Anonymous0212 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	The media staying silent about Amber Heard is a brutal display of how little society cares about men. This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/20 10:31 PM
7	The media staying silent about Amber Heard is a brutal display of how little society cares about men. I don’t know what country you live in, but here in the United States women absolutely do NOT have equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/20 10:11 PM
1	If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it Thanks! Same to you. He got married for the first time at 20 (then-Catholic who got his gf pregnant) and I was 24 the first time. He was an alcoholic and drug addict until 11 years before we met, so I was the first one he chose and married while clean and sober. Vastly different potential.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/20 05:29 AM
1	If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it He turned 67 in Feb and I’ll be 63 in June.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/20 05:23 AM
1	If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it I didn’t find out until months after we met that he literally knew the first second he met me that he was going to marry me - and he was engaged to someone else at the time, but it was going downhill fast. He grasped the concept of how old emotional wounds can show up in the present, and he shared my vision of creating an extraordinary marriage. TBH it did take some arm twisting at time, especially earlier on, but he eventually put it together that therapy was really getting us where he wanted t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/20 02:31 AM
1	If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it I knew the instant I met him that he was special, and within 15 minutes of our first lengthy conversation I knew he was the guy - which freaked me out, but my intuition was so strong I didn’t waiver. And the first four years were rough (not compared to the first two marriages, but still kind of shitty,) because he had some ways of handling his feelings that were extremely unproductive, but I hung in because I knew we were supposed to be together. He promised we’d get a specific type of professio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/20 02:27 AM
2	Seriously... What do the women here actually want from men? What is your biggest obstacle or gripe with men? What is it that you wish the posters here would understand? What would make the women here want to be with us? I want a man to understand that I don’t want him to think for me, do everything for me, or treat me like I’m crazy just because I may feel differently or see things differently than he does. I want someone who can understand that I have my own inner world, and I want somebody who is interested in that, not just sex. I’m speaking like I don’t have that, but I do. My husband loves that I’m extremely intelligent and that I’m a good partner, we make an excellent team. He was married to a “dumb blond…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:41 AM
6	Women who feel sexually attracted to beta traits My first two husbands were just controlling and aggressive, both were incredibly insecure and had to run around beating their chests to feel secure. Definitely fell under the label of toxic masculinity. The Keeper Husband is a mix of what are to me very attractive masculine traits, but also vulnerability. He’s strong, he’s really good at fixing almost anything, he won’t take crap from anybody, and he has also worked really hard in therapy to heal his past traumas so that he can be a kinder, more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:38 AM
1	"Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners." Do you agree with this? Not true for me. I appreciate any effort anyone makes to be successful - and truly happy, especially if it benefits their loved ones and society. The Keeper Husband was definitely a work in progress, and I tell him very often how much I appreciate how hard he’s worked and still works physically to take care of himself, and how incredibly hard he’s worked in therapy to heal his old traumas so he can be a more loving, calmer, more present partner. He’s a fucking amazing husband and I also tell him…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:35 AM
2	Why do men put in more effort when they think they are losing the girl? I am a woman, but I’m going to say that I suspect that for some men it’s the thrill of the chase, and once they get us then they lose interest? I also think that what a lot of people have said here is accurate, that relationships go through stages, and the intensity of a new relationship, where people are on their best behavior, spending a lot of time together, etc., simply isn’t realistic for the long term. This is why I think it’s important for people to be honest about boundaries, and talk ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:33 AM
3	Why do men put in more effort when they think they are losing the girl? This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:26 AM
2	How do women feel about men who struggle with mental illness? It depends on the mental illness. Schizophrenia, malignant narcissism, sociopath, hard no. The “softer” mental illnesses? If he took medication, saw a therapist as needed, was willing and able to keep a rigorous eye on his behavior, and was able to maintain loving, consistent behavior, maybe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:25 AM
2	If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it My first two husbands loved me to wear a lot of make up, high heels, etc. Fortunately the Keeper Husband doesn’t care about any of that, he prefers the natural look. (Kind of goes along with the underlying theme of the marriages anyway: they didn’t really care who I was inside, what my thoughts, feelings or needs really were, it was only about them being controlling and having me be who they wanted me to be. The Keeper truly sees and loves me for who I am and for who I am not, he doesn’t try to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:22 AM
1	If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it I don’t care about nail polish, but my husband loves putting it on me and seeing me wearing it. I don’t care as long as he’s willing to take responsibility for it. ;-)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:20 AM
16	The media staying silent about Amber Heard is a brutal display of how little society cares about men. Wow, it’s amazing how both sides barf out such negative generalizations of other genders. People aren’t that simplistic, that simply not how life works. I’m a cis woman, and I don’t feel or think at all how you’ve generalized women to be, nor do literally any of my women friends or even probably most of my cis female acquaintances, and neither does my daughter or probably most - if not all - of her friends. And... I’ve been a feminist for decades, I was alive when the movement started, and I’ve …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:19 AM
1	CMV: I think the level of hate that the Red Pill gets is uncalled for This is incredibly cynical, and an ideal method for never having a truly happy, successful relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/20 03:10 AM
1	*7 Things Men Do That Turns Women Off* I think a lot of this is very reasonable, but I have a general objection to the term “give your power away”. I don’t think that’s technically possible. We may choose to allow other people to make decisions for us, but if it were literally something someone else could take from us, we could never get it back without their permission. I’ve been an abused spouse and have worked with other abused partners, and I can tell you from vast personal experience that this cultural paradigm is completely irr…	/r/seduction	29/11/18 08:05 PM