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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1217	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR]		AnonSeddit88	/r/seduction	20/06/12 04:13 PM

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2	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] I have plenty of attractive plutonic friends that I have never slept with. I stated to somebody earlier, but I'll say it here again: It would have been fine but my actions was not acceptable to me. I was pretty much being her boyfriend emotionally and mentally but physically I was still her friend. I had put her on a pedestal where she was the center of attention for me all the time and I was giving her priority in my time schedule. If she called and said "Hey, lets go to the movies tonight" I w…	/r/seduction	21/06/12 05:18 AM
1	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] Just to point this out. I did not set out to "bang" or have sex with her. I really decided to take control of the matter for myself because I had let myself fall into a role that was defined not as a mutual benefit for both of us but was just a benefit for her.	/r/seduction	21/06/12 03:33 AM
6	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] It would have been fine but my actions was not acceptable to me. I was pretty much being her boyfriend emotionally and mentally but physically I was still her friend. I had put her on a pedestal where she was the center of attention for me all the time and I was giving her priority in my time schedule. If she called and said "Hey, lets go to the movies tonight" I would kill my work out routine early so I could take her. Don't get me wrong, I like to be there for my friends, but that is not somet…	/r/seduction	21/06/12 03:30 AM
3	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] It is much easier for her to talk to guys, but that is the thing. If she did that while we were out I would just take it that she is trying to get my attention or was not that into me. It sucks and it happens, but at that point it would be free for me to wander off and do my own thing. One thing I learned a long time ago is never let a girl know she made you jealous. If you do you might as well cut your sack off and toss it into her purse because she owns you at that point. Anytime she wants to …	/r/seduction	20/06/12 09:34 PM
3	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] Nah, I have no problem sharing it. As for it being a routine, well I don't know if it could really be classified as a routine or not so I will let everyone decide. When playing games (Pool, bowling, skeeball, etc.) I typically play one round normally to see how well they play and to see what kind of personality they are. For example, if they start to get competitive then I know I better be good at what I do or at least show that losing is actually more fun. Using pool as an example, I will usual…	/r/seduction	20/06/12 09:28 PM
2	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] I'm not sure if your are talking about the opener or remembering obscure poetry, but I would have to say most of it just comes to me naturally but like with everything there is a bit of luck to it. I have no clue what I would have done if she was holding a book on something horrible like "STDs for dummies".	/r/seduction	20/06/12 09:09 PM
3	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] Friend Zone is only a bad thing in my opinion when you set out with the intentions for other than being a friend and then get shot down to a friend level. If you honestly want to remain a friend and not reap any of the benefits, then more power to you. However, the drunk hookup part is not a friend zone issue. It is a friend with benefits issue. Friend zoning to me is doing everything a boyfriend would do without receiving any benefits outside of that of a friend. I have a very good female frien…	/r/seduction	20/06/12 07:40 PM
3	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] Well I did not hesitate. In fact I tried to kiss and escalate matters, especially after she started grinding. The problem is when you go in and get a hand block or she backs off or turns her face. The kino escalation was there and at one point during the drinks and pool (which was the second date) I had made a new game for us to play. It was pretty much like horse and allowed me to make strange and contorted shots. These shots are not your typical lean over the table shots so it required me to s…	/r/seduction	20/06/12 07:33 PM
1	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] Aye, I tried to keep it as work safe as possible for those of us that may have a flag here or there for words.	/r/seduction	20/06/12 07:20 PM
29	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] Well I referred to it because for a few short weeks I was essentially just a friend. Pretty much go with her to a museum, listen to her about school, grab a quick dinner, etc.. All of the things that I would do with a friend, but none of the benefits of having a girlfriend. The way I choose to look at it is this. I could have continued in the same path which would have killed interest in me and promoted a beta way, or I could treat her like a friend. If she really did view me as a friend and had…	/r/seduction	20/06/12 06:31 PM
26	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] Perhaps you are right. I know I always state my intention for a girl so she knows where I stand with her and where she stands with me. It sounds brutal, but it actually works and the honesty opens up so many more avenues that everything always seems like it was predestined or naturally meant to be this way. The thing is that she submitted her resume and name for a position that is suppose to open up around her final semester. She knows people that works for this company. She hasn't been offered …	/r/seduction	20/06/12 06:13 PM
6	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] HB is a term used freely around here to describe the hotness of a girl. HB (Honey Bunny / Hot Body / etc). The links on the right side (Glossary) will carry more terms that you will see around here like AFC (Average Frustrated Chump), Beta (self explanatory), etc.	/r/seduction	20/06/12 06:04 PM
23	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] Well as far as I am concerned already gave her the "boyfriend experience". After the other night she told me she wants to be more than just friends. I told reminded her that she is planning on leaving at the end of the year and that I am not looking for just a one night stand thing. I am also seeing other girls, so it isn't fair to just throw them aside because she changes her mind when the situation suits her. Honestly, I was not looking to hook up that night. We came to the conclusion that we …	/r/seduction	20/06/12 06:01 PM
164	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] Wish I could honestly say that I chose to have options. At first I didn't realize what was going on till my buddy asked me what was going on between the two of us and I told him. As the words poured out of my mouth I felt the realization wash over me like a cold shower. Nothing wakes you up faster that realizing your being played like a chump. At that point in time I kind of realized that in anything there has to be a balance. She was getting the "boyfriend" experience without putting anything i…	/r/seduction	20/06/12 05:28 PM