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Invite him into situations where it's just the two of you, keep strong eye contact with him as much as possible, and become very touchy with him, long hugs, sit right next to him, lay on his lap if you can etc. Send out STRONG signals and basically behave like you're already his GF. He should get the signal. Ideally the more direct you are the better, and if you can make a move do it. But if you're shy just drop strong hints.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:27 AM
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Agreed, movies are terrible dates, you lose ~2 hours of you two just staring at a screen not interacting
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:59 AM
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Yea I agree, knowing when to talk and when to shut up is very important. But it's by no means the most important thing
/r/seduction22/05/21 06:31 AM
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Yes I'm going to the complete extreme to prove my point. It's called 'reductio absurdum' it's a method used to debunk logical errors for thousands of years. I don't want to derail the conversation and go into why girls flake etc. There could be hundreds of reasons. The only point I'm making is Confidence is more important than "Knowing when to shut up" And reductio absurdum proves that
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:51 AM
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I'm sorry but there's just no way that "Knowing when to shut up" is equally or more important than "Confidence" and I'm sure most would agree with me. Who would win: a extremely confident guy that doesn't know at all when to shut up? Or a guy that knows when to shut up, with zero confidence that can't even look people in the eyes or know how to lead? Knowing when to shut up will get you NOWHERE without confidence, where as you can definitely easily still get laid with a lot of confidence when no…
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:17 AM
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If you're confident and non-needy you can say really really goofy and stupid things and the girl will just think you're being silly. Have you read 'Models' by Mark Manson? There's example of a super confident guy that literally went around asking girls "Can I pee in your but?" and got laid. What you say isn't that important, confidence & non needyness is everything
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:07 AM
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"I felt like I had to carry the conversation the whole time, and didn't really get to know him, he seems very emotionally closed off" - The girl probably
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:01 AM
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Confidence still wins. All you're trying to achieve here is to seem confident and non needy by shutting up.
/r/seduction22/05/21 04:57 AM
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I can't think of any specific one that stands out, Google the best sex books, and start reading. It's easier to keep somone around when all they can think about all day at work is the things you do to them.
/r/seduction28/09/19 04:18 AM
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Glad to hear you see your own value, and that you won't get hung up on her. Great mentality to have, your already far ahead of a lot of guys. Humans are fkn weird, some girls will fall head over heals over you, some won't want to give you the time of the day. Some will fall in love with you once they spend some time with you, others will want to just be friends or not see you anymore. We're all wired differently and want different things, don't take anything personally or try to over analise eve…
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:16 PM
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Don't ever let girls know you're chasing them, give them amazing sex if you get to Smash. (read a few books on sex) Don't be needy, attract her with your lifestyle and fun personality. Don't have a cool lifestyle / personally? Start working towards it asap. If she's not attracted, move on, go find the next girl. Don't make the mistake of chasing one girl that's just not that into you, there are hundreds of girls out there that would be
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:35 AM
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Nothing, but the chase is part of the fun
/r/seduction26/09/19 05:26 PM
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1st off, long distance is a really really bad idea, avoid it at all costs. Don't do that to yourself. 2nd, move on dude go out meet new people, you win some you lose some, don't dwell on it
/r/seduction12/09/19 11:35 AM
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I have no idea, but if people don't know either Afrikaans or German and I spoke Afrikaans they Immediately thought I was German. Wasn't just me, a lot of my family members had the same experience
/r/seduction14/08/19 08:53 AM
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Yea I also find it quite strange, if you can't speak any German or Afrikaans they sound the same. But if you can speak either they sound nothing alike. Yea I can fully understand Dutch people if they don't speak too fast, no clue what Germans are saying 😂 I was in Dublin, Ireland.
/r/seduction14/08/19 08:43 AM
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If it kinda sounds like German, it's probably Afrikaans. Was mistaken for being German dozens of time while in Europe.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:25 PM
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That weird language was probably Afrikaans, Hello from South Africa
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:16 PM
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The subtle art of not giving a Fuck, is also a great book. Regarding game, The Mystery Method is all you'll really ever need
/r/seduction15/07/19 09:23 AM
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you sound like a r/niceguys leave this girl alone, go out and meet new girls.
/r/seduction12/07/19 12:52 PM
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Send her memes
/r/seduction19/06/19 10:35 AM
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I never said it's the only two options. You're still straw manning what I've said, like I said form the start, "pick up" is what you make it, not just hookups. But hey let's hear what's your superior suggestion for improving your social skills with women. Highly doubt you have one
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:20 PM
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You're straw manning what I've said. That's not what I said. What's your suggestion then? Worst case scenario imporving your social skills and confidence in the bedroom through hookups is still lightyears better than doing nothing.
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:14 PM
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I know a bunch of guys that are in pickup because they want to meet a great girlfriend and be exclusive to her. If you are socially awkward with girls, and don't really meet lots of girls what are your other options to try and meet a great girlfriend or future wife? Sit around at home, remaining socially awkward hoping she will magically enter your life one day?
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:07 PM
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Sure it's mostly guys wanting to have casual sex, and there is nothing wrong with that. But what I ment by "it's what you make it" is that you can use the pickup community to meet your wife, or next girlfriend without ever having the goal of just casual sex. The core of the pickup community is bettering your skills with women and social value, what your goals are is up to you.
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:00 PM
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What if I already have enough close friends? But no girls I like in my life? The "pick up" community is what you make it, it's basically just a bunch of guys that want to work on their social skills especially with girls. It's a community of people that realize your next great "Girlfriend" isn't just going to break into your room one night and sitting around hoping she magically appears in your life is stupid.
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:41 PM
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Sounds like you shouldn't be going out alone yet, try and meet up with a Pickup community in your area or a friend. You're obviously doing something wrong to creep these girls out, and not realising it. You need to find out what that is and stop doing it, a good wing will quickly spot this and point it out.
/r/seduction03/06/19 02:51 PM
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I can think back to so many cringe worthy moments in young adulthood where I learnt to socialise and just put myself out there, fuck I made a complete ass out of myself so many times. But I wasn't just going to vanish into the background, I was going to get out there and learn, now I'm great in social situations, I've had girls fly from other the other hemisphere to come see me again, and I've got a few fuck buddies and a great girl I'm seeing now, with many reliable friends. None of which I wou…
/r/seduction29/05/19 09:05 AM
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Get jacked
/r/seduction09/05/19 09:08 AM
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Lol is that written in the same font "Barbie" uses 😂
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:19 AM
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Sounds like it was just done in a playful way, It's like if someone does something silly and you say "you're such a retard" and then playfully push their shoulder and laugh. You don't actually mean they are mentally retarded, it's just being playful
/r/seduction17/01/19 12:15 PM
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Yes, now go read the Mystery method. And the Suttle art of not giving a fuck. All you really need to know.
/r/seduction14/01/19 09:22 PM
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This will differ greatly form town to town, and from girl to girl. I wouldn't focus on this.
/r/seduction18/12/18 04:23 PM
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Allow yourself to be dominated, Ummm unless it's in some kinky way no thanks!! I know what I want and what I stand for, I won't be a dick about it. I'm chilled but not a fuck is anyone going to walk over me.
/r/seduction23/11/18 02:31 PM
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All women (and men) are unique in the same way all cars are unique. (If you look in details and small parts they are all different, but overall still very similar) The majority of women like confident men, just like the majority of cars have 4 wheels.The majority of women like men who are adventurous, just like the majority of cars have 4 doors.etc. etc. etc. Pickup doesn't teach all women are the same bla bla bla.It teaches you how most women are and what they like etc. and how to use that know…
/r/seduction23/11/18 12:42 PM
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It depends what your definition of Alpha / Beta is. In PUA the definitions look like this (in my opinion) Alpha Male : Someone that knows who they are, doesn't just agree to be nice, stands up for himself, isn't easily offended, has abundance, is confident in who they are their values and morals etc. Beta Male : Someone who is a push over, someone who will be nice to get affection, someone who just agrees to everything and doesn't actually voice their opinion. Someone who doesn't have a spine To…
/r/seduction23/11/18 12:38 PM
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Grab her by the pussy
/r/seduction21/11/18 11:26 AM
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I'd much rather over analyze than under analize. Do you know what survivor bias is? Your challenge is fundamentaly flawed
/r/seduction20/11/18 02:38 PM
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This sounds like a bad idea due to survivor bias. It's the same as going to every lotto winner and asking them how they did it, and then trying to follow exactly their steps to get the same result.It doesn't work like that, you also need to factor in luck and consult people that followed the same method to see if they got the same result. You will probably get advice like "Just be yourself" or "Someone will come along don't worry" because that's how most chodes got their girls. NO don't do that,…
/r/seduction20/11/18 12:26 PM
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Ask the police why you are beign removed, I would have confronted them if I was not in the wrong
/r/seduction25/10/18 01:44 PM
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Girls don't like guys that look good. They like guys that know what they want. That's why "Nice guys" don't get girls, because they are too nice, they say yes all they time, and don't take charge and go after what they want. And that's why assholes get lots of girls, they don't let girls just walk over them and go after what they want even if it pisses people off. You can be a nice guy but still make it clear to the girl that you know what you want and won't be anyone's puppy dog. And stand up f…
/r/seduction24/10/18 05:19 PM
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I hear you I myself personally know many girls who say exactly this. Where they want sex in the beginning or are just making out etc. And things escalate into sex and they don't want it anymore but are just unable to say so. I agree with everything in your post but think it must just be clarified what you mean by this part. Perhaps like what I do, if it's the first 2/3 times I'm sleeping with a girl, I'll non verbally check if she still actually wants to have sex eg. I'll pause and not make a mo…
/r/seduction10/10/18 06:03 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, if you bash you head against a will 47 times it will make your headache go away. You need not be convinced, just recognize the possibility of said idea.
/r/seduction09/10/18 08:52 PM
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I call bullshit. I'm not convinced.
/r/seduction09/10/18 06:36 PM
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Don't strawman what I've said. I wasn't implying not to slow down. I'm simply saying that way of slowing down sounds like a massive mood killer.
/r/seduction09/10/18 04:11 PM
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Still waiting for you to point out where I said session is only when your thing is in het whoa ha. Please don't start with personal attacks, that's just childish. I want to have an adult conversation where name calling isn't nescisary
/r/seduction09/10/18 03:58 PM
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When did I say that a session is only when you have your thing in her who ha?
/r/seduction09/10/18 03:51 PM
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I agree with all of this, but what I'm saying is there are way way better ways to do this than stop for a hug mid session. Like take things super slow, let her lead a bit make her laugh etc. If she's giggling at a inside joke she probably feels safe
/r/seduction09/10/18 03:44 PM
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Between rounds sure, that's why I said "in a hot and steamy moment" I'm sure it will work for some, but I'm quite sure not for most
/r/seduction09/10/18 03:37 PM
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Feel free to take little breaks in the process to have some conversation/make a joke/take little pauses to hug every once in a while. Ask her "are you comfortable/should we keep going/does that feel good/let me know if you want to stop" Imagining saying this in the middle of a hot steamy session sounds like a super weird mood killer, but I can guarantee you it'll work the complete opposite way. Take a break to hug? or ask "Let me know if you want to stop?" This sounds like the biggest mood kille…
/r/seduction09/10/18 02:36 PM
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A girl shit-tests when she is FEELING something that is NOT ORDINARY. When her auto-pilot response has been DISRUPTED, due to your cocky/funny or your awesome routine or your amazing cold read about her personality or whatever. She feels EMOTIONALLY ENGAGED and thus is SUBCONSCIOUSLY WORRIED because now she feels the SEEDS OF ATTRACTION. So she SHIT-TESTS YOU, to both scare you away AND to see if you are the REAL DEAL. When she makes fun of you or tests you or calls you on things, she is trying …
/r/seduction02/10/18 01:28 PM
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Ah I understand thx
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:50 PM
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Awesome post, Great work man. I have to disagree with this though "Everytime you fuck up, it sets you back a week. " Failure doesn't set you back, it teaches you how not to do something. Failure is not a bad thing, being afraid of failure, or giving up is a bad thing. Failing is good because you're trying I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Thomas A. Edison aka. The inventor of the light bulb.
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:03 AM
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tl;dr ?
/r/seduction20/10/17 10:46 AM
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Never read it, just looked like click bait honestly. Wonder how scientific the study really is. Will read up on it Monday
/r/seduction22/09/17 01:29 PM
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I wonder how they got to "twice as attractive" why not 1.5 times or 2.4 times as attractive
/r/seduction22/09/17 11:28 AM
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Just talk to everyone, I literally started by just talking shit to literally everyone for no reason. and now it's much easier to talk to girls I'm actually interested in.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:26 PM
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Just be honest and tell her how you really feel, and try and give her the real reason you want to break up without smashing her feelings
/r/seduction06/06/17 12:59 PM
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Don't just be yourself, better yourself, build up confidence read books / articles about how to talk to girls etc.
/r/seduction27/05/17 05:49 AM
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