Anonynymphet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How should women “take accountability”? The problem is that only looks at one isolated instance, rather than taking a holistic approach. My partner often forgets our anniversary or Valentine’s Day, but he takes me out regularly and on the whole, so I feel cherished and wouldn’t blink an eye at that. Caring about a specific day is just arbitrary. And if he keep forgetting after reasonable communication, then it really lands back on her to assess whether she wants to be with that in the long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 08:31 AM
2	How should women “take accountability”? Brilliantly said. I think one thing that doesn’t get considered in this subreddit is class divides. I operate in upper middle class well educated circles, and I generally don’t witness this “hoe” behaviour that red pill men describe. And conversely I don’t understand the “all men are trash” because all the men in my life have been wonderful. My argument on this subreddit for so long is about how you generally attract what you are, or what you tolerate. “All men are trash”: you haven’t got the ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 08:25 AM
1	Women move on too fast and it's destroying dating Yes and no. Yes I agree people should have time to heal from a breakup, and learn to have emotional independence. Both me and my fiancé were single and not seeing anyone for 2 years before we went on OD and ended up meeting each other. I think it makes for a better well rounded experience. But I don’t agree women moving on after a relationship is the root cause of online dating problems. That’s way too simplistic and barely scratching any surface. For me and my mind, the problem with online dati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 08:50 AM
–	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from women? What do you think will change? I’ve seen it only three times in my life (but I only have 3 female friends), so yes not super common. But most women will know of an instance, themselves or someone else, where a woman has rejected a man and it’s resulted in verbal abuse (bitch, slut, etc.) or creepy behaviour. For my anecdote, when I was 19 at university, I became friends with a guy in my class. Bear in mind, I had a boyfriend and the subject I chose was male dominated, so I had multiple male friends but I kept an arms length t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 08:32 AM
–	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from women? What do you think will change? Ironically, I do empathise with every part of what you’ve described. It’s understandable. What ISNT understandable though, when some men, do a 180 and become very VERY aggressive. It’s one thing to be annoyed, and cut friendship, but we’ve all seen screenshots online of how aggressive and borderline harassing men can get with rejection. And I think your summary of the situation is dismissing the gravity of the “negative reaction” part, and isn’t too empathetic towards the hurt women who experien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 08:20 AM
1	Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from women? What do you think will change? An example I’d give is where women can pity/sympathise with a man, understand their struggles and want to spend time with them, and yet, not want to date them. Men react really badly to women who want to empathise with them but don’t want to have sex with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 10:17 AM
4	Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to it What traits make a man a good “farther” though? Surely it’s generosity, kindness, and the ability to be stable emotionally and financially… Which is not a lot of young men, honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 08:33 AM
1	Young women are dating the same terrible men To be fair, women working in a prison aren’t going to be the most intelligent women, otherwise they’d be working elsewhere. I have a chemistry lab with women working in it and they are definitely a different kind of woman, very respectable. A lot of what this sub complains about is lower class women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 01:36 PM
3	If you women can despise/hate men but still date & have sex with them, because "sexuality isn't a choice", why do you question men's heterosexuality when they despise/hate women? To attempt to honestly answer your question: I imagine calling the men-hating women a “lesbian”, they wouldn’t particularly care. If anything, I’ve seen extremist feminists even joking about how they wish they were lesbians, because they think dating women would be easier (I’m not agreeing, just saying their perspective). The same can’t be said in the reverse though. I think heterosexual women, are GENERALLY more supportive of LGBTQ , so being called gay, is an insult to men, GENERALLY. Therefor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 02:55 PM
2	Dinner is not "the bare minimum" because in current year, every girl has slept with at least one guy without the need for it Irony. Don’t think I buy into any one of the pills	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 10:15 PM
11	Dinner is not "the bare minimum" because in current year, every girl has slept with at least one guy without the need for it Like you said, it’s on online spaces where this bullshit “bare minimum” comes from. All these insufferable low class tradwife wannabes on TikTok telling people what the bare minimum is when they aren’t even married/dating to be taking advice from. I personally paid for my half on first dates because I didn’t want to feel like I owed the guy I was on a date with, even if I was interested. My now fiancé, also didn’t pay for me on our early dates for the same reason. Funnily enough, we both just th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 08:27 PM
1	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. No disagreement from me there. I feel very safe in my white rural town. When I think of the “would you rather be in the woods with a man or a bear” scenario, I’m assuming the man would be any man randomly selected from the planet. And since there’s like 700 million Indian men compared to my countries 30 million white men, ain’t no way I’m choosing an average guy from the planet to be alone with. Now if you asked me, “would you rather be the woods with a bear or a man from Norway?” I’ll pick the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 01:10 PM
1	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. To be fair, I think men killing children would be far higher if the burden of care was placed on them in the same way it’s placed on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 12:31 PM
2	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Exactly this. Yes, the UK is a “safe” country, but there’s definitely certain towns/areas of London I would not feel safe in for obvious reasons that no one likes to talk about. And that’s not because I’m “exaggerating” as per OP would say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 12:27 PM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? That’s pretty interesting, if I may ask, what drew you to dating & marrying a woman if you felt asexual/distrusting towards women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 07:40 PM
3	Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young? What government database are you referring to? I read through the ONS database regarding divorce and there’s plenty of mention of average age of divorcees between genders, but no actual mention of age disparity. When I try to google it for the UK, a lot of news articles say that bigger ages gaps = more divorces, but they all seem to link USA studies, but I couldn’t find anything contrary for the UK. Latest ONS Divorce Census	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 01:50 PM
2	Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors? “Most couples are shams today.” Haven’t all couples, throughout human history, always used each other? I feel like the comparison from today and say, the 1950s, is that women WANT to use men now, as opposed to NEEDED to use men, because they didn’t have the ability to provide for themselves. Because I would argue all relationships/couples have been shams, throughout all human history. People didn’t marry for love, it was often religious pressure. In the 1950s you could legally beat and rape your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 10:44 AM
1	The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate" Women who have successfully filtered out men not suitable to them aren’t going to be the ones talking about it on Reddit though. An example would be my experience. I had over 800+ likes on Hinge. I’m 120lb and like mountain biking & hiking. I had a couple of 300lb+ men who I think would struggle to go for a 5min walk which ended up on my like pile. Why should I not filter someone out like this? Another: I am in the middle of my PhD in chemistry whilst I work full time (stated on my bio). I get a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 10:08 AM
1	The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate" I mean, I used to sit in a public park during my work break and had a guy approach me asking me if I wanted to have sex with him (when I was 16-17, mind you). I had another try to take photos of my feet in sandals. Just because you’ve not experienced trouble, it is not representative of what a women experience in public.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 08:54 AM
2	The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate" It took me about three years on Hinge before I met my partner on there, and this year we’re buying a house together and planning for marriage/children. Dating apps are designed to keep you on them to keep paying money. When you recognise that OD profiles are like resumes, and actively work hard to filter people through according to your values (generally socioeconomic status, education etc.) then you have a decent shot of it. And this is particularly true for men too. My partner said he was very…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 08:51 AM
2	The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate" Although I fully believe women have it easier, it’s really difficult to explain this to men of this subreddit. I’m a 120lbs women into hiking & mountain biking, yet I’ve had numerous likes from 300lb+ men who’ve only ever hiked to their fridge. I said in my bio I like reading and I’m partway through my PhD in chemistry whilst I work full time, and yet, I have men who liked me who are in their 30s working at Dunkin Donuts. Men here might argue my standards are too high, but how are these men comp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 08:40 AM
1	The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate" It’s not a question, it’s obvious women have it easier due to abundance of choice. It’s more people/men not understanding that me sifting through 800+ profiles on hinge is frustrating for me who was after a serious relationship. It would do both genders better if men actually tried for quality over quantity on OD, then women who get a weird ego boost can lower their standards, or women like me who were just after someone compatible could get to them quicker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 08:29 AM
2	I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question. I put astrochemistry, reading previously banned books & playing world of Warcraft as my interests, and yet I got bombarded with likes from men whose interests only seem to consist of only football & alcohol. So to be fair, a lot of men’s profiles are incredibly low effort and include the same boring bios/prompts as well. It’s no surprise why my boyfriend whom I met on Hinge happened to be one of the few men who read my profile and asked me about my interests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 02:46 PM
3	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger Not sure why you downvoted me, I’m in agreement in what you’re saying, I was only adding that a component to your experiences is likely due to risk taking behaviours (“going out 2-3 times a week”), and this is true for men more than women (women are more risk adverse), resulting in the statistic of men being more likely to be attacked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 12:59 PM
1	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger You’ve had a pretty interesting life. I think the frequency of which you’re experiencing this is unusually high to be considered normal though, and even if it is strangers doing this, you’re still putting yourself in positions that increase the risk of this happening - I.e. going out to bars/nightclubs in rough cities. The UK has a problem with its nightlife/drinking culture, and if you participate in it, you’re more likely to be a target, in the same way if I walk the streets at night in just a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:10 AM
1	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers I don’t know you so I couldn’t say. In theory you should be a desirable guy. Plenty of guys are in happy relationships with far less attributes than yourself. It should be easier to eliminate the reasons people wouldn’t want to date you when you have so much to offer. Have unrealistically high expectations of women (needs to be a virgin, 10/10)? Perhaps you have an undesirable personality (rude, arrogant, entitled?)? Only you can figure that out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 11:20 AM
1	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers Yeah… USA employment rights are very sad! In my country, if you are fired from your job, you are still paid, depending on your notice period (E.g, my contract period is 3 months, so if I got fired today, I would still be paid 3 months of my salary). And after two years of employment, you basically have to do something illegal/gross misconduct to be fired, they can’t fire you for no reason. If your role becomes redundant (as another way to get rid of you), the employers have to legally pay the em…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 05:26 PM
1	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers I am in agreement, women put more effort in taking more photos. What are you disagreeing with in my comment exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 05:14 PM
1	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers I feel you, it’s tough out there for being an average guy. Being woeful on Reddit will never help you though. The only advices would be hitting gym, get in real great shape, do everything in your power to qualify yourself (degree, trades, etc.) to improve your job/financial stability, obtain hobbies, then happiness will comes, & dates will follow. Best of luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 05:04 PM
1	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers I actually do. My partner and I watch our friend discord stream to us his hinge/tinder/bumble. Do you use dating apps as a woman? Because you should see the horrendous profiles on there of men. Also I’m not talking about reward for effort. I know women get more reward for less. I’m just saying, women put more effort in their profiles IN GENERAL. As for insta thots, we both know that’s going to be 1% of women. 99% of women are not making bank off of instagram, the rest are out in the real world, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 04:57 PM
1	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers I’m not American, so you have my condolences, because leisurely time is a legal right in my country, we have to have a minimum of 5.6 weeks off paid annual leave by employers. Hiking isn’t a high cost activity for me either. I make a pack lunch on a weekend and drive approx 30 minutes. Access to hiking in the country where I live isn’t associated to high cost places, if anything it’s the reverse, urban places cost more, as I believe USA is similar in some cases (NYC). You can go walking as far a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 04:45 PM
5	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers Although I agree with everything you’ve said, I had photos of me hiking, sky diving and playing board games, because that’s who I really am. Selfies in a mirror shows low effort. I would say women generally put more effort into their profile pictures, and “photogenic” is often correlated to effort (ignoring photoshop ofc)	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 03:10 PM
5	Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers Eh, not really? I met a rugby player whilst having drinks with colleagues two years ago, and he was very attractive, but he was super aloof and self-centred. I was attracted, but declined in having anything more with him on that basis. You can be attracted but not want to be with them for another reason other than attractability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 02:49 PM
–	What is the dating experience like for an average man? Thanks for the information. My lived experience has lead me to believe that the people I know with ADHD tell me their hyperactivity has helped them workout at the gym. Hyperactivity being a symptom of ADHD (when googling) sort of counteracts with how this person is experiencing demotivation. The ADHD gym guys experience inability to concentrate like you described, hence the diagnosis, but hasn’t affected their physical health. Do you think the difference is between these people who utilise their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 10:46 AM
1	What is the dating experience like for an average man? Sorry for my ignorance, but what significance does ADHD have on morbid obesity? From my own experience, his sound more like depressive symptoms as opposed to ADHD. A lot of my gym bro friends are diagnosed with ADHD, and its seems to have aided them in their fitness, the difference to me is more they aren’t experiencing depression like this commenter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:24 AM
5	Q4W: How much does other people’s opinions influence how you select your partner? Exactly this! I literally couldn’t comprehend the question because my friend group are true friends, who actually care about my partner treating me well over his appearance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 10:35 AM
4	Q4W: How much does other people’s opinions influence how you select your partner? I care about what my family & friends think about my partner. I want my family to like them, for them to get along because I love both of them. Do I care if my friends think he’s not tall enough? Errr, no? It’s their superficial problem, not mine. My partner treats me well, and that’s all a true friend should care about, not their height. Maybe these people talking online just don’t have very good friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 10:33 AM
2	What advice would you give to your struggling son? I’M not the one who says I don’t like muscles. I have muscles myself, and I like men who also have muscles. I’m not a slob = I don’t date slobs. Women thirsting over men who look like Ryan Reynolds isn’t a novel concept. Isn’t the whole philosophy of TRP is that women like attractive muscular men or is that not true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 02:30 PM
1	What advice would you give to your struggling son? Because that’s what women actually want, same as men wanting attractive women. I didn’t think any of this was a secret.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 09:45 AM
2	What advice would you give to your struggling son? My partner was a really skinny guy with no educational qualifications until he was around 25 (before I met him) and my advice would align closely with what my partner would advise and did himself: eat more, hit the gym minimum 3 times a week, do t play video games every day, and study for a higher paying job, like charteredship qualifications.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 07:54 AM
1	quick poll: would you date and/or have sex with a virgin man that is middle aged? Nobody normal does that, people bring up previous relationships in an overview way, like “I’ve had two serious relationships, one X years, the other Y.” and it’s usually left at that. Saying you’re a virgin on a first date is weird as hell. If a man told me that, I’d be like “Right, why are you telling me this now?” and I’d be weirded out, because it implies he assumes we’re going to have sex when it’s literally the first date. I just want to know if you have similar interests/humour as me. Chil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 06:19 PM
8	quick poll: would you date and/or have sex with a virgin man that is middle aged? I too must only know the top 10% then. And the guys I know spend every evening on discord playing video games too, not even gym bros lol I just think TRP think every 24y/o men are virgins because the only people they talk to are people on Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 06:11 PM
18	quick poll: would you date and/or have sex with a virgin man that is middle aged? I think people make the third assumption because we’re on Reddit, which hosts a lot of that type of male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 06:04 PM
1	What age range do males start to be seen as more of a threat and less innocent? “They placed batteries in Bulger’s mouth and may have inserted some into his anus, although none were found there. Police suspected that the boys had sexually assaulted Bulger, as his shoes, socks, trousers, and underpants had been removed. The pathologist’s report, which was read out in court, found that Bulger’s foreskin had been forcibly pulled back.” From Wikipedia. Pretty SA-y to me. And seeing as one of the perpetrators is now a convicted pedophile, it’s obviously sexually motivated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 07:39 AM
1	A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact. Yeah some people have addictive personalities more than others, regardless of gender. I’m more into video games than my boyfriend is. My comment is assuming that video games are still fairly male-centric, so they’re more likely to have the gaming addiction, and it is a problem for a lot of young men imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 06:54 AM
2	A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact. I agree with what OP said, I agree with what you said, I was just adding more nuance to the hobby topic you mentioned. If you want to go back to OP’s post but on hobbies, I think hobbies are somewhat set aside during the honeymoon phase so it’s easy to not realise if it’s something you don’t want in a relationship. Like in the case of a video games, I love playing them, but I wouldn’t want to be with someone who spends 10 hours a day doing it, it’s only something you find out much later in the r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 06:48 AM
3	A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact. I do think a lot of men struggle with video game addiction though, all in the disguise of “but it’s my hobby!” and it can be ruinous to a relationship. I have a lot of friends who play video games the second they come home after work until sleep and are surprised they’re single/have an unhappy relationship. I personally love playing WoW (hence video game friends), and my boyfriend is a more outdoorsy type, so I’ve had to juggle my time to spend meaningful time with him, and that’s something I th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 02:23 PM
8	A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact. Too true. My partner likes me wearing form fitting clothing because it’s a source of pride for him, as I work out and look good alongside him. Different strokes for different folks, and people need to set boundaries according to their values or move on to the next human who shares them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 02:15 PM
1	There will aways be a battle between the sexes I think you and I might have a bit of a culture & socioeconomic difference here, hence the difference in perspective. I’m an academic/educated middle class woman, so I don’t know a single woman in my social circle who is choosing men who treat them like shit, let alone men with criminal backgrounds. The many women I know, are in happy relationships/marriages, and live very humble lives, otherwise I wouldn’t be spending any time with them. I don’t even know anyone personally with a criminal recor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 10:58 AM
1	There will aways be a battle between the sexes I know people slept around and always have done, I agree with that. But I do believe the invention of religion and suppression reduced it, but yes we’re sort of detracting from the original point of withholding sex. The way you worded your original comment sounds like you’re annoyed that women weren’t sleeping with you on a first date even when you were on your “best behaviour”, which I was arguing women shouldn’t sleep with ANY man on a first date. If sex is used as a weapon, move onto another,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 08:36 AM
–	Which one are you choosing to see again and which one gets the boot? I’d reject Tyson for sex, thank him for the coffee and proceed to not see him again. (I don’t have sex on a first date, ever, and I used to filter out any man who suggested it when I was back online dating) If I got along well with Glenn, I would consider a second date with him. However I would take note of how much he paid for a meal, and perhaps suggest a second date where I could pay, just so I could get to know him better, and if we share values, I can overlook being slightly out of shape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:41 AM
–	Double Standard My answer is basically the same as every woman in this forum who earns more than her partner: I’m definitely not punching down just because I earn significantly more than him. His mother makes far more than his father did, and he had a lot of respect for that, and in turn, respect for me. If anything, he’s PROUD of my achievements, and makes him strive to work hard himself (currently studying to be an accountant). No one has ever said I’m punching down because we’re pretty similar in appearance,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:22 AM
1	What age range do males start to be seen as more of a threat and less innocent? I think anything beyond 10 years old is no longer seen as innocent to me, which is the age my country decides that you understand morality (look at James Bulgar’s murder, he was killed and SA’d by two 10 year old boys). My gym changing room saying no boys over the age of 8 years old is allowed to enter. The reason I state so young is, my mother is a middle school science teacher, and she’s had a 12 year old threaten to rape her. And tbh the “threat” doesn’t really stop until the man is decrepit …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:16 AM
2	There will aways be a battle between the sexes I don’t agree, women would be whipped, have their heads shaven, be beaten publicly or worse if they participated in adultery 500 years ago, so naturally less women would take that risk in participating in it (ignoring ancient romans/greeks who were sexually liberal like us, but this is true for Christian/Islamic history). They used to do virginity checks. Today, that doesn’t happen so women can sleep with whoever they want with minimal repercussions. But it doesn’t mean I think women should just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 10:13 AM
1	There will aways be a battle between the sexes Of?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 10:03 AM
9	There will aways be a battle between the sexes But if a woman sleeps with a man immediately she’s a whore? It’s not really weaponising or denying sex, I just didn’t want to sleep with my boyfriend the first date (or first couple) until I got to know him and his intentions. Sure, he could have played the long game and ran, but it’s a risk women take so they are naturally picky. Most men will be on their “best behaviour” on a first date, which is why it’s important to wait to see if a man cares about you enough to proceed to the next step. And…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 06:20 PM
1	Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole? Female Dating Strategy, it’s a subreddit for exclusively women to complain about men, it’s pretty vitriolic, similar to incels forums tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 06:30 AM
7	Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men? I don’t hold these beliefs, I think women are just as boring/interesting as men. I can appreciate a woman’s physique and not want to have sex with her, because I’m not insecure about my sexuality (unlike men who get worried they’d be called gay). Gym bros big up each other’s appearances all the time, and I view it quite endearingly tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 04:45 PM
1	Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ? I was pretty mortified reading the South African initiation “Rites”. Makes me grateful I live in the UK. This was a really interesting read, thank you for your time writing it, I’ve saved it as it’s very useful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 04:34 PM
1	PurplePill Women: Would you sign a prenuptial agreement? I just did a quick google and pulled from the first result of “Single women face a 23 percent higher mortality risk, compared to married women.”, and it’s even higher for single men. If you suffer a stroke or heart attack, you have someone in your home to call an ambulance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 04:21 PM
1	PurplePill Women: Would you sign a prenuptial agreement? I would, but I would expect financial compensation if my partner cheated on me whilst I’m fulfilling the dead bedroom terms, which I think a lot of men would hate	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 02:21 PM
1	PurplePill Women: Would you sign a prenuptial agreement? Yeah, I earn more money than my boyfriend. And even if I didn’t, I still would. I would sign one happily because I have no plans for divorce nor infidelity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 01:23 PM
1	What if your boyfriend had a past history of viewing only softcore porn? My boyfriend watches porn whilst we’re apart during the week. I have no problem with it. If he told me it was softcore porn specifically, I’d respond with “why lol?” since hardcore exists freely. I don’t like paying for porn or cam girl sites / OF. I don’t like the idea of my boyfriend have any semblance of romantic attachment to a sex worker, and the same applies for following instagram models. It’s just too close to home. As for paying for porn, I’d rather he’d use the money on something more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 01:21 PM
1	Which trait are you getting rid of? It’s funny to me we have an acceptance that men’s penises are different in length, yet women’s vaginal canals are apparently all the same. For me, 7inches would poke my cervix and hurt like hell, regardless of foreplay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 12:48 PM
1	Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole? I don’t think there’s a way to prove or quantify it. But I think anyone who spends significant amounts of time online is taking time from their actual lives, especially if the online spaces they participate in are inherently negative spaces. The same applies to the reverse, FDS subreddit is a great example of a community ruining women’s relationships with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 12:39 PM
2	Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ? Double yikes on them being sold in Europe, it’s ironic really. Although I’d be interested in seeing what their actual sales are in comparison to non-foreskin skincare. From a quick lookup, 39% of the world’s population of men is circumcised so it’s not really a minority that people don’t support circumcision like you said. It’s a majority, although I’d like much more of a majority…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 12:33 PM
–	Do you agree that the bar is on the floor? I don’t really buy your anecdote of women occupying the spaces of supervisor/directors more than men. Sure, more women are starting to enter that space, but I work for a billion dollar manufacturing company with 22,000 employees and only 15% is women, predominantly occupying admin/HR roles (ironically I’m a woman in a management position of this company). If you actually look at statistics for upper management, there is still a skew towards men across most industries. That all being said, I’m no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 12:20 PM
1	Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ? Yikes, that foreskin cream thing is dystopian. But I don’t imagine anyone knows anyone personally who uses it, only weird rich people who also probably rub tarantula semen on their faces to preserve their youth. I do, however, think this is a USA problem. Generally women in Europe don’t care for circumcision at all and view it as barbaric.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 12:03 PM
–	Why do women make posts asking where the good men? Sure, some incels try and are genuine and receive no success. But a lot of incels are definitely entitled and sexist. Some have the belief they are owed a woman for just existing, without putting any work into anything. However I completely agree what you said, woman are encouraged by society to think they’re “queens” and are entitled to high value males for just as existing as a woman. My point, again, is that both of these types of people are insufferable and entitled, and that is why both of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 11:42 AM
–	What is the actual issue towards guys dating younger women? I’m not sure what you’re asking as you didn’t specify what “younger person” means. If you asked me if a 20 year old could date an 18 year old, sure. But if you asked me if they could date a 12 year old, no. My overall thoughts are that human beings under 25 years old haven’t got fully developed brains and are likely to make decisions not based on logic or consequence, and that should be considered when they enter relationships when we decide appropriateness. I would view an 18 year old dating a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 02:20 PM
0	Why do women make posts asking where the good men? Again, I acknowledge the problems are different (some ugly men are ignored, some women are entitled but not ignored) but the root cause is them being insufferable and unwilling to change, only complain. An ugly guy can at least try getting ripped, be financially ambitious, or being a funny person, but he chooses to complain. Whereas a woman saying “Where are all the good men?” (Referencing this post) is an entitled woman without looking inwards and that maybe her standards are too high. They’re …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 02:02 PM
0	What is the actual issue towards guys dating younger women? I don’t particularly care, I would prefer it be 21 rather than 18 to define adulthood, as 18 year olds are still pretty retarded overall. However for long term partnership, I think closer to age is so much nicer. I’m 27, my partner is 28 and we get along so much better than I would any 35+ year old. Women already outlive men and I don’t want to be alone for a decade in my later life if that’s the age gap we have. I want to make the most of my life with the person I love, so why not fall in love …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 06:01 PM
6	What is the actual issue towards guys dating younger women? My grandfather remarried a woman the same age as my father. It’s weird for my father, understandably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 05:56 PM
11	Why do women make posts asking where the good men? Yes different problems but the root cause is the same: they’re both apart of the same insufferable coin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 05:52 PM
1	Why are woman so infatuated with wade wilson? Ah gotcha! Painting people with the same crazy brush, tale old as time!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 10:51 PM
0	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? The original comment is basically saying that extremist feminists are committing abuse to their sons, because apparently a child needs a privilege check. Although I could agree with some anecdotes on this, they aren’t the sole or even worst group committing abuse towards children. I’ve seen the same side of the other extremist coin, where a lot of incels fantasise about raping their hypothetical child daughters, and honestly, I’d rather the former of these two evils. But I see what you’re saying…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 10:18 PM
2	Why are woman so infatuated with wade wilson? I have no judgement on mentally ill people who acknowledge it and are attempting to take responsibility for it	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 09:54 PM
11	Why are woman so infatuated with wade wilson? Their attraction towards criminals is a paraphilia and they’re mentally ill/unstable and should be viewed as such. No self-respecting woman ignores criminal acts, they are not a true representation of my gender, and we should collectively condemn their behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 02:21 PM
–	The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insane I actually think they do enjoy the company of women, more than they care to admit. It’s more when you’re living in the hope of something more is when you feel unfulfilled. And this is true for anything, if you’re poor and spend your days socialising with rich people hoping to be rich and you don’t, you’ll be miserable. The act of wanting a good experience is in itself a negative experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 02:09 PM
–	Do women ever regret cheating ? I’m sure it isn’t, but even a handful of confessions doesn’t make a majority. What would be valid is a large study asking both genders on whether they’ve cheated, if they regret cheating, if there was a cause to their cheating (them believing their cheating was justified to themselves) and do they plan to cheat again. Me saying I don’t romanticise cheating and I condemn it as anecdotal evidence isn’t enough, in the same way of your linked Reddit post isn’t enough proof. “Trust me” isn’t enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 01:53 PM
0	As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validation Yes exactly, people need to take personal responsibility rather than assuming position as a victim. The reverse of this scenario is where a woman sleeps with a man and is then upset he isn’t interested in a relationship, without asking the question of whether they did their due diligence pursuing a reliable/decent person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 01:49 PM
–	The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insane I don’t encourage men to pursue friendships with women if they’re pursuing them romantically because they will be “friendzoned”. I do, however, think men should have female friendships in their lives, to open opportunities to meet their mutual friends to pursue, and have the confidence to speak to women generally. If this yields no relationships in the end, surely making friends is still a good outcome? I think the problem is negativity and thinking female friendships SHOULD yield results, when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 01:29 PM
–	Women who wear revealing clothing for "comfort" or because it "makes them feel good", is that the truth? I’ve been resisting the urge to eyeroll throughout this posts responses, and it took longer than it should have to reach a comment like your own. I don’t always wear makeup, but when I do my partner will compliment me and it feels nice and validating, and other will do the same. I sometimes think the denial comes from internalised misogyny: “Any woman that puts on makeup for anyone other than herself is an attention seeker/whore (but extreme I know)” or “Any woman who puts makeup on for her part…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 12:25 PM
1	Women of PPD. If you are in a happy LTR, did your "fall in love at first sight" or did you fall in love over time? If so, what made that happen? Also, did any of you initially dislike / hate your husband / BF only to fall enough with him later? If so, how did it happen? I didn’t fall in love at first sight, but my definition of love is different to most. “Love” to me is a series of actions, not a feeling or words. We almost never say “I love you” to one another, but to most people it would be obvious we do love each other. He kisses me goodnight every night, I call him in the car after work and talk about our day, he makes me hot drinks when I ask, I make him breakfast every day so he doesn’t eat junk at work. Back to the meeting though, we met on Hinge. We spo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 11:25 AM
–	Do women ever regret cheating ? I’ve never cheated and condemn anyone who has. It’s a terrible thing to do to someone. I believe an affair disqualifies you from receiving any financial compensation during a divorce, and more people should ask for a prenup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 10:50 AM
–	Do women ever regret cheating ? I don’t think one cunt woman’s post is equivalent to evidence that all women romanticise it though. Men might not view it as “erotic” but they certainly view cheating as “exciting”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 10:42 AM
1	From a womans perspective, do you have a hierarchy of negative aspects to men? If I had to pick one, it would be number 2. This topic is nuanced to the specific woman though, as I’m a high earner so my partners financial wealth doesn’t matter to me. If I wasn’t making the money I’m on currently, the option 3 would be the next contender, as I have no problem caring for children & chores if the bills are paid by my partner. I’m incredibly fit and active, I love hiking and camping and being with a slob wouldn’t suit me. Additionally, I’m open that I’m not attracted to fat peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 10:32 AM
1	what is the smell of high testosterone or phermones? How do females detext high testosterone men? How do you understand this man has it in him? I think thinking about pheromones & testosterone is getting too granular when it comes to dating. If you’re not obese and producing high levels of body odour, women won’t mind the smell of you. Women aren’t blood hounds where we can distinctly smell testosterone, and I was under the impression that being attracted to personal scent is more to do with genetic makeup, and how you’re less likely to like the smell of someone who’s genetically similar, to reduce inbreeding. But I haven’t really looke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 10:21 AM
2	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? Even an above average is a no from me, even when I was single. So probably 3/10. 0/10 if there’s no one around, as I’d feel more nervous. I prefer being asked out by people I know mutually, or from online dating with whom I’ve had a few phone calls with and clicked with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 10:08 AM
2	The "Nice Guy" trope is, in most cases, a projection on the woman's part I’m under no pretence that looks don’t matter, I’m just not sure how to navigate rejecting a man without getting yelled at, as a lot of “nice guys” typically pose as nice until the moment of rejection. I’m pretty sure a guy would reject an obese girl without telling her it’s because she’s obese to spare her feelings in the same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 08:54 PM
–	Feminists’ Definition of Coercion is too broad this is one main reason TRP is necessary. Pink pill is pretty adjacent to TRP so I’m in agreement with you that the scenario you proposed isn’t abusive, and that people who think it is are throwing around “abuse”, “manipulation” and “coercion” too easily. My point was to demonstrate that it can be a tactic used by abusers. It’s not the sole tactic mind you, but used in conjunction of verbal abuse (shouting) that they aren’t receiving sexing, break things around them, and ignoring them when their partner is trying to reconcile. But again…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 08:11 AM
–	The notion of a "female intuition" that can "sniff out desperation or misogyny" is completely idiotic and delusional. I don’t think women have any extra intuition at all. I think men and women are similarly retarded, just in different ways. If I try to play devils advocate though, and really reach, maybe women are generally on higher alert than men due to physical differences between the genders. I know back when I was trying to find a partner on OD, I would be very conscious of meeting in a public place as an example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 01:47 PM
2	Feminists’ Definition of Coercion is too broad this is one main reason TRP is necessary. I think withdrawing your attention / ignoring your partner because they have refused sex is a form of abuse in some circumstances. I’ve seen where men/women can love bomb you but cold shoulder for not getting their way (regardless of what it is, including sex), which is definitely manipulation. HOWEVER, if the man has spent several years attempting to communicate his sexual needs and has been rejected for YEARS I think it’s a pretty normal response to mentally tap out of your relationship. I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 01:43 PM
11	Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wife With this RP truth you’ve proposed (men being opportunistic breeders), wouldn’t this make women even more picky, and men would experience even worse dating opportunities because of it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 01:28 PM
5	Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist? Thank you for sharing this. I suspect the reality is that there are more women struggling with dating than men on this subreddit like to believe, but of course more men struggle dating overall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 11:31 AM
–	Is this just a Southeast thing or do most women want to date a cowboy? I’m not American, I’m a science academic from Europe, however I do view the cowboy stereotype as very attractive, but I personally wouldn’t date one. What would I even have to communicate with a cowboy? 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 11:22 AM
1	Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent data Are you recommending women to be appear threatening if they don’t want to be groped by men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 04:12 PM
1	Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent data Does the reverse work here? 😂 “Don’t let men masculate you.”? How do you even stop being groped, regardless of gender?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 03:42 PM