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| – | Society is not being entirely transparent about what attracts people. Hence you shouldn’t listen to anyone’s opinions about it.100%. Actions speak louder than words. If you try stuff you figure out what works, and then you find out how much of what people say is BS just from experience. Copying what works has always made more sense to me than taking what people say at face value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 06:40 PM |
| 0 | The overwhelming are women are painstakingly disingenuous about gender roles. They want gender roles not because "it's sexy" and more because a laziness and conveniencemen cannot and never will get pregnant Cool it with the transphobia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 12:50 AM |
| 4 | The overwhelming are women are painstakingly disingenuous about gender roles. They want gender roles not because "it's sexy" and more because a laziness and convenienceOk. Maybe I had you wrong. A lot of guys get so obsessed with the double-standards and the equality stuff, and I just think it's a waste of time. Better to just see it for what it is, ignore the bullshit and try to tip things in your favour instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 10:49 PM |
| – | The overwhelming are women are painstakingly disingenuous about gender roles. They want gender roles not because "it's sexy" and more because a laziness and convenienceAlthough most people like to get on their high horse, virtue signal, and preach about morality when speaking about the topic, there is no such thing as fairness in the dating scene. You're annoyed that most women will expect to be treated as equals, will identify as feminists, and then will expect men to pay, initiate, pursue etc. because it is a bit of a double-standard. Their response is basically thumb their nose at you. The fact that it's an obvious double-standard doesn't matter to them. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | People need to listen to the people they've dated more than the internet, friends, the opposite gender or any other external source.Sometimes this is true. However a lot of the time things don't work out, or people struggle with dating, for reasons other than being an asshole. People often lie, or they sugarcoat things to not be mean. They'll say it's for a reason different to the actual reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | the birth rate topic is sillyThis always happens when a civilisation reaches it's peak. It has happened time and time again throughout history. It happens mainly because in these times people can afford to be more hedonistic, and kids get in the way of that, so they decide not to have any. It has also never been reversed. Always leads to civilisation collapse and/or replacement with a culture which has higher birthrates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.They choose not to understand, and they choose to waste their time, focusing on this. It's more that they don't find the answer. They probably go searching for it, or they ask a question in a place like here, and get told a bunch of nonsense - a lot from guys with a similar mindset. They just don't know what they don't know. So they’re misogynists. They don’t hate assholes, they’re just as bad as he is. They just tricked themselves into believing they’re the good guys. It's a bit of a stretch to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Alot of guys wish they can be assholes above reproach and worshipped. That's why they hate bad boys.There will be men like that, but I don't think those are the reasons the majority of guys obsess over "bad boys" getting women. Although I think you make a lot of good points, as another commenter mentioned, you do seem to interpret men's dating issues in the least generous way possible. "When certain men complain that women choose “bad boys,” they act like their problem is that women reward bad behavior." It's not just that. Very often they genuinely don't like these guys, not because they're j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Tradwives reduce men to a paycheck and a bodyguard while Feminists want an actual partner.You're absolutely right about tradwives, but feminists tend to be misandrists. Better to find a normal woman who doesn't describe herself as either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:44 PM |
| 38 | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeWho even asks 10 times? Why ask more than once? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.Do you mean individual men? Or men as a group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyI've seen quite a lot of this, and it doesn't only happen in 50/50 relationships. Personally, when I first met my wife it was 50/50. It made sense then because we had no kids. Then once she got pregnant, I worked and she stayed home to look after the baby, as well as the next few. Putting the kid in childcare makes little sense, because it's expensive, and often so expensive that the woman is literally just working to pay the the childcare. Not only that, they're sending the kid to be raised by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.Whenever I read these types of post, I wonder what the point is. You're right that this is what a lot of men do, and you're right about the effects this has. But then what is supposed to be done about this "problem"? You say that men need to start being more selective with women, but what exactly do you mean by this? Individual men looking to better their dating and relationship situations? Absolutely. Makes sense. Men as a group? Not gonna happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 12:27 PM |
| – | Men choose the wrong women for ltr or marriageWhy would it have to be a bitter/scorned man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:48 PM |
| – | Men choose the wrong women for ltr or marriageFunny thing is whether or not she makes him wait for sex vs has sex quickly often has a lot to do with how sexually attracted she is to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:34 PM |
| 12 | Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent.If you're deliberately seeking out someone in a vulnerable position and leveraging socioeconomic status, power, dependence, or other forms of pressure to get that yes, you're missing what informed, meaningful, ongoing consent actually requires. Can you give me some examples of this? Or the way TRP encourages it? Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Women like dominant and aggressive men, even if they date nice guysI think people really misunderstand what is meant by dominant, aggressive and dangerous, because they assume that those are always negative. Therefore they assume that a man who has these qualities must have to be an asshole. Yet your SO pulled you behind him (dominant), stood his ground against a charging dog (aggressive, dog thought he was dangerous). He has all of those traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 07:15 PM |
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