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| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?hookup culture is full of thirsty spirits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?You can choose to not be with those women. Life can be much more than loose women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 02:11 AM |
| – | Why are ambiguous friendships and unreciprocated feelings causing so much uproar?methinks it's cuz ppl have different ideas of what constitutes a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 01:07 PM |
| – | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the sameOP put here with the most emo takes repping that username hard ); | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 01:05 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADwe shall undergo shin lengthening for centuries/s LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADmaybe game in the most broad sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Should people just give up and learn to be happy alone?well then I guess waiting for a greAt person is no rush then! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Is hookup culture accessible to teetotalers?it's called 2 "freaks" meeting. I am not into the risk/reward ratio at my current age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:09 AM |
| 0 | CMV: I think most of TRP tenets apply to American women onlytrp is just about general chick psychology, so not that complicated. Lots of grifters develop elaborate strategies based on it, but the fundamentals are just human psych stuff. It is not P.C. to talk about because it threatens communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:04 AM |
| 3 | CMV: I think most of TRP tenets apply to American women onlythe scientific method is about trying to disprove a hypothesis. I have not been able to disprove red pill ideas wrong because women I know match red pill ideas pretty spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?for sure. Mr. steal yo girl is moreso physically/mentally imposing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 07:52 AM |
| 1 | If a man is a late bloomer wouldn’t it be more natural for him to date down in age to where he would be more likely to find someone closer to him experience wise?Why are the people even together? That's my question, and I guess that suggests what my answer is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 07:33 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It is impossible to be sexually attracted to someone because of their money.It doesn't get men horny, but it can make women horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 02:59 PM |
| 34 | Debate Most Women aren't "trash wh**es", but it seems that way because off all the Redpill content/Podcasts where trash women get handpicked to make views.Rage bait show picks rage bait content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 02:57 PM |
| 3 | The Rise Of Male Subcultures is Disheartening.Tate is probably responsible for a million subs to TRP alone. Regardless of anything else that comes out of his mouth, that alone is a net positive. I don't think that person's actions resulted in net positives. Maybe for some individual person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | CMV: As a man if you're incapable of quickly getting a new girlfriend / hookup whenever you want, you cannot hope to have a healthy, mutually beneficial relationship with your current one or the one you're going to work hard to get.Terminally online take IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that it should be illegal for people to charge money for sex?what are considered drugs? heh! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 03:38 PM |
| – | Why do men and women feel like we need to rely on some generalizations of the sex we are attracted to?I know that a lot of people find comfort in starting from a baseline set of assumptions first which is why there are schools of thought like the ones on this sub. Why do you think this is though? Time Efficiency? Losing hope/fear? Both? Both. Why not be realistic with what MIGHT arise. For me, it's just about being not surprised if certain gendered stereotypes arise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Are male celebrities more likely to date fans than female celebrities?they sure do! they don't have as much to offer though, yknoow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Is love just a societal construct that we've been conditioned to believe in?I'm very rushed rn, but I just wanted to say that love is work. Find someone you want to "work" for, in a holistic sense. This is one of the reasons character compatability is important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION: Are autistic men just "lazy" when it comes to dating, friendship and employment struggles?wtf lol, is what I think. Im wondering if blue pill is supposed to mean hope here, in this post, and red pill is supposed to mean no hope???? i don't think of things like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill?holy crap! my condolences, man. Stay up :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill?hot DAYUM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 03:05 AM |
| 13 | Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill?Damn, ur dad sounds cool for saying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 03:03 AM |
| – | There are no guys who "just know it", they are just (consciously or not) applying the AAA (always assume attraction) principleI sure don't assume attraction. I don't assume much of anything unless I get a sign. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 02:57 AM |
| – | There are no guys who "just know it", they are just (consciously or not) applying the AAA (always assume attraction) principleConfidence still makes a big difference in my experience. No confidence, well, chicks ain't usually gonna make a move first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 02:55 AM |
| 5 | Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecuritiesI’ve never see a woman being obsessed with finding a partner I've seen this plenty. That said, those girls don't usually have "lives," and are depressed, poor, and addicts. They are disgruntled and easily prone to anger. The guys being mean may absolutely be projecting, and/or coping via a revenge fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | What other matchmaking pairing system do you think could replace the current dating system in place?i like thinking about volunteering and stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Men empathize with lonely women. Women are disgusted by lonely menThat's my understanding too. It's a man's world and it's scary even as a single man living in a man's world. It would disgust me too if my supposed protector was avoiding responsibility. Imagine your superhero or local cop prone to just "nope-ing" out of situations when they looked difficult! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Can feminine men be in a relationship with feminine women? can masculine men be in a relationship with a masculine woman? or does there always need to be balanceThey'll have to be compatible in some way, so balance is stuck either way. I know plenty of hen-pecked tough guys, so the dom/sub dynamic can flip around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 03:58 AM |
| 0 | The more you understand women, the less you'll fall in love them.Sometimes less is more: quality over quantity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Sex work is not empowering for women , its derogatory and benefits no onepron definitely helped me not be seduced by women that would have been terrible mothers and wives. Saved me from all the risks that come with seeking a physical route. I don't like professional pron | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Question for women: Why do you disagree with the manosphere's explanation of the "MECHANISM" through which dating apps & hookup culture destroy dating, courtship, and formation of relationships? Do you have alternate explanations?I wanna give your post a super like. So well put. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a shame in expressing your masculinity?I have been triggered by this post. Acting docile and submissive in front of women in order to not be "an aggressive dangerous man" You can act a gentleman. That's masculine. You ever seen a tough guy help out the elderly or play with a small child? Like that Not talking about your sexual desires so that women think you are "good" I don't want to hear women talk about their sexual desires either, unless they're my partner. Not indulging in dark or sexual humour with women in order to not "be a t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 05:01 PM |
| 5 | So what would the dating realm be like if more men practiced self-actualization or at the very least, self-influencing, as opposed to always having that dire need to always impress women/others? Would the pace of competition change?this reminds me of the benefits of minimizing social media by both sexes. more mindfulness is nice. People strive so hard to be normal and accepted; I cut them slack | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 02:57 PM |
| – | Debunking normie advice pt 1: "go back to school and get a real job"Money and status will get you more options, but then you better stay in that status and money bracket or else!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:54 PM |
| 9 | Why do fathers react so differently to the idea of their daughters dating?From my experience, it's not that dad's are worried their daughters will be raped by their boyfriends. It's moreso that the dads are worried their daughters will be played and seduced by shiny things that aren't figuratively gold. I've known mothers worried for their sons too, but those mothers are usually more low key about their suspicions. Similarly, wives are sometimes wary of women befriending their man. "Oh I thought men were just lying about all these women being treacherous two-faced pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:38 AM |
| 6 | What do women here think of low value men who are aware that they are low value?I'm just curious if women can handle being in the same room as something like me "Something like me." I wish you well. Your self hatred may seep out into your behaviors. People may try and keep their distance if they sense someone is harboring deep darkness and loathing. You don't have to accept yourself as anywhere near "perfect" in order to accept that you are where you are at. The cool women I know would prefer to hang out with a butt ugly and cripplingly poor man who tries to love himself an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | What do women here think of low value men who are aware that they are low value?Like with the people at Trixie Mattel's funeral, may the people at your funeral go to the podium and say, "........she ate." https://youtube.com/shorts/ogxJsFFcSng?si=a4jblR75z_GnkDO9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:52 PM |
| 7 | What do women here think of low value men who are aware that they are low value?I hope everyone finds companionship and love🤷♀️. Why would you ever hope that? Why would we not? Most people are basically the same and everyone is easily replaceable This not how I see things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:49 PM |
| 0 | What do women here think of low value men who are aware that they are low value?how are u a HUNGRY chick when u are so FULL of it? Full of a nice perspective, that is ;P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:35 PM |
| 20 | Older women are way easier to manipulate than younger girls30+ grannies LOL this foo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:23 PM |
| 9 | Older women are way easier to manipulate than younger girlsFkn based response. I like this comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants?you can tell if the cream has risen to the top. OH YOU'RE SPEAKING MY MACHO MAN LANGUAGE NOW, BROTHER ;P. You, me, and the macho man Randy Savage are all in agreement here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants?It's a lifestyle choice. He wouldn't be a player of he wasn't playing!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Most RP tactics and thought process are driven by a man’s abandonment issues.I differentiate between "RP creators" and TRP in general. Some people will claim a label and then run some radical direction with it, like in any group. I dislike many RP creators, and I believe I view them in a similar light to you, based on what is written in your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:09 PM |
| – | In the west, there will be very minimal tolerance of bad sex for either genderDude, if she dumps you because you weren't good in bed when you first got together, let the trash take itself out. She wasn't with you for the right reasons. If you have low standards for who you hookup with, solely to "get experience," get ready for numerous risks. There is risk for STDs, jilted lovers looking for revenge, pregnancies with people you do not want to be with, getting involved with the wrong crowd, etc. What if she is low body count, or STD free and expects the same from you? An a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | TRP caps your potential and inhibits your ability to effectively pursue what you truly wantTRP encourages one path of gaining companionship as the "true" way. There are "TRP cultures" that note these things. However, there's also "TRP" as just being some hard to swallow truths about general patterns of human psychology. Those are more like things to be aware of. "TRP cultures" will suggest a dating strategy based on those psychological factors, but that isn't "TRP" at the root, in my opinion. TRP discourages men from developing other intangible qualities, when developed are just as ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 04:29 PM |
| 3 | TRP caps your potential and inhibits your ability to effectively pursue what you truly wantThe real red pill I agree is just information. "TRP" is also associated with groups online that advocate for the type of dating strategy noted by OP as "TRP"" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:58 PM |
| – | We shouldn't believe in "pills" we should believe whatever makes us the happiestwe should believe whatever makes us the happiest That seems like a path to willful ignorance, and that can be very dangerous. Maybe they will grow up detached or messed up without their birth mother, but as long as I've passed down my genes and all my accumulated wealth. I can die with a smile across my face. well that's not very spiritual and rather disturbing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:46 PM |
| 0 | Women talking about TRP resembles a creative writing exercise, they're mostly just bullshitting.Some people claim a label (R.P. in this instance) then go off being toxic, so outsiders can understandably be confused and disturbed. It's like with any group where outsiders may see a negative stereotype and then generalize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Wh do some people feel so desperate to not be a virgin especially under 20validation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?id be acting like him if I had the commercial levels of women idolizing me too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | how “male feminists” embody toxic masculinitysome dudes be weirdos, for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:32 PM |
| 4 | how “male feminists” embody toxic masculinityI claimed it because I was egalitarian. I still believe in lots of it. I like Esther Vilar because she calls out a lot of b.s. from people who call themselves feminist but seem to be full of b.s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:29 PM |
| 6 | Nuances on friendship between men and womenYes, but what can a women provide a man in a non-romantic relationship? Friendship. Things that friends do for each other. I'm lucky to have some cool girl friends it seems. Women are passive-aggressive. Men are direct. Women idealize. Men don't. So on an so forth. I have seen both sexes do both of those things. My girl friends are direct. Men have needs that women can meet but apparently that offends you What's offensive is someone saying that men can't be friends with women because a man cant … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Nuances on friendship between men and womenI am friends with my gay friends who think I'm hot, and they know I'm not gay. Feels good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Nuances on friendship between men and womenyou desperately want to convince other people of something that is obviously not beneficial for men. I like my friendships with women. They are very beneficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it the norm for woman to feel threatened by men in social settins in the US?You live in a small town, and that makes a difference. In big U.S. cities, most people are strangers, which makes it great for predators, especially when hard drugs and alcohol are very prevalent. In the streets, again, total strangers you may have never seen and will never see again. Also, a lot of rape is date rape where alcohol and other drugs are involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing?maybe she gets horny even after climaxing when it's in her cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.When I really get to know someone, all their superficial aspects seem like such a facade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.In some circles that call themselves red pill, absolutely, and in a disturbing sense. Some circles are like any other political movement that take a few truths and then run in some extreme direction with it. Red pill assertions are just hard to swallow generalizations about human nature; hard to swallow for people who have been raised on blue pill ideology their whole life. You have to watch out because there are, again, forces that will say "we speak the red pill truth," and then make all these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:03 PM |
| 0 | RedPillers: if women are basically children, why do you not look after them like they’re children?I kept being under the impression they weren't shitty when I started dating them, Jesus. Let's start up blaming the beaten and dead women for dating shitty men while we're at it. Everyone's invited! JK :| | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:24 PM |
| 0 | RedPillers: if women are basically children, why do you not look after them like they’re children?unfortunately it is a thing that has happened repeatedly to some people who cared about their partner very much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea?bro, it's called gay clubs!!! MYSTERY SOLVED ;0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea?what do you mean ur "no pilled!?!?!?" mykonos-panda-pilled!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:33 AM |
| 4 | Men should be able to "emotionally cheat"I just have friends/pals of all sexes and it's all good. I'll meet somebody maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:32 AM |
| 11 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?value is tied to looks this doesn't resonate with me because I'm interested in a super LTR, and character is I dare say more important. It shines through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:30 AM |
| 0 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?what popcorn do you recommend? i am genuinely curious; I likes popcorns | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:29 AM |
| 0 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?Men repeatedly say they can’t have sex with a woman’s personality/character/education etc so her attitude is irrelevant to them oh goodness, that is not me saying that. Her defining and ultimate value is her youth and beauty. maybe those silly guys are going to get trapped with a woman who is not ready to be a wife or mother then. Maybe those guys are just trying to score some in then out. Men argue that they’d rather chose an emotionally immature 20 year old with smooth skin than a 30 year old … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:28 AM |
| -1 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?that's a good point. i was just planning to give a snarky response, but I like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:17 AM |
| 2 | If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after himhate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him maybe for the people you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 09:52 PM |
| 9 | What is an unpopular dating opinion you have about your gender?Bluepill greatest hits 🤣 i didn't expect this phrasing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 09:31 PM |
| 0 | What do you believe is the benefit of your specific "Pill" philosophy?sounds like u are SERIOUS-pilled! ;3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 07:15 PM |
| 0 | What do you believe is the benefit of your specific "Pill" philosophy?I dated guys who were shorter than me and they would constantly mention it like "would you rather be with that guy because he's tall" or "can you not wear heels, I don't want to feel so short" or " I suppose you'd rather be with someone taller" and it was out of nowhere because I didn't tend to be attracted to tall guys. Oh goodness, those comments sound insufferable. I'm sorry you had to deal with that!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 07:12 PM |
| – | How do you approach dating knowing full well you’re going into it with your judgement impaired.so instead I just build a massive wall with archers LOL, that's a mood, or a "lifestyle." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 06:45 PM |
| – | How do you approach dating knowing full well you’re going into it with your judgement impaired.I look for character first and foremost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else think flirting is so embarrassing?It’s just being friendly while also being a bit cheeky I've been looking for a good way to word things, and this is it! Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else think flirting is so embarrassing?I agree it hurts to over analyze a word. The thing is people have different ideas of flirting. My good friend just learned people think he's a huge flirt. He just likes giving people compliments and giving them the handsome eyes. He doesn't cringe at giving honest compliments, but he cringes at the thought he might have been making people uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else think flirting is so embarrassing?Many people in my current town take compliments as flirting, for better and for worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 09:34 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else think flirting is so embarrassing?it needs fixing *potentially having sexual relations with your mother. LOL jk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 09:33 PM |
| 2 | How do you explain your dating struggles to your parents?They know I have hella issues I'm somewhat working on LOL. They know I'm still tryna find my groove. They also know they employed some "silly" parenting techniques when I was younger, so they're nice to me lest I remind them of those "silly" techniques they so confidently employed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Do most people settle or just have lowly standards?I got my priorities checked, so I look forward stuff that matters. So now I have higher standards for character, and lower standards for things that don't seem to matter as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:44 PM |
| 2 | What age is it weird to still live at home?I know lots of people don't mind it at all. Lots of cultures in my neighborhood has all the family living together even after people get married! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?men who have experienced patterns associated with a particular activity are poor? eh!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?most of the female fighters I know are really nice people and the ones who have kids are great mothers. Nice!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?i c what you did there ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?Fuck all that damsel in distress, hewp me daddy I'm just a siwwy girl take care of me submissive bullshit From what I've seen, it gets way worse with age too. I've seen it in old ladies and it's disturbing. Perma-victim mode is infuriating in any sex!! Ahh!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?I saved this comment. It's particularly beautiful to me. Lots of other nice comments in this general thread today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?Like, it's cool if you think you are "amazing" relative to other people, but can you imagine going out and saying that stuff? I'd be like, "are you serious?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?Abigail is gorgeous but there’s 2 issues. First, she lives in Springfield, MO LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?I hear you. I would say gut and experience are useful things to base one's hesitancy on, if for no other reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 11:01 AM |
| 1 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?How do people connect with community members in general? That's probably how. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 03:56 AM |
| 3 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?Of course the outcome in the long run is not great I am interested in a LTR. If it was that bad, it would had become illegal. I disagree with this statement. BuT tHaT iS wRoNg? So what? It is not illegal and millions of women get away with this behavior. Why? Because it works all of the time. You don't think it's wrong it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 03:55 AM |
| -1 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?to me, if she's quick to chase a nut, what's saying she will be disciplined in our LTR. Like, girl is easily seduced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 03:42 AM |
| – | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?men good, women bad? :(. How many men do you hang out with? Unless she is a wife, plenty of guy talk is about the booty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Is the hope of a relationship more important than the relationship itself?A relationship should never be considered a prize, nor should it be considered a “way to have your sexual needs met.” Yeah, it can be nice in those ways, but people I know will treat obtaining a relationship like an ignorant kid treats getting a puppy. They think, "I won," and aren't aware that this is the beginning of a new chapter of responsibility. For this reason, people I know recommend avoiding sex while getting to know a person. Maybe one cranks one out before hanging out with their partn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:47 AM |
| 4 | Is the hope of a relationship more important than the relationship itself?I love the way you put things. Many such cases of that unfortunate situation mentioned at the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Is the hope of a relationship more important than the relationship itself?That image has bearing in reality for some people. For other people it does not. The machine promises people earthly rewards. As people mature, they realize that earthly rewards are not guaranteed, and then people do what they will with their spiritual / existential beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Is the hope of a relationship more important than the relationship itself?i saved this comment. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Is the hope of a relationship more important than the relationship itself?i like your comment. I found something to expand upon. Boy becomes a man when he ditches the selfish "ME ME ME" attitude and embraces responsibility for others. It's a balance to be struck. I was very subservient from being told I always had to look out for others as opposed to myself. Many people say me as just a boy because of my intense subservience. People looked at me like a creepy nice guy: y'know. Now that I am more selfish, in a more healthy, holistic way, people seem to see me as a man.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenLOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:59 AM |
| 12 | Q4W: For those who have experienced this - why do males approach less nowadays?/#metoo was 7 years ago. If a sick woman is bored and wants attention, she can take a photo of a guy who politely approached her and claim he was sexually harassing her when all she wanted to do was work out. If that lie goes viral, he can get fired from his job or worse. Disturbing predators love to falsely claim victimhood; it's politics 101. Men can't tell a woman's character by looking at them. /#BelieveAllWomen was an actual thing, and still is for many people. It's politically correct in c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Does my dating story mean other guys can have hope?Many 'different' traits aren't a death sentence for dating. There's so much social comparison and social pressure from peers in one's 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Does anybody else feel ostracized from their supposed genders “nature”of course! The more people you meet, especially in areas where people don't feel pressure to confirm to gender stereotypes, the more you will see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Does anybody else feel ostracized from their supposed genders “nature”omg LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Women are the ones slowly destroying the dating market without knowingPlenty of men are too, through the course of their own actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:16 AM |
| 6 | Women are the ones slowly destroying the dating market without knowingMy girl is a little different. I'm a little different. So, this doesn't really apply to me. We're both dating up and dating down in different ways. Women may also blossom. It really depends on the eye of the beholder. I think it's a struggle for anyone to improve themselves, and it's a struggle for anyone to find someone really compatible. The person getting more dates is also getting more people projecting a fantasy onto the other person's appearances. Character uber alles in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:12 AM |
| – | Women are the ones slowly destroying the dating market without knowingLMAO. hey bro, we need to archive this OP post because it is epic. He will show his daughters this post, and we shall too, but perhaps in a different context :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:00 AM |
| – | Non Western simps in the West are patheticone of the best comments in this thread, imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 11:53 PM |
| – | Non Western simps in the West are patheticfr. i don't think he came for a debate. i think he came for an argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel that growing up in strict, religious environments makes men lack confidence?I agree. I know a very non Christian household where the adult son is absolutely stunted because the dad is/was a psychologically abusive, insidiously manipulative individual. No matter how much he obeyed and accomplished, he wasn't accepted or respected; his dad knew how to keep him feeling guilty and subservient :(. If he did action A like family wanted, family complained he wasn't doing action B, then vice versa. Even when he would leave, he would come back because he placed so much importanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel that growing up in strict, religious environments makes men lack confidence?some traps are with honey; watch out guys! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?What do you mean, "you people!?!?!?!?" >;)It can feel sad to be rejected. It can be hard to be a bro with someone you feel heartbroken around. I may need some time between being rejected for a job, and volunteering for that company in that capacity. It can be a little heartbreaking, y'know? Plus, some women have commented that the offers of friendship should be clearly understood as a white lie, so OP asked a good question. If the offers are white lies, OP asked a very good question, as it turne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:22 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?I think some people get defensive with the 'dick' element because they may have been resonating with a person on a non-romantic level. So, when it becomes clear the other party had romance on their mind the whole time, the platonic-minded person can be taken aback, as they were unaware of the emotional undercurrent in the other party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?This is how I want to word things; thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?LOL yes! Hey man, I like your post and think your post in this sub was a good and honest question. ln my experience, chicks who say "let's be friends" are down to be acquaintances, at least when they have the upper hand! If you start dating someone steady and they are stuck single and pining for you, they might get salty and sad. I know I like friends and acquaintances who find me attractive ;)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?For me too it usually ends in acquaintances. However, I know my place and usually ain't gonna make a move until I like them as a person, so I'm still nice friends with a few. Not after a relationship though :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?eyyy, I agreeee! No one has to cheat for there to be sexual tension ;p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?Some women keep men along for the free food and validation. Which should be illegal. I keep my ex gf's mom around for more than free food and validation; I swear! ;3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?if someone likes me, I ain't mad if they still wanna be my fan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:44 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?if my friendship with a friend petered out after high school, does that mean I was just using him for his mom's snacks the entire time!?!?!? Was I born solely to die!?!? aaaaaaah! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Those dudes sound annoying and like raging hypocrites. I think it would make sense to be offended if any partner makes it clear they are "settling." Who wants to hear how their partner has their gaze out the window? I don't know raging hypocrites like the ones you speak of. If I do, they don't whine to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:36 AM |
| 3 | When did small penis become synonymous with insecure?one that has an anatomy that matches yours So one that prefers 6 or 7 inches instead of 8? That ain't small. Where is this 4 inch or less anatomy match?? LOOOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:22 AM |
| 2 | When did small penis become synonymous with insecure?fr. Dang Zagnut's son def isn't a woman. Dang Zagnut was big on r mgtow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | When did small penis become synonymous with insecure?You're getting a "real blow" on your something most no one sees? LUCKY! ;3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:08 AM |
| 1 | When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs.Or ask if they are cool with either one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs.If I see yours has raised lettering, while mine doesn't, I'm gonna be fkn PISSED. I'm a classy gentlesir, though, so I won't show you my sentiment at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:01 AM |
| 1 | “Self Worth” is a silly concept. Your worth is determined by others, not you.OP, SELF WORTH MEANS your worth to yourSELF. Outside influences can affect the judgement for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:18 PM |
| 3 | What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30Dude, in my 20s I hated myself so much. I fell for superficial things too, and judged myself so harshly for things that really didn't matter. Also, if you thinking a career or money or anything entitles you to any type of future, well, it doesn't. You can roll the dice a certain way, but there are pros and cons with lots of life avenues. I think when you reach 30, hopefully you will see that you are a human, and so are lots of other people, for better or for worse. When I was in my 20s I judged … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:10 PM |
| 2 | To most women, a "real man" is a man who caters to them and is easy to control.One who isn't remotely controllable except by the allure of the _____. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | To most women, a "real man" is a man who caters to them and is easy to control.I think their point was that "real man" is defined by social norms. The term already doesn't have to do with what is right or wrong to ourselves. We're talking about the "real man" meme, not what you and I think is right. The whole idea of "real man" isn't defined by oneself. It's defined by some standard that keeps men bound for better or for worse. I think that's what they meant when they said, "that's not how this works" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 06:29 PM |
| 12 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesThis is an underrated point in general. I tried to impress my ex girlfriend with my appearances and social status. I was shocked when I discovered she liked me mainly for my appearances and social status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itAre you looking to have your mind changed? If you're going to be defensive, I'm sure you could argue a point forever if you don't want to acknowledge the points others make. I just wanted to say that first. I'd say a good way to frame things is that things are fun and games until someone loses an eye. If I have seen the consequences, and the risks/problems versus rewards make it not worth it to me, I may not participate in something because I don't like the real, potential consequences for my ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 05:42 PM |
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