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Hey man, we’ve all been in the same shoes at some point. Shoot me a DM with your exact questions, and I’d be happy to help!
/r/seduction17/06/19 04:57 PM
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I’m actually quite curious, as I may be in the same boat (starting to catch feelings, which may affect my game). Would you be able to DM me the resources? Thanks!
/r/seduction17/06/19 04:55 PM
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Your advice really makes a ton of sense. As for the eye contact, do you have any tips for not under- or over-doing it?
/r/seduction08/06/19 05:17 AM
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Hmm that’s quite interesting! Unfortunately, there aren’t any good art galleries around me from what I gather :(
/r/seduction05/05/19 02:21 PM
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What do you prefer for internet dates then?
/r/seduction05/05/19 04:38 AM
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I’d be curious to see how different that number is in 2018 for people with a college education
/r/seduction18/01/19 02:59 AM
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Young savage why you trappin so hard?
/r/seduction18/09/18 11:11 AM
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Who was that other guy though?
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:24 PM
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Yeah, I’m super curious about your subtle double entendre memes as well
/r/seduction09/08/18 03:41 PM
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That’s exactly the reasoning I had and it ended up biting me in the butt. It’s honestly my biggest regret of 2018. Your situation with this girl might be different though— who knows? That being said, I would give 1 -2 full days of radio silence after you’ve had a fun text convo. I think that 5+ days of silence is too much but under that should be fine if you enjoy talking to each other and have had good dates
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:42 PM
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I struggle with this too, my guy. See my comments where I sum up my thoughts in this thread. We had our dates, but I was texting her too much and she got slower and slower in her responses until she ultimately stopped responding. We were definitely vibing over text and real life.
/r/seduction20/07/18 06:01 AM
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To add to this, there was 110% miscommunication via text with the new girl that ended up with her ghosting me because she was really confused by the totally sarcastic joke I made over text. I know because I asked her about it. Seriously, I can’t stress how spot on OPs advice is.
/r/seduction20/07/18 05:51 AM
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This is exactly how I fucked up with the last two girls I was actually into. Solid advice. Listen to this man. I actually got closure a week ago for the former of these two girls from a friend who ended up becoming really good friends with that girl. She straight up asked her, after a while, what happened. The girls response was that she was really into me for a while but the attraction dropped off cuz she thought I was way more into her than she was into me. This is definitely what happened aga…
/r/seduction20/07/18 05:49 AM
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Yup, good plan my guy
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:37 PM
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Word, this is what I was looking for
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:37 PM
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It was the girls. I honestly don’t care about a 4 year age gap. I dated a 31 year old last year and the age difference wasn’t ever brought up. Just trying to figure out how to play this if it ever comes up again in the future
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:22 PM
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Learn how to meditate
/r/seduction09/07/18 11:14 PM
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How exactly do you call the girl out on her late replies? I’ve found that the line between looking needy and being direct is a very thin one for this situation.
/r/seduction05/07/18 04:49 PM
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This is revolutionary
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:03 PM
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Lmao thanks, guy
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:02 PM
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Hahaha that’s not even a bad idea
/r/seduction30/06/18 03:55 PM
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None of my single friends that I’d want to bring out are around this weekend unfortunately
/r/seduction30/06/18 03:50 PM
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I would keep texting at a minimum. Have you texted her at all yet? If not, maybe shoot something today and then again the day before you’re meeting up.
/r/seduction18/06/18 07:15 PM
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If you don’t put her on a pedestal, she will kick you in the dick. What’s your point here OP?
/r/seduction20/02/18 02:42 AM
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Take this shit back to r/redpill
/r/seduction01/12/17 09:27 PM
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You’re 17; don’t worry about this shit.
/r/seduction25/11/17 10:43 PM
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This sounds exactly like this one girl I knew. One very important piece of advice I can give you (if this girl is indeed like the one I’m talking about), don’t drop the romance/being sexual. Maybe tone down being secual just a bit, but you must keep pushing bounderies. That’s my one regret of assuming this girl didn’t want to be sexual just because she was “shy”. I think that’s a perception us guys have been socially conditioned to believe. All this being said, with these type of girls, you shou…
/r/seduction25/11/17 10:36 PM
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If she’s into a certain type of alcohol, ask her if she wants to swing by and try a fancy beer or absinthe or something... that’s always worked for me if I didn’t want to be completely direct.
/r/seduction25/11/17 10:17 PM
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Thanks for the tip! Unfortunately, we can't bar hop since she doesn't drink
/r/seduction18/11/17 10:32 PM
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I haven’t gotten the time to watch the video yet— May I ask what’s wrong with it?
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:40 PM
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Oh no rip in peace
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:48 AM
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Yooo I'm def interested in this
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:01 AM
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Haha no. Definitely not before we've made out
/r/seduction13/09/17 02:50 PM
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"Hey, let's go back to my place and listen to a movie 😏"
/r/seduction12/09/17 09:32 PM
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Definitely.
/r/seduction12/09/17 09:30 PM
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I think their attitude is along the lines of "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take"
/r/seduction07/08/17 04:41 PM
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Not sure what you mean by "play on girls nature to follow and avoid rejecting directly" but these dudes are generally more direct and don't treat a girl's rejection as a rejection of them as human beings.
/r/seduction07/08/17 04:39 PM
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I'm like 5'9.5" (5'10" on a good day) so I can empathize with what you're talking about since I'm just slightly below average, but I've seen straight up UGLY dudes that are around 5'6" getting it all the time. And before you ask, no, they're not rich either. This leads me to believe there is definitely hope for everybody, as long as you continue to work on yourself
/r/seduction07/08/17 03:50 PM
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Dude, that actually sounds exactly like a situation I faced almost exactly two years ago. This girl was pretty much a 10 the likes I haven't seen before and had the same weird interests and quirks as me. Almost every guy had a crush on her. I will be honest with you and tell you that every now and then, I still think about her and what could've been. But this happens at more and more rarely now. I could've most likely done some things differently and maybe we'd still be together. Who knows? Or m…
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:25 AM
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It seems like you need to get better at reading such girls. If they're flaking and stringing you along, count that as a straightforward "no" on their end and treat it as such. When you do that, do NOT feel bummed about it. Just repeat to yourself that it's for the better and listen to "Cut Her Off" by K Camp or something ;) It's even possible once you do that, they might come crawling back to you
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:45 AM
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I lost my virginity a few months shy of my 21st. It kinda just happened one night, soon after I decided to become the best version of myself. I didn't even go out thinking or wishing to get laid that night. It was one of the few nights I remember as genuinely believing and wanting to have fun with no pressure on trying to approach anyone or making a move on anyone. Trust me, it gets better. Keep working on yourself. But also, give yourself a break! :)
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:40 AM
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I used to have the same problem and I totally agree with the advice on here about teasing. Actually, I think I've gotten pretty good with flirting with girls that are friends of friends (I still absolutely suck at talking to random girls). What works for me is assuming they're attracted to me and thinking that I have the upper hand in the situation. It just automatically puts me in a confident, playful mode
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:50 PM
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At least explain what you don't like about this post
/r/seduction03/07/17 12:58 AM
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Don't do that dude
/r/seduction01/07/17 02:59 PM
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Hey man, could you hook me up with that text guide? Much appreciated
/r/seduction01/07/17 02:50 PM
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You should move to Jersey. Like 12 out of 10 girls write that they love traveling, hiking, and being outdoors in their bios.
/r/seduction29/06/17 02:17 PM
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Never thought about the stranger on the internet thing. Thank you, sensei. This thread has been annoying me quite a bit and thinking about it like this is def helping me calm down.
/r/seduction29/05/17 09:44 AM
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Username checks out. I totally agree with everything you said. There's some utter garbage posted on this thread.
/r/seduction29/05/17 12:55 AM
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What do you do when you do find a logical reason why that behavior or action is annoying you? I'm genuinely curious, because this sounds like something that could perpetually keep me in a place of calm if I can't reason my way into being annoyed by something.
/r/seduction29/05/17 12:41 AM
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I do believe if you're not attracted to ANYONE from a certain race, you've got to be at least low key racist. I'm saying this because I used to be like that and, looking back, I was slightly racist. I admit that I definitely find white women more attractive than women from any other race more attractive on average, but in the last couple of years I've found that there are plenty of women from all races and ethnicities that are really very attractive. The way the girls rejected OP was totally dow…
/r/seduction29/05/17 12:21 AM
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I absolutely LOVE this idea
/r/seduction18/05/17 02:36 PM
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Good job! But didn't you post a video of this a few weeks ago?
/r/seduction16/05/17 07:21 PM
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If you want to talk about only looks getting dates, go to r/tinder. I used to think like you but that's just not how the world works. There are tons of guys I know that can even be called downright ugly (and before you ask, no, not wealthy either) that consistently get laid and date attractive girls.
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:26 AM
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I meant more along the lines of the activity that you do on the date. Something makes me think that you're not a dinner and a movie type of guy...🤔
/r/seduction06/05/17 06:58 PM
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This is great, thanks for taking out time to write this out! What do you typically like doing on dates?
/r/seduction06/05/17 06:32 PM
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*be the best version of yourself Being yourself, just the way you currently are, is not going to work always. The important thing is to be true to yourself.
/r/seduction03/05/17 02:27 AM
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I think I just realized something. The reason girls are not forthcoming is to weed out guys with low confidence who can't go in for the kiss. I dunno, this just makes so much sense to me now. What I do still hate is certain girls still playing hard to get for extended periods of time even when you've made your intentions clear.
/r/seduction16/02/17 06:14 PM
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Ah, I see. I've used to get some of the funniest shit on Snapchat before graduating last year. I wasn't even in it for the nudes or girls. I guess it comes down to your group of friends. But I agree -- a lot of people on Snap are boring. Like idgaf about you talking into the camera about how your day went.
/r/seduction26/01/17 03:22 AM
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Get a Snapchat.
/r/seduction26/01/17 01:36 AM
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It definitely helps getting into game mode if you think you look fly
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:57 PM
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Yes, but not in the way movies and tv shows portray it to be.
/r/seduction17/06/16 06:09 AM
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Yup, she was definitely the one with the line
/r/seduction22/02/16 05:20 PM
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This is the realest advice I've seen on this thread. I've been dealing with a girl like this and this makes so much sense!
/r/seduction12/12/15 12:42 AM
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By the way she looks at you, or looks away from you (depending on the type of shy girl she is)
/r/seduction28/11/15 10:23 PM
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It can help trigger Caveman Mode. It's up to you whether that's a good thing or not.
/r/seduction13/09/15 01:33 AM
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That's exactly what I meant.
/r/seduction17/08/15 07:21 AM
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Lift with your legs. Don't skip leg day, bro.
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:05 PM
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You should definitely write more posts.
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:36 AM
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I really enjoyed the details like 007 and music playlist. It's just interesting to see that other guys also think and do some randomly specific things before dates.
/r/seduction12/08/15 06:37 PM
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How did you make her dance with you in the middle of a movie?
/r/seduction05/08/15 05:56 AM
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If you have any interest, join the student programming board of your school. Tons of different types of girls do that shit. Nice way to meet ladies.
/r/seduction31/07/15 05:15 AM
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Great post! More examples for frame tests please?
/r/seduction29/07/15 08:00 AM
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Her friends are begging you to ask her out. That's pretty much as good as her coming up to you and saying, "I want you." Just ask her out for a drink or plan something fun and ask her to join you with that!
/r/seduction26/07/15 04:58 PM
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Say hi and make a comment about your surroundings or class (if you have one together) and then offer her your name. And then tell her that you're into Vic Mensa :)
/r/seduction24/07/15 01:57 PM
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Maybe OP isn't very confident and is building his confidence with baby steps?
/r/seduction20/07/15 09:36 AM
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So what, in your opinion, makes women attracted to us men-folk?
/r/seduction18/07/15 07:39 PM
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Let me tell you the story of my brave cousin on a beach vacation. We were both around 14 at the time and hanging out in a restaurant at the resort without parental supervision. We both felt pretty old (but looking back, we were tiny little teens). We spotted this gorgeous tourist (around 20-22 years old), who my cousin is sure he saw on issue of Maxim (but that's a debate for another time). He got up and approached her. Her response was pretty good. Obviously, they didn't fuck or anything. But h…
/r/seduction06/07/15 05:58 AM
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This is interesting 'cause a girl that I like has the same problem. This kind of behavior really threw me off, even though I know for a fact that she was interested in me.
/r/seduction05/07/15 04:13 AM
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I found this blog post (and others on this blog) to be quite helpful.
/r/seduction21/05/15 05:42 PM
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I like asking people about themselves, but I feel like I go into interview mode.
/r/seduction23/02/15 06:44 AM
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Thanks, I needed this! I'm an Indian going to a small college in the US.
/r/seduction17/08/14 06:59 PM
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College, bruh.
/r/seduction15/08/14 06:44 PM
2

Nice! I had braces about 4 years ago, but now I have to get them again cause some of my teeth have gotten mis-alligned. :( I've settled for retainers though.
/r/seduction15/08/14 05:58 PM
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That, sire, is genius!
/r/seduction13/08/14 12:18 PM
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Does that really work when you can Google that from your phone?
/r/seduction13/08/14 12:16 PM
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Are there any particular posts here that you found very helpful?
/r/seduction03/08/14 05:05 PM
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I think that might've been a joke.
/r/seduction31/05/14 02:32 AM
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That would be great man! Muchas gracias!
/r/seduction27/04/14 09:49 PM
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I still have a hard time picturing what to do; do you think you could make a .gif or video?
/r/seduction27/04/14 09:09 PM
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