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| 116 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands? | Fundamentals | AntiTippingMovement | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | As a girl, confidence is sexy. But if you don’t meet my minimum looks requirement, I’ll always see you as a friend. | Conversation | AntiTippingMovement | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 10:17 PM |
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| – | I want a man taller than me, and I don’t get why people think that’s shallow.My bother is looking for someone like you and he is the height you’re looking for! DM me and I’d love to connect you. He’s early 30s and has a great career and is very red pilled and conservative. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?That's what happens when the population gets too high and the abundance of great options goes up. Supply is much higher than the demand at this point. There are so many hot men online who also have very successful careers and good personalities. It's sad but that's just what happens when technology interferes I guess. It's the same for unattractive girls. The only difference is that most men are so horny that they will just hook up a few times and then dump them as they can't see them as wife ma… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happyYou have issues or you’re trolling. Stop replying to me and do something else with your time. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 10:31 PM |
| 2 | If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happyWasn’t being sarcastic… | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 3 | If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happyStop faulting people for not wanting to be alone forever. I hate toxic posts like these. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Signs that I am attractive?We don’t want to be approached by unattractive (not good looking) men. A lot of us just label this as “creepy.” When it just means we didn’t think you were hot. We would LOVE to be approached by hot men. Watch this scene from Crazy, Stupid, Love to see what I mean. https://youtu.be/YIkOJkv81-I I always advocate my guy friends to fix anything they don’t like about their face. I’ve had a nose job and my cheekbones done and it has done a LOT for my attractiveness. Don’t let the taboo scare you. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?I don’t know about you but I actually love having diarrhea. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Vacationing in very expensive and exclusive spots like Tetiaroa, French Polynesia. And posting pics of that. Get expensive but lesser known alcoholic brands and post classy pics of you summering in such places. Don’t talk about your wealth or money. If someone asks what you do, say something vague like “I do some investments here and there. Don’t really like to talk about it.” Get high quality and well fitted clothes without logos or brand names. Designer clothing is for poor people who want to … | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Yeah but you really shouldn’t be proud of being lazy. I don’t think it’s a good trait for your own mental well being; forget game. Besides, working on yourself is all part of becoming a better version of who you are. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Yeah and having high status is part of game. Sometimes I swear I read this subreddit more than some of you guys lol. The whole point of emulating these behaviors is to emulate high status traits. But eventually, you really want to become high status. Why are you aspiring to be broke anyway? Don’t you have goals in life? | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?So you’re saying some lazy guy who just plays video games all day and lives at home in his mom’s basement with no job is the same as some guy who has his shit together, and interesting hobbies and a strong social life? | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 07:42 AM |
| -1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Sorry but this is what guys with low status say. Even on this subreddit, men talk about the critical importance of high status. It’s simply human nature to be drawn to these things. If you choose to ignore that aspect of your life, I see dating being very difficult for you. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Yeah I mean personality is important but did you know that guys with high status can also have a good personality? If you had two girls that you liked and both had the same personality, but the other also had an impressive status, you’d obviously go for her. So there isn’t anything shallow about what I said. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?It’s this third wave of feminism which honestly is an embarrassment to some of us. The first wave and second wave feminism actually fought for rights for women such as the right to vote and for equal opportunity in employment (women weren’t allowed to do certain jobs before). But now it’s just about man hating and pushing some weird feminist agenda. Every time I disagree with a new wave feminist, they say “oh honey you were abused” or start analyzing how I have been damaged by a man. 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 06:56 AM |
| 7 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?What is there to back? If you don’t have looks then you need money and status. You have to offer value somehow because the competition does as well. Is there something you disagree with? I’m a bit lost. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 06:49 AM |
| -10 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?That’s not what I said. You can stop with the black pill comments now. You already made on this this thread. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?This is completely false. Dating apps are used by normal people. It’s the system that’s broken, not the people inside it. I feel like you should have an open mind to this rather than dismissing something as garbage. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 04:27 AM |
| 9 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?It really is sad. Honestly, I wish I grew up in the 80s. My older sister tells me about those times and she said it was nothing like this! Even a nerdy guy who didn’t have a nice body would get lucky if he just approached confidently. Guys just didn’t do this thing back then so it was so rare. I’d say even back in the Mystery Method days, online dating wasn’t a big thing and so those guys had a ton of success. These corporations have really ruined human interactions. Even social media as a whole… | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?I like this answer; very zen. If you can truly be happy being alone, please teach me too; I’d like to do the same! If I don’t have a man in my life, I just feel like something is missing. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?This used to be the case but now I feel like even normal girls are on dating apps. COVID really changed the dating landscape. I have so many friends who used to avoid dating apps but after trying it during the pandemic, they found it so convenient that now it’s all they use. Also only tinder is really a hookup app. Others like hinge or bumble aren’t and are more for long term relationships. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:47 AM |
| -1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Honestly I think it’s more about how much status you show in your pics. I’ll tell you that the guys I see a lot of my friends swiping right on aren’t model tier guys. They usually have a very prestigious career, and pics of doing high status, rich people things. The good news is that wealth and status are things you can change and I definitely think we focus on that more than looks. Look at Russel Brand. The guy isn’t super beautiful but women LOVE him because he’s just so high status and has th… | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Wow I didn’t know the statistics are this bad but it totally makes sense. In my opinion, it’s not always about looks though. I know a lot of guys just assume online dating is purely about looks but often times, we swipe right on guys that just has awesome pics of him doing really high value things. For example, I know if I see a guy who is a surgeon, im usually swiping right. This is because I know he will be intelligent and is hard working, driven, etc simply by the nature of his career. That a… | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?You’re 100% right. But we don’t want the power! This is a very masculine trait and that’s why dating is so messed up. Unfortunately, the insanely high amount of men online begging for attention makes us just feel like we have total control while at the same time, makes us only be attracted to a small group of men that don’t do this. But I don’t think women having power in dating is a good thing. This is not the way nature intended it to go. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?This is such a good answer! Yes I agree with you, but the problem is that it’s just so much easier and more efficient to do online. I don’t have to spend 3 hours getting ready and covering up any zit that I have, or making sure my boobs look perfect, etc. Instead, my best pics are already online all the time; even when I’m not on the app. This might be a bad analogy but I work in finance and so I see this as working for a wage VS having multiple streams of passive income (OLD). Also you got your… | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:33 AM |
| 5 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Yeah the sad thing is that a lot of us girls fall for those men that we know won’t stick around for us. We’d rather be with that type rather than what this subreddit calls a “beta male.” But it’s hard to answer all the guys I match with, I usually just focus on the most attractive ones. That being said, if a guy is really persistent and I am no longer interested, I tell them directly but respectfully. Usually this results in them calling me a whore or something, but other times they thank me for… | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:28 AM |
| -2 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?I believe this is untrue. The only people I know that had to settle for lesser guys are girls who tanned too much and look old now so guys don’t pay attention to them. That and girls who let themselves go. But I’m 33 and still use tinder with my girlfriends, along with many other women I know in my age bracket. Maybe closer to 50, I’d say your statement applies. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:25 AM |
| 0 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Of course, but men in real life/cold approach do the same thing. Also women do the same thing to men. It’s all messed up. :/ | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?You’re right. But I’m saying that a lot more women are starting to use online dating apps exclusively; this is worsened by Covid where a lot of my friends started using dating apps. Now, if I get cold approached out and about, I know in the back of my mind that I have 300 other matches online that I can just talk to. Unless the guy is exceptional and a master at game, I usually don’t text him or give him my number. Just my personal anecdote along with what my friends do. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?That won’t stop us from using it. I see this as just hurting men. Most of my attractive friends use online apps. It’s way easier and faster. It’s like ordering pizza VS driving to dominos yourself and getting it. I’d rather just go with the fast and easy option. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMADone. Be nice. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMADon’t rush it. If the conversation is going well then let it flow naturally. Also try joining events or activities around your town. I used to go to meetup.com and that’s where I and a lot of people I knew found people to date. It’s easy when you have the same hobbies and know what to talk about :) | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMAIt’s just good makeup! My sister did it for me _^ but thanks!! | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMAI’m not but thank you :) | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 04:26 AM |
| 0 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMAHe said his friend and him as well but he focused on his friend. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 03:31 AM |
| -4 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMAHe said he’s had work done. Did you even read the post? | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMAAs a girl I disagree with you. OP is def a 9 but sounded like an asshole in his post so people are trying to bring him down now. I don’t think OP deserves this though as he was trying to help and it’s useless to insult him. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 03:23 AM |
| -2 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMAHe is definitely a 9 lol. You just sound salty. Plus he gave a pretty mature response to you and you just downvoted. Why do you only have one comment in your profile history? | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 03:22 AM |
| -1 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMAGirl here. You’re hot as fuck yes and def a 9 but you come across as an asshole in your post. I’m sure you didn’t mean to sound this way but to me you did. I would change your post to offer some solutions besides plastic surgery, that’s pretty drastic. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 03:20 AM |
| 2 | My Most Successful Cold Approach TechniqueWhy are you insulting someone’s career choice? Beta move bro. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Ability To Cold Approach = SuperpowerThe REAL superpower is having a good looking face. Everything else is secondary. I’ve maximized my “game” and my autistic friend with perfect cheekbones and a chiseled jaw gets girls that I’ve never been able to get. | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 01:05 AM |
| 6 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouThis sub is just bad advice after bad advice. Stop giving people advice when you yourself aren't even good at it. Jesus. | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 09:31 PM |
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