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Great perspective and advice.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 05:10 AM
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No, my own experience and my observation tells me "laid back" and "safe". When i read redpill and incel writings, i notice that they think being aggressive is the same as having confidence. No, you can be confident, laid back, chill.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 01:59 PM
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I know what you mean. It's the opposite of laid back. I see a lot of these aggressive guys, the ones who try to pick up women but get shot down most of the time.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 10:40 AM
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You answered your own question in the bottom part of your post. Also, if you just want to hookup - you have to find people who want to do the same, instead of people who want to date - put yourself in situations where there will be like-minded people - you need good social skills, be chill, laid back, and "safe" (the way you describe yourself, "aggressive" etc, that's doesn't sound like people I know that hook up a lot)
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 09:07 AM
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I'd talk to my partner about what's bothering me. What's acceptable and what's not. Normally that's enough for them to make changes or "negotiate" a compromise that's accepted by both. If it's just specific actions that you find unacceptable, it's quite likely that the partner could accomodate your request. But if it's a viewpoint, philosophy, mindset, values... If those are not compatible with or acceptable to you, then you have to look inside yourself and decide if you can live with such a par…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 07:52 AM
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Maybe there is. The thing about socmed and tv/movies (and porn) - I'm looking at "caricatures", some kind of distilled fantasy. It's all visual, the makeup, hair, lights, clothes... Then I fill the information gap with my own projections. In real life it's a bit different. Many times I saw celebrities in real life and went "meh". My own partner has socmed and seeing it is like looking at a different person.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 04:58 AM
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Dude, I'm a guy and what you wrote doesnt describe me. I like beautiful women, yes, but what I find beautiful is not the same as what my friends find beautiful. I could go "whoa" but my friends would be like "meh". Cooking? Couldnt care less.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 04:39 AM
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Yeah that statement made me raise my eyebrows. Despite what I see on tv/movies or read on the internet, IRL in my own social circle, the majority are in marriages/relationships, or are looking for a long term partner. Yes there are some who only have casual sex, but that's not most people. And the only people who care about "being first" are religious ones. In any case, what people want in their love life (casual or long term), that's not related to trust or loyalty. You have good and bad people…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 12:48 PM
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Well you need to be able to talk to women. "Cold approach" sounds so PUA... In reality you need to be able to make small talk with people in general, and among those maybe there'll be women who are interested in you. Took me some time to practice it, but it makes it so much easier.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 08:20 AM
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Debating gender on Reddit is not a hobby. Not one that nakes you attractive, anyway. If your hobbies are mostly male-dominated, I'd try other things. - Dating apps are not bad. - Anything to do with music: live bands, concerts - Socializing: there are apps and websites for people to get together without a specific hobby, for example walks, talks, events (art show, galleries) - Start with public events. Then as you make more friends you'll start getting invited to private events like barbecues, b…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 08:10 AM
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Like another commenter said, it's not a social setting. It's normal for people to just want to do their jobs. I'd still be friendly and say something like "hi how are you?" and smile. Do you meet people at social settings?
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 06:00 AM
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Like what the others said. What is the "right direction"? There are billions of us, dating, finding partners, getting married, etc, most of which do not follow kim kardashian or redpill or whatever. And also, let people be people. Let you be you. Why the need to control how others behave, if they don't affect your rights, privacy, and so on?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 08:38 AM
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I agree with the original commenter. The 2nd to last sentence, I'd like to emphasize that: get off your computer, get out, and socialize. We are social beings. Socially adept people are more attractive. And social skills can be learned, and should be learned. Irritiating and exausting to deal with... Yeah sometimes. But as with anything, it gets easier with practice.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 08:21 AM
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Lol, NO.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 02:19 PM
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I hate redpill, but this talk about supply and demand as if we're trying to corner the market on some commodity or something, doesn't jive with me. It's individual. It's free for all. I don't think redpill has any effect on the "market" at all. Actually, I secretly wish more men are redpill/mgtow/incel so that there is more opportunity for me. They're not "taking away good women from the market"
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 09:06 AM
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This. Just ask her out already OP.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 09:34 AM
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Thoughts are just thoughts. We all have thousands of them every day. The issue is when we judge ourselves based on these thoughts, and the subsequent feelings such as guilt or shame for having them. Accept that you have these thoughts. Don't "battle" them. Then it would be easier to respond to your thoughts. In this case it would be to do nothing about it and focus on engaging with them normally. In the end your actions matter more.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 08:28 AM
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I feel this post is more about OP's concern on how others will judge their physical appearance. Don't make it about women. Everybody has parts of their body that they are insecure about, even if they have done everything they can to look their best. There are shallow people that judge solely on looks, but a lot of people look at the overall person. People generally mirror what you feel about yourself, so the more you can own your flaws, the more people will be drawn to you.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 06:56 AM
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IMO it is great, and life is better with it than without it. Kinda like coffee I guess. Some people have it a lot. Some sometimes, some go years without it (I've gone through my own "dry spells"). It is very individual and depends on the phase of one's life. It also depends on many things, the partner, communication skills, health, age, inhibitions. Being a virgin is also just a phase, my first time was quite late, but I enjoyed my life, studied, traveled, worked, made friends, and even dated a …
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 04:47 AM
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Yeah nobody cares if you don't want a relationship. But arguing that it is "better" is like feeling superior about drinking tea over people who drink coffee. Whatever, dude. And reading your post history, I'd say you still have a lot of opportunity to change your mind about it, and again, nobody cares if you do.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 01:46 PM
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Thanks!
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 05:08 AM
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Dude, care to elaborate? What do you hear from women about size, from whom and where? Your post history is basically just questions and comments about dick size and height. I'm shorter than you, and probably smaller than you. I do just fine. I'm seeing a woman taller than me. Dick size never comes up except when we're joking about it (same with my past experiences). I've struggled in love and romance, but these 2 things (dick size and height) were never the issue. They will never be your issue u…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 02:51 PM
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Dude, the first sentence is literally "it's not common".
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 11:37 AM
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You're bigger than average, and it doesn't matter anyway. We were joking about penis size, and the woman I'm seeing confirmed the saying that it's more about how you use it, not the size. She also said bigger ones could hurt more. Or maybe your actual worry is that you won't be able to satisfy the woman? That is a valid concern but has little to do with your size.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 08:57 AM
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