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I wanna know the odds of her coming back around if I keep talking to her like she did before. She's weird and the effort it takes to keep in touch with her is very little. I'd only consider no contact if you think it would help with gaming her.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:52 AM
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Using me for sex is a bad thing? I’m just trying to keep that going.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 11:42 PM
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I mean when she friendzoned me the first time I reached out to her almost everytime. All we did was talk on the phone and text mainly about her crush at work. Then two weeks later she turns around and fucks me. What I'm saying is how did that work? How did I not lose her by being a beta simp during those two weeks?
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:56 AM
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That's basically what I do. She lives close so it's no big deal for me to meet up with her and shit. We used to text all the time and that's when she went from FZ ing me to fucking again. But when I dried up on the texts she seemed to go distant as well. What I'm asking is how does the whole no contact thing work here. With most girls they miss you with her it seems like the opposite is true.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:52 AM
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We were in the park yesterday. She’s hot and cold. On minute she’s telling me keep my hands away. The next she’s flashing her bra and asking my to brush leaves off her ass. TBH I’ve been through this before. She acts like this and eventually just flat out demands sex. So what do? Wait it out or move in.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 03:06 AM
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thats just it. I consented to her game before but she still came back around. Is it possible to maintain a frame while also continuing to talk to her? Just confused how it worked before.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 12:48 AM
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How is beta if I'm still pursuing other girls? I only ask this because she's done this friendzone thing with me before and I continued talking to her. She wound up wanting to fuck again two weeks later. But when I went no contact she didn't want to fuck. It's like the opposite of what is preached here and I'd like to know how that's possible. BTW she's got low self esteem and her attitude is a lot different than some of the 'hot cheerleader' types that seem to be in the trp examples.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 09:45 PM
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Could you tell me your thoughts about the fact that this has happened with the same girl before. She friendzoned me, I didn't care I talked to her as a friend, she hooked up with me. I didn't follow any of the rules or anything because I wasn't pursuing her but she still wound up hooking up with me.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:09 PM
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I guess I felt that having already fucked her I'm in less of a position to wind up an orbiter than if she was just a girl that I've never done anything with. ​
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:59 PM
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her gay bff than she grabs my stomach and says 'oh that's nice'. I think she's attracted to me physically but for some reason she doesn't wanna fuck me. She's weird.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:12 PM
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Thing is she doesn't disrespect me. I've told her shit and she listens to it. The one thing I haven't done yet is reveal any feelings because fuck that. Last night she told me she wasn't in love with me but 'loved me as a friend.' blah blah blah. At this rate I wanna know if it sounds like orbiter status or if she actually trusts/respects/afraid to lose me. Again I haven't made any overtures that would tell her I see her as more than a friend/fuckbuddy
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:36 PM
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I value the friendship and we've had simliar shit to deal with in our pasts. But I don't want to be her beta orbiter either. Question is how do I keep a frame where I'm still alpha if im not fucking her.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:39 PM
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thanks for the tips. I talked to her last night. She 'loves me as a friend' also thinks im attractive. But I put myself in the place of being her BFF. Guess I figured that my looks and fucking were enough to keep friendzone from happening but I was wrong. let me know if there's anything i can do aside from ghosting out on her.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:32 PM
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I am fucking other girls but she is a good friend. I'm just asking if there is any way to turn the situation around. She is physically attracted to me and 'comfortable' around me. Still mentions she loved having sex with me. So with all of this what steps should i take? Also her smv is fairly low. Tallish, plus sized, very childish, etc.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:12 PM
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Yeah. It’s a good set of rules. But now I need to ask you something just academically. When I first met this girl she friendzoned me and I went with it. I treated her like my therapist. She still came around to fucking me again. Just curious what you make of that. Btw don’t worry I’m nexting her. I just want thoughts on what seems to be an odd girl and an odd situation.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:26 AM
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At this point she tells me about the other guy so I tell her about other girls. As I mentioned she’s coneenced that they are “cuter than me!!!!” So I dunno. Seems like she’s jealous.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:08 AM
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We’re suppoawd to meet up with a group this weekend. She also mentioned hanging out just off the next day which I’m planning to bring her to a party.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:07 AM
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At this point I’m fucking other girls and she is aware of it. What’s been weird is that she will tell me about these dudes and then tell me that she enjoyed me more. There’s obviously attraction and I want to know how to leverage that back around to fwb again.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:26 AM
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it sounds like she's more into you. Like if you make a move for her for an ltr she would take you over the other dude. ​
/r/askTRP05/01/19 03:07 AM
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