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Thank you man seriously. I actually stop smoking and drinking for like 2 almost 3 months since all this started happening. I did have a drink on New years but I didnt get drunk at all. I havent been sober in like 15 years.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 07:26 AM
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We are still married though. Idk I never wanted this at all. You are right though
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 07:18 AM
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Its driving me insane not knowing what she did! I feel like it would put my mind at rest if that makes sense.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 07:07 AM
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Do you feel like you need to change? If you feel the need to change personally and feel like you can better yourself for YOURSELF and not hers then do it! I would just focus on yourself and go with the flow brother. If it happens it happens. Can’t force anything at all. I would go through with everything, lawyer up and all. Be prepared for the worst. Stay focused on yourself though and grow to be a better you for YOU! Stay strong brotheren!💪🏾
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/23 08:02 PM
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Nah bro it’s humiliating on her part! She put herself out there while married and ended up pregnant by someone she doesn’t know… she sounds and is looking like complete whore trash to everyone else…. That’s humiliating brother. Don’t feel this way. Keep your head up brotheren! Stay strong!💪🏾
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 04:35 PM
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Yeah man, just do it in a public place then if you don’t want that pressure of her pressing you like that. My ex tried hard to get me alone to try to “talk” when all she wanted was some. Glad to hear you’re back to yourself and sorry you had to go through any of that. Stay strong brother 💪🏾
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 12:24 AM
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Pito as in dick. I wouldn’t give it to her then if that’s what she wants. If you want to possibly reconcile, feel things out for sure. Like I said don’t rush it by any means. Make sure YOU know she took that time away to focus on herself and make some serious changes on who SHE is. Maybe go out a few times and see how things are brother.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 12:14 AM
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Yeah for sure. She may even want some pito again for the one time. If you don’t want her back or give her some pito, maybe meet up in a public place so you can avoid those situations. If you decide to take her back, I would first see if she has made the effort to fix what she was doing wrong. See if she has been working on herself and changing to be a better woman than she was. Maybe not rush it right away you know. If you wanna give just the pito then just do that! Don’t get in your feelings af…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 11:36 PM
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Man bro, do you! You DON’T have to do what everyone else wants you to do. That even means from your parents. You meet the right girl and all you will know what you want. The decision is completely up to you and nobody else’s. If you get married from purely pure pressure, I’m sure theres a high chance of it not even working out. I understand why you wouldn’t want children. Not sure of the risk factor of it getting passed down and all, I would be nervous too. If you do decide to have children and …
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 02:37 PM
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I read that and instant thought was she probably cheating on his ass and he doesn’t care, maybe he’s cheating too! Even he probably doesn’t even know about it! I can be wrong and they could be happily married with no infidelity, but the odds are probably slim. She cheated on you and will do it again in the future!
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 05:49 PM
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Right lmaooo
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 05:39 PM
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I just set up a few just now actually
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 04:59 PM
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Just read that in Illinois you can’t get an annulment actually. We would have to ask the judge for a judgment of invalidity. I am going to set up a free consultation with a lawyer and pick their brains.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 03:08 PM
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Thank you brother
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 12:44 PM
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Good, I’m going to bring it up and try making arrangements as soon as I can. Get this done and over with.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 12:42 PM
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Didn’t know people couldn’t put two and two together though?
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 12:10 PM
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Didnt know i had to stat it was before we got married though as we have been married for only 6 months and have a 2 and 1yr old. Will do in future though
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 11:45 AM
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Thank you 🙏🏾
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 08:47 AM
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We had them before we got married? Come on bro lol
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 08:46 AM
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Like a reason like I was forced or something?
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 05:06 AM
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I read a little about that. I would need a good read though right?
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 05:06 AM
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Thank you brother! It’s been a month since she told me yes. Still doesn’t know what she wants so she says. I have just landed a job but won’t start until January 8th. I’m trying to find something in the meantime. She starts work next Thursday. I lost my job a couple weeks ago due to her and the kids being sick so i had to call off and stay home…
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 11:23 PM
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Love this. Fuck her!!
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 10:25 PM
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I’m sorry you’re going through this brother. I don’t have any advice at all for you as I’m going through some stuff for the first time as well. Keep your head up my guy. Stay positive brotheren
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 08:18 PM
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Thanks brother! You stay up as well my guy! Thank you again🙏🏾
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 06:31 PM
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Honestly never thought of that 😂😂😂 Thank you! To be honest you’re the only person that has congratulated me! Even in my personal life as nobody really seems to care. It’s so hard as I have always went to substances as an outlet to escape reality.. I appreciate you man, seriously.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 05:03 PM
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I am completely sober after 15 years. It had been a month of not pickinv up a drink, weed, or a cigarette…. I really want to smoke a whole pack right now
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 02:08 PM
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Wish I could just spend it with my kids
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 04:10 AM
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No lube huh?
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 12:17 AM
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Already have 2 kids l together…..
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 11:40 PM
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We have been having financial problems for a while now plus she brings up how i looked at women in the past like on social media and at the stores. This was before our marriage. I guess it never got resolved. We have been forced to live with her mother due to not having any money to get into a new place! We have been having roaches because of a new family moved into the building.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 10:07 PM
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Not sure. Think a lawyer could answer that question or even calling up to the courts and asking?
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 06:19 PM
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It sucks because we have been in a financial pickle all year and playing g catch up on bills. We just moved into her moms house and have no money at all… I don’t even know where to go honestly.. I feel stuck here and trapped. She’s messing with my emotions this way. Making it way harder to even think/sleep/eat. I told her there is no “breaks” in a marriage and she said well she wants to be by herself because she needs to fix herself and be happy again..
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 05:27 PM
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Honestly we will probably do 50/50 she alreadys knows that unless for some reason she flips shit you know hahaha
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 01:11 PM
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