feel about certain aspects of our relationship, she would push back aggressively and become distant (less loving; answers messages less often; stops talking to me about deep topics) or disrespectful to me. The guys responding to you have most likely experienced the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:33 AM
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There’s a reason so many men feel that way. It’s absurd how they don’t even ask why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:30 AM
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We must speak in generalities, since we’re on the purple pill debate sub. It’s a debate about men and women, in general. Why don’t men share their emotions? For reasons that women do not care about. Now go ask your boyfriend, he will tell you the same thing as me. If he chooses to open up. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:29 AM
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Instead of asserting what you want, why don’t you ask me or any of the men on this sub or the ones that answered you, why we feel that way? Why don’t you take curiosity in our matter? We feel a type of way, and you’re literally invalidating what we’re trying to tell you upfront This whole conversation literally proves my point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:22 AM
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That is facts. These women come on here and invalidate our own experience thinking they are some exception to the general rule. Are there exceptions? Probably. But they’re exceptions; very rare. Men have experiences and women need to stop telling men how to behave; instead they should ask questions. Ask why we feel that way. Try to see our perspective. Then we will make progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:21 AM
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There’s a reason men don’t share their emotions. It’s because their experiences have been that women reject them when they do. Every woman I’ve been with thought she was special in this regard; but when I shared my true feelings they all, in some way, became distant and men can feel that. Please believe men when they tell you these things. Every single guy responded to you explaining that it simply doesn’t work. You are probably not the exception to that rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:15 AM
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If he shared those with you, you’d break up with him. Women simply cannot understand, nor deal with the depth of feelings that men deal with. I’ve found that women respond better when you don’t share your feelings with them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:12 AM
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Have you ever dated a guy younger than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:12 PM
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So you’re admitting you have unrealistic standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:37 PM
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A man’s looks is not what makes him attractive…that’s why. Women and men find different things attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:01 PM
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They truly are NPCs. Clones
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/23 11:12 AM
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Same for Canada sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:26 AM
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This facts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:08 AM
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Why are you on this sub
/r/MensRights20/06/23 05:51 AM
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25M and same. Women simply cannot handle male emotions.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 05:48 AM
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What sub??
/r/MensRights20/06/23 05:45 AM
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What I find contradicting is that most women claim to love dominant men. Then they try and fight the patriarchy and male dominance. The most outspoken feminists I’ve dated were the most submissive in bed.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 05:44 AM
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Funny you say this cause a lot of women I talk to about feminism tell me that it’s about “choice”. It’s really not, it’s about hating men and trying to make women dominate in every aspect of life. It’s definitely not about choice because if it were, then feminists wouldn’t have any issues with housewives who really wanted to take on that role.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 12:03 AM
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That is so not true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:23 PM
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sexual compatibility is a bullshit concept. Just say “she’s not attracted to him”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:43 PM
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People in this sub are still marrying? Even with the BS divorce laws, the 70%+ of divorces being initiated by women, and the 50% divorce rate? I miss the red pill man, this sub changed.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 12:29 PM
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Best way to describe my ex too.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 05:12 AM
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When they used to say “enjoy the decline” in this sub back in the 2015 era, they really meant it.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 03:41 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:20 AM
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💫
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 11:13 PM
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Most women I know are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:11 PM
1

Totally reasonable answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:09 PM
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What the hell does it matter how she feels about virgin women? She’s straight why would I care, and why would she?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:52 PM
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The double standard is judging one gender on a metric and not judging the other gender on that same metric. Again: it’s hypocrisy. Stop your mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:49 PM
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That is literally the definition of a double standard, are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:46 PM
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The double standard is that women don't like virgin men, and those same women complain that men judge women on body count. This girl on the date told me her body count and I said that's quite high. She got pissed that I was judging, and I told her "don't you judge men on their body counts too?" It's hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:43 PM
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But they never admit that shit. Idk if they’re too dumb to know themselves, or if they just play dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:22 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:19 PM
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If you think that’s not micro cheating, then our conversation ends here. Our values our clearly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:14 PM
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Women engage in far more micro cheating. Example: posting slutty IG photos; talking about sex details of her partner with their friends; fr flirty behaviour with strange men; no one bats an eye
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:04 PM
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Don’t act dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:49 PM
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Funny you say this because literally last week I went on a date with a girl who said to my face “I don’t date virgin guys.” I told her “you’re in luck cause my body count has been higher than all my exes.” Her response? “That’s hot” …I swear you women are masters at the double standards thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:26 PM
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Yep, seen that happen too. Women have no idea how to pick men. They choose the guy that is emotionally unavailable, or treats her like shit, or abuses her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:24 PM
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For 2: Then they cheat on them or go out to the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:57 PM
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It’s a defence mechanism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/23 04:36 PM
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Idk how we started accepting this behaviour. When did things change? It’s disgusting
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 01:37 PM
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Where’s the Andrew Tate HARAM sound effect Nah fr tho I’m Muslim and 25 yr old, and I haven’t been able to convince my parents that marrying a muslim girl will not make me immune to western women’s bullshit. In fact muslim girls are better at hiding it
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 05:52 AM
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Lmfaooo, if the husband knew he would fucking flip.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 05:43 AM
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Her family members possibly supported that shit. Be careful.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 02:48 AM
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Need pics for science research
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 02:45 AM
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Been thinking of starting myself. Any advice? I'm build but not huge.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 02:42 AM
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You don't know how good it was to see my fat ex 8 years after she cheated on me. Or I guess now you do. It feels good.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 02:39 AM
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It pays more to find a man who doesn't have that kind of vision Yeah, good luck with that. You'll find him alright, but it won't be what you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 01:34 AM
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Bro it's fucked. These women are crazyyyy.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 01:32 AM
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Can you recommend specific skincare routine? Here's mine: CeraVe cleanser + CeraVe moisturizer + SPF 50. That's really all I do. Anything else?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 01:09 AM
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Girls with high N counts are fucking crazy I think it was Jon Zherka who said it best: men are on steroids of testosterone, we're fucking horny, yet women almost closed the gap on cheating!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 01:00 AM
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Funny how that got you downvoted. It’s sad. But I agree with you. And most women I know feel best in their feminine energy; it’s when they get traumatized that they start to close down and they act like the men that they’ve always wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:14 PM
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Thanks for the honest response. People don’t seem to understand that I’m not here to control anyone. I’m here to vet a woman properly so that I can have a family that will last forever, with strong and healthy kids that will be raised properly. This usually means not putting them in daycare but having mom raise them, and also a strong father presence when he’s not providing (at work). These traditional values get shit on so much and people wonder why everyone is always single. My delivery may be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:54 PM
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What I am trying to say is this: I want my wife’s full attention to be on my kids. Social media is a distraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:23 PM
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I simp for women if they reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:35 PM
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No cutoff. It’s case by case. Usually when a woman has too many followers, there’s something else going on. Why is she so focused on her social media? People need to use their analytical brains more. Nature gave it to us for a reason. Critical thinking and risk analysis is extremely important for our future, especially in the realm of marriage and relationships. The person you pick to marry is the most important decision you’ll make. He/she can make you or break you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:14 PM
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Why are you on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:12 PM
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This is why you’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:00 PM
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I know, so be it. Some women I’ve been with like it; others not so much. But these are my values
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:59 PM
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You go girl!
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 06:51 PM
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Well, I go case by case and that seems fine. The pig sounds fun. If you have like 600 followers then that would kinda raise my eyebrows.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:06 PM
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I don’t think you’d get into a relationship with me to start with lmao. Let’s accept that our values are different and call it a day. I don’t abuse, relax. I say what I want and if you don’t want it you can leave. Stop pushing your feminist bullshit. As mentioned in another comment, my values come to me from my amazing mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:04 PM
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✨Deep ocean full of secrets✨
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 06:00 PM
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Lmfaoo
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 06:00 PM
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Nice shaming language, keep escalating it. Everything is abusive now isn’t it? It’s sad you use that term, it takes away from the people who get true abuse. I never abuse; I lay out my boundaries upfront. If you don’t want to be with me, that is your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:57 PM
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LikedIn is fine lol, I need it too but I wanted to make the point that my ex willingly didn’t have socials.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:54 PM
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That’s fine, but my question is why do you need that? What do you get out of it? In the end, when you dig deep, it’s about attention. I have an IG but I deactivate it during relationships cause it’s distracting. So I want someone who shares my values ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:53 PM
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Did you dance with other men? Did you get drunk with them? Did you share bikini pics on your IG? Maybe your bf is okay with all these things, but I personally would not be. When I really, really care for a girl, I get a visceral reaction to her doing stuff like that. I don’t think it’s unhealthy to expect this, cause my mom and dad are still together after 35 years of marriage and they share my values.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:52 PM
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Yes. I’ve had 3, and I’m 25. First one lasted a year, second one a year and a half, third one 6 months. They were all good people but ultimately we broke up in fact because I am conservative and they were very liberal with the men they had around them. My last ex was friends with her ex. She was amazing, but I couldn’t accept this and I broke up with her. Ironically we are on good terms but I could not date her again. She was the closest thing to marriage material I’ve had, tho EDIT: and she did…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:47 PM
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I am. Some women I’ve been with appreciate that I guard them from their own bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:44 PM
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I understand, but I wouldn’t accept a girl travelling without me being with her either, let alone post these pics on her IG. I’m willing to bet every girl has men in her followers that want to sleep with her. Basically, I want all options to other men to be cut off. She should be focused on the relationship and nobody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:43 PM
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Instagram is basically a dating app nowadays. It’s not hard for a girl to get attention on social media. If I want it take a girl seriously and look forward to marriage with her, she must focus on the relationship and not on the attention that she’s getting on social media. When we have kids, I would never want her to open Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:39 PM
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Interesting perspective and I agree. I’ve seen this happen and the women are usually very controlling and want the guy to be a simp for her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:38 PM
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Social media
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:33 PM
2

They are NPCs I swear
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/23 02:15 PM
1

Holy shit I’m so sorry brother.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 12:44 PM
2

Holy fuck bro does it get this bad
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 04:51 AM
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True, people lie and deceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:57 AM
5

You’re the exception rather than the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:54 AM
1

OP here, Ima save that comment.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 04:55 AM
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You do realize that men have higher libido due to testosterone, and it’s a primal urge that’s stronger for us? It’s like women and periods, you can’t control most women getting emotional when they get their periods. Every single ex I’ve had is like this; are all women like this? No but this is the reality for most; same for men and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:00 AM
3

What are the signs of crazy?
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 12:15 PM
3

Just the usual.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 05:44 PM
2

Crazy how women actually respond positively to these things. What the fuck man.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:33 PM
2

Facts
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 05:35 PM
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How are we not trying to change these laws as a society??? This is criminal, these people are abusing the system
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 09:40 PM
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How are we seeing the same story over and over again? This is so fucked up
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 07:06 PM
2

What the fuck bro. My mom is above any of these girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:26 PM
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Rotund 😭
/r/MensRights07/06/23 05:07 PM
19

I am convinced that the system does not reward good men on purpose.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 12:44 AM
1

Why do they change like that? They become dangerous after a breakup
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/23 04:20 PM
1

Wtf are you talking about lmao
/r/MensRights06/06/23 11:54 AM
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What makes you say he hates women?
/r/MensRights06/06/23 01:20 AM
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Oh haven’t you heard? You’re a man, you’re not supposed to have an opinion.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 06:30 PM
2

I actually don’t think she’s trolling. Seems like a real single lady looking for love. She deleted her blowjob posts after I called her out lmfao
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 05:56 PM
9

First step is to stop posting on /r/nashvilleblowjobs offering head to random guys. Second step is find a good man who works hard and never leave him.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 04:05 PM
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That guy is fucked.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 07:13 PM
10

If they really wanted to help they’d post on female subs tbh
/r/MensRights04/06/23 05:57 PM
3

Lol wtf she’s a mess
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 04:08 PM
3

Had to save your comment. Good one bro
/r/MensRights03/06/23 01:04 PM
5

Shaming tactic
/r/MensRights03/06/23 01:01 PM
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Clones
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 08:36 PM
6

Who’s paying that much for dating apps???? Wtffff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:24 PM
6

Women are NPCs nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:22 PM
2

Lmfaoo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/23 03:50 PM
1

This comment needs to be a whole post on its own
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 12:28 PM
2

Same situation as you brother.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 01:33 AM
19

Why these hoes always think they can do better
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 06:25 PM
3

The calling of the streets is too strong.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 06:24 PM
23

Simply put: cause men want pussy and will do anything to get it
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:16 PM
3

I don’t understand how tf this scenario is so common. Holy shit.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 03:44 PM
11

The same old story. Idk how many times we have to see this shit. I have no advice, but hang in there bro
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/23 07:20 PM
52

This is the real answer. Society treats men as disposable but in fact they are very needed. Society would collapse without them
/r/MensRights29/05/23 04:56 PM
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Hit ‘em with the “women can’t get raped if they’re wet” (I don’t actually believe this, it’s just to show how absurd the statement is)
/r/MensRights28/05/23 01:32 AM
2

Comments like this are the reason I love this sub
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/23 01:21 PM
3

Islam figured it all out 1500 years ago. There’s a reason muslims do things like this: they understand women’s nature
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/23 01:01 PM
2

People like that are extremely unhappy with their lives and themselves. Simple as that.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 05:17 AM
1

Yes but why is that guy being racist too?
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 03:41 AM
-1

Sorry, I must call you out on that one. There’s no need to stoop down to his level
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 12:20 AM
2

What exactly did you do?
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 09:07 PM
3

I mean, you’re not wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 04:17 PM
2

If you’re a girl and you don’t do this, my experience has been you’re the exception to the rule
/r/MensRights24/05/23 08:13 AM
1

Elaborate?
/r/MensRights23/05/23 09:51 PM
7

Same story here, except it was an ex gf not wife. Thank god we didn’t get married
/r/MensRights23/05/23 03:52 PM
18

It’s also very telling about the types of men these girls go for
/r/MensRights23/05/23 11:36 AM
6

Well said
/r/MensRights23/05/23 02:59 AM
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The stories in this post’s comment section are disgusting. Women literally became what they hate in men. Absolutely vile. And feminists have the audacity to claim that they’re oppressed. They stooped to the level of the low quality men that they hate so much, and now they all emulate them; as if these guys represent all men. Now the majority of western women are like the minority of bad men. The west is degenerate and its women are nothing but children
/r/MensRights23/05/23 02:22 AM
37

What the actual fuck
/r/MensRights23/05/23 02:19 AM
34

Women became the exact thing they hate in men.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 02:16 AM
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Funny thing is, no male group I've been in talked about women like this. Generally we keep the conversations about women very civil and surface-level.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 08:42 PM
24

How old are these kids?
/r/MensRights22/05/23 08:32 PM
3

I’m so sorry she did that to you. Well done though, you seem to have handled it well. Question: what red flags did you notice, if any? How did you know she was cheating and could you have seen it coming in hindsight?
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 03:00 AM
2

Why don’t men create groups for “are we dating the same woman”?
/r/MensRights20/05/23 03:13 PM
5

Islam is one of the only religions that actually understands the nature of women. That’s why Islam restricts women so much.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 02:31 PM
0

Women are delusional. Batshit crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 05:40 AM
10

Your last paragraph is very true
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 01:36 AM
1

Don't mean to pry but did she cheat on you?
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/23 01:36 AM
4

This comment needs to be way up there. Man, what the fuck, I'm so sorry.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 10:41 PM
9

It's always other unhappy, jealous women lmao. Crab bucket mentality
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 08:36 PM
1

This is so true...
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 05:36 AM
6

25 here. I ain't getting married.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 07:44 PM
7

This you? So I left my husband back in January, I'm having second thoughts. At first I was sure I was over the marriage and we couldn't work on it but now months later I'm having second thoughts.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 08:04 PM
8

Honestly no, she just sounds like a terrible human being.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 10:04 PM
1

It doesn’t make sense. Why do women do this?
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/23 03:32 AM
2

I’m so sorry. I’m about half your age and I can’t believe women still do that at your age. I’ve definitely learned to look for these red flags. Women with no communication skills and the inability to properly voice their concerns when problems arise and bottle everything up, that’s a huge issue for me now
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 09:14 PM
1

Bro same!! I thought we had agreed on stuff and in the end she just switched up on me??? It was so strange she had a mask on. Fucking chameleons
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 09:05 PM
1

My ex kept a journal like that too. They just don’t know how to communicate it’s insane.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 08:51 PM
1

How do you define an abusive relationship?
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:20 PM
7

I am a lot more careful now, that's for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 04:16 AM
1

That’s literally what happens when a woman divorces a man and he pays alimony and child support lmao, why is it so outrageous when it happens to the woman?
/r/MensRights18/04/23 03:29 PM
2

I mean you're not wrong. He fucked around with the wrong person and found out. But the level of revenge was way out of proportion for what he did.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 11:57 PM
7

It’s always the roommate.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 10:53 PM
25

How tf did he deserve that??
/r/MensRights17/04/23 10:50 PM
3

That does give me perspective.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 05:25 PM
15

Or leeching off for money
/r/MensRights17/04/23 04:33 PM
0

I explained why I posted here in my first paragraph
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 04:00 PM
2

I didn’t mention in my post but before I blew up I was very calm. I told her I’m very disappointed in this, very calmly. She became extremely dismissive and kept saying things like “well you can think what you want”. I started to get frustrated because she was not listening to me and she was trying to save face rather than apologize. So I got angry. Funny thing is, only then did she start apologizing. But you are right. I should have stayed calm all the way
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 12:02 PM
13

I bet if I went and posted the same thing as OP on /r/divorce_women but in reverse, then the girls there will rip the man to shreds in the comments.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 05:32 AM
-4

Why is it laughed at? It works. That’s all that matters. You’re also deflecting attention from the fact that your advice is simply bad.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 07:04 PM
3

What Yozora is suggesting is in fact the only thing that has ever worked for me. I tried being understanding, more emotionally available, being open. The women usually start to neglect me at this point. When I stop caring and start putting work into myself, only then does the woman start to act as if she cares and put effort into the relationship. I don't understand how you could give such bad advice. Yozora's advice is popular now because men are realizing that it's the only thing that works.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 06:44 PM
22

I noticed when a woman has an issue, the common response is that the man is toxic and she should leave. If a man has the same issue with his female partner, they ask for some understanding and patience. It's very toxic
/r/MensRights16/04/23 06:41 PM
2

I can’t emphasize how true this comment is.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 05:44 PM
1

I’m not Christian but can you explain this one?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/23 07:18 PM
2

The system seems to be designed that way. I'm young enough to not get fucked over by the system, hopefully. I don't think I want to marry. I don't focus on women anymore, I just do my thing in life
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 07:58 AM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 07:34 AM
1

Question about initiation of divorce: is there any known research about the reason behind women initiating most divorces? What’s that all about? It’s weird since they’re the ones who push for marriage most of the time
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 03:23 AM
0

Thanks for this, it’s a good point. What qualifies as a whore? My ex was close with her family and she was quite promiscuous before me
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 09:50 PM
2

I think it’s best if I don’t get married, after looking at this sub
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 09:48 PM
3

Fuckin sancho. In all seriousness, this comments section scares me lol
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 09:43 PM
3

How is this generalizing? I’m asking a question about statistics. The guy in his other comment literally said men do most of the cheating why did you reply to my comment and not his? I should perhaps reword my question to “don’t women do most of the cheating?”
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 08:37 PM
2

That last paragraph hit hard. It’s so true. Thank you sir 🫡
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 08:33 PM
1

I appreciate your comment very much, as well as the other ones you've made on this post. I've read them multiple times and I will save them and return to them when needed.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 07:23 PM
2

My apologies, I didn't mean to pry. I appreciate you taking time out of your day to answer me.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 06:49 PM
1

Thanks for this!
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 06:49 PM
1

Can you guide me to resources to read about prenups and cohab agreements?I'm curious to know more.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 05:56 PM
2

We're screwed lmao.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 05:55 PM
3

Very informative. I will keep all this in mind. Thanks!
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 05:54 PM
1

even a woman that is career focused in her 20s isn't really the type to settle down or even want a relationship more than FWB level It's true, my ex and I started as FWBs lmao. They also have much better knowledge of what they like and don't like when it comes to their relationships and especially sex. I've always found high body counts turn me off. I don't think that'll change when I'm in my 30s, when most women racked up insane experience and body counts...
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 05:50 PM
3

I hang in this subreddit because we have had fights. We’ve thrown around the D-word and I’ve agreed. What are the fights about? Famous authors like Richard Cooper or Rollo say when your gf or wife starts nagging you or starts acting out of character it's because she's starting to look for the next best man. Do you sense this from her at all? is a strong no-BS feminist. Isn't that a red flag? At least the modern feminist type. That's what I hear from hanging in this sub so often.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 05:48 PM
1

Aren't SAHM more likely to fuck you over in divorce, though?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 04:49 PM
3

I thought I was the crazy one!! I told her if we want to be serious you need to cut that shit out. She stopped for a bit and then we broke up cause she felt forced and she didn’t like herself in the relationship. I’ll just vet better next time.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 04:16 PM
1

I actually read NMMNG and it was a good read. Finding the middle ground is tough though! Haven’t found many women that don’t hate men in some way.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 04:03 PM
4

This comment scares me a bit. I’ve actually watched many videos from Rollo and Rich Cooper and I tell myself, goodness, these women cannot all be like this??
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 04:00 PM
4

Thank you for your advice
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 03:59 PM
2

Medical field is understandable lol. But what about lawyers and teachers? What’s the matter with those?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 03:58 PM
2

Well she was nice most times. And quite feminine. She just like clubbing and partying too much. And doing trips to places with her single female friends
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 03:49 PM
3

Don’t most women do the cheating??
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 03:43 PM
1

I kinda needed to hear that lol. My recent breakup kinda damaged me, and I’m turning more and more cynical. None of my relationships lasted over a year sadly. So I’m starting to rethink my strategies and my relationship with the opposite sex.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 03:41 PM
4

Your comment is very interesting, I read it multiple times. Out of curiosity, what do you do now? Does your wife still work at the hedge fund? May I ask why you hang in this subreddit? What issues do you two have? Finally, you say that she doesn’t seek male attention outside the marriage; I’m just wondering how you are so confident with that? Does she have an Instagram, does she go clubbing with her friends, does she have male friends etc. Sorry for the barrage of questions. I’m a 25 year old tr…
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 03:37 PM
3

If I go with a SAHM you mean, right?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 12:05 PM
1

I do want children. The children thing is an interesting way of vetting.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 12:05 PM
4

Got it. I guess what I’m also trying to avoid is getting cheated on again. Id rather get cheated on than have to pay alimony or child support for the rest of my life, though.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 12:04 PM
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Sorry about your wife, she sounds scary. Yeah one of my exes had low a stress career a and she was honestly not that bad, she was a good communicator and didn’t always want male attention. The most recent one on the other hand was all over the damn place. She was so stressed all the time and always “go go go”. She was a mess. She got pissed at me when I offered to help her take her bike down from her apartment because she’s “independent and can do it herself”. One day she liked to be absolutely …
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 11:41 AM
1

Sorry I rectified my post, which ones are better to date?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 11:29 AM
1

Question from an unmarried guy: aren’t career women more likely to cheat? I’m in my mid 20s and dated a girl who had her shit together and a great career; but she was unhinged when it came to getting attention from other men. She went out to clubs, bars etc. and flirted with other men openly. Though she was stable financially, she was a mess when it came to her love and sex life. What do you think?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 11:09 AM
1

Fuck I will never get married in my life.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 03:12 AM
2

Not sure, I never took it down. The mods did.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 04:37 AM
1

This is why we oppose feminists
/r/MensRights03/04/23 11:06 PM
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I'm re-writing it, not re-posting it. I wrote my version of it, the only thing that's similar is the title. And I think OP was the one who took it down probably cause he was getting harassed by feminists.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 04:00 PM
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Watch the sub get brigaded. They never address the valid points I make, they just argue beside the point and shame you for having standards and expectations.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 03:43 PM
2

Why don’t you go to lesbian clubs then? Why don’t you dance at home? Book a venue with your girlfriends? Women get pissed when we cut off their options to other men, it’s laughable how little self awareness you have
/r/MensRights03/04/23 03:16 PM
1

Why do you want a man who’s taller than you, more educated than you, stronger than you etc
/r/MensRights03/04/23 03:14 PM
2

The sub got brigaded by feminists then they say we’re the ones silencing them LOL
/r/MensRights03/04/23 03:14 PM
1

I mean go have fun but don’t expect to get married anytime soon
/r/MensRights03/04/23 01:56 PM
1

You’re less likely to cheat at the grocery store than at the club where attractive men are hitting on you and you’re dressed like a hoe. Stop arguing for the sake of arguing, you seem to have no empathy or capability for reasoning. Don’t be argumentative and difficult, use your critical thinking a bit
/r/MensRights03/04/23 01:49 PM
2

Then why don’t you to a lesbian club? Why don’t you dance at home?
/r/MensRights03/04/23 04:42 AM
2

Men don't need to go to the club to seek sexual attention from women. They can click on any porn link and lust after other women or like/follow some woman on Instagram. They can go outside and check out other women. Are you deluded? Men don't get any sexual attention from that. Also I don't watch porn or follow women on IG, I don't have an IG. So for this reason it is fair for me to expect my woman to also abstain from behaving like this. Fact is many men on this thread behave the same way they …
/r/MensRights03/04/23 04:15 AM
0

This is a disingenuous comparison. As these are about qualities not having 'boundaries' about what the man can say, do, and wear.🧐 Why do you want a guy who's better than you in every way? Because you want security and provisioning. This makes you insecure by definition. Also, behavior is something women can change; height, strength and physical prowess is not something a man can do much about other than going to the gym. Plenty call women insecure for not wanting a man who lusts after other wom…
/r/MensRights03/04/23 04:12 AM
2

You are going insane. I'm telling you from now, a guy you would deem as high quality will not accept you going to clubs and bars and dancing with your girlfriends. Women want traditional men without being traditional themselves Go ask your dad now what he would say if your mom went clubbing
/r/MensRights03/04/23 03:40 AM
1

You’d be okay with the following? I go to the club in my hottest outfit, well groomed and looking really sexy to the opposite sex, while women touch me and flirt with me and offer to buy me drinks and to fuck me, talk about me to their friends, hit on me in every way just to get a chance to have sex with me. And I’m there acting like I don’t like the attention If you wouldn’t feel a bit insecure about that then you are simply not that into me lmfao
/r/MensRights03/04/23 03:27 AM
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Can someone in this sub confirm what this person is saying?
/r/MensRights03/04/23 02:09 AM
2

my idea of a good time is a book and snacks, and going to good restaurants with my hubs, and friends Then why are you fighting me on this? You don't even go to clubs so I don't understand why you're so argumentative
/r/MensRights03/04/23 01:19 AM
2

I don’t go to the club lmfao…women think we act like them, we go clubbing on weekends, drink, party…we don’t do any of that, idk what sorts of guys you hang around It’s a fair trade, if my woman feels insecure about me being in a strip club around attractive women cause she doesn’t want me to compare her, then I won’t go. Simple as that. I wouldn’t want my woman to feel insecure or uncomfortable The relationship comes first. I don’t want a woman who’s more loyal to her partying and drinking than…
/r/MensRights03/04/23 01:02 AM
0

You completely missed the point it seems
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:53 AM
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I have had girlfriends and casual hookups but I’m not here to defend myself, I am simply explaining to you how most men think. If youre a man and you don’t think like that, that’s fine
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:51 AM
0

Yes. I don’t do nights out with guys. I expect my gf to be the same.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:44 AM
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You can dress up and feel pretty but why don’t you do that at home? I think it’s a bit disingenuous to expect men to think you’re not looking for attention when you only dress like that at the club
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:42 AM
1

Let’s see how long your relationship will last lol
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:35 AM
-2

Most don’t have control. Women’s emotions change with the wind. I’ve seen it with my own eyes.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:22 AM
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Going to a dance studio with no men is fine I don’t think women understand the point: we don’t want our women hanging in places where they could cheat with another man
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:16 AM
2

I couldn't have said this better.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 07:28 PM
0

Respect for that
/r/MensRights02/04/23 07:24 PM
0

If you are with a man and you want to make him happy, ask him to be honest about his boundaries. And be open to hearing some uncomfortable truths, like telling you he doesn't want you to dress in a certain way, or go to certain places. It depends on the man, but the point here is that you have to hear him out and not call him insecure or controlling for having boundaries. No one calls women insecure for wanting men who are taller, stronger, and more educated than them.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 07:00 PM
1

Dinner and spa is fine, but we're talking about going out to the club/concerts dressed like a hoe. Just don't act single
/r/MensRights02/04/23 06:55 PM
-1

I think you're in the wrong sub
/r/MensRights02/04/23 06:24 PM
2

Well fucking said. Wish I could show this post to my ex.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 04:29 PM
14

Stop slut shaming!!! Don’t shame her like that she did nothing wrong! /s
/r/MensRights01/04/23 04:49 PM
7

That’s just gross lol
/r/MensRights01/04/23 04:46 PM
1

Why do you say that most women don’t like you?
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 03:20 PM
2

Absolutely insane, it’s like they have no ability to see things from another person’s frame of reference
/r/MensRights30/03/23 02:14 PM
2

Why are there women in this thread telling men that she did nothing wrong? The fucking audacity wow
/r/MensRights30/03/23 01:23 PM
2

Don’t argue with him, he’s too “woke”
/r/MensRights30/03/23 01:16 PM
2

Are we the same person? My ex’s roommate was also a bitch to me after our breakup
/r/MensRights30/03/23 03:46 AM
5

Any idea why medical staff are like this? Matter of fact my ex was a nurse and turned out she had dating apps during our relationship I ignored the stereotype and I fell victim lol, why do they do this?
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 03:37 AM
3

Explain?? I want to know more haha
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 03:27 AM
2

Very interesting theory.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 11:02 PM
3

Can you elaborate
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 08:54 PM
8

Yep, haha you know exactly what I’m talking about. We can all relate. These things are unspoken, we’ve been shamed into thinking we’re controlling and insecure, and we never speak up. I’m much more vocal about the things I want from a woman in a relationship, and I don’t hesitate to walk away from a situation where a woman doesn’t satisfy my needs. If that means being alone, then so be it. This also includes male friends, aka a recipe for disaster. We all know how that ends.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 08:46 PM
0

I’m not even gonna bother reading this lol, this is why women get dumped they just don’t listen to what men desire and just wanna nag Get off the men’s right sub
/r/MensRights29/03/23 08:02 PM
0

You’re a woman aren’t you? I can tell Men consider this disloyal, and you’re in a men’s right subreddit, don’t bring your own desires here
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:22 PM
1

Bro trust has been broken already if she did a lap dance, wtf are you even saying
/r/MensRights29/03/23 12:35 PM
2

Clown world
/r/MensRights29/03/23 12:23 PM
1

You’re cool with your woman getting a lap dance from another man?
/r/MensRights29/03/23 12:21 PM
0

You like completely missed the point lmfao
/r/MensRights29/03/23 12:16 PM
5

Couldn’t have worded it better
/r/MensRights23/03/23 12:08 PM
2

Body count matters.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 06:24 PM
1

Lmfaooo
/r/MensRights17/03/23 05:54 PM
1

More men are waking up to the BS. Don’t worry. Tables turn
/r/MensRights17/03/23 05:51 PM
1

Yeah it doesn’t work that way. Women need to assume responsibility in relationships and in society. You can’t just discard people like that.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 02:00 PM
1

Can you explain why?
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 01:49 PM
1

How do you know which one it is?
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 05:56 PM
2

Yeah she was in her mid 20. Racked up that body count by the time she was 23 actually. I always had a bad feeling about it We started off as FWBs and then she fell hard in love, started kissing me, holding my hand etc Until I fell too Long story short she ended up admitting she had backup tinder and bumble accounts so I gave her an ultimatum and we broke up
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 04:33 PM
1

I said this in another comment but ultimately why does it matter? Sometimes I tell myself it doesn’t matter, it was in the past etc. I am hesitant to judge a woman based on that especially if she’s a decent person. Am I too harsh here?
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 04:06 PM
2

Just curious, does it really matter in the end? Sometimes I tell myself I’m being too harsh. My ex slept with like 6 or 7 guys before me and it gives me a bad feeling, it viscerally hurts me but I’m not sure if I should just get over it. Am I being unreasonable?
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 04:04 PM
1

Can you explain?
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 02:35 PM
5

Im 25 and this is a good warning for me. Still hung up on my stupid ex but at least I wasn’t tied to her through marriage or kids. So sorry brother
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 01:13 AM
2

This is the result of her environment. What are her friends like? Chances are they’re supporting her behaviour or at least enabling it
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 01:11 AM
10

Fucking hell. Sorry for what you went through. This actually sounds like hell on earth, not even exaggerating. Western society is a mess
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 01:06 AM
7

My ex was also a liar. Not about body count, but similar stuff. It sucks when you put your best foot forward and expect nothing but the same energy in return - but you just get fed lies. Sorry this happened to you
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 11:46 PM
2

When you say the roles are reversed, what do you mean? As in, if I'm rejected based on body count? I actually would not be super mad about it. Women are usually the ones who get offended by this stuff; I genuinely don't care. Also I've never been rejected based on body count. I've heard good things about Rational Male, and Rollo. I will read it
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 11:43 PM
1

What is considered a high body count? For reference I'm dating women in their early to mid 20s.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 11:42 PM
3

You sound like you're speaking from experience, have you been lied to about this before?
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 11:41 PM
1

But I don't care about her experience - I want to give her those experiences myself
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 11:36 PM
1

Wtf has the west come to 😭 this is a completely reasonable boundary, in fact she should know herself…
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:16 PM
2

Seemed to be from a good family, I knew her parents. She saw them every few weeks and had a great relationship with them. She was never raped as far as I know but someone she did had traumatic events with men
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 10:50 PM
1

Can you elaborate on the trauma from the past? Admittedly, I was a rebound from her past relationship that happened a month before we fucked and she still seemed like she wasn’t over him. She fucked two other guys while we were fucking…then she decided to commit to me
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 10:44 PM
1

This is straight and to the point lmao. Very true.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 09:28 PM
1

This is eye-opening. Sadly I knew these things from like 5 years ago but I still chose to catch oneitis. And I say it was a choice because I spotted red flags and chose not to walk away from my recent ex. What a mess. Sometimes, I just want crave female companionship. But then I remember the shit this girl did to me and I think to myself that it's not worth it. I'd rather be alone than with a hoe.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 08:42 PM
1

Wow this is sickening. I can't believe it. But I'm not shocked. Now I'm thinking that there's probably shit my ex didn't tell me about her past. I am willing to bet she did the same thing. She told me her body count, but 1) always gotta double it, and 2) those were only the guys who were inside her. She probably did way worse shit and it gives me the ick to think about it. Men have a biological need for complete loyalty, I don't think women will ever understand this and we will always be shamed …
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 08:15 PM
1

What's going on is that women figured out that things suck for them and worked hard to make things better specifically for women Why did things suck for women? Can you elaborate? I don't agree with this. in the fight for things to not suck for women, they blamed men for everything and poisoned the necessary fight for things to not suck for men. This, I agree with. your 'picker' is probably set to attract narcissists so you'll keep experiencing this over and over again until you figure out how to…
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 07:26 PM
3

Why is this so true. She loved clubbing and going to bars, I told her I'm not comfortable with it. She would try arguing with me about it and be difficult, and I told her this is a non-negotiable for me in relationships. They only come around the corner when they're over the hill and need to find someone serious to bail them out of their shitty life. One girl I spoke to told me she had a bunch of FWBs on rotation, and her recent ex "grounded" her. These girls just wanna be saved or something, it…
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 07:20 PM
1

Why does body count not matter to you? I get jealous if I think of my woman with someone else in her past
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 07:17 PM
1

Huh?
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 05:24 PM
0

Not sure why you’re being disliked, you’re right
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 04:58 PM
2

Yes, she was promiscuous. She said she kinda regrets it but she felt societal pressure to be that way. The female hive mind is real. Anyways I agree with what you said.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 04:58 PM
1

Interesting observation. I think a lot of these women just can’t be alone, they are so insecure and need someone there for them to keep them company and give them comfort.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 02:52 PM
2

Idk about this, I'm torn. It's possible they genuinely had issues building up throughout the relationship and they all came out the moment of the breakup.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 03:31 AM
2

Holy shit bro. Why do women feel like this is okay? I wouldn’t do this to my worst enemy
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 03:12 AM
1

I’m staying away from western women too. Question for you: does body count matter?
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 01:57 AM
5

Fucking hell
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 01:03 AM
12

Your comment is a real eye-opener. Yeah I'll do my best.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 12:51 AM
9

Racks up a body count..gravity and age start winning by 30..and the rules change...fast Lol.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 12:36 AM
7

unless you’re a total chad No one is a total chad even. Everyone has a breaking point or an achilles heel. We all age, we all become weak in certain scenarios. I think the problem we are facing is that women expect us to be perfect and emotionless 100% of the time, no one is able to do that. I have no hope anymore
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 12:09 AM
1

😭
/r/MensRights24/02/23 02:00 AM
-1

No matter what shit I went through with my gf I never ever thought of another woman, and nothing will make me do that. We have to admit that cheating is in fact black and white, you either do it or you don’t, period.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 02:55 AM
1

Can you explain why?
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:26 PM
1

Facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:28 PM
2

Forget it bro I’m done arguing with these people. They just get offended
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:27 PM
1

Wtf? She had issues too, you know. Maybe things didn’t work out? You ever considered that? I swear women don’t wanna be wives they just want a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:25 PM
1

I literally lost attraction when a girl told me she had a body count of 20. I just started missing my ex lmfao, I can’t control that reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:23 PM
1

That wouldn’t be an issue. I think for me it’s more about a girl actively being a hoe, not something that happened when she was super young
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:38 AM
2

No one will admit this. Look how pissed these girls are in this post. If they didn’t care they wouldn’t be replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:51 AM
1

Putting the blame on men as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:24 PM
2

Fun to fuck, not fun to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:22 PM
0

Can’t disagree there my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:43 PM
-4

OP here, yes. Obviously I don’t hold these opinions blindly. They come from experience and traumas. Women with low N counts have never put me through shit like women with high N counts. My ex who had an N count of 1 was the sweetest, most lovable woman. The one after that who had a higher N count was BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:22 PM
1

Why do you like guys who are taller/bigger than you? Because you want to feel feminine. Same reason men don’t like a high N count woman. They want to feel masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:37 PM
-3

You’re putting words into my mouth. With all due respect I’ve given orgasms to all girls I’ve been with and they all had more experience than me, but if just wasn’t as enjoyable as it would have been if it was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:30 PM
6

Absolutely. But if you’re a woman, do you care about a man’s past?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:02 AM
-1

Why doesn’t the woman just say to the man what she wants so that he can improve? Is she not capable of communicating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:43 AM
-1

Well you’re the exception and not the rule it seems. I respect women like you, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:40 AM
3

Your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:40 AM
0

I’m really not. Sex shouldn’t feel like a challenge. It should feel fun, vulnerable and warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:39 AM
2

Bruh we’re human, these comparisons are natural. What the hell are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:39 AM
0

I didn’t say they will dump them but go ask them how they feel. Go ask them to picture their woman getting her back blown out by her ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:38 AM
4

Why are you insulting fellow men? This is the most toxic mentality I’ve ever heard, what’s a real man to you? To me, it’s a man who’s strong, brave and courageous. It’s a man who is also vulnerable and knows himself, his weaknesses and his strengths. It’s a man who openly talks about his insecurities and beliefs without fear of being criticized. Not one who tries to be all manly and act like he doesn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:36 AM
3

Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:34 AM
-7

Comparison and lack of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:17 AM
-1

I’m telling you the reality of how men think. Take it or leave it, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:16 AM
2

You’re okay if your women starts comparing you to other guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:15 AM
2

Last statement isn’t false lol, but first one is false. I don’t mind teaching a virgin how to please me. I can discover her sexuality with her too, nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:12 AM
-1

Everything I am saying is going right above your head. You’re arguing for the sake of being argumentative. Stop being difficult and take in the things I tell you. Or stay in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:11 AM
1

I won’t get into the details of your relationship as I don’t know the behind the scenes between you and your life partner, but I truly hope you two last.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:10 AM
0

Your words not mine. I never said any of this was shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:09 AM
0

As I said, sex is an activity to enjoy with your life partner. Being bare/naked is a very vulnerable act and you should not give that away to just about anybody, or anybody that gives you attention. Sure you can go and have fun and enjoy sex as much as you want but don’t be surprised when someone comes along and they want a serious long term relationship and turns you down due to your past. It’s a visceral biological reaction that most men have, some don’t talk about it, some repress it, some tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:08 AM
1

You can refute reality and sweep it under a the rug or we can have a grown up, adult discussion about why men care about a woman’s past. If you don’t want to listen that’s fine, I’m just telling you how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:05 AM
3

Haha I will thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:04 AM
1

Well, it will matter to someone who cares enough to marry you. Are you married? Has any guy proposed to you yet? A guy who wants a life partner will care. Those who don’t, just want to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:03 AM
-3

Because masculine traits are different from feminine traits. That’s how the universe made us. We complement each other but we’re not equal. Men are good at certain things and women are good at certain things. Men are bad at certain things and same for women. Men care about traits that women don’t care about. Women care about traits that men could care less about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:51 AM
8

Because they will be shamed for it. I never ask but I know, and I can tell when a woman has a past and when she doesn’t, through her attachment style and her way of acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:49 AM
3

I don’t even care about being chad or whatever I am stating what most men think and feel about women. Ask any guy if they care about a woman’s past and most will tell you they do, it’s a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:48 AM
1

Not much actually. My own ex had an n count of 1. She has traditional values and wanted to be a housewife and only had sex in LTRs. Mine was 5 before I met her. She didn’t care and loved me, she never brought it up. In fact I felt like she loved how “experienced” I was. I know 5 isn’t much compared to the average (I was raised with conservative values) but the point is it was 5 times hers, and I did the whole casual thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:47 AM
7

That’s fine, if it’s people like you then I’d rather weed them out of my life anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:44 AM
5

There you go, most women don’t care. In fact most women prefer a man with experience. Most men care but the other way around. Women need to understand masculinity and male traits more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:44 AM
4

I can say the same about women who “prefer” to sleep around. Once again we can agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:39 AM
3

It got worse due to hookup culture I would wager.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:39 AM
5

It makes her less commitment-worthy. Women want commitment which is why they hide their past, or try to shame anyone who talks about their past
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:38 AM
3

Sex is not disgusting, it is beautiful and therefore special. It should be enjoyed by people who love each other and who plan on being with each other long term. You should not fuck everything that moves. You lose your value if you do. Simple as that Also if you’re that easy to get, then might as well just not commit to anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:36 AM
1

Women don’t as much about a man’s past it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:35 AM
9

That’s fine, I don’t really care how I’m coming across here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:35 AM
4

Do you care if a man has a sexual past? I attribute this to biological differences like hormones in men versus women. Men want certain traits, women want certain traits. We can’t treat men’s preferences like women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:33 AM
2

You can but it will lead you nowhere. Go ahead, shame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:32 AM
5

We can agree to disagree. Can’t control how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:31 AM
3

My theory is that this is due to hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:30 AM
5

I would say it’s more about their inability to commit. That comes from the age of social media, instant gratification, narcissism and always thinking you can have more and better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:09 AM
-2

Nope it’s justified. Just don’t shame people for their preferences. When did I say it was silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:08 AM
3

Can’t disagree here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:03 AM
0

I do believe that men are hypocrites yes. Because they’re creating these “hoes” through the simple act of sleeping around. But, a lot of hookup culture stems from trauma and men wanting to get detached from the first person they loved who broke their heart. That’s my theory at least
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:00 AM
1

That’s not what I said. You can get attached. But did she ever commit? Seems like no if your friends has 100+ body count. The answer is in your statement I was clear that a woman with a past like that will not make a good long term partner. She may be fun in the beginning. Also your friend’s body count doesn’t seem healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:58 AM
1

I truly believe due to biological differences like hormones, that women are biologically predisposed to care less about body count. They care more about status. Hence the first sentence in my post. Men care, they just don’t say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:55 AM
2

Wow this is so well worded. Thanks for this.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 11:03 PM
1

I hope you can see that our values are different and I am trying to avoid the types of women like you...no disrespect intended but I would rather have a woman who understands boundaries I wanted advice on how to get women who DON'T think like you so I would not date your friends either, don't worry. If you can't give me this advice then please do not comment
/r/MensRights28/10/22 10:13 PM
1

You can still formulate a response, I am still reading responses in this post. I'm all ears!
/r/MensRights28/10/22 03:42 PM
0

How is that too controlling? Some women do this on their own without any man having to tell them
/r/MensRights25/10/22 07:59 PM
3

Eh good point. I’ll figure it out…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:53 PM
3

Thank you for your comment. I appreciate the wise advice
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:37 PM
-1

This is beautiful. Thank you so much
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:26 PM
7

That’s a huge time sink! It takes a lot of effort to do this…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:21 PM
6

Of course, as I mentioned in my post I treat girls wit loyalty and commitment so I expect that level of treatment in return. I don’t entertain attention from women when I am in a relationship.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:14 PM
-1

Examples on what?
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:12 PM
1

Might as well tbh. My own mom is a hijabi
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:11 PM
2

True. Thanks for the advice
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:49 PM
4

I would communicate this with her. See what she says. Easier said than done but the older I get the more I realize that I should not settle….
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:48 PM
10

Yeah it sucks man.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:27 PM
4

Okay, will do. Thank you for this
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:25 PM
18

Yeah I don’t want to but I feel lonely sometimes. I would like to have a woman I can care for
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:20 PM
8

That’s not what I want though. I want someone serious and a life partner as I mentioned in my post. But those girls don’t seem like they want to be serious
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:17 PM
4

I mean my mom is not like this so clearly this is more of a cultural thing….women who are not “like you” do exist I just don’t know how to attract them, with all due respect I don’t want to attract women who think like you
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:12 PM
7

Yeah this is true. Thanks
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:10 PM
3

Well said. I have no objections here. Thank you
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:08 PM
26

Yeah I’m the same as you. It’s annoying now, I think I have to change my surroundings in fact. I’m not going to control someone but I’m also not going to change my own boundaries. Thanks!
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:08 PM
10

I’m not restricting anything, my original question is how do I find a woman who deliberately shows her own restraint? As I mentioned i obviously break up before I get to the point where I feel like I have to control her, I would never do that. You are putting words in my mouth and making wrong assumptions
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:06 PM
24

Lmaooo this is how things are seen nowadays. You forgot the /s 😂
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:04 PM
5

I did but she keeps trying to change my mind. I told her I want to break up and she keeps breaking down in tears
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:02 PM
9

It’s abuse to not want to see my girl entertaining another man’s attention?
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:02 PM
12

I mean, women have rarely understood my needs but I was always forced to understand and submit to their needs…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:55 PM
15

I can’t disagree with anything you said here. Thanks for your response, I will keep everything you said in mind. My dad says to me the same thing
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:54 PM
1

Yeah it seems like more religious women may suit me better here
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:51 PM
6

Very interesting perspective, thanks for your answer. Can you elaborate on why I should not look in friend groups?
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:49 PM
9

I’m from a more traditional background/culture but live in the west. My mom for example would never talk to other men out of respect for my dad, and it’s her choice, I have never seen him say something like “don’t do that” But fair enough, everyone has their own preferences, but it is a bit condescending to call it “paranoia”…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:31 PM
8

Alright, will do. Thank you
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:29 PM
6

It’s a dealbreaker to not act flirty with other guys?
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:26 PM
7

Do you talk about these things with her? Do you think I should bring these things up? Communication is important to me
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:19 PM
4

Not staying too long alone with one guy, not having super long conversations with other men, not hanging out with other men alone, not acting flirty with other guys
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:14 PM
4

Why do women do this?
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 08:03 PM
2

What’s an ugly mushroom head? I thought big penis heads were attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:26 PM
1

You used a sleeve?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:55 PM
1

You must be trolling. 6 to 9 inches? How much time did that take? I don’t even think that’s possible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:46 PM
2

Yeah I’m a bit insecure. I get told I’m big all the time and that my dick feels good, but I want to be bigger. I always wonder if it will make sex even better for the girls I’m with. I’m around 6 inches and I usually date/fuck girls who are quite small (5 feet) so to them it’s quite big but I still wonder if they’d prefer bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:45 AM
0

Could you elaborate? Just trying to understand women’s preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:23 AM
2

Would you say the size is a big factor here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:27 AM
4

Would you say that size is an important factor here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:26 AM
6

Thank you for the advice. Best wishes to you and your kids. I hope you can get out of this situation, take good care of yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/22 09:19 PM
11

I’m 24 and single and I feel the exact same as you. Holy shit, I am never getting married.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/22 07:54 PM
9

I’m 24 years old and single. This is useful, thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 08:59 PM
25

Someone has to stand up for men eventually. Women basically dominate the legal terrain when it comes to divorces. Women initiate most of these divorces. Can’t have the cake and eat it too. EDIT: and what did you expect, you’re in a men’s divorce sub; most of these men have been fucked over emotionally or financially by a woman they loved, obviously they’re gonna appreciate some sweet revenge when they see it, I think your post lacks critical thinking lol
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 06:16 PM
1

You make some good points. Thank you for taking the time to write this
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/22 03:21 AM
1

I believe you haha it’s just that I’m 25 years old and look at this sub out of curiosity and I want to know what to look for in a woman; I’m wondering if you could elaborate
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/22 06:32 PM
1

Can you explain what you mean by “they are mostly all the same”?
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/22 06:05 PM
2

Can you explain why most women are not fit for marriage?
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 03:18 PM
7

Out of curiosity, why is that?
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 11:07 PM
4

Because that’s western society for ya
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/22 09:12 PM
1

You had me at 1. That’s enough for a divorce
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 10:09 PM
1

What are the most important traits or categories to look for in a woman?
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 10:03 PM
1

There shouldn’t even be hesitation imo
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 09:56 PM
1

I’m 24, unmarried and this is so depressing to read
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 09:00 PM
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