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To answer better, I raised the kid I know from a preteen to a teen I’ve dealt with a kid who needed social media guidance and help. He was an absolute asshole. I hope I helped
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:42 AM
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I turned 40 this year. I think it’s beyond me. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:38 AM
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Cis women are women. Trans women are women. It’s not anyone’s fault you can’t accept this, other than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:50 AM
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Yeah. I admire you, and your openness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:16 AM
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Love being downvoted by people who haven’t ever interacted or cared for a 13 year old who needs help understanding what they’re going through. Literally every downvote gives me strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:15 AM
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You’re peeing. Get over it. The trans youth I deal with aren’t interested in being political objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:51 AM
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Trans women are women. Some women have a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:49 AM
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Oh, and hey, if you actually want to talk, without sarcasm or rhetoric, we can do that. Here’s what I think about you based on your past responses. You need to actually talk to someone. But you’re already convinced therapy is a sham and you’re doomed to this life alone. So why not be angry to people who succeed while you fail. You actually have good insight, though, and can see things others can’t. While it may be depressing, you actually have a good mind and good head on your shoulders. You cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:28 AM
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Of course not. 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:14 AM
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OK baby 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:10 AM
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And I’m not denying or going against it? Do you want me to assume? Because we can go there, but you don’t win some imaginary argument
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:00 AM
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My partner currently teaches grade 3 but previously did kindergarten. She said she had to constantly tie shoes and sniff butts. I feel for you 😂 I hope your current partner is. And while you’re thinking of it, maybe let them know. Random reminders are amazing. Only good wishes for you and him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:58 AM
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What do you mean? I am not going to assume
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:52 AM
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Chihuahuas are more prone to bite, it’s just unfortunately their power. But I love pitties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:49 AM
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I sincerely hope you find the right person to make that happen. I have a stepson from a previous relationship who I will never not love. And while he wasn’t “mine,” he was the best thing that ever happened to me. Nothing like watching a kid mimicking you become their own human being as an adult. Literally the best thing that’s happened, even though me and his mom don’t speak anymore I’d never give up those years of life raising him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:47 AM
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You get them something practical, something useful, and something handmade all at once. I dunno. Just a thought! You got this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:23 AM
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Yup. Definitely not trying to mansplain or argue, promise
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:21 AM
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Calories for alcohol is based on alcohol content. Higher the alcohol content, higher the calories. Doesn’t matter if it’s two beers or one shot. There’s some variance but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:41 AM
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I’m 40 and my parents and I still exchange gifts. Got my mom a cutting board with her favorite Bible verse laser engraved, even though I’m not religious. My dad I got a first edition vinyl record of a comedian he loves. Christmas is magical. Even if I don’t believe in magic. Just embrace their love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:31 AM
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Green Bento box for their lunches, with a small gift card to Ulta, a lip balm, small lotion, and origami butterfly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:29 AM
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I graduated almost two years early from high school and then socialized for two years straight working full time. But most of the kids I attended some home school groups with only did church things and remained stunted. Couples I counsel now who homeschool I always encourage to do as many extracurricular activities as possible. Being alone with only your mom and dad for 24 hours a day isn’t conducive for healthy social relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:16 AM
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As someone who was homeschooled, yes. Because of homeschooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:57 AM
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That’s the vibe I get always.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:56 AM
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Could be a sinus infection, or less severe a tension headache. Sorry you’re feeling that way. If it stays for more than a day please see someone, as the chances of a sinus infection increase. And drink lots of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:43 AM
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Behind them or actually them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:38 AM
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Oh, well then go wild 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:13 AM
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I always keep it contained at those, at least if workers are involved. I know me too well after all these years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:23 PM
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The idea of any meaningful group of people going to war over not getting laid or married is hilarious to me. Ok, I’ll be sure to be scared, Gravy Seals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:16 PM
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And if you’re riding a motorcycle with an open helmet and no/low windscreen, they go right into your face and/or mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:07 PM
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And even if these “high value” men stayed monogamous and didn’t sleep around, the women that this “frees up” doesn’t not mean they’re going to settle for the remaining lesser value men. They (as much as you can say about women as a monolith, which I hate doing) would rather stay single than lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:28 PM
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You’re allowed your preferences, just like I am. I have a high n count and want the same from a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:28 PM
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Some of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:40 PM
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Then don’t date or peruse women. Easy and done. You’re not going to change their minds. So just fuck men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:03 AM
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Emotional labor is red pill garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:55 AM
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So be gay and get laid. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:41 AM
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Just red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:18 AM
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But you’ll never be in this position in your life. Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:17 AM
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Will never submit to a mandatory test that will keep my DNA or blood in a privately owned hospital. Ever. I’m not even a conspiracy theorist. But: never.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:19 AM
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I’d rather raise a kid who isn’t mine and have that kid experience love and affection, rather than proving a point to save money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:01 AM
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I’m personally comfortable with my angles now! But I appreciate the advice. I use a tripod to do TikToks and learned to edit vids. But, again, appreciate the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:00 AM
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Very true. Not discounting it. Fiver and stuff works
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:55 AM
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On this platform, I absolutely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:30 AM
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I’d argue lying makes everything harder. Talking with couples every day, or even younger trans youth who lie about things (some of those legitimate, due to fear), lying must be exhausting. Trying to remember fake memories and information is so much harder than your partner remembering things you literally told them. Like, if you were out with a girl and fucked her, then lied about where you were and what you were doing, those memories physically don’t exist, so they’re harder to remember. But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:29 AM
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Ah, I thought he meant the people who put their actual faces as their pics. Yours makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:22 AM
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I know it’s like a bumper sticker or bad Walmart tshirt, but I remember laughing hard at a phrase that said, “women, you ever realize how many of our physical issues start with ‘Men’?”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:21 AM
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Get what you’re saying, but I’m personally glad I didn’t have to lower standards for experience. But I also acknowledge privilege in height and attractiveness. That said, I could never lower my standards. Even now while I’m 40, couldn’t do it. But that’s not really (or, I should say “fully”) looks based. It’s more humor, intelligence, and flirting styles. Like if I found myself single again, I’d stay that way rather than go below those things. And don’t care about single moms. As in, they deserv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:14 AM
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Get this. I like the anonymity, though, because I don’t want to get doxxed by someone who disagrees with me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:05 AM
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Home schooled. So I wore pajamas a lot. But I was not at all fashion conscious till 16. At the time it was A&F and Express. Then it was goodwill when emo got bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:46 AM
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Totally understand the natural thing, absolutely. Good luck on your research and treatment journey, sincerely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:44 AM
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I personally find the attitudes of a lot of millennial men (less gen z, but still many) about taking selfies to be interesting. Like I was totally against it for a while. Who would want to look at a selfie on Twitter/Insta of a 32 year old (now 40)? But after a while I did some silly ones and posted them. And got good feedback on them. And then figured out poses, things that got more reactions, etc. If you’re gonna be on OLD you gotta know what looks attractive, since it’s basically first impres…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:20 AM
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I think I need to back off a bit, too. I came initially because I do relationship counseling, and it was fascinating to see all kinds of sides and stuff…but slowly I’ve become more and more annoyed with people who are closer to black pill than red pill. Thankful to the mods for cleaning a lot of it up, but that hopeless desperation, on top of shitting on therapy or self-help just frustrates me. And, yeah, some of it is personal because it’s my work. And I know it doesn’t work for everyone. But I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:09 AM
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Hahaha maybe. I had a teacher regularly tell me to fuck off, but he did it out of love and I was a smart ass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:03 AM
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I used to work in a compounding pharmacy that specialized in HRT, specifically selling a compounding version of Premarin with the ingredients coming from sources like sweet potatoes. Maybe an option? But yeah, breast and other forms of cancer that feed on estrogen or progesterone is no joke, and I totally understand the fear. Sorry you’re experiencing the hot flashes. Again, can’t relate. But empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:01 AM
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I hope you find that too. My best friend of the last many years was a coworker. We immediately hit it off as friends, and made it clear there was no romantic connection (we’re both bi), so we could get past that conversation, and then now we chat every day, share almost everything, have healthy boundaries we both respect, etc. It’s not impossible. Never stop looking and being open to connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:39 AM
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Keep in touch with teachers who would write you a recommendation, preferably in your field. Depending on depending on what you’re going into it might matter less or more (in my experience in medicine it matters a lot more than in others) but just send a Christmas card with a quick update, friend them on social if you and them have it, etc. Probably some of the best professional advice I ever had, when it came later in life and I had teachers from decades before willing to write me letters to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:33 AM
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Such a good final credit song.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:25 AM
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Yup, that’s all it is. I’ve never been ripped or anything, but now just to stay thin with a flat stomach I have to actually work out. I can’t imagine menopause, but I remember when my mom went through it she went crazy with the hot flashes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:21 AM
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Yup. I met my partner on Twitter. Been together for years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:24 AM
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So how do you know it’s more? Gut feeling? Intuition? Women can’t be telling you this, because people LIE. So who is telling you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:24 AM
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I get that. I turned 40 this year though, and while I didn’t have a midlife crisis I did realize I have to work harder to keep the figure I just naturally had in my 20s and 30s. Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:23 PM
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My sense of humor has been the reason for almost all initial conversations with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:21 PM
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I get compliments on my gray a lot. But the male pattern baldness is starting to kick in now too. Only a matter of time before I just shave it all off. Thankfully my head is shaped for that. Stupid aging 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:17 PM
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There is, at literally no point, a time in the coming future where women will “give in” and sleep and mate with men they aren’t attracted to. They will literally be alone. How is that hard to understand? They’ll literally enjoy their “cats” or whatever else is thrown at them, than date men they’re not attracted to. For whatever singular, no universal, reason they wish
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:56 AM
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Yup. When men start accepting single mothers and divorcees they’ll be a lot happier. You’re only going to grow older, OP. And let’s say you’re in a loving relationship for 7 years or 10 years, and then it just isn’t working out and one of you splits. It’s not even one of your faults. You just didn’t work together. You’re worth loving after. And so is she. Just not with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:46 AM
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Dude. I say this with all seriousness. Take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:41 AM
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Jesus this rebuttal is perfect. 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:39 AM
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It’s acceptable to tell a man no always and as many times as you want. Men aren’t owed sex. But yes, they’re free to leave. And then complain when it happens again for the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:36 AM
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Almost all extramarital affairs occur at jobs. We always sin with the people we see the most often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:34 AM
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Women love sex. What are you talking about? What they don’t love is having sex with a partner who does no chores, unless asked, complains about childcare, and then has the audacity to complain their partner isn’t immediately turned on when they roll on top of them without foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:32 AM
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If she loves you, and you’re worth her love, that doubt will never come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:28 AM
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I enjoyed my 20s. And I don’t have any regrets about it. I slept with men and women who wanted to sleep with me, and that was great. I am sure, though, some men hate me for “ruining” women by casually hooking up. And that is toxic thinking. But I get it. Don’t agree. But I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:27 AM
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I’ll have to ask them all at their next hive mind meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:35 PM
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I’ve always said my flirting style is to fight. It’s a very specific type of person that meets the criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:12 AM
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I’ve been cheated on, and it’s awful. It’s one of the worst things people can do to each other. This, again, is a deeply personal matter to me. I can’t help who I’m attracted to, but that doesn’t mean I can’t help but cheat. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:00 AM
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I’m going to take the chance you’re not being sarcastic and say: thank you 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:52 AM
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I’m just not interested in cheating, though. That’s my point. And it’s kind of a raw one for me, because when I came out to a girlfriend she freaked out and instantly thought I wanted to leave her for a man. Or would cheat with a man. I’ve never cheated in my life. Cheaters cheat. Being bi =/= cheater. All this said, yes, when I was single it was far easier to get laid by men rather than women. Going on Grindr vs Tinder, when I was single, is night and day if you’re just wanting to fuck or get f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:44 AM
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A lot of them absolutely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:37 AM
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God I hate this shit. Yes. Us bi men who want committed relationships don’t “miss out” on dick when we’re with women partners, just like how straight men who want committed relationships don’t miss out on other pussy. Cheaters don’t care about LGBTQ status or gender. They cheat regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:32 AM
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This has been easy for me. I only date bi people. At least since I came out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:03 AM
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What’s the question? I’ll answer sincerely
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:59 AM
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Where are the men to support the first guy? Because while some “simps” might indeed be messaging, if you look at posts like that in other subs, women are doing a ton more commenting and offering more support. Men can horny post and upvote and support other men. It doesn’t have to be exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:26 PM
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I would hate receiving a vagina pic as a man. And it has nothing to do with my sex drive. It has to do with consent. I can be horny and want to fuck and want to only receive mutual images I’ve consented to. Literally has nothing to do with arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:38 AM
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Welcome! And didn’t mean to speak for you, and never would mean to. Just felt we were on the same page 😊 hug them up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:17 AM
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Not playing devils advocate, but could you (or I) get bored? Sure. Absolutely. But boredom is a symptom, not a disease. But if we’re best friends with our partners, you know what we’re going to do? Communicate. We’re going to have a “come to Jesus” moment and talk about it, rather than let it fester. We love our partners, and yeah, sadly, that might end. But it isn’t because we failed at communicating. And if we can talk through things…we can get through most anything. Cheers to you and your par…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:10 AM
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Exactly. Why wouldn’t your partner also be your best friend? They ain’t your servant and they ain’t your slave. This isn’t confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:48 AM
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I think some of this changes as you age. As we age. I’m 40 now. My partner is older than me, but I think she’s the most gorgeous woman alive. We look at pictures of us in our 20s, before we met, and we see we were still attractive…but we find each other more attractive now. If we separated, I would never go after younger women. I want women with my social references, my media references. Who grew up with Nirvana and 80s and 90s tv shows. All that adds to my attraction. And yeah. Some people just…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:36 AM
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Poor people also usually have less access to education and healthcare, and are more likely to be religious, especially in certain ethnic groups. Poor Latina women with no education and a strong Roman Catholic background are going to have, on average, three times more children than their white, educated women counterparts. This is where conspiracy theories about “great replacement theory” come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:33 PM
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Don’t forget be bisexual and eat hot chip
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:22 PM
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A woman disobeyed orders not to enter a room, broke into said room and got shot. She fucked around and found out. And she absolutely was part of the insurrection. And would be doing 20-30 years like the rest if she hadn’t been. As they deserve. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:57 AM
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Or, blue pill people realize it’s bad for some people, but recognize it’s not anything than can be fixed. So get with it, or get over it. There is no legislation or quick societal change that’s going to help lonely men get laid. Or get wives. Do your best. And if that’s not good enough…that’s sad. But getting angry about it isn’t going to convince women to change. Ever. Not even one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:52 AM
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Even feminist women lament the lack of third spaces. But they aren’t willing to go to church (for the most part) or other spaces previously held just to meet people. There isn’t a current answer. There just aren’t third spaces, outside of social media and dating apps. I’ve met my last two partners over twelve years on social media. You just have to get with the times, until something else comes along. Being a non creep on IG or X or Threads isn’t hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:39 AM
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Yup. It’s very cringe of men to do. Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:29 AM
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In the past I’ve used the phrase, “I like you.” Like after they say something funny or cute. And if they say, “aww, I like you too, friend!” I get it and back off, and we’re just friends from then on. If they say, “I like you, too,” then it’s kinda game on. Until they give another indication it’s not the same. But putting something out there, rather than, “u want some fuk,” is pretty easy to gauge. I met my last partner years ago on social media, and we started saying “I hate you” to each other.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:29 AM
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I think the issue is that it’s framed as if you’re owed it. “What if I am not attractive enough to become an actor?” “What if I’m not tall enough to be good at some sports?” “What if I’m not smart enough to perform certain jobs?” It sucks. But sometimes that’s just life. And you need to give up on aspects of it. The Oscars and the NBA and MIT don’t owe you anything. So why should women? That’s just the hard truth. Edit: this isn’t black pill or incel shit. I’m happily with a partner of many year…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:23 AM
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Surely telling men to fear seeking mental medical care will not backfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:00 AM
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Better than getting older and “going the other way” out of bitterness and still not being with anyone. Those fools can get in their 30s and 40s and whine louder on the internet. Look forward to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:16 AM
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Nothing that can change it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:57 AM
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Why shouldn’t women have a height standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:35 AM
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It’s not. Women don’t owe men anything. They don’t owe “lower quality” men anything. But they still get pissed about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:24 PM
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So? Is that’s how it is, what are you going to do about it except adapt or complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:23 PM
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So? They’re allowed to do as they please
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:20 PM
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Sigh. Sadly. Yes. Edit: that said, Gen z (I’m a millennial) are way more accepting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:05 AM
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This. I’m a bi man. The moment that’s revealed to cis women they constantly think I’ll always be missing out on dick. That’s not how it works. At all. And it’s sad. But it’s also why I’ve only dated bi women since my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:03 AM
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Yup. I was in an LTR and we both let ourselves go, because we both got comfortable rather than challenging each other. I know have a partner who won’t let me settle for myself, nor me for them. And we work out and are active together. Some people can be toxic, and some couples can be toxic together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:53 AM
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What was the reason she left if she wasn’t unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:51 AM
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Because mine is high, and someone who doesn’t match my world view isn’t for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:53 AM
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Women with low body counts. Women who talk poorly about other women with tattoos or piercings. Women who have only dated “crazy/narcissistic” people. Women with no ambition, personality, or sense of humor. That’s about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:49 AM
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Trans women have almost identical experiences to cis women, especially if they transitioned early. Statistically
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:00 AM
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Yeah. No way I’m dating a theist of any kind. And a virgin is of no interest to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:55 AM
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I do. But my specialty is couples counseling. And men care about how their partners look and appear even more than the women. I’ve had women not wear makeup and dress down for company parties and men (and only men) complain about them somehow trying to torpedo them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:07 AM
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I’m not a woman. I cannot imagine life seeing women in makeup on billboards and in movies and on social media and trying to compete with the women they see. But after a decade working in Hollywood, I know guys are wearing makeup to interviews just as much. And I put on makeup almost everyday, because zits would detract from my point in therapy. It’s not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:37 AM
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I’m a therapist. I assure you I do. If you have a study that shows different, I’d love to read
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:22 AM
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Those of us in public office or public facing jobs do. You think I’m going to face clients with blemishes? Do you not get how humans work?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:21 AM
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There is no link between insecurity and makeup. That’s just factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:17 AM
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So you think men should submit to random sti testing. Good to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:02 AM
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Just lost the argument, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:01 AM
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If you really don’t get it, you don’t get insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:00 AM
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Most of those are “pick mes” too, for lack of a better term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:56 AM
2

So where is the data, as I asked? I see this literally all the time on this sub. Where is the data?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:54 AM
2

Yeah, I’d be curious if this is pure feels based.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:48 AM
7

That was satire. Just like how Fight Club was written by a gay, liberal white guy who meant to write a joke about white men and their aggression, but it’s been picked up as some men’s rights manual by some.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:38 AM
0

Lol it would probably kill your to do my job with open relationships. Most of them are successful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:18 AM
2

Because boundaries are not what you place around others, they’re what you place around yourself. I’m a therapist. And I fucking hate how the word “boundary” has come to mean setting limitations on others, when that’s literally not what the word was meant for or means therapeutically. If men aren’t comfortable with their girlfriends or wives or partners wearing skimpy outfits, that’s wholly on them. That’s their insecurity. They don’t get to frame it like, “you can’t wear that, this is my boundar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:12 AM
5

Adore her. She deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:59 AM
1

It’s “here ye” as in, here we are. Not hear, as in listen. Just because you asked. 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:58 AM
1

That sounds psychological rather than physical. I have men in therapy who have similar issues, and it’s usually, but not exclusively due to SA. The ones not tied to SA had huge guilt issues tied to religion and premarital sex, that lasted even if they got married. They’d been shamed into having sex for so long, and so strongly, they couldn’t get off with partners for long periods of time, and until lots of therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:58 AM
2

I’ve been with women who can orgasm through PIV sex, and women you can’t without extra help. There have been some female partners that have taught me to replace their toys with specific things, while others can’t get out of their own head enough that they need help from toys. That said, the best female partners I’ve had have wanted to and have used toys on me. But I’m bi, so admittedly, those are mostly prostate enhancers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:55 AM
3

Why would I care? Money isn’t tied to character
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:31 AM
4

I think we might know some of the same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:41 PM
2

Yeah. They do. And I have a backlog of couples and trans youth waiting. Was that meant to be a burn? Edit: also, what ad hominem? Can’t find it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:25 AM
2

I’m a relationship therapist. I get lots to work on with people from here. Post away. I won’t downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:51 AM
1

While I disagree, I hope you’ve noticed I’m not downvoting you, and I appreciate the same out of you. Your difference of opinion doesn’t deserve downvoting or reporting. And thanks for showing the same to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:46 AM
2

That’s not the point. It SHOUKD be ok for them to do that. The reason we don’t have bathrooms in the US that allow for multiple genders isn’t because of nature. It’s because of society. A man should be able to piss in a urinal next to a woman taking a crap and no one says anything. It’s entirely social that it’s not ok. Which is why trans issues are a thing. Because we can’t teach our kids that bathroom things are bathroom things, and shut up, and don’t look, and leave. There isn’t an epidemic o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:45 AM
8

I just scrolled your post history. And bro, you really need help. Your anger towards women, of which you aren’t, is so misguided. I hope you can get the help you need. But it isn’t going to be on Reddit or 4chan
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:41 AM
2

That’s fair. And I just don’t care about those men. I realize some men do, but I don’t. Sometimes she’ll give her real number to guys and we’ll lay in bed together and troll their thirsty texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:39 AM
6

This sounds more like incel rhetoric than women rhetoric. Maybe you are. But Jesus Christ. Hope you’re happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:34 AM
14

A woman should be able to walk down the street naked and never be sexually assaulted or catcalled. That’s not the world we live in. But it should be. There’s literally no reason for a woman to be assaulted or catcalled, other than disrespect for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:24 AM
2

I’m not asking you. I’m asking people who care. And if she wants to look sexy to other people, why would I care? She’s not dating them. Maybe it makes her feel good, but for years she has come home to me. If she didn’t, that would be another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:17 AM
1

Why wouldn’t they dress sexy? Don’t they like feeling good? Literally no issue with my partner dressing sexy and going out without me. It’s if she didn’t come back to me I’d care about. The nights she hasn’t been sober enough to drive, or, for example, Taylor Swift was in town and Uber was out of control, she just called me and we talked until she passed out. Why would I care if she wants to look good and feel sexy? Even if I’m not the benefactor? I’m not insecure enough to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:08 AM
2

I have never cheated, but when I’ve been single I have fucked around a bunch. And it was because me and the person mutually wanted to. My partner has never cheated, but when she’s been single it’s the same. I wouldn’t be with someone who’s cheated. But if they want to screw as many women or men as they want while single…why would I care? For example, I was in a four year relationship, we broke up, I slept with ten people in-between him and my next girlfriend. Over three years of being single. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:09 AM
1

lol the men and women I am attracted to meet all these. I guess I like liberal urban people with good taste and desire to hear live music
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:26 PM
3

In therapy, this one comes up a lot with the couples I see. Absolute rage or insecurity over things that happened months or years before their relationship started.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:15 PM
12

I’m a man and literally don’t care about n count. And even if I did, it would be hypocritical since mine is fairly high. But when I was dating around before my current partner I never discussed or cared about someone’s n count. Never did in my 20s either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:28 PM
2

And I respect that. But my standards aren’t negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:01 AM
3

I can’t imagine thinking this way. I’m a man and would rather be single and go without sex than lower my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:54 PM
1

Maybe this is regional. Here in Seattle almost everyone in the younger generations, including millennials, are liberal, and only date liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:01 AM
2

Do you think reasonable gun laws and universal background checks would keep Americans from defending themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:04 AM
2

Only the best women like to peg.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:09 AM
1

Maybe. But the person they’ll be voting for in the states next year helped reverse Roe V Wade. And suburban women haven’t forgotten that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:57 PM
7

A lot of women I know make jokes that men who call themselves centrists just want to get dates, because they know if they posted their views about abortion or lgbtq people they wouldn’t get dates. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:29 PM
2

And there is no fixing it. If the majority of men, as some men here put it, die alone…so what? It’s not a problem that should be fixed. Oh, you’re going to passport bro out or not pay taxes to fund single moms? Cool. Do it. Just stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:32 PM
2

Yeah. That’s exactly it. Nothing is going to change. So why do so many men focus on this? There was one dude who said we’ll eventually have to biologically change women’s minds in order for them to get over hypergamy, but…lol Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:29 PM
2

I like you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:24 PM
4

Where are they complaining that they’re losing? I guess that’s what I’m asking. You can’t show studies of this, so I’m curious what your point of reference is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:51 PM
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If they’re losing, why aren’t they complaining? I mean sure, some of them are. But there aren’t women complaining they can’t get laid or be in relationships. They’re complaining about the men they have had sex with or been in relationships with. They aren’t struggling. Not in that aspect, at least. If men, even “Chads” had boundaries and standards, then there wouldn’t be anyone complaining. I’ve turned down multiple women and men for sex and relationships. I have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:44 PM
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Yeah. I think this is missed by a lot of people (men). Women aren’t losing. They may (rightfully) complain about them in certain spaces, but women aren’t losing in the current economy of dating. Why should they change anything if they aren’t losing? Some men on here and other spaces talk and trash single moms, but single moms are doing just fine financially and dating wise. Men who can’t get laid might say those men are simps or beta or whatever. But those men are in relationships and getting la…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:58 PM
0

Met on Twitter a few years ago. I saw her profile and started making puns and bad jokes on her posts. She liked it. Liked me. Moved to DMs. Then texting. Then spent a weekend with her. And it was over. As in, we couldn’t be apart after that. I moved a couple thousand miles and we’ve been together for years since.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:52 PM
5

Bruh. Do you even know how women work?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:18 AM
3

I don’t have to worry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:46 AM
1

And if she said no, he would still be equally wanting to be her friend, and cheer on her relationships with other men. If he was a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:57 AM
0

And totally ignore us bi people 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:51 AM
2

Absolutely agree. And apologize if it came across as otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:38 AM
4

It is. And some of them have good points. But a lot of men have gravitated towards a view that women in their 20s want to date higher (hypergamy) and then men in their 30s have to settle for baby mamas and women with high body counts. It’s all a mess. But it’s fascinating to me, professionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:37 AM
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Adam Ruins Everything has a great episode, complete with links to studies, that ruins this notion. Biological clocks aren’t what we’ve been fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:30 AM
2

It’s not surprising at all that women want to know if they were or are larger that their partner would still love them. Still be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:27 AM
4

Black is accepting a “truth” that there’s no point in trying to convince people, and it just is what it is. Women want to get run through by Chad in their 20s and settle with an average man in their 30s when they have a kid or something. Purple is typically rejecting both blue and red and being centrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:06 AM
4

Muh waifu
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:08 AM
4

Yeah. The number of single women here is very low in my experience. And I rarely get the feeling they feel bad about getting “pumped and dumped” in their younger years. Actually, come to think of it, I don’t know that I’ve ever seen a thread from a woman talking negatively about experiences with “Chads.” Like the idea you’d get if you believed some posts on here would be that women are hating that they can’t find good partners in their 30s because no man would want them as single moms or the lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:02 AM
5

I’ve picked up on a lot of subtle things here I think can personally help me in my practice. But my personal involvement is just entertainment only.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:55 AM
1

Since both me and my female partner are bi, I guess we just don’t get friends 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:56 PM
2

Why is gaming a “male” thing? Why is it gendered at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:12 AM
1

Fucking wrecked 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:32 AM
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Meh. As is always said: sex isn’t owed. And there’s nothing that can be done socially or politically to lower women’s standards, nor should anything be done. I feel bad for some of these men. But only those who don’t hate or blame women for their own lack of success. Those that want to complain and post negative things about women I have no sympathy for.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 01:26 AM
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Men who want casual sex who also demean women who have it get pikachu face when they can’t get it
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 10:08 PM
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Yeah, I don’t see anything that mentions what OP is claiming. The women orgasmed more frequently when they found their partner attractive, but it also states the fact that the men causing them to orgasm could be a factor in why the women found them attractive. It also doesn’t mention the orgasms were exclusively caused by PIV sex. It’s not even remotely implied.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 10:03 PM
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If you’re in a relationship, please talk to your partner like this. It builds my practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:36 AM
2

Can you provide evidence of women complaining about not being cold approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:53 AM
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If all of us men disappeared society would function just fine. It’s a black pill wet dream that society would crumble. But it absolutely wouldn’t happen. I love the men who think they can refuse to participate in society and women will be forced to fuck them. The human species will literally end before women start sleeping with men they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:52 AM
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Yeah, I have no sympathy for men who don’t get laid. They aren’t owed companionship. They aren’t owed a woman of their perceived look match. If no one wants to sleep with them, or have a relationship with them, that sucks. But no one owes them anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:49 AM
7

Jesus. Just saying the quiet part out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:20 AM
4

Thinking a person can make you feel whole is a huge red flag to lots of people. They should make you feel better. Over the top. But not complete.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:57 AM
2

I love the decline. These men hoping for AI robots is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:52 AM
-3

Call women sweetheart more. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:51 AM
2

At no point will society get so bad that women will lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:49 AM
-1

If you aren’t happy outside a relationship, you’ll never be happy inside of one. That’s dating advice 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:46 AM
13

(Red pill) Men would probably shame him for doing that, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:40 AM
1

Well…yeah. If you aren’t mentally appealing, why would you be appealing?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 09:15 AM
3

Those aspects don’t matter. Why would I care about her past?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:43 AM
0

Why not?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:31 AM
1

I made a social media account that just made fun of red pill men, online dating, and all that. I met my current partner of many years through that. I didn’t even need an online dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:42 AM
10

He means be your sex toy regardless of your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:38 AM
9

And I love that those men remain single 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:31 AM
4

I met my current partner off social media. I liked her posts, she liked mine, and I gave her my number and she text it. I think when some people see the “50% of people who met were online” think it means dating apps. It absolutely does not. Instagram and TikTok and Discord amounted for a lot of contact from women, usually initiated by them. And they weren’t shirtless pics of me in front of a mountain lion. I just posted dad jokes and thoughts about feminism. And got lots of women who DM’d me. I …
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:28 AM
1

We’re equals, so we’re partners. Neither of us like the infantile phrasing of “boyfriend/girlfriend,” and we don’t like the phrasing of “husband/wife” because of the sexist connotations those words have to both of them. Also, we’re both bi, and it’s been our habit to refer to our partners as partners for decades now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:11 PM
-1

Because Bill has standards? And wants a deep, meaningful relationship with a partner? And some ooga booga scenario isn’t fulfilling or meaningful to him? Jesus Christ, I don’t know who these men are, but I’m so glad I don’t know any. I’ve been approached by many women in college, jobs, bars, and I haven’t slept with even a fraction of them. Who the fuck doesn’t have standards? Or has standards that low?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:44 AM
2

Based on what evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:41 AM
4

Doesn’t matter if you’re “looks-matched” if you’re not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:24 AM
7

Excellent question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:41 AM
9

Yup. Exactly. And angry that I didn’t present solutions. That’s literally not my job. My job is to make you see solutions on your own. Not tell you what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:24 AM
1

Jesus Christ. I’ve never read a bigger “I cannot be loved by other human beings” than this post. Dude. Fix yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:22 AM
7

Communication is arguably the only reason relationships end. Obviously there is abuse and the like, and they shouldn’t be ignored. But communication is even more important than finances, even though the number two reason for divorce is finances. Finances are a reason to divorce because you two didn’t communicate. Infidelity happened because you two didn’t communicate. If people would a) communicate and b) leave if they can’t come to terms with it, we’d all spare each other so much suffering. Nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:57 AM
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The majority of couples I see in couples therapy are a) started by women b) have their claims and concerns mocked or ignored by men c) suddenly it’s just women clients because the men refuse to show up after getting called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:54 AM
2

Please do. You’re so adamant. Do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:51 AM
3

I don’t pretend to think the world is just. Some people win. Most lose. That’s literally life. And you can complain about it, or accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:23 AM
2

I shave my whole body, minus the face, because the body hair I do have is spotty and not regular. That said, I adore underarm and leg hair on women, along with pubic hair. If it’s all absent, I don’t mind either. But I am turned on by both. Just not stubble, because of it causing rashes. Possibly because I’m Bi and don’t hold women to standards I wouldn’t with men? I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:20 AM
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Dude, you are so full of it. Just looking through your post history, and so many of your posts are just shaming women for hooking up with multiple men. There’s literally no way you have had serious relationships with anyone with the mentality you post online. You excuse men’s behavior and shame women for theirs. For over a year you’ve been doing this. Your dad didn’t cold approach anyone in the deli, except cuts of meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:17 AM
5

Absolutely. And thank you for a well-written reply based on your experiences 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:33 AM
1

I would encourage you to edit your post to say that “they” in the latter half of your post is about red pill men, because I understand what you said, but as written, it reads as if that’s what Christian women want. I write this only in a kind way, and to help clarify your post. Not because I’m smarter or better than you, I just want your point to come across as clearly as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:21 AM
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The fact that OP unironically uses “choreplay” as a thing is all I need to see. Women aren’t sex vending machines. You don’t get tokens for doing shit you’re just supposed to be doing for an equal division of labor. The wife in the OP’s example wasn’t saying, “if you do more chores you’ll get sex.” She was saying she’s exhausted and doesn’t feel appreciated. If the husband started doing a bit more, but she’s still exhausted and doesn’t feel appreciated, she isn’t going to want to have sex more. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:00 AM
3

Women aren’t a monolith. And they definitely aren’t universally attracted to certain traits. That’s the problem with red pill dudes. They’ll never get it, as long as they treat women as a universal thing. I’ve hooked up with 40+ women and 20+ guys. There isn’t a keycode or cheat code. It’s just being me. I’ve never used lines or followed advice. I was homeschooled and had to learn social functions. But it has never been hard to connect with people. Some sexually. Majority just friendly/platonic.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:58 AM
5

I’m in a happy relationship and am a relationship therapist. I actively steer women away from red pill men every day. I’m very awake, mate 😂🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:23 AM
2

I don’t want easier. I want an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:38 AM
14

And you still wouldn’t get laid 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:37 AM
0

What’s your actual diagnosis? Not your self diagnosis, but your actual diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:35 AM
3

Why would I ever go out with someone I wasn’t attracted to? I met my current partner on social media, and we fell completely in love and have been for years. I can’t imagine the concept of settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:33 AM
13

Let’s say they are “flawed.” You can’t change them. You can only accept them. There is literally no point to complaining about them. In cishet relationships, men are not going to be the ones who change women’s standards. Women are. And you can’t change them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:30 AM
2

People who use “boundaries” to mean controlling other people’s actions is the worst thing that has come from a greater acceptance of therapy. “You can’t wear revealing clothing or go to parties without me. Those are my boundaries.” No. Absolutely not. Those are your insecurities. Not your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:32 PM
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Almost all women and men I’ve had interest with after turning 30 have approached me, rather than vice versa. It’s usually been online, like people sending me DMs and the like, but that’s what it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:56 AM
1

😘
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:46 AM
2

It is. Which is why women are free not to even consider you 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:44 AM
2

Ok. So it’s the reality. Then there’s no point in complaining about. Just like you wouldn’t complain about gravity or seasons changing or the sun rising. It’s reality. Stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:35 AM
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This is clearly a man writing a rage bait post. Le sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:26 AM
5

But why is that bad? Like, let’s assume they do, why is it bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:21 AM
5

Yeah, some of the closest relationships I’ve had as an adult now in his 40s were social media relationships, that turned into more. Some live near me. Some live on the other side of the world. Met on a like-minded group on Twitter/X years ago, made a discord together where we chatted, shared, watched movies together every Wednesday, etc. We have surface-level conversations to meet ups, to some of us, including myself, find long-term partners. Was so weird, honestly. But it happened naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:12 AM
6

I met my last and most recent partner on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:43 AM
3

1) Do they have boundaries, and are they appropriate ones? As in, they acknowledge boundaries as being for themselves alone, and not for their friends or partners? In therapy, boundaries are personal fences and walls we set up for ourselves, and they are never set up to wall or fence in others. Men who can express their insecurities with how you dress, or if you have male friends, can be valid (even if they’re not healthy), but they should never be described as “boundaries,” and, as such, be bey…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:04 AM
3

To be fair, this is one person’s red flags, and their reasons for them could be equally valid as the reasons you see them as only yellow flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:51 AM
7

This is true. And I think it’s key to remember the difference between A), “they have (and more importantly, acknowledge) that they have issues and insecurities, that they are both aware of and working on,” and B) “I see their red flags, which they deny, but I think I can fix them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:44 AM
3

I’d be curious how anyone can willingly expand their sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:24 AM
1

Yeah. Wisconsin canceled school for cold. Never for snow. They worried about kids in negative wind chill, but two feet of snow? You’re going, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:20 AM
3

But…the patriarchy is oppressive. Why wouldn’t they call it out when they see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:52 AM
4

Let’s say for a moment that that’s true. Household labor is still important, and men don’t get to opt out because they choose their careers over partners. If they are really making as much as their labor would say, they could and should demand housekeepers and nannies. And if they’re working their asses off and not making enough to afford those things, they need to accept that, and still equally divide household labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:48 AM
0

And? What legislation is pending that will harm or hurt (white) men? Edit: the answer is: none. Because women don’t hold enough political power.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:43 AM
1

And double-edged sword. If you are a feminist and comment on a men’s rights sub, you’re going to get a lot of more content from them shoved in your face. Even if your comment was a disagreement. The algorithm sees you interacted, and that’s literally all it cares about. Not the content of your post. Just that you posted. If you scroll and personally love only cats and cartoons, but never interact with, the algorithm isn’t going to care as much as that one post you made. You interacted with the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:40 AM
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I think this is probably close to the truth. There are active laws and campaigns pending to end things like no fault divorce. I know of no laws pending that harm or limit men’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:36 AM
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So in my 20s I did social media management, and I can say that unless things have changed, it’s always engagement that matters. So you’re not wrong. But not wholly right. The algorithm doesn’t care if you agree or disagree. They care if you view, comment, and share. So you’re right that it’s about interaction, but it does depend on the individual. Some people disagree and don’t comment or share/repost. They’ll get shown content they do comment and share. Others can’t help themselves and comment …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:34 AM
4

Which doesn’t mean anything. Either men retaliate physically and get arrested and thrown away, or they resist by taking themselves out of the dating pool, in which case women win by those men taking themselves out of the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:23 AM
1

“Waging war” is getting equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:18 AM
2

Yeah, “hey do you have a light?” is passive and non-confrontational. Totally made so many friends going on smoke breaks. But Jesus I don’t miss the smell. The smell alone caused me to quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:45 AM
1

Same for me. As a guy. And with guys. I miss those days sometimes. But monogamy has its benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:35 PM
2

Ignoring the true first time, which wasn’t consensual, it was missionary. We were watching a bootleg version of Fellowship of the Rings, and I had no sex ed, being homeschooled. At some point she told me to “put it all in,” and I was confused. I thought I had been, and that she was saying I was small. Turned out I just imagined a vaginal canal to be very short for some reason, and I didn’t want to go all the way in and hurt her. I am absolutely average. But it remains one of the funniest stories…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:34 PM
4

Con men and sociopaths don’t go around advertising it. And they score, because of their negative qualities being so well hidden behind social makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:29 PM
1

Why would anyone do that though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:27 PM
1

I remember Dane Cook had a bit where he said he was going to create a club called “Head.” And if you went there, you knew what was up. But then it ended up being just a bunch of guys looking around wondering where all the women were. On a more realistic note: I’m an atheist now, but grew up in the church, and I honestly miss it. Not the religion part. But the community. Something you did every Sunday. And every Sunday night was youth group. A place to socialize and talk about big issues, with li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:35 PM
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Some handsome and pretty men are “nice guys” too, though. And if women want to hold out for those guys, they’re going to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:29 PM
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Awful take. But. What you say is preferable than to date someone you’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:27 PM
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Congrats on aiming to be a therapist! I am one, and while I’m “blue pill” for the sake of this sub, would love to talk shop if you want. You wanting to focus on men is excellent. My class had so few men, and almost all of us wanted to focus on relationships, rather than men’s health, and that is so admirable. Regardless: keep it up. It isn’t the highest paying. But so rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:48 PM
3

I was home schooled, and only socialized on Sundays at church until I was 18. Army helped me/forced me to interact. More than even college. But smoking on night school breaks led to socializing. Actually, in retrospect, smoking led to a lot of socializing in most aspects, when it was still more acceptable. At jobs. At school. Apartment buildings. Bars. Etc. I started smoking just to hang out with the people who did, and learned a lot. But that “culture” is dead for the most part. Shame about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:52 PM
2

I dunno, honestly. During my 20s I never worked hard to get with people. I mean, I guess men were easier to hook up with, or at least they were “dtf” quicker. But women partners were never “work.” Meet at parties or bars. Flirt. Hook up. In my 30s I was mostly in long term relationships, but in the couple years between them where I hooked up, it was usually friends, coworkers, etc. I didn’t have much success on Tinder, because I got so bored trying to small talk on dates and opening conversation…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:14 PM
15

I know how this was written. But Unitarian Universalist churches are legit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:01 AM
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Yeah, this is where the disconnect happens. “Guys are lying!” Ok, how can we prove that? “Because I anecdotally don’t know any men in my tailored spaces who are having sex. And they wouldn’t lie.” But, you just said men lie about sex. “LOOK AT THE STUDY!” -there is no winning. There’s only losing. Men who have sex are Chads who will throw women away. Men who can’t get sex are given platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:57 AM
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I have a full schedule and a waiting list. Seems like people disagree with you. And I don’t care if you believe me or not, buddy. Literally makes no difference. Might want to talk with someone about that anger issue, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:19 PM
1

It isn’t fair. And neither is life 🤷‍♀️ No point complaining about it, because it literally can’t be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:07 PM
1

Yes. I was non vocal with my first few female sexual partners. Then I hooked up with a gay guy who forced me to be more vocal. Then realized how many females love men being vocal. Not all or maybe even most. But a lot of women like their sexual partners to be vocal. Appreciate them. Tell them how hot they are. What you’re going to do to them. What you want done to you. How good they feel. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:55 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:12 AM
1

But why is it different? There’s no reason it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:56 AM
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I help trans youth ever day. Literally every day. I don’t care for their usage statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:55 AM
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Oh, kid. I’m a relationship therapist. What you’re talking about and describing doesn’t happen outside our outliers in the real world. No matter what YouTube tells you. You haven’t been in the rooms I’ve been in. You get the luxury of just reading about it and making snarky comments online. Send another emoji to tell me how much you don’t know 😙
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:53 AM
7

Have you ever had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:45 AM
1

As a therapist I’ve had a lot of people talk to me about their jobs. Women in construction and similar types are expected to suck up “male” conversation and accept it as the norm. And they aren’t willing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:39 AM
1

I’ve literally never had a problem with women dating me. I’m bi, and I’ve never, literally never, had a problem with partners. When I struggled I was home schooled and couldn’t relate to anyone. As soon as I was in college I didn’t struggle again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:35 AM
1

And as long as that type of thinking persists, we will not have male teachers for younger students, male nurses, or male therapists. And we will rely on female workers to fill those roles, and be angry at them for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:30 AM
5

Yeah. That doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:25 AM
8

Guess people don’t lie and convince others of their lies. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:50 AM
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Are you saying trans women aren’t women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:49 AM
1

Then they should get some if they’re going to cold approach. Women don’t owe men with no game or who are unattractive anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:45 AM
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They haven’t had it, so they put it on a pedestal. And when they don’t get it they tear it down quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:39 AM
2

Ok 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:49 AM
5

The bi thing, as a bi person, hit harder than some of the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:32 AM
3

Are you under the impression that feminism is pushing for women to have equal physical strength as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:18 AM
2

Thank god we don’t have to bench press to vote, get a job, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:12 AM
1

This is actually interesting to me, as a therapist. There are few men in my field, and I was a in my masters program as one of three males in a class of a bit over 60. This is close, but not quite similar to k-12 programs for friends of mine. I think the world/west could benefit from more male therapists and teachers of young students. And I don’t feel it’s women pushing us away. I never felt emasculated or anything negative by my female peers, but I did receive negative reactions from some male…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:02 AM
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/r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:20 AM
6

Thank god. I already speak Spanish and am ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:23 AM
1

My dad was in medical school and my mom was a nurse. They met in a Dennys and my mom got infatuated when my dad asked her to view a human autopsy. They were always meant to meet, I think. Almost fifty years of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:11 PM
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Yeah, I was homeschooled, and only had church contacts in high school. I gained all my friends and socializing skills from college and a brief stint in the army before that. I gained more friends standing outside smoking on the breaks during night classes freshman year than all of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:09 PM
1

Here’s the real rub: You aren’t going to get anyone to sympathize with you by posting scientific data. You can post and scream about it all you want, but most people won’t care. It’s not because the data is invalid. It’s because you can’t treat people like statistics. I’m not saying you do, personally, but if you enter a relationship and start thinking she’s z% likely to cheat and x% likely to want a Chad, you’re doomed from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:31 AM
1

I’ve literally never acted anyway other than I am in social situations or parties, and still hooked up and found Ltr. I’m not red pilled or a Chad. I don’t know what it is, other than being funny and decent looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:23 AM
1

If you want, you can DM me. I’m a relationship therapist, and I understand what you’re expressing. I can’t get you laid, and I can’t get you a girlfriend. But if you want to talk, we can talk. Same for anyone here who wants to in a safe space. And I can’t make you or anyone sign a HIPAA agreement. But it is truly a safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:13 AM
1

I appreciate the MJ reference. Or Alien Ant Farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:10 AM
2

The writers knew what they were doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:08 AM
1

I’m bi as well, and in a relationship, but I am still in the boat that both are hot when middle aged. I’m just not attracted to younger people, even if I can acknowledge they’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:05 AM
1

Guess you don’t want it flicked then /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:02 AM
4

Wonderful comment. And absolutely true. I’ve been a Chad to many people. But I’m not a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:01 AM
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Alcohol is also a massive reason. Lots of people drink excessive amounts and don’t understand that you can’t have alcohol without calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:59 AM
1

I met my last partner on Twitter. I interacted with her over several months, and we DM’d, and I eventually sent my number, and she text me. I think social media is a third space, but a lot of men fail at it because of trying to shoot their shot before there’s a report
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:55 AM
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Bruh? Dating and relationships had probably the biggest change in the 70s, as far as people still in the dating world understand it. One of the classes I took for my masters in relationship therapy was about movies and media, and all of us in my field who are Millennials recognize that if you hold a boombox outside a girls window or chase a woman through an airport, you’re going to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:47 AM
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Yeah. This. I compliment men and women coworkers on their fashion, and they do on mine, and neither of us think we’re hitting on them. That said, with all new employees I talk about what kind of compliments are and are not acceptable. Myself obviously included.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:40 AM
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Exactly this. When my (much) younger women compliment me, I know for a fact they aren’t hitting on me. They just know I’m not going to perceive it that way, because they know who I am and what I represent. If they say I’m looking good today, I know they mean I’m well dressed, etc. They aren’t hitting on me. And they know I wouldn’t be interested even if they were. Because I’m 40 and they’re in their 20s. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:37 AM
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I don’t agree with you. But I appreciate you answering in earnest and not defaulting to attacks. Thank you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:35 PM
1

How do you feel it stunts them? And I ask this in good faith, not a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:25 PM
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Well, yeah. I wouldn’t date someone emotionally stunted either. We can agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:21 PM
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First of all, I’m a guy. Just a bi one. Second of all, exceptions to the rule deserve respect and love just as much as your self-proclaimed “rule.” Lastly, I hope you’re young. I’m 40. And I would rather die than date someone 18-21 years old. The idea is nauseating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:13 PM
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Yeah, I think there’s some nuance here you’re touching on. I’m 40 as of this year. I work with a lot of support staff who are in their 20s. I can find them attractive, and joke around and talk with them. But I would never in my life hit on them (if I were single). Not just because of work, but because of how different we are. They’re starting their careers and figuring out what they want to do with their lives. I am settled in my career. Even if they were attracted to me, the answer is absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:52 PM
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But that’s objectively not true. Some men, sure. But “no man”? Absolutely and objectively false. Lots of marriages between young people end. In fact they’re the most likely to end. Those divorced people don’t stay single the rest of their lives, despite what some men here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:42 PM
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Why would a man in his 30s not go after a woman in her 30s (assuming they’re straight, obviously)? Maybe she got married young. Maybe she was in a LTR for years and didn’t get married. Maybe she focused on her career and didn’t care about dating or relationships. I have a partner I love, and I turned 40 this year. If things ended suddenly, there’s no way I’d go after a woman or guy in their 20s. That would be a) gross to me, and b) I’d have less in common with them, as we’re at different life st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:36 PM
3

Yup. Men and women both have that. But there was a really interesting episode of Adam Ruins Everything (complete with sources, as always with the show) that showed the fertility wall was much different in reality than what is conveyed by many irl and online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:21 PM
1

The Red pill, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:05 PM
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If I could choose a custom flair it would be “mod pilled” unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:00 AM
0

Dat empathy 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:54 AM
3

This whole thing is only a thought experiment. It’s usually brought up by men not in relationships, and who are so red pilled they can’t understand the basics of the actually question at hand. If you think a child is not yours, cool. Get the test. Some part of you, though, is wanting the test to come back in your favor. Whether that means you are or aren’t the father. Trust is faith. And if you need facts, you don’t have faith. And if you don’t have faith, one bit of evidence isn’t going to help…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:42 AM
1

It absolutely is an issue with me, and one I work on in my personal therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:07 PM
1

Same. Can Armie Pilled be a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:18 AM
1

I got downvoted for complimenting you. I am obviously owed sex at this juncture. /s But seriously, thanks for being an amazing person with a hilarious avi. Take care!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:03 AM
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As a man? Absolutely. I don’t want to be hit on at work or at the gym or at a bar. I don’t want to be hit on at all. I hate turning people down, and it’s literally always awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:39 AM
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First of all, calling them “females” isn’t going to earn any points. But I imagine you are conscious of this. I’ve seen you post before, and while you are definitely angry, you’re not stupid. You’re an intelligent person. Secondly, we have no idea what women you’re talking about. If you browse female dominated websites or spaces online, it’s filled with women who are upset about men not doing their fair division of labor. They aren’t talking about hooking up with “Chads” and getting “ran through…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:34 AM
2

And he has such a badass name, too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:19 AM
3

Again, not defending him. But I think he lacks social awareness. It’s possible he’s watched some YouTube videos and tried to shoot his shot based on others, rather than being himself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:16 AM
2

Meh. I am not at all defending the guy, but based on his speech patterns, he obviously isn’t socially aware, and as his questions and her answers didn’t seem to deter him, I’d wager her face didn’t either. Not because he was amused to annoy her, but because he just doesn’t understand social cues. No matter if he was 21 or 40, his opening line about high school is totally cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:56 AM
1

Don’t read this the wrong way. But I like you and your takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:21 AM
2

How do you rate women dating in their league, vs men? What is the objective measure to prove this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:11 AM
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I read a post here the other day where the op said we should use gene therapy to change women’s minds on a biological level to be more attracted to men beneath their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:03 AM
1

Fair enough. Not going to shit on that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:56 AM
1

Would you settle for a high five and a cardigan? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:53 AM
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I ask this sincerely, but why would you date someone you’re not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:52 AM
3

As long as we agree women don’t owe men anything, even better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:34 AM
1

That “old” saying, of, “comparing your whole life to someone’s highlight reel.” Social media has both good and negative effects. I don’t know which is better (or worse) for human kind. I hope it’s been a force for more good. But I’m also an unapologetically optimistic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:18 AM
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Social media, yeah. But definitely not porn. And it isn’t women scrolling through tons of men working out and looking hot. It’s women seeing posts by other women who haven’t settled, have left when they should’ve left, and haven’t accepted gaslighting, narcissistic behavior, etc. Social media has done a lot of bad. But empowering women to feel more seen and liberated, and to have a voice for other women isn’t a bad thing. It’s been a force of good (for the most part). I also think social media h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:13 AM
1

For real. I know it’s a gross description, but I had a partner who said, “if you get mud on your boots you use a hose, not paper towels.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:00 AM
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I’m fine if I’m a mid bi af guy. While using a bidet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:49 AM
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Men are also more likely to cheat than women. In both gay and cishet relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:39 AM
3

They aren’t a woman. And their post history confirms that. They’re just stirring up shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:52 AM
3

Doesn’t have to be her, but yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:14 AM
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It’s sex or romance without a boundary for determining a relationship. It’s existed since forever, but has a new title.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:08 AM
10

If you cannot attract people you want to have sex with, that’s literally no one’s fault. You aren’t owed it, so stop complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:50 AM
2

You’re absolutely right. They aren’t fair or accurate. Again, I don’t expect you to read through my post history. But we’re on the same side, and my point may have come across as sarcastic. But I assure you we both see the same things from the same side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:29 AM
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I think you may not get we’re probably on the same side. Tinder is 78% men and 21% women. I totally understand this. And I argue this constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:24 AM
3

It makes me happy that men like you won’t find happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:17 AM
3

There is no physical difference. Literally at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:30 AM
2

If women decide they don’t like short men or small dicks, there’s literally nothing you can do about it. Can y’all please just give up and stop complaining? If women decide who they have sex with, and it’s only the top 20% of males, then just give up. They’ll literally never sleep with you. There is no revolution coming where they will be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:29 AM
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You realize there’s literally no physical difference between a woman having sex 500 times with one man, and having sex once with 500 men? That’s literally how bodies work. Jesus, you are unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:13 AM
1

Prove it’s a fact. You said it is. So prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:55 AM
5

Yeah, I don’t get it. Why should I care if some men can’t get laid as much as they want? They should just accept their fate, or try to improve themselves. I have literally no obligation to try and help sexless men have sex. That’s not a social contract I agreed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:54 AM
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Even if that’s true, who cares? No one owes anyone sex. If a majority of women want to have sex with a minority of men, that’s their free will and choice. And you literally have no say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:50 AM
3

You literally have no data and just blanket say “we all know women lie.” As if that’s any kind of evidence other than your hurt feelings. Seriously, get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:36 AM
3

Life isn’t fair, though. That’s childish thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:15 AM
2

Do you have evidence for men withdrawing from sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:51 AM
1

Most of the time it’s men, unwilling to equally divide labor, and women get fed up. Not always. But a majority of the time. A lot of women feel that it’s on them to clean and cook; and then they have no energy for sex. And then men resent them for that, because “it’s their place.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:42 AM
6

Anecdotal doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:16 AM
6

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:02 AM
1

In over 80% of relationships I see in couples counseling, it’s not women refusing to have sex because of porn. It’s because of a lack, or perceived lack, of equal division of labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:00 AM
10

lol? Are you under the impression that poor people don’t date and settle down?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:57 AM
12

They can start by not being “pilled” and going to therapy, and also by realizing no one needs to find them attractive in order to be happy. People miserable outside of relationships aren’t going to be happy inside of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:11 PM
10

women see magazines, instagram and porn of women being unrealistically attractive at all times women start to feel insecure about how they look “I did this to myself.” 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:00 PM
7

Yup. Incels still have no chance. Makes for a more sunny Saturday
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:57 PM
2

I like you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:56 PM
5

So she’ll actually orgasm instead of faking it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:49 PM
1

I love my partners armpit hair. Meanwhile I always shave my chest and armpits 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:46 PM
2

Yeah. That’s some teens on TikTok shit. Or 90s romcom trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:44 PM
10

Tipping fedoras and everything, m’lady
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:30 PM
3

Literally no one who loves their partner will cheat; in a monogamous relationship. Only cheaters will. And if you try and control their behavior or actions, they’ll just cheat on you, because they know you don’t respect them. This isn’t hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:02 AM
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Sadly, people who will cheat, will always cheat. They’ll just more than likely get it where it’s easier to excuse it. People who won’t cheat, won’t cheat. Edit: you cannot control your partner. If she/he will cheat , they’ll always do it. Work is just the best outlet, because of how easy it is. Not because of how easy they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:48 AM
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Yes. It shows massive insecurity. “I think you want to have sex with your male friends.” “Why?” “Because they’re male and they can’t possibly respect you as a person and only see you as an object to have sex with.” “Why?” “Because I would.” “Ah.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:32 AM
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I always love this argument. Because it always ignores us Bi people. Guess we just never have friends. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:29 AM
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Look at cheating statistics. It’s almost always people we work with that we cheat with. We have common places we meet. Probably common goals for our careers. Etc. We’re more likely to cheat with people who are on similar career paths and in similar industries as us. That, is factual. And makes sense. It isn’t Chad at the club. It’s Sara in accounting. We covet what we see daily. Same with most other “crimes” in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:26 AM
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I don’t think there’s any universal key to panties coming off. But if there is one, at least for me, it was always being funny. Being self-deprecating, without making people feel sad. Being self-aware, without being egotistical. Being sarcastic without being cruel or negging. I was homeschooled for most of my life, until college, and what I did was watch people, and listen to stand up comedy. Listen to male comics that made women laugh; and also scream. And that balance. The balance is so tight.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:20 AM
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His post history shows it. He even admits to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:06 AM
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But you admit to being an incel… Edit: this whole thread has you admitting you’re in your 30s, have never been in a romantic relationship, and you resent the term incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:04 AM
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Did she literally say she’s lost all feeling below the waist? Can you link to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:58 AM
1

Tell me how you really feel, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:45 PM
1

Okay 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:58 AM
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Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:06 AM
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Ok bb 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:03 AM
1

You know one of the best parts of my job, as a relationship therapist is, is proving this wrong. So many men want to bring things into their arguments they aren’t in control of. But it’s literally always proven false. Short guys? Proven false. They have equal chance. But it’s their own decisions to prove themselves wrong. Don’t get me wrong. I see short guys get the shaft all the time. But only when they aren’t willling to work on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:57 AM
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Then I feel sorry for them. It’s in their control. Bit they refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:48 AM
1

Of course they can. Why would it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:43 AM
3

Why does that matter? If guys don’t possess it, why does it matter? Women are allowed to want who and want they want, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:40 AM
2

What’s the thing you’re complaining against?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:36 AM
2

Explain this: “Cause guys don't like it? There's nothing with wrong complaining about something someone doesn't like”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:30 AM
1

What you said literally makes no sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:25 AM
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What are your observations? What do you feel I’m not getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:18 AM
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I am aware of debate tactics. I did debate in high school. But I’m also aware of reality. You can point at things that would lose a debate in class, but would win in reality. That’s where reality kicks in. You could debate me around the fence, logically, and win. But unless it matters in reality it doesn’t matter. You know this is real. And I’m not even saying it should be. But it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:11 AM
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I think the thing you’re forgetting is that we don’t date by logical fallacies, or lack there of. It may be a nice idea. But we don’t. We date by feelings over facts. Regardless of how facts might not feel about your feelings, feelings care about your facts. And you can’t change that. Even if it’s illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:01 AM
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But, so what? If you aren’t top percentile, why are you complaining? You didn’t make it. No one is owed anyone, so why complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:50 AM
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What’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:46 AM
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I mean, Reddit is probably a good place to start looking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:19 PM
1

That seems like a personal problem for them, and they should work on why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:14 PM
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I don’t languish when I’m single, though. I haven’t been for a while, mind you, but last time I was I just hooked up with people and made friends. No languishing at all, for like two years of being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:25 PM
1

Being in a relationship is, though. And if you’re miserable in a relationship, leave. That’s a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:21 PM
1

Jesus, I would choose crippling alone rather than a bad relationship. Like any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:18 PM
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I like my world view. Helps in the therapy I give to couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:48 PM
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Just looking at your profile, you actively lie about your life, and it’s hilarious. But go on, baby. It’s ok. Cry more for us. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:05 AM
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Ok baby 😘🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:02 AM
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Oh no! Not women who have had a kid!! Their vagina must be so red pilled bullshit thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:00 AM
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I’ll join you in reality. I’m 40, and couldn’t name any women friends who need a man. It’s seriously laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:58 AM
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Turning down imaginary people can be hard 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:44 AM
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/r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:41 AM
5

You haven’t gotten with anyone, let alone women younger than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:40 AM
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Looking at your own post history is hilarious, bro. You literally thought you could get away with it! Ahahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:37 AM
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They don’t. But as your username suggests. You’ve black pilled yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:46 AM
3

I dated a woman with a child, and helped raise them for a decade. I got my experience with kids. The biological dad was out of the picture, and that kid still calls me “dad” even though I have no legal or biological ties to him. And I love him. Without any reservations. That said, I write, I further my studies into therapy, as a therapist, and I also love making art from photoshop jobs. I’m beyond happy with a current partner, who I never had kids with. And I’ll never have biological kids of my …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:44 AM
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Oh sweetie. I’m a relationship therapist. I assure you, you don’t know more about my relationships with people, than I do with yours. You can’t red pill someone literally schooled in getting people out of it. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:47 AM
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Bruh, what? Are you meaning to reply to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:29 AM
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I’ve never had any issues with finding male or female partners for sex or relationships. The only time I did struggle was when I was 17 and got so angry at this girl who befriended me, and flirted with me, but only ever wanted to be friends. And she would date these gross guys, and I would be there for her, but eventually one night I blew up and was like, “why would you date these assholes when I’m here for you??” And she said, “because you’re my friend, and I just don’t see you that way.” This …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:12 AM
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Yup. If men are turning to porn or video games, that’s a failure on their part to self-improve. And not a fault of women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:22 AM
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Yeah, when I was first starting dating like 22 years ago, “friend zone” was the up and coming terminology for hating on women. You had to be aggressive and treat them a little badly (neg) to stay out of the friend zone. Was garbage then, just like it’s garbage now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:01 AM
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Yeah, but complaining or trying to control things like how a woman dresses, or if she has male friends, or what her body count is…honestly, almost all gen z females are aware of these controlling and rp behaviors, and they love when men advertise themselves that way, so the women can more easily avoid them. Things like “high quality man/woman,” or, “pair bonding.” Like, no women are buying into this. Just more young men who would rather be angry than improve themselves. Who would rather be decen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:06 AM
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They shouldn’t try. They should just be. People always spot people faking it. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:02 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:56 PM
2

Yeah, jfc if they actually believe that. No. Means. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:13 PM
1

Bellow average 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:53 PM
2

Is there evidence of this? That the women aren’t attracted to their husbands, physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:03 PM
1

Lol the self-owning you do in this one comment has me rolling. And having Tyler Durden as your avi is just chef’s kiss for someone who literally didn’t understand the book or its author 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:11 AM
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Guy thought PIV sex should be enough to make the woman cum Guy didn’t do hardly any foreplay Guy didn’t finish and then help her finish Guy was uncomfortable with the woman using a toy to help her reach orgasm Lots of guys are just bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:02 AM
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