No, you're not gonna turn beta if you listen to her. Why are you so fucking insecure? And believe me I really feel you on this one, I hate having to listen to a girl's problems over and over, and I, too, think that she should be talking to her friends about it. But maybe she doesn't have this kind of friends, or she's too shy/introvert. I knew a girl like this. She was clever, funny and excellent in bed, but almost every day when she got home she complained for an hour about her boss, her job, c…
Woah man, you really DO seem confused, and your message is confusing as well. You do seem like you're feeling the obligation to be in a relationship, but why be in a relationship if you don't actually want to? Also, when women talk to you about their problems, don't give advice, unless explicitly asked to. Women dislike advice, they just want you to listen to them.
