AntMan3298 Archive

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1	Words that get me laid Your entire last section is just not understanding the concept of “LTR” “late-term resistance” Those girls usually aren’t actually changing their mind so much as being a little hesitant or unsure IN THAT MOMENT. You do not actually cater to this.	/r/seduction	19/02/26 12:11 AM
13	Words that get me laid This actually an old concept I first heard from RSD Julian where he would literally say “let’s go watch vampire diaries.” The lameness is in some cases a social lubricant. Years ago people used to say things like “do you want to come inside for a cup of coffee?” and both people knew they weren’t talking about coffee, but stating it overtly was “too much”	/r/seduction	19/02/26 12:09 AM
12	The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back. Can someone find that video of the woman interviewing the elder woman and the old lady flat out admitting she misses being catcalled please	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 03:42 AM
16	The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back. lol women speak of men wanting to go talk to women they think are pretty like they’re an uncontrolled infection. “Types of dudes who were doing it” Types of dudes to approach women? What type is that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 03:41 AM
–	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. This is the ultimate powder keg of feminism I’ve been waiting for for the past few years (not out of malicious excitement or anything, more so dread) and we’re approaching a critical mass rapidly. Much of post-modern feminism has been—intentionally or not—leading the culture into this simultaneous dichotomy of gynocentric extortion and “women are the ultimate victims” As a result, women’s initial “lack of accountability” problem will quickly delve into “lack of agency” problem; and as a result o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 02:20 AM
2	Gender war stalemate favors men Ah yes, the red pill: “Sit around and buy books, nothing more.” Btw man you can go out every weekend and still be able to read statistics, the political divide between men and women growing is not some conspiracy theory or something lol. Edit: I’d like to add I love this regurgitated midwit stance that apparently grifting only exists in red-pill communities or something. Dunno who needs to hear this but just like anything else you can follow something and not pay money. Wanna learn guitar and so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 12:45 AM
4	Y'all are shooting yourself in the foot with the slut shaming and puritanical culture “Puritanical” is top 10 most overused words on this sub. Western civilization hasn’t resembled Puritanism in the better part of a century, you people just keep saying that to make everyone right of you look like zealous religious nut jobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 04:54 PM
0	Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignity You might wanna sit for this… Yes, being more concerned with a persons past behavior is a better indicator of character than the length of a man’s femur bone, therefore one could ascertain they’re more “enlightened” lol anyway this is Schrödinger’s feminism. Men are simultaneously “obsessed” with body count, and “desperate with no standards” when it comes to height or income. Do me a fav babe, pick a bullshit lane. Y’all really need new insults besides incel, because at this point you’re just ea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 05:35 AM
1	Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignity You know many teenage edgelords? Hope you're a teacher, and not trying to combat wisdom with a fanfic you're writing up in your head. you're obsessing over body count, we aren't. Oh we know Imfao. That's why women have no problem being in harems, as long as it's the guy every other girl wants you look past body count immediately... your point? Men look past how broke so many women are, and how we have to pay for most shit, it's almost as if... men and women are different and want different thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 04:56 AM
0	Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignity it certainly isn’t beating incel allegations Okay, what the fuck does incel even mean anymore lmfaooo. Do you know any college kids? The dudes I know getting laid most are athletes that don’t know the difference between “you’re” and “your” not the book club kids. Regardless, thinking I’m an incel because I read Nietzsche and not new fiction is… I don’t even know, genuinely what’s the connection? good thing that wasn’t my progression of thoughts I said new fiction sucks and you implied that would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 04:48 AM
-1	Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignity lol you getting offended that I think most new fiction novels suck or that I think The Bell Jar is overrated is the problem. “Oh no he doesn’t like new fiction or the bell jar, must be a misogynist” is an insane progression of thought. Calling something bad ≠ rage Calling out a pattern of behavior ≠ rage I joined this sub years ago, things have gotten worse. I also like debates, sociology, and conversations surrounding dating. Having certain opinions on dating disbars me from… having opinions on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 04:21 AM
0	Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignity How old are you? Genuinely. Does nobody remember cod lobbies anymore? It’s the internet my brother in Christ, if people think you’re uncool for whatever reason they’re gonna shit on you, that doesn’t mean they’re holding back tears living in broken homes my guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 01:31 AM
0	Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignity you’re bothered that some men read It’s very interesting to me how the purple pill has invaded literature. Feminism has somehow tried to strongarm what’s “good” literature and not. I read too, but I’m considered an incel because I read Nietzsche or Solzhenitsyn and not new fiction novels or The Bell Jar—you know, shit books… “Men who read” is only a thing when they’re reading things that echo your worldview. men raging on men for having what they want This is funny, because the guys who have a t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 01:29 AM
10	Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignity Right. “I’d take someone who specifically caters to me and does shit for me than the person not doing shit for me.” The rest is just moral posturing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 01:14 AM
3	Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignity The person telling you they’re an asshole is almost ALWAYS an objectively better person than the one pretending not to be. obsesses over women’s body count. Just checking in, love that this continues to be the hill women die on for the past like 3 years I’ve been on this sub lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 01:13 AM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere Dems can push positive messaging while being inclusive of all genders… Impossible. Dems made feminism a zero-sum game, they’ve built their premise of building women up by tearing men down. They got the female vote by promising a “get back” of sorts. Ship has sailed, train left station, past the point of no return.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:20 PM
4	If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone? There’s no better proof of Schrödinger’s feminism than women COMPETING to be the bigger victims in DATING OPTIONS. Lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 01:45 AM
2	If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone? lol… you guys specifically and solely mean “desperation in a variety of sexual partners”… right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 01:43 AM
9	If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone? This really is a hilariously never ending wives tale that always takes one social experiment. You guys trade photos of each others friends and make fake tinder profiles in your areas, see which gender is more likely to get zero likes lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 01:41 AM
2	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. I said it’s not common bc most people are bad at it. Ah, fair enough. My bad. In my defense that’s something I’ve put a lot of work in and surrounded myself with other people who have so I guess I have a bit of a bubble bias, because yes I agree it is a skill that most never try to improve. It is sad, it’s something pretty much anyone can work on too, and so many men’s complaints about dating can be resolved with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 01:33 AM
1	The gender war epidemic I can’t tell if you people are being intentionally dense as some form of posturing or perpetuating this gender divide but let me reiterate: I no longer give a shit about the purple pill “debate” and neither should most people at this point. No shitbirds, I’m not afraid of feminists kicking my door down. I’m afraid of what I’m hearing coming down the pike from the younger generations. These kids aren’t like most generations, they’re heavily involved and opinionated in politics since like middle s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 01:28 AM
6	The gender war epidemic Bud… you’re behind. I bought my land and my guns and learned how to grow food and live off the grid. Not exaggerating when I say doomsday prep shit. Do I think what’s coming will be THAT bad? No, always over prepare… but make no mistake, it’s gonna be bad. I said a while ago I see no end or peaceful result, I do not say this with any hatred of women—I know some might see my red pill tag and think so—I say this because the only reason I became “red-pilled” was I noticed a COMPLETE AND UTTER refus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 04:04 AM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. but that’s not commonly to how most people date. It literally is. I really hope we can continue this in good faith—the idea of how much pickier women are than men is something that’s been discussed a dozen times over, please don’t make me cite lol. With that said, this notion that most people date that way would have to mean men and women are more often finding the other equally attractive at first sight, and that is not what’s happening. Virtually everybody I know—including myself, knows at lea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 03:47 AM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. I simply could not disagree more. I would bet my life that most women work like dimmers because I’ve racked hundreds—if not thousands—of reference experiences proving that to me. Back when dating coaches were worth a damn, groups like RSD would prove the dimmer theory on a nightly basis. Secondly, the modern woman’s dating strategy doesn’t prove me wrong. Good game is virtually extinct, women going off looks more now is less instinctual and more reactive to what’s given, which makes things like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 11:00 AM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. “Rizz” as it’s called nowadays	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 10:54 AM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. I will concede the more I think about it the more nuance there is. I mean can it be a light switch? Sure, but I’d say that’s for a small pool of men. So I think average men would do better seeing it as a dimmer, as in a man can become attractive—irresistible even—to a woman after she gets to know you for a little even despite initially not finding you attractive. I do think it can also be similar to a switch when it comes to turn OFFS though, like “icks”	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 07:22 PM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. To an extent, it’s an echo-chamber on the sheer fact it’s online. Controversy and negativity go viral easier than good things; meaning if you are seeing a viral video, it’s probably negative. Not that it’s not real, it’s just a different place in a way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 05:03 PM
1	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. Attraction—especially for women—is a DIMMER switch, men are light switches. Man… being in 2025 knowing like any game whatsoever feels like being the last Jedi and having the ancient texts lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 05:01 PM
2	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. That’s how laziness works. If you allow a person to overstep boundaries, or give them what they want without them meeting your needs, you just have no self-respect. Full stop. That’s not how “hotness” works, that’s how a horndog teen boy works, “I’ll drag my balls through a mile of broken glass to smell her farts” type thing lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 04:55 PM
2	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. This is equally as sad though. Like Sydney Sweeney is definitely hot but she’s not Hailey’s Comet or something… Celebrity idolatry on either side of the gender spectrum is low IQ behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 04:51 PM
5	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value Nah you’re missing it. It’s that women who don’t belong in as high of a value bracket as they think ignoring men who are actually in their bracket. And so we’re clear, most of the time a woman sleeps with a guy who has much higher value than them, they don’t get a call back	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 04:38 AM
7	The mentality of women on PPD and FDS is indeed ubiquitous in america and this is supported by professional research,this problem is not a issue overseas Lol someone has never been a white man in Japan But yeah I get where you’re coming from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 06:00 AM
2	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness Guys who dont get this attention are often more attuned to it happening but theyre not exactly wizards either and would be completely oblivious in some cases as well. However the guy that usually is getting this attention is way more oblivious than youre estimating, often right in front of their faces without them realizing. Yes, women are still becoming more blatant in their flirting theyre still nowhere near obvious and if they are they’d even admit to you they were doing a bad job. Similarly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 03:49 AM
2	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness This part has nothing to do with western or eastern culture though. Though western is much more lax on sex both have judged and placed judgment on promiscuity. Fear of being exiled or labeled is primal regardless of culture, country or era. However you do add a very interesting caveat that does change things in this era which is social media. This is in fact a large part of the rising promiscuity of our generation, makes sense when obtaining sex is now as easy as ordering a pizza (for some). How…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 03:45 AM
1	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness If that’s your only exposure to PUAs... seeing Tyler would probably make you shit a brick lol ifykyk	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 11:22 PM
20	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness Lol this is just wildly inaccurate tbh. Women don’t experience “approach anxiety” as much as men, why? Because they don’t approach. A man is afraid of rejection for primitive reasons, it subconsciously and primitively says, “your bloodline is not worth continuing” in tribal terms. A woman is afraid of being exiled from the tribe for promiscuous behavior. Therefore she doesn’t approach. In all my years working nightclubs and pickup, the “women approach too or if a woman likes you she’ll let you k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 11:19 PM
5	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness I wouldn’t say men think women are “lying” but contrary to some posts in this thread women’s sexual attraction is much more fluid. With that said it’s much more likely a women would change her mind in an actual interaction. I used to teach dating, there were a lot of guys with physical deformities, now I can’t hold it against someone for not being attracted to someone; but with that said a lot of these guys were great guys and women couldn’t see past the defect. So while yes it’s very possible f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 11:02 PM
1	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness Didn’t think this needed to be said but this goes both ways, “80% of women go for the top 20% of men... ... because at least 60% of them are delusional enough to think they’re in the top 20%” Pointing at either sex for something like this when it’s symmetrical is kind of unproductive imho	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 10:57 PM
1	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... You disagree that my distinction in my completely hypothetical scenario is a likelihood? Lol what? It’s a hypothetical, the point isn’t likelihood. But to expand on my point, there is very much a difference between being depressed and not being able to maintain such a high status. Discipline is a great concept to reference here: in order to be successful in a lot of cases, you need the discipline to not go out as often with your friends, or watch your favorite TV show, or drive to wherever to ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 03:00 AM
0	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Well, if she continues to continue the illusion that’s settling and that the other lifestyle is healthier then she will divorce him... and then struggle much harder to find another partner let alone a partner that had everything as the one before, but is more attractive but somehow willing to put up with a woman who lost value in age since her marriage and now carries the baggage of being a divorced woman—this isn’t like trading in for a new iPhone or something lol Also that’s not projection. I’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 01:46 AM
0	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Yes. I’ve been touring major city to major city for two decades😂 I’ve probably met tens of thousands of people, and in that time I’ve studied my craft, that statement I made about it’s been proven men enjoy a post-40 single life more than women, it’s something I’m citing I’ve read years ago. Also yes that would benefit men more than women; that’s what I’m saying, this philosophy will suck for women in the long term. Edit: also I’m not sure what you mean about suffering like I did	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 01:44 AM
1	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... That’s not what anecdotal means. I have a larger sample size than the vast majority of people, my knowledge in this topic is a poll in it of itself. That last line was in response to the idea men are happier single for a longer window and you saying so hes gonna have a good post 40s and she’s most likely to stay alone, to which I said if the guy works on his value, yes that’s most likely. Moreover, it’s not a his issue; I’ve been repeatedly explaining why it’s not healthy for her or society as w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 12:36 PM
1	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Well, in this hypothetical; the odds she’d be happier with the less attractive guy are better than you think when it comes to the long term. Either way neither are actually happy. The guy obviously not, and the girl is about as happy and in the same sense of “happy” as a person is while eating McDonald’s. Endorphin rush followed by crashes and longer term sense of regret	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 12:29 PM
1	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... You are making up factors that weren’t intended though lol I just made the distinction between this being a case of mental health and not being able to maintain the consistency needed to be a 9. Anything past that was meant as hyperbole to prove a point, not psychoanalyze the hypothetical partner lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:54 AM
0	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Did you just use a hypothetical example as a gotcha moment? Lol Anyway, a woman may be happy thinking being used in a bathroom stall by the DJ is fulfilling, but it’s not respectable nor will it lead to long-term happiness. Where the guy who isn’t deluded if anything has a better chance on becoming more attractive in the long haul.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:30 AM
0	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Lol idk ma’am I don’t have the link off dome hahaha. How about twenty years in the dating and nightclub industry lol does that count? I mean I’d never say resentment or anger is really appropriate but being made to feel inferior (directly or indirectly, intentionally or not) by someone who isn’t even superior to you will most likely build resentment And if he works on himself and she keeps thinking she’s a 9, then yes lol that’s likely to happen	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:26 AM
1	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Someone can be in equal value with you in other areas, that simple. A person can be not physically attractive but have a killer personality for example. It’s more, this girl is as ugly as me, but thinks she’s not and thinks getting used by 7s and 8s (who don’t respect her btw) is a better lifestyle. Followed by confusion mostly lol but some cases resentment	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:20 AM
1	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... For a short window. Women’s happiness as single doesn’t last as long as a man being single; a man can enjoy his post-40 years single much more than women whose window is much smaller, that’s also been shown. So not really, they’re living without the pasta because they have a deluded sense of self, which almost will definitely carry over into other parts of their lives for one, and two years down the road if they were to ever change their mind about companionship (incredibly common) they’ll find …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:18 AM
2	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Your first paragraph sounds good except I’m not talking about depression, you can “give up” and not be depressed—being a high value individual takes hard work and maintenance. Never once have I implied I’m speaking about my relationship lol sorry if you are mistaken there. You can be a very attractive girl physically, say a 7 or 8 but poor oral hygiene would bring you to a 6. This is just an example, don’t nitpick on it too much. Either way while I mentioned much of the scale is subjective as to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:14 AM
1	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... I never said it had to be the same exact thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 10:33 AM
2	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Oh absolutely, obsessing over someone is never healthy, regardless of how much they may be attracted to you. And I also agree, if you have no chance, move on—there’s no reason not to and will only degrade yourself in the process. However, not that I necessarily disagree, with your point about not my place to be concerned about what she does to become anything, there’s a HUGE caveat you’re missing. She’s my partner. If you commit yourself to someone you expect them to not start plummeting out of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 10:00 AM
1	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... I mean if you’re happy then hey more power to you. But I’d disagree on whether or not staying single is objectively better than “settling” into a relationship. A lot of that comes down to your definition of it—there are guys who can’t date models because they snore... if you overlook a plethora of positive traits in a person over minute details that aren’t perfect, you’re missing out on a lot of happiness in a relationship for starters, and making it incredible difficult for the possibility of y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 09:34 AM
2	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... You’re kind of simplifying it but if your point is they should starve to death because they just can’t manage eating pasta then no I don’t think that’s a more productive solution for society lol Sometimes just be thankful you’re getting food on your plate lol Edit: also the flipping burgers part was about how unrealistic/naive it is to set your expectations for dinner on surf & turf when you’re getting paid to flip burgers	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 09:25 AM
2	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... You make this seem much more vulgar than it is. Basically it’s more “hey, I know you love surf & turf dinner; but you haven’t worked on a promotion for years and are flipping burgers, maybe lowering your expectations based on what you have and try some pasta which is still good” lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 11:17 AM
9	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Well for starters it matters because you’d be wildly overestimating yourself which won’t lead anywhere successful or productive, and you’d be blindly arrogant for another. No really, if a 6 thinks she’s a 9 she’ll have hardly any incentive to actually work on becoming a 9, and instead be resentful/bitter why the 7s and 8s for guys she’s managing to sleep with don’t call her back; while guys who are a 6 and don’t put her on a pedestal but are attracted to her in a more genuine way aren’t even on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 11:12 AM
28	Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for... Expand? Most of the talk in that regard I’d say is in the sense of women overestimating their attractiveness becoming a trend	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 09:39 AM
6	Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world? The problem with that is it could literally ostracize you. Owen from RSD had a theory on “slut-shaming” it’s like a club, if you say “meh I mean I do think there’s a such thing” you never get allowed in and don’t even realize it—barely any invitations, female friends think you’re a misogynist, dating options damn near plummet, etc. So here’s the thing, I do agree with you, but that’s easy to say in my position. But most guys? No shot. An average dude can’t not partake in this and expect an abund…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 11:08 PM
11	Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world? That first fact explains every other part of your post your curious about. Except maybe narcissism, not sure about that one, I’ve done a lot of traveling; Americans are often cocky but Europeans are often pretentious so idk. Edit: I guess “vain” is better fitting, that I think suits Americans more than most countries, my bad didn’t really see what you were getting at Hookup Culture has been spreading like a virus in the US and getting stronger as time goes on. Because of this the sexual marketpl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 10:09 PM
1	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex not necessarily, I'd say it depends on what you consider a success. you get a very receptive number close that most likely won't flake, I consider that a win. I used ti Agnews at malls and get a number half the time, by the time I walked out I pretty much have a date for every day the next week. with that in mind I still recommend it as it can give fruitful results	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 10:20 PM
4	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. “There are 7 billion people in the world. Your genes are not needed to keep our species going” I just thought it was 1: incredibly weird and condescending to reduce the aspiration of parenthood to a numbers game or a caveman scenario. 2: ironic considering if you are THAT over-reactive and wildly naive to be that vindictive and judgmental it’s probably your genes that are weighing us down more than anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 05:35 AM
13	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. Lol the two of you are out of your trees. Get off this bullshit moral high horse. Woman having the goal of motherhood is selfish because the planet is hurting? How about this, neither of you two procreate and she can and our sum total will still decrease and we’ll have less morons to deal with	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 05:11 AM
3	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. I think the most ironic thing I’ve read today is a Gen Z’er being confident in the event of survival of the fittest	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 05:08 AM
2	I can only see current trends accelerating It will. Culture ebbs and flows, no better example than the return to sexual conservatism right after the sexual awakening of the 70s. I don’t see any reason for this hookup culture or polyamory to continue for much longer; especially since on a macro-scale, conservatism is beginning to come back — the “woke” culture is bleeding and people are tired of it — With the gradual shift to conservatism the sexual culture will follow. Moreover, it will come back to bite these women in the future. Again,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 01:26 AM
2	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Depends. RSD luke had a little trick (of which I totally robbed) where you walk by a girl and sort of the last second exclaim, “holy shit sick chuck Taylor’s!” ... or whatever trait about them that genuinely sticks out and is cool to you. But the point is that last second reaction makes it so much more genuine and feel less like you’re here for something and more like you just genuinely think they’re cool shoes. I actually love cold approach in places other than the norms, it’s just about making…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 09:59 PM
1	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Sounds like you need to do it now more than ever for that reason — imho the biggest pro of cold approach now is being able to be comfortable in front of a girl you’re attracted to	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 09:55 PM
1	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Also 1 in 300 turns to 1 in 10 faster than you think with practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 09:54 PM
14	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex I’ve worked as a dating coach for decades — you’d be shocked at how wrong this can be. Besides any clients the best example is one of my closest friends; he was a lot younger than me but he was 6 ft, handsome af, smart, incredibly funny, good job, education, nice car, hygiene, clothing, social status, etc. I mean he checked ALL the boxes. Wasn’t toxic, misogynistic, rude, whatever. Didn’t lose his v card till he was 23(24? Can’t remember) why? Bad luck, women in my area were pretty trashy, didn’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 09:50 PM
1	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? I’ve worked as a dating coach and had no problem accessing casual sex and I encouraged my students to get sex toys. There’s no real proof that it’s just men who can’t get any that resort to sex toys, in fact I’ve socialized in the porn industry and met other men like myself who also have plenty of access but just have a high sex drive and enjoy it and they had CLOSET fulls of stuff. Truth be told sometimes it’s better, and don’t let anyone give you bullshit about not getting any — it’s more I ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 04:51 AM
1	No, biology doesn't say that you "should" reproduce / spread your genes This seems like a long winded response to something that’s usually referred to more as a PSYCHOLOGICAL reason than a biological one	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/20 04:20 AM
1	How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women? Because women’s opinions differ from media narratives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/20 07:45 PM
1	On why there is some confusion around the idea that assholes get laid Assholes DO get laid though. Women specifically fall the ones they know they’re not supposed to	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 07:44 PM
6	Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time. In our current time you’d find more of the latter. Women (Men have been falling off in ways too but) have been dealing with a deteriorating sense of dating value and an overall lack of ability to communicate and a total lack of accountability. For some odd reason a trend I’ve been noticing is women “stringing” guys along even the ones deepest in the friend zone for apparently no other reason than straight up validation, I’ve never seen it this bad but a lot of women today are so desperate for va…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/20 03:24 PM
1	Do you ever get approached sexually? Stop. This whole point is moot because the fundamental dynamics of dating between men and women make this statement an apples and oranges comparison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/20 08:59 PM
-1	If short women were treated like short men, would it be seen as a more serious social issue? That’s been psychologically disproven.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/20 01:48 AM
7	If short women were treated like short men, would it be seen as a more serious social issue? Women are thirsty they just have more social pressure not to be, “thirsty” is just a baseline lust that all humans have. Also the biggest difference here is one: height can’t be changed — I’m sorry for whoever uses the “big boned” excuse but at least 75% or more of obesity issues are fixable, height is not. And two: the social backlash of a man fat-shaming a woman could lead to a literal ass kicking, there’s a lot of white knights who think punching a guy for saying mean things will get him laid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/20 07:36 PM
1	Just how important is height really? Nah It’s the 15+ years I’ve spent in the industry teaching neckbeards like you how to get laid Well maybe not like you, they at least had potential	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 09:34 PM
6	Just how important is height really? It’s literally depressing how superficial we’ve become in a matter of years	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 06:03 AM
10	Just how important is height really? Around 2008, not important. Now? With tinder and Insta being such big factors of our dating paradigm? Definitely more important. Either way in terms of legitimate practicality and pragmatic value, height doesn’t mean much. It’s more our skewed value system that thinks it’s valuable. Yes we tend to lean towards a taller candidate if all things are equal but things are changing our president is not as much meant to be a poster boy; JFK was tall, tan, and handsome as well as charismatic; policy asi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 10:52 PM
5	Q4RP: What happened to "try to leave her better than you found her?" Actual material on cold approach is all but dead, nobody is making anything new. If they are they’re amateur YouTube channels that have pretty intermediate game Can you still do it? Sure, but you’re more likely to have early resistance or flat out rejections because it’s still inherently more frowned upon now than even ten years ago without a single doubt. Our social/dating paradigm has hugely shifted to social media	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 03:38 AM
3	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Half true. Even with the advent of contraception women are literally deathly afraid of “settling” really it’s more of a fear of thinking a guy is decent, consenting, and finding out he’s a HUGE incel — there’s a term for it I can’t remember But yeah the actual psychological effect as akin to a fear of “tribe death” which is a fear of being so socially low that the “tribe” casts you out. This combined with a ever growing mindset of Holier Than Thou that women are adopting it makes for a bigger th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 03:28 AM
8	Q4RP: What happened to "try to leave her better than you found her?" Cold approach has long been dead unfortunately, at least in the sense of teaching. The actual act is more frowned upon now than ever — now you have more of a hill to climb because women automatically assume you’re a creep more now	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 02:56 AM
22	Men don't approach anymore ... Wrong. 100% wrong. They’re called “IOI’s” or “indicators of interest”. It’s a real concept in courtship and dating. It’s been in the pickup community for decades. A girl smiling, holding eye contact longer than usual, flicking her hair so you can see, exposing her neck, crossing her legs towards you are all IOIs. If you ever approached a woman at a bar you’d know 90% of the time women don’t make verbal signals for you to come over, it is literally not in their psychology. ( a ton of social facto…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 05:46 AM
1	You should dump s woman if you find out she has a sex tape. Exactly. I am still getting hate in that thread lol. I don’t know man, a lot of women always say how fragile the male ego is yet when it becomes a possibility that they’re sensitive it’s like it’s impossible Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 04:52 AM
1	You should dump s woman if you find out she has a sex tape. Wrong. But the hate those people are giving the boyfriend for not wanting to have sex with his gf right after seeing her get plowed by another dude is revolting. Men have feelings? She’s def the victim but maybe give the guy a break?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 01:29 AM
1	Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard? This sounds more like you just have an inept friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 12:14 AM
2	Flirting isn't getting someone to like you, it's finding out if someone likes you. Not true at all. At most I’d concede half true in the sense that women will often throw out semi-flirtatious lines to a guy she doesn’t think is picking up hints to “test the water” — as “putting oneself out there” in a romantic sense is more detrimental to a woman than a man. For men however, this simply isn’t true. While sometimes the girl you’re talking to may in fact already be attracted to you, a lot of the time the flirtation process holds a ton of shit tests as well as acts as a meta shit…	/r/seduction	27/04/20 02:17 AM
5	About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case) That’s because the dynamics in dating reflect that. Women protest being called sluts for “wanting the same thing a man wants” meanwhile still want most of the traditional courtship and societal idolization whether they realize it or not: expect the man to pay the first (or all) date, actually asking her out (women will argue how bad men are at taking rejection and not realize that they’re never ones who have to make that initial “offer” — most women actually get shattered when they get rejected …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/20 03:27 AM
4	CMV: Contrary to tradcon talking points, feminist societies with strong welfare states produce well-adjusted men and women and societal advancement, while traditional patriarchal societies permit laziness, violence, and everything trads consider "degeneracy" I’m not gonna go into a long-winded statement about why your point collapses on itself. causation does not equal correlation skewed and deluded perspective of male sense and purpose — contradicting ideas of male undervaluing counterparts clashing with idea of dedication of existence solely dedicated to that which is undervalued providing one-dimensional reasoning to human behavior then over grasping to associate action with purpose of ethos ignoring multitude of historic, economic, geographic, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/20 02:55 AM
9	When women criticize men, they are only referring to the top 20%. When men criticize women, they're referring to all women. The biggest problem is that the “Chads” and “Tyrones” aren’t the top 20% of REAL dating value. Our definitions of value in dating is beyond skewed, we have no idea what makes a good or desirable partner; literally the only deciding factor being used by women now is preselection. Preselection used to be a valuable indicator but has since become a decoy. People are more socially impressionable and women have demanded hypergamy, to a deluded extent — critically overvaluing themselves and Chad and T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 06:49 AM
1	An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n woman Can somebody tell me what N count means	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 11:34 PM
9	Rough/degrading sex Between the two of you this is a crude generalization. I’ve worked in dating, I have a lot of romantic history, most often in my life the women who were into rough sex were often the most mature, grounded, stable and independent women. They saw sex as variety of things one of them being a break from reality. Some of them were dominant alpha women who happened to love being obedient in bed but all were kind, intelligent, emotionally mature women	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/20 03:14 AM
1	CMV: Women should welcome sexbots. That way, a portion of men (that women wouldn't be interested in to begin with) would be removed from the sexual market and make the selection process easier. Lol women probably said that when men started to watch porn before they fell suit. tHe woMeN WhO usE diLDos aRe SLuTs tHaT MeN wouLdnT wAnT aNywAY...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/20 09:27 AM
10	CMV: Women should welcome sexbots. That way, a portion of men (that women wouldn't be interested in to begin with) would be removed from the sexual market and make the selection process easier. This would absolutely affect the dating pool for your average women however too. A man now has a completely submissive machine specifically catered to men’s desires and probably is more physically attractive than your average woman. Men will take the easy short term pleasure over a woman making women now compete even more harshly for those men who have that status, women who weren’t more incentivizing than the sexbot in the first place now essentially have no shot at the men with the higher stat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/20 05:28 AM
1	Are men just not that attractive? Now compare how much effort women put into looking like that in comparison to men... What the hell is this statement even trying to accomplish	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/20 11:17 PM
6	How did Pick Up Artistry go from Jimmy Kimmel to extremely marginalized? It was seen as a sort of a quirky hobby because it wasn’t as affective, in terms of practical results for the average participant it really kind of was just that, a hobby. Now there’s stories you’ll find of guys who grew out of that era that took it very seriously, besides Mystery and Tyler Durden who, especially Mystery had already achieved a top tier level, guys like Todd Valentine talk about how it was almost like a super nerdy but super invested and competitive dungeons and dragons of seduct…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/20 04:38 AM
1	Cold approached a girl with her friend at a library today- no regrets Lol idk what that is but I didn’t come up with that phrase	/r/seduction	20/11/19 05:28 AM
1	Cold approached a girl with her friend at a library today- no regrets This is absolutely not a rejection, female attraction is a dimmer not a switch — plus it doesn’t sound like she doesn’t want to keep talking. This is a lead keep in touch with her	/r/seduction	19/11/19 11:41 PM
1	The whole false alpha male construct is a detriment to society The alpha and beta dynamic is very much a real thing.	/r/seduction	24/05/19 08:11 PM
1	Just saw this sub and holy shiz Agreed. Recognizing value in a person is a skill in it of itself, you have to recognize what’s actually valuable in a girl (most guys see a hot girl with a semi-quirky sense of humor or a nerdy side and think “this girls perfect” as if loyalty, empathy, kindness, generosity, etc. aren’t all way more important.) and vice-versa you can’t expect every girl to recognize your value in a 30 second interaction. It’s like art. Show a regular joe a historic art piece and they might say “this looks like s…	/r/seduction	24/05/19 08:05 PM