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| 3 | How To Learn, And How It Gets You GirlsThat was an idiotic ball of verbal poo. | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Called soft by girls i hook upI'm 6'5. I intimidate men but women are not scared of me. In fact if I'm on a train and I sit on the outside seat guys will never ask me to sit beside me but girls will. Sometimes they start chatting to me about random things. | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 06:20 AM |
| -1 | Called soft by girls i hook upGolden retriever energy is really her telling you that you aren't classically masculine. I personally would hate being called soft or cute. | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 06:09 AM |
| -1 | Called soft by girls i hook upExactly. | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How to handle clubbing solo when a girl friends group starts dancing next to you?self hypnosis and use a trigger to switch it off. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 09:20 AM |
| 1 | The Magic Pill Of Attraction - An In-Depth Investigation Into The Development Of ConfidenceThat's nonsense actually. That is an example of bad programming and also that way you filter the world. If you are confident at any task then you can create that state at will so in any environment you will be confident. It doesn't matter if you are a coder or a guitar player in a band or a guy who hikes 25 miles in a day. I'm all of those things. Also being confidence boils down to totally reducing risk and bad outcomes in your mind close to zero which minimises all that waffle you wrote about … | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:15 AM |
| 1 | The Magic Pill Of Attraction - An In-Depth Investigation Into The Development Of ConfidenceExactly. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Field report - nightThose lines were brutal. No wonder they bounced. You are going to have to get more creative with your banter. Using canned lines wont work unless they have context. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 06:27 AM |
| 4 | This is all you need - Old 4chan gemIt's a state not anything else. All confidence is when you go to do something you call up the feeling you had when you did this operation and the that gives you the drive to execute it. So if you had one success then you use that state as a piggyback for further ones. Chase Hughes talks about this on podcasts. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Mission 1 : Talk to 1000 GirlsSo you're an allegedly successful guy who can't get women. That's odd.. | /r/seduction | 05/07/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Some people are dying of thirst while others are drowning.I don't know about that really. I'm bald I have flaws. I'm aware what I am. I don't match on the apps either. | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Some people are dying of thirst while others are drowning.I personally think the ability from ones father. I wouldn't be a great person to advise because I've never had to work for it. I've a cousin who is better looking he's 6'6. I'm under 6'5. Theoretically he's a chad. I'm not a chad but for some reason I'm attractive to women from 18-50. Even when I was a shy, introverted skinny tall nerd I had girls into me. I learned to totally ignore women through my shyness. Now I'm not shy anymore but that strategy has been so effective that I never stopped it… | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 04:46 AM |
| 8 | Guys around 40 and older, how are you doing?I don't tell people in work and they think I'm 30. The IT industry is very ageist. Some people my age don't like me because I'm not like them. When young women come on to me (I never initiate this). I tell them straight up that I'm probably too old for them. It's never really a problem. I am tall and while I'm not jacked but I'm attractive to women. It's always been that way. I look ridiculous beside women my age. My friends have always been younger and that was just the way life goes. As for yo… | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 08:45 AM |
| 5 | Guys around 40 and older, how are you doing?Could you elaborate with a structured argument rather than with the colloquialism of a 12 year old. | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 08:28 AM |
| 5 | Guys around 40 and older, how are you doing?You prefer women your own age because that's all you can get. Every guy who says that is just jealous. | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 08:22 AM |
| 1 | I have hundreds matches but...You can actually. Anxiety is a state. Happiness is a state. Scientists found you can't be anxious and grateful at the same time. This is because both those states use the same part of the brain. If you believe that you can't turn it off then you won't. People who don't have it for exactly that. They reduce the situation in their mind to nothing. Anxiety can be greatly reduced by hypnosis. | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | What should my dating strategy be?When you document it like that you'll never follow it. Instead just go out in life and pay attention to the women who are receptive to you. From those women pick one. Look at the men around you that's your competition. The guy on tinder is pixels your real competition is in the real world. The competition from guys in the real world is not as difficult as you may think. Most don't bother with their appearance, all wear drab gray sweatpants, some are overweight. In fact out there you will rarely … | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Confidence vs LookGreat observation actually. I'm arrogant but it doesn't mean I'm a shitty person. Far from it. Believe you me, women just love men that walk with no fear. | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How to flirt basicsThose ideas are stolen from every PUA thats ever existed. Nothing new. | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Confidence vs LookArrogance is better than meekness. | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Is bold & honest about everything makes you attractive?Be honest but about other things. | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 10:46 AM |
| 4 | Processing the difficult reality of women coming and going out of my lifeYes. I've had women friends since my teens that instantly blocked me because I posted something on social media they didn't agree with. Your male friends are far more loyal than any woman. | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 05:08 AM |
| 3 | How should I know when to take certain advice?Different approaches work for different people. It also depends on who you want to attract. I personally like elegant feminine women so I act a certain way. I'm also tall so I act a certain way. There is no one fits all approach just be you and the best version of you. | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 07:17 AM |
| 2 | What is competence in relation to confidence?The come off as idiots to me as if they switch personas when a woman appears. Blowhard, loud, conversation controlling, look at me types, always trying to be the leader in all situations, and I cannot be that.The come off as idiots to me as if they switch personas when a woman appears. Blowhard, loud, conversation controlling, look at me types, always trying to be the leader in all situations, and I cannot be that. Even women change personalities when they see guys they like. In fact thats a rea… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 03:29 PM |
| 2 | What is competence in relation to confidence?You are doing good the thing is you don't even have to know how to fix things but to KNOW HOW to get them fixed. For example I was in the city the other day. I saw 2 girls walking. One dropped a bottle of wine which exploded into splinters. They stood there for 5 mins by the bottle because they didn't know what to do. I saw it and I went into the pizza place by me and asked for a box and a bag. I ripped off the box lid off and used the two pieces of card to scoop up the glass. I've done this 100… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 12:37 PM |
| 2 | What is competence in relation to confidence?none of them are relevant in a social conversation with a woman None of them have to be. It's an energy you project it has absolutely nothing to do with whether its interesting to them or not. If you are a guy and you have your job, house, can fix things and you're calm under pressure you are a competent guy. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Is it really true that a lot of girls flirting signs is just eye contact and a smile?A good test is to walk down a busy street and observe the reaction you get from women. Once you look at them most will look away and look at their phone but just as they pass they'll look up at you. Sometimes you'll look at them and they'll flick their hair. That's nerves actually. Some will purposefully walk across your path. It's an interesting experiment and I find that if you don't look at them and use the periphery of your vision you can see them study you. I'm 6'5 and of course my experien… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 06:59 AM |
| 5 | Is it really true that a lot of girls flirting signs is just eye contact and a smile?They dislike you?. I'm sorry to hear that. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 06:50 AM |
| -1 | I have a high body count but I suck at cold approach with regular pretty womenThat's because you are not as amazing as you think you are. It's a false sense of reality. The only way you know youre as good as you are is receptiveness of females in the real world. It's easy to make the switch from real world interaction to the shadow world but not so easy vice versa. I go out and I can talk to any girl in any situation it helps I'm 6'5 and fit but the bottom line is I need a personality. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 06:34 AM |
| 0 | I have a high body count but I suck at cold approach with regular pretty womenKink and swinger places are not where normal people hang out. In the real world you are dealing with normal people. Normal girls may not like the persona that works so well for you in the shadow world. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 06:12 AM |
| 0 | I have a high body count but I suck at cold approach with regular pretty womenWateva. Why are you asking this question then? | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 05:57 AM |
| 1 | I have a high body count but I suck at cold approach with regular pretty womenYou have to learn how to be social in the real life as you short circuited the process pursuing your fantasies. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | How to know if she likes you?That's a fair point. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 11:23 AM |
| 12 | Can you really attract women if you’re not doing well inside?Only if they are hot. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 07:18 AM |
| 3 | Can you really attract women if you’re not doing well inside?Everyone is faking it to be truthful. We all wear masks. Parents are faking that they know what they are doing raising kids. There isn't a manual so it's just trial and error. The fireman who runs into a burning building is no ordinary person. He is a persona assumed by the man who is employed as a fireman. The moment the bell rings and fireman becomes that other person. A person capable of extreme bravery and strength. A persons whole demeanor can be crushed confidence extinguished in a minute … | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 07:10 AM |
| -1 | How to know if she likes you?True. A bit dramatic sounding though. A good description of a stalker. Women who are high interest and confident will do this. If she's shy the volume will be lower but still noticeable. The reason guys need " does she like me" posts is because the signals are so low frequency they are almost undetectable. I see it all the time sometimes I'll notice a girl in my proximity in a bar and other people will hint that's shes interested so I will purposely ignore her. After a while she gets increasingl… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 07:02 AM |
| 3 | How to know if she likes you?You obviously don't understand what seduction or PUA means. Seduction means trying to win over a lukewarm interested girl. You don't seduce a high interest woman. The heavy lifting is already done. Most guys think grown women act as they are 14 all their life. Yes modern women are like that. Women actually aren't obsessed about dating such as you guys. Really???. What's the evidence?. ask them cringely on coffee dates, because some weird youtuber told them so. Really ?? Going on coffee dates nev… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 06:58 AM |
| 1 | This Is The Easiest Way To Know A Woman's Relationship StatusAt least its not AI. There are spelling typos or mistakes. You forgot point 5 women who are not available and do not signal availability but use men for entertainment. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 08:26 AM |
| 2 | This Is The Easiest Way To Know A Woman's Relationship StatusHere you are back again complicating everything as usual. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:55 AM |
| 1 | For Many People, It's Not a "What Do I say" or a "Women" Problem...Your programming is really bad. You can fix this through self hypnosis. Even through posture you can change your demeanour. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Where am I going wrong with my approach to dating?raw seductive male power. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Age Gap GameYes. Women at that age are very receptive given the very meagre competition there is these days. I love working in the city centre because I always meet women on a daily basis. Some are hot some are middle but I really don't mind. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Age Gap GameI've always had women into me even when I was a shy nerdy guy. It has never stopped. I'm 53 now and when I go out women come on to me. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Age Gap GameIt's called having a personality. Keeping your weight acceptable and not dressing like a slob in gray sweats. If you're 6'5 like me that too helps. There's all the notes you need. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:26 AM |
| 0 | Age Gap GameAstonishing as it may seem to you I'm 53 and I get a lot of attention from women in that range and younger. I've always had it from my teens and never lost it. Women are receptive to me everywhere I go. I thinks it an 'energy' thing. People treat me as high status in life. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:23 AM |
| 1 | RigaNope. All I will say is be wary of beautiful girls who try and get you to go to specific out of way bars. You could end up in a sticky expensive situation. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:16 AM |
| 5 | Where am I going wrong with my approach to dating?but I do from time to time catch the feels when we reach an intimate emotional/physical level. I've never had a relationship in the 22 years of being alive. What does that even mean?. If she puts you into a friend zone she doesn't see you in a sexual way. You are not showing her your raw male power. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do women like older guys so muchYou are brainwashed. Cars don't fucking matter to girls. I have a 2008 bmw 320i sports. A beautiful machine. They love it. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Why do women like older guys so muchI get girls of all ages chatting me up. I mean I'm a total outlier but that's what a lifetime of self improvement does for you. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like older guys so muchThat's a stupid comment if there ever was a stupid comment. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like older guys so muchWhat does financially successful mean to you?. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | qualification not working well?It's very unoriginal maybe work in the US but not in Europe. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 09:19 AM |
| 0 | qualification not working well?Like 'hi, I thought you looked nice but wanted to make sure you were also interesting' Good lord. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Should i use a hat to approach women if i have a receding hairline?I'm bald I started losing mine at 18 and was gone by 23. Baldness does not matter. However you owning it confidently does. Even girls in their early 20s will be into you if you look after yourself. As a bald person you'll just have to be a little more meticulous than the average guy in the way you dress, hygiene and physique. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 02:23 AM |
| 5 | how do i crack sum for the first time?At the bare minimum speak and write maturely and coherently. It's all communication. The difference between a girl and us, is we will listen you regardless of how uneducated you seem. Women won't give you that luxury. | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 01:35 PM |
| 4 | how do i crack sum for the first time?are you sure you're not 14?. | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 11:17 AM |
| 82 | Understanding Female Psychology: What Actually Attracts WomenI've seen this exact post 1000 times. | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Why I am singleEmbrace rejection You're never going to win in life if you are afraid of uncomfortable situations. Go and do it so what if you are ridiculed. It's so little in the big picture of life. Approach her by picturing it in your mind 100 times. When you do it for real it will be simple. Stop making it a big deal on your head. It really is not. | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 06:43 AM |
| 2 | How breaking down my own cold approaches with others completely changed my confidenceJust curious. What openers worked ? | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I [F22] keep cold approaching guys if I’m looking for something serious?Using the same logic. Your anecdotal experience is only just that too. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Should I [F22] keep cold approaching guys if I’m looking for something serious?That's a partially inaccurate statement. from my own POV, observation and experiences the vast majority of attractive men are now probably in relationships that will lead to marriage. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if she really thinks you're bigI doubt there's much grey matter there. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 08:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if she really thinks you're bigSo you base your entire self worth on whether women placate your narcissistic tendencies?. Honestly who gives a fuck really?. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?Your game is a combination of mental state and practice. Exactly. You can go out and have a horrible day trying to meet women but the next day could be fantastic. Your state must not change. It's all snakes and ladders. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?Talk to women every single day. Even women working in shops is good. Do something that makes you feel uncomfortable. Today I'm going to the market theres a MILF there and I'm going to chat to her all normal stuff. I'm doing it because it's out of my comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Help. I'm always attracting toxic women. What shall I do?Yes absolutely. If you want to heal accept your past as a learning experience. Leave that behind you. Accept everyone has trauma. I have trauma but I can deal with it. It's there but it doesn't dictate my life. Now I have had very good parents they did beat me but that made me stronger for a life that's full of bad people. Like I said talking to them is pointless. The reason you attracted destructive women is because you filter for them. There is a thing called the RAS and it filters all your ex… | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 05:42 AM |
| 1 | What did you do that made you go from unattractive to attractive to women?Ever since my teens I've always been attractive to women. Not all but the ones that mattered. Even as a shy introvert I could barely talk to them I still managed it. I've always worked on improving myself. I've always been able to captivate women. I believe it's genetic because my dad was very attractive to women all through his life. He wasn't tall but I am very tall. Don't know exactly why I'm attractive but I am. I believe nowadays guys can't get women because they don't believe they can. I b… | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Question Regarding Seduction With AutismI don't go to hypnotists because its really easy for me to go into trance. When I am in trance I suggest things. One of the suggestions is to align the conscious and the subconscious mind. Doing so gives you incredible recall and general rapid brain response. You can go to a pro or when you fall asleep at night make suggestions to yourself the changes you want to happen and the behaviours you want to acquire. It's called hypnagogic state. It has worked for me. It's the reverse what you are doing… | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | The Cold Approach Simplified: Stop Over-Complicating SeductionAbsolutely this. In my 20s I friend zoned about 5 girls and out of them I got all my scores. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Help. I'm always attracting toxic women. What shall I do?Therapy never works. Talking extensively about your problems only strengthens the neural pathways. A person needs to sever neural pathways to move on. That's why acceptance and taking responsibility for your problems is a healing mechanism. The pathways are rebuilt with your new emotions which are positive. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Question Regarding Seduction With AutismIt's not autism its lack of social experience. There is an epidemic of people believing they have this and that mental issue but really its programming by media. I know this because as an European I never once heard one person talk about all these ridiculous terms like high functioning autistic, ADHD and neurodiversity. It was only until the yanks on the other side started this shit blaming everything but themselves. Then Europeans did the same buts its not as bad thankfully. It's an agenda to d… | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on dealing with awkward moments with girls?https://www.youtube.com/shorts/6_K7cZoznSQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUmArXx4Kak https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8xXnuFLPUQ8 https://www.youtube.com/shorts/9NH-sAt_3h8 https://youtube.com/shorts/SKkJKUHbXMM?si=PimD4dQW9bzVAKxd https://youtube.com/shorts/hrYJqo2iGyo?si=IeEl2WnfbZ90nFlV | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:25 AM |
| -1 | Best way to flirt with a coworker as a woman? Plus he’s the boss’s son!?I'd say he sees you as a red flag and he should. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:21 AM |
| 2 | How do you incorporate playing an instrument into picking up women?You don't have to be a rockstar to win. Play live and they'll always be women who want to fuck you. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 07:42 PM |
| 0 | Tinder is easy as a man - You just dont know how to use itWhat about an English girl ?. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Tinder is easy as a man - You just dont know how to use itBecoming a millionaire is really easy. Making money is a game. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is easy as a man - You just dont know how to use itor day game ''You know… I've been thinking… Isn't this place just sooo…relaxing. Like… with all the birds chirping and the squirrels running about, and this breeze gently blowing on us… it kind of makes us be present in the moment, and the more time you spend, the more this feeling of connection to nature grows. And YOU forget about all the worries we have out there. Wouldn't you agree? Just from your overall vibe and energy… I get the sense that you're a really calm person interested in meeting… | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Tinder is easy as a man - You just dont know how to use itYou funny see the reference. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Tinder is easy as a man - You just dont know how to use itI would disagree actually. I used something similar about the beach. I'm Irish and UK and Irish game is culturally similar. I don't know many UK girls except NI girls but Irish girls are really intelligent and funny as well. So the crap written in the game by Strauss would not ever work in either countries. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 06:07 AM |
| 1 | I just don’t get it.No expectations means no expectations of outcome. I approach a girl and ask her out she says no. I'm not bothered because I now have more experience. | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 04:41 PM |
| 0 | good Facebook groups to join?Queers for Palestine. | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Do stares mean a thing ?Yes. Women stare at men from a distance. They'll usually look down as they approach you and then look at you just as they pass. If you learn to look in your periphery of your vision you'll see girls checking you out. The trick is to pretend to be looking elsewhere. I got a stare the other day from a girl at a bus stop. She was teasing her hair tilting her head and looking. It was really hot. The only reason you see this is because you're tuning your filter process to it. It's called the RAS. I h… | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | I litterally cannot look pretty girls in the eyesPut yourself in to a trance state and suggest that you find it easy to hold eye contact with women. You can either do that yourself or wait until you are just about to go to sleep and do it. | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I litterally cannot look pretty girls in the eyesSelf hypnosis will fix that quickly. | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 07:06 AM |
| 3 | How do you know if she really thinks you're bigWhy would you care?. There's fucking more things in life that have higher priorities. Penis obsession is for 16 year olds. | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Friend broke up with her boyfriendhow would you recommend to move past friend zone Just ask her out. Or you can suss it from your friend. Or you can ask your friends gf. Find out what her baseline You kind of know it by the way a girl looks at you if she's into you. | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 08:33 AM |
| 12 | This question is for everyone about personal experience what do you consider obvious signals that someone is attracted to you and there's no doubt they want to *make out, fool around, have sex * with you?makes eye contact then blatantly looks at your lips. If she is opening her legs and you move subtly into that space she won't flinch. | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 11:56 AM |
| -1 | Is there a ceiling to being yourself? Starting to fell like I’m not built for this dating game or being desiredGet this straight. There is no "you". There is a perception of "you" in the minds of all the people you interact with. It's the same with your voice. Your accent comes from your larynx changing. Your accent is in a state of flux an dis influenced by your environment. | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Don't forget to be a great storyteller and have interesting stories yourself.I travelled extensively through Europe I have a lot of stories. Most of the stories happened through being in danger. | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Which advice would you give to someone (man) who lacks charisma?That book is a Game changer. I bought my copy in 2006. | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Which advice would you give to someone (man) who lacks charisma?Not everyone can become charismatic and you can be charismatic on one environment but not in another. I learned it from my mother who has it. She worked as a waitress years ago and she developed that skill. I always wanted to be like her and now I'm pretty charismatic but as I say not in every environment. | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Stop Asking What to Say During the Conversation, You Can’t Script FlowYou are far more effective with your interactions if you have a scripted convo. I found that out that when I was interviewing for my first job. Eventually you develop a script to talk to interviewers in a way that communicates competence. Using that script you can control the direction of the conversation. I pretty much visualise / script any interaction I have. It's a process I have used since my teens. | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How to mentally get past physical barriers?It's like baldness. It happens and you own it. Once you own it people don't notice it. Traverse the world like you are 6'2. Yes you are going to get negativity just ignore it. I get it too and I am tall. | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 11:53 AM |
| 3 | pretty much finished my testing of 3 Pickup artists.Personally I've never really used PUA. I study it because its essentially "sales". Learn to sell yourself and you'll have a really good skill in life. From my experience: The single best thing you can do is work every day on your communication skills. Learn new words, take up courses etc. Being good means you need to be articulate. Speak clearly, concisely and precisely. Practice writing too. All this hones your ability to think clearly. Maybe video yourself to see how you present yourself to th… | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 10:42 AM |
| 17 | pretty much finished my testing of 3 Pickup artists.The only times I had success were when I felt like the girl basically 'picked' me before i'd actually approached. That's the way its done. Build a beautiful garden and butterflies will come. | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what happenedAt least you stood your ground as a man. She could be an influencer with a few followers. Then again a lot of modern women seem to have a very high opinion of themselves. I notice it a lot nowadays. I'm 6'5 and I get some women who try to disrespect me. It's a phenomenon that I didn't see a lot until lately. I personally think it's social media tik Tok brain rot. She could be 4'9 and somehow thinks she's more superior to me. Some are sexually aggressive in front of their friends. I don't drink m… | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what happenedIt could be a response from nerves. I would say "are you feeling ok?". "Let me get this straight you have given me the right to say hi to you that's fucking hilarious". Some women are weird. You could meet the woman the next day and she would laugh about it. It's a thing not mentioned here that any given women can behave any given way at any given time. She's nice in the morning very moody in the afternoon etc. | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Rule Number One is Never take her seriouslyThat is not seduction. It is horrible to read. | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 07:19 AM |
| 1 | RSD Coach List 2010-2014Julien is still going strong on you tube. What happened to them is pretty much what happens to anything that motivates large groups of men, like break dancing, musicians etc. All the mens subs here are all gone all the while trash like one extra chromosome and bitches against the patriarchy are still going strong with their vile diatribe. Once they become huge an unseen force materialises to destroy them. I've seen the pattern all through my life. The Tate situation is the latest attempt. In RSD… | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Does a disabled man have a chance?Both his hands were affected. He's married now with kids. | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Does a disabled man have a chance?I knew a guy who was a thalidomide baby and he had the best options that any man could have. It taught me personality is everything. | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Conversing on datesConversation is over rated. What makes music interesting is the gaps between notes and the highs and lows. Conversation is the same. You get better by not talking to a woman the same way you would talk to a male friend. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/siyykDCUKX8 | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Conversing on dates>Ask her “Why did you leave your last boyfriend… was he bad in bed? Did he have a small dick or something?” classy | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 01:22 PM |
| 8 | What to do at bars/clubs in Europe?Prague women are other worldly. I almost got killed in Slovakia in a restroom in a pub. I would be careful in eastern europe, beware of beautiful girls who are too accessible and be very careful where they tell you to go. Eastern europe is a very different place to anywhere else. If you are on your own and you do snag very attractive girls be wary that there are incel like men who are out there who will want to fck you up. It's happened to me in Holland and I wasn't even trying to get laid. I wo… | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 09:06 AM |
| 9 | What to do at bars/clubs in Europe?Europe is big and cultures differ. Where exactly do you intend to go?. | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Does Accent play a role? (good or bad?)Yes if you have a cool accent like Irish , English , Scottish or French yes. | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Any tips for cold approaches appreciatedThat's not cold approach. Also have you ever heard the expression of never shit on your own doorstep. | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 01:24 AM |
| 2 | “If she likes you she’ll make it easy” isnt always true is it?If you have travelled enough you will know why and I hope it doesn't happen to you. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 09:53 PM |
| 24 | “If she likes you she’ll make it easy” isnt always true is it?They'll bump into you, kick you by accident, ask you a ridiculous question, say they went to school with you, ask you to mind their drinks, talk loudly so you will interject, smile broadly at you. There are countless ways. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Really pushed myself out of my shell yesterdayYou don't lack confidence. You have forgotten how to be confident. Imagine a confident and then step into that confident you. How do you feel. Confidence is just a state that we utilise when we do things that challenge us. She messaged you first because she is definitely interested. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Be flaky to avoid flakes?Corn flakes? | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 03:06 PM |
| 4 | What are some eye opening thing that led you to a successful dating lifeopening my eyes and observing the real world. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Are there many examples of looks taking a backseat?If you really think looks are the be all and end all you really need to get out in the real world. Marlon is a you tube personality and he's trying to make money by pushing a narrative that may be true but it becomes all the more realistic to you if you believe it. I've had friends who are 5'6 and they did fine but they had very good personalities. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | what do you guys think about vardangerousHes like an exponentially more annoying version Adin Ross. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Pickup as medication for depressionThere's a tribe in Africa that don't recognise the colour blue. When we see blue they see only green. The reason is because there is no descriptive word for blue. Maybe you are correct and the situation is that previous to current times these disorders were diagnosed as something else. Like Miyamoto Musashi cause of death was cancer but it has only until modern times we know of "cancer". I also not denying their are mental health issues. I had a terrible experience post covid. Staring at the wal… | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Pickup as medication for depressionIt's not a judgement it's an observation. Many people who post here openly admit they are autistic, ADHD la la la etc. The whole idea of PUA (Mystery method) was to create a process that would ensure success with women. That's not an unfair take and I'm sure the PUA experts would agree. The people who designed and preached these ideas were not all socially lacking, take Julien RSD for example no one could say Julien was socially stunted. Bartek in YT is another example of a PUA who is socially v… | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 12:02 PM |
| -2 | Pickup as medication for depressionWhat do you not agree with exactly ?. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Pickup as medication for depressionWhat do you not agree with exactly?. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 11:33 AM |
| -3 | Pickup as medication for depressionthank you. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 10:55 AM |
| -6 | Pickup as medication for depressionTalking to women is addictive. I do it everyday not to pickup but just to hone my social skills . It's a fun thing to do. It's a lot of power to talk to a random person and observe how they warm to you. I don't think there's anything more going on than that. No. I believe the whole industry around mental health is a complete psyop. They are persuading and convincing people they have issues when they are just going through life. Life is complicated and hard. The level of brainwashing in society i… | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Help me change my thought processDon't mind me. | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Help me change my thought processOr breasts. I'm fully aware of that. It's the last part that made me lol. | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Help me change my thought processHere is a real life example. At work a girl accidently brushed her ass by my hand as she walked passed me and it caused a rush of feel good sensation to travel through her body as she uttered sounds of pleasure. The ridiculousness of that fable made laugh. | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 09:21 PM |
| -4 | How to Actually Build a Rotation, A No-BS BreakdownI don't know why the fuck anybody would want a rotation. You do things to elevate your life and move you forward in life. If you get an STD that is going to be something that will move you backward. Done the ONS it's a soulless pointless thing to do. None of the girls in your rotation will be your wife and they'll wreck you if they get mad. Not recommended. | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Can you have good game without doing 'gamey' things?Exactly. People with no social intelligence will tell you that. | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 08:19 AM |
| 0 | Can you have good game without doing 'gamey' things?You can do exactly the same with hypnosis. All you're doing is creating a state of altered consciousness. Just be likeable. | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 08:16 AM |
| 1 | How to flirt?!You have friends that are good at it so all you do is ask them. Hanging out with people just makes you better. I'm not Irish but being around Irish people transformed my personality to theirs. I'm indistinguishable from one. You go to your friends and say can I wing with you. Then learn. Regardless of you are serious there are women who will like that. You just have to own who you are and be authentic. Authenticity is the number one thing. When you're authentic you are not wasting energy being s… | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 07:08 AM |
| 2 | I seems to me that a lot of my limiting beliefs about dating came from consuming info on seduction and seduction methods. Is it just me?It's also the survivorship bias. Guys with really good dating stories don't gravitate to YT or reddit because they are living the dream. I actually come here to write to fix the issues I have after covid last year. In addition to losing all my social ability. I also forgot a tonne of my expansive vocabulary. I also have forgotten how to spell. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 10:16 AM |
| 1 | I seems to me that a lot of my limiting beliefs about dating came from consuming info on seduction and seduction methods. Is it just me?Yes. A lot of negative programming comes from this sub and the communities. I believe in the power of the mind because I watched my brother become a multi multi millionaire in 6 years. His mind-set is unstoppable. People who want to control you tell you that you are not enough. It's sad to think so many people both men and women believe they are not valuable. https://youtube.com/shorts/QUEOVD89OZA?si=vU1rWpdn43hMKVOB Learn how to control your mind rewrite your own internal scripts. This can be d… | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 10:11 AM |
| 1 | How many men actually have control on their dating life and what “special” about them?Improving is not hard done incrementally. It's only hard when you believe it is hard. Its also the mindset that women do not find attractive. We are men and we take ACTION. No matter how small action always yields the best results. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 09:50 AM |
| 0 | How many men actually have control on their dating life and what “special” about them?Its very simple. I could easily write 200,000 words on how I got here. I had so many girls into me yet I was not a chad. I had an advantage of being tall. There is no such thing as a natural just guys that had wins early life and built on it. For me it was about 20. I started to win. I was awkward at 16, kissed for the first time. After school went for a few courses. Talked to girls wasn't very good at it. I knew a girl through my mother. She used to make snide remarks about "my girlfriends" I h… | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 09:50 AM |
| 0 | How to cure Approach Anxiety (w actual SCIENCE)I don't have it much now because I used a hypnosis script I found on the Internet that rewires your brain to be relaxed when you meet girls. I actually purposefully go out of my way to meet attractive women I don't care if they like me or not. It's no big deal because there are so many nice girls to choose from. I also realised when you are in club meetups and talk to lots of people girls on real life can read that youre social and safe add that to a bit of charisma and likeability and your unst… | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 07:55 AM |
| 0 | The etiquette of giving complimentsRespectfully speaking you're an amateur. I have a far better way but I don't wish to share because then it just becomes part of of the echo chamber. I've done this in the past. The compliment depends on your own confidence and her level of confidence. You can say I think you're beautiful if you deliver it with 1000% confidence. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Ask DeadDogDefine "most". | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 07:34 AM |
| 1 | I smiled at her, but she looked away. Still approach?I can tell straight off. Just the other day I saw a girl at the bus stop. She Immediately started teasing her long hair with the fingers and kept doing it then when I was right beside her looked up. I see that a lot. Girls will look away and just at point of contact will look at you. It happens to me a lot. I'm a bit of an outlier though because I'm tall so a lot of people do look at me. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 07:34 AM |
| 0 | Attracting girls at the wrong timeThere is tremendous power in ignoring women. You are obviously a select man. Selected men are men that multiple women find attractive. I get the same. Ive always ignored women because I'm tall and a lot of people stare at me. When I was younger I used to be shy so I'd ignore women and as a result women would try to get my attention. Still happens in fact. If it happens it's really simple to break the ice. Just say " you know I was really having a bad day and I noticed you smiling. Your smile is … | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Let girls introduce other girls: One of the Easiest Ways to Meet Women (That Most Guys Sleep On)Houseshare with women. I used to house share with Russian girls and they liked me so much they brought all their friends to meet me. Virtually all of the girls she brought to meet me were amazing looking like bond girl hotness. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 07:05 AM |
| 2 | SECRET Technique I got during Spiritual energy practiceschatGPT | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Best way to meet and date new women.I never knew you needed non verbal communication to meet and date women. Ground breaking stuff. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Where are the best everyday places to meet women (like grocery stores, cafés, etc.)?Practice on PEOPLE. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 09:57 PM |
| 29 | How to Set Up Your Instagram for DatingThanks chatGPT | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Don't take steroids as a quick fix.If youre young you do not need it.At 21 I gained 3 stone in muscle with a home bench and 2 tins of tuna a day. | /r/seduction | 28/05/25 11:15 AM |
| -1 | The reason why you're not getting women is because you undervalue and overvalue yourself simultaneously1000% true. If she likes you she'll be submissive. That means she'll just accept what you say and try to please you. She may even like your hobbies. I've seen it anecdotally in my experiences. I watch the fresh and fit sometimes and I've seen those so called boss babes strong independent women become sheep in the presence of a man. It's all nonsense. I think it could be because I'm in the upper quartile of height for the population. I've met very few radical feminists ever. They are only on the … | /r/seduction | 28/05/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | being a wingwoman for my guy best friend seriously levels up his game with girlsI used to do the same back in the day for a girl I knew. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | being a wingwoman for my guy best friend seriously levels up his game with girlsConceived preselection is even better. You Don't have need a woman as a prop. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 08:54 PM |
| 0 | The reason why you're not getting women is because you undervalue and overvalue yourself simultaneouslyGo out in real life. I never use apps. Girls are just using you as entertainment. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 08:51 PM |
| 9 | The reason why you're not getting women is because you undervalue and overvalue yourself simultaneouslyIf you have ever had any experience with Irish guys they don't give a fck about being cool , skincare , being jacked and many are just average looking yet they can get absolutely gorgeous women especially the foreign south American ones. It's purely just confidence , humour and authenticity. No money or being 6 foot+. I think that's a complete lie perpetrated by people who are in the industry that swindles guys who need guidance. Yes you'll hear it all over the net and in the shows with fresh an… | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 08:43 PM |
| -2 | My insane level of rejection fear is ruining it for me M19I'm not going to reciprocate your slur because I don't know you nor care to either. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 10:07 AM |
| 2 | My insane level of rejection fear is ruining it for me M19Giving a shit about being creepy is the single most weakest thing a man can do and it is not attractive to women to be weak. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 06:04 AM |
| -7 | My insane level of rejection fear is ruining it for me M19So what. Just carry on as normal. Where's your testosterone?. I've done really embarrassing things and I met the girl the next day and guess what I did not give a fuck. Even when I was younger at 17 years old I had more balls than you. Why ? Because I'm a man and not a little bitch. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 05:59 AM |
| 3 | My insane level of rejection fear is ruining it for me M19You overcome it by changing your speech, loving yourself and also not reading the bullshite bad programming in this sub and YT comments. You're afraid because you have no social skills. Go out into the world and talk to people, help old people, be nice to old person from that build self worth and make yourself so busy you don't have time to overthink like a total loser. Get out of the losing mentality. Telling yourself you cannot do something is hypnotising you to fail. You can do anything when … | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 05:57 AM |
| -1 | It's mind-blowing the amount of double standards many women have—solutions?It's you and your choices. Take responsibility. They're are many attractive women who don't follow the feminist prerogative and are normal and may be even lonely. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 05:47 AM |
| 3 | If you’re struggling with opening….Ghey response. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Women with ugly duckling syndrome are superiorThis post is discombobulating. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | turning 25Go to Marisa peers YT channel and follow her video. Then look for a script that works for you. Her vids are very good. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | turning 25Self hypnosis or hypnosis. If you have severe mental health or trauma don't do it because it is tends to reorganise your thoughts. I had memories of really pleasant and also embarrassing moments that had long since faded. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 06:50 AM |
| 1 | I think I found the right mentality. Now we just have to learn it.It's called warmth and it's the main reason approaches don't work for a lot of guys. Display warmth and women will trust you. You can do this by genuinely feel loving feeling towards the girl you approach. When you make eye contact soften your gaze by making your eyes smile. I learned this from my Dad when a Russian girl I was with pointed it out that my Dad had smiling eyes. I of course had to research what it meant and I added it to my arsenal. This stuff works. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 06:38 AM |
| 1 | turning 25Your mindset is all wrong. That's just a coincidence. You need to overwrite the programs that run you on a daily basis. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 06:53 AM |
| 1 | I constantly take L's and its getting frustratingAll the good advice here gets lost in the noise. Even when women comment they are downvoted. The most upvotes comments are the ones that guys want to hear and not to necessarily the ones that are the truth. Write comments that are bland generic and non specific that are congruent with the mindset here and you will get upvotes. I don't do that instead I speak from actually learning the hard way but it wasn't necessarily difficult because I've attracted women right from my late teens to present da… | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 06:42 AM |
| 1 | How long does it take to learn game?The journey is far more important than the destination. It's not guaranteed that you will ever become good at it. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?Yes. I went from 12 stone to 17 stone @6'5 with a York home barbell set and bench. It's insane what motivation and compound presses can achieve. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?I would sooner spend that money on a hypnotist to rewrite your scripts. Having a really positive self image can do a lot more than any course or dating coach. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?Yes, I don't know because right from my teens I've always had interest from the opposite sex. Even as a nerdy skinny introverted guy I had girlfriends. It was only after I decided to go to the gym to bulk. I have no idea why I had girls follow me all the time. Some men just don't attract women. They can do what they want and still it has no effect. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?Don't worry. Your correct. Let stupid people win arguments. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 06:00 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop hating small talk?This guy fucks. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 05:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop hating small talk?That's a godawful boring response. You clearly do not know what small talk is. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 05:52 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop hating small talk?Your social skills are pitiful that's why you don't like small talk. I was looking at the comments here and by reading the responses I can authoritatively say not a single person has those skills. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 05:50 AM |
| 1 | I am a Good seducer in direct game but suck in Social GameGroup settings work for me because I have presence. I have developed myself to an extent that people listen to me when I talk because I am captivating. I am naturally funny which helps a lot. I've always been able to do that and it's something I love doing. I'm lucky that I have been exposed to people who had sublime social skills and I've picked it up. The reason I can do this is because in my minds eye I see me as a social person. I see myself as a guy who can just walk up to a group of girls … | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 05:36 AM |
| 1 | I don't get it.I would love to know what they are thinking. I was at a store walking up to the counter and a very attractive girl at the counter turned around and full on stared at me neutral expression. It's almost like they are studying me. Groups of girls stare at me normally but it's really obvious in pubs and clubs. When I walk into places women will look at me. I'm not amazingly hot but I must have something when this happens and I know it does not happen to every tall guy. My advice is drop the weight. … | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 07:23 AM |
| 0 | Never hear about "negging" anymore. What other ideas that used to be popular here have become outdated?You don't learn how to be alpha, you just are. No amount of gym will do this. You can tell by how people react to you. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Putting a girl in the friend zonePrevious trauma from not closing???. You don't know what the fuck trauma is. | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 05:58 AM |
| 2 | I don't get it.They stare at me too and I'm 6'5. I've had to get used to it because both men and women stare at me. I often wonder what they are thinking. If I'm in a position to interject I will to see if they are receptive. | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 05:53 AM |
| 3 | I got a female gym workout partner.If you are asking about how to create tension then don't do it. You need to be adept socially to do this carefully. You stand to lose here if you don't do it right. | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 05:49 AM |
| -27 | What are your guys favorite conversation starters to use?Don't reply to a question with a question. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Overheard: Steelpan artist and South American girlYes he was too full on. He demonstrated low value by being too interested. You read far too much to into it. If you go out a lot you'll notice that girls just interact with guys randomly with no intention of it going anywhere. Some of these girls have boyfriends others just playing around. It's a normal part of life. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 05:42 AM |
| -25 | What are your guys favorite conversation starters to use?First step: What do you understand by a thinking statement?. What do you understand by a feeling statement?. You need to start using your brain. Life isn't full of cheat codes. Give a man a fish he will eat for a day. Teach a man to fish he will eat for a lifetime. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 05:33 AM |
| -1 | What are your guys favorite conversation starters to use?You need a lot of social experience to do that. I do it naturally now but its something you need to practice. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 05:32 AM |
| 2 | 8 things you must do before you begin cold approachingUsing products with sodium lauryl sulphate is not good for your skin. It's essentially car engine degreaser. | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 09:47 PM |
| -22 | Why are women physically attracted to guys with a porn star profile?Male Pron stars are the biggest simps beta males on the planet. Whatever podcast proved that. F kin embarrassing. As for women being physically attracted that's a certain kind of woman. ... | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | slept with my friend's sisterI did that so many times. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 07:42 AM |
| 2 | How do you tell if she’s interested vs being friendly?Best answer | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 07:22 AM |
| 2 | How do you tell if she’s interested vs being friendly?She has a specific look when looking at you. First you must see what her baseline is with men she has no interest in vs men she is attracted to. This is because her personality will shift when she is in the company of men she likes. You'll see this frequently with groups of girls. They will talk quietly but if a man approaches they like they will instantly become animated and louder. The other case is you will hear them but when he approaches there's silence until he passes. That's the best indi… | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Lithium Orotate for approach anxiety?Try hypnosis. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 06:35 PM |
| 2 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.American girls maybe but not in Europe. European girls ard far more cultured. I've talked extensively about Art and Monet among other things. European girls way outclass US girls. They're in a totally different league. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 06:21 AM |
| 1 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.It horrifies me that this has so many upvotes. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 06:16 AM |
| 2 | "Be yourself" IS Good Advice....BUTIt's a personalised extrapolation of what you said. It's the duality of posts here. They're either market spiel like You're not good enough because you don't is have XYZ or like ours yes, you are good but you have to craft your own niche which is precisely how it works on the real world. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 06:15 AM |
| 3 | "Be yourself" IS Good Advice....BUTIt's telling of the demographic here. I haven't read your other post nor want to. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 06:07 AM |
| 2 | "Be yourself" IS Good Advice....BUTWhen I first started guitar I tried to learn other people's solos but I realized that I couldn't play like other people so then I started embracing my flaws and lack of technical ability and played like me. I found that too with PUA. I read the mystery Method and I only found one page useful the page on IOIs. I realised that even as a shy nervous geeky guy back in the day I had lots of attractive girls following me. I have no idea why. A girl sister said the reason why is because I was quirky an… | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Question for the unexplainable.Environment. Also if you are always talking to women and having fun other women can detect it. I don't go for weeks without interest but some days I can go to the whole day without any receptiveness from women. I did realise after COVID when I was recovering I had none due to my energy being low. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 07:17 AM |
| -1 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.Like they can walk into a room and all the women start gossiping, asking who he is, if he's single, etc. That's simply not true. Even as an attractive 6'5 man I only have a portion of the women that like me. Only as a high status ( celebrity) man that I would have that pull. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 07:13 AM |
| 23 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.And Ireland. Irish guys are very charismatic. Even the blandest looking guys can get beautiful women purely by gab. American guys have no rizz. We were in a pub a while back and these Irish girls started chatting to us. In come these American guys loud and demonstrably more attractive than we were then the girls left us and went to chat to them. Found out in 10 mins these guys were absolute gobshites and were back to talk to us. The thing is we had met some Brazilian girls who were nicer. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 06:06 AM |
| 2 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.You get the charisma from your genes I'm convinced of that. My mam was in hospitality a long time and I picked up a lot from her. I'm there now and it's fun. I've always wanted that to be like her , being likeable and charismatic is a super power. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.This is very easy to do with self hypnosis. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Creating the Dating Life You Want: What Worked for MeStop regurgitating shite. You didn't build jack. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Productive things I can do while stuck at home?Learn a language. Work on communication skills. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Why Don’t I Have Approach Anxiety? Is This Normal?If you're social you will have low anxiety. Not zero but have enough drive to push past this blocker. | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 07:38 AM |
| 1 | For the young lads, if you wish to catch the attention of women/ladies then this ones for youIf your veins are bluish then you have a cool skin tone. It's really that simple. As for colour matching just look at celebrities. Go for solid colours too. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 10:43 AM |
| 2 | How to get laid while travelling?For sure. That and or get scammed or worse. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | You’re Not Bad at Flirting - You’re Just Learning It the Wrong WayBuce Lee quote. | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Concerned about looksI'm bald. I used to worry about it until I met a beautiful girl who told me to shave it off and own it. Just own it, appreciate that some girls will not like you but many will because you're confident. Over time the scars will fade I know this because I had it too. | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:03 AM |
| 2 | I've read somewhere that men tend to have a wide range of preferences when it comes to being attracted to women, but about 80 percent of women prefer the same type of guy, who is tall and muscular and .... How true is that?When women say muscular they mean a swimmers physique not a jacked roid head. | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Bait car womenAI | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Best way to build or improve your inner gameLearning self hypnosis will help a lot. That's what I do. You are reprogramming your script with a better one. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you pull girls in clubs ?It's UK slang and its a normal expression. | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 07:00 AM |
| 2 | A beautiful girl said hi to me and I got nervous and walked awayIt happens to the best of us. Even experienced guys will just freeze at times. Just remember another opportunity is never far away. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach night game goes so bad every time>I even tried instead of just sitting there Build on that .Thats the mindset you need to get through the tough times. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksMy experience is not chasing but just observing the ones who indicate interest and capitalising on that. Generally girls who are interested will move in very close proximity to me and then may bump into me or turn and ask me to mind their drinks whatever. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Until what age can a man go to clubs and be very successful with women?Are you triggered by words. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | What are the girls like in Spain?Spain is relatively safe. You know that because police aren't that visible. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Until what age can a man go to clubs and be very successful with women?The definition of confidence. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Until what age can a man go to clubs and be very successful with women?I like hot 🔥 girls. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Until what age can a man go to clubs and be very successful with women?Its only online. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do?This convo is pathetic. Go out and mix socially and stop reading this crap and you're life will be fantastic. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 09:50 AM |
| 2 | What are the girls like in Spain?Telling stories lol. That stuff happens in Eastern Europe for sure but Spain i d k. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 12:12 AM |
| 0 | How Beginners Can Use Push and Pull To Flirt With Women EffortlesslyBasic | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 12:03 AM |
| 2 | What dance should I learn?Basic Salsa is pretty easy when you get the rhythm. People say its very difficult because people are not used to polyrhythms in dance music. 4/4 Rhythm has no pauses. Modern western music is 1-2-3-4 so its much easier to dance on the beat. Salsa is basically 1-2-3-4 -5-6-7-8. When you dance you count 1-2-3 pause then 5-6-7 pause. Best 4 and 8 are pauses. 1-2-3 pause is go forward and 5-6-7 pause is where you step back. I am not an expert but I do street dance reasonably well. If you practice cou… | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Is being an intense man a masculine trait?They most definitely do. | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 08:30 AM |
| 1 | The one cruel thing about cold approach that no one told me.I can't even comprehend that. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | The one cruel thing about cold approach that no one told me.I meditated for years and I have strong visualisation skills so it's very easy for me. The effectiveness of it depends on how much you believe it will help. You don't even have to do it yourself. Get a script and listen to it while you fall asleep. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 09:49 PM |
| 3 | The one cruel thing about cold approach that no one told me.What have you done.? I personally have read a tonne of books and you tube videos to understand it. I don't wish to disclose it because thats a short cut to the learning process that took me a long time to perfect. It works like magic I'm not afraid of anything whenever I get rejected my inner voice is controlled by me and not random thoughts. I am in control. It's worth learning about and spending every day doing it because when you can control how you think life is easy. Just YT "the last 5 min… | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How to rizz girls as a party bartenderHow can we give you advice when we don't work in the industry. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I pick up signs from woman!?!?!?If you approach and date enough women you'll instinctively know what women like you. You have to gauge what is her normal behaviour and what is her behaviour around guys she likes. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | What do we really mean when we say dont chase womenIt means you have options so women are chasing you indirectly and you may not even see it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:55 PM |
| 8 | The one cruel thing about cold approach that no one told me.I'm a musician and every time I go on stage for the first 10 mins I am nervous. I have learned to drive past the nerves and think of the rewards. I totally eliminated this by using self hypnosis. Even when I get rejected my self talk say onwards and upwards see whats next. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Date game: Always match her energyAgree 1000%. That article is pants. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Date game: Always match her energyAct like an authentic masculine man then she will match it with her feminity. That's my experience. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Slept with my friends cousinNot to mention friends sisters. | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 06:00 AM |
| 4 | Slept with my friends cousinI've done that 4 times lol. | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 07:23 PM |
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