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Inner Game AnthonyAValera/r/seduction10/10/20 04:26 PM
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bro, dont be a pussy. have some edge and do what u want. and be comfortable with awkward situations, and if she’s say NO, walk away and say “next girl.”
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:34 AM
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Be above average looking (hit the gym + tattoos, any guy can achieve this, even if u have an ugly face or not a girls type, ie not a race she’s not into, not a height she’s into, etc) + have confidence (be direct about your attraction to her) = LAID. simple. it requires changing ur habits to become this person, but its possible for every guy to be above average. And above average is enough to hit a woman’s minimum standard of whether a hot girl would fuck u or not. If ur above average, the girl …
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:10 AM
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Solution: Have abundance, so one person doesn’t disorient your idea of reality. Also abundance is how you get experience to learn people’s intentions. Experience trumps everything, play the game enough till u have to ask less questions.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:10 PM
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To get girls, u need to be sexually aggressive and look sexually attractive (hit the gym). U also need to be cool and being funny is part of being cool, but u shouldn’t wanna be cool for girls. U should do the things that u think are cool.
/r/seduction26/02/22 08:19 PM
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just keep hitting her up until she’s available again. if u fucked her once, u can fuck her again. even if she’s more interested in another guy at the moment, and even if the first time y’all had sex was mediocre. she’ll just be a little harder to retain if first sex was bad and she’s more emotionally invested in another guy
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:19 PM
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Getting plastic surgery is no different than the guys that use steroids to get big or the people that get their teeth whitened. If being good looking matters to u, then u gotta do whatever it takes to make that happen. Try to convince him that you being good-looking (in the face) is important to you, and it will pay off in the end because u’ll have more success in life to be able to return the debt to make ur dad’s life better.
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:22 PM
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do what u want, u wear the pants in the relationship… but if u care about her, then let her do what she wants too. find the balance. if its gonna be a healthy long term relationship there needs to be equality of power. but if u dont care, abuse the fuck out of her so that she realizes ur the wrong guy for her so she can dump ur ass. lol. DO WHAT U WANT.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:01 PM
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if ur having women who dont trust u, then ur out of their league. this wont really happen with the top 1% girls cuz these girls are cocky and think because they’re the hottest in majority of places they go, they can turn any player into a boyfriend. and most of the time, they’re pretty successful, which makes them even more cocky. my girlfriend is a barre instructor and wants to get into modeling, trust me, these girls dont get intimidated by u unless ur some kind of celebrity. they see u as on …
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:59 PM
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Im short. But i know i can walk into a room feel stronger, more masculine than 90% of the other dudes. Cuz i hit the gym, i fuck pussy, and i make money.
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:21 AM
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its good to be athletic, but society doesn’t really promote those kind of guys as sexy. Sex appeal is a societal thing. Being able to lift a girl up with ease and knowing ur stronger than the other dudes in the room is a confidence boost. Get STRONG and get some tattoos and u’ll fee like other guys are not at ur level. And u’ll get girls easily. U’ll feel kinda like a douche, and the hot girls are attracted to douches. Don’t hate the game, join em. So u can get results like em. You wanna get to …
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:16 AM
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ur problem is, ur either ugly or antisocial. if ur ugly, hit the gym. if ur antisocial, hit the gym. u’ll get confidence to talk to people by being better looking. plus girls will give u eye contact which is an invitation to approach. solution ? HIT THE GYM. and bonus points if u can get some style, like tattoos. tattoos are more for the hotties hotties, being JUST good looking is not as impressive to them cuz they can get good looking guys easily.
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:29 AM
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its true, ugly people can get laid. but the quantity and quality of the girls are lower than if u were better looking. hit the gym + talk to girls, and u’ll have no problem getting pussy.
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:27 AM
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keep hitting her up, as well as other girls. just cuz she’s unavailable right now at this moment, doesn’t mean she won’t be available some time in the future. ur job is to keep hitting up a large number of girls up even the one’s who are not interested. that’s a true abundance mindset.
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:52 PM
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make an “ew” face at her and talk about something else. they’ll laugh and keep trying to talk about what that face was about even though ur on a different subject now. i do this to fuck with them, but u could talk about what u want.
/r/seduction22/12/21 06:27 PM
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Approach the girls u wanna fuck and try to fuck them in a club bathroom.
/r/seduction16/12/21 03:12 AM
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If she’s a hottie like ur saying, u prolly put her on a pedestal aka look up to her, that doesn’t turn a girl on. at least this is your relationship with her, you prolly dont look up to girls uglier than you, so u dont tense up around them aka get intimidated. so these uglier girls would prolly say that u have a sexual vibe. and also, u can have a sexual vibe from looking sexy. ever notice a woman as sexy because of the way she dresses ? SEXY VIBE just from clothes. maybe you dont dress sexy eno…
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:37 AM
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Im successful with women and focusing on my money now with a beautiful girlfriend, but imo ur advice is not really applicable to guys who have never seen a woman naked or just starting to learn about women. u feel me ? this is a good mindset to have once u dont have approach anxiety anymore and know with complete confidence that u can pull. but if guys have approach anxiety or even social anxiety, they need to focus on conquering that first.
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:12 PM
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i think ur age plays a factor as well. if ur 30 years old and up then ur not really gonna be having success with 21 year old girls. looks matter at any age, but it declines for a man as you get older. i’d say money starts to become an important factor if you’re 30+ years old.
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:28 AM
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Hit the gym and dress well (aka have your appearance be aesthetically pleasing to the eye). Once u’ve looked better, people will give u compliments and validate you, and your confidence will slowly build up so that u have the courage to approach girls and lead her to sex. But if ur already above-average in appearance and know ur attractive, then it pretty much comes down to getting better at approaching and leading them to sex. If ur an 8/10 in appearance, then u can get laid without approaching…
/r/seduction14/12/21 10:40 PM
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experiences of success will give you confidence. because then you will actually “KNOW” that u can do something, not just believe it. success will give you confidence, and the more success u get, the more confidence u get. how to get success ? take action even if u don’t feel confident. that’s called having balls/courage, which is more important than confidence. u need courage before you can step into the land of confidence, not the other way around.
/r/seduction20/10/20 10:31 AM
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girls say that to guys that have passed their “looks threshold” for most women including hot women, you just have to have above-average sex appeal. being a 7. how ? get ripped (muscle + low body fat) and get good style (either badboy/douchebag/party boy style or sucessful businessman style). and you’ll automatically be above-average (7). and thats all u need to not get rejected for ur looks and pass their “looks threshold.” then it just comes down to ur social skills, confidence, and cool vibe. …
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:04 AM
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truth
/r/seduction07/10/20 12:17 AM
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i agree with this. guys are worried about who’s chasing who. instead of focusing on the reason they talked to the girl, to get laid. u cant lose something u dont have. and with girls who are very feminine or shy, u really have to take 100% responsibility for the whole relationship / interaction. its their nature to follow, not lead.
/r/seduction07/10/20 12:07 AM
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those girls weren’t DTF. they were sexually available to let u kiss, touch, maybe even foreplay. but she wasn’t DTF, to let u insert her penis in her vagina. also, how do u dress ? girls wont withhold sex for guys who look like scumbags / douchebags. cuz they know they wont get judged as a slut if y’all fuck. if u look like a nice guy, she prolly withheld it cuz of fear of judgement. but other than that, a girl has already decided if she will fuck u. i never get last minute resistance anymore on…
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:06 AM
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if u actually listen to a group of girls talk, u’ll understand that they don’t know what they want. one day they want to get FUCKED by an alpha cuz they heard one of their friends who got fucked, one day they want a boyfriend cuz their friends have boyfriends, and the next day they HATE men cuz one of their girl’s boyfriend cheated on her. this is especially true with younger girls, as they get older they start to get more serious about what they want. if a girl doesn’t even know what she wants,…
/r/seduction01/10/20 09:05 AM
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yes, cuz u didn’t loose attraction bro. she just isn’t sexually available. the pussy is available when the girl decides. u have no control over her availability. she’s not ghosting u because of a lack of attraction, she’s ghosting u because she’s not available anymore. u’ll learn this as u get more experience with girls. that’s why girls will be HOT one day, and COLD the next. has nothing to do with attraction, its her availability. u can only ATTRACT them when they are available. that’s why i d…
/r/seduction01/10/20 12:07 AM
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she prolly wasn’t sexually available and even if she was at that time, she definitely isn’t anymore if she’s ghosting. and it can be from many reasons that are out of ur control. if u have her # or snap, keep hitting her up. u never know when she’ll be sexually available again. i’ve hit up girls that haven’t responded for weeks, sometimes months. only for me to fuck them when they’re sexually available again. u CAN’T loose something u DON’T have in the first place. hit on other girls, don’t get …
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:45 PM
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so did u kiss her ? or just touching ?
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:36 PM
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its called sexual availability. this can be affected by logistical, social, as well as emotional reasons. especially emotional reasons. one day they’re available, and the next day they aren’t. that’s why its important to fuck them ASAP. there is a certain time frame (aka window of sexual availability) to fuck them. and that’s assuming if she was even sexually available in the first place (assuming u are touching her as well as kissed her). but if u haven’t established a physical dialogue, she pr…
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:25 PM
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u aint gonna get more pussy from ur bio. its all pics. if u want leave it blank. or just write one based on ur personality. bio’s dont matter tho.
/r/seduction30/09/20 01:16 AM
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get experience. talk to more girls. fuck more girls. this is a confidence issue. experience will give u confidence. but dont worry about trying to fix this. just get experience, it will naturally go away by itself as ur mindset/confidence levels changes. also, little trick to stay present in the moment. focus on the eye color of the girl.
/r/seduction29/09/20 06:00 PM
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who gives a fuck what people think. i dont ever think “hope im not being creepy.” nice guys think that way. and nice guys dont get laid. u want to be focused on getting laid. not what people think. and creeps get laid btw. cuz they dont give a fuck. their focused on getting laid, not on “try not to be a creep.” completely different mindsets. one’s proactive and one’s reactive. if the girl is NOT sexually available, any touching is creepy, even a long handshake will be creepy to them. good. they …
/r/seduction27/09/20 01:16 AM
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well ive fucked 15 girls in 3 months. so i think i know what im talking about. remember “fortune favors the bold.” ive gotten the most pussy from anyone i know. but also the most rejections. touch the girl, so u dont waste time. time is ur biggest asset in this game of fucking pussy. stop wasting ur time trying to game girls who are not even looking for sex (aka non-sexual girls). no guy no matter how good looking or how good ur game is, is gonna make non-sexual girls, sexual all of a sudden. to…
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:58 PM
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she wasn’t sexually available in the first place. verbal game is NOT real. game is grabbing the girl and fucking her in a private location. if she rejects that, then she wasn’t even sexually available in the first place. girls will talk to if they’re bored, doesn’t mean they will sleep with u. u can be funny if you want and that’s ur personality, but that shouldn’t be what ur thinking in ur head. u should be thinking, “lets see if this girl is DTF,” “where’s a good place for me to fuck her?” tha…
/r/seduction26/09/20 07:19 PM
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neediness is a state of mind. not a behavior. ive gotten pussy from what guys would consider needy. whether a girl responds depends on her. ive fucked girls who didnt respond to me for weeks. when they’re in the mood, they’ll respond and follow ur lead. u cant lose something u dont have.
/r/seduction19/09/20 06:40 PM
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