This is motivating and kinda resonates with me a lot. I was in shape and dropped the ball when covid hit. Started taking up unproductive outlets and started heading towards my old AFC ways. Just the kick in the ass I needed to get back at it. Good looking out g 👊🏿
The bias in divorce/ family court where the mother is automatically assumed to be the best guardian >70% of the time. And you are legally bound to pay for that privilege, even if you can’t afford to eat or clothe yourself. That and the disgraceful disparity in prison sentences for the same crime
You need to do this /s. In all seriousness though, just strike up a convo with him. It’s not often women approach guys and regardless off the outcome, I’m sure he’ll be flattered.
This scenario is the worst. And sadly it’s so common. Being exorted by the govt to pay for kids that are raised to hate you. Hope you manage to sort things out eventually
I’ve noticed this flagrant lack of accountability with a lot of women around my age, especially around the workplace. The mental gymnastics some of them play....it’s ridiculous
Where to begin? The silly filters Being pregnant with twins ‘I know no my worth’ ‘I am a Queen (of the trailer park)’ The father bailed on her It’s a no from me dawg
prepare to lose any and all hope you've somehow retained in the inherent wonderfulness of women up to this point. Lol, it’s not that deep mate. It was more the height comment that got me.
Isn’t conspiracy to murder/commit bodily harm (or whatever you call it in the states) up there with murder, armed robbery and rape? 6 months?. People get longer for weed possession
I’m open to a relationship with the right woman, but I’ve seen enough marriages crash and burn to avoid that. Plus in the UK they put you over a barrel in terms of divorces. God help you if you have kids.
Sorry this happened to you Don’t listen to people that say you’ led him on’. They are probably nonces themselves. A normal grown adult knows not to seek out kids. This whole culture shift within the west over the last decade has messed things up, to the point where female victims are seen more than male victims. It’s crazy.
The thing is MR girls like this, especially thick and kinda cute with that hair texture in London (and other major cities) are automatically deemed as 8+, regardless of the baggage or flaming red flags. I know several people, a few friends inc. who unfortunately would bend over backwards to have a girl who looks like this. Don’t ask me why.
So much to unpack here. Mental health is nothing to joke about but idk why she would advertise it like that. I have come across quite a mixed race women like this in London that have a weird complex about their heritage and spew foolishness like she has....’a white guy with black Soul...’ She thick tho.
Yeah it’s ridiculous man. Not the first time a honeypot setup has happened in the UK and the girl virtually gets away with it. The justices ministers we’ve had in this country are shambolic and don’t even bother to hide their biases.
They got all lenient sentences as they were minors. The UK doesn’t/can’t give under 18s whole life terms, except for very extremely limited circumstances, and even then they normally get appealed. I think 14 years of the max. I’m saying if it was a grown man that setup up someone to die with full knowledge of what was going to happen they’d get 18 years minimum, not 3 years
The fact that 2 boys got murder means she should have got murder under joint enterprise or conspiracy.....3 years is a joke sentence she’ll be out in 1.5.
This is a thing in the UK. It’s so messed up. I don’t pay my tax money for selective treatment in the courts. A woman can commit straight up murder, sexual assault or GBH (stabbings) and will get 20%-70% of what a man would. This is one case that sums up the state of the UK justice system.
Jesus Christ 🤦🏿♂️. That’s sad to hear. Dunno what to say to that. I just can’t conceive that type of mindset. I hope those guys you’ve mentioned manage to wake up and sort their shit. Maybe things are different over here in the UK. The only mildly comparable like that I’ve seen is guys blowing their whole month’s wage in one night, on bottle table service at high class clubs in London City just to impress ‘IG models’. But nothing to the extent you’ve mentioned.
Go to the party. Enjoy yourself. Don’t focus too much on this girl. Keep it cool and see what happens. Maybe try out running game on other girls that are there. Don’t invest too much in this girl (time/attention)
At least she didn’t get a slap on the wrist this time. Poor guy. Prison is (rightly) hell for sexual offenders, must be 10x worse when someone is lying on your name. What kind of psychopath would knowingly put several guys through that?? Not as bad as this one though. 🤦🏿♂️
Yeah I agree, it's fucked and v. controversial. You're kinda punished for going to trial. It has its place for petty crimes (theft/drug possession/low level assaults), as IMO there is no benefit in sending someone to prison for 12 weeks), but for heavy stuff (murder/shootings/drug importations) thats where it gets sticky. A few of my friends have gone guilty for certain things (drug distribution/money laundering/weapon possession) because they didn't have good solicitors and/or a bad defence / w…
I feel so bad for this guy. If he was in Strangeways or Forest Bank those 17 years in the can would have been hell for him, and he was wrongly convicted. GMP are a joke.
Similar in the UK. Early admissions save the government a costly and lengthy trial, paying for prosecutors, expert witnesses, judges, ushers, juries etc. In the UK if you admit to crime as early as possible (from initial interview to start of trial), depending on severity of the crime and your priors, there is a sliding percentage (10-50%) off sentencing.
The justice ministers in the UK for the past decade have been very biased unfortunately. This type of sentence disparity is nothing normal, especially for foul/violent crimes like murder, noncing, sexual assault etc.
Same. Lol. Censorship of a different opinion is the adult equivalent of going ‘lala can’t hear you’ That 66%/70%/75% is nothing more than a political talking point.
Mobility is hard, but not impossible. I studied, and worked 2/3 jobs saved etc until I was able to elevate myself into a better career and then life. But true, everyone’s life circumstances are different and there are people out there with different aspirations. I’m not ‘point scoring’ with you. Grow up
I’ve grown up on council blocks most of my life. The amount of bums and generations of work avoiders I’ve seen and live around would surprise you. There were a whole group of girls I went to secondary with that were looking forward to getting pregnant after school and ‘getting a council flat’. Granted these are just anecdotes, but the fact that just sitting on JSA rather that learning a trade/skill/subject is a viable option for lots of people shows that it needs reform imo. But not to the point…
