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No homie hopping. Words I fucking live by. There is so much dick in the sea, why on earth would you go for your friends exes when it has too much chance to build resentment amongst people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:54 PM
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Perhaps she’s just not attracted to him either physically or mentally? When I think of “chads” I think of hyper masculine bro’s and they are not my type whatsoever. So yeah, even if someone on the outside thinks some guy is in a higher league than me, still doesn’t mean I’d want to fuck him. That’s not how this shit works at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:53 PM
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No, they go there to hide from straight men and dance in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:50 PM
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Being skinny is less attractive than being fat in our society That’s a load of bullshit and we all know it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 12:06 AM
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These things would correlate more closely along personality descriptions, not by gender
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:30 PM
2

You can look fly as fuck as a guy and honestly, you’ll probably get laid more frequently compared to if you dressed plainly. Peacocking, anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:09 PM
1

You act like women don’t need to work out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:45 PM
1

Recent example, I told a guy I wasn’t going to spend the night and he kept asking again and again for me to and wanted me to explain why. He was not respecting my boundary I set.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:46 PM
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Men behave quite differently when in a close, romantic relationship. If you haven’t been in one, perhaps it’s wise to suspend your judgment. I have seen plenty of men whine about boundaries and to take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:14 PM
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Mate, you are confused. Boundaries are limits on what someone else can do to you NOT what you can do to someone else. Stealing from someone is violating someone else’s boundaries, you not being able to steal from someone is NOT a boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:09 PM
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Many men don’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 12:59 PM
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Right? Easy way for someone to end up in a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:29 AM
0

Men reap the rewards, not women. He gets someone to take care of kids and a house while he grows his career and earning level. If the partnership ended she’d be shit out of luck with no career and a man bitching about having to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 07:11 PM
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You realize there are many different subcultures in the world? You are trying to judge an entire world on one specific outing? If you want to talk about psychedelics or deep things perhaps you shouldn’t go to a club, you go to a festival where they take those types of drugs. Common sense, use it. And so what that a woman rejected you? You are assuming so much behind it. “Her calculative mind”? There was nothing calculative in what you wrote. If anything, you were the calculative one, “she was 6.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:14 AM
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Ha! Right, cause men would admit to their friends that they’re a shit lover. If you aren’t fucking them then you don’t actually know what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:24 PM
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Huh? I don’t understand how your comment relates to mine. I was suggesting that perhaps some guys lie about the amount of foreplay they do to make themselves not look like selfish lovers. I’m not sure where “I don’t have sex because I’m not good enough” came in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:49 PM
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I have had serious relationships from dating apps but I never say that on there. I want to be able to go on dates without the other person having a lot of expectations of me. If we get along smashingly it will be obvious and things will naturally lead to a relationship. But I have way too many guys that want a relationship with me when I’m just not interested. I like to mitigate expectations from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:34 PM
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And you think they wouldn’t have any incentive to lie to you to make themselves look better? You’re right that there are men who do enjoy foreplay but you also haven’t had any real experience with it - there are a lot that don’t so you cannot accurately comment on the percentage of men who do and don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:11 PM
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Do you fuck men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:58 PM
2

Guess you’ve never met someone who wowed you enough that you wanted to lock it down. In my escapades I’ve had to reject enough men from relationships after we’ve fucked. When someone is awesome and you like them, it isn’t just about sex anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:05 AM
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Seriously! Spot on. I’ve heard the phrase, “why buy the cow when you get the milk for free” before and based on my experiences, it’s laughable and detached from reality. People buy the cow after trying its milk because the cow is fucking awesome. The majority of my relationships started from something casual and blossomed when we figured out we really liked each other. It’s almost as if, gasp, personality does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:01 AM
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Masculinity tokens, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:27 PM
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Not to their face at least
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:34 AM
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It is true. Although at one point in this forum someone commented that women “can’t” spin plates. I’m not sure why they thought that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:17 AM
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Killing a living breathing human being is much much different than flushing out a fetus before it’s ever lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:53 AM
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Did you read her comment? The point is you don’t have to be a bodybuilder to be attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:50 PM
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Who the fuck would have “socially awkward” as one of the traits they look for in a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:46 PM
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Yet I know women with these hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:32 PM
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I am a woman and this is a list of hobbies from a few female friends and I. There are plenty of feminine hobbies listed in there. Regardless, women don’t only have feminine hobbies and it’s silly to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:31 PM
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It’s like Russian roulette, you can never be so sure so you need to be extra cautious. Especially since when it does happen, everyone is so quick to blame women about their lack of cautiousness, yet they also love to blame women for how concerned they may be. Whether people around here believe it or not, rape and sexual assault are not uncommon. It’s better to be safe than sorry and wind up traumatized with PTSD. And sorry it offends you but an individual woman’s feelings about safety trumps you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:19 PM
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However, the kind of stimulation from video game is the same that you get from competitive sport, which makes you a solid man. LOL! Sounds like some hamstering right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:58 PM
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You also assume make up or skincare is the only hobby women have. Here are some examples of hobbies women have: Meditation, cooking, drawing, painting, crocheting, quilting, discussing psych/soc/philosophy/politics, programming, traveling, pole dancing, aerial silks, yoga, Pilates, salsa dancing, keeps a garden, studies mushrooms and goes mushroom hunting, hiking, camping, kayaking, environmental conservation, reading novels/scientific/historical books, visiting museums, art history, biking, col…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:50 PM
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And what’s the age range for this 2/3rds of women? I can’t help but feel anytime a guy says this, they’re just referring younger women which is not the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 01:10 PM
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LOL! What have you even actually been to Germany? “Germany is 3rd world” pull your head out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 11:48 AM
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Ha! If they pass, you obviously wouldn’t know. We know you’re not inspecting everyone’s genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:49 AM
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Job well done ladies, you might have impressed yourselves but you didn't impress men. Ah, so you wanted to be lied to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:42 AM
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Because this is fucking bullshit. I see a average people dating average people all the fucking time. Yet y’all just want to gloss over that and pretend only the ridiculously attractive guys ever get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:29 AM
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Merely one example which happens to be the most recent. What you should do is take it as an indication that there is more than meets the eye with dating than be attractive and being an “asshole.” Average, nice guys do date. Sorry if it reflects that your personality sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:18 AM
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I’ve had a few kind male friends who have told me about how they felt they were imposing. I felt bad for them because there needs to be a balance, know the right moments that it’s appropriate to escalate. But! One of them just ended up in a relationship and they’ve been dating for a month. How did it happen? He paid attention to subtle hints of interest. Guess what? He’s fat too but such a sweet, stand up guy. This isn’t his first gf either. So that nice guy didn’t finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:32 PM
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I get guys pursuing me harder when I act the same way. People want what they can’t have and no one wants someone seemingly desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:26 PM
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Thanks to unbridled capitalism leading to the ever growing gap between rich and poor, stagnating wages yet increasing cost of living and the sky rocketing costs of education. Do you realize the 1950s were such a prosperous time was because of the wage to cost of living ratio, the lower ratio between lowest paid employee and CEO and the high tax rates on obscene levels of income. Get out of here with that, it’s feminisms fault bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:33 PM
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Just because someone may complain about something doesn’t mean they would prefer the alternative. Financial independence and freedom > Being at the mercy of someone else’s whims
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:40 PM
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The best I can say, is take great pictures. Flattering to the face, good lighting is key. Have a female friend help you if you have one. Also, take action shots, shots of you doing something interesting or in a cool setting or vibe. Jumping off a waterfall, riding on a jet ski, climbing a mountain etc. Doing something adventurous or athletic is even better. Do create a bio. Make it positive and exciting. Nothing negative or down trodden. I saw one profile that had a very choppy rhythm, “sailing …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:08 PM
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Times are hard for both young men and women so how about you go fuck yourself with your condescending bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:32 PM
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Their standards are generally much lower in real life. I would agree with this. I sometimes have some ‘odd’ tastes, I.e. non-classically handsome men and sometimes not into, classically handsome men. I think personality has something to do with it, someone’s vibe and personality can change the way you look at them. OLD removes that personality from shining through. Almost all I have to go on is looks. I’ve taken chances on guys who, “maybe I’ll find him attractive in person.” Without any luck. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:59 PM
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For themselves and their own sexual desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 07:34 AM
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I agree with you for the most part, except I think it’s moreso the people that only have sex in LTRs have a difficult time understanding that sex can have different meanings in different contexts and simply having casual sex does not in anyway mean sex in a relationship is devalued. Precisely why I responded to that comment above, there was a fundamental misunderstanding of how high sex drive, high partner count people view and experience sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:26 PM
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As someone with a high n count, I’ve got to disagree. If I occasionally get fast food, does that mean I do not or cannot value a meal made by a SO? And that food is just food? Absolutely not. Sex in a LTR is light years more special than a hook-up. It doesn’t suddenly become the same as every other time I’ve had sex. In fact, it makes it even more special.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:21 AM
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You had my upvote until the ketchup on pizza comment. I’ll accept my fate, guess I’m just a herd animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 10:50 PM
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There are absolutely things and events that have made me unhappy but I’m a very happy person generally. I have tons of loving friends, I have gone out and done interesting things that I would never have imagined and I have goals and making something of myself. I like myself, I like what I’ve done and who I’m becoming. Im constantly working on improving myself and my skills in anyway possible, it is fulfilling. I come to this forum to debate because I do agree that there are differences in men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:40 PM
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Women don't love men Enough of this bullshit. It is patently false.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:30 AM
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Where in her comment did /u/AggravatingTartlet say most? She said more women are which implies more than previously, not most women are. You can tell it means this again by looking at the context of the comment, “old biases may be falling away.” Male misogyny: Finding any excuse to shit all over women even if it means sacrificing reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:51 AM
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Pssh. That’s garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:21 AM
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a) asshole behaviors are universally agreed upon Ahh. Ok. So whenever guys say “women like assholes”, that statement is completely useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:49 PM
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So it sounds like confidence and not being a shitty person has helped you out socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:24 PM
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They are your friends, your brothers, your cousins and your fathers. You’re just not aware of such intimate details because you aren’t dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:09 PM
1

That is a load of bullshit. Quit making excuses for your low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 01:37 PM
3

Nudes don’t sell for $50 a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 01:29 PM
3

Sometimes its literally hundreds of dollars per hour. And some nights it’s $0 or actually negative because of house fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 01:28 PM
2

You guys love to pretend ugly people never date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:54 PM
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Dating does not mean online dating. It means getting out there, meeting people regularly and sometimes that extended into dating. Dudes need to forget online dating even exists. It is worthless to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:42 AM
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Im not talking about hippy culture, I’m talking about how to be sociable and get a fucking date. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:50 PM
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But there isn’t a clear path. There is no guaranteed formula for human interaction where you do X, Y, Z and then your goals are met. It requires countless hours of trial and error and even the most successful still fail sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:11 PM
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If going outside and speaking with and meeting new people is so difficult for some, I really don’t know what they are expecting with dating. Are they expecting for a woman someone to just fall in their lap? Reminds me of the joke, “I’ve tried nothing and I’m all out of ideas.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:09 PM
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Good attitude means being a pleasant person to be around. Someone is positive, has a sense of humor, who rolls with life’s inconveniences etc. Not someone who bitches and moans all the time, who has something negative to say about everything, who gets distraught at minor things etc. Your inability to see something so simple about social interaction is precisely why you struggle and other average men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:25 AM
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Some people think they don’t care but they definitely pay a lot more attention to the finished product. The devil is in the details, as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:50 AM
5

Most Knowing several people in sex work doesn’t qualify you to make that statement. I have no doubt there are plenty of women who use it as a crutch. But the majority of women I meet and speak to in sex work use it as a way to bolster their future, not use it as the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 11:34 PM
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Some sure, but me thinks you don’t actually know anyone who has been involved in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:48 PM
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Exactly what /u/Orange_Paisley explained. If it was a guaranteed free ride, sure, why not but it’s not guaranteed. You are subjected to the whims of a wealthy man who has options and can ditch you in a heart beat when he found his new shiny thing leaving you with zilch. There’s a reason why depending solely on sex work is never advised. It’s unstable and runs out. You’re naive thinking it’s actually a viable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:29 PM
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Good luck explaining an employment-graduation gap by telling about your E-Thot money. That’s precisely the point of why you do both at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:22 PM
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You’re naive as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:17 PM
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Seriously. Zero clue into the reality of the situation. They’re living in a fantasy land, a land which they think women live in except when they want to knock women down a peg.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:17 PM
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Why not get an education and start building a career while twitch thotting? Doing one after the other is naive to how the job market works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:14 PM
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You’re looking through rose colored glasses, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:12 PM
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Respect her beauty What a load of bullshit. ITT: Today on PPD words are meaningless!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:13 PM
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Dude, you have zero clue what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:13 PM
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I don’t give a shit. Honestly I think it’s kind of cute. But I do like a man who is in touch with his emotional side. From reading this thread I guess it’s not ok, but the world has all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 10:25 PM
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You, I like you. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 06:26 PM
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Then dudes need to stop complaining about slutty women if they want them around for their sexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 06:19 PM
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once we’ve found what we want, we stick with it for as long as it remains what we want You can literally say this for anyone and for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:36 PM
1

I relate and agree with all of this so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 11:05 AM
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Right? The conclusion of OP seems like a huge stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:34 AM
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Lady here and I am childfree and perhaps marriage free. My extended family is religious and everyone has gotten married and had kids. I assumed that’s what my life would be. The moment I realized I didn’t have to, my world opened up. There is so much to do and see in the world and I already don’t have enough time. If I had kids, I would really want to be there for them but that is a black hole for time. Your body becomes wrecked from pregnancy, the stress heavily ages people. Being a SAHM seems …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:19 AM
2

I think it really depends on the topic. Men can get reeeaalll sensitive when it comes to anything that may challenge their masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:36 PM
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He’s right though, this sub is one big pissing contest. Your post is the straw that broke the camels back as it were.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:32 PM
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Oh Jesus fucking Christ, no. You just need to have a sense of humor and know how to deliver a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:45 PM
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Banter is typically something men do with other men. Not sure where you’re getting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:40 PM
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The later are worth at the minimum tens of millions of dollars and can (almost) do whatever they want. They vote Democrat. Eh, this can go either way. People with money tend to want to keep that money or keeping making as much money as possible. This means, they’ll vote for their interests, ie Republican.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 02:43 PM
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Except unmarried, childless women...hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:05 AM
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“It’s not rape if she says stop and I don’t stop.” LOL! Get real, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:26 PM
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It’s not a “scare tactic” whatsoever. You are advising people to not stop when someone says stop. That is rape, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 11:08 AM
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It’s not saying that you can’t get anything from external motivation, it’s that internal is longer lasting and more effective. Take incels as an example, the external motivation of ~pussy~ obviously hasn’t been enough. They need to want to change to actually do the tremendous amount of work they need to. By the way, this is a widely studied phenomenon. When a multitude of studies produce the same results, you should actually pay attention instead of being immediately dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 10:16 AM
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It’s a well studied psychological concept. I recommend you do some research into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:49 AM
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This is the kind of dude that’s going to end up with rape charges. If she says stop, stop. If she bitches about it, she can go to hell cause that’s not something you joke about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:42 AM
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No, women are showing sex does mean something to them precisely by participating in hook-up culture. It means they want to have sex for themselves. It’s their sexuality. The only reason they don’t fuck every man who has their hand out is because she is not sexually attracted to them. She doesn’t have to pass herself out like a bag of sweets to anyone that asks. It’s called having bodily autonomy. And again, caring about a person does not equal being required to fuck them. Jesus fucking Christ. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:16 PM
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That’s complete horse shit, mate. You can care about people’s well being without giving up your bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:33 PM
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That isn't the slightest bit true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:21 PM
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They do. Just because they can pay for sex doesn’t mean that people actually desire to fuck them. Edit: I don't give a shit whether they care or not. The question was if there is a wall and there fucking is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:15 PM
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Some people see others that social interaction and dating is so natural for. Seeing something that others get and you do not incites a feeling of unfairness. I have a lot of sympathy for people in this situation, humans are social creatures and want to be appreciated. No one likes being the person left out. You can encourage people to go on journeys of self-improvement, but that’s all you can do, really. The most effective motivation is internal motivation, not external motivation, I.e. some rew…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 03:09 PM
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Except there very much are ugly couples out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 02:45 PM
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I wasn’t claiming someone can’t possess any of these, merely trying to demonstrate what the opposite side of the spectrum is for the OP as by implication he was saying those are the better traits. But I agree, balance is great, normal and typical and there are some traits that are neutral depending on someone’s personality preferences. I agree, it’s not always bad to have some self-doubt, but for someone to actively seek out self-doubt in a partner and considered it a desirable trait does honest…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 02:26 PM
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These traits are on a spectrum, it’s entirely possible to have these traits and be ethical. Let’s take the opposite of these traits, insecure, unfit, socially incompetent and awkward, emotional wreck, broke as fuck. Is there anyone out there that would seek these traits out and find them desirable other than someone who may want to exert control over and manipulate someone else? Is it really hard to believe people want to be with someone who is self-assured and not tripping over themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 12:38 PM
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I have off and on. Although I’m not dating much/not looking for a LTR so it’s pretty easy to avoid this issue at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 12:42 PM
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Actually, giving proper sex education typically results in later sexual debuts compared to their abstinence-only counter parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:41 AM
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Sure there’s a range. Two pumps and you’re done? Yeah, a bit disappointing. If you consistently can’t last whatsoever, then it’s reaching deal breaker territory. I like PIV and getting essentially none would probably get annoying and disappointing. But! You don’t need to last that long, 3-10ish minutes? And that’s not just straight pounding, take a small break by switching up positions to also make it more interesting. Hour long marathons of jackhammering are not fun, they tend to hurt because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:35 AM
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Lady here. I don’t want kids, dating has been fine. But I’m reaching the age most people have or start thinking about kids so I wouldn’t be surprised if it starts affecting me more. Although, at the same time it’s easier to avoid all that when you’re a bit of a vagabond not leading a traditional life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:30 AM
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It’s not correct though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:23 AM
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She must be young to actually consider that an age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:58 AM
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I’ve got to agree with /u/_Tumbleweed- when people refer to older men they mean quite older not someone if the same cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:58 AM
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Yes, absolutely. They’re obsessed with women’s partner count and sexual agency. Dudes here toss the word whore around like there’s no tomorrow. The contempt is written on the wall, it is extremely surprising you can’t see it. Just simply looking at the word choice shows the disdain for sex workers. People who have respect for sex workers don’t call them whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 10:03 PM
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Because of the nasty opinions they express about them and to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:21 PM
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That’s just not true. Pictures open the door for me but bio seals the deal. Bios are good places to identify red flags too. Also, a very attractive male friend of mine was getting some matches but not much so I redid his profile. I adjusted his photos but not much. I completely redid his bio. He asked me to write it like I would want to match with him. So I did, I catered it to my style. Lo and behold, he gets a lot more matches now and higher quality at that. And yes those matches did lead to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:11 PM
3

Does being attracted to your partner and having fun make you a teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:59 AM
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so you can be a better woman Or you can learn to be a fucking adult and take care of your shit instead of expecting to be waited on hand and foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:56 AM
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Or you make huge leaps in assumption that every woman is coddled. The women I know work hard and take responsibility for their shit. The only coddling is friends being supportive of one another. Not saying there aren’t spoiled women out there but it is not gendered by any stretch. (Somewhat like you described in OP)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:54 AM
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It shouldn’t be a surprise that someone with pets and kids will tend to have a messier house than a single person with none. Also not surprised single mothers may not hire a cleaning service as they aren’t known for being flush with cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:46 AM
5

Let me try to give you some perspective. Women are raised to be people pleasers and to not say no. It sucks having to reject someone, that’s why people drop hints and ghost so they hope the other person gets the message. Also, not infrequently, dudes will bitch and moan incessantly after being told no and ask why when they should just accept no as an answer. Then there’s the also added factor of potential violence. Sometimes you don’t know how people will react. When you’re not in the physically…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:25 PM
7

What? You know guys who are aiming to fuck a mentally incapacitated person? They sound like predators, not beta orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:36 PM
3

In your opinion. Sometimes you just want to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:24 PM
6

Then do something to improve yourself for fucks sake. Too many people expect the world from someone else while not reflecting at all on what they bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:23 PM
0

I mean yeah, fucking someone who is great in bed is fanfuckingfastic. Unfortunately, there are too few men who actually know how to do it. So it is a wondrous event when you actually find a man capable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:20 PM
2

Women get this affirmation just by being approached by thirsty men. Having sex with them is an unnecessary step. This is very true. Just being approached means they’ll fuck you. Validation - hook, line and sinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:19 PM
2

Well yeah, the point is to get dicked down, not flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:18 PM
9

Yup! Coming up next week on PPD: “How dare my ex-SAHM expect child support or alimony!!” It is a foolish idea to put all your eggs in one basket. It is important for women to maintain financial independence and build a career in case something goes awry in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:36 AM
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Is it possible for a woman to be socially inept? Yes they absolutely can be. Some people just don’t get social nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:33 AM
2

Women are constantly hounded with messages about being attractive and those messages can fucking hurt. They have learned that it’s not nice to comment on someone’s appearance, so they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:05 AM
1

Nah, it’s because you can’t take a hint she doesn’t want to talk to you but not only do you not stop, you take it a step further into sex talk. That is being socially obtuse. It is cringey for everyone to read and you should feel embarrassed for not being able to read between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:46 PM
1

Yeah, I worked with him for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:43 PM
2

Nah, I’m pretty sure women would be delighted to have socially competent partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:42 PM
1

Some think being 6’2” and making million a year is average man. No one thinks this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:28 PM
4

When the vagina is aroused, it extends in length. Are you sure you’re not giving them enough foreplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 11:37 AM
3

I know a man who was born with a bone condition. His arm is permanently contorted and has little movement. His legs are also contorted so he has troubles walking. He has to be in a wheelchair most of the time, he has a special extended, hinged fork that helps him eat but sometimes he needs others to help him. I thought he would never have much of a love life. But guess what? He is married to a pretty woman. Hmm. When I see men who very plainly have the cards stacked against them still finding su…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 11:35 AM
3

Fucking Christ, dude. Stop embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:09 AM
1

I got 83% masculine and 53% feminine. Looks like I’m a casually masculine chick. Thank god I don’t look masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:12 PM
10

Spoken like someone who doesn’t know what good sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:08 PM
3

You realize everything you said is just conjecture?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:08 PM
1

It’s because there is way too much to unpack and your head is too solidly stuck in the sand. It reaches a point where there is no point in discussing it further. The world isn’t as cut and dry as you make it out to be. Your life will not improve till you move past your hatred and bitterness, hence, good luck. It’s not easy to move past, hence, you’re going to need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:31 PM
1

Just missing that key, actually-desired detail that they’re always goin’ on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:58 PM
1

It’s funny when someone announces to the world how ignorant they are. Good luck with life, you obviously need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:42 PM
1

Give an example
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:03 PM
2

Ha. I knew you’d come back to try to pick apart these hobbies. “Thot hobbies”, get real dude. You’re being dismissive because that’s the only way you can hold onto any semblance of an argument. Just because you don’t enjoy or respect a particular hobby doesn’t make them any less “real” when people spend hours studying, researching and working on them to perfect their craft. You take huge leaps in assuming the only reason they do any of these hobbies is to attract a man. No one will spend countle…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:12 PM
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I’ll give you some examples of hobbies that women I know actively pursue: Meditation, cooking, drawing, painting, crocheting, quilting, discussing psych/soc/philosophy/politics, programming, traveling, pole dancing, aerial silks, yoga, Pilates, salsa dancing, keeps a garden, studies mushrooms and goes mushroom hunting, hiking, camping, kayaking, environmental conservation, reading novels/scientific/historical books, traveling, visiting museums, biking, collecting records, being in bands, singing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:37 PM
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This is kind of baffling to me. Women are shit on all day long here, yet you expect them to take it with a demure smile. Don't dish what you can’t take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:48 PM
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Falling right into that psychological trap. Out-group homogeneity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:50 PM
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Women don't have interests of their own Perhaps you should try talking with women and not at them. Women have tons of various personal interests. The fact that you claim otherwise shows how little you’ve interacted with women on a meaningful level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:45 PM
2

Better to have control of your own destiny than be reliant on someone else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:37 PM
5

I’d say you’re an attractive guy. Not someone I would think of when I hear the term incel. I don’t know how you are in person, but the frown and intense stares into the camera is a bit unsettling, I think humor and laughing could give quite a different impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:49 PM
1

Have you tried contacts before?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:36 PM
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I can see your point if it’s between clean and very clean but some people are down right disgusting and won’t do basic shit. That is the case where, “if you care about the chores more than your SO, then you do the fucking chores!” Is complete bullshit. It’s some lazy person playing a game of slob chicken knowing their SO will break. It is fucking disrespectful and shows a huge lack of care for your partner and their time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:28 PM
2

No thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:15 PM
4

You’re right! In the same vain, many of the dudes here need to take a long look in the proverbial mirror and try to have an ounce of self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:59 PM
1

You think giving women rights was a mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:52 AM
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Women have essentially been forced into monogamous pairings for centuries. They weren’t the ones that made poor choices for the gene pool. How about you bitch to men who didn’t like women’s choice so decided to divvy up the sex resource between all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:50 AM
6

LOL! A mystery that will never be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:43 PM
1

Aren’t these sexual dynamic discussions based off of evolution? Older folks opinions are highly relevant so you can see where the congruency is and where it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:40 PM
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This truly sums up my opinions on the whole sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:36 PM
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There has even been studies done that shows women do not get wetter for you base on your personality. LOL! You’re making shit up. There is not a study about this. I’m more than happy for you to prove me wrong on that, so show me the study. How fun someone is, is not dependent on attractiveness. That’s why women have fun male friends who aren’t boyfriends or hookups. You are trying to project blue pill brief that women care more about personality when it does not matter. Nah, bro. You projected t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:30 PM
1

You realize you don’t actually have to be a meal ticket. Just put some effort into your appearance that shows you actually care about how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 05:26 PM
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Lol, no. Look, you’re right that looks, money and social status do matter but its a combination of many factors that can affect a man’s success, personality being one of them. Personality has pulled average men into winners with women. Many dudes find that difficult to hear because it ultimately reflects on how shit their personality is. Side note: just because some women will date a dude for money doesn’t mean they like him and/or are attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 05:23 PM
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They do, they want a fun, confident, masculine man that can hold frame, not a timid, awkward dude who can’t read social cues for the life of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 03:06 PM
1

And how do you think their hands are held?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 12:39 PM
2

Sure that can work but I think you also underestimate what dressing sharply and flatteringly does to the look of someone. I mean take this argument, if women are interested in financially successful men, why would a man not dress the part? Otherwise, he’s not maximizing the tools he has at his disposal to send the message of his social standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 12:29 PM
2

Do you realize that study showed women 2D pictures of men which does not capture the totality of women’s attraction? Personality and vibe does matter and can change attraction for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 12:22 PM
1

They were probably jealous they weren’t getting some like others were.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:26 AM
5

Nah, it’s just that you’re wrong. Black people age more gracefully because the melanin in their skin protects from UVA rays, the biggest skin ager. Also, fat smooths out wrinkles, wrinkles are more obvious in thin people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:18 AM
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It’s more that their skin better protects from UVA rays which is one of the biggest skin agers. Wear your sunscreen people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:11 AM
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No they did not. Looks like the word “equality” triggered them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:56 PM
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Did you pay attention to the context of the comment you initially responded to? I think the fact he didn't really see women as equals would be apparent very quickly. This comment wasn’t stating it would be apparent he doesn’t see women as the exact same, it was stating it would be apparent he doesn’t see women as having equal worth. So no, personal worth is not extrinsic to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:48 PM
2

That sounds like standard flirting and dating to me. Not sure why it seems like such a novel concept to so many dudes on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:40 PM
1

Sure, it’s entirely possible for someone to give a completely different persona. But people tend to show their true colors over time. All you need to do is pay attention to what people say and do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:37 PM
2

When people use the term equality, they don’t mean exact same, they mean equal in intrinsic worth as a human being. So yes, men and women are equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:30 PM
2

I wouldn’t call being the best version of yourself gaming someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:23 PM
3

It’s not “games bruh”, that is actual abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:34 AM
1

What's wrong with marrying young? Marrying young increases the chance of divorce. A fact many TRPers love to side step.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 06:38 PM
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Except 50% of people get married. Perhaps instead of citing a study that had women just look at 2D photos when you known women’s attraction is more complicated than that, you should look at what is actually happening in the real world. Your argument is incredibly disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 06:30 AM
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Men with high N tend to care less about a woman’s N. Why? Because the woman’s N typically pales in comparison to his, meaning he doesn’t feel threatened by it. Hmm. But aren’t men with high N counts alphas? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 07:10 PM
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It is not in the best interests of that woman. The description you laid out is essentially a fantasy, the ideal to these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 06:07 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 03:56 PM
2

Found the guy with no sexual intuition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 06:59 AM
4

Oh Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:42 PM
6

Nope, love is not a natural emotion for females What a load of bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:11 AM
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Also, what's wrong with not having sex with someone who you don't find appealing? You’re right! This means women shouldn’t be forced to fuck people they find unappealing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:56 AM
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Frankly no one gives a shit if they try or not but if they don’t try then they should shut the fuck up about not having pussy fall into their lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:47 AM
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CEO making 300x the amount of their lowest paid employee doesn’t help the situation either. The 1950s were prosperous partly because there were such high taxes on the wealthy. You decrease that tax rate significantly and you see an ever increasing divide between poor and wealthy with wealth continually being consolidated at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:22 AM
3

Isn’t spinning plates one of TRPs goals? Sorry you apparently bang such low quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:36 AM
1

It’s funny how these dudes are bragging about how terrible they are in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:40 AM
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You don’t get repeat customers if your service sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:11 AM
1

The wall isn't at 25 tho. It's at 30 I'd say. I mean sure, that still means you have multiple decades of men still going after one decade of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 06:22 PM
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You think someone wanting a partner who makes 30-45k is someone who only cares about money? And you say the majority of women are gold to some guy yet the post is pointing out, it’s only a fraction of women (I.e. young women). For the amount that “older women are undesirable” gets thrown around on this sub and TRP, it seems strange how much men are now defending older women’s worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 06:20 PM
5

I mean, you just proved my point with your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:56 PM
9

Seems more like a warning than an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:55 PM
4

Ah good, so older women shouldn’t have any problems in their dating life like TRP constantly warns young women about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:44 PM
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This is an incredibly poignant post and something I’ve been thinking about more recently. Let’s even be generous and extend the age range to women up to 35. You have men in their 20s, 30s, 40s, even 50s, so 3-4 decades of men attempting to pursue a decade and a half of women. There is a huge imbalance with the number of men pursuing a small subset of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:32 PM
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Open relationships and poly weirdos are just low value people trying to make the most out of having nothing of substance to offer for monogamy. No doubt that there are those types in those communities but it’s a petty myopic view, there are also some fucking brilliant people as well. Plus, let’s be real, there are a plethora of these socially weird types in monogamous communities. With anything in life, pick and choose who you associate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:25 PM
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I’ve only had monogamous relationships but I want an open relationship in the future. We have all this info about how people get bored of sexual partners after years and years and years, why would I sign up for that misery? Why would I want to restrict my partner from ever fucking a new chick again, which will sky rocket his testosterone? And no way would I sign up for a one way monogamous relationship? Fuck that. I’m going to get strange too. You can have wonderful, non-monogamous relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:23 PM
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Damn. You got some fucking issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:58 PM
4

To summarize, pay close attention to what they say, what they do, how they treat people, how they talk about others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:29 AM
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You’ve never experienced someone who consistently interrupts? Just the other night, a guy was chatting me up, he would ask me a question and as I was in the process of answering, he’d interrupt me to talk about his shit. That is a flag that the dude doesn’t actually have any interest in you as a person, as they don’t care to actually hear what you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:27 AM
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Not sure why she would brag about owning a Michael Kors purse. It’s like the budget bag for people who wish they could afford designer. By the way, if we’re talking quality items, $100 is not expensive by any stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:48 AM
8

Well, to be fair the point being made in OP is short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:44 AM
7

Boats are one of the most notorious money pits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:41 AM
3

LOL! Pretty much case in point. I don’t feel scared of feeling slutty, I even referred to myself as slut in the comment, for fucks sake. And you think it’s a power trip to want to be treated as a person? That’s the conclusion you reached with my comment? “How dare you think you’re anything more than just an attractive hole for my dick. How dare you have self-respect” I’ve found that dudes who just focus on their dick without consideration of the person in front of them tend to be shitty lovers a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 07:51 AM
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There is actually study that touches upon this. When there is a higher ratio of men to women, there tends to be monogamy. When there is a higher ratio of women to men, society tends to be more promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 10:20 AM
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There are more men that see me who are willing to take a chance on asking me out than men I see who I am willing to take a chance and ask out. And as an assertive person, I do ask men out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:25 AM
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Since women are more choosier doesn't it require less pressure to hit beauty standards to get a solid guy? No, because men’s number 1 standard for dating is physical attractiveness. There was and is heaps of pressure for women to look good. There’s less pressure to hone other traits because at the end of the day, what really matters is looks for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:12 AM
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Lol. No. Im slutty for sure but if some dudes starts talking sexual right off the bat, I will ghost. I don’t need someone to date me to fuck them, but I need to know they have some interest in me as a person and not just be an interchangeable hole to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:08 AM
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Having sex with multiple people doesn’t inherently make someone good at sex nor does having sex with one make you inherently bad. However, there is something to be said about multiple partners. For example, when I was learning to salsa, my friend and I would skip the class’s partner rotation and it stunted our growth as dancers because we grew accustomed to each other’s bad dancing habits and got stuck in routines of moves that we were used to. Sex with multiple people allows you to properly exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 08:40 AM
1

It’s funny to me when on this sub some dude makes a comment that shows how little he actually knows about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 07:20 AM
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Men have reigned king on cheating for so long and it still happens, frequently, with no remorse because they feel entitled because “it’s just different for men.” You are right that women are catching up in cheating rates but that only means this is a human trait, you can’t pin this shit on women and pretend like men are some hapless innocent victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:46 AM
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I am honestly baffled by these comments. It’s like these guys want to stick their fingers in their ears and pretend this shit doesn’t happen. Says a lot about their naivety and ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:42 AM
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that loves you That’s the crux of the situation isn’t it? Unfortunately, it’s not infrequent that people get drunk on power and abuse it. I would NEVER advise a woman to be financially dependent on a man, you can never know what will happen. It’s far too easy for things to go awry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:41 AM
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It's the same for women. They need someone to control them. They need to have someone that they can submit to and obey. They actually want this too, and all the feminist BS is really just a way to test men so women can be sure that the man is strong enough for her to submit to. You are fucking delusional. Women are autonomous human beings who can and do take care of themselves all the time. You sound like the kind of person who justifies abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:28 AM
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It would be for me. That is absolutely pathetic and lazy behavior and very manipulative. A handful of times is excusable but repeat that cycle for years and watch the resentment and disgust grow. It shows a serious lack of care for their partner to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:20 AM
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Traditional academics are much better suited to girls than boys. By traditional academics, do you mean sitting multiple hours a day in a classroom listening to lectures? This isn’t the first time I have heard this. But it has always confused me because ‘traditional academics’ were designed for men as women were barred from education for a long period of time. So it confuses me how it’s suddenly an issue now when it wasn’t before. I wonder what other variables are at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:19 AM
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Because he most likely sucks in bed and I have no desire to train him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 03:31 PM
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Yet women are still subjected to physical and sexual abuse by the hands of those who are supposedly there to protect. Those abuses can take quite a toll on the psyche. Saying women have life on easy mode is an ignorant statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 01:23 PM
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The only way you could think this is because you’re out of touch with reality. Being able to get a date easier does not mean someone’s life is on easy mode. Huge differences in those statements. The only thing you’re identifying is how little you have actually understand about the female experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:38 AM
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